I remember feeling the imposter syndrome. It took me changing my perspective. I took on the narrative that requests are coming directly from God. I feel that God who gives without hesitation, deserves me to answer the call with a resounding Yes. So now, everytime I'm elevated to, asked to, or promoted to do anything, I take it as God, Himself is asking and accept that he has chosen me for a reason.

"He doesn't call the equipped, He equipped the called"🙌🏾.

I love this!! "God doesn't call the qualified, He qualifies the called."

I love Jonathan's spirit. You did good, Jess! ❤

“He doesn’t call the equipped! He equips the called!” This is fabulous!!❤❤❤ Y’all need to print one of those cute little books of quotes! I’d def buy for myself and gift!!

Jess as a dark-skinned women, I can totally relate to speaking down to myself to not make others think that I think I’m the shit!! Let’s change that narrative and just say “THANKS” when the complements. Keep up the good work!!

yall saying you weren't feeling it but God made sure it reached us nonetheless, I loved this conversation

This topic was so relatable... My depression creeps up on me the same way as Johnathan .. and it's really tough to pull myself out sometimes ,I'm kinda working my way out of it currently... But it steams from comparing myself to others and my own expectations of myself... I'll like to know Johnathan's experience with depression from a male's perspective cuz my bf is the same and how Jess supports and helps him though that season.

Thank you the entire video. I laughed, felt spiritually encouraged, and related to many of the things you said but I love, love, love that you showed that last few seconds of vulnerability at the end. The love you guys have for each other and for encouraging others is so palpable, but like you said there are many lies/expectations/ "life be life-in" moments we perceive & experience that keep us from walking in the "fullness" of ourselves. That's real life, but as we accept these things, have faith & plan forward magic (which sometimes just looks like "making it through") can happen, like in this video. You two are doing a great job!

As always this was amazing!!! Come on Pastor Johnathan ❤😂, that hair ate! This was refreshing and you deserve everything Jehovah has for you!!!

Yes, Yes, and YES!! Church hurt is a big thing. And, the revelation that I had is that being a Christian is literally based on knowing that we're all imperfect and need saving. The church is a hospital, we go to church to be healed. We can't expect people not to be people at church. We have ALL sinned and fallen short of the glory of God. Not to let those people off the hook, but we have to extend grace.

You guys are amazing. Jess, although you thought you were not at your best today, I connected so much with you. I think you had that moment to touch those of us who can relate. You did great and you are such an inspiration.

Not Jonathan's a whole preacher low key! I needed this, thank both of you for sharing ❤

I love the color coordination!!!!

Love the pod!! Keep it going 🙏🏾

I needed to hear ALL of this😭 Thanks you guys🫂 Sending you love and hugs Jess, hope you’re doing/feeling much better.

I'm a big fan of Angie and this is why I started following you... I came across your channel by accident and I thought you could pass for Angie Stone's daughter... she's a very talented neo soul singer ...

God is trying to take you places Jess...just go, he will equip you!!

I needed thissss😭. Imposter syndrome hits me hard! And I'm so glad you guys are both doing this together. I sent the video to my husband too bc Jonathan spoke a WORD (per usual) about believing the lies and us not truly trusting God. He definitely has a calling on his life. Minister Jon lol🙏🏽. Anyway, what both of you said were 100% relevant to both myself and my spouse and exactly what we both needed to hear right now😭. Y'all keep doing what you're doing--you're doing it well🙏🏽🔥🫶🏽

I needed this message: Please keep me in your prayers. Thank you!

Hey Jess thank you for keeping it real, I can relate as far as trying sooo hard to not make others feel a certain way and doing it sooo much, I am like where went my confidence... although it maybe hard to convey , one step at a time sis, you belong wherever God put you period! It's not about what you have it is taking what you have and putting it in God hands, that is how He will get the glory , giving you things that seem to great, and you slay one giant at a time in Jesus name! Although you might have thought this video was of it really help me piece something together God ,bless and take what God wants to give you :)

I love tuning into your podcast 🥰. It’s official fr 💗

You will be alright cause you got God on your side. Both of you are inspirational and bringing more people to God.

2 cents a week got me weak. 😂😂

Im glad you two brought up the expectations of other's. I was thinking about it earlier today because I have this perfectionist habit that can feel overwhelming sometimes. Like I know I'm overthinking but I feel like I need to for things to turn out right. Thank you, this was helpful. You guys take care😊

My church is doing a spiritual growth campaign about this topic! Can’t wait to hear the wisdom in this video ❤

Thank you for uplifting me..... Jess, you are doing great😊

this was sooooo good and funny. I was dying at the part when you guys were arguing about the budget. "two cents a week" LOL

Jonathan is PREACHING! This is blessing my❤!

This was awesome yall! Jess, your transparency down to the very last second of this episode was so relatable and encouraging! You pushed through despite your fleeting feelings. Facts over feelings is what I have to tell myself. The facts in these comments say so many are blessed by yall. The BIG FACTS in God’s Word says you are loved, called, gifted, more than a conquerer, redeemed, created to produce good works, a light and literally to die for… and all that and a bag of chips! Facts above feelings! Keep letting the Lord use y’all! 🫂🙏🏾💕

Thank you so much for continuing to do your podcast really appreciate you two so much you both speak as your well above your ages thank you for sharing 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

This was so nice, y’all were made for this❣️Thank you for the talk ❤

Jess I love all your you tube, I am loving this podcast with you and hubby. I really need to hear this Jess this is helping to adjust myself, I had to change my life to believe in myself. I can achieve in the things that I did not give myself credit for.

This was an amazing episode! Thank you guys for the content. “He doesn’t call the equipped, he equips the CALLED” 🔥

You both were bouncing off of each other and landing perfectly, so don’t beat yourself up Jess💜 this is coming from someone who had to learn how to train my brain to speak positively about myself and your completely right cause even when I had a bad a day and didn’t fully believe the positive things I would tell myself I eventually started to see those things a fact. It’s funny because I’ve been struggling with something for a while and I learned not too long ago that I go back to my vomit (as the scriptures say) because I wasn’t trusting in the Most High fully. At the end of the day the Lord’s will will be done. Thank yall for sharing cause I enjoy the deep convos 💛

This Podcast was so good. the topicwas on point. Power couple for Christ. Keep it just the way it is....Raw and uncut...truthful. It was deep to think about my walk with Christ. Am I doing what God wants me to do or am I running because I not sure or afraid of the outome. I know He Loves me and is my protector and my sounding board.Great Job!

I love the reality and transparency here. I'm older than you two are but i can identify with things on both topics (church hurt, etc. and not being enough). There is a constant battle that we are involved in spiritually, and although we fight it, God is our champion and we're already victorious. Love yall ❤

Beautiful testimony Jonathan.

Loved this podcast. Only recently I realized, like Jonathan, I feel I need to be in control. I always have plan a, b, c and d. Neither worked recently, which created stress, frustration and the realization that I’m so impatient, all because things weren’t working out according to my plan. Well God came through in His time, only after I learnt AGAIN, I need to leave things in His hands and be patient. Now I’ll wait patiently for next week’s podcast😃

OMG! This is so good! “Couch conversations”

Jess, I can relate to you. I want to say that people can see something in you that you can't see in yourself...someone told me that. This was so good. I must share ❤❤❤

I'm not a Christian but I just love yall!!! ❤ Eventhough yall don't mess with us" spiritual people " I respect and replace God or Jesus with Universe and I applies to me! 🙌🏽 ❤❤❤ Thanks for the wisdom Johnathan 🙏🏼

Also Jess I’m happy and so thankful to see how God is using you and your platform it’s nice to see how you handle things also with this topic i feel is something that the Lord has been showing me in a way I need to not believe the lies of the enemy and speak TRUTH AGAINST THEM and speaking the promises of God over myself and the things I do. I pray for you too and that God will continue to use you because there are so many young people like myself and you get that need to see and hear these things. Also if anyone sees this get the book God’s creative Power by Charles Capps. It is really eye opening

As always great conversation and 😊this truly helped me because I’ve been GOING THROUGH IT!

I need this! Thank you guys!!

Not Angie Stone she's beautiful, but you resemble Ledisi. BUT you are beautiful, just like these women, and you're beautiful being Jess. Your melanin is popping boo!

I know that I have posted but this was so good and Johnathan, you made so many valid points. I know that I had to find my worth in God and not man. I love you guys so much...keep them❤❤ coming ❤❤❤

Love this topic 👏🏽👏🏽

Amen Johnathan 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

@OnlyOneJess I wish it was possible to have these everyday. You all are just inspirational because you are real in your walk with God!

Hii Jess thanks for the encouragement your husband talk the trust I was dealing with that similar situation.....give yourself some Grace I say it but I don't give it too myself but I am trying....keep the Faith....sis❤

Jonathan's explanation of control is exactly what I've been going through for longest time even when I know God should be in control. I started reading Joyce Meyer's book Battlefield of the Mind and it has really helped me. I'd encourage anyone going through issues of the mind and the lies we believe to read it. Thanks Jess and Johnathan for all the topics you've shared so far, they're very crucial ❤

Yay!!!!🎉 I love this Jess 😁

I saw it Jonathan...I had to rewind. 😂

Love listening to you guys! Love that you said podcast this time 😁

Jess...Never dem your light to allow someone else to shine....The lie is you are a rock but GOD knows that you are a diamond and that is why you are being continuously blessed...Your husband speaks blessings upon you and GOD has favor for you both!!

Oooo this is good! I need to watch the other ones I relate sooooo much

The way I be hitting the thumbs up button before I even watch in insane 😂

Sometimes we hinder ourselves from experiencing the different dimensions of God because of fear of uncertainty, or because we want to be in control. It’s okay to be in a season of uncomfortabilty because it is in that season we experience God in a different dimension.

Such a good and important conversation. ❤

You guys are are doing great. It’s the authenticity that makes you guys a fantastic team and individuals. Speaking by experience is uplifting and even when u can’t get your mojo going and you turn up anyway is uplifting ❤️🙏 well done guys !!!

I’m late to the party😅 But this was such a great topic! I’ve recently realized that I was trying to live up to my family’s expectations of me. It might’ve not been intentional but I felt the pressure. I also struggle with control and feeling like everything depends on me. I’m still working on giving everything to God🙏🏾

Jess, if and when you find deliverance from not being good enough, please share!!!! If and when I do find deliverance, I will most definitely share!! God's babies need a whole renewal of our mindset!!! We are out here!!!

Exactly, people are flawed and imperfect!

Love this ❤

You guys are great. Please keep doing what you’re doing the way you’re doing it.

I know I’m late on my comment, but just caught up on the “podcasts” 😂And even though yal weren’t feeling it, this was real and we appreciate it because it totally met some of us exactly where we were! But Jess sitting on the opposite side did throw me off 😂!! Ohhh and the 👕!!! Not sure if your washer has an agitator but this happened to me in the past and it was because there was oil leaking from the agitator!!! Thank you both for doing Gods work and pouring into our lives!

It’s good that Jess can acknowledge why she points out those bad things but now that u know just make a conscious decision to change that and it will take time but u can correct the negative behavior

God will put us in spaces and places that take us out of our comfort zones, so that his blessings and the way that he loves us unconditionally will be evident. So instead of saying I’m not good enough, know that you may not be equipped, but he is. I enjoy your podcast and how you guys just keep it real. 🙏🏾💜

As soon as you said Angie Stone I was like waiiiit I see it! Lmao that pic you put up didn’t do it justice though

This gray looks good on you guys! I’m loving the side part on you Jess. The dimple is dimpling 🤭

I definitely felt that way too Jess, like I'm not enough. I'm still surrendering it to God. For me, to see me through God's eye

I LOVED THIS "PODCAST"💕

Yaaaayyyy Jesssss giving consistency ❤❤❤

I really like watching you guys. I could listen for 2 hrs frfr. I will be so glad when we as a people get past this color thing. You are beautiful.

Girlllllll I use to do that . They always say I act like i'm better than people and I don't . Its because of how I carry myself and when I get compliments for my appearance I always try to dum it down so others don't feel insecure around me but me stop dimming my light so others can shine cause at the end of the day people will still be jealous of you for the weirdest things smh. You have to just be you and live for you and God.

I think I might have imposter syndrome too sometimes when it comes to Me rising to the occasion of certain things. But at least you show up and you allow yourself to be uncomfortable. It helps you to grow everytime and eventually you will align with your highest self because it’s inevitable. Just surrender to the process and keep moving while trusting God all in tandem.

Oooooohhhh we getting spoiled spoiled ❤❤❤, grabbing popcorn...sheesh, I will talk when they done😂

I really love watching you guys’ energy!! You guys should definitely do a video or segment about sharing finances as a married couple

Loved this ep! Would be super cool after the topic is discussed for you guys to answer viewer questions/thoughts we have on the topic that we send on ig prior to filming!

Going straight to Yahuah for healing. No church is a place for that.

Great content👍🏾!

Don’t you feel silly when you have a lil breakdown over something then later on are like “that wasn’t even a big deal I was trippen” 😂😂

Girl you were dropping bars

I had too remember the other day that God didn't give us the spirit of timidity but of love,peace and Faith

I learn something interesting every time I watch ur podcast.

10:42 now Jess gurl, uno we saw the face 😂😂

you know what??? it's the smile and the cheekbones! You both have a distinct big beautiful smile and then being dark-skinned makes you resemble her more! If you were lighter, it might not have been so easy to recognise! like, it took me yeeeeears to figure out who Lexi Allen resembled until I watched The Terrell Show and clocked my subconscious thinks she and Jessie Woo must be related somehow! -- and they're 2 different hues!

Chile...thank you guys for the word...maybe it's not you...I need to really believe that🙏🏾

Not two cents a week😂 , that’s how I be feeling too

The touchy moment from you Jess 😊 cute . She didn't even realize. I see the loveeeeee girllll.

If I could double, TRIPLE like this I would. In my marriage, I'm "the planner". But really, it's me trying to control for every variable and not trusting God to handle the situation. And giiiirrllll, the enemy will STRESS ME. I'm working on it 🙏🏾🙏🏾❤

@Stain in shirt... it's probably the fabric softener if you put it in the machine for it to dispense on its own. If you machine allows you to open wid wash try putting in the softener yourself so you can mix it in water so it does catch the clothes directly. If not, then try doing it at the start of the wash and see if you like the result of it going in so early.

Hearing this reminds me of Psalms 46 verse 1-11 one of my favorite verses rest in the Lord God is the one who qualifies us not ourselves God is the one who puts us in places we can’t even imagine trust in Him He will do the rest.

Even at my big ol age of 44, I am working on being kinder to myself. Thanks for this❤️

Man this was all so relatable I’m guilty of imposter syndrome, overthinking, control and stressing about it.

5:37 Amen Jonathon 👏🏾👏🏾

This was great! Btw, it might be your fabric softener staining your clothes. Mine was doing that 😂😂

I like when Johnathan said it’s not your job to be someone’s everything in a relationship. God should be your everything.

Amen God is not going to leave or forsake you