Mate, you need to stress this, and have more posts about this. Seriously

My shock is how many Narcissists there are out there. The world is infested with them.

The sad thing is the amount of good people that a narcissist will bring down before they self destruct

They HATE HAPPY people 🖤

The narcs I deal with are at this point. People are catching on to their dirty tricks and want nothing to do with that.

I'm not a vindictive person, but this gave me a small feeling of peace knowing justice will be served one day 😌😔

As one person said before, “People get very boring once you realize they are a narcissist.”

Pretending not to suffer is what I see. Pretending they’re fine with the outcomes they’ve produced.

It's really tragic. Narcissists are usually born out of abused, neglected, traumatized children who go on to lead lives with lonely, miserable endings. People, love on your children, set healthy boundaries, teach them to be kind, their entire future is at stake

This is true. I’m an atheist, but in my decades of life experience, “karma” always catches up with narcissists. They fuck over the people who care about them, they alienate their friends (because everyone is disposable), and if they have kids, the kids probably hate them. If I were a nicer person, I’d pity them - but I’m not a nicer person anymore.

Especially in old age they go down. because when we age, our bodies get weaker, our looks fade, we return to a childlike state where we are dependent - dependent on other people’s goodwill and kindness and care. And since narcissists treat people like shit, people leave them over time, and they grow old alone. What goes around comes around.

Imagine the total damage they do to our society. It's immense.

They never find peace being alone. They are NEVER on their own they are codependent cowards.

The reason why people feel like the narcissist “got away with it” is because the narcissist did many wrongs and left before anyone that they hurt could get justice. The narc does not give closure. They are cowards that hit and run.

This brought me so much peace. God will cut him down. My job is just to heal ❤️

I think by now, most of us have heard "when they show you who they are, believe them the first time."(Maya Angelou).

Misery is an understatement. They’re literally tormented to their core. They can fake a smile, fake a laugh, fake happiness but when you know, u know. They’re suffering inside. It’s sad the lives they live

Life has a way of humbling all of us, and if life doesn't humble us then death certainly will.

I have seen this to be true 100 percent. They seem to make the same mistakes over & over again throughout their life without self control or wanting to change. Because they don’t see what they do is ever an issue. There’s so many consequences on this earth for treating ppl poorly. You can’t just get away with that.

My ex ended up leaving me a very sad voicemail. I almost felt sorry for him as I deleted it. I have no regrets. Every day away from those people is a better day.

Living well, decently, humbly, and joyfully is the best revenge.

They selfdestruct. And blame you, their target for all their misery.

Miserable people, absolutely horrifying

A lot of narc abuse survivors are missing one vital piece of information... The narcs are missing out on a real relationship with you. You're probably a sweet, kind, empathic person - YOU'RE GOLD - and the narc misses out on you when you walk away. Plus they never got to experience and amazing relationship with you. That's their tragedy.

I've tried to take my mind off the narc entirely. If things go good the rest of his life, if things come crashing down - I'll never know. I don't want to know anything about him anymore.

They pretend to be happy and joyful but underneath they are not happy because they can't feel emotions like we do.

I'm was a victim, but ALMIGHTY GOD delivered me. TO GOD BE THE GLORY AMEN

This is true I bet my narc had no idea I would change my phone number they thought I was just gonna keep putting up with their disrespect, funny how they always say “no drama just wanna see if your ok” normal people don’t start a sentence with “no drama” they know they’re toxic that’s why they say this

Biggest fears of narcissistic person: 1st : death 2nd : abandoning them 3rd : exposing them I've came to conclusion by observing my narc abuser.

"They're kind of losers." 🤣🤣🤣💀

How true! Left a narc ‘friend’ after about 10 years. Perfect example of her: going on and on about this friend and that friend, calling them ‘crazy b*tch’. At one point, I turned to her and asked, “So…how many times do you call me a crazy b*tch when I’m not around’? We eye-locked and there was dead silence. I looked her in the eye after a few beats and said, ‘thought so’. Left her facility shortly afterward. And I lived Happily Ever After.

I so agree. And they leave a trail of people that know who they are. It’s stains everything about them. It’s stinky.

Narcissists always end up losing, always

Narcissists don't have feelings for anyone but themselves!

My therapist refers to that Johnny Cash song often. She also says that for every bully, a bigger bully eventually comes along.

I really like to see more posts like this. It helps the victims of narcissism feel a little bit better . Made my day ❤

Narcs can reach success and have it all; they just can't keep it. Every narc I know has self-destructed and lost it all.

Narcissists eventually fuck around and get found out and called out. I do have some empathy, but they created their situation.

I don’t wish bad to anyone but I truly believe that eventually we pay for the bad things we do in life in special for making people life’s miserable.

Evildoers do not get a happy ending.

Every narcissist I know has a strong fear of death, maybe this is why

Love when they try to spin things to make everyone else the narcissist. Perpetual victims.

"They do what they say they would never do" Story of life!!!

I have no interest in vengeance on the narcissist who hurt me from the past. I actually wish they would just stop bullying themselves.

The narc in my life always got away with it. My mother told me I promise you he will reap what he’s sewn. It took 8 years but Karma has caught up with him. My mother was right!

Even when you think they’re doing good, look into their soulless eyes there’s nothing there and eventually they self sabotage.

Facts! I've Seen this Personally. It was said, "God, has a different type of way of dealing with Narcissists." They are dealt the hand they Lead with!

No matter how high they climb the career ladder, no matter how much money they make (things on the outside of one’s inner self), they’re miserable - not successful in life.

My therapist always reminds me that they really cannot be happy. Like the rest of us view happy.

That's the consequences of their evil deeds by hurting, playing and manipulating the life of some innocent people.

They succeed when those around them support their lies. Say no, and see them falter, see their truth.

I was blindsided and betrayed in one of the worst ways by someone I've not only known for 5 years, but I also helped when they were down. I ignored the signs. The bitterness, the insecurities ... how they went from being a perpetual victim when they were down to a machiavellian, egotistical jerk when I helped pick them up. He not only betrayed me and stabbed me in the back, I found out he took credit for some of my work, he "stole" my story and in the end, he set me up and set me up to be destroyed.... and I was too trusting to see it. I couldn't understand why until I thought of the last few weeks. We were watching the game together, we were having a good time and having a few drinks ... He gets drunk and says "You're an idiot. I'm better than you, smarter too. I never needed you" and so on ...he said things like this sometimes if we were playing games ...but lately he had become more argumentative... attempting to turn any and every discussion into a debate and his insults becoming more common ...comparing everything from bank accounts to clothes ....it was bizarre. And then the final day when it happened. He played it so cool. The night before, I picked him up from work, we shared a few laughs ...and then the next morning ...I was hit with everything and all was revealed ...from second-hand sources. I realized he used me, became resentful of me and then finally ...he not only discarded me because he no longer had use for me but attempted to destroy me to boost his own insecurity-fueled arrogance. He was never my friend, was he? But I know he'll ultimately fail again. He'll end up in the same position I found in him ...when I let him into my home, sleep on my couch and treated him like family. People like him always do. It was less than a week and I already began rebuilding. I have friends and I'm credible. He will drink himself stupid, he'll continue to hurt himself with each betrayal and in his laziness will self-sabotage until he loses it all again. Afterall - people like him never get anything on their own. They rise by using others, briefly impressing people with their acts or garnering pity ...and then they get comfortable, the mask falls off and they're exposed as they ruin everything for themselves and hurt the people around them. Don't hold onto the bitterness. Don't let them corrupt who you are or fill you with resentment. They are empty people. The only thing you should give them (if anything) is pity. If you've been used and/or hurt by someone like this, simply learn from it and move on. That's what I did. Don't let them live rent-free in your mind. Let them go and free that space up for productivity.

It’s true, it gets them in the end. It gets them when they need someone to carry them because they don’t have the strength anymore. Age erodes the lies

This is so true. They may run on for a long time but sooner or later their lies will strike them down.

I saw her walking at 3 am in someone elses neighborhood, looking like she'd been beat up (ironically, she tried to have me beat) . Something made me get up , drive over there and see this for myself. She puts her head down when I go past. Narcs put on a good show, people catch on eventually. Find out she's been "narcy" to tons of people, not just you.

Very true. Nasty and miserable people who always shoot themselves in the feet or get exposed because they can't remember their own lies and deceit. The curtain eventually gets pulled back. I've never met a happy one either. Nothing is ever enough.

The more aware we become the less tolerant we become for people who suck our energy.

Howdy hi hi, Something I've realized is that emotional empathy in mammals is the primary pathway for endorphin release into the cerbetral environment. NPDs suffer from trauma that blocks signals from mirror neurons and prevents them from reaching the HPA axis so they don't have this pathway open to them. But and this is important, they will still benefit if they can make emotions match. But they can't go to where their victim resides emotionally. So they work to move their victim to where they are emotionally. When this happens, the NPD feels elation AKA supply, AKA endorphins. But their empathic blockage prevents them from feeling bad for their victim. So the NPD just leaves the victim there. Which makes sense since it is much easier to make the victim feel bad, if they are already down to begin with.

My brother, a marriage and family therapist, is a vulnerable narcissist. He destroyed the relationship between me and my sister. I’ve been no contact with him since then. Six years later, he sent me a sad, sad letter telling me about his divorce, the death of his cat (which truly saddens me), and how our parents really messed him up. He said that he wished he was a better brother. And he asked that we get together to talk things through while he was in my town. What’s so telling is that he never said that he “wanted to be” a better brother. That told me everything I needed to know.

They fall on their own sword eventually

True.. They are nasty, miserable and cruel people and eventually everyone walks away or dies and they hate being alone.

Right?! Thnx so true my ex narc had it all - didnt want to give up alcohol or drugs or teasing people! He always called the cops kicked me out and Now he is mentally ill homeless and incapable of caring for himself! All that smarts out the door! Be nice to yourself and others no matter what- god and life has a path waiting for you!❤❤❤

I agree . when they play their games . just hold in there long enough you see them trap themselves in their own lies . and then it is comedy how they squirm .

People who are thriving, feel good and actually love themselves don't need to bring others down. Narcissists act like angry wounded children because inside they are angry wounded children. You don't need to let someone have access to you or maintain a relationship with them to be capable of feeling pity for the sad and isolated life they've created for themselves out of fear. Be grateful you don't have to be them.

To everyone who has dealt with a narcissist in their life do not let them rub off on you and you become bitter and evil yourself is just as bad as them. You have to heal forgive and move on.

They seem to be thriving from where I'm sitting and I'm getting destroyed by their lies.

🙏🏾 I pray for protection, peace and swift justice for those wronged by people with NPD 🙏🏾

As they don’t care about other people and have no empathy, they do seem to carry on as if nothing has happened when they leave a wave of disrupted lives and devastated family members and friends behind them.

Their game doesn’t age well. And their prey becomes more savvy with age.

It’s sad all you can do is pray for them ✝️

My ex is a narcissist. Cheated multiple times,would fake accountability, and feeling bad when caught, but even just a few hours after the conversation, i could see it was fake. And she was not taking accountability. I gave her everything, I literally gave her a new life, and took care of her, it cost me SO much, financially, mentally, and physically. But its also put her in a position, she has no where else to go, no money of her own, and she already doesnt own much. Lost a good bit in our first break up, not just items, but all her own friends, and credibility. Wish i had stayed away then. So when its finally over, shes dug herself into a hole she will probably never recover from what shes done to herself. And my life will improve in so many ways.

Yes, and on a smaller scale, their overconfidence and lack of listening to others often means they make mistakes. I learned not to trust their advice, even on simple things like car repairs because overconfidence is dangerous ⚠️.

I was married to her for thirteen years, it was like watching a train wreck in slow motion. For years I tried to help her finally I realized I had to get out of the way and save myself. She finally had breached my trust and I filed for divorce. That was four years ago, I still suffer with flashbacks and rumination. She recently died so I guess they'll never be another Hoover. The whole experience has forced me to learn a lot about myself. I cannot imagine that this will ever happen to me again.

I already see my ex narc self destroying himself. He got bad anxieties, he keeps moving from one job to the next and he keeps moving from state to states. 😳 He is so confused 😕🤔 doesn't know what he wants in life. Always changing his plans. I honestly feel sorry 😔😐 for him. If I was aware of his ways I wouldn't have never gotten married to him... 😭 😢 SAD!

It's a longer fall the higher you climb I always say 🙏

Karma never forgets an address

I 100% agree. Narcs will lose their youth and charisma which plays a big role in luring in their victims. Eventually people will have enough of their BS and everyone will move on. Narcs peak very early in life. Usually in their 20s. Eventually they end up alone probably addicted to some type of drug.

I pray you are right. I do know they are miserable for all the reasons you’ve talked about. Thank you for explaining this horrific mental disease in a way people who have no idea about might understand because most don’t. Including those who should. Police, judges, anyone who has not experienced the vile, evil psychopaths wrath. It’s draining in every way possible and could be extremely dangerous.

Everything you said is true about the narcissist , they hit bottom in their life eventually. It’s important to pray for their recovery

YES brother! What goes around comes back around and they always get what they deserve! Exalt yourself and you will be humbled!

This is very, very true. My x was everything these videos are saying. He was so book smart, had a great paying job and was going up, up up. But there were 2 sides to him. The other was he was a loser. Wouldnt do anything in our marriage. Wouldnt help with the bills, fix anything, Clean up after himself, do any chores like mow the grass or even shovel. I had to do all of this...pay all the bills with MY money, fix or pay someone to anything that broke, clean the entire apartment by myself, mow and shovel. Anything extra like a car repair even if it was his car I had to pay I also paid his car insurance. While i am being run ragged hes out with his money and any money he beat out of me( yes he was a wife beater and proud of it) going to bars with his friends and doing cocaine. If we were together and ran into a friend of his he'd mock me and cut me down in any way he could in front of them. I was told later by some of his friends that he said I deserved every punch I got from him because I was a loser. Yes, me I'm the loser. I clean cut career woman. No drugs, no bars, dont smoke cigarettes or anything else. Cooked home cooked meals, kept an exceptionally clean house. But as he kept telling me(screaming on top of his lungs into my ears) 'you're a loser'. I lost 40% of my hearing in my left ear and as I am getting older it's getting to be more. I couldnt let this 'person' because I couldnt call him a MAN touch me sexually. If any woman out there is living with THIS kind of narcissist you cant let someone like that NEAR you let alone be with them in a romantic sense. Well he raped me 2x in one night. Then after the 2nd time kicked me so hard between my legs I bled for an hour if not more. Couldnt urinate it put me up on the ceiling from the pain. Well I got pregnant. I was so very afraid to tell him. But eventually i told him when I was going into 4 months. He stood there and tore me to pieces verbally. Then when I walked by him to go to the kitchen he sucker punched me so hard in the stomach I went down like a ton of bricks. While he did this he yelled at me saying i told you ( blank blank) I dont want no efin kids. I passed out for I dont know exactly about almost 2hours. When I woke I was still where he hit me and in a pool of blood and a watery fluid. I got myself to the bathroom and I saw I had miscarried and cleaned everything up including the rug. Saw my doctor 4days later and he said I would never be able to have a child. He came home from the bar and never said a word. The next morning while we were getting dressed for work he threatened me ( as he always did) throwing me up against the wall with a knife held onto my juggler vein that if I was thinking of leaving him he will hunt me down like a dog and kill me. And the look in his eyes said he wasn't lieing. So I figured...why should 'I' leave. Went to city hall, got a restraining order, he was served...the whole time him yelling at me hes going to kill me in front of the cops serving the order and escorting him from the apartment. Yes, he came driving by later yelling and 1 time broke my window, threw my trash all over. But he was OUT. He would drive by for a while almost 2 years and call names etc. But he was out of my life somewhat. He was still in my head though. However, I always asked God why, he was going up, up and up with his career and I was doing ok but not fantastic. Well he had a massive HEART ATTACK at the age of 40 and DIED 9 years after I had him removed from the apartment. As a matter of fact almost right to the day. So, yes, I am agreeing with this man 100% about the narcissist...they have their 'time' and then they go DOWN. They fool you when they are trying to reel you in that they are the ONE. The man you are looking for. Our honeymoon was the first time he beat me...he couldnt WAIT to CONTROL me. if you are with someone like this PLAN your way out...dont tell your friends or any family members that he may talk to... Be careful...

Went through this with an ex, love bombed me , got engaged, got scared of commitment, broke it off, got back together then I turned them down once and they couldn't handle it. Best way to heal is go no contact completely

Yes - leave them to God. He will punish those demonic spirits dressed in human body suits. Evil never wins. Gods punishment is them destroying themselves.

In my limited experience, I've only seen narcissists get away with things.

I dated a narcissist and yes he was his own worst enemy.

I hope you're right coz my ex narc bf took off with all our customers from the business we created together over 5 years. He seems to be extremely happy. He also stole & hid all the money we had invested in the business making my life & my disabled child's life very challenging right now as I struggle to pick us up and move forward through the trauma of emotional, mental & financial abuse. I'm now suffering from severe depression & anxiety. He's killed a huge piece of me for his own personal gain. Where's the justice?

You’re so right. My husband was never satisfied or happy in his 73 years. Died after a scary short stint in the hospital

Miserable people , Hurt people Hurt people once you get away FROM THEM you start to forge a new way a better way

This is true. Always angry and jealous. How older they get the more unhappy they become and they can't hide that anymore

He hides behind a business that has constant new supply. Outwardly fake smiles , behind closed doors pure evil. Healing from that took 1.5 years I got out very injured physically and all the rest. It’s pure torture. Karma seems like it evades the privileged with allies & $$$.

What’s sad is when you are surrounded by narcissistic jealous people as well and they all bash you and then say you’re the narcissist. That’s always interesting.

I can't help but hope you're right. I know that's very mean-spirited of me, I'm still bitter and have more healing to do.

Social media feeds into this. They don’t even have to leave the house for validation/ supply

It feels like they win every situation. This is why we have this perspective. We know they will lose in the end, but this lasts 20 30 years until we invite the next one in.

Karma doesn't always come for them. My mother in law nearly killed her husband and now they're living together in the same nursing home with a shared unit. Her oldest daughter died young from cancer and she never she'd a tear, but uses this for attention and pity . . . and to continue to badmouth the poor woman now that she's no longer on earth to defend herself. Being cared for and having her husband nearby has been a lifelong dream of hers - she's happier than she's ever been. It doesn't look like it'll change anytime soon - and even if it does, she got her way her entire life.

They seem to have periods where everything SEEMS to be swell , socially , romantically and work wise , but give it a while , and ALL these things will implode one by one !! There is often a big drama which is sometimes hidden , but they will move on quickly and ALWAYS blame others , WHATEVER really happened !! 😂😂❤️

This is very true Richard. I actually saw one now after 40 years of hell absolutely very much destroyed. They still have the disorder and vindictive way, but nobody goes running to them. Crash and burn. Sad but I'm free and I'm for me now and happy.

This is so true they all go downwards I have seen most of them suffering but they still don’t care

My abusers are all doing well. They have money and seem to be living the good life. Maybe they’re not NPD but just high on the spectrum. Only 1 is for sure NPD and he’s living a nice life with his new supply. I just don’t see them suffering in any way whatsoever. Me, their target, I’m struggling with illness and I have isolated after so many years of hurt & harm by these individuals.

So, so true. They get a very short period where everything is going well, and then the Universe knocks them down.