This Is Why Your Ex Is Not Back Yet
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@TheCoffeeCat 2 жыл бұрын
My DA ex presented himself as very into personal development and therapy in the beginning. As his attachment style became activated (I'm secure/AP), he had no more emotional bandwidth for that. When it goes downhill with them, there are no brakes!
@norswil8763 Ай бұрын
I find a lot of people describing their avoidant slipping into their attachment behaviours, but almost every time fail to admit or even realise that typically those behaviours are fuelled by feelings of anxiety from their partner. You say you’re secure, most people are when they enter a relationship, but the thing we forget is that behaviours are always triggered, it might not take much for someone with strong wounds… but it’s always something. Safe and direct communication can disable this, your DA might have struggled to express himself(as my DA struggled to express herself, especially when fully activated) but, carefully and slowly, with love and trust you can achieve understanding and the will to overcome these negative behaviours.
@TheCoffeeCat Ай бұрын
@@norswil8763 Sometimes even all the skill and communication strategy in the world cannot prevent an avoidant from retreating anyway.
@n26c88 2 жыл бұрын
Sounds like my ex - loved me and said we had a wonderful relationship but got bored of our normal life that we were building and wanted to go travelling and be alone. Told me he respected me but could only do friendship so I walked away, he knows how i feel but I'm nobody's option. I set my boundary, doesn't mean I don't still miss him and want him back though
@myrtofeli7340 8 ай бұрын
Love is not enough because no respect , no listening, no healthy communication , no understanding, no compassion IS NOT LOVE ANYWAY !
@norswil8763 Ай бұрын
Love is not enough, correct. But I’ve been deeply in love and also deeply depressed to the point where my mind was foggy and I didn’t have the strength to regulate my emotions, pull myself up and heal and in the other hand manage and care for my loved one. I ended up neglecting her, being defensive and just emotionally taxing to be around. Even the most pure and strong love will not stop the drop of attraction when your person has changed, that personality you loved is no where to be seen and you cannot see them coming back(I’m describing myself here). I don’t blame her for leaving, even though I wish she could’ve held out a bit longer.
@myrtofeli7340 Ай бұрын
@norswil8763 People need to work on their trauma and psychological conditions with psychotherapy and even medical treatment. To realize and admit you have depression so your mind is foggy is the start of a healing journey you need to see through in order to love properly your loved ones and make them happy and be happy yourself. If you only admit it, but yet still don't start your healing journey, nothing will change in your life and you will keep loosing loved ones because they will be unhappy around you. I am sorry for the harsh talk , thank you for opening up with honesty but please do the healing work on yourself to have a happy healthy loving and social life. I wish you the best from the heart ! 🙏💗💫
@loubnalou2785 2 жыл бұрын
Great video Alexis ! i wonder if you could make a video about setting boundaries with an ex (avoidant bcp plus) when they are being too hot and cold and giving you the impression they are more into being friends with benefits type of connexion (eventhough in my case i outwardly said that i am not interested in that) Thank you !
@iamgoddessoflove 2 жыл бұрын
Don't allow the person who didn't love you, keep you from the one who will. 💙KZfaqr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships
@alexislaura9487 2 жыл бұрын
Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together i got help from a great man who brought us back together.....
@alexislaura9487 2 жыл бұрын
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@alexislaura9487 2 жыл бұрын
Wha'tasppin him🤝🤝👍
@a.d.b535 3 ай бұрын
Is it fixable if the ex has dependencies for self-soothing (addictions)? Thanks for covering what is and is not acceptable.
@fabiansutton5072 8 ай бұрын
Hello Alexis - Am i able to apply your coaching to a marriage of 25 yrars where my wife is wanting to seperate? Fabian
@jammies6228 2 жыл бұрын
They’re still having some bedroom fun with the new lover. Wait till they get bored and they’ll reach out for a validation check, if you’re lucky lol
@kelseywhelihan9659 2 жыл бұрын
Anh hát bằng cả trái tim bảo sao mà cứ ngọt lịm như vậy. Bài nào cũng cảm xúc luôn
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