You are loved. You are worthy. I am happy to be your family! I have two amazing children and one thing I have come to realize about myself is that I am an incredible Mom.

Amen! God will take care of you.

God Bless you!! Keep up the work you're doing! Your comment touched me. Tough days ebb and flow. You were brave to address your mother, but it's clear (if I may) that your life's purpose is bigger than any influence she had on you. Perspective wont always stop the flood of emotions of what should have been. Continue forgiveness in all directions. I know you didn't ask, but if I may offer....please look closely at the damage you subconsciously do against yourself. I saw mine in unhealthy romantic relationships because I felt unworthy. I didn't know our bodies keep emotional trauma stored in our nervous system causing anxiety, addiction, and depression. Do things to work it out of your body. Choose self love, self care, boundaries (very empowering) agnst gaslighters, controlling behaviors from others. All children DESERVE their parents' nurture and loving attention and it's not their fault if they never receive it. Please continue to be amazing and God Bless you!

I feel you Romey, I go through the same. Be glad you freed yourself with age 23, from your toxic mother, I just freed myself a month ago being 46

Same only difference is I found out at 33.

That RC Blake’s reply is a scam. He released a video about this scam!!

@@suredid9970 I know the fraud tried it with me on another video. I said they need to repent. Thank you for letting me know RC does not speak like that via text. Fraud he or she is. Blessings

I felt that, you deserve a whole lotta love and it begins with me and you. 🙏🏾❤️

It's comforting that you have a relationship with The Lord. Remember that He collects all of your tears (Ps 56). Tears are part of healing. 🙌🙏

@RC Blakes Jr I rebuke your deception in the name of Jesus

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Me too. I pray for deliverance.

@@trinap.8904 you will be delivered ❤️

Thank you you as well

May I ask what have you done to make her understand your decision? Have you apologized to her?

If you haven't already, acknowledge that your daughter is hurting because you didn't raise her. Genuinely apologize to her for not being in a position to raise her. Ask her to forgive you for not raising her or being the mother that she expected you to be. Ask her what she needs from you now in order to move forward in building a healthy relationship together. Keep the lines of communication open no matter how difficult the conversations might be. Get into some individual and/or dyadic counseling as needed to help you both go through the healing process if so desired🙏🏽.

I apologized but she still seem to be Stuck on old 🤕 hurt feelings and the fact that I am currently raising the child I had when she was 17. I have no other choice but to raise him plus this is my second and possibly last chance to be a real Mother!

I apologized but she is still resentful and the fact that I now have a son that I am raising has not helped her. She needs to realize though that my Mother will Never apologize to me for any wrong she did to me. And it was a lot. Most parents do not admit they did wrong and they definitely do not apologize for any thing so she got special treatment but it still is not enough and she wants to punish me but it is not going to work out the way she wants it to. Holding on to old hurts does not bring you joy or a prosperous life!

Thank you for your advice K Renne. I just saw the rest of your message and that is Good advice. I do not push the issue. I would say something or send a post and she may respond with one word and I leave at that. I saw it as an improvement since there was a point where she had no contact with me. Part of the issue is both grandmothers filled her head with toxic things about me and she allowed it to color her view of me. I leave it to God. I was not a perfect Mother but I did my best and if that is not good enough for her I figure I should just accept that!

Yes please

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1st thing I noticed

I love that saying. Keep it simple.

I agree with you that it does not give any insight into the neglect and the negative feelings, he just basically says "get over it" and your wrong to have negative feelings towards the people that abandoned you. This message was really off....

I understand what you are saying. It’s very deep and this Pastor does offer truth on the subject. Our pain goes back to young childhood and is part of a generational curse. I watched Pastor Derek Prince last year on the subject and I still fell into a trap by the enemy. Now I’ve been set back further than ever before. God allows the enemy to keep trying and testing us and I know it’s not fair at all to those of us who feel we never had a chance or foundation of self love. We were robbed and it is from the sins of our fathers. I know mine goes way back. It’s beyond painful as I am already an empath and a codependent one, which makes it even more challenging to overcome. I’ve been in very dark places much of my life was diagnosed bipolar age 37, which is actually spiritual warfare and not just psychological. They go hand in hand. Breaking the cycle of abuse and even self hatred is hard work. I truly believe I must go live by myself for awhile in the unknown to truly meet my maker and wait to hear from God Almighty, the Most High, who knows my life completely. Not the god of this world which is our adversary. The god of this world is allowed to torment us until we finally give our lives completely up for the Most High. Even though I know this is the truth in my very soul, I still struggle with all of these dis-regulated emotions due to falling into more traps. The traps for me have been soul tie connections and my desire to have a family I never had. Desire is where I have fallen short every time. I have now become so toxic from allowing other toxic people into my life. The only way out now is to find a remote hidden place and do the work without distraction. Crying years of pain is not even enough release. My will is not God Almighty’s will. He wants me to himself, I believe, so he can show me how to find myself again. My true self, my true identity. For I have been lost for a very long time with only short glimpses of who he designed me to be. Doubt and fear are the ingredients spoken into us from the evil ones to keep us from the prize. The prize is freedom. . The path is Christ. The outcome is true love. We must love ourselves first. Truly love ourselves. This is my prayer for all of us who are exhausted from the oppression.

@@jeanniecannon4612 Thank you for sharing. Well, I have no relationships. Neither relatives, friends, lovers. Been this way for decades (except for my mom who passed away 3 years ago). I have isolated myself... no wordly love nor ambitions. So God has no competition in my life. Still, zero sign of God. As for the inner barriers... How can you give yourself totally to God who has in no way spoken to your inner being that He is love? But in fact all your experiences (and even the Bible) seem to give evidence of the opposite. It's impossible to open up to a God you experience as a sadist. I know of Derek Prince, about demonic stuff etc. It just seems no matter what I do (or do not do)... nothing really changes. I'm done trying. I would need deliverance... but "they" just won't come out. No one seems to have the faith or authoriry to do it in Jesus' name. I have fasted and prayed and done spiritual warfare. Nothing helps... not even temporarily. Just gets worse. So I'm now just here waiting as a useless, tormented ex human being that God would do something. I've kept asking: show me CLEARLY what you expect from me... what part of this is my job and what yours? Nada. No wisdom, no direction. I've already done so much like... let's try if it's this piece that's missing... or that... or that one. And just end up feeling deeper disappointed, desperate and cursed. If God were Love... He definitely would want people to FEEL being loved by Him. Especially if there's no competition. All I would want is a personal love relationship with my Creator. I'm being told that's what God wants with ppl too. So as almighty, wtf keeps Him from establishing that connection with a person who truly wants it?!

@@maarit.gneleah i totally understand as i have felt the same way. The competition is Lucifer because he wanted to rise above the Most High. Isaiah 14:14-15-16 I will ascend above the heights of the clouds; I will be like the most High. Yet thou shalt be brought down to hell, to the sides of the pit. They that see thee shall narrowly look upon thee, and consider thee, saying, Is this the man that made the earth to tremble, that did shake kingdoms; For thou hast said in thine heart, I will ascend into heaven, I will exalt my throne above the stars of God: I will sit also upon the mount of the congregation, in the sides of the north: How art thou fallen from heaven, O Lucifer, son of the morning! how art thou cut down to the ground, which didst weaken the nations! It is a long twisted story and many books were taken out of the Bible to keep us from the truth and make us question our existence and why we suffer so much here on earth. So called Christians do not make it easier either because many have the religious spirit. Jesus Christ himself called the religious ones the sons of the Devil. And they are. They are clever and seek to destroy and kill our spirit. God’s children are hated above all others. I currently an in deep depression as I write this. Why do I suffer? That is another long twisted story. It is also stated in the Bible that Satan will sift us as wheat. He certainly has as people like us who try and give up over an over. Somehow we have to keep going. It’s all I know to say at this point. I feel your pain. Answer is to love yourself and not hate yourself. Anger and resentment manifest and grows out of control. We gotta dig out those roots and they can run deep. I’m sick of this world and the cruelty of this whole place. Subconsciously we have recorded all these hurts and trials and expect nothing more than pain. I have tried many methods as well but my lesson is consistency. Patience is a hard lesson. Seems to be ongoing. I wish you the best as I would for myself because I seek to be free from this misery.

@@jeanniecannon4612 The point that this always comes down to for me is: God has designed everything. He's known everything from the very beginning. He knew of the fall of Lucifer before it ever happened. In a way, Satan is God's workmate here on earth. Book of Job clearly demonstrates that God & Satan co-operate. Separating God and Satan - cutting God's goodness totally off Satan's evilty - is what most Christians do in order to maintain their faith in God's reightousness. Through my lifelong abandonment by Him I've been forced to look at the Almighty differently. A few years back, I stopped making excuses for God. I no longer try to explain His apparent absence of love, consistency, trustworthiness in a way that He gets off the hook... because Satan is to blame or because of an individual's own fault. There is a very deep and complex network of dots to connect... and I can't but scratch the surface in this small space here. Me too I'm there, as you described, where I'm done with this ugly world. As it seems that God intended no purpose for my life, I've lately channeled most of my prayers into asking that he take me out of this wordly existence. Quickly and painfully (hasn't He & Satan already tormented me enough for one lifetime!). What's the nature of love: It's to GIVE. Without asking anything in return. When you love someone, you want to express the love, want another to experience how much loved he/she is. You want to make them happy. It is very strange that even as God is supposed to be love, he's quite ok with keeping some of us in the experience of not being loved by Him. Feeling depressed, abandoned, tormented. God wants worship and adoration. He didn't create human brings so He could show us love. He created us to love Him. He even commands us to love Him with all of our being. With the assistance of Satan he's training a group of worshippers who adore Him blindly here and in eternity. He's testing, testing, testing... so that only those will remain who will not do what Lucifer did. In the end, God does what he pleases. I no longer even believe in free will. He has created & chosen some to adore Him and some for destruction. Romans 9 13 As it is written, Jacob have I loved, but Esau have I HATED. (My comment: God that is love and suppoedly loves all of us clearly hates.) 14 What shall we say then? Is there unrighteousness with God? God forbid. 15 For he saith to Moses, I will have mercy on whom I will have mercy, and I will have compassion on whom I will have compassion. 16 So then it is not of him that willeth, nor of him that runneth, but of God that sheweth mercy. (My comment: It's utterly His choice, we've no say in it.) 17 For the scripture saith unto Pharaoh, Even for this same purpose have I raised thee up, that I might shew my power in thee, and that my name might be declared throughout all the earth. 18 Therefore hath he mercy on whom he will have mercy, and whom he will he hardeneth. (My comment: Again, utterly His choice, we've no say in this.) 19 Thou wilt say then unto me, Why doth he yet find fault? For who hath resisted his will? 20 Nay but, O man, who art thou that repliest against God? Shall the thing formed say to him that formed it, Why hast thou made me thus? 21 Hath not the potter power over the clay, of the same lump to make one vessel unto honour, and another unto dishonour? 22 What if God, willing to shew his wrath, and to make his power known, endured with much longsuffering the vessels of wrath fitted to destruction: 23 And that he might make known the riches of his glory on the vessels of mercy, which he had afore prepared unto glory."

Mine too and his family 😞

Oh you poor thing