MARRIAGE UPDATE | Our BIGGEST argument, Splitting finances? Managing SEXpectations & MORE

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@FranchieH Жыл бұрын

I can tell that you guys are putting God first in this marriage. So far so good. God's continued blessings on your marriage

@OnlyOneJess Жыл бұрын

Thank you!! 🥰❤️❤️

@taliapink8047 Жыл бұрын

Chile they sharing a lot yall better not act up in these comments

@OnlyOneJess Жыл бұрын

So far so good but I know it soon come 😂😂

@kerrybenskin1887 Жыл бұрын

You guys are so cute....I love Jonathan's mature responses. He sounds like he's ready to preach! Someone give him a Bible and a Pulpit 😅. Jess thanks for always keeping it real 💯. May God continue to Bless your marriage.

@OnlyOneJess Жыл бұрын

😂😂 I could not agree with you more. He’s ready, he’s just waiting on the opportunity

@reinellepeters2062 Жыл бұрын

At almost 6 years married, my husband and I don't have any dedicated joint bank accounts. We are aware of what each other makes and saves and have access to each other's account (minus my vex money). We each are responsible for certain bills and we save separately. I am frugal fran and like to spend time at home, do cheap activities and stash the coins. Then, I splurge on a handful of things for US per year. My hubs like to socialize or be outdoors and when he is in the moment it's, "babe, let's do this or that. It only cost $50, $100..." As you know, this can add up. If we had joint savings, he would feel too comfortable about us having a decent cushion!! And if he was like me, we would never do much because all I would do is work, save, invest save save.This has worked out for us. I remember one time he was quaking because his entertainment savings was low and he wanted to do a trip!! And frugal fran was able to come through for her man!!! Similarly, I really wanted a particular bag and could not bring myself to buy it. That bag showed up and I use it every day!!! I love that you guys find what works for you!! That is what we learnt and what we do. We take advice but ultimately do what works for us. Congratulations on your first year of marriage!!

@OnlyOneJess Жыл бұрын

@@reinellepeters2062 gotta have the vex money 😂😂 but I love that, doing what’s best for you guys and having each others backs in the process! 😍

@kishaward1992 Жыл бұрын

This was a lot of fun to watch. As a married woman of 21 years I have to say that Sex gets better with time. As you grow together your intimacy grows and pleasing each other comes naturally and easy. I hope you too keep smiling throughout your lifetime. Continue to keep God first and sacrifice for each other and no matter what happens it will be easier with your team.🥰

@OnlyOneJess Жыл бұрын

That is exciting to hear that even 21 years later the sexy time is still poppinnn, I feel like most people say otherwise 😭 thank you!! 🥰

@adrieisms Жыл бұрын

10yrs and I agree❤

@mightystrong5484 11 ай бұрын

@adrieisms 15 yrs and I approve this message 👏 👌 👍🏾 😊❤

@dionnetodd244 11 ай бұрын

26 years of marriage, and I totally agree!

@Justsay_Jackie Жыл бұрын

Man, y’all give me hope. I love seeing healthy black couples having fun and continuing to grow together 🥰 Both of your smiles are infectious!

@OnlyOneJess Жыл бұрын

🥹🥹🥹 thank you sis! I want healthy relationships for all my girls and guys! You deserve the best ❤️

@cathy7018 Жыл бұрын

You guys were awesome. I smiled all the way through. It’s evident that you have a happy marriage and it’s maturing beautifully. God Bless!

@OnlyOneJess Жыл бұрын

Thank you guys so much! This video has me a little nervous because it’s just not normal for people to be putting their marriage on display like this but I feel like there’s a bigger picture in all this and I’m just glad it’s helping and at least encouraging people, the comments you guys are leaving are really blessing meee! 🥹❤️ (and Jonathan as he scrolls through to make sure no one is being mean to me 😂😂)

@HairByPierre Жыл бұрын

I’m a new married couple as well. Never compare your man to anyone. Also, try not to tit for tat or constantly complain about what he didn’t do right. Instead tell him what you would’ve liked instead. Ex: “Babe, I was really looking forward to seeing you and us both being excited to see each other and my hair, I was disappointed that didn’t happen.” We also believe it’s good to balance maintaining each others individuality and time together. I really like how Jonathan added on to submitting to each other because you’re a unit. Yes it says submit to your husband but we can’t all hyper focus on one verse we have to look at all the verses and how they come together as a whole for the bigger picture

@OnlyOneJess Жыл бұрын

Yes agreed!! 💗💗

@Elephant_Locs Жыл бұрын

Lemme go grab my husband 😂

@OnlyOneJess Жыл бұрын

Sis make sure you stick up for me if he start taking my husbands side 😂😂

@ashleywoodford3857 Жыл бұрын

@@OnlyOneJessGreat video but I'mma need u to play the WHOLE intro song.. EVERY TIME ❤

@OnlyOneJess Жыл бұрын

@@ashleywoodford3857 lol I’m sorry I’m sorry 😂

@kitty2blessed Жыл бұрын

@elephant_Locs 😂😂😂😂

@ashantigraham8395 Жыл бұрын

😂

@prettygirlat21 Жыл бұрын

I like the openness and the willingness to say out loud what your stumbling blocks were. Whew Chile marriage definitely ain’t for the weak, but it is rewarding all at the same time , especially when you’re with who you’re supposed to be with. Happy Anniversary.

@Stephh709 Жыл бұрын

I really loved when Jonathan spoke about the submissive thing and what else the Bible says because NO ONE TALKS ABOUT THE REST OF IT 😂😂 People conveniently leave that part out lol I turned the volume up soooo loud so my boyfriend heard that part lol (he’s great but I like being right haha). But this was a good video and happy anniversary!

@OnlyOneJess Жыл бұрын

Hahahah yes ma’am remind him 😂

@BreeBree0530 Жыл бұрын

I'm glad he mentioned it too because I didnt even know that was apart of that verse. I'll definitely be mentioning it till the day I die lol

@MeritDike Жыл бұрын

Jesssss, you got yourself an amazing husband!!!!! Jonathan answers speak Christianity!!! This goes to say, marry a man that loves Jesus! I enjoyed this and didn’t want it to end😩

@OnlyOneJess Жыл бұрын

Ah thank you!!! 🥹💗💗💗

@shequaniawright8236 Жыл бұрын

YES!!! Marry a man that LOVES JESUS 😩🙏🏾

@ughnotuagainughnotuagain4275 Жыл бұрын

Man, I'm not even done with the video yet but all I can say is that my standards have shot through the roof. This is what I desire! A God centered union and I won't settle for anything less 🙌

@OnlyOneJess Жыл бұрын

Yessss!! I really really love that for you! 🥰💗💗

@buttafly591 Жыл бұрын

I’m not even halfway through your video and I’m so proud of you two. You guys are so good.

@OnlyOneJess Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much 🥰❤️

@ebonykeys8705 Жыл бұрын

It’s such a blessing to see a young black married couple be real and you two gave some wonderful answers to all the questions I love watching you together I appreciate the fact that you include your hubby in your content love it love you Jess thank you sis 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

@shaunicthomas Жыл бұрын

It's Jess telling Jonathan he's not hip when she's older 🤣🤣🤣 I'm sitting here watching and feeling like y'all are my cousins 🥲 I love y'all so much. Cheers to many more happy times 🥂💫

@JesusHomeGirl1998 Жыл бұрын

Y’all made me think about literally dying to self in my current relationship with Christ alone, not even married yet. 🥴 Jess you are so gorgeous sis, physically and spiritually!! 🥴😍😍😍😍

@biancaandrews6125 Жыл бұрын

Thanks for doing this Q&A! I appreciate y’all’s openness and realness

@stephj.4317 Жыл бұрын

Come on Jess! Appreciating the hustle. ❤️

@jasminejazziej8787 Жыл бұрын

Jess is GIVING!!! Three Videos I love This!!!!!!!

@kayehatee Жыл бұрын

been watching you for 6 years and girlll when i say you are like a sister figure for me!! so happy for you my love💗

@nia5128 Жыл бұрын

Yes thank you for what you said about commenting on people’s weight! It definitely messed me up from so many people making comments. Words have power for sure.

@nyesha5002 Жыл бұрын

jess laugh is my favorite, its so contagious.

@tay9sdaughter121 Жыл бұрын

Awe Jess I am so happy for you. I started watching your channel when you had red hair and lived with your parents. You are such a beautiful person inside and out.

@OnlyOneJess Жыл бұрын

Woahhh, that was a fun time too lol you a real one 🥹❤️❤️

@tay9sdaughter121 Жыл бұрын

@@OnlyOneJess ❤❤❤

@HealedByJesus20 Жыл бұрын

COME ON SISTAARR!!! Haha love the timely uploads!🥰 y’all are precious

@Mia._803 Жыл бұрын

🥹Y’all are soooo cute! You both have such beautiful smiles. Happy Anniversary guys! ❤️🫶🏾

@zipporahjones5814 Жыл бұрын

Man.......yall bring me so much joy!!

@gmoney715 Жыл бұрын

not me tearing up like i know y'all 🥲 i just love the honesty! y'all radiate God and your love for each other so effortlessly and i know that's because of sacrifice and work before the Jess and Jonathan we see today. y'all are (actually) one of my favorite couples to watch. you make me excited to get married and your honesty and transparency is helping me in my waiting for my person.

@OnlyOneJess Жыл бұрын

😭😭🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 thank you so much! There was definitely A LOT of work put in, I really wish we could tell y’all the FULL story of the mess we had right before we started dating, literally there was no hope in sight and we just found out that there were people taking bets on our relationship that we wouldn’t make it 😂 BUT GOD is all I can say at this point 😂

@agirlthatgetsit Жыл бұрын

Congratulations on one year! I love y’all so much 💗💗

@loisthomas899 Жыл бұрын

You both are so compatible, I just love it!❤

@janinemarie8591 Жыл бұрын

Congratulations on your 1 year anniversary, may God continue to watch over your many years to come by His grace. I love watching y’all!❤️

@IAmAdrienneMichelle Жыл бұрын

I thoroughly enjoyed this. I’m a extra introvert so I’m not going to write all of my feelings and commenting was hard enough but I think yall are great 😂. Praying for continued Blessings over your lives 🙏🏽🥰

@OnlyOneJess Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂 I client relate to you more sis 😂 thank you so much! 💗💗

@RythmnStitches Жыл бұрын

I love this. Keep smiling/laughing and playing together ❤

@marydukes2442 Жыл бұрын

Not me tearing up when it ended ❤️❤️ Happy Anniversary again!! 🎉🎉

@butterfylov344 Жыл бұрын

I love this!!! Im so glad God has a hand in your marriage as well you guys got work out everything before y'all got married. It's truly a blessing! To blissful blessed forever!

@TiffWithTheTea Жыл бұрын

I love how candid you were in this video! You guys were so transparent and adorable. Such thoughtful and intelligent human beings. ❤❤❤❤

@vennessapleas8455 Жыл бұрын

Omg i love you guys ♥️ and i absolutely agree with you both about when people say something about weight. It most definitely can cause a major problem. Continue being the way y'all are! Congratulations too you both and happy 1 year anniversary 🥰

@lashontealbrumfield9575 Жыл бұрын

Congratulations to you both... I love the energy that yall bring together... The fact that you all can bring God into the conversation and it just flows... Wishing you both the best and can wait to see what yall come up with next...😊

@love7loyalty-MHA Жыл бұрын

I am super duper happy for the both of you ! 💕 🎉 BIG HUGE CONGRATULATIONS 🎊 ❤

@Anshisangz Жыл бұрын

Y’all are such a cute couple! It’s so nice to see your growth together. It’s v motivating to see young black couples who are invested in eachother and doing the work to grow! I can see how you make eachother better people!! Sending you love and many blessings! Congratulations on your first year of marriage! 💗

@karynwithers504 Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for taking us on this journey with you guys. You guys made me smile from beginning to end. A true love story. Keeping god first & being obedien look what happens. I am so happy the both of you waited & found each other early. Love it!! ❤❤❤

@sac967 Жыл бұрын

Jess you've made my night with this video after my late shift!!!🥳🥰

@BamTheBetta Жыл бұрын

I love y’all ❤ Happy anniversary and May God continue to bless your union

@AshleyF1823 Жыл бұрын

Aww I love this! Gives me hope!

@amandahooverlester Жыл бұрын

This was so awesome, blessed, gave me all the feels and I am so happy for you both. What God put together let no man put asunder. ❤

@tnycole8675 Жыл бұрын

I love y’all’s love… many blessings to you both. 🫶🏾

@sheena.m7802 Жыл бұрын

I agree . People told us never go to bed angry but not all issues can be sorted out fast its takes discussion and sometimes its late at night and it's time to sleep so deal with it the next day

@choosen2be Жыл бұрын

I really love you two❤transparency at its best. Happy anniversary

@niapawina Жыл бұрын

You guys are soo wholesome I almost creid!!! I feel like we're friends! I smiled alllll the way through! Informative, entertaining. YES! I had soooo much fun watching this!!!

@deidreej Жыл бұрын

Jess looks like a doll! She is so pretty! 🖤🖤🖤 This was cute! Remember as long as y’all communicate, and keep each other first you will be ok! 🖤🖤🖤🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

@TabSoGentle Жыл бұрын

That was such a beautiful episode. I smiled with y’all so much. ❤ I’ve been married for 16 months now.

@lanee_9223 Жыл бұрын

Happy Anniversary 🎉🥂. Good video! 🥰

@khaliyahmonay1010 Жыл бұрын

Thank you guys so much for your openness and vulnerability 🙏🏽 you don’t see too many Q&A videos of couples truly being open and real and it’s appreciated. May the good Lord continue to cover, bless and strengthen your union! ❤️

@shavonesmith2316 Жыл бұрын

You guys are so precious!! Love your relationship ❤ also love the level of maturity you have to understand how communication is key to how you’re growing together ❤❤

@shamiahbaker1788 Жыл бұрын

Heavy on the "sometimes you just gotta go to bed"... Cause baby, you know I love you and I know you love me, let's just talk about it more in the morning. And I strongly believe rest can bring clarity, even to anger. ❤

@OnlyOneJess Жыл бұрын

Yesss absolutely like we locked in I ain’t going no where but I am going to sleep though 😂

@taylorwolfe7234 Жыл бұрын

Love seeing you guys! Love you Jess! God bless you guys!!❤️❤️

@simplykaiee7054 Жыл бұрын

I love watching y’all together. The good, the bad either way I appreciate what you share ❤

@brianad.2542 Жыл бұрын

This was so good to watch! God bless y’all ❤.

@keepinglifeflowing8392 Жыл бұрын

Congratulations! Happy Anniversary you two!!🎊🎉

@heavenlygracemusic Жыл бұрын

This was such a joy to watch! Happy Anniversary! Many blessings to you both, and may your marriage continue to blossom beautifully 🥰❤🙏🏽✝️

@jaydahteaunna Жыл бұрын

I loved this video! so nice watching both of you interact.

@EverythingFeesa Жыл бұрын

I absolutely love to see the young couples giving nuggets! You guys are off to a great start keep alining your marriage with Christ. I've been married for almost 16 amazing years and we are still in love and he's still my bestie🥰 I'm just so happy for you guys! Awesome video!💕

@asharaiedelahaye3402 Жыл бұрын

I always enjoy videos with u n the hubby❤. Jess is hilarious. Praying God continues to bless you guys union.

@LoveYAH7 Жыл бұрын

Ughhhhh I just love LOVE❤❤❤ blessings to you both

@Lisa-wt9ye Жыл бұрын

Aww🥰 Y’all are such a beautiful couple. Happy 1st Anniversary

@iHeartAmbs Жыл бұрын

Y’all are so funny and cute. I love y’all ! 💙 Happy Late Anniversary!!

@marjoriecoleman8280 Жыл бұрын

Jess loved this marriage update! I love how you and Jonathan reflected on the small mistakes on your marriage and how to improve them. It’s always good to self reflect. Jonathan’s answers were very mature and thought provoking. Loved how he addressed the comment section, that shows he’s a good protector. May your marriage be forever blessed and y’all’s love continue to grow and flourish! ❤❤❤ My husband doesn’t like to kiss me when I have lipgloss on either, lol.

@Shephoo Жыл бұрын

Happy Anniversary 🎉 Y’all are so cute! Love love this for you ❤

@minimumtiara Жыл бұрын

Your not playing with giving us the videos. I was binge watching you last night with my boyfriend.

@OnlyOneJess Жыл бұрын

Tryna give y’all the content you deserve lol

@berthajohnson9034 Жыл бұрын

Happy Anniversary to you both everything is looking and sounding great, y'all are truly in love and y'all will make it last forever ❤💯❤

@lisabaker8086 Жыл бұрын

What a cute couple! Happy anniversary🍾🥂💕 God bless y’all 💕💕

@Mariepurpose Жыл бұрын

You both have such a sweet spirit! I love that you place God at the center of your marriage. I pray God continues to bless your union 🙏🏾

@TatianaVictoria 8 ай бұрын

Not even half way through and yessss come through Jonathan being the protective husband! Loveee to see it!! I love y’all ❤️🥰

@brittney5800 Жыл бұрын

The ending was perfect!

@carleeamon2455 Жыл бұрын

Smiled during the whole video. Love this for y’all

@frxncsca2496 Жыл бұрын

It’s so beautiful to watch you guys!! Thank you for sharing your life with us Jess! Honestly the only vlogs I watch on here, I love them!! 🥰

@OnlyOneJess Жыл бұрын

😭😭😭😭 thank you for supporting me 🥰🥰💗

@latashas9683 Жыл бұрын

This was awesome 💯💯💯💯💯. Love watching y'all together 💖💖💖💖

@brieimani Жыл бұрын

I love this Jess! I’m one month into my marriage 🥰 This is truly helpful

@patriciabradford1304 Жыл бұрын

This was so good and cute! Those experiences you two have had are so relatable. Like when I'm hype about something, my man HAS to be too haha. I'm like don't kill my vibe. So this will be helpful to realize, he could be going through so check that and not get mad.

@ardejabeale1920 Жыл бұрын

Even if I don’t have time to watch the full video I open it & like it that’s how heavy I rock wit you Jess 🩵

@OnlyOneJess Жыл бұрын

Wowwww, you a real one FOR REAL lol thank you sis! 💗💗

@uniquelady1234 Жыл бұрын

I love you both, happy 1 year anniversary ❤

@resecup3584 Жыл бұрын

Beautiful Couple...May God Continue to Bless this Union!!

@zhadamone Жыл бұрын

Loved this! Perfect example of needing to be graced for your partner. Would love to hear and see Johnathan's perspective a bit more when it comes to shared experiences as he's such a gentleman in falling back so you can shine more. He's going to change a generation of husbands and fathers with his mature responses and Godly views! Praying greater sights and newer heights in your marriage!

@tp7061 Жыл бұрын

Your YT peeps must be acting right cause we getting blessed y’all!

@just_sherricka6267 Жыл бұрын

Loved this Video I actually like when Jonathon talks he is very smart and very much into God’s word and that is a blessing! Jess I feel like we besties and girl You DiD Good! But you know that! Truly blessed Union

@celithecurl Жыл бұрын

Happy anniversary to you guys, may God protect and bless your marriage. I love that you put God the center of your marriage, stay blessed and wish you all the best 👏🏾👏🏾

@curtricelockhart7836 Жыл бұрын

I loved this!!! Happy 1 year 🎉🎉🎉

@DeandreaTolls Жыл бұрын

They are so beautiful! May God bless their relationship to flourish even more. Wow. ❤️

@cristolhouey8519 Жыл бұрын

Hello. You guys are such a beautiful couple. I love how you're honest and worked things through. I pray many blessings for your union.

@thecamelliadiaries 5 ай бұрын

this encouraged me so much today, i LOVEE seeing how you both have grown in just committing your relationship to glorify God before & in marriage, JESS U R GORGEOUSS i can't wait to see all God will continue to do & will keep praying for u all been watching since 2017, hair & all!! as a single girl ur vids give me sm hope, love from ATL!!

@sharnicaxd5321 Жыл бұрын

the ending with yall singing the song and you actually playing the song, kinda broke all of our necks collectively. you killed it.

@OnlyOneJess Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂 I ljj on be y’all so much man 😭💗💗

@yvonnescott3013 Жыл бұрын

Beautiful!!!! May GOD continue to bless your union

@tdorley2010 Жыл бұрын

Cuteness overload!!! Praying for a life time of happiness 🙏🏾

@oreo4821 Жыл бұрын

HAHAHAHAHHAAA it was Jonathon's ad for Lx Croix for me!!!! Hahahaha. Really enjoyed this video. Ya'll have a great partnership!! Loved the section about submitting, budgeting, ways to argue. And when Jess said, she called him home after the big argument and he came home and yall worked it out...like AAAWWWWW. Some people would have stayed away out of spite. Also loved the maturity in the relationship!! I hope Jonathon is an aspiring pastor, he has the messages for the people!!!

@Louisiana2Texas Жыл бұрын

😆 Yall's excitement is so cute I luv it. Happy 1 year and a life time to go. Jess your laugh is so contagious😊

@KnitsByNayla Жыл бұрын

Jessssssss!!! The way I hollered when you said “have you ever seen the show snapped?” 😂😂😂 I have a feeling Jonathan is gonna come in a couple days and say “you know I was upset w you/you hurt my feelings the other day” 😅😂😂 You two are so funny. May God continue to bless your marriage.