ChubbiSarah awe beautiful story sorry for your loss I wish you and yours nothing but happiness

Rodger Morrison thank you so much

ChubbiSarah my grandfather told my grandmother that she was beautiful every single day , I miss them very much !!

Were

That’s great!

I thought that was the case.

Me too!

So did I

I just knew one would get sick & puke in front of everybody.😂

*spoiler alert.

The danger is much higher if you try to force a woman to say obey.

Just say it.gee

E. Null no wonder our marriages are dieing.

Morgan More right marriages are dying because women aren’t obeying their men. I don’t particularly think that’s a bad thing. If my husband ever wanted to divorce because he couldn’t boss me Around, he would be doing me a favor. But he wouldn’t because our marriage is a partnership not dictatorship.

@@AllieLittleMonster You don't understand what the original meaning is behind those words. It doesn't mean doing whatever your husband tells you to do. Lack of teaching by your church. Marriages are dying because men don't want to put up with the BS and get taken to the cleaners in a divorce.

@Morgan More If women won’t obey? Sounds like married is best dead if that’s your idea of how to do it.

bun04y because the minister forgot by habit of saying it so many times or is stupidly stubborn

It was a joke to tease a bride hehe

Tez's Gino I agree but you hear the minister say we went over this 9 months ago..

Angela P ... My sister and brother in law both said no to "obey" and the minister agreed to leave it out. Her wedding was looking like a stand off for awhile. He finally moved on.

Angela P yea they probably told him "no" 9 minths ago and he didnt listen.

Tez's G

That’s archaic. Love and cherish is the norm now.

We don't do obey anymore!!!

Anti-God Feminist hate the Word OBEY. Reminds them of God.

Isaac Good Aren’t you a little old to still believe in fairytales?

it's about timing. they've planned this months ago. she didnt change it before... shes changing it NOW? and expects everyone involved to look over her oopsie tootsie moment? =_=

Red Onion It's quite evident you didn't watch the video as even the husband backed HER up. Meaning she DID discuss it nine months prior. He was paid to say what they discussed, yet failed to do so.

In response to "BehindTheHarleyshop", No, it's very cool. This is (or should be) a Christian ceremony. In the Christian faith, the man is in charge of and responsible for the family, including his wife. This is written in the Bible. The wife is to be a "help-mate" to her husband. The husband must love his wife as the Christ loves us. Meaning although he is in charge of his wife, The husband must always sacrifice and provide for his wife. The wife is not the property of the husband. The wife is NOT required to provide, but she may do so if she so chooses. The wife however IS in charge of and responsible for all household affairs including the children if any.

family lowe I agree 100 percent. We are 20 years in with kids ranging from 16 to 2. There are times that both sides have to sacrifice and "obey" simply because you love your spouse more than yourself. I wish more people understood that when you have that kind of love, the word "obey" is no big deal and it is WELL worth it!

Lin Davies but I'm sure he is your slave! that's the thing with western women they don't like to "obey" their husband and want equality but their husbands have to obey them like a little bitch!

He doesn't get any sex, does he

Obey doesnt mean to be a slave if you read bible.

family lowe You merely redefined the word. To obey is to submit to someone else's authority. It is not to listen to one another, to respect and give mutually, to work together, or even to be reciprocally selfless. Most of your diatribe is irrelevant to the asymmetry of only one spouse vowing to obey the other.

Dexjain 12 cherish and Obey are two completely different things. Cherish means to hold something or someone dear to your heart, to love whatever or whoever it is unconditionally. Obey is the follow whatever command or rule a superior has you do. That isn't love, and it is not the same thing. And if you honestly think that it's the same thing, I feel sorry for your future partner

So are weddings

The Bible says obey, you can't change what God said he created it, his words his way, the wife has to obey and respect her Husband and he is too Love and Honor his wife if you don't want to do that dont get married.

Your obviously NOT married....

@@karendavidson7538 lmao most people who get married aren’t even religious, it’s just a “commitment” ceremony + legal buffs. 99% of us don’t care what it says in the bible

He shouldn't respect her, she's not a good person, they should've just got married by at a courthouse by some DMV employee that's what she deserves, rather than getting a minister.

He's the father of the groom, so it may have been a joke.

it was a practical joke 🤣🙈

Love Light Thats his son and daughter in law

Yes he is the father of the groom. He is the Brit on the Diamond Princess and now has COVID 19 .

@@LitlMiraclePupnPony No, they're not divorced. They're still together and the latest videos on this Channel were by him and his wife, discussing David and Sally's situation in Japan. This is the latest one as of today: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/atZ7h7V7xr_DdWw.html

@@LitlMiraclePupnPony They are still married and it was Stephan's father that married them. It was planned and if you watched the video's you would know this. Roberta and Stephan are Happily married. David and Sally are the one's from the Diamond Princess in Hospital quarantined .

Poop Poo Mmmmm it was humour to be honest. She was publicly at last minute wanting to change the wording. She had rehearsal and plenty of time to change it as most do. He didn’t design the vows.

@@debatingaftershock6816 we don't know what went down in rehersals. He should have just respected she said no, and move on. It's their day not his stubborn ass'.

@@pooppoo8379 The minister says "We planned this nine months ago", there was plenty of time to change the wording, just as debatingaftershock said/commented

Poop Poo it was awesome hahaha

@@debatingaftershock6816 that's right that Bitch did it on purpose. To make a scene in tha public

I think the real show was the last usher on the right Watch him. Forget the obey, he should obey her too

christiane lamontagne obey doesnt mean to be slave you idiot. Remember what God’s plan when He Created a woman.

surya H S lmaooo

surya H S the hole religion is a fairytale men made up to excuse what shitty things they did ( treating women lower, having slaves) and to have simple (yet wrong) answers to things they couldn't explain. It was the same with Roman/greece religion about Zeus/Jupiter as they thought when there is thunder Zeus made it because he is angry.

Yeah, don't they know it's (current year)? Get with the times!

Dexjain 12 lol why would I lie about that, you didn't know my grandmother man she was fierce af 😂 miss her everyday

RESPECT

*Bee* Good for her! :)

@@bananacrazy554 A feminazi back then huh?

@@asdfgh123456978 0children do funny things

Dexjain 12 respect doesn’t mean obey oh my god

asdfgh123456978 yes it does actually

Preach!

Nina nes you know nothing! It comes from biblical times, and it doesn't mean a slave.

I think this was a bit of a prank. The minister is the groom's father.

If you have a traditional Anglican service it’s still there, in the UK. Fortunately in 1981 Diana Spencer refused to say it. Important moment.

@Ictpilot Ictpilot how do you know?

@Ozymandias prank with a nasty edge.

Kelly Maguire I love this 😂😂😂

@wally121000 So true! Seen it alot. Thank God I never got married.

Ceil Constante he said they had decided on the vows 9 months before

They were agreed on, but she changed her mind. Not a good start.

Ah yes. A “British person”

MEvox Yup Though not his choice fully The bride and groom beforehand should... like most Lol He didn’t design the lame legal vow

@debatingaftershock he changed the order. He’s either sloppy or has an agenda.

Betty Aparna I spent the video wondering who was going to fall down the stairs. It looks insane.

I thought her dress was to catch on fire!

Betty Apama..Yes, agree with you. I have marvelled at that fairytale setting several times now. It all looked absolutely spectacular and the bride and her bridesmaids were stunning.

M99980 Well, that just shows what a pessimistic, negative idiot you are.

Regularity All stairs are dangerous - even just one or two. You must be wondering about all your family and friends every minute of every day! There's danger everywhere, lurking around every corner. be careful you don't burst a blood vessel with your wondering!

You are so wrong. This was not serious - it was planned as a bit of light heartedness in the ceremony. They are very happy and standing the test of time.

@@TheREALDavidAbel This is what, year 5? I said 10 years. At least. And I still stand by my point. A lot of people uses jokes and laughter to hide their ego and evading question. I hope they live happily ever after, but I sure won't be able to trust people who turn a sacred oath in front of God, into "LoL so funneh" situation. Not this time. Not on wedding vows.

@@TheREALDavidAbel Dude, so it was all a joke?

Are you completely stupid?

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I doubt it, she probably just saw the minister as another ornament in her fairytale wedding and didn't give it much thought, she was probably more focused on what type of scented candles to use than the vows she would be making.

This guy is the groom’s father :) They are playing a practical joke :)))

I agree. Why wasn't this worked out at the rehearsal? Just to put a show on?

It's the language of the Bible, and this language has been used by the Church for like 2000 years. A dying culture with skyhigh divorce rates would think this language is ridiculous though...

D. Freeman The issue is that the man said to love and to cherish and woman was supposed to say to love and obey. Different wording from an age where women were property.

Trying to say the same thing. The bride did it on purpose.

Xaibell he turned gay and she took everything .... He now lives in an apartment with a 22 year old man because he obeys !

We’re still married and very happy. 5 years now. I’m the groom and the officiant is my dad. I asked him to swap out the vows as a joke on my wife. She reacted as I expected and our friends loved it.

Irene Hogan it's Roberta

No he said help me out here. They also planned this out months before.

raptor eagles a concept.... marriages are not cars....

@@AllieLittleMonster but that concept fits exactly. How do you explain increasing divorce rates otherwise? I'm not saying who should obey whom but as long as one obeys other it should be fine.

raptor eagles no, it doesn’t . Humans all function the same. Car parts have one specific use and purpose. I know so many people who stay in shit marriages miserable because they were taught that obeying is what a marriage is, and they can’t leave. In my opinion I’d rather be divorced. And yes divorce is terrible and sad I think people back in the day stayed even when they weren’t in love. Divorce is a choice and a Positive one for some people, and for most the best thing they could do. I think divorce is higher because people have lower standards so they get married to anyone without love. Then they cheat, and people now A days don’t put up with shit. I also think social media can be a factor. I don’t know, I believe everyone is in control of their relationship and can make it what they want as long as both parties are 100%. My husband and I are a team. We don’t tell each other what to do and don’t make orders unless it’s something that effects us both or our kids. We both hustle, have our own businesses and take care of the kids . I’m smart enough I don’t need a boss. We are one, one person, one equal person and we love each other infinitely. It’s evident you aren’t married.

@@AllieLittleMonster I'm very happily married, thank you. We both obey each other. And may I add we both have very very different views about everything. But our marriage isn't sh*t. I think marriage is more about adjustments. And if you think carefully car analogy fits perfectly to marriage. Give it a thought.

raptor eagles I never said your marriage is shit. If you’re respecting each other it’s one thing. But to tell your s/o they can’t have friends, can’t drink, can’t get tattoos, dress a certain way. It’s wrong. When we dated we vowed before getting married we will never boss each other around. We consult on finances and kids and home decor lol. But anything that doesn’t effect the other its up to me or him to decide for ourselves. I wouldn’t change for my husband and I would NEVER do or not do Something just because of my opinion unless it was hurting him or our family.

You're priest was a pussy then

Men and women are different, the Bible doesn't say marriage is a partnership, but it does say wives obey your husbands.

Yeah, but not Biblical.

did you learn to be so stupid or did it come naturally?

Just watched the recording of that live stream :) They all are darling! Such a great family ❤️

Finally someone with some since.

That's not what the Bible says though...