Postpartum Rehospitalization | Part 2 |of Labor and Delivery Story

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@famous9222 Жыл бұрын

As a hospital nurse of 40 years and hearing your postpartum story I can tell you that you are a Superwoman! Don't doubt your initial choices, as complications can come with even a completely natural childbirth, it's how you handle these difficulties that matter. How you and Josh handled these problems show that you are going to be the best loving parents to Baby Acre.❤

@carolyndymond4065 Жыл бұрын

Yes I agree they will make amazing parents.

@grandmasewhappyhomestead187 Жыл бұрын

I agree baby acre has the best parents! They are going to do amazing he is one blessed little guy

@Nicolesxm68 Жыл бұрын

Kimberly this is not nice to new parents…. You could keep your opinion for yourself. I hope you have rest and you enjoy your baby to the max it is a wonderful experience to become a mother

@kristenevans4557 Жыл бұрын

@@PrincessAndMonkey Unhelpful, Un positive and untrue.

@lindouglass4115 Жыл бұрын

@Kimberly Clark and Family ANY WOMAN who gives life to another human being IS a superwoman! It's not easy, especially being a first time mom.

@TheAgeofFabulous Жыл бұрын

Thank you for being so vulnerable with us in your journey to motherhood, Becky. I know it wasn’t the start that you wanted but we all want to wrap you up in a huge hug of love.

@coupondawnsavesalot6268 Жыл бұрын

Yes, we sure do! I had a spinal headache too, but it wasn’t after an epidural. It was after a spinal tap that couldn’t be completed until I had been poked more than a dozen times. They finally did my spinal tap under an x-ray machine but because of all the holes they poked I ended up with a spinal headache. So I definitely understand, you being a little more complicated than average I was one of the first women to receive a blood patch. Thankfully it worked for me but I did not know that I was having a spinal headache so it took me 10 days to reach out. At the time I had four kids, including a not quite two year old toddler , you are not kidding when you talk about excruciating pain I’m so glad you’re on the other side of it and now it’s time for you to sit back and get to know your son. Congratulations and virtual hugs from all of your many supporters here. We love you guys!

@RunninUpThatHillh Жыл бұрын

This is the nature of life, death and motherhood. We plan and God laughs.😂🤗

@KitchenWitch423 Жыл бұрын

So much this!

@brittanyshaffer135 Жыл бұрын

This!!! ❤️

@donnamaddox7023 Жыл бұрын

@@RunninUpThatHillh amen!! There is no way to prepare for this time in life. Just go with the flow and pray! We have 2 grandbabies on the way. Both are first time Moms. They're like..yeah I don't need help. 🤷

@marm2077 Жыл бұрын

Becky, when you said you called your father and asked him to pray that you'll have the strength to breast feed your son I have to say it moved me to tears and I prayed in that moment for God to bless you immensely while in the throws of early motherhood.

@ForevertheYoungs Жыл бұрын

Same! I was moved to tears several times during this video. Becky is just so sweet and deserves all the best!

@paulaevans7298 Жыл бұрын

Girl, I was crying too! I couldn't stand it.

@brookelynturner5684 Жыл бұрын

I had tears running down my face, too.

@debbiereilly2849 Жыл бұрын

bless you and your family❤

@donnamaddox7023 Жыл бұрын

Me too. Oh my this video has me a mess. God bless you 💖

@JP-ub5rb Жыл бұрын

Becky, thank you for blessing us with this deeply personal, emotional story. I hope that sharing it was cathartic for you. This really touched my heart. I'm so grateful that you are on the other side of it. You always shine so brightly - there's joy and excitement in everything you do. And now you can pour all of that into your precious son. He hit the parent jackpot with you and Josh. God bless you all! PS: Josh definitely wins father and husband of the year!

@playinatlife5778 Жыл бұрын

Speaking for the over 50,000 people who have watched this video in the first 5 hours since you posted it, please know that we want nothing more then to give you a hug and tell you it's going to be O.K. I'm so sorry you had such a rough time, but all you need is to look at your sweet baby to know God has a plan. Prayers and Congratulations!

@sarap8841 Жыл бұрын

Amen ❤

@stephaniehampton2893 Жыл бұрын

Amen 🙏🏻

@peggycoffman9035 Жыл бұрын

SuperWoman!!! I delivered 5 sons, 3 with no meds. Was always afraid of epidurals for just that reason so I never had one. You are awesome in your strength, so you can do this without one too. This video was not depressing for a minute. Your presentation was spot on. I am 77 years old now and I think you are SuperWoman!!! I rejoice in your courage.

@ritasnider2998 Жыл бұрын

Love and prayers, the memories of pain will fade and you have such a precious treasure from God.

@jewelssylva3738 Жыл бұрын

& another AMEN!

@dianedohman1807 Жыл бұрын

This was not depressing , this was a testimony that women are strong and moms are warriors ! Thank you for sharing this ❤

@Lonesome__Dove Жыл бұрын

AMEN!!!

@lizbolick5591 Жыл бұрын

Amen

@papawnanasaveslovesnlife9530 Жыл бұрын

Preach it , All Moms are warriors💖 n some are jus Survivor warriors too, that live to testify to our Story ✔💯❗...

@jilmatthews4395 Жыл бұрын

So thankful for you, Josh and baby. Keep taking care of you. Praying for your precious family. Hugs and love to you.Jil from South Carolina.

@Heidishereandthere Жыл бұрын

HA! And shows how we are not in control, but God sure is! ☺️👍 We can plan on being in a "safe space", but as the saying goes... pride comes before destruction! This was very humbling; indeed.

@angelicalong2289 Жыл бұрын

I developed a spinal fluid leak 5 months after having back surgery. I endured 42 days of excruciating headaches until they were able to determine the cause and then I needed a second surgery to repair the leak. No one can understand the level of this pain unless they have experienced it themselves. I can relate to your feelings of total despair. I'm so glad that you were able to count on your loved ones for support. God's blessings to you and your new little family!

@Alexis-iq7lz Жыл бұрын

I can only speak for myself, but having someone being honest and sharing their birth story like this was encouraging. The more you know… Thank you for being willing to share something so difficult and intimate with us.

@teresastone1730 5 ай бұрын

God bless

@christinastarnes1390 Жыл бұрын

Goodness gracious this is literally the most honest depiction ever on KZfaq of becoming a new mother. It’s incredibly hard even under the most ideal circumstances let alone with complications. Bringing a life into this world isn’t easy but it’s oh so worth it ❤️

@lynnloehr1566 Жыл бұрын

I watch a KZfaq blog called leave everything and wander and the man in the blog just had a spinal leak! He almost died. You are so lucky!! You are a warrior!! Your story is NOT depressing, it's honest. There is a risk anytime you puncture the spine. You have plenty of time to decide about next time. It's great that Josh was so supportive.

@robynsmith1536 Жыл бұрын

Bless your heart!!!!! You are a trooper!!!! Every birth story is different and after time goes by the postpartum issues will fade and the joy of that sweet little bundle will outshine the rough stuff. No guilt or condemnation. God Bless you both. We were praying for your family. Rest, heal, and enjoy the end result......baby Acre!!!!!!

@LEE-oc5xy Жыл бұрын

I can't believe that you went through this and that you had to do it with your husband right next to you...I remember the time you Announce you were going to have a baby...I was so happy for you both i feel like I almost lost my best friend without knowing it ...I'm praying 🙏 for your little family. Your friend from the Tohono O'odham nation ..

@joellbury2834 Жыл бұрын

When they take out the urinary catheter your uretha opening swell temporarily so bladder elimination can be temporarily difficult

@bonniemoreau6152 Жыл бұрын

I’m so sorry that you were in such pain! Thank God you have such a sweet capable husband to care for your little love while you healed. Thankful you are feeling better and now you can enjoy being a new mom, which I’m sure you’ll be a great one! Congratulations to all three of you!!

@WellaWally65 Жыл бұрын

“Sometimes you just need your mom.” So true! God bless your beautiful parents!❤

@RunninUpThatHillh Жыл бұрын

Amen!❤❤❤

@randomlyjessie9689 Жыл бұрын

As someone who came within hours of dying due to postpartum preeclampsia, I can tell you that I understand how scary it all probably was. I’m so glad you made it and both you and baby are safe! ❤

@laylawalker8897 8 ай бұрын

Same. But if it happens after giving birth, it's called eclampsia. I believe it's when the pre-eclampsia levels are not high enough for doctors to induce you. I had a seizure during my emergency c-section (due to labor stalling) and fell into a coma for a week. My kidneys were failing. They told my husband that the situation was dire. Women still die during childbirth right here in the US!

@randomlyjessie9689 8 ай бұрын

@@laylawalker8897pre eclampsia means pre seizure, it has nothing to do with where you are in the birth process. Eclampsia means you are experiencing seizures already. I didn’t have a seizure thus I had preeclampsia. You had a seizure which is why you were diagnosed as having eclampsia.

@allisonb.8356 8 ай бұрын

@@laylawalker8897 mine was diagnosed as HELLP Syndrome. I was in Congestive Heart Failure, liver and kidney failure was beginning… I had my seizure at home once we had had our baby. Almost died, but Praise the Lord He just had his own child a few days ago. His wife and baby did fine! Praying for you and your family!

@jrose3394 Жыл бұрын

Having a supportive husband is such a blessing. My husband was EVERYTHING I needed in every moment for both of my births. I'm so happy that this story had a happy ending and Josh was EVERYTHING you and Baby needed in each moment ❤

@kriss1956 Жыл бұрын

I wanted to reach through the screen and hug you! I found your story very positive, Josh was a partner in every way and BOTH of you know how able he is. The bond with his son grew like crazy while you know you can let go when it's necessary. About the guilt, welcome to motherhood. 😄 The best thing for that is talk, you have a limitless supply of other parents to help you get past that. Be sure to tell Baby the story, he will learn that Dad was there for him and can emulate that character for his own family someday.

@farmer-red488 Жыл бұрын

Now this is a fantastic comment! Baby Acres daddy for the win!!

@kimcritchfield5796 Жыл бұрын

Many people feel dad needs time with baby post birth just to catch of for 9 months in utero.

@Meadowchar Жыл бұрын

LOVE THIS!!!! ❤️

@vickimontgomery5271 Жыл бұрын

That spinal leak headache is no joke. So grateful you are better. Mom guilt is way to big a thing. Your story is all part of how God uses you to bless others and be such an encouragement. Thank you so much for sharing!! Keep feeling those emotions as you need to. You and Josh are a great team! 🙏❤️🙏

@fitfrugal6094 Жыл бұрын

As a new grad labor and delivery nurse starting this coming February this was so eye opening!! I knew there were risks to epidurals but I’ve never heard of this one. Telling your story helps me realize how much we need to advocate for ourselves and as a labor and delivery nurse you have to be able to advocate for your patients as they go through this experience in order to have the best outcome for mom and baby! I am wishing you and your family comfort in knowing you are all home and healthy♥️

@c.christman9649 2 ай бұрын

I’m just seeing this one year later. You are a very strong woman. I’m so sorry all didn’t go as planned, but you’re now great. This past year has been such a successful one for you in gardening, cooking and food preservation. Stay well and enjoy life! Prayers for your well-being. Sending hugs ❤️🥰

@beckywtube Жыл бұрын

Awe Becky... I'm only 18 minutes into the video but I had to stop and comment. There's been a couple times that you've gotten emotional already and i'm sitting here wishing I could give you a hug. You have such courage to sit there and share with us such vulnerable time and information. I can see that its hard to share this with us and you are reliving those moments. You dont even have to but you do. Thank you for sharing your story........ Big hugs, big big hugs...

@susangroller5680 Жыл бұрын

Becky, this is your story so you can help other women who are going through this. You have explained things so well, anyone can understand it. Much better than some doctors would explain it. Now women who have an excruciating headache after an epidural can seek appropriate treatment because of you. We are all grateful for your teaching. Keep your positive, grateful attitude! It’s so refreshing! Congratulations to you and Josh!

@joannevdm6437 Жыл бұрын

Amen

@lizzy9975 Жыл бұрын

It's one of the best videos I've ever seen! It breaks down a lot of barriers! Invaluable for new mothers.

@asacor9435 Жыл бұрын

That after you have an epidural catheter in, maybe dont move around so much ( just take a look at any iv catheter when its in a spot where you are moving it a lot .. so much bruising and soreness . What do you think it was doing in her spine while trying to labor and get baby in the " right " position.

@lizzy9975 Жыл бұрын

@@asacor9435 Tbh I've heard horror stories about epidurals. They are not what they are cracked up to be! And quite clearly this story is a case in point!

@susanschroeder8021 Жыл бұрын

Well said. Not everyone has complications due to epidurals and I can’t imagine how scary that was for Becky and the entire family. 😊

@boething 3 ай бұрын

I just read this on March 25, 2024, and my heart is feeling so much for you! I am so so sorry that you had to go through this! I pray for you daily and will continue to do so. I look forward to your videos so much! When my kids were home, I gardened, canned, preserved, and cooked from scratch. My kids are grown and gone, and I don’t live on enough acreage any more to grow a big garden, but I’m going to try Earth boxes where I am now. I’m 69 and a retired elementary school teacher and am back to cooking from scratch again. I love your videos!!

@cynthiawilliamson5905 3 ай бұрын

Thank God for praying daddy! I never had that, but I got to lead my father to the Lord four days before he died!❤🎉🎉🎉

@KatySimpsonLive 2 ай бұрын

What a wonderful blessing and answer to prayer for you 💖💖

@aurtnowski Жыл бұрын

Mom Guilt is real girl. Post partum hormones don’t help, but your willingness to honestly share your journey will help so many that don’t have the amazing support you do and aren’t told their feelings are valid. ❤

@brigidscaldron Жыл бұрын

I say that mom guilt comes in with the placenta. ❤

@loricassata5259 Жыл бұрын

Does mom quilt ever stop? I have grown kids and still deal with it☹️

@worleyhavenhomestead1448 Жыл бұрын

@Lori Cassata amen it never goes away, that's how I fall asleep every night exhausted from mom guilt!

@donnamaddox7023 Жыл бұрын

@@loricassata5259 It does definitely tone down especially as they grow older and live life, they understand more and adult conversations help so much 🙏💕💕

@hopedeclared3673 Жыл бұрын

“I called my dad to pray for me.” How beautiful and comforting!

@mccarronjen Жыл бұрын

For me, that was instant tears. Prayer from someone who truly loves you just hits different. ❤️

@karaduke8362 Жыл бұрын

This was instant tears for me.. a daddy daughter relationship is so important and a praying one even more. What a blessing Becky ❤

@jmcreations1813 Жыл бұрын

Yes, prayer works!

@yvonnealonzo4960 Жыл бұрын

Becky, do you realize how many people you helped by sharing your experience? Thank you for being open & real...no sugar coating. It is very refreshing to hear about how you lived through these unexpected experiences & your decision making under such duress. A mother's love conquers any & all things for her child. Will power & strength overcame. Thank God you are on the mend and you have a healthy baby boy. Prayers for you. One

@JamerrillStewart Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for sharing your story, Becky. I’ve watched it over the past several days and just finished it today. I’m so glad you’re back home with Josh, your sweetie baby, and most importantly that the pain is gone! ❤❤❤

@sandramartin9106 Жыл бұрын

Fathers are sometimes the unsung heroes. It comes with their servant leadership role. Hats off to you Josh.

@TopTenTeen Жыл бұрын

I did not hear a depressing story. I heard an inspiring story that will give a lot of hope to new moms with challenging postpartum issues. Your husband had the opportunity to demonstrate how well he can take care of his family and you showed how moms sacrifice so much, including their bodies and health, for their children. I’m so glad you are doing better and will pray for you and your family’s continued health.

@freeinghumanitynow 20 күн бұрын

So glad God brought you through that. Please don't call this testimony depressing. We serve an amazing, faithful God who carries us through the difficult times. Illness will NOT win in the end, Becky. God bless you and your amazing family. ❤

@cjbanksful 7 ай бұрын

I will be seventy- five on Monday and in 1973 I went through the same thing you did. I relived the whole thing listening to you. Bless your heart. But back then they didn't use magnesium. They just said that they sat me up too soon after the epidural. I had had my tubes tied and I guess they weren't thinking. And I didn't have the well-trained nurses you have today. You tell your stories so well.

@racheld5576 Жыл бұрын

I'm literally sitting here sobbing with you when you were describing calling your dad to pray for you. It's beautiful that you can do that, but also heartbreaking to here the pain you were in.❤️

@sundaesprinkles Жыл бұрын

Yes, so precious! She is blessed to have a father like that ❤

@reneelalala7690 Жыл бұрын

me too

@zandragibbs2386 Жыл бұрын

Your mom wasn’t just sitting with you she was there to support and help reassure you that you were not alone. Your mom and family are great support.

@mindypereda9660 Жыл бұрын

Oh Becky, this was not a depressing story. This is a very important story that needed to be shared. Maybe this can help someone else hearing what you went through. 🙏🙏🙏🥰👣 Prayers to you, Josh and baby A.

@deblanfair8510 Жыл бұрын

Amen on you calling your Dad to pray for you. There is power in prayer! My Dad had an epidural (spinal as they called it years ago) for a hernia surgery. I can remember him having to roll off the couch onto his hands and knees to get up. He had really bad headaches for a long time after. They must not of known about the patch then. I remember my Mom telling me whatever you do if you ever need surgery or pain management don't have a spinal. So sorry you had to go through all this. God bless you and Josh on your new arrival.

@leslievalenciano-lopez8887 Жыл бұрын

You are a very strong and courageous little Mama! As a Registered Nurse, I have to say this is an amazing testimony to how capable we women truly area! You and Josh are both wonderful parents!

@tammycrowell5442 Жыл бұрын

Nothing like having an empathetic and compassionate husband, Josh you are a good man❤

@FynnsMumma Жыл бұрын

I’m currently 20weeks pregnant and was so set on having an epidural..now I’m not sure 😅. I’m glad you’re doing well now and all the pain is over! I’m going to be researching epidurals a whole lot more now!

@sandrawestley4193 11 ай бұрын

I would absolutely leave your options open, not close anything down, you do not know how things will go, some people sail through others need help. Personally I’ve had 2 births which was way before epidurals were available, I would chose to have an epidural. Every birth is different, but I think here, her doctor should have picked up the high blood pressure, because this is the reason it should be avoided. Her swollen feet before she gave birth was a sign.

@laurafernandes9759 9 ай бұрын

Epidural for sure you have no idea how long you will labor for some people labor for more than 24 hours and without an epidural they are so exhausted from the contractions that they can't push as effective as they would. My sister in law labored hard for 28 hrs when it came time to push she didn't have the strength. Personally I had an epidural for my 3 births and delivered anywhere from 7 to 12 hours. Wouldn't think twice about it.

@BeccaBristow 6 ай бұрын

Oh mama, I am just so sorry this happened to you! You are such a pillar of strength, and so many women will benefit from watching this video - whether they experience the same thing or just feel refreshed by your vulnerability. Thank you for sharing with us all!

@cathymontano569 Жыл бұрын

My husband at the drop of a hat still prays for our adults children In person, phone, whatever they want. This was special to hear. 🎄🎄🎄

@jenniferrichardson5106 Жыл бұрын

My first child was stillborn. I was readmitted with complications after my second child's birth and unable to breastfeed him. I was bed rested for my final and third pregnancy for two months, but that delivery was terrific and I was able to breastfeed my daughter with no issues. All that to say-every pregnancy, labor, and delivery was different. God has used my experiences to help others that he has brought into my life, and I am positive that by sharing your story, you are helping so many others. You are AMAZING, and I am so proud of you!

@kathieponder7708 Жыл бұрын

Amen. I was told my baby had died, but he is now 30 and a lawyer. Miracle....straight up miracle.

@kristicallnc Жыл бұрын

God bless you Jennifer

@garyschultz4929 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, child birth is such a miracle.

@mlee7037 Жыл бұрын

Amen! Every pregnancy is different! I have only been through one, but have seen others go through different things their multiple pregnancies. I am so glad you are getting better, Becky. We love you and your little family. ❤

@CharlenePink-Dufresne Жыл бұрын

We are all very proud of you. 🤗🥰

@sandiruch6593 8 ай бұрын

Just watched these 2 Birth/rehospitalization videos. God bless you honey!!! It took me 6 years to get pregnant so I didn’t want an epidural but I did get a half a dose of Nubane. YES made me feel like butter on a hot plate and still feel the birth. God was good. I did just have one daughter that is still at 30, the center of my world. Not a day goes by that I thank Jesus for her!! You’re amazing!!

@JordanChoir-sn5zu Жыл бұрын

Wow. I am a labor and delivery nurse. Listening to your labor and post partum journey, I am amazed by your strength and my heart hurts for you. Sharing your story should help a lot of women. The story was real, and honest, and incredibly researched and accurate as far as your understanding of it all. Please, never feel the need to apologize, think it's depressing, or put a mask over your trauma. You really really had an extremely difficult experience that many women could never handle and stay sane. I am so glad you had your family with you. To think about being your nurse at that time, I would have done absolutely anything to make you feel better. Take care of yourself.

@marthamyers1539 20 күн бұрын

I had three natural births, none are easy. I don’t think they are meant to be but well worth the outcome. Just love your child more and be forever grateful to our wonderful God.

@shellyhagler3934 Жыл бұрын

I'm so proud of you mama! We as moms travel through the valley of the shadow of death LITERALLY to bring our children into the world. It's not easy physically or emotionally, but it's soooo worth it!!! God has a way of helping the pain of it all to ease over time. Otherwise it would be hard to decide on having another child. I know, I have 6, and each delivery was different! But I'd do it all again to have the littles (all grown up now) that I have!!! Again, I'm so proud of you mama!!! And thanks for sharing. You show & share things as they really are. Whether it be cooking, baking, gardening or giving birth. Keep being you, because you're WONDERFUL!!!

@camillebambi6449 Жыл бұрын

As someone who struggles with chronic pain from autoimmune issues, my heart ached when you explained all the pain you endured. I never wish others to feel that level of despair and depression that comes along with never-ending pain despite trying all the available treatments. I cannot remember a day without horrible pain, and that's why your story made me cry. I hope you continue to heal and get to enjoy your health again while cuddling your sweet baby boy. Thank you for sharing your story.

@michellewebb2125 Жыл бұрын

Me too. Also a severe chronic pain sufferer AND had spinal leak from a spinal tap from meningitis testing. It was horrid. I was severely ill already too, while Becky was post partum going through it. We are all 3 warriors. We must pray for the good days when pain is more bearable, cherish them. While the days pain wins the battle, we just keep fighting the good fight and try keep a handle on what we can control which is our mental and emotional state. Trying to not sink into despair from severe pain. Instead focus on every good thing or memory in life, focusing on those we love, and focusing on our dreams to keep hope alive as long as we are still alive enduring. So glad Becky is doing better and recovering more and more every day. I'm glad she's slowed down and just focused on healing. We all feel that guilt while in severe pain of what we could or should be doing but absolutely cannot. But knowing we are doing the best we possibly can and that's all we can do- it's enough. God knows and knows our strength through our bodies pain and suffering. 🙏

@kinseyt5066 Жыл бұрын

Thinking of you all, you chronic pain warriors. You are seen ❤ Thanks for sharing your perspective

@kerrylennox7359 Жыл бұрын

Becky, how traumatic for you😢 Please know that there are resources out there to support you. You have made all the right decisions, unfortunately something's get in the way that are out of your control, this is not uncommon but it doesn't make it any less traumatic. You have absolutely nothing to feel guilty about, however I completely acknowledge and validate your disappointment. You will recover from this..but allow yourself time...give yourself time dear Becky 🙏🤗

@spenglase Жыл бұрын

Yes! My sister has a terrible chronic illness that leaves her in extreme pain. The despair from being in constant severe pain is scary to maneuver through.

@SarahCampeau Жыл бұрын

My heart goes out to you.

@kindnessrules3885 5 ай бұрын

As a Nurse/Teacher, mom and gma, your story isn’t depressing. It is honest and will be with you forever. Bless you for sharing it, in doing so you gave other women who might experience these same issues knowledge. I hope you realize this also gave you a strength that just trusting your body to heal itself makes you a warrior. Many blessings on your healing journey even a year later🫶🏻❣️

@debbied3116 Ай бұрын

The Lord was looking after you during all of this. May not seem like it at the time but He was there! I am so sorry you had to go thru all the pain. Josh was an "angel" since he handled everything for you. You and your family are going to be just fine...blessed over all!! Thanks for sharing this part of your life, Becky!!!

@dxonnie1571 Жыл бұрын

This is the honesty that women need to hear and thank for you sharing the reality of postpartum. I think I can speak for all of us that we feel honored that you are willing to share your story and be vulnerable with us. If you need to take time off please do! We want a safe, happy, and healthy Becky even if it means we have a little less of her

@sgp1489 Жыл бұрын

I'd love to hear Josh's version of this. His experience is completely different probably. My mom had a horrible time with her first birth. She said she felt like she needed to have another baby as soon as it was feasible or else she would lose her nerve. Thank God she did, be cause I was the fifth and final and I have a wonderful life

@melbee1000 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for being so vulnerable and honest. As a RN and NP who has birthed three babies I was just so in awe of your strength and resilience. Baby a is so lucky to have you as his mama. All I could think watching these last two videos is you would make an amazing nurse!

@jenniferfarrar3542 7 ай бұрын

This was a very similar story for me only 29 years ago. Emotions override clarity and knowing you have a great support source makes all the difference. I am grateful I didn’t document my story as hearing yours was a strong reminder of how hard becoming a mom can be….and yet so worth it. You are a rock star! No guilt sister, continue with your stance to be grateful not hateful. Love that boy and Josh and remember your good health is irreplaceable!

@hannahr9589 Жыл бұрын

I’m so glad you’re talking, don’t stop talking about the birth until you feel like you no longer have birth and postpartum trauma. Talking is so powerful... I’m a mom of 3 littles, and I’ve had 3 completely different births. A women’s birth can effect every aspect of life, and I truly feel it is so important to talk about the birth, weather good or bad. Take care of yourself, and enjoy sweet baby! God bless!!

@kathieponder7708 Жыл бұрын

Amen

@makeupgrl24 Жыл бұрын

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 you said it so well! Birth and postpartum trauma is very real and not talked about enough. And sharing our stories definitely help us heal emotionally/mentally

@MsJoLollipop Жыл бұрын

Yes! Not only does it help you process and heal from that trauma, but it's never talked about enough! I was diagnosed with delivery induced iih, something I had never heard of and would never have known it existed had I not temporarily gone blind!

@zoebossie1653 Жыл бұрын

I had a super traumatic birth and talking about it made it so much easier to cope.

@Lonesome__Dove Жыл бұрын

And she has so many ppl who are listening to her story! Imagine going through this and having no one to talk to. I will definitely reach out to friends that have recently given birth more in the future. Ive always thought, oh shes just given birth she dont want to be bothered...but, sometimes ppl just need to vent.

@suemacalpine7006 Жыл бұрын

Becky, thank you so much for sharing your story. It is, by far, the most difficult postpartum story I have heard. When you mentioned the doctor saying that your body hadn’t read the textbook, it reminded me of my experience with my firstborn. I ended up going to the ER on my third day postpartum. While I was in the ER, my husband was taking my son for his daily check since he was jaundiced at birth. The doctor came in and asked me why I was there and I completely broke down sobbing, and attempting to explain my issue. He was so good, he just patted me on the shoulder and told me that the third day postpartum is the worst. When you talked about being at day 5, I really felt for you. I really hope that sharing your story was cathartic for you. And if God blesses you with more children and you decide not to have an epidural, don’t worry, your body knows what to do. I have three grown children and each labor and delivery was different, but your postpartum story sounds much worse than the fleeting pain of delivery. Please give yourself as much grace as possible. I’m glad your body is healing and your heart will too. Sending you love and prayers.

@judyfletcher1818 7 ай бұрын

When I had an epidural, I was told to lay flat for hours after birth so I would not have a headache. I was very surprised the nurses had you sitting up and going through all those activities,

@thelmahuntsman8378 4 күн бұрын

I was told to lay flat on my back for X amount of hours ?, That was 55 years ago.

@M2ElviSMuSic Ай бұрын

Your experience will help so many people moving foreward. I've had numerous spinal cord leaks and I know every word is 100% true. I was injured after many epidurals (2 C-sections and then so many following a broken back that led to a severe spinal cord injury. I live with tremendous pain day and night. Know the knowledge you share will literally save others. Bless you, and I understand. Big hugs!❤ One day and one night at a time.

@AnnSumner9348 Жыл бұрын

As a mother of 5 girls, I can't even imagine how scared you had to be and how scared Josh had to be. You are truly an amazing young woman.

@mimitinsley3807 Жыл бұрын

This is a story of a fighter! Never giving up. Becky, I had 2 natural births, the 3rd with an epidural. Each way had its own grace and humps to overcome. You did so good. So good. God has a way of taking the ugly and allowing the joys to be the main remembrance. Baby is healthy, Daddy is marvelous and Mama is healing mentally, spiritually and emotionally. Give your self room for a 5 minute cry if needed, and then recall every blessing as you hold your baby boy. Covering you all with prayer. As a nurse I'm seeing all the overcoming moments. Proud of you all, and we're all so thankful you're on the other side! Be blessed!

@8thcelisabeth Жыл бұрын

you are so lovely. As is Becky. So happy Baby A and Mama are healing! All the blessings to Josh as well, knowing Baby was in good hands had to ease some anxiety in a really traumatic situation.

@jodifinnegan4453 Жыл бұрын

@@MAMA-gi8cn Whoa!! She tried her hardest, couldn't sit up, not even to pump, because of excruciating pain. Used doner milk etc. In their situation they did everything to feed and nourish their child while not knowing what the outcome with mama would be.

@QuiteQuietASMR Жыл бұрын

I’m so happy to be able to hear you talking about all of this in PAST TENSE. Thank goodness it is all over and done with! You’re a warrior getting through all that, Becky!! We are all so proud of you for being a trooper and keeping a good attitude.

@jennifermastin7169 Жыл бұрын

thank you for being so vulnerable to us.. I know you don’t have to let everyone know all of these things , but I do believe your story will help someone else. I can not say how glad I am for you to be feeling better now. YOU ARE AN ABSOLUTE TROOPER! I will ask.. will we get to see lil man? And congratulations on becoming a mommy. God always has a plan for a reason we don’t know but I promise he will absolutely use your story for nothing but good. Your amazing! Josh is amazing and I’m so glad you had incredible support.

@katherineharper8292 Жыл бұрын

As a mother of 6, think of things like this... Josh got to bond with baby A, something many new dads are terrified of as well as having to share baby with the mom. Not only that, but he rocked it! Josh was worried about you and did everything he could do for you to get better. You both are Rockstars! You are much better for them at your best health, physically and mentally. It's normal to feel a bit like you let your baby down, but you didn't! You did what was needed so you could heal, and no one ever would think that anything you did for your health was a letdown. You are here and on your way to returning back to the best(healthy) version of yourself. I felt horrible when my first born was born at 28weeks and I went home while he spent 2 months in NICU. I think I blamed myself for a long time and tried to think of what I could have done differently but in reality, my body and my son decided when he was arriving. Emotions are always high after birth 🙄 but you will get more normal as time goes on. And it is okay to have your moments (crying is OK too), but know that I speak for many of us, we are so grateful you, baby A, and Josh are all doing well. Thank you so much for being so transparent and thinking of us through all you have gone through. Welcome to motherhood. ((Hug)) It really looks good on you. My thoughts are with you as you continue to heal.

@elizabethhall4332 Жыл бұрын

Yes! That dad bonding is so important too. I got very sick with what we eventually come to find was a diagnosis of Multiple Sclerosis when my son was 5 months old. I had severe vertigo (causing vomiting) and I could not walk without assistance because of the vertigo, I would fall. After about a week my husband said, "Look, I can take care of you or the baby but not both of you. One of you has to go!". Lol! I was so relieved because with having the baby with me I felt like I needed to care for him and not just heal. He kept the baby and I went to my parents for about 10 days. They would come visit with me of course but it wasn't the constant stress of caring for him. I could not have told my husband that I needed to be apart from the baby, I felt like a bad mom for thinking it. I was ever so grateful when my spouse spoke up.

@susanschroeder8021 Жыл бұрын

Yes!!! Well said!! I second this post! 👏🏻

@jacalli Жыл бұрын

Beautiful message ❤️

@jmc-xp6ml Жыл бұрын

@@elizabethhall4332 ❤

@jmc-xp6ml Жыл бұрын

❤

@reneakren1198 Жыл бұрын

And not to leave Josh out, kiddos to you. My son in law had to take care of my granddaughter for several days before my daughter could. He had diaper changing down, swaddling down and taught my daughter how to do it. Josh what an awesome dad you are. Baby A is very blessed to have you both.

@briannabyers7988 Жыл бұрын

Sending so much love your way. I’m over here choked up and crying alongside you. I can relate to your story in so many ways, just wanted to let you know I see you and you’re not alone in this. I know how devastating and isolating it feels to be in that kind of pain in that exact moment of becoming a mother. It is no easy feat coming out on the other side of it, wish I could send you a legit hug and mugs of endless hot tea ❤

@witch.with.a.capital.B 4 күн бұрын

Hey hunny, let me tell you,you have been a superwoman. I have a condition called iih (idiopathic intracranial hypertension) I literally have those spinal headaches daily so I can understand your pain 100%. I love you, your family and your videos so much. You are an amazing person and mother, and to Josh you are superman as well my hubby is watching this with me and he said you did all the right things as a husband and a father. We both admire you guys so much. Much love and care from the munts of Marton, New Zealand 💜💜🤗🤗🫂🫂

@lauragarmon6969 Жыл бұрын

Your story isn’t depressing, it is triumphant! I’ve had two kids…first was difficult in so many ways but the second was amazingly normal. While this stuff is hard, it will soon become a distant memory. You left Baby A with the best dad possible. You’ll be a wonderful mom. Learn to deal with guilt and put it aside. You are an amazing person.

@lolamae7783 Жыл бұрын

You are not only so brave and strong, but SO lucky to have Josh! He did such a good job, brand new daddy taking a newborn home by himself so they could take good care of mommy.. such incredible and competent new parents!!

@autumnbrinson8801 Жыл бұрын

Sharing your story so openly is amazing! I’m glad you are on the other side of that pain. I think that more stories are not the perfect story so sharing the not so perfect is encouraging and less isolating! Congrats on Baby A!!

@reetamorris5834 Жыл бұрын

You are helping so many women that have gone through this and that are going through this. Thank you.

@megginbrda5497 Жыл бұрын

Literally, I was in your shoes with my first delivery as well. My daughter was also 6 lbs. No one realized how much pain I was in from my spinal leak.. couldn't hold my newborn for almost 2 weeks. BECKY I GET IT!! Now, just enjoy every moment with that beautiful blessing and keep smiling! Mom guilt is real, and I've realized it happens more than we can control.. but it's just motherhood in a nut shell! Hugs to you, and I'm happy to hear you say you're feeling improved!♡

@diversekakes Жыл бұрын

Bless you strong momma!

@ashley-fayme3919 Жыл бұрын

I just want to take a moment to say god bless you Becky! Every time you choke up, I just want to give you a hug! I cried with you through this whole story. Pregnancy is hard and giving birth is next level! Bless Josh for being such an amazing husband and father!! 💕 lots of love to you all!! Thanks to ur Mom, Dad and the entire family for surrounding you with love and support! You all are soooo blessed to have each other! Here’s to a speedy recovery Mama! Congratulations on ur new little bundle of love!! 💕💕 From one traumatized Mama to other. I never did forget, and that’s ok too. Bless you Becky!! Bless you!!

@withakisswithabow Жыл бұрын

Becky, I was emotional with you the whole time I watched this! I hope it was cathartic to share it with us. You are an incredible mother, your strength is so evident even through the suffering you went through and the tears that come in reliving the experience. Praying that you get to continue resting and snuggling your baby boy!

@sarahivilla9728 Жыл бұрын

Sending you a huge hug Becky mom “guilt” is real about being away from them and as a mom of a 6 and 3 year old you learned little by little it’s for their wellness too. Blessings ❤

@ashleighhuda8776 Жыл бұрын

My son: Oh no, Becky is crying... Mama, are YOU crying?! Thanks so much for sharing with us. It can't be easy to be so vulnerable in front of the camera and I'm sure you had many of us in tears over what must've been so hard at the time. So glad both you and baby A are happy and healthy!

@householdlogistics Жыл бұрын

Those of us who also have had challenging postpartum and birth experiences can very much empathize with how very raw it may still make you feel at times, as you process your experience, Becky. Be super kind to yourself and feel the feelings as they arise, as it is part of letting go what simply was beyond one's control in those first days. Postpartum migraines are very painful and debilitating, and it is wonderful to hear that you no longer have them. You have a beautiful, healthy little one who you nurtured in your womb incredibly well. Take all the time you need to simply sit and cuddle your precious baby whenever you feel inclined, because those moments of just snuggling and cuddling will be so healing and so special. Congratulations again on the safe arrival of your beloved little one.

@veronicaluna7369 Жыл бұрын

Yes, I agree. I had a 💩 childbirth experience and the most painful part was not allowing myself to cry about it let alone share my disappointment with others.

@meggiebab2786 Жыл бұрын

I completely understand what you are going thru, it's so refreshing to know that it didn't only happen to me. Do not let the tears, upset you. You are a new mom, you will cry at the drop of a hat. Moments, songs and just pictures will make you cry like a baby for no reason what so ever. I didn't have a support system from my sons father so I'm grateful that your husband has been so supportive to you. My thoughts and healing prayers are with you and your family.

@marieriley6062 Жыл бұрын

Oh my goodness!! I’m so happy you are well and Baby is as well!! I’m so proud of both you and Josh! That Dad jumped right in and took over that baby care like he’d been doing it for years! Your story made me cry. But your positiveness is amazing! Many blessings to you and your family!

@kingsdaughterjoy Жыл бұрын

I was crying with you Becky. 4 months postpartum myself, I cannot even imagine handling all of that pain and stress and the guilt of wanting to be by your baby. You are amazing. Don't forget to take it easy for several months to recover from birth and all the trauma afterwards, and to enjoy your baby fully 💕

@jenniferleyden6557 Жыл бұрын

You are going to help so many people sharing this, Becky. We don't talk enough about the hard parts of labor and delivery, and how things can quickly change post partum. I am so sorry you had such a tough recovery, but am very glad to hear Baby A did so well during all of it. Sending you, Josh, and Baby A lots of healing, positive energy. Congratulations to your entire family!

@brendahowell5946 Жыл бұрын

I called my dad when I also had serious issues with my third pregnancy. Nothing like having a praying dad. That was 30 years ago. Still remember calling him that day.

@clknight65 Жыл бұрын

@sophietyrrell3131 Жыл бұрын

I had 7 and none were painless. I would not exchange my experience as a mum for anything in the whole world. Congratulations!!!

@randaposey7817 Жыл бұрын

Having a partner you can trust with the baby you birthed right after birth is a HUGE accomplishment. A lot of people can’t say the same, and I am so very happy that you have that partner to help you when times are rough. Sending much love ❤

@albanymountainhomestead Жыл бұрын

If that is in question I'd be looking for another partner... every woman who gives birth deserves a partner who is just as hands on with taking care of baby. And mom's need to trust their partners even if it's not done to mom's standards dads (partners) are more capable than we give them credit for.

@Meadowchar Жыл бұрын

@@albanymountainhomestead Some are, but so so many aren't!

@albanymountainhomestead Жыл бұрын

@@Meadowchar so if mom were to die at childbirth that child should be given up for adoption since the partner this woman choose is incapable of caring for their child... this is why women need to choose better partners then!

@randaposey7817 Жыл бұрын

I wasn’t in any way saying that she’s lucky, or should be grateful for her partner. Unfortunately in a lot of circumstances you don’t know how a dad is going to be until they are one. I wasn’t making this statement for a debate, just simply expressing the genuine happiness for her, that she has a good partner to rely on and is not burdened while also being ill away from baby. It’s not easy to just throw your partner away because they aren’t “partnering” how you’d like. It’s a learning experience, and hopefully most would have the heart to gently guide and allow room for growth. Love to you as well.

@marywells1197 Жыл бұрын

Sending you, Josh, and baby a lot of love and hugs! My goodness! You have been through a lot! Happy you are feeling better!

@sarahguernsey4590 Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for sharing your story with us!! You are such a sweetheart and I’m sorry you had to experience that pain! You are absolutely an encouragement even when you’re going through something rough! That shows your true character! You are such a kind and sweet person and I wish I could give you a great big hug! I can tell you though that God has a plan for you and loves you SO much! You are an amazing wife and momma to your precious baby!! You did what you had to in order to heal and be able to take care of him now. What an amazing hubby you have to take on baby while you got better!❤

@Teddydoggie Жыл бұрын

Thanks for being so honest and real about your post birth story. I’ve given birth to four children and have had complications with all of them. People need to understand that not all women have perfect birth and post partum experiences. Crying is natural and a way to relieve stress and you obviously had a good reason for crying. It’s over now and you can settle in to being a new mom and family of three.

@aliciaadame468 Жыл бұрын

Becky, you are one of the most genuine and honest women I have ever "met". Thank you for sharing your story. I was crying right along with you while you were recounting your experience. I started watching you about 6 months ago, and look forward to EVERY SINGLE video. I feel so close to you, even though I've never actually met you. You are so blessed to have so much support from your husband and family during this time. I will pray for your continued healing, both mentally and physically. Soak up all those precious baby cuddles now that you're on the mend. Blessings!!!

@TheDkavz Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for sharing, Becky. I'm so sorry you went through all this after labour. I had a spinal leak headache after an epidural I had for surgery and it was BRUTAL. I can't imagine combining that with being a new parent and the blood pressure issues. Wishing you all the best as you continue to recover

@BriarHollowFarm Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing your story -- it's not depressing, it shows what you weathered and came out the stronger for. I had my second son in July and experienced a lot of similar "storms" -- easy/positive birth, but high blood pressure, meds, rehospitalization, and an unexpected NICU stay/multiple surgeries for my baby due to an unnoticed tumor that was infected and connected to his intestines. So glad you're past the debilitating pain. Being a mom is so draining, but it fills as much as it drains, and you have so much joy ahead of you

@patriciag9063 Жыл бұрын

My 'baby' is 26 years old, but watching your videos brought back a flood of emotions from the first 2 weeks after I gave birth. I ended up with a kidney infection the day after coming home, pain, fever, chills, but that was nothing compared to all the feelings I was having, from failing to follow my birth plan by asking for an epidural after being induced and laboring for 24 hours, and then failed at pushing baby out, ended up having a c-section, breastfeeding didn't just come naturally like I thought it would, couldn't get enough sleep and even had a hard time finding time to shower! My son never slept more than 20 minutes at a time and my Mom had come down with pneumonia just before he was born so she couldn't be there to help. I was a mess and I cried quite a few times. I wish someone would have warned me that I might be a tired, emotional mess for a little bit! But eventually things fell into place and I enjoyed being a Mom and raising my child. My only complaint now is that the time went by so quickly. Try to enjoy every moment, even when he's naughty, someday you'll wish you could go back and do it all again! My son just got engaged, so hopefully there will be a grandchild to love not too long from now!

@TimberlineMountainLife Жыл бұрын

Every woman's experience is hers alone - easy or hard - and we should encourage and support each other when things don't go perfectly. Easy makes us grateful and hard makes us stronger. We're here to love you through it all. Prayers for Becky, Josh and Baby Acre! P.S. Josh, good on you for being the best example of a supportive husband and loving, capable father.

@tiffanyholman4028 Жыл бұрын

THIS! We all have different stories and think it's so beautiful the way women come together in the face of birth stories and complications. Even with different experiences we rally around other women and that bond is so strong and inspiring to see. Becky's grace is so incredible.

@heidialiceinwonderland Жыл бұрын

Oh Becky, what an ordeal you have been through! Thankyou for sharing your story. I am in awe…you are one brave and strong woman! Enjoy your time healing and snuggling your little baby - it goes by so quickly! Xx

@mallorymarvel7222 Жыл бұрын

Becky! You are such an amazing Mom and you went through such a difficult situation but came out the other side with so much grace and gratitude. I am so thankful that you are both doing well, my birth with my daughter did not go at all how I expected it and hearing your story encourages me so much! Thank you for sharing!

@abriley Жыл бұрын

Your feelings are valid. I found that ignoring my feelings of guilt after two traumatic birth experiences because I didn’t want to burden others only made them worse. So glad that you are sharing your experience, not only for others to learn from, but also for your own healing.

@LINBCATES1 Жыл бұрын

So true. You are on a good path because you ARE being open and honest about your experience. TALK!!!! It’s going to speed up your healing in a way that you cannot even imagine. If you were telling this story without the emotion and just “telling a story” it wouldn’t come off as real, or truthful. It is emotional but absolutely not depressing. Your story is one of hope and victory. So many have expressed their glad and grateful thoughts for the opportunity that Josh had to show his love for you and his son in such a real and meaningful way. God knew what all three of you were going to need…. I’m so happy that you are ok and that in His Goodness, he has provided for you all!!! Also, as a Mom of three adult children and their spouses, and as a grandmother of five, your Mom was waiting for your call to come running to you!!! Love your work and blessed by your story. Thank you so much!!! 0:45

@debbiedavis847 Жыл бұрын

I am amazed at your strength and honesty. I was crying right along with you and still am. Being a first time parent is so hard because you are traveling through an unknown experience. God showed you not only how strong you are, but also what a great man you married. Josh got the time to bond with your son and I can imagine his thoughts and feelings as he worried about you. Don't feel guilty about not being able to spend time with your son in the beginning. Babies feel the stress of their mom and he was with someone who loves him as much as you. Enjoy every second because they change so much the first year and grow so darn fast. You are both loving and caring parents and you've already shown that. Make sure you spend time with each other and know that we, your viewers, are always here for you and in our prayers. ❤️ 💙 💜

@lauraziolkowski2652 Жыл бұрын

They gave me morphine

@lauraziolkowski2652 Жыл бұрын

Enjoy your son, they grow so fast.

@AshleyEveleth Жыл бұрын

I hope you will see this Becky. I have to say, to me this is not a depressing story. The way I hear it, this is a story of triumph over adversity, fortitude, perseverance, and making good decision after good decision. Baby A is so lucky to have you as his mom. You are a fierce force to be reckoned with. ❤ I hope you give yourself permission to feel all the feelings that will inevitably come up, including some room for pride.

@bjrdesign07 9 ай бұрын

Bless your heart, you really went through a lot. What a blessings to some new moms out there that you put your real story out there for all to hear. I'm sure there is at least one person you helped by doing so. Looking forward to your next video! Blessings! 💕💕

@wendybradshaw5825 Жыл бұрын

I had two babies (30 and 27 years ago) with no medicines and then I got an autoimmune diseases and ended up with aseptic meningitis and I literally thought my head was gonna blow off. I remember saying that I would rather give birth to 48 babies than have that kind of headache! God bless you Becky! Your internet family loves you!

@carlarice9099 Жыл бұрын

Oh Becky- I am sending you a big (gentle) hug. Bless your heart. Having a baby is a messy, difficult business. Sending prayers that things are looking up. ex-OB nurse here!!

@victoriagoss8681 Жыл бұрын

Me too, big gentle hugs from MS! Thank you for sharing. You’ve made tear up with you, Becky. As someone who was able to breastfeed, I’m team feed your baby. You’re doing great! None of this was a surprise to God. He knows what you and baby A need. Praying along side you and papa acre. God bless you and your precious family. You’re truly doing an incredible job momma!

@jenniferaustin9647 Жыл бұрын

Oh Becky! I am so sorry that you had to go through all of that! I have no doubt that your story will help someone someday. Your openness and vulnerability is not lost on anyone here! Having 3 kids myself with the first one definitely not being "easy" or routine either I can tell you that they are all different! I am so glad you are doing better now and wish that you continue to heal quickly and uneventfully! Enjoy baby A!

@amytheamateurherbalist Жыл бұрын

Becky I so feel for you with this experience...my heart breaks as I hear you retell this story!! Wishing you, Josh and baby A healing, love and the ability to not let this situation define your's and baby A's birth story. Feeling all of the sensations and emotions around this is part of processing- to fully experience all of it so it doesn't become stuck in the body as trauma. Even though it is hard and can feel very painful I commend you for taking baby steps forward in your healing-mind, body and spirit!! Deep breaths-you are loved!!

@susanhirtzel8410 Жыл бұрын

Oh Becky, what a hard time you’ve been through! You had way more than your share of complications and I pray you are now feeling better, enjoying time with your precious baby, and on the road to being completely back to normal. You endured a lot momma and you are one strong woman!!

@thecuriouscashew Жыл бұрын

I am just wrapping up my last year of nursing school, and if anything, I hope you know that you taught me something to look out for when I am a nurse. I’m sorry you went through this hard experience after birth, but I am thankful you had the courage to share!

@nonsense289 Жыл бұрын

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