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You doin gods work 💪

bless

totally agree!

Exactly!!

For real… I’ve been both a size 0 and a 14 (even in the past year or so) from either bad habits or medical conditions. I was honestly ‘skinny shamed’ by other girls who were a little heavier themselves, more than I was ever ‘fat shamed’ by a skinny person. So weird. It hurts especially when I’m excited thinking, “oh I can relate to this person, I hope we’ll get along well!” And then they’re so assuming and angry at me. Mostly happens at work too.

@@HaleKelsey1 I had the same experience I was called anorexic in school just because I had a high metabolism which evened out after my little boy was born.

@@farrahfarmer9287 it’s so unbelievable when people are naturally skinny and people do that too 😂 like… they’ve likely seen you grow up a bit and are aware it’s natural- but give people hell anyways to try and *put them down. Hurt people, hurt people.

Yessss, the 3 of them is a great combo

Yesss!!!

Most definitely

Absolutely love them!

Alejandra*

Same!🤣🤣🤣

Dude i was trying to sleep and sometimes having noise in the bkground helps me fall asleep better but when i heard that part i started cracking up in bed with my eyes closed 😂😂😂😂😂😂

😂

I know it is a little immature to retaliate, but she seemed like she didn’t have other options, and it was pretty funny 😂

Same 😂😂😂

HAHAHA you always have the best comments 😂

It disgusting how people think commenting on weight is a compliment. My ex-friends creepy dad saw me for the first time last year and said I looked like I gained weight even though he hasn't seen me in years and I actually lost weight during the pandemic. I only looked chubby because my uniform was too big and I didn't have a replacement and I've always been fairly comfortable with my weight and never been on a diet. A couple weeks after he said that he saw me in a body hugging dress for a school event and offered to drive me home and the ride was so uncomfortable because he kept talking about how I 'looked better this way' and 'you shouldn't gain anymore weight you're perfect like this' it made me feel disgusting.

You nailed it. I was called anorexic and gorger and puker and all that stuff in high school and I was never like that I ended up getting an eating disorder because of that as well as some family tram around food so my weights really sensitive to me and I have a girlfriend whose a much bigger girl and I love her for that and he doesn't mind that I complain when I'm too skinny and she complains to me when she's with your fat it's the way we live with each other and it's beautiful

I was looking for this comment, that story pissed me off so much. Because if don't know everything OP can easily be called fatphobic, when in reality she was just making a point. It just like you said, I will never understand fatphobia because I'm not fat, but that doesn't mean that it's okay to say shit about my body and NOT TO ME MY NAME because of the way my body looks. Specially because OP asked her to stop and she didn´t. I result of fatphobia is people feeling likes it's okay to comment on people's bodies, that includes skinny people, because it's okay cause you're skinny and heakthy so it's not a problem. well, sometimes being skinnier doesn't mean you're healthier...

THIS COMMENT! Sure, as a skinny person I will indeed never know that, but a fat person will never understand that for some people it is hard to gain weight and those comments can be triggers. Society has such fixation on skinny = good than when a skinny person complains about anything related to weight is called "ungrateful" or something of the sort. I know the struggle of trying to gain 1kg for over years without any success. I ATE a lot, more than some of my guy friends, but my metabolism was just too fast. My body mass was low, I always did sports so my muscle aches were BAD, I was always cold, but I had no right to complain because "I mean, you are skinny" Not the AH

Uuuughhhh so true !!!they convince themselves it's okay if the person is skinny, 'it's complimenting.'But then they say shit like 'eat a cheeseburger 'I get that from old people at my work all the time. How is that a compliment???? You're telling me I shouldn't be this size ! It doesn't matter what size you are no one wants to feel like their body is wrong. It's never okay !!!!

Yeah I had that too I had anorexia and everybody was like ahh you have so small armsssss ur so thinnnn you are soooo anorexia oh wow that helps thanks for saying it over and over that I'm to thin I know I am, I live in the Netherlands so kg and cm I was 50 kilo when I was 175 and that's really under weight and for a long time I just couldn't eat and it really hurt me

@@danielleinthehouseee8773 ahh same:( i was 12 years old 150cm and 32kg. I was so skinny you could see every bone in my body. It’s just so triggering…All you want is to be healthy and people saying stuff like this just doesn’t help. Hope you are okay now!🤍

@@raschellakimberly8155 yeah I got more weight now and what funny now everybody says hey u got thic. You should be skinnier. Wow what the hell I'm finally normal weight but now I'm not skinny enaugh what a bullshit, are you okey?

@@danielleinthehouseee8773 people man😐 don’t even listen to their bullshit. I am 21 now and I am a lot more healthier than I used to be. I’ve gained some weight and I feel so much better.☺️ I still have a hard time eating sometimes, my IBS sadly is still giving me troubles but it’s a lot better now and I have an amazing support system around me so that helps a lot!

I have really severe IBS-D as well and during a year long flare up (it was horrible) I once lost 20 lbs in 2 weeks. I returned from covid working from home (my place of work was closed for a while so we all worked from home) I was getting compliments about my weight loss from coworkers. Like, no don't compliment me on that. I suffered and was in so much pain for a year, its not something to celebrate.

Yeah people think they can touch my body and say whatever they want about it because "thin is the beauty standard" so I apparently have no right to be self conscious or offended. It's just so not true. People only like skinny if it comes with a butt and boobs. I grew up in a diverse area, where curvier bodies have always been coveted even before the BBL era began, and was mocked my entire life for being skinny. It's never been a compliment to me and makes me feel like less of a woman when people talk about how thin I am.

No cause I thought they where the same person too

I thought that too. It's weird.

@@anushreesharma726 hahah okay I’m glad I wasn’t the only one 😂😅

@@alpacasecurity9915 🤣🤣

I did for the longest but after like three or four episodes I was like .. whoa 🤯 lol. It all made sense.

I don't think he has a complex about her age, I think he thinks that he can control her easily because she's younger than him. This is why I don't date older men. They purposely seek out younger women for this exact reason. They think they can mould you into whoever they want you to be.

Bro I swear I read a story that was from the boyfriend’s perspective on Reddit too 😂

Simplypodlogical had an episode about this and Ben mentioned an important port that this is the type of behavior that comes before abusive behaviors (if you don’t already think it is abusive to throw away your partner’s stuff). I would cry missing my socks and finding out that my partner doesn’t care about me ☹️

Stories like this make me wonder why people are in relationships when it doesn’t even seem like they like their SO. You’re supposed to like each other, if not, what’s the point?

I’m a med student, and I always wear my fun compression socks! Functional and funky :D I started doing it when I worked at a nursing home where fun scrubs/socks were encouraged, and it just stuck!

Damn KZfaq really got you with the placement 😩

SAME

You sound like a good person which makes you beautiful no matter how you look, though I bet you’ve always looked great! 💖

I relate to this.

THISS!!! thank you . i’ve never been thin a day in my life. i’ve always been on obese side of a BMI chart. However my freshman year of college i was going full time (because it was also my senior year of high school so i had to be enrolled full time to be a dual enrollment student) and i was also working full time with 50-60 hours a week. the work was soooo much for me that i would have so much stress i would forget to eat. i was losing weight fast unintentionally and people kept praising me for how much weight i was losing and how “good i looked now” even my own family when they knew i would hardly have a bite to eat.. but anyways, different situation same comments. they went back and forth in my head when i finally got a good balance between work and school after high school graduation and i gained weight back. i wanted to purposely stress myself out to that point again but i knew it wasn’t right

So sorry to hear that 😢 hope things are better for you now:) How did he react when you filed for divorce?

I’m about 2 years late to comment but I’m really sorry you were treated that way. I’ve heard of men and women being protective of their person possessions but I’ve never heard of a man so intense on how it was decorated. My brothers normally just let their wives decide the decorations and normally if it’s a idea they don’t like they say hey (insert their wives names here as I have 2 brothers) I don’t like this for that reason or I think this would look better over here…. My older brother technically has an office he’s a big computer guy well they both are so their set ups are pretty elaborate on their desks. Dual monitors and computer towers that they built themselves and the works but the office also often has the kids in it too because that’s where their gaming consoles are. It’s the warmest room in the house as it’s filled with all kinds of things that put off heat. I’m betting my brother is the one who decorated it but that involved him getting 2 framed pictures of inspirational quotes, he’s got his kids framed birth certificates (the first decorations that he put up) and some other things including some framed pictures I made for him. My husband literally doesn’t care but he gets to be the one who “decorates” for lack of a better word the yard and stuff outside. Personally I feel like maybe this guy got so made because she unplugged everything. I think she said she went in with her laptop and phone and so I feel like she only needed one outlet maybe and so unplugging everything could have been a bit extra but maybe not I clearly wasn’t there and he still shouldn’t have reacted like he did. I feel like they could have communicated better. I know she told him that she was sick of the bed room but maybe she should have mentioned that she was planning to try the game room as an office. I don’t know much about computers but I do know that if you go around unplugging everything without properly shutting stuff down you can ruin them especially depending on the computer/gaming console. Again like I said though he for sure could have communicated that better. Hopefully I’ve made sense it’s way past my bed time and I’m having a hard time sleeping.

was looking for a comment like this😂 I’ve had my eye on it haha

I was so so cautious 😂 I just didn’t have easy access anywhere else

At least it wasn't just me

Morgan is a pro @ couch wine. Seems like she never drinks it tho. So it's just for stress factor haha

If we didn’t already know they were baddies 😂

Total Ross!

Team Rachel 😂

Why not both?

Oh MY GOD! My ex said we were on a break- and when I said he broke up with me he said ‘no- we were on a break’ DA fuk

"We were on a break"

Hi this is Morgan’s dad on Father’s Day I look forward to coming back on... xo

Same but daily

Same

I’ve been binging and I’m scared I’m close to running out of episodes 😭

This is the literal opposite of honey lol.

i agree like it is completely harmless to make them think they got someone fired

I completely agree that the feeling of self consciousness is similar with both fat and skinny shaming. But as someone who has been on both ends of the spectrum, Fat shaming is different in the sense of how other people shame people who are fat. And largely how they treat fat people. People in general were much nicer when I was thin and when people did comment on my weight, it was often from a place of jealousy or phrased as a compliment. In the rare occasion that people were teasing me for how small I was, it was evident that they were projecting. It made me feel awful just the same, but when I would be fat shamed, it took on a whole different level. Fat people don't get treated the same as thin people in almost any situation. Doctors don't take fat people's issues seriously, retail workers say mean standoffish comments, no one ever fat shames from a jealousy standpoint. Or from a compliment standpoint. It is always mean and meant as such x

@@shannonclarke656 No, I completely understand, I just wanted people to know that skinny shaming is a thing as well. I will NEVER say that skinny people have it worse because we don't. I personally have overweight parents and I have heard the things people say, and I take those experiences with me as I work retail. Retail is another conversation all together, I see how there's almost never anything there and when there is, it's never anything cute and I've seen how certain retail employees treat other overweight people as well. This is why I try and help as much as I can to build up the confidence and treat people with as much respect as I can. But I will still fight that no one should comment on people's weight unless it gets to an unhealthy point, skinny or fat.

@@Baphypathrid 1000% body shaming is body shaming and just shouldn't happen at all. People just shouldn't comment on people's bodies right XD like compliment or not, I've not invited you to comment on my appearance, so don't 🥴🙃 people r wild Nice one for looking out for people :) I wish more retail staff were like you! 😊 And I'm sorry for your experiences with BS. X

@@shannonclarke656 I understand where you're coming from and I agree for the most part. BUT having been on both ends of the spectrum myself I never really had nice "compliments" when I was skinny. They were nearly always backhanded or meant to put me down as "ungrateful" for my weight. I also struggled with health issues because of how severely underweight I was and I had doctors straight up tell me that I should just be happy that I was lucky enough to fall into that category. To be clear, I'm not trying to diminish the issues plus sized people experience but often similar experiences had by crucially underweight people are swept under the rug as "not the same" when they nearly are.

@@andreaeve9631hey, that's what I meant by "phrased as a compliment" even if they were back handed. I was severely underweight in my late teens, got better and am now plus size. I am much much happier with myself now than I was then but my treatment is very very different. Not to mention the presumptuous culture around fatness, being that people presume that I don't like the way I look. Which is wrong. But that's just my experience :) different areas and people definitely has a part to play too x

Yes! I was thinking this the whole time. Such an underrated movie - super creepy 🙈

I thought the same

Definitely abusive behavior or precursor to abusive behavior

Seriously gives me Heidi Broussard vibes 😬

@@udderlylost1178 I just searched up that case and good grief it is terrible. I hope nothing like that happens to OP

This ! Yes keep her far away. I’d go as far to say get another job so she has ZERO access whatsoever!

Got the same vibes, honestly. She has to cut that coworker off asap

I was thinking the exact same thing! It’s giving very much obsessed vibes tbh, it seems like she really is trying to replace and take over her life

It’s as big as an issue as fat shaming, just not as talked about, you can’t be to thin, and can’t be to thick it’s sad

Yeah, and often times overweight people are threatened, treated like they are unlovable, or told to die just for existing. I think both are harmful but they are NOT AT ALL equal. My thin friends have been told to go eat a burger or called a bean pole but my big friends have literally had their lives threatened or told that their significant others are saints for being with them.

then again body shaming is bad in general and you can’t put one on a higher rank than the other bc it’s still wrong regardless. so I hate when people say this like it excuses putting down a skinny persons body.

& fat shaming vs skinny shaming is very comparable and similar. 1. they’re both about bodies, 2. both can be deemed not healthy, and especially in different cultures being fat or skinny might be praised or criticized soooo I can’t find where it’s not the same???

100% agree. For starters the chunky/slim situation I agree don’t dish out if you can’t swallow. 😂 But fat shaming and skinny shaming are equal bad at face value. BUT it’s very important to talk about the fat bias/ fat hatred that society has, in that way fatphobia is a bigger issue than skinny shaming. The argument that well you shouldn’t be fat is irrelevant because people have the right to be fat and deserve respect. I love this podcast but as creators with a platform it’s important that you talk about the whole issue and not just a small part.

@@illmindofbri6807 yes skinny shaming is awful but our points are that for the most part it ends at shaming. Society has a hatred for fat people, fat people are constantly told they ain’t worthy of love, respect, food, adequate medical, and so much more until they lose weight.

I think she wanted to make her seem bad or something by saying she is also a teen mom and multiple times. That one felt weird/degrading in a way or maybe she (the sisters bestie) just ruined other peoples relationships before too idk .

I know this is a year old comment, but I just found this pod and I'm currently binging! This was also very strange to me and I'm surprised Morgan and the crew didn't discuss that part more. The listener said he slept with her multiple times and "she's a teen mom" not "was". So did the fiancé cheat multiple times with an underage girl??? 🤢

As if people aren’t already rude to fat people

Same all my friends say I'm not allowed to be insecure about myself and people tell me that "skinny shaming is not that important" and I have a eating disorder.

That sounds dumb shes teaching kids? Dressing fun for fun!

Same girl lol forever shit on, whatever it takes to get that commission or bonus check 🤣

I literally cried during that episode I was so disappointed in Ross !! Hahaha 😭

Yeah, that's what I was thinking; as a fat person myself, I would never comment on someone's skinniness or say anything like that coworker, but fat shaming and fatphobia have a much bigger impact on society and people as a whole. Shaming people for their body is bad regardless, but very few people- if anyone- would be okay with being fat. Fit, muscular, and appropriately curvy, maybe, but not fat.

i was thinking the same thing. especially everyone saying “slim shaming” like wtf thats not even a thing.

As someone who's been both "toothpick" slim and fat, you're absolutely right. I was kinda disappointed to hear all three of them agree that skinny shaming and fat shaming are the same.

@@jennflores1122 and its extremely insensitive and ignorant to think its anywhere equal to fat shaming. sure, skinny people can get made fun of for being skinny but in the end they are still skinny and society’s beauty standard. fat people are shamed and discriminated against.

@@jennflores1122 lol yeah i am going to compare problems bc skinny ppl need to be aware of the things fat ppl go through. also i have no problems lol im not fat but i have friends that are and the things they go through are horrible. skinny ppl are trying to act like they have it so hard but they need to realize that it’s nowhere near how fat ppl have it. yeah ppl are allowed to feel any way about their body and yes they can get made of. it seems as though you are trying to erase the extreme problems fat ppl go through.