6 Secrets to Effortlessly Chic Style Without Shopping

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Ciao everyone! Today I am sharing how to dress effortlessly chic. How to always look effortless is one of the most common questions I get, so I'm sharing the elements of style that result in fool proof effortlessly chic outfits every time.
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@mrssmurf55 2 жыл бұрын

Nothing to do with the video really but just wanted to say in such a turbulent world your cheery smile and content is such a breath of fresh air and a source of joy in times like these thank you! 💕❤️

@AlyssaBeltempo 2 жыл бұрын

oh thank you for the kind words Ann Marie xx

@IEVAKambarovaite 2 жыл бұрын

Couldn't agree more 💕

@cjtorres5917 2 жыл бұрын

Agreed!

@lennybloem236 2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely!

@shura2088 Жыл бұрын

❤❤❤

@drapoport9963 2 жыл бұрын

Can you expand on your examples of the Kibbe body system and how structured versus unstructured pieces suit people on the other end of the spectrum?

@tulpenballerina 2 жыл бұрын

I may have misheard, but in the Kibbe Bodyimage System, the character of the person - the Essence, as he calls it - is very much involved. I would classify you as an FN.

@AlyssaBeltempo 2 жыл бұрын

yes! Sorry I should have clarified - I just noticed that when we do the quiz ... it is mostly focused on physical features. Ive never considered Flamboyant Natural - thank you! New perspective is always good

@Ana-sj5xx 2 жыл бұрын

@@AlyssaBeltempo I see you as a FN too, because I can see some bluntness and also because that explains why "dramatic but effortless" looks so good on you!

@alcogito8287 Жыл бұрын

There is a really fine line between effortless and careless. This video helped me see "why" as well as "how" to come down on the effortless side.

@randubnick 2 жыл бұрын

I think you should write a book and I think you are ready.

@anneagren1079 2 жыл бұрын

Yes, top is beautiful. Really makes the outfit.

@christinezwicke1002 2 жыл бұрын

Getting to an 'effortless look,' for me anyway was not effortless cuz I didn't really understand how to get there. This content was great, Alyssa. Now, I think I can. Thank you.

@AlyssaBeltempo 2 жыл бұрын

ooh so glad it was helpful for you!

@wrongsidedriver 2 жыл бұрын

Me too ! I feel the same way! I hope I can learn to translate this info on “effortless” dressing!

@The27jmancuso 2 жыл бұрын

You're an actual genius. That third look with the dress and sandals; I had no clue how you were going to make it work! I doubted you for a moment with the sandals and then you added the sweater! Instant transformation! Taking that tip to the closet right now! Thank you!

@AlyssaBeltempo 2 жыл бұрын

ahhh that is a very generous compliment - I am no genius but I am so glad this inspired you to play in your closet! xx

@theschoolofcreativemagic 2 жыл бұрын

You're the first person I've seen mention that sometimes we have to balance out our Kibbe body type. I am curvy and deemed a romantic but wow, if I go too much in that direction, it's like becoming mush! I lose all my energy! Your theories on effortlessness helped me see that I definitely want more of that in my wardrobe - and my life!

@AlyssaBeltempo 2 жыл бұрын

so glad Jamie thank you for watching!

@gracedarlenemcpherson9079 2 жыл бұрын

Yes! Finally, a Kibbe statement that makes sense to me! Thanks Alyssa.

@Mkr7942 Жыл бұрын

So this is why I need structured clothing. Lightbulb moment!

@sheilacroisier6446 2 жыл бұрын

Great explanations! When you swapped your cotton shirt for a cashmere sweater, I finally got the difference: My personality is softer than my physical appearance suggests, and a sweater is exactly what I choose over a structured shirt, every time. How did I not see this before? 😂 Maybe “effortless” actually depends on how well our clothing expresses our personality?

@Mkr7942 Жыл бұрын

Me too!

@notaclue822 2 жыл бұрын

Effortless is what I always do because it's me. I always enjoy the content and I'd love more of it. I'd also love to hear more about your take on Kibbe body types.

@katem3961 2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely loved the outfits in this video Alyssa. It never ceases to amaze me how swapping a few elements such as shoes, bag, jacket can completely transform the overall look. This is where I struggle...I picture an outfit in my mind but it often just misses the mark. I need to spend more time looking at what I have and then fine tuning the looks. Thank you, you are looking so well and relaxed Portugal obviously agrees with you 😊 😉

@catherinestone4131 2 жыл бұрын

I loved to see the impact if the little style changes you made to outfits! It’s amazing how something slightly awkward is transformed into totally chic by these little changes.

@christinamanucy8037 2 жыл бұрын

This was great, Alyssa! I love your examples at the end-especially the pencil skirt-stunning with the boots and trench! What a great way to show how an item that is not typically seen as effortless can become exactly that. (And you’re super organized planning the video so far in advance and filming before traveling!) Thanks for sharing! ❤️

@AlyssaBeltempo 2 жыл бұрын

Oooh i'm so glad you liked it Christina thank you for the kind words! xx

@helenetaffin2878 2 жыл бұрын

Love the inclusivity of all kinds of body shapes in the examples you show to illustrate your point! Thank you for that!

@holyland1948 2 жыл бұрын

Alyssa, you inspire me so much! I used to buy every Trend out there even if it wouldn't fit my personal style just to look cool! And in the past 3 years after turning 40 I see a change of giving up of that fantasy self and keeping and buying the items that truly look beautiful on me and suit my style! I just wanted to share that you are the big responsible for that! Love your videos love the way you talk keep doing what you are doing!! Love from Tel Aviv❤️💋

@AlyssaBeltempo 2 жыл бұрын

Wow Kimberly thank you so much! I'm really glad you find my content helpful. Hello from Portugal! xx

@cindybell4051 2 жыл бұрын

I'm so happy I found you. You have made it acceptable to shop at thrift stores which then makes women more generous in their donations. 🤩

@littlelady7843 2 жыл бұрын

It takes a lot of effort to look effortless. I really like the first look where you switched out the button down shirt to the cream colored cashmere sweater. Not only it is more comfortable, effortless, it is also more feminine. The pencil skirt with boots look gives me fresh idea how to wear pencil skirt in more relaxed way. Good ideas as always, Alyssa!

@alexbrimhall3577 7 ай бұрын

I love that your examples are women of all shapes, sizes, and colors 💗

@elizabethwaldorf9275 2 жыл бұрын

Soooo informative. I"m always fussing about how to NOT be fussy in my outfit. You break things down so well. Thank you!

@adeletrimble4046 2 жыл бұрын

You’re so good at this! The theories you teach are invaluable for those of us who want everyday style without fussiness.

@jimandjudyc48 2 жыл бұрын

Love the whole idea of "effortless" dressing. Thanks for showing us some examples to help us recreate this look. Now I am thinking, perhaps some of the things in my closet can go because they're uncomfortable, or to style them is too much of an effort.

@rubinakamboj6091 2 жыл бұрын

Great to watch you and your inputs. Also the effort of video putting together , timing / explanation with the pictures / video on other side is really good . It's like sitting in a class to learn and not just entertain 🙂 . 😘🤗

@AlyssaBeltempo 2 жыл бұрын

yay so glad Rubina! xx

@veroniquezerbib8104 2 жыл бұрын

I so love the vibe of your black trousers, and the whole outfit with the brown belt which I wouldn't have thought of. Really nice

@louisetilbury3443 2 жыл бұрын

Love it as always. I learn something new every time. I wish we could see more “real” women rather than models. As a mum of 4 I’m always on the go with school runs, house chores and errands and rarely go out. It would be great to see something that captures womens fashion that can deal with my every day. I’m trying to pull away from jeans and a sweatshirt. It’s so boring. X

@Teverell 2 жыл бұрын

I used to live in jeans, and I would describe my style as comfortable casual. I've moved away from jeans - not completely, there's always going to be a place for them, but a lot - and have brought in cotton chinos for warm weather and some gorgeously comfortable corduroy trousers for cool weather. And I've exchanged my baggy sweatshirts for more fitted cashmere jumpers, although you might not want to go quite that far if you have very young children. Add a brooch or a silk scarf (or both!) and it's a more polished version of the casual wardrobe I've always had. You could always try some different colours, whether you prefer the seasonal colour analysis, or just have some colours that you know you look good in. I've got a Pinterest board just for colour schemes and combinations that I can use for inspiration, so maybe you could try something similar?

@76482 Жыл бұрын

About a month ago I decided to challenge myself and not wear jeans this summer.

@ah5721 Жыл бұрын

I'm a mom of two (almost 5 &7) . In fall I find a soft cashmere solid scarf over a cable knit sweater or plain solid tee does the trick.. I just fling it around my neck once, losen it up so it doest feel restrictive on my neck and instantly feel polished and effortless. Same with my chealsea boots and slim straight jeans that go to the top of the ankle. I don't care any more my feet look huge (skinny ankles women's US11) . Top it all with a good fitted wool coat and I feel ready to take on the cold with a tea in a thermos

@jbar234 2 жыл бұрын

I love this, I have never cared for outfits that look overly fussy and like they took a week to plan out. You strike the perfect balance between looking relaxed, effortless, but still polished 💜💜

@Hannahtheredhead2454 Жыл бұрын

I am LOVING the body representation in your examples.

@tanyaeve9498 2 жыл бұрын

Omg, this is just up my street! I am another that fell down a Kibbe rabbit hole, I'm pretty sure I am a natural, maybe even a flamboyant natural. I certainly need clothes to be comfortable and functional, as well as look good too. I also think effortless often means I've put the effort in sourcing the clothes, so that they seem effortless to put on because they work well.

@k-leeatwell-stoltz6464 Жыл бұрын

Just stumbled across your videos. Loving them! I love to find pieces that I love the look and feel good in them. It's fun to watch your videos and then look in my own closet to see what I can come up with.

@ldh4937 2 жыл бұрын

Great content as always! I love the wide-leg pants and white T-shirt look you're wearing. Definitely one I will be trying out as we move into spring in the Uk. Love the shape of that t-shirt - crew necks don't really suit me as I have quite square shoulders and a v breaks up the line and makes my neck look longer, so I'm always on the look out for great ones, as I wear them so much 😄

@ellanlezcano6922 Жыл бұрын

My daughters in Italy on her honeymoon right now and I sent her some of your videos. I always learn something from you. I am a classic fashionista myself, since high school where I was awarded ‘best dressed.’ lol And I watch a lot of them here on KZfaq. You’re among the very best. Now, at pushing 70, just when I don’t think there’s anything new to learn, you bring it! I enjoy and appreciate your channel so much.

@lmf3512 2 жыл бұрын

Fell down the kibbe rabbit hole at beginning of covid. Has taught me so much about balance. This was a great add.

@KatieJEvans 2 жыл бұрын

Omg LOVE that snake print dress!

@amybeatty5526 2 жыл бұрын

I’m so glad you’ve brought up Kibbe! I love him. He has entirely changed my understanding of my style. You are a 100% flamboyant natural, not dramatic (please notice how good you look in bulky sweaters, and different colored pants vs tops. Dramatics would look unkempt in the way you wear opposing colors and forms, and you don’t. You always look chic.)

@AlyssaBeltempo 2 жыл бұрын

Amy!! Yes! You and several others have told me that I'm a flamboyant natural and it does resonate ... going to take the test again! xx

@roshandacummings3423 2 жыл бұрын

I know we are always living for your hair BUT I think it bears repeating: your. hair. That flip is the epitome of effortless! Paying close attention to your video points today and going to experiment with a few looks today! Thank you for all your practical, inspiring lessons.

@AlyssaBeltempo 2 жыл бұрын

ahh Roshanda thank you!! Enjoy playing in your closet :) So glad you enjoyed the video! xx

@roshandacummings3423 2 жыл бұрын

@@AlyssaBeltempo It WORKED! I played yesterday and came out with a look that came off as effortless Japanese. You know the one: utilitarian pieces that softened yet had great dimensions? I wore navy kitten heels and silver intricate details to add feminine balance. I would have never put that together before, I felt so confident. Thank you for the inspiration!

@christinebrooker5050 Жыл бұрын

Great video! I had a particular style, when working, but now I'm retired it has changed frequently. I have loved all your videos and now enjoy different combinations. My Son can't work me out and it makes him smile as much as me. A big THANK YOU Alyssa. X

@elenachristian9860 2 жыл бұрын

Aha! It all makes sense now. I understand why flowing dresses and big sweaters are anathema to me. As a small person made of circles, I would drown in a long dress with sweater tied around the neck. Thank you for such a clear visual.

@bogdem9610 2 жыл бұрын

Great video with lots of ideas to become more effortless yet elegant. I would have put you as a flamboyant natural - you can carry a bit of drama but you tend to go with oversize or at least plenty of ease (not in your blazers but definitely in your sweaters). Since you’re in Portugal, what about a video on how Portuguese women dress. I’m guessing they’re a bit more elegant and put together (like most European countries) than us westerners, but love your take on it.

@AlyssaBeltempo 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you! Yes, I've had a few people say I'm a flamboyant natural which is so helpful and interesting! I"m going to take the test again and see if my answers change. great suggestion! Working on it!

@anneagren1079 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for a another great video! I watch many fashion videos and really love them all. But after watching your videos, its hard to explain. Just feels like I have learned so much more. You are a such beautiful person.

@kinshasav 2 жыл бұрын

These were great examples! Now I know some outfits work fore me. Can you go over the body/ style types you were talking about. You said that yours was angular and more dramatic. I would like to understand better 😌

@joankerley6415 Жыл бұрын

You are def my favorite influencer. My word over the past couple of years has been intentional. I think I learned it from you!

@kathysteele3071 2 жыл бұрын

Effortless..I want to project that and now I know how! Very well done.

@AlyssaBeltempo 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for watching Kathy!

@peggyjohnson4651 2 жыл бұрын

LOVED this! More like this, please!!

@Jen-zi1dy Жыл бұрын

Yes! It was helpful to see you put together an outfit and then improve on it while explaining your reasoning.

@patparada44 Жыл бұрын

That belt is everything!!! Love it!!

@jrab1716 2 жыл бұрын

Hi Alyssa! Thank you for another great video! Can you remind us where your white tee is from? Thanks!

@pamelakellow4225 2 жыл бұрын

Yes, please. Love the tee!

@beckyscheller9358 2 жыл бұрын

Like your examples. Especially see how changing one item can change the look

@contempl8ive Жыл бұрын

Your eye for swaping things out is effortless! I love this and want to see more! Also, to see your entire closet would be amazing. How often do you declutter and replenish, and do you have a monthly fashion budget?

@kathypr1987 2 жыл бұрын

Love it! Thank you!

@anne-marielandry4465 2 жыл бұрын

Great video Alyssa! Felt like I was engaging in a style master class 😊❤️.

@elizabethwilson3974 2 жыл бұрын

Always love all your ideas!

@irizl9328 2 жыл бұрын

I honestly feel like this could be a series! It's so helpful, especially with the examples. Also... i'm really not an expert by any means but are you sure you're a dramatic? You seem so much like a natural to me 🤔

@AlyssaBeltempo 2 жыл бұрын

ahhhaa YES - I am retaking the test- many of you have identified me as a flamboyant natural and I feel like that is more correct! xx

@Infomatic10 Жыл бұрын

Please make more of these Effortless Style videos. I don’t know about other places, but in warm coastal climates women want to be able to leave the house and the lounge wear behind while still remaining functional, cool and comfortable out in public. They want to be non frumpy and feminine without looking like they are trying too hard. Fabric is the most important (neither synthetic, scratchy or hot). This flattering yet functional style is not promoted in the fashion industry and we need more influencers like you to lead the way.

@GlamourGoth Жыл бұрын

One of the best videos you've ever made - love it so much

@thatswhatisaidCA 2 жыл бұрын

Yay! Alyssa's new vid! I'm so in for it. - as I plunk down at Starbucks and open my laptop. Sip, sip. Thanks, Alyssa! Hope you're doing well! Have a wonderful week ahead yourself! (hi from Vancouver)

@snowbellamama6130 2 жыл бұрын

Super helpful Alyssa, thank you! ❤️

@Sarah10766 2 жыл бұрын

The examples and their explanations really tied your ideas together.

@eileenchang2173 2 жыл бұрын

All these examples are great reminders of clothes I own. I can relate to the outfits shown at 6:40, and especially where the model with the scarf and flats is sporting a nice pair of sunglasses. Those ‘small’ touches bring the whole look together . ❤️🇨🇦

@wrendor9465 2 жыл бұрын

Love this lovely content! Happy Sunday & thank you :)

@imeldamayer-taylor2783 Жыл бұрын

You are so sympathic, your voice and styling tips good for effortless styling. I've developed my own style over the years . Do not really follow trends , clothes my body, age and lifestyle. I like your videos , thank you. Greetings from Vienna Austria.😍🌺

@Betzie229 2 жыл бұрын

Terrific video! You broke the effortness (is that a word?) into content/categories that made sense, and your examples were perfect. It’s a difficult concept to really explain and you did a magnificent job! Thank you.

@nancyferrier8609 2 жыл бұрын

Such great information and suggestions. You really nailed the Kibbe scale for me. I totally get now why some things work for me and other looks that I love do not.

@groovysecondhalf 2 жыл бұрын

I believe this is the 1st time you have mentioned Kibbe and I am so interested in more of your thoughts about kibbe body styles.

@reneeh.1249 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you!!! for the insight on considering Kibbe body type - and for the street style pics of different body types, races, etc. ☺️

@emilyevans6989 2 жыл бұрын

Finally embraced my NATURAL Kibbe style, oh what a relief! I love how easy and how ME my clothes are now! Lovely video. Thank you!

@ginnylangpap4170 2 жыл бұрын

Your best, clearest, most practical and informative video yet. Thank you!

@irenejohnson9614 2 жыл бұрын

Love your description of balance as it aligns with effortless!

@sylviacardenas4890 2 жыл бұрын

I love this video, fantastic.

@jcote6672 2 жыл бұрын

Hi Alyssa, just wanted to say that I enjoyed the shop your closet event yesterday. Question for you- at 6:21 you give 2 examples of outfits. The first structured and the second relaxed. I relate more to the first outfit. When you say that nothing stands out with the first look, I agree. I feel it's a cohesive look. I would call that look CLASSIC. Would you agree? It's fun expirementing and stretching my creativity. Thanks, Janine.

@lynnpeterson5657 2 жыл бұрын

Just wanted to say I notice you’ve been including pictures of a diverse variety of women and body types and I really appreciate it!

@marilyndoering2501 2 жыл бұрын

What an excellent video, and the examples from your own closet made your points very easy to understand! You’ve inspired me! Thanks so much. You make these concepts effortless to apply.

@AlyssaBeltempo 2 жыл бұрын

Amazing! Thank you so much Marilyn! xx

@pattykennedy6966 2 жыл бұрын

Wonderful! I love it when I can pull things out of my closet to copy you!!

@liavanus 2 жыл бұрын

I really needed this lesson! I currently lean more towards androgynous / tomboy-ish pieces and even though I love every single piece I am wearing, the overall masculine look tends to “drown” me… I need to remember add more fitted or feminine pieces to balance out my outfit more 🖤

@AlyssaBeltempo 2 жыл бұрын

ahh thank you Lia I'm so glad you liked this video!! :):) Thank you for editing it so well 😉❤️

@verenawebster 2 жыл бұрын

Love your style!

@trishecoole8421 Жыл бұрын

I follow the Carol Tuttle body style which works on your energy and movement. This works for me

@inspiredbybeauti7997 2 жыл бұрын

Great examples!

@MotherSup.4 8 ай бұрын

I so enjoy and learn so much from watching you experiment and work things through on camera. I’m a visual learner and seeing the process and differences in real time is incredibly helpful. And your clarity and cheeriness are the cherry on top!

@barbsterk5030 2 жыл бұрын

I just love your style! I’ve learned so much from you!

@juliecatalini7235 2 жыл бұрын

Loved this video Alyssa! You’ve really broken down the thought process so I could follow it and learn! Thanks so much.

@tuxedoneko9837 2 жыл бұрын

Great tips!

@JO0201 2 жыл бұрын

Yay to put together, but relaxed! Thank you, Alyssa, you're fantastic 💖!

@bbellebe 2 жыл бұрын

Thank You ❤️ you always put me back on the right track of my personal style 😍😉 much needed! 🙏

@karenmickens1239 2 жыл бұрын

Love it!

@marniemonfort7719 Жыл бұрын

Love ❤️ that Dress... the print one.. the slits to the front are so fun

@77Crazycat77 2 жыл бұрын

Missed these videos sooooo much. Thank you so much for contributing for my sunday creativity. 😍

@noellebooth9387 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your videos, you are always so inspiring

@Yogamomds 2 жыл бұрын

Fantastic video! love the examples

@susanclarke431 2 жыл бұрын

Loved your example’s. Really enjoyed this video.

@Mabbi54 2 жыл бұрын

I love this video! So many helpful tips ❤️

@cindyboughen9933 2 жыл бұрын

Great examples, explanation and outfits!😍Thanks

@GabrielaPug 2 жыл бұрын

Loved this video 💜. Great looks 💜

@brigittapayne6203 2 жыл бұрын

You are spot on, love your style , very inspirational, thank you

@amaltrigui4669 2 жыл бұрын

I loved your video ! 🤩

@cg50621Q 2 жыл бұрын

Terrific video, Alyssa. Lots of interesting ideas here. Plus, this is an issue I've not seen discussed elsewhere. Congrats and thanks for continuing to come up with such fresh content.

@kimberleymigallos2964 2 жыл бұрын

Hey Alyssa, your content has helped me have a more meaningful and minimal wardrobe. I loved this new topic on being effortless. Wishing you more success. - greetings from the Philippines

@marciamachado6557 2 жыл бұрын

So wonderful words!!

@aakshiagarwal5807 2 жыл бұрын

Hi Alyssa, really love your styling tips. Looking forward to more of shop my closet content on your channel

@ah5721 Жыл бұрын

This is helpful to creating a put together but effortless look , thank you so much!! I struggle to not look angular so softening my look is important to me.