hello i do hope that ur still doing well wv ur sobriety this woman is very good and helping me wv by sobriety im 40 days sober 2mrow im always thinking about drink but I'm trying my best not 2 drink and wen i really wanna drink i just try and fight it and try not 2 go to t shop 2 get it just stay indoors and don't leave my flat its not easy its hard work 4 an alcoholic but it can be done

How did you do it

@karissans8209 I realized that I was going to lose the only person who stood by my side through everything. He has been the only man in my life who knew I could do better and so I listened. I hated who I was at that point in my life and there really was only 1 left thing to try ...now it is almost 4 yrs sober and I am getting married.

I love this ❤

Seen your post and hope your keeping up the good work. If you've slipped you have my support and just keep trying. I'm doing the same myself.

Hope you're OK still I'm the same battling these demons were better than this we need help off each other it helps so much no one understands more than a person going through the same addiction

@@mrnocomment2576 Hi Mr No, how you doing? I hope your having a good day and your heads in a good space.

Go to AA meetings. They helped me a lot.

Hugs 🤗

I have been there for sure. The last time I detoxed myself from alcohol was so bad. I couldn't sleep right for days and all of my muscles ached. But when I came through it....I knew if I tried again, that would be that. Hang in there sweetheart please. We got u if u need us and never be afraid to call an ambulance. Detox ain't no joke.

Be careful trying to detox from alcohol without medical assistance. The withdrawals can kill.

The key to recovery is living in the solution, instead of the problem! Go to meetings, clean house, and help others!

That’s a good perspective on this subject, thank you

shut the fuck up bitch ass.

hello that's a very good comment uv done very good fair play 2 u rich its hard to get sober 4 some of us and then staying sober AA helped me 2 stop drinking but i get so far up as far as 2 t 6 months and i go bak out drinking but I'm not giving up I'm 40 days sober again tomorrow and I'm pleased wv that I'm always thinking about drink its in my head and won't leave i know I'm an alcoholic I'm not doing t AA meetings anymore or no sponsor but AA rooms has helped me 2 give t drink a break for 2or3 months eatch time i stop drinking i go on about 4 benders a year that lasts for 2or3 weeks but hopefully this is my time now and please god i hope i can stay stopped just like u are doing well done 2 u and god bless pal 👍ps iv just came across this woman yesterday and she's helping me big time and its sorting my head out its good to hear from another alcohol cos we know how things is

@@patricklawrence2207 great to hear from you my friend. Praying for you that you keep on the right path 🙏 I am still clean and sober and working at the rehab centre I went through. Gave my life to Christ and have been married for nearly 3 years now and have an 8 month old daughter. God is good. Try going to a good church that you may know someone at. Whatever you are doing my friend I pray that you will be really blessed. Always here if you need a chat , stay safe

@@richyh1860 that's wonderful how uv turned ur life around that's great uv made it i will be thinking about u as t day goes by how well uv done I'm really happy 4 u its made my day😄yes ur right about going 2 church i used 2 go to a Christian church but stopping going but I'm gonna get bak to church soon iv started saying my prayers every day again i ask jesus 2 keep me sober every day.. i did read all t comments on this video but there was something great about ur comment god bless you brother and u stay safe as well keep doing wat ur doing 🙏

Thank you, Lauren. I am. I have a 2-month old little girl, I just started part-time work again, and I'm surrounded by loving support.

Thank you! I am. I actually just had a child, and I couldn't be better!

Michael Carter` well done. You should be proud of every day. Keep going mate, I promise you it’s worth it.

Wonderful progress! Keep going ♥️

BLACK HOODY same...

Yes me too! I think all four of us maybe soul mates

Renato Galvan I hope you return to being an alcoholic.

Nancy M what? Why fuck you that's rude

Renato Galvan aaAq

Good for you stay strong

Try naltrexone. Google LDN, just to slowly get started. AA is not opened minded yet to this. Which anything that can help people get well from addiction should he embraced by all 😀👍 I have started with LDN because I'm very sensitive to drugs and it made me feel I'll. So I started on 5 ml everyday before bed, now I'm at about 15-20 ml at bed. I can't explain it.....it is giving me a choice regarding drinking...where I didn't for a very long time. Im even able to make better food choices. It going very well. And if I do choose to drink I would take 25 ml an hour before. The Sinclair method. Please all people out there... consider Anything to help with recovery. God Bless, I wish all my best.

Lorraine Linneman I’m so glad it helped you. I’m working on my fourth month of sobriety currently. Couldn’t be happier to be rid of alcohol. 🙏 life is clear & feeling my feelings is easier.

It is very real, Manuel. I hope you are well.

Alcohol lowers inhibitions. Many of us break out of our shell and express things we feel at such a core level. My best recovery tool has been tracing back pain and sadness to its root. And the more it hurts, the more I sit with it.

Flor, I know the struggle. I know how hard it is to let ourselves feel. Here for you. I am only a few months sober myself. I am so proud of you for FIVE! You’re amazing. Work through the whys of your drinking and the anxious or depressed moments that bring on the desire. You can do this. Prayers for you.

@@abby_stewart definitely and thanks so much! This hasn’t been my first try, I went through all the trial and error , so this time I’ve been going strong, not tempted or struggling AT ALL 😂🙏🏽☀️ I do not miss drinking and my life is better without it 💛

Thank you for commenting and watching. I hope this helps.

My Restorative Wellness its a big help. I hope you are doing okay.

Awesome job. Continue working through it. Finding those deeply rooted issues and acknowledging them is the hardest part.

Same here,, the main way of stopping is asking why we need it I have severe anxiety disorder and I drink it makes it worse im managing to cut down to a bottle of vodka and a few cans which is a massive drop stay strong 💪

Absolutely. When I drank every day to the point of drunkenness, I knew how much I was drinking compared to the others around me and I didn't care. I used to compete with other men whom I was drinking with too. Some found it impressive that such a tiny young woman could throw back so many drinks. But it's nothing to be proud of anymore, for me at least.

That was my problem up until 10 days ago. I didn't care if I lived or died. Years and years of drinking, even during treatment. My body is struggling now that I'm sober..

Angelina Munoz can we talk?

I'm exactly the same it's a vicious cycle wake up anxiety craving a beer and then do more shit the next day to make it worse if you wanna speak I'm here I'm going through the same it's always nice to have a friend who understands

If you need to talk to me your welcome

@@abby_stewart guess not. 30 days sober here. Drank for 44 years. Blackouts, forgetting is not worth it. Life is worth experiencing and remembering without the numbness.

I hope you've found your peace Angelina. You'll know you've found peace when you don't need alcohol.

I’m not blaming my ex partner, but he did have influence in my life, being that he was 6 years older than me and I was a teenager when I met him. It’s never wise to assume when you don’t know someone’s whole story. I’m only sharing pieces in this video. 😁

Yessss girl, just keep going! Throw away the guilt and try to identify what’s causing you to want to binge. Are you anxious? Sad? Feeling incomplete or unfulfilled? We all have triggers. But you’re doing well, just stay the course! Here for you. ♥️

I think there’s a clear distinction between drunkenness and going for a walk on the body. Almost unarguable.

Mark Brown Honestly, never seen a bad experience with it. Personally, it’s not for me. But I don’t know much negativity, if any, associated with marijuana.

@@abby_stewart other than it turns people into lazy assholes?

Chantelle Hart girl, I’ve been in some dark places with booze. I’ve blacked out for nights on end, wet the bed, slept with people I never would have even spoken to otherwise, been violent, and more. I understand the struggle and I understand how alcohol can change your entire way of being. If you really are DONE, then you’re done. I’m just about two months sober currently and I’m never going back. It’s too much of a risk and it’s never worth it. Alcohol has the potential to destroy. It robs you of YOU. It’s never worth it to me. Never.

Yh but did u have a support network round u to help cos I literally have nothing just come out a really controlling abusive relationship and using the drink to self medicate

Chantelle Hart I didn’t really have a lot of support. Watch some of my more recent videos hun. And try to find a women’s AA group you can maybe get to once or twice a week. I would recommend surrounding yourself with people who get it. Don’t just isolate yourself. Be with others. Lean on others. You’re definitely not alone.

Yh but I actually don’t have anyone thanks for your advice tho hun x

Chantelle Hart can you find a local group? You could get a sponsor there and this way you won’t feel so alone in this. I so want you to feel loved & supported.