Special deal 4 bisexuals

Hello fellow bisexual intellectual

I'm questioning and I think I might either be bi or omnisexual. But I might also be asexual? idk. I'm defiantly not straight.

I’m bi myself :(

I AM :)

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What about ✨6'3 mixed race trans girls✨?

@@katwood7120 i think that hello i'm still single??? 🙏 /hj

@@katwood7120 still a 🌈🌸💗✨g i r l✨💗🌸🌈

@ Kat Wood still a 🌈🌸💗✨ g i r l ✨💗🌸🌈

Yes

Yes

Yes

yes indeed

Yes :D

bisexuality in general includes nb! i haven't finished watching the video, but i get really stressed out that people don't realize when i say i'm bi i'm saying i'm attracted to all genders aaaaaaaa

i'm nb too, my bf uses he/they and he's trans, but he's not sure if he wants to identify as nb or male, i'm not really sure about my sexuality and neither is he, we just like each other, i think i'm demisexual but that's difficult to label

@@v4rins0nn seems complicated 😵‍💫

@sewer~rat that’d depend on whether sexual attraction is based on sex, gender identity, or gender expression.

sewer~rat asexuality doesn't in the same way

I think this makes sense idk

Oh yes, that's so true. Boobs made me cringe before top surgery, because seeing them made me "feel" mine. My "preference" for men is becoming more and more insignificant as my transition progresses.

Dude, what's worst for me is that as a transmasculine, dating a guy automatically means you're not a guy. Legit, if you are in a relationship with a man, people will consider this as a straight relationship and my ex saw me as a girl even though I was known as a dude to him for some time until we got together. And I am still kinda insecure when a male-crush appears in my crush list because people will not consider me as a man. It sucks, man. Especially when your friends you knew for a long time does not reconsider.

@@user-bv5qx4ee2r Dude, I'm so sorry that happens to you. Especially from someone who knows you as a guy. That's just rude. Don't let someone else's rudeness dictate your actions, be you. (I know it ain't easy.)

Mutilated women are not men.

jeff i finally found you

@@damon1144 or has he found you🤔

mine was already in space now it’s in a whole other fuckin universe

yo jeff why do you kill

Is killing fun????

Tentative like because valid, but never actually got the chance to even think of romance due to closeting, so...maybe? XD

Still don't as an adult :)

Kinda different but similar But when you LOSE that romantic attraction *screams in Frayromantic*

I’m ace/aro so yup. Still don’t feel any romantic (or sexual for that matter) attraction to anyone in my mid 20s.

Aroflux here and yep

Still sexuality isnt fluid for everyone. Some lesbians will never be interested the slightest in a man and some guys wont ever want to start a sexual relationship with a woman. And thats fine too. Im just saying this because so many people try to take others sexualities away from them by using this as an argument :)

You can't make a man by starting with a woman and subtracting. Women who have surgeries or hormones are still just women.

@@middlemarch5507 you‘re just embarrassing yourself

@@lizzieeverlyn4494 women with mastectomies have not gotten closer to being a man. They're still just a woman who had their breasts removed.

@@middlemarch5507 And not all trans men do mastectomy, because not everyone has dysphoria about it, you just don't know about it, you don't know anything, you don't live it or feel it, you're just a failed fool who can't see people being who they really are, but people like you don't really matter, they're just useless people

Well said👏

I mean, the idea that gender must play a factor to bisexuals, therefore pan is the solution is a little biphobic (I'm not saying you are, I'm saying that definition is, and whoever made that definition DEFINITELY is)... sure gender may play into it for you, but that's not the case for a lot of bi people :/ just thought I'd point it out as it's a common misconception of bisexuality as a whole and it gets really frustrating to hear💀

Yes. And most definitely includes trans in bisexuality.

isn't that being omni? i feel the same as noah but i used to identify as pan.(now i identify as omni) i don't know why the term pan is considered biphobic could someone explain

@@kalki3060 yeah I also identify as omni for this reason, but also bi and use it more for convenience. I think above the person is saying that assuming that bi can't mean "attraction regardless of gender" is biphobic. Personally I think if someone said "I'm bi and for me that means attraction regardless of gender" and someone else was like "no it doesn't" that could be biphobia. But I usually see gender as being a factor or not as the distinction between bi and pan definitions, so I can see how they'd come to that assumption. Personally I think it's fine so long as we stay open to new things and believe people when they tell us about their experiences and labels.

I think we can get hung up on it, because being gay isn't just an orientation - for many, it's also an identity. If I (a cisgender woman) consider myself a lesbian, am involved in the lesbian community, but realize I also sometimes want to be with men...can I still be involved with the lesbian community? Will I be shunned, and if so, then what, because I certainly don't feel comfortable in the 'straight community' as it were. There are plenty of people who identify as straight, yet sometimes enjoy relations with the same gender; they just mainly identify with the 'straight lifestyle' more than the queer community. I think it can be a bit harder for gay people to admit they sometimes are attracted to someone of another gender, as there is a lot of support in queer communities for other 'outsiders', but a feeling that if you're straight-passing, you're, like, taking resources you don't 'need' anymore?? It's kinda hard to explain. Bisexuals not feeling welcome in queer spaces is definitely not all in their heads. Anyway, yeah, being gay is usually (but not always!) about your social identity in addition to what kind of people you may want to play nekkid with, so it can be very shaky to navigate if you have a very defined gay identity. But you're absolutely right - it's just not like that. It's far more nuanced than many people want to admit!

It’s ok for your sexuality to shift and change! Labels are just a way for us to figure out where we are in a given moment but don’t let them limit you

Bro, some people realize their sexuality in their 20's, 30's or later. You are developing as a human and even if sexuality is something innate, most people are not super self-aware from a young age. You don't become an adult and then suddenly stop character development. People learn new things about themselves their whole lives. I recently learned that there are people who discover they have adhd in their 70's. That's something you have from birth and affects your whole life (too) and yet you could be oblivious to it.

Same. I like both. Why do I have to pick! Lol

I discovered I’m bi like 3 days ago and I agree girls r hot

Lmao I just realized technically ur the first person I came out too. Internet strangers are easy.

I turned bi like three months ago lol and I don't want to be straight ever again😘😜 Lets go pink purple and blue 💗💜💙

Oh my god, this totally makes sense to me!!! I couldn't put it into words. I always imagined being in a relationship with a woman, man, or enby in a gay way. I just, straight didn't really feel right for me. If I was in a relationship with a woman, it'd feel gay to me. If I was in a relationship with a man, it'd feel gay, too. Or with an enby it'd still feel gay. I am non-binary and bi/pan. So, really any relationship will feel gay to me.

the way I related so hard

Im a bisexual cis woman and i feel gay for my boyfriend and im not sure why

😛😛😛😛

Right?! It's so rarely a 50-50 split; it usually is weighted more in one direction than the other (& even that can flip sometimes!). You can absolutely consider yourself bi even if you only like another gender 5% or 10% of the time! (It's also okay to have the same feelings but still decide to identify as gay)

same that really made me feel super valid and more comfortable w the label :)

Yea when he said that I was like “shit I’m totally bi” but I feel like a lot of people don’t think girls who are mainly attracted to guys are valid so not looking forward to that.

hey i think i’m boyflux!!

@@mollypeters123 Awesome! I thought I was a demiboy for a while but then sometimes I didn't feel like anything and sometimes I feel very much like a guy, so it's tricky to figure out. Best of luck to you man!

i'm a boyflux too :DD

@@actually_afton Cool! It's nice to see people like me : ] -Felix

Boyflux gang!!

Lol I feel the same about relationship, and I'm also pan

Felt that first part

@@GR4V3YRD sameeee

I think you just confirmed my lack of attraction to women. I definitely see pretty people who I perceive as a woman like a gorgeous piece of art and a possible friend.

Hi other ace!

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Noah is a woman, and women cannot be gay men. That's homophobic. She's bisexual or lesbian. She can't be gay.

@@middlemarch5507 And you are a fucking transphobe. Also plenty of women use the word gay to describe themselves.

@@Harri_James Noah is not a man. She cannot be a gay man. Saying she can is homophobic. Noah is a woman who has mut1lated herself with surgeries and hormones.

@@middlemarch5507 Enjoy being on the wrong side of history. I'll just continue reporting you. I am queer so I know what is and isn't homophobic.

That sucks. Do you have other people in your life who might be supportive? Your mum doesn't get to decide if you're a boy. That's for you to figure out. 💜 I get that this can be hard to live with though. - a nonbinary trans guy who's 30. My parents weren't supportive of me transitioning at 25 but they've come around now, and it wasn't up to them.

Thank you for this, I do have really supportive friends and I'm glad you get to express yourself 🙃❤

The pink in his skin and shirt brings his eyes out

Bi includes trans

@@mandachris7146 I- didn't say the contrary?

Same

Noah can only be bisexual or lesbian. As s female, she can never be a gay man. I'm glad Noah stopped lying by saying she's gay.

@@middlemarch5507 noah is a boy, us he/him

@@3_racoons_in_a_trenchcoat358 Noah is a woman. She her

@@middlemarch5507 noah is a trans man.

You just described me and I'm not even Bi- *identity crisis*

Same

Well, that depends a lot on your hair. Personally I just need to blow dry my hair, maybe sometimes use some hair wax or whatever. When I got my hair cut short, the hairdresser told me how to maintain it so yea, perhaps seek some professional advice? Idk

@@therainbowziege2317 Alright thanks! I’ve been trying different products but I’ll ask when I get it cut :)

@@Pajaroshark Good luck with it