The only way to truly get revenge is no response and disappearing.

I’m the silent killer. You cheat on me i’m not letting you know i know, i’m going to investigate, gather all the receipts, act like nothing happened, when u wake up the next day, it’s gonna be a ghost town cause I’m out of here you’re gonna be calling the cops and everybody trying to find me. I’m going on vacation and when i come back, u still won’t be able to talk to me. You’ll be talking to me face to face and I’m looking right through you. Trust me that drives men crazy. You gonna want to protect yourself btw. Get a restraining order if u have to, it gets that serious.

"I'm not gonna let a man get me out of character" yes Tamera!!!

I totally relate with Jeanie, I won’t let nobody see me get out of character. I don’t have to when karma is real

Never include the kids. That was too much.

"This face was not meant for the ugly cry. No, it wasn't." _smiles confidently at the camera_ I swear this is why I love Jeannie Mai 😂

Never let someone's else behavior lead you to criminal charges

I love Amanda...”Can...you...do...both?!” Lol I felt that in my spirit.

When Amanda said “Can you do both?” I smiled from ear to ear ngl.

Jeannie's talk was so good, she is so positive.

Don’t ever show a person that they had that much power over your emotions, what goes around comes around. Just get help to cope with your emotions. Now she’s modeling this crazy behavior to her children.

Destroy all their things: they'll say "I dodged a bullet" Walk away and be happy: they'll know they lost a good one.

I never broke or destroyed anyone’s stuff I’ll rather leave you alone and never speak to you again like Jeanie said success is the best revenge

🗣🗣🗣When people’s emotions are involved and they are BETRAYED; they are NOT in their right frame of mind!!!! That’s why it’s called a CRIME OF PASSION!!!

Amanda is starting to merge in with the other girls. You can see the awkwardness disappear.

When I was younger .. I DEFINITELY would do “eye for an eye” but being “grown” I know my worth and I’m not stooping to his level. I remember a bf of mine being caught on his break with another girl on the other side of the parking lot by themselves with their seats laid back.. I didn’t let him know I seen him or that I cared .. since we worked together and all his little friends worked there.. I came in the next day with “passion marks.” And when his friends seen me they said “dang, Red did that to you” I replied “oh no, Red didn’t do that” and walked away with a smirk 😏 .. he was almost in tears.. can’t play a player 😆.. it’s funny to look back.. but it’s not worth it today.. just walk away happy you found out now and not later

Amandas' earnings and Jeannies' coat = LIFE!!!!!!!!

But these women sometimes go back to him after doing all this 😂😂

Jeannie is the TRUTH, dont be insecure and childish and destroy someone’s stuff

I love Jeannie’s response. Turn that anger into something productive and positive for yourself. It’s not easy, but highly rewarding!

That’s too much energy wasted. Nope. God saved you sis.... move on.

Some women do everything but leave

My dad cheated on my mom several times...then he asked her one time, "Where are my clothes?" and she said, "I told you the garbage man has them"😬

It would hurt the guy more if you leave without a fight or not shed a tear

“And hopefully it’s his brother” 😂😂 I died

Involving her kids was petty af!

Beyonce was also about to bleach her mans clothes in ‘Emotions’ and took a bat to the whole damm neighbourhood In ‘Hold Up’. We all a lil crazy lol.

CAN YOU DO BOTH 😂 Amandas growing on me

“You let your success and your happiness be your revenge” Yass Tamera💯‼️(.)

See I get that the woman who caught her boyfriend cheating is hurting inside and that is something that is understandable but it’s another thing to then get your children involved with wrecking his personal belongings because that’s just teaching them that this is OK if a relationship just doesn’t go the right way for them and I know what he did was unforgivable but being the bigger person is something way more better than destroying his things.

Best revenge is to leave & boss up

I agree with Tamara and Jeannie!!! Total wisdom and a quote to live by: “Let no mans get you out of your character.”

Thanks Jeanie I needed that 😘

I truly love how Tamara always keeps her faith, even if it's not what the other girls believe. Truly inspiring💜

"And hopefully, it's his brother." LOL, that got me.

I love Jeannie and Amanda in the corner together laughing at their own jokes lol 😂

It’s a different kind of angry when your man cheats

Loni isn’t saying what the entire Verse says from The Bible. Jesus mentioned the saying “an eye for an eye” and “a tooth for a tooth”, but right after that He taught that what we should really do is turn the other cheek. He never taught that we should repay evil with more evil. Also, The Bible says that revenge is God’s and that He will repay for the evil that has been done.

Jeanie: ask me what I would do lol so cute

I feel like if she would’ve just left, she could work on herself and have a glo up. That’s the ultimate revenge and have him feeling that he messed up.

Yo, if you cheat on me, you should be the one grieving. You better sleep with one eye open, because I won't be getting revenge. Gods judgement will get you, I ain't doin the revenge thing.

We haven't forgotten you, Jeannie. Never will, Chica.

Loni's comments have me weak 😩😭💀 LMAOOOOO

I’m not gonna let no man get me outta my character 🙌🏾 sayyyyyy that again for the ppl in the back Tamera!

Ok and he's going to take her to court, and now she's going to have to give him her hard earned money.

Tamera saying that now! But if Adam cheated on her I think she would lose her mind!

When they go low we go high

Please be careful getting reveng y’all it can become a courtcase real quick. They already messed up your life don’t let them REALLY mess up your record

Can 👏 You 👏 Do 👏 Both 👏 Love Amanda! 😂

"But he got some nerve leaving all his things at the house " oh my goodness, I love that 😂

"and hopefully its his brother" LONIIIIIIIIIIIII😂😂😂😭😭😭😭😭😭

He could just get knew clothes, at the end of the day he's just gonna be like ¨look what I drove this woman to, she's so hurt¨ and laugh about it. I'd literally act like he didn't mean anything to me and keep it moving, like he is so insignificant he didn't even deserve a reaction from me.

Dammmmnnn Lonnie's hardcore lmao damn he gon have ptsd and his brother damn that's hard

“And hopefully it’s his brother.”💀 IM DONE.

“did they know it was his clothes or did she tell than that it was an arts and crafts project”😭

I couldn't stop looking at Amanda's earrings 😂

Jeannie speaking from experience!!!! You go ahead

I found out my first love the guy i gave my Vcard the guy i had been with since 10th grade was cheating on me when my bestfriend sent me a pic of his sidechick driving the car that i bought him and was currently paying the carnote on...we had 2 kids together.i called into work the next day and my bestfriend helped me pack all me and the kids things he showed up in the middle of us packing i told him what i knew showed him the pic. He begged me like Keith Sweat i felt sorry for him but moreso for our two boys i almost stayed for them...but im glad i didnt i got a two bedroom apartment in a different town and never looked back that was 10 years ago i have a husband now we've been together 6years and im the happiest ive ever been 💕

Amanda: can you do both? 😂😂😂 That was hilarious! But Jeannie was the best response here

she turned a corner when se used his tooth brush to clean the toilet and then turned another corner involving her children...

Jeannie looks cute and tamera hair is cute. Lmao loni

3:45 the moment Jeanie processed that Amanda said CAN YOU DO BOTH?!?! 😅🤣

Tamera had the shortest but the wisest commentary! Speak that word Tamera!👏🏾 Vengence is mine said the Lord🙌🏾

When my boyfriend cheated on me, when I found out at least, I put all that energy into my professional thesis, today I am a teacher and he continues to live with his mother, he is still unemployed and he is still single ... I do not think he is a bad person, it just wasn't for me, life has taught me that I deserve more.

Jeannie , ask me what I would do🙋‍♀️

Don’t bring Beyoncé into this, she’s not a role model for relationships Jay-Z forever cheating on her and she does nothing about it🤦‍♀️

I agree completely with Jeanie and Tam on this one. I was cheated on by my first love five years ago. My mom gave me the advice that Tam is talking about here: let your happiness and success be your revenge. Have I thought about driving by his house and egging his car? Sure! But since he already wasted so much of my time, heart, money and mind, I’ll never give him the satisfaction of any more of any of that. I’m worth so much more than being treated that way, and I’ve finally found a real man who cherishes all of me.

YES, Jeannie!!! Drop those men like bad habits and MOVE ON. You best believe they have and they don't feel sorry about it, at most, just that they were caught. Have self-respect and self-worth. We can always improve on how we love ourselves. If you need closure, rip him a new one (verbally). Let it all out and show his sorry ass you don't need him.

Sleeping around to get back at someone who cheated on you sounds so absurd to me. Why disrespect yourself after being disrespected by him? Like Tam says, getting out of character for someone who doesn't deserve you is doing yourself a disservice.

“and hopefully it’s his brother” took me out ☠️

I love how Amanda changed her attitude towards Jeannie! This show is amazing but it's even greater when you see the chemestry between all these ladies. So happy and proud!

I love Amanda’s whole look 👌🏼😍👍🏼 just gorgeous

I agree with Jeannie and Tamera.... I’m not letting NO man get me out of character. When I was younger I did but as you learn yourself and hour worth you just won’t! Jeannie said it right by quoting Bey. best revenge is your paper! 💯💯💯💯

So if a woman cheats on her bf he has the right to do all of that to her?

Naw Tamera, what happened to you brawlin'😂😂😂😂😂

As the great Whitney Houston said “it’s not right but it’s okay”

*someone else’s actions do not define mine. i send love & keep omit moving* 🕊

"And hopefully its his brother" 😂😂😂 can't deal with this 😂😂

You caught that ending “and hopefully it’s his brother” -Loni 😂😂😂

Loni killed me at the end 🤣 Honestly I wouldn’t involve the kid. I honestly would pack his stuff up nicely and say God bless you and enjoy your life.

I believe “an eye for an eye”😂💀💀💀loni

Lmao Loni said “I believe in eye for eye” 😹😭

Jeannie is that kid in class like "oh pick me pick me" 😂 anyways, Damn did y'all mommas not teach you anything?? ALWAYS be the bigger person. Don't become them. Do not ever let someone get to you otherwise you are going to come out of this as the ugly one. When my ex cheated yea I wanted to key his car. But I did do it? Nope. Y'all can have ideas but don't actually act upon them.

“And hopefully it’s his brother” Child 😂😂

“ask me what I would do 🤚🏼🤚🏼” I love Jeanie 😂

Tamera’s hair is always looking beautiful and moisturized 😍😍

I felt everything Jeannie said!!! Yesssss do better and let your success and happiness be your revenge! Exactly what I did and will continue doing, Amen!

If it was a man cutting a woman’s clothes, he’ll be in jail by now. Smh

Some people will be quick to say what they will or won't do until they're in that situation . You never know what or who will push you over the edge . To be honest what is the purpose of being in a committed relationship and then go out here and cheat ? You mightiest well be single and not waste your time or anybody else's time that is selfish and self centered .

This got messy soooo quick Hahahah “I believe an eye for an eye” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

I love Loni "Bible say..eye for an eye! I'm gonna cheat too and film it. Hopefully it's his brother!" I love her! LMAO

All of us ( Beautiful, Fearless women) need to stop allowing these guys too dog us out and still assume they hold weight! In the relationship. FOH ✌🏽.. Ladies KNOW your WORTH!! Love yourself so hard that you won’t ever second guess your value. If you can’t leave a man after he cheats on you numerous times, ask YOURSELF Why? Dig deep and figure out what you’re missing.. attention, love, validation, sense of belonging, the need to feel owned/claimed.. once you find the root! Then give YOURSELF that x100!!! Because last time I checked! Ladies!! We run this F$@*’n World!. Sending Love, Light & Positive vibes to all women of all walks of life!❤️💯

When I had enough of my ex cheating (because we all live and learn) I went to his bank account withdraw funds. Opened and paid for a storage space next to were he lives. Bagged up and stored all his belongings. When he chose to appear after refusing my messages, I simply handed him the paperwork and keys to the storage and said I was done. There were no need for discussions or arguments. He was shook.😳 My brother politely escorted him out my house. And I blocked him, his family and friends on every all social media and devices. True story.

Loni at the end 😂 "and hopefully it's his brother"

Amanda’s “can you do both?!” 🤣🤣🤣

I love Jeannie's energy 😩👏🏼❤

Don't do that loni. Lol. You send that to him and he goes to send it to the internet you won't be laughing.

Amanda 😂😂😂 “CAN YOU DO BOTH” I was not expecting that

Damn. Adrienne is just absolutely simply beautiful.

That both 😂😂😂😂 this is why I love Amanda