Anonymous: Doug's stone age references of lust explains why you were betrayed, but, not how to "get over" the hurt you are experiencing (what you asked). The answer is trust and loyalty is the foundation of true love. Once gone, you can either accept that or move on to find someone not living in the stone age.

another day you two bring me so much joy. i’m only 18 and i feel bombarded by the many pleasure traps of life and sadness about the major tragedies in this world. it was amazing to hear about how a utopian society is incorrect because there is inevitable conflict and problems in life. i guess i just imagined that if animal agriculture, fossil fuels, violence, obesity, health problems, and other problems went away that life would finally be “right” or enjoyable. now i finally realize that having no problems is impossible, and you must enjoy life with all of its problems as it is right now. it seems obvious, but i finally understand why. thank you both so much for all of your guys’ knowledge. i’ve been struggling with depression and anger overall. i’m so glad that i have chosen to continue to learn new info to end delusions (like you mentioned) instead of trying the quick fix to end depression or health problems (medications).

Dr. Lisle keeps upping his game, and continues to blow my mind. Thank you for this enlightening conversation, Chef AJ!

You listen to this man and it's a revalation each time, wonderful

The key question for the lady with the problem husband/neighbour is 'now knowing what he is (liar/cheat) - do you still want him? It appears that he will go with someone that offers (however unattractuve).' The same question applies to the (non)friend.

I could listen to him (and Dr. Howk) forever. Thank you AJ!!!!!

Minute 27:47… spot on AJ!

I find it refreshing that men are asking questions considering the fact too many of them have been told indirectly or directly and in mean, and violent ways stop asking questions in their childhood years.

Dr Lisle is brilliant. Great show as always Chef AJ. I love his wisdom , just can't get enough of him

This was highly interesting and helpful. I love Dr Lisle!

This came right on time. Honestly. I'm trying to kick addictions to nicotine, caffeine, occasional alcohol, have ADHD (and have asked Chef AJ to have a guest who's familiar with ADHD), and I'm about to attempt a 7 day water fast to sort of 'reset' myself. Dr. Dough Lisle's frankness and understanding is really refreshing, and is just the kind of kick I need to take on this challenge. P.S. tell Dr. Lisle or Dr. Goldhamer I'll gladly work for True North if they let me fast/job-shadow and help out a couple family members on their long-overdue health journeys lol

Wow, this is deep. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

Thanks, Doctor Lisle, for bringing some much-needed enlightenment to the issues of infidelity/“betrayal “. Anonymous surveys show that infidelity is quite common in the population, yet most women seem unaware of that. In the male mind, it is not such a big deal.

Always interesting thoughts and perspectives... it's good having him on. Will be looking forward to him coming back with Dr Howk next week already! And oooh, Drs Dina tomorrow, that's exciting :D thank you for these wonderful shows Chef AJ, they truly mean a lot to people, me very much included

Thank you-so interesting!

Great interview! 😍 Thank you!

Dr. Lisle will be back LIVE with Dr. Jen Howk answering more viewer questions on Saturday, May 15tg at 2:30pm PACIFIC time

❤❤❤Wow its crucial crucial thank you doctor Lisle thank you AJ. Thank you beautifull humans. ❤❤❤

I love his laugh☺.

I heard that last meals are usually not offered any more. And yes, they are still executing (often innocent) persons; Europe stopped selling the drug cocktail to us to try to end this barbaric punishment.

Goldhammer term 29:36;; 43:21 husband cheating and forgiveness

predatory capitalism-that’s what we have (with benevolent socialism for the rich)

Wow that men and women part 😳🤔😳🤔😳🤔😳. Truth!

ADHD @ 30:43 ;)

Ewe no on the 25 kids and multiple partners ...... 😱

About your comment AJ that women that are similar size at you don't comment you about being too skinny. Since I lost weight some male friends have told me I shouldn't loose more weight or I'll get too skinny ( even though I still have about 15 lbs left to my slimmest adult size. I'm normal weight now but far from skinny). I wonder what the reason behind this is. I can understand from an evolutionary psychology standpoint why this comment could come from other women but why from men I wonder!

Dr Lisle may have good credentials and have provided insights helpful to others, but certainly not in this interview. I can only hope he was having a bad day here. It appeared he was making things up as he strove to answer questions posed to him. While doing so, he seemed to state disturbing opinions about men and women, the workplace, and fidelity in marriage. What I heard him state was that there competition, but no inequality in the workplace; that women are catty to keep the status quo instead of helping each other; and that men cannot by nature be faithful in a marriage. What a crock of bull. It makes me wonder whether he believes anyone can ever successfully lose weight and keep it off for a healthier life or be true to commitments to themselves or others. Based on this interview, I would certainly not go to him for advice. I would much rather find someone who would encourage me to listen to my better angels and to believe in myself and others.

Sounds like the crab mentality where crabs pull each other down. Religion preaches utopia; however, we know that will never happen on this planet. As a matter of fact, religion has caused a lot of conflicts

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These stereotypes are gross. Stopped watching. Can’t stand watching women tear down other women.

It’s unrealistic for a woman to expect a man to remain monogamous to one person for the rest of his life. . . Ladies, either gracefully except that your man will have some action on the side. Then let it slide so long as he’s discreet, safe (uses condoms), and doesn’t invest any significant resources into another women. Or live in denial like this lady did and be prepared to have your world shattered if you discover the truth.