calling yourself an alpha is normal cringe…. but openly calling yourself a beta is wild

We have this saying in Poland: "Smart and strong men should be the head of the family. Smart and strong women is the neck which is moving the head in the right direction."

A quick rant: How can you possibly be an alpha male if you don’t even have enough discipline not to cheat on your wife lol

“For a woman to want to be submissive, the man needs to be worthy of that submissive” GIRL YOU SAID IT HERE FIRST, WE NEED TO BE SHOUTING THIS FROM THE ROOFTOPS! I’m 100% for submissive woman toward men who are WORTHY

Calling yourself an Alpha doesn't make you one, but being a masculine gentleman does.

In my experience as a man, being promiscuous has done nothing for me. It’s definitely hard to fight those urges. So, I always ask myself, how does sex with multiple women benefit anything besides ego? Not a frinkin at all.

9:31 Telling yourself you love someone while sleeping with other people is crazy to me. How can you love someone without committing to them? That is just outright disrespectful.

My late wife was very feminine yet at the same time underneath she was a strong woman. She loved me dearly and was always there for me. She stayed home raising our children and also explored her interests when possible. After 16 years she was able to return to work part time until such time as she could work full time. Unfortunately she passed away 14 years ago, I miss her dearly. A woman like her doesn’t come into your life everyday.

You can't ask for a classic/traditional marriage or a classic/traditional wife if you aren't a classic/traditional man and you aren't ready to step up 🤷🏻‍♀️

I’ve been reading Marcus Aurelius Meditations & it’s clear that classic masculinity (alpha) is about a man’s ability to overcome his animalistic nature, his passions, and adhere to a higher moral order. Just because it’s “natural” doesn’t mean it’s good.

One thing I will NEVER understand in these "alpha males" is the body count. How am I supposed to find a man going inside dozen of women before me attractive?🙄🤢

“A woman can still be a badass and be submissive.” Agreed. I married her.

If a guy is calling himself "alpha..." he's probably a cringe narcissist. If he's calling himself a "beta..." that's just insane.

An open civil discussion with mutual respect. A freakin breath of fresh air.

I would love to see a Jubilee episode with Brett and Amala. Idk what the topic would be, but I think they’d be such a power duo.

I love how Brett disagrees yet respects and hears out the good points just as equally as the bad points no focusing and the bad ponts

I had a friend claim to be an alpha because he slept with loads of woman. Called me a beta for being married. I called him an alpha Dog. Humping everything that gave him a treat and a scratch on the belly. I said Im more the Alpha Wolf. I chose my Wife and will be with her till her I am no more. Beyond that id never call myself an alpha. Its a bit cringe. We laughed. Called each other names. Still best friends.

what all of these guys are missing is that in a traditional male+female relationship they are both submitting to each other in different ways. They both give sacrifices for their commitment and that's what makes an honorable man and woman. If there is an imbalance (hence they guy who sleeps around while married to his wife) then the relationship falls apart in almost all cases. Thats why I cringe while watching polygamists say its natural when their family is literally on fire.

the beginning saved me. thanks brett for pointing it out. Some man simply dont know how a suit should fit and how to wear it. At least he didn‘t close both buttons

As a man with rugged qualities and brought up in the generation of men are men, I'm raising my son to understand it's okay for a man to show emotion. It's healthy and normal. Just because you bottle up your emotions doesn't mean you're an alpha male. " the man who speaks does not know. The man who knows does not speak" Essentially, if you're an "alpha" you'd never have to tell anyone. They would know.

Ladies, get you a man who admits when he's wrong and holds you accountable when you're wrong. Edit: Fellas, I'm talking to women💪, not women☕ There's a difference

If this segment showed anything, I think that “submissive” needs to be more carefully defined. Brett nailed it when she said that it’s not meant to be a demeaning term. That should be understood before people debate it’s place in relationships.

“Is that a man in a dress?…. That’s unfortunate.” 😂😂😂

Being an alpha is nothing to do with money. It has everything to do with respect, self control, and how you treat people

So sleeping around with tons of women makes you an alpha male? I think being an alpha male is a man who is strong and takes care of his family. One who can suppress your urges, stand up for what you believe in with confidence and overcome hard things in life makes you an alpha.

Oh. My. God. That moment when she said "it's the balance of nature" and that look on her face when she looked at the camera KILLED me 🤣🤣🤣

"Women crying because they aren't with a man" - I actually laughed!! I have NEVER cried over being single.

the cut scene into the sponsor was something else. :) keep making great content!!!

I love how Brett brings reality right in the middle. Where everybody is seen fairly and realistically

If you call yourself alpha your cringe if you call yourself beta you're cringe

i love that there's still women like Brett. it gives me hope.

There are times in life when we need to be Alpha (e.g. Running a Business/ Conducting a Meeting) and more Beta (e.g. Showing compassion for someone's loss/Celebrating another person's success). What is lacking in both Men and Woman is the "Wisdom" to know when to be one or the other.

Imagine actually calling yourself a Beta.

Married with girls on the side.. You have to seek out, talk to, flirt with another woman to even get to the point of physically connecting. That's all evil when you are in a relationship. It's not a happy accident when someone finds relations outside of their actual partner. It took time and effort. Sneaking around and giving your attention to, someone who isn't your chosen partner takes time from kids too... seeking relationships from someone that you aren't committing yourself to is not manly or alpha. It's CREEPY and EVIL

I love your witty comments as always. Couldn't stop smiling while watching it. :)

Not once have I predicated when your ad will come in LOL I commend you for catching me every damn time!

These people don't understand that you can be an alpha male without sleeping around. It takes more discipline to stay with one woman. That is more of an alpha male.

As a man... who is married to one woman... My wife and I are a team. I get her opinion on different matters. We take care of each other. I can be vulnerable with her. She has been there for me at my lowest points, and she gives me the strength to get up and work my @$$ off to provide for her. She is my peace after dealing with all the sh*t I gotta deal with on a daily basis. And I most certainly will never sleep around with other women who are not her. Be it behind her back or openly... that is disrespectful, irresponsible, childish, and downright dishonorable.

I have never seen anyone who can integrate the sponsors as well as brett.

Absolutely agree! It's crucial for us to recognize that this isn't about pitting men against women. It's about fostering genuine connections and understanding between the genders, irrespective of labels like "alpha" or "beta." The real challenge lies in bridging the gap caused by the demands of our lives. Let's strive for unity and stronger relationships! 💪🌟

Gotta throw their language back at them: “Be capable of harm, temper yourself to be gentle” “Be capable of attracting, temper yourself to be faithful” A boy who gives into his sexual urges, is no different than a boy who plays video games in excess. If you give into your urges. What separates you from an animal acting on instinct.

To me, an alpha would never say they are an alpha...it's an energy you can only understand when you share the same space with a man like that.

One thing I love about this video is Brett saying that the guys can still laugh and respect each other despite the opposing views and being able to see from each others perspective. thats a really nice thing ive noticed with guys in my experience at least that we can have different viewpoints and still be really good pals and not let differences get between us. im not saying that women cant do the same thing i just havent experienced it first hand. im not sure if it was a different group of men or if it was a group of more "traditional" women and more liberal/feminist women if this video would have gone in the same direction of being as respectful with each other i would love to hope it would be the same but with how society is these days im not sure if that would truly happen. in other middle ground videos ive seen both sides just really dig into each other and are not able to see eye to eye on some of the topics and have a true middle ground.

Shout out to you sfx guy, that windows shutting down sound effect was awesome 🤣

Wow, if more conversations in life went the way that they did in this video, our society would be so much better.

“A woman who is naturally more submissive, or quieter or a little more traditional is not any less “empowered” - this resonated deep in me. I used to think there was something wrong with me because I wasn’t as loud or outgoing as other people my age. I never liked going to clubs or bars and I always felt so out place because all I wanted to do was stay home. I had a kid at a young age and that helped me see what was really important. Now I’m about to graduate college, live in a beautiful home along the beach, started setting up for my retirement & the “friends” I tried to keep up with are still living with their parents (we’re in our 30s now)

The "beta" that talked the most is clearly the biggest Alpha of them all. He is so secure in his masculinity he doesn't care for a second he is presented as a beta. He takes charge, he rests in his self, natural leader. You could very much argue he is peacocking too, because he is certainly not "average" in his looks. But someone like blue suit guy, he dresses for the part. he wants to be seen as an Alpha, he tries to be an alpha, it is his goal to be an alpha. The true Alpha, just is without building everything in their personality up around trying to be it.

First time watching your channel.. You're an extremely well spoken and well rounded women. Thank you for making this, you've earned a new fan 🍻

I honestly appreciate the way you always work your sponsorship into your discussion. Never fails to make me chuckle.

I did the whole sleeping around thing. I don't know how they can enjoy it so much with strangers. It usually just left me feeling pretty empty. The bigger challenge is finding the right person and that you can stand eachother for the long haul

Properly one of the best jubilees i've seen if not the best, having a laugh, listening, hearing and responding instead of cat fight like usual. Great job to whoever set them together :)

Great video. Also, Brett, I don’t know if you’ve played around trying different headphones, but over-ear ones are way better. Especially on the comfort side.

That “alpha” guy showed his true colors with the whole Lila Rose interaction…not a man I’d highly respect

This is really beta vs. beta. I'm glad you brought up Lila making him cry. As far as the occasional RP points: every snake oil salesman starts the pitch from a point of truth and tries to tie their product to it.

The best advertising segue I've heard on KZfaq so far😂😂😂

That plug into the ad was smooth cant lie

As a submissive woman idk whether to cry or celebrate over so many of these guys not finding me as attractive. Guess it doesn’t matter as long as my husband is happy

I like what Brett is saying about this ‘alpha bros’ True alpha men deserve respect based on their life. Many of these people do not deserve that respect and submission. I would love to see this with true alpha men.

Doing a Brett Binge while I work & it feels like I am spending time with a friend, and there are few women with Brett’s morals to befriend

HAHHAA the vitamins ad was so good

Great take, Brett. I felt the same about that guy after watching him debate Lila by calling her "annoying". Lila was completely correct. You have self control and discipline. And LUST is a deadly sin. A man should love his wife as himself. And care for her. Sleeping around hurts that woman. Emotionally, and could lead to STDs spread to her.

Ick. My husband is a... Christian male. He "leads" me but serves me every day. I never have to wonder if our family of 8 will be cared for. He handles a million things for us and is constantly thinking of us. He is home every night and weekend with us. He takes us to church. He takes us on vacation. He spends his freetime with me and the kids. Love him.

Love the way you do your promotions!

Submissive doesnt mean weak..you are both taking each other into consideration. Its not the guy just leading the relationship blindly..you are a team...but you each have different responsibilities.

Feel like Brett has gotten better at articulating her thoughts and saying what’s on her mind. Not saying she never had it in her I just think she’s getting more comfortable with her KZfaq Channel

Brett... Id just like you to know...Your the best at smoothly going into your sponsor talk.

😂 “those pants are too tight cutting off circulation!” 😂

4:00 did this man really just say that sleeping with more than one woman is glorifying God? lmfao im dying man you got it backwards as hell

Sacrificing your urges and putting aside your petty teenage like lifestyle to dedicate to a single woman is way more alpha than these wanna bes are arguing.

Building on each other should be the standard. My wife went to school first. We moved multiple times as she went on to her master's and eventually to career and then to another city and career. Then it was my turn. Graduated with my second degree last year and building experience currently to move into my career path. I'm almost 40, we have a wonderful son, and we're standing at the doorstep of what should be the most exciting part of our lives. My point is that roles shift as the relationship and what life throws needs them to. Regardless of titles we want to give ourselves, we are humans. We have peaks and valleys. Sometimes you can move mountains and sometimes you are carried over said mountains. That's beauty of a real relationship.

11:14 Brilliant take Brett, I'm glad you pushed that point.

Imagine calling yourself a beta like wtf are these boys doing😂

You want to know what an alpha is? An alpha is a guy who knows and understands his responsibilities in life, such as doing his job and working as hard as he can to advance and better himself in his job to earn promotions and raises; an alpha is a guy who humbles himself, he is confident and comfortable with the person he is while also acknowledging that he is far from perfect and can always work on improving himself and setting a good example for his fellow brethren; an alpha isn’t always necessarily a natural born leader, but he is brave and confident and assertive enough to take that next step and BECOME a leader when needed; an alpha doesn’t try to humiliate or outdo his fellow man to assert dominance and brag, he LIFTS UP his fellow man and encourages him and holds him accountable to better himself and set an example for others; an alpha understands that he doesn’t have to belittle or lower himself to any underserving woman or anyone else who ridicules him while not stooping to that level; an alpha understands that when he commits to one woman he loves her and provides for her and doesn’t stray even when he has chances, because he is creating a family and a home worthy of a wife submitting to him the way God intends; an alpha sets out to be his kids’ first superhero, he loves them and nurtures them but also disciplines them and teaches them right from wrong and makes sure they know how to be humble and hold themselves accountable; an alpha is a true God fearing man who doesn’t just say he’s religious but actually strives to live life for God and lead his family to God every day(and for men who aren’t religious, it’s still their duty to lead their wives and family to righteousness and to be the pillar and hero their family needs them to be). That’s what an alpha male is. Know what ISN’T an alpha male? A guy who constantly labels other guys as alpha or beta, or the self proclaimed “gigachads” that are just focused on bedding as many women as possible for bragging rights and trying to dominate and be on top of his fellow man. No man has to be labeled a beta male unless he’s a guy who is a lazy, mistreats and abuses his family out of narcissism, pretends to be nice and caring to women just to have sex and isn’t genuine, or a man who refuses to humble himself and grow and change into trying to be a better man everyday and doesn’t hold himself accountable. THAT is a beta male.

Brett’s tales are spot on. Very balanced, mature, and sensible

8:23 Gotta respect the good ad transitions lol.

i love how truly impartial you are. you call out the nonsense on both sides - its truly a breath of fresh air. keep at it brett !!

That ad segue was golden. Brett's sly look at the camera. 🤣🤣

Brett saying button your shirt up NEEDS to be turned into a meme

“That’s unfortunate” 😂😂😂

No such thing as alphas and betas. Just good strong men and weak bad men.

Great convo. It worked because they attacked the arguments, not each other.

Thank you Brett Cooper this talks make my day

I found Brett only like a week ago, but I love watching her and have been binging

Thank you Brett! A cheater could never be a " high value" man!!

If you call yourself a beta or alpha male i cant take take seriously😂

The very concept of Alpha/Beta males is so contrived. My husband never dated before me. He chose me, committed to me, and has zero interest in any other woman. He is the leader in our marriage, but his leadership helps me grow and become an ever better version of myself; he sees my potential better than I do. And yes, I am “submissive,” but that doesn’t mean I’m lesser; if anything, it frustrates him when I hold back my opinions. We are partners. He’s thrilled when I take decisions off his plate (as he is very driven and is the breadwinner in our marriage). And my need for more emotional openness has helped him to grow. The alpha males in this video make some good points, but they disqualify themselves from being the type of man that any woman should follow; sexual unfaithfulness is an absolute no-go for any strong, self-respecting traditional woman.

Jesus Christ is savior

Two types of man I’ll never date 😂 if you label yourself like that you’re not normal

Its strange how its one extreme to the other. There has to be a middle ground.

Omg that ad transition was too smooth XD

I like how everyone thinks they know exactly what will make another person’s life and relationship work

I knew a guy (26 years old) who had a body count of 30+ girls. Myself? I'm 26 years old, and still a virgin. Haven't created any Fatherless Children, and I'm thankful for that.

Your team's cutups/post-edits are absolutely some of the best I've seen, for a podcast, and absolutely hilarious. Very seamless, additive, and easy to watch.

This thumbnail had me on the floor. I hate it🤣🤣🤣

Such a good video!

I 100% agree with you Brett. Being a strong, masculine, "alpha" male means being respectful, loyal, fit, providing for and protecting the ones you love etc. not just sleeping with whoever you want. I think the entire point of men sleeping with as many women as possible is "just biology" is kind of bull. Sure, maybe it is true but there are a lot of things that biologically we feel we need to do as humans, yet we don't in order for society to function. Discipline is key to respecting yourself, others, and being respected.

Brett sounds like she'll make a great mum "button ur shirt" 😂 great respect to your mum, she raised you well👏👏

You are a very very honest woman. That's something very hard to find. I'm liking this channel.

It's crazy how smoothly KZfaqrs can age way into a sponcer ship teach me your ways😂😂😂

From an African point of view, every single man on that panel is confused in either one or multiple ways. But more importantly I've never seen someone make annoying adds sound so good. With each video I watch and hear how nicely you transition, you blow by mind. Lovely work Brett ❤