They just wanted to say: “I wish I was him” or “It should’ve been me”

Most of the marriage criticisms are from lonely and jealous people who enjoy judging others through a computer keyboard. No mater what path you choose there will be a group of Haters. Congrats on the Marriage, Child and this new adventure you have taken on. I am very happy for this new chapter in your life.

It is unfortunate that some people in the community are leaving, but be happy that those who stay will be much more supportive of your work! This is what matters

I don't know why anyone would criticize your marriage, I saw the photos of you guys together and I can tell that you guys are madly in love, no one should ever be upset about true love, I feel like you guys fit each other perfectly!

"Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind." - Dr. Suess. Congratulations to the both of you (soon to be three), all the best!

It's gross to hear about women's channel shrinking when their followers find out they're in a relationship... some people think that they will end up dating a youtuber or streamer they follow or something?? Also, it's awesome to hear that you're happy and content with your relationship and I appreciate the advice you give! You're a very wise person

No one should be criticizing your marriage. It's your life, not theirs. You have to listen to your parents. No one else matters. Let them live their miserable lives. You will have your wonderful one, and we will always be there to support you.

Hope you are doing well with your pregnancy Asagi. Also I'm happy for you in you're marriage ,and do not worry about what others think or say about your marriage.

Congratulations on your pregnancy! I am happy you are both happy, do what you feel is best. That's what's important!

The fact people have that kind of attitude is seriously creepy. Like those guys who turn into stalkers when their favorite idol/actress/whatever starts going out with someone. Since asagi is from Japan, where sh*t like that is pretty common, I'm sure that keeping all of this a secret crossed her mind a thousand times. Instead, she took a leap of faith and chose to put her trust in her followers, as if they were her best friends in life (such as the Chanel name), not only as a KZfaq persona, and that's how these guys react huh. I can't stop but wonder how shallow is someone else's feelings, for them to lash out at someone they never met and probably never will just because she is taking a decision she made about her own life. It may end up good, it may end up bad? Who knows, but, as someone who is in "Asagi's Life" the best we can do is to cheer for the best. That's what a nice human should do.

I don't watch your content suuper regularly but ive watched in the background for a while. Tbh it was nice to see you holding a baby, my life has changed and yours has too. Keep making videos about your life, don't let people upset over your marriage bring you down. Also more dating advice please, i didnt realize how hard it is 😅

Thank you so much for the courage to share your personal experiences with us. When I know for sure that I will have a future life in Japan, I will definitely contact you for dating and marriage advice 😊!

GURL you do you ok, why people criticize your marriage is just mind boggling for me, cause like people should be allowed to do as they please, so don't let people put you down, live your life the way you want to my friend, my heart goes out to you ❤❤❤❤

The best thing about criticism is that it’s usually not constructive and it’s someone opinion, and while everyone can have an opinion most of the time it doesn’t matter and can live how we want to! I think you having a happy relationship is great and I wish the best for you and your new family.

I don't understand some people 🤷🏻‍♂️ Praying for the best for you and Justin and bub ☺️🙏

Forget what others think including family members, friends, relatives and the wider community! If they don’t like it, they can “Adios Amigos!!”

Your personal life is nobody's business but yours.

Dear Asagi san I really appreciate your KZfaq work! Thanks for giving some toughts to my comments! Best wishes for your family i think it will all work out very well

1. Japanese ladies traditionally married at 25, then it moved to 31. 2. Courtship in Japan was usually year(s) not months. 3. When you're an advisor (expert) on something, you attract critics. 4. Make your self a public figure (eg. on KZfaq) and critics x1,000 ! 5. Your life is your life, make the best of it. Being that I'm a American and my wife is Japanese and we've been married for 29 years, I think I come from a place of experience. First, the "traditional" view of women in Japan is that they are like Christmas Cake (if you lived there you'll get it) but that view has become more Oshogatsu (New Year's) Cake. Second is that traditional dating to marriage lengths in Japan was typically a long process that took year or more depending on the family (I dated mine for 3 years before the family approved), so when its only a few months then it will beg questions of family and friends. Third, when you brand yourself as a relationship advisor there is always going to be criticism of just that alone (not even considering the first and second points). And finally fourth, you're on KZfaq! What do you expect, blanket praise, support and love? You made your life public and people that make their lives public are going to get negativity. My wife and I live very quiet lives and as such no drama. We aren't famous to anyone (except our child and the grandchildren) or rich, nor would we ever want to be. Everyone sacrifices certain things in order to gain other things in life, the idea that you can have it all is a false ideology. I can only speak from my frame of reference as a American who lived in Japan for seven years, loved it for it's rich history, culture and people (both the good and the bad) as much my wife has of things that are American. So in conclusion, if you don't want criticism then make your life private. You will still have to deal with the neighborhood housewives but that is also life in Japan (I bet he doesn't know that yet right?). Just live, love and make it the best life you can and accept what becomes of it.

Your and Justin's marriage is awesome, and should not to criticized over

And you know it's the loneliest people out there. People who either can't stay in a relationship for longer than a couple weeks - months or just people who have never been in a relationship and see you as some sort of idol to be untouched. It's so sad. Hope everything goes well for you and your loved one and congratuations on giving birth to Hiro. Really adorable baby, may he have a bright and long future with his two lovely parents.

My grandparents on my mom's side only knew each other for 1 month before getting married, and they stayed together until my grandfather passed away after over 50 years of faithful marriage and raising 4 kids together. So I have a personal example that knowing someone for years and years before committing to each other is not the only way to have a good marriage. Best to you and your marriage Asagi 👍

I agree: 5 months isn't long enough to know someone. Hence GETTING MARRIED lol. Asagi has plenty of time to get to know her husband after marriage.

Oh, got it now! I believe that if each other has the expected requirements for a life together as goal, why not give it a try? Like, how much time is enough to know someone? 10 months? 10 weeks? 10 years? Nobody knows!

Thanks! and i’ll always enjoy your KZfaq videos hopefully you and Justin are doing good 👍 be safe

In the end, you have to make your choices on what you feel is good for your life and what makes you happy. Walk the path and see where it takes you. You can listen to the opinions of those close to you, but you have to pursue what is in your heart.

Asagi-chan, I'm actually happy for you, your husband, and your newborn child. I think you're building a wonderful family, and you deserve a lot of love and support in this new chapter in your life. As a guy who's been single my entire life and never had a romantic date but has no regrets, I'm just disgusted by other single guys who are too quick at criticizing your marriage. Just ignore those haters, stay strong and you'll be alright ❤

Wishing you all the very best, Asagi. Don't listen to negatives. Only the positives. X

You're both lucky to have each other 🙏 Wish you all the best as a married couple and soon to be parents. Exciting times ☺️ There always going to be negative people judging, but as i always say, It's their own issues and frustrations they project on others. Also side note: Happy to see Bird Up on the board keeping it up for the OG boys 💪 Wish i could join the streams more often. Miss my people, Take care now

If you don't want to be judged, consider not exposing your personal life on the internet.

obviously the only valid criticism is: why didn't you marry me? 🤭

Why would viewers leave your KZfaq channel? I love hearing what you have to say. And typing in on the chat. Say hello to Justin and all the best with your new arrival!

Lol if anything, you being married is like a certificate of authenticity I should totally expect someone giving advice on dating to be married or dating someone. That's... Why some people are here, to learn more about how to date or get married. Personally, I like your other content, too! I hope you can get some traction back. It's silly that folks ran off because you're happy and married, but sadly predictable. At the end of the day, every relationship is different. It's good that you're happy, whether it took 2 weeks, 2 months, or 2 years. I hope y'all stay happy together till you're gone, that's how it should be.

Congratulations on your marriage. Live your life with joy & happiness.💖

All the best to you, Asagi!

In the end, being happy is all that matters

"I don't care but I will make a whole video about it" Ok. Anyways, my best wishes for you both. There's many ways to do things right in life. Marrying someone after having dating them for 5 months it's ok even if it ain't that common. So just keep doing you.

🤔The problem with some human beings is that they are not aware of their surroundings. They blindly believe that everything close to them is the whole world with all its details and intricacies. But not. Most of the time, it's just a couple of blocks from them houses and a very small group of so-called friends on Facebook. It is the mania that most people have these days, to make categorical criticisms with a very small portion of information. They are capable of making a fictional trilogy if they set their minds to it. But the truth is that as detectives, this type of person would starve to death. Everyone has their reasons and motives, especially when making decisions as important as marriage. Those who criticize will never know if they don't live it in their own flesh.

Asagi, There are a lot of guys who have a fetish for Japan and Japanese girls, we often call them "wapanese" or "weeaboo". There are also a lot of guys in general who just have a thing for Asian women which is called "yellow fever". I can guarantee you most of the people criticizing you or leaving fall into those categories. Getting married shattered whatever fantasy they had about you, or they're simply unhappy because they want you to remain single and "available". These guys never cared what you had to say so you haven't lost anything important. Keep doing what makes you happy.

Whatever makes you happy and having a happy life. Screw the other people. I’m glad you’re happy!

Most people are projecting their failures, faults, unhappiness with their life choices, and internal negativity onto other people through their messages online. They see a happy person and they want to tear them down. Even if they don't say it or think it. As much as you can, try not to let these comments and criticism bother you, Asagi! Your Asaginators are with you!

No worries Asagi about the shrinking viewers. It's only for a season. More will continue to join because you have good content. I think the viewers who left were only crushing on you and not your message. Let them go haunt someone else hahaha. But as for your faithful viewers, we are here for you regardless.💛🎉

A friend of mine has married after like 2-3 months of meeting his partner, another married only after the second child and waited several years. Both marriages work great. Some people connect nearly instantly and some need time to develop the relationship over time. Do whatever works/feels best for you.

I have learned that as far as relationships one should be very careful to generalize. Every person is different as so are relationships. You can meet someone who seems to be a perfect match, take your time and get to know them before tying the knot and it can still all fall apart eventually. People do change. Then sometimes you can meet someone for the first time you just know it is the right one... What's important is to listen to those close to you and at least consider what they tell you, don't let your relationship isolate you from family and your social circle and never get too comfortable. It's a constant nurturing that's needed to keep a happy marriage. Good luck!

No one has the right to criticize your marriage! It's your life and people must respect whatever your decisions are. We support you 100% Congratulations on your Marriage!

I have just diescovered your chanel. I do follow some YTUBE channels focused in Japan. I know that I am late to the party. But as I have gotten older (60+ years), I have realized that you can get to know somebody very well within a couple of months. My experience is that the vast majority of people (men and women) are solid steady individuals. Your antenna can pick out sociopaths. As I have gotten older, I am now of the opinion that long courtships are detrimental to having a long-lasting marriage. Long courtships are an excuse to do nothing in a relationship. The most important thing is if both sides to be married and make a life with someone. That determines the success of a marriage, not the length of your courtship. Keep up the good work.

I wouldn't say it's shrinking, I think your viewers are switching from quantity to quality. I personally started to watch you more and more lately exactly because of you sharing your life with us. Isn't it sad how people just hate on international relationships? I'm in one with a Japanese person so boy I heard it all already, all the judgement and prejudice and stereotypes so I get it can be frustrating but I'm trying to take an example from you and try to not get bothered by it. If you are in an international relationship I learned that you just can't listen to people because you will have people all in your business for some reason. I still struggle with our cultural and mindset differences so I'm trying to watch people who are also in international relationships because other people will just not understand how different it is. Thank you for adressing these issues, it gives people like me courage and hope.

Your life, your marriage, your business. I'm happy that you share parts of your life with us. It's all good.

I'm happy you found love and got married. ❤❤

I Kind of understand why they giving you the criticism as a Western guy getting married and having kids below 5 or 6 mouths its very taboo here but a Love is love Hope ya family going Great

Congratulations on your marriage! Don't worry or listen to the haters. Many people think they have a high moral ground and use that to judge others when in actuality they are being petty. You should just do what makes you happy as your life is yours alone. If people start listening to everyone ans care for what every single person says, we'd just suffocate and live with regrets. Just be happy and live life without regrets. Hope you have a wonderful married family life ahead!

As long as if you are happy who cares what others think. Congratulations!

glad to see how things moved fast for you :) happy you found someone who makes you really happy

I'm sorry you're getting so many hate/critical comments. Glad you are living your best life anyway!

What's sad is that when female content producers get spouse they lose subscribers and get hated on.

So far I love the advice you've been giving. I'm new to your channel but I'm so happy I found it. I'm watching all your videos in search for one that might be helpful to me on my situation. Ive enjoyed each one so far. Do you have any videos that advise how to find someone in Japan? Ill keep watching,,

Love your thoughts on this, they really resonate with my own experience! I also love the small Japanese expressions that come out sometimes when you talk. 😊

Kudos to you on a very mature and thoughtful response to those criticisms. And congratulations again. Happiness is all yours to keep and nothing you need to justify or defend.

Congratulations for your marriage! I wish you the best for you and your family. And I like your Chanel. 👏

I am very happy for you and your husand and child. Congratulations for having a wonderful family together.

Have a wonderful day, Asagi, and I hope the conclusion to your pregnancy is as easy as possible.

I know I’m a year late to this, someone judging you for a decision that doesn’t affect them personally only makes them a loser. Keep up the excellent work 👏👏👏👏

Congratulations! Lots of guys probably watch you hoping to meet and date you. They are jealous. The worst part of living is being alone. Now you have someone. That's really all that matters. You have a great attitude and u wish you well!!

Asagi gives me hope, I will strive to be the best I can be and hope to be a good person

I’m glad you’re happy Asagi, foreigners are very sweet people to Japanese women.

I’ve seen some of the comments, much jealousy and envious they are.

Big congratulations for three of you. Happy Baby Boom and Marriage. Japan need many open minded English speaking woman with 2-3 kids. Good luck and good health, lots of love and empathy. Please treat each other with 100 % honesty and kindness. Its easy to be good. If a man get fully respected without demanding crying baby wife the will treat you as a princess forever!!!!!❤

My dad ask my Mom to Marry him 3weeks after dating her . They had 7 kids and were married till his death!!

Asagi, forget about the haters, do you and I wish you all the happiness in your marriage even though you said you were already happy.

Im an American guy and met my wife while I was living in Japan (Japanese of course). We dated for less than a year before getting married. It will soon be our 20 year anniversary. When you know it.. You know it...

Your happiness matters. I wish the critics will find the same happiness in their lives.

What’s crazy is I JUST saw a video about a Japanese weather girl who basically got cancelled because fans found out that she had a boyfriend. I don’t understand… Japanese women deserve happiness too, regardless of fame.

If they unsub simply because you got married and will start a family, they weren't truly here for you. For me personally, yes I understand where they're coming from, but I've heard stories of people getting married almost immediately because it just felt right. Sometimes the relationship last, sometimes it doesn't. I always hope things work out regardless and that the couple will be happy together. We don't need more negativity in the world. Wishing you the best Asagi~

Asagi ... Always remember that you are an incredible person! No matter what happens.

You said you are happy and that’s all that matters! 👍

I know that I'm *extremely* late (I only found out about your channel a few minutes ago) and that you probably moved on, but I will still want to say a few words. This makes me so sad, why can't people just be happy for you? Especially when you have such a huge announcement like getting married. So many people either assume the worst or get jealous and it's annoying!!

Perhaps it's semantics but I think it's good to expect your relationship to last forever. However, you may not be able to predict how your relationship will be in the future.

Very very happy for you Asagi, continuous blessings 😇🇹🇹

I think it's great you are happy and i wish you two (for now two) many blessings and much happiness going forward ❤

Now this is BS. The viewers were told out of nowhere of being pregnant for many months. Then told of the new guy and upcoming marriage. This would disqualify any person on giving advice on relationships. As it was presented in reverse. A bit like getting advice from a homeless person on house ownership. The viewers did not get to hear what made new guy so special to abandon common sense and what lowered her projected high standards. That is why viewers left.

I’m an lonely person as well and sure at times I’m jealous of other people’s marriages but that doesn’t mean I can go around saying terrible things to others that’s one way to show your not ready to be marry if you’re jerk to other people. Sorry to hear your dealing with difficulties but sadly that is life don’t let it ruin what gift you been given enjoy it to the fullest and remain faithful.

I have no criticisms asagi, I congratulate you to your marriage cause I know you had to put a LOT of thought into it, it's not an easy decision my love (not as in MY love, you're not my love 😂😂 it's a kind saying in united kingdom it's a kind gesture we say) but yeah it's you're life, not anyone else's so please don't let them put you down 🎉🎉❤❤😊😊

LOL I met my future wife through a mutual friend, we dated for three months, then got married. That was 36 years ago. Gambatte!

Congratulations I hope for the best for you and endless happiness and joy

i used to judge people, but now that its happen to me or because i know of 1 or 2 times it worked out its ok now LOL...i dont use dating sites and i judge people for it even though i said hey if it works it works

How long were you guys together before you got engaged?

How rude. Some people can truly be pathetic. I'm hoping that the people saying bad things are young and immature, otherwise I don't know what possible excuse there could be.

My wife and I dated just a single month before getting engaged. We got married one month later. We are now 8 years into our marriage and life has never been better. There are no rules to relationships beyond what makes sense for you and your partner. No two people are alike, and so there will never be a one size fits all approach to love.

Congratulations on you pregnancy and marriage.

You are as elegant as always. It's amazing!

Many blessings to you sister. Ignore those jealous comments.

You're beautiful, and a wonderful person. Those haters are just jealous that they aren't married to you. I wish you all the best. ✌

Those criticisms are kind of silly. Everyone is different and has different experiences and goals. For two people who know exactly what they want and are on the same wavelength in terms of future plans getting married quickly could very well be a great choice for them. While some people wouldn't be ready for marriage after 15 years of getting to know each other.

It is your life, and what you are doing isn't actually harming anyone, so live it the way you want! Other people's opinions are worthless. Maybe its American of me to think this, but its how I live my life!

Just because you’re on KZfaq it doesn’t mean your personal life is our province. Your personal life is none of anyone else’s business - you do not need to justify your life decisions to us, or anyone.

Congrats 🎉 to you & your now husband on your marriage! 🎉 I remain a follower & will continue to watch your vids.

thats just a parasocial thing, those people dont even know how grass looks and care about others relationship

Congratulations! I wish you all happiness and health!

Congratulation for having a happy life. :)

What you are going through is an unfortunate side effect of the "parasocial" relationships on the internet. Truly hope this doesn't get you down, long term. I am sure that many of us will be with you through thick and thin.