AITA For Telling My Sister She's The Reason Our Family Hates Me

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AITA For Telling My Sister She's The Reason Our Family Hates Me

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AITA For Telling My Sister She's The Reason
Our Family Hates Me
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@Justicar2503 Ай бұрын

So, brother tries to help sister, she throws in under the bus to save her own ass and makes family ignore OP. Sir, not only you are not the AH but your patience and desire to help he were legendary.

@Maninawig Ай бұрын

NTA. But, I would actually get a hair follicle test done, then ask a lawyer to write a notice of action against your sister. Have him note that you will sue for defamation if she cannot prove that she has not taken drugs through a follicle test. This will raise chaos in the family, but as your claims are legit, it will prove to your family that she has been manipulating them. At the very least, you can drop the case after getting the peace of mind of them knowing why they won't be invited to the wedding.

@goatlover6312 Ай бұрын

If I recall a defamation lawsuit only works if you can prove that the defamation has caused you financial harm. As far as I know being disowned by one’s family would be considered a family matter by the courts.

@Maninawig Ай бұрын

@@goatlover6312 1. I said you can sue, not that you would win. 2. A good lawyer would suggest OP goes to a therapist, which would add a medical bill, there is also loss of reputation, threət to lose your job, etc. Those were all dome by being falsely accused of doing drugs.

@annaptakova3242 Ай бұрын

If I were op I would at least consider screenshoting that conversation and sending it to my family.

@legiontepes3474 Ай бұрын

Nta. Ngl op's family is as bad as the sister. He's better off without them.

@cloclworkdragon4074 6 күн бұрын

NTA if she's willing to lie about her addictions what else has she lied about and blamed it on you

@notyqehute5567 26 күн бұрын

there an update ?

@threadtales77 25 күн бұрын

so far there are no updates

@notyqehute5567 25 күн бұрын

@@threadtales77 oooh so sad, i wish that none of the family are invited

@ultraboy2669 Ай бұрын

ESH, OP isn't an AH but i disagree with keeping quiet and accidently enabling her substance usage, i understand the intent but they were misguided, the sister for lying, and the family is easily the worst party here OP is honestly better off without them at his wedding or in his life

@The-Voided-One Ай бұрын

I don't agree with the ESH. The sister and family do but the OP's actions make sense. OP wanted to helps his sister where as he stated his family has given up on addicts so, I wouldn't say it is enabling either if OP was truly trying to help. Also, if the OP did speak up there is no guarantee that if his sister simply said "No, it is actually OP" that they wouldn't believe her.

@ultraboy2669 Ай бұрын

@@The-Voided-One i get u but i really don't like the idea of just staying silent for someone's addiction op was well intentioned but i dislike his methods i see as enabling cuz at least the way that i see it her knowing he will keep his mouth shut will probably will her to continue its just a me thing i guess