also the fact that she thinks he “ratted her out” - shows that she thinks she’s done something worth hiding 👀

Professionals aren’t always right, which is why tons disagree with each other from time to time but this time the mother was completely wrong lol. Many studies back up that she was in the wrong and no doctor would back her up ever.

To be fair most moms don’t share all the info because you get in shit. I told my doctor my first slept in her own room with a monitor as there’s not enough room by our bed for bassinet. I got a talk about how the baby should be in my room and put a bassinet inbetween my husband. I was like wtf no way my husband would crush our baby as he’s a deep sleeper and has hit me in his sleep or rolled onto me. They don t always know what’s best for the family. It also added un needed anxiety to me as first time mother. She two now and fine. As a mom of two now I m more confident that not everyone knows the best for your kids. Different in this situation as I m surprised anyone would feed a newborn solids.

Exactly. I tell the doctors when I take vitamins and supplements because I nurse.

It said she didn't believe the doctor- so she thought what she was doing was right but also knew the doctor disagreed.

Exactly ! And like don't lie to a doctor that can put your child in fucking danger if the doctor doesn't have all of the info

Ding ding ding

ABSOLUTELY!!! The Mom KNEW better because she specifically lied to the doctor when the doctor asked what all they had been feeding the baby. The Mom said only formula! Then she got mad at her husband for telling the doctor the truth. Then she doubles down tells the Dad that she knows best because she’s the Mom and her hat the doctor was just making a recommendation. Then she told her husband to leave for ratting her out. She KNOWS not to give the baby food and she is doing it on purpose knowing that it’s a bad idea!!!

Except he wasn’t protecting the child or he’d be stopping this woman from abusing the child by injuring them with inappropriate foods. All he did was tattle and then still allow the abuse to continue. He’s an A-hole but not THE A-hole.

@mera8785 well he did fight with his spouse and fed the child formula anyway. He isn't "allowing" this abuse to happen.

Yeah I was surprised at that, the mom was literally told several times to stop

She got herself in that dangerous place by ignoring medical advice regarding a two month old. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.

@@teenelf Did you ignore the entire ending of this video?

@@teenelf problem is that she probably has postpartum disorder (it sounds a lot like it) and she need psychological help. yes she is at fault of her actions but she cannot understand the problem properly.

@@ctr-alt-delete Unless she acknowledges there's an issue, which it seems she won't do, no one could anything about it. So the focus should be on protecting the child. You cannot help someone who doesn't want to be helped.

@@teenelf this can be achieved through therapy. Her husband needs to take her to someone if she's not capable of getting there herself

Some babies eat early, in the sense that they get like a drip of something as a way to start the feeding journey but you're right, poor bub could have some serious issues thanks to that mother's issues

some times not giving them foods can also causes reactions. My son has anaphylactic reactions to certain foods, we have been seeing a leading allergist here in Australia for the last 4.5 years( my son is almost 5) and every time we see them the research information changes because it’s not known why allergies occur. There are many factors that can contribute not just when you introduce or don’t introduce certain foods. In stating all that giving a 2 month old baby solids is child abuse if you have been told not to do it.

The not being treated as an equal parent is probably part of the illness- she seems to be really holding onto the child

Lying to the pediatrician is enough to make me feel concerned for the child’s safety. It’s not always postpartum. Sometimes it’s just willful ignorance.

Or she has post natal depression or psychosis and is paranoid

Can you link the story please?

I was the same, mostly soft stage one liquidy food then id gradually mix in rice or oats as they progressed. My first born didn't eat solid food that needed chewed till he was almost one

She isn't bold.. she is probably suffering from PPD or postpartum psychosis.

@@iaintbeendroppingnoeavessir I agree with that but she still lied so she knows she was wrong postpartum they don’t see what they are doing wrong

The baby is being harmed - depression or not

You can or should call CPS even with PPD (where you feel harm to child continued) The service isn't meant to just come in and take the baby/child away but ideally assess the situation and if able, to offer appropriate support.

Thank you for saying this. Feels like most comments are very negative towards the mom. Dont get me wrong the child needs to be protected but the mom is not able to help herself at the moment so all this judgement feels very unfair.

@@sonias1693 bringing danger to your child even when the other parent tries to protect it, start an argument to risk the health further, that is unfair. I would take the child away if that would have been my partner.

@@Mys482 and that’s exactly how long term damage occurs. Even in post partum psychosis they babies are often kept with mum because of the long term benefits What this husband needs to do it get proper medical advice and support- and support her through her recovery. A happy mum is a happy baby

Im sorry but hurting your child because youre hurting is 100% not an excuse PTSD or not

@@sarahdavis1611 you have no understanding of mental illnesses how they work I see.

Yes I have Postpartum Depression and pretty much wanted nothing to do with my baby till I got help. Because of the stigma around it I was so scared to get help so I'm glad they had sympathy for her she obviously is struggling and needs help. Some of these comments bashing that poor mom are so sad because it really shows that there's still a lot of stigma around PPD and people don't understand how hard it is and how it really does make you do crazy things because you aren't yourself when you have it. I wish more people were understanding like her maybe people wouldn't be as scared to get help if people would just take a moment to maybe get educated and try to understand instead of bashing people who are struggling with mental health in general. It is not our fault that we are struggling 💕

the biggest problem in society is that once you become a mother nobody gives a fuck about your health or needs. you could litterally be rotting alive and bleeding from every hole in your body, but you'd still be scolded for going to the hospital and not staying by your offspring 100% of your time. people then have the audacity to wonder why less women are having kids these days.

eek thank you!!

Thank you for at least understanding how serious PPD is and how dangerous it is instead of bashing the mother...I'm seeing so many people in this comment section bashing the mother and it's sad. As someone who was and still is struggling with PPD I already feel crappy for how I was before I got the help I needed and seeing people bash another parent who has it makes me feel even worse and I'm sure if this mom got the help she needed she feels like crap too and if she saw how people were bashing her I just know it would make it even worse and possibly throw her back into a state of depression. So yea like I said thanks for not bashing her like most people seem to be doing

@@Demonic_kitten of course! Everyone deserves some grace after delivering because it can really do a lot to not just the body BUT the mind as well. I suffered from postpartum rage and everyone thought it was in my head so I know how being dismissed can feel. She needs help and if she’s not willing then dad needs to do what’s best for the baby regardless of what mom feels is best.

Thank you! Finally someone with logic around here

there is no help for ppd. thats the thing.

So happy you're loving it

He should also protect his wife! She is clearly not well

I don't agree breaking up with her and taking the baby is the worst thing to do this mom needs help and support from loved ones and fast. This mom definitely has PPD and as someone who had and still kinda has postpartum depression I do sympathize with her because it's hard. For a long time I wanted nothing to do with my baby at all and my family had to help out a lot until I could find a therapist. It's hard before treatment especially I'd you are so deep into it like that mom and don't k ow you have it. Once I started getting help I got so much better all she needs is help as in therapy. PPD is so so tough and having been through it I feel like absolute crap and I'm sure if that mom got help she does to. It doesn't help when people bash you over something that you couldn't control cause you can't control if you have ppd or not especially if you don't know the signs of it. Long story short people shouldn't bash her because she's obviously struggling with her mental health just as I did and still am because I too was bashed by everyone for being a bad parent until we found out that it was PPD and I got help and some people still don't understand and it makes me feel even worse and doesn't help. I'm sure this mother feels the same too, sorry for the long reply and rant I just need people to understand that PPD is super serious and that you fo have to be at least a bit understanding of people who have it because we are struggling and don't mean to cause harm especially not to our little ones but PPD makes us do crazy stuff and we can't always control it until we get help. As I said all she needs is help and from experience it can be scary to get help because as the mom was saying she had a genuine fear that her child would get taken away. I had a fear of that to it took a big argument and the cops to be called because I tried to run away to make me go to the hospital before so I could get the help I needed. I was scared just as this mother was, I'm getting better but I still struggle every day. There are days where it's hard to even force myself out of bed, I know that's a lot about my situation but I tell my story so people can maybe slightly understand the struggle people with PPD go through. Again sorry for the long reply just want people to understand how tough and serious PPD is so people stop assuming people who have it are just terrible parents and think we deserve no sympathy whatsoever because it really is super hard it literally warps your mind and makes you well not yourself at all.

@@Demonic_kitten doesn't matter if she's suffering from a mental illness, it's still not a safe environment for that child, especially if the mother is lying about the child diet, if the guy loves his wife then maybe they could work something out till she see's someone about her behavior and gets a diagnosis (like maybe a family member can temporarily look after their baby)

@@samcurtis9568 I do agree that the mom should not be with the baby unsupervised I'm just saying that the worst thing that dad can do is leave her all alone. PPD literally warps your mind and perception of reality. It causes you to do stuff you wouldn't normally do because you aren't yourself. I just hate all these comments bashing the mom and saying he should break up with her when that is just the worst thing to do.

@@Demonic_kitten She’s sending him away because he told the doctor she wasn’t being truthful. While I agree that he doesn’t need to break up with her, but he needs to protect the most vulnerable one first, and then focus on her. And he really shouldn’t leave her alone with the baby for now, maybe he could ask her or his parents to come help them for a while.

My family did that too , if we see a baby is struggling sleep or colic we give them 1 oz of tea and always help also around 4 months we give them a bit of soft food like caldo de pollo or avena

The thing is, taking the baby away from the mother is the last thing that should be done. The wife needs help and support, and the husband taking bubs away and expecting her to get help without being there to support her through this, will just end up being disastrous. Especially when she's feeling like she's failing her daughter. What the husband needs to do is take her to the doctor and be there and just listen. Bring family who the wife trusts to come into the home to help and support while she is getting help. I just hope the husband gets that, because she really needs him right now and not for him to leave her by herself

@@suziarcher1260 When I say the child should not be in her custody, I mean that based on what she said she would be put in in-patient for psychiatric care. I'm not saying that the husband shouldn't support her and make sure she sees the baby but at this stage her well-being is important and what she is doing is dangerous and harmful to the child. Yes OP should make sure that she feels supported and loved, but he shouldn't put the child's safety at risk to do so.

Who says he's putting the child at risk by staying, being supportive and bringing in family she trusts to keep an eye on her and bubs while she is getting help? Leaving her with bubs while she does it alone is NOT helping her. It's abandonment and the last thing she needs. PPD is a serious thing and needs to be done right. Going to his mother and getting her to take the baby away was the worst thing he could've done. Why didn't he reach out to her mother? Speak to a medical professional of his concerns who would've guided him in the right path? Leaving her by herself is not supportive. It's abandonment. She needs help, love and support from her husband and family who need to be around her and he's going the wrong way around it by leaving and taking bubs away.

@@suziarcher1260 she needs support but that child should not be in the same house as her, there's no way to ensure the level of supervision needed to make sure this very vulnerable baby doesn't get seriously hurt. Feeding, bathing and sleeping all have potential risks she isn't well enough to understand. She likely won't remember this time very well and will be glad in future that the child was protected.

@@cfor8129 so does that mean that every parent who suffers from PPD should have their child removed from their parent? Because they could be endangering their child, even though they can get family to move in and SUPERVISE instead of leaving them alone and wanting them to get help but not being there?

Someone else in the comments said There was and update the mom ended up going crazy when the husband tried to take the baby to his parents house, she ended up in the hospital with ppd psychosis. I feel bad for her hope she gets the help she needs 😔

@@aduckofsomesort as someone who had and still kinda has postpartum depression I do sympathize with her because it's hard. For a long time I wanted nothing to do with my baby at all and my family had to help out a lot until I could find a therapist. It's hard before treatment especially I'd you are so deep into it like that mom and don't k ow you have it. Once I started getting help I got so much better all she needs is help as in therapy. PPD is so so tough and having been through it I feel like absolute crap and I'm sure if that mom got help she does to. It doesn't help when people bash you over something that you couldn't control cause you can't control if you have ppd or not especially if you don't know the signs of it. Long story short people shouldn't bash her because she's obviously struggling with her mental health just as I did and still am because I too was bashed by everyone for being a bad parent until we found out that it was PPD and I got help and some people still don't understand and it makes me feel even worse and doesn't help. I'm sure this mother feels the same too, sorry for the long reply and rant I just need people to understand that PPD is super serious and that you fo have to be at least a bit understanding of people who have it because we are struggling and don't mean to cause harm especially not to our little ones but PPD makes us do crazy stuff and we can't always control it until we get help. As I said all she needs is help and from experience it can be scary to get help because as the mom was saying she had a genuine fear that her child would get taken away. I had a fear of that to it took a big argument and the cops to be called because I tried to run away to make me go to the hospital before so I could get the help I needed. I was scared just as this mother was, I'm getting better but I still struggle every day. There are days where it's hard to even force myself out of bed, I know that's a lot about my situation but I tell my story so people can maybe slightly understand the struggle people with PPD go through. Again sorry for the long reply just want people to understand how tough and serious PPD is so people stop assuming people who have it are just terrible parents and think we deserve no sympathy whatsoever because it really is super hard

@@aduckofsomesort yes. Even if she killed her baby I would have sympathy for her. Psychosis isn’t something you have control over. I’ve met women who have killed or seriously harmed their baby due to post Partum psychosis (as well as harmed others due to normal psychosis). Many truly believe their child is better of dead, or is evil (usually related to whatever culture or religion they are from) etc. Anyone in that position would do the same thing. It’s sad their partners and the system fail them and let them get to that point

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@@jennymcevoy4734 "My mom just picked up the baby. My wife went ballistic. Screaming at me, my mom, told her she was kidnapping our daughter and she didn’t have her permission to take her. She’s currently locked herself in the bathroom and I’m waiting for someone to come over. I called the crisis hotline and they are sending someone our way. She seems to be crying and also cussing me and telling me how awful of a husband and a father I am. I want my wife back. We don’t talk to each other like this. I love her and our daughter. Hopefully this works itself out so I can give my family back."

@@mariacamila5307 damn, thanks for the update. Sounds like potential ppd and I hope this family gets it sorted.

Exactly I'm seeing so many people bash this mother and as someone who was and still is suffering from PPD it's sad to see (I'm on the road ro recovery and doing much better now) I'm sure if this mom got the help she needed she probably feels so terrible for the way she acted like I do and if she were to see all these people bashing her it wouldn't help at all. Heck as someone with PPD I feel even more terrible about how I was before I got help because people just don't understand what it's like and resort to bashing and like you said it's putting even more stigma on the subject of PPD and causing people who think they may have PPD to not want to get help because they're scared of being bashed and judged. Thank you for being someone who actually cares and not bashing this mom who's obviously struggling with PPD

@@Demonic_kitten I'm so sorry you had to go through that! I honestly think people just judge and talk shit, pushing a villain narrative, more than they listen and try to understand what others are going through. I don't know you, but you have to be strong to get through the other end and get the help you needed. It's just sad others will be struggling more because of these kinds of attitudes.