let's talk about shrinkage: how to stretch your curls

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4 жыл бұрын

what's your preference: stretched curls or super defined curls?! watch to see how you can achieve BOTH from a wash n go!
hope you enjoy, xo
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@nobodyasked5091 4 жыл бұрын

This quarantaine thing really made me care more bout my hair

@lanceycharles7830 4 жыл бұрын

Same😭

@nclay 4 жыл бұрын

Me too! I typically get silk presses done. Now, I am loving my natural curls.

@diboraandsquishes1649 4 жыл бұрын

Same I wanna go back to school with longer looking hair Because my hair shrinks and it looks so much shorter

@ijustwannaglowupthissummer8349 4 жыл бұрын

Same😭😭

@serena_jackson997 4 жыл бұрын

Same

@Dolly351 4 жыл бұрын

Y’all. We got to stay embracing our shrinkage more. That’s a sign that your hair is really healthy. I love it.

@yultaenyot9401 4 жыл бұрын

well my hair is really really really healthy then 😂😂

@Dolly351 4 жыл бұрын

Yultaeny OT9 lmao I thought y’all know that. If your hair doesn’t shrink...you know it’s damaged. That’s why I use to call my heat damage, “trained” hair. Heard of that??? 😆

@diamond852 4 жыл бұрын

Who told you it's a sign of health? Stop regurgitating things that have no proof.

@aanihyasimone6045 4 жыл бұрын

I think she meant if your hair naturally shrinks when certain products that especially contain water shrinks your hair then it's normal. But let's say you applied way too much heat to your hair over the past few months and I wash your hair and see that you have long strangely strands of hair, that probably means your hair isn't healthy and that it's damaged

@aanihyasimone6045 4 жыл бұрын

@Yannii220 4 жыл бұрын

I like how you said “don’t stress over shrinkage “ 👏🏾👏🏾😬

@DeeDee_Stands_On_Business 3 жыл бұрын

🤣

@theyluvanalys3306 3 жыл бұрын

Girl I’m out here having a mental breakdown cuz idfk what to do with my hair 😭

@kaelynsimmons1459 3 жыл бұрын

frrr 😭

@bjrnbilqeyshatag7293 3 жыл бұрын

Fr😭🖐️

@thisismyusernameidk 3 жыл бұрын

Same, then I did the tutorial and I’m freaking in love with my hair that is now easily several inches longer!!!!

@ciaramonet2629 3 жыл бұрын

I just had a complete crying fit and now I am here. I really have a love hate relationship with my hair. More on the hate side tho lol

@christiangirl9478 3 жыл бұрын

💙Jesus lived the life we couldn't live and died the death we deserved and rose 3days later, repent of your sins and trust in Him💙.

@ashleyborde7702 4 жыл бұрын

Sis, this eye makeup & them lashes giving me life rn!

@Hunnibee5 3 жыл бұрын

Fr tho. Like I need the make up tutorial too 👀

@Botanica2012 2 жыл бұрын

That's exactly what I thought - gorgeous eyes!

@wannabe41 4 жыл бұрын

That was a great demo! I’m type 4, so fighting shrinkage is largely a losing battle, so I embrace it. I prefer definition over volume because I love to show off my curl pattern and styles last longer if I don’t over stretch the them. And I didn’t know Afro Sheen has new products. I’m dating myself but when I was in high school, Afro Sheen and Luster products were pretty much all us naturals had.

@stormrhodes2654 4 жыл бұрын

Right up there with you.

@user-et5jy9qs6x Жыл бұрын

Texturism?

@faithm7997 4 жыл бұрын

I prefer the more defined curls too bc it lasts longer + hair usually gets more voluminous throughout the week anyway.

@ciripmd 4 жыл бұрын

I agree. My hair is my fave by day 3.

@Simplylockd 4 жыл бұрын

Both sides are gorgeous! But personally I like the defined side because that’s going to last you all week and the elongation will come naturally.

@abigailjackman1445 3 жыл бұрын

Me watching 30 seconds of the video Nobody: Me: She’s so pretty 😍

@queenofsheba8948 3 жыл бұрын

Literally same😁

@nadegejuste2638 4 жыл бұрын

Actually, you can have a bit of both. 1st technique is to use gel even if you want to strech. I do this, and still able to combat shrinkage. using gel also give more definion and make the style last longer even if its streched. 2nd method is to use a streching thechnique on the inside of the hair, and on top where the hair is visible, u use the shrunken technique. So u create the illusion of defined curl on streched hair (but in reality is just the top of your hair being defined)

@HH-cv1dr Жыл бұрын

brilliant 👌

@ikeriascott7946 3 жыл бұрын

The Lords Prayer❤️ “Our Father, which art in heaven, Hallowed be thy name. Thy kingdom come, Thy will be done, in earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread. And forgive us our trespasses, As we forgive them that trespass against us. Lead us not into temptation but deliver us from evil. For thine is the kingdom, the power and the glory for ever and ever.” Amen❤️

@deepierre6488 3 жыл бұрын

Amen

@MoneyAintNoClass 3 жыл бұрын

Stfu

@sleezy2926 3 жыл бұрын

Stfup

@jaylynnh8851 3 жыл бұрын

Amen

@chiccabee8840 3 жыл бұрын

*AMEN* ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

@rafadon 3 жыл бұрын

I get so much shrinkage but I love how versatile our hair is 😍

@chach1070 4 жыл бұрын

This was a great demonstration. I get so overwhelmed with hair videos but this was so simple thanks girl! Also I love both sides

@jameranaquai 4 жыл бұрын

Pfft. I can’t 4C this working for my hair 😂😂

@T7d534 4 жыл бұрын

Lmao good one

@emmaelisha1339 4 жыл бұрын

Try it 🤷🏽‍♀️it won't look the exact same as hers but it might help

@lalasisland5277 4 жыл бұрын

Why not?

@creativequeen8371 4 жыл бұрын

😂🤣🤣

@ciripmd 4 жыл бұрын

Haha

@veryfair2927 4 жыл бұрын

Omg she's so pretty. I can watch her all day. After seeing this, I am going to wake up and get pretty. Need to go buy more makeup!!!

@jcicrafters5724 4 жыл бұрын

no no nooooo girl!!! you don’t need makeup to be pretty!! you don’t need to do your hair, wear nice clothes. you, just as you are, JUST AS YOU ARE, is perfect. you were made perfectly by Jesus Christ. and He loves you more than anyone ever could. He loves you because your His. just talk to Him, i gave my heart to Him and my life changed so much, my heart changed and I can’t live without Him 😭❤️ everything you’ll ever need is everything He is, nothing and no one else could even try to fill that hole. you are BEAUTIFUL because He made YOU, because He saw you and wanted YOU! He made you perfectly, have a nice day girl ❤️

@T7d534 3 жыл бұрын

You don't need make up to make up a pretty girl

@NaudiaLittle 3 жыл бұрын

Girl get the makeup & get pretty. If it makes u feel better & put together, live ur best life 🦋❤️

@demetriagibson8684 4 жыл бұрын

I'm loving the definition as well. It looks more manicured, both sides beautiful.

@eShawnny 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for this. The side by side comparison is everything

@itssbri_bri5706 3 жыл бұрын

i loved this video gurl i love how u explained and even split ur hair and did it on ur self to show it really works thank uu!!!😌💓

@tinabillingsley1016 4 жыл бұрын

I’m torn! I love both sides! Thank you so much for the video ❤️

@bjay1922 4 жыл бұрын

So true...it's all about what your in the mood for. Sometimes I want definition and sometimes u want length. BOTH ARE GORGEOUS 💞💕

@jeangriffin2536 4 жыл бұрын

Since locked down, I have been looking after my hair. My hair has grown and looks healthy.

@willojam5787 2 жыл бұрын

This was a GREAT visual comparison!! Thanks for sharing 😍

@doloresw 3 жыл бұрын

Yeah I love defined curls and I definitely am loving your defined curly side. Personally I save the stretched out look towards the end before my next was or before it goes into a ponytail or top knot type bun.

@MelinasAdventures 4 жыл бұрын

Never knew i needed to avoid gel and use a curling cream instead. Also need to look into a diffuser. Great tips 👍🏾

@sherdeliane5191 4 жыл бұрын

This has definitely change my hair! One of the best tips

@sashaemmy27 3 жыл бұрын

I couldn’t afford a defuser, so I bought an attachment for about £10 for my current hairdryer x

@user-qg4td6rg5x 2 жыл бұрын

omg thank thank thank thank you so so much i’ve reallt been struggling with this

@1womanoffaith1 4 жыл бұрын

You are gorgeous! Beautiful hair too! Thanks for the tips and products.

@antoinette4995 4 жыл бұрын

Your makeup is done so beautifully.

@garnettsapphirewt7227 4 жыл бұрын

Your hair is beautiful! I enjoyed the demonstration of the two types of shrinkage avoidance. 😊

@dreamerdazegirl 4 жыл бұрын

I stopped caring for shrinkage when I saw how much work it took 🥴 I'm the epitome of a neglectful lazy natural. Some how my hair is still here lol

@hebeforeme 4 жыл бұрын

Love this! You are stunning!!! Thank you for sharing some hair wisdom. 💖🙏🏼💖

@twin2206 4 жыл бұрын

A makeup tutorial is needed mam!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@LilianOkibe 4 жыл бұрын

I can't believe how much difference. Shrinkage is amazing! 😍😍😍

@JasmineNicoleCogdell 4 жыл бұрын

You’re so pretty Alyssa 😍💗 both sides turned out great!

@rcb3000 3 жыл бұрын

Wow you are GORGEOUS. And I love that you did to not obsess over shrinkage. I actually really like that. Thank you so much.

@kearstenw3855 4 жыл бұрын

Wow you did a really great job thanks for the comparisons

@tryphenaeady8560 3 жыл бұрын

I love your curls!💜

@ms.g1791 3 жыл бұрын

Love that you did this video. And I'm loving your personality lol

@augustqueen3996 4 жыл бұрын

I prefer the more defined side... so what I do is dry my hair under my hooded dryer and stretch it with my blow dryer on medium setting to gain length, maintain curl definition and avoid frizz. It’s takes extra time but my wash n go lasts for 2 weeks💖

@missserwaa_ 4 жыл бұрын

Do u stretch it every morning afterwards? Mine shrinks right back after stretching

@prettylady818 4 жыл бұрын

Maame Cerwah watch KimberlyCherelle channel for natural hair. She has a lot of useful tips.

@nph136 4 жыл бұрын

@@prettylady818 Yep, Kimberly Cherrelle has type 4 hair and stretches her hair with fully defined curls. She has many vids on the topic

@autumncraig7916 4 жыл бұрын

Maame Cerwah you can do the banding method overnight

@moorelivinwithxbeautyy 3 жыл бұрын

My scalp is telling me noooooooo 😩 *R. Kelly voice* I wish I could go 2 weeks. How do you keep your scalp from getting flaky?

@manalabdelrahim7792 3 жыл бұрын

ur hair is literally gorgoussssss

@yg-sd1ex 4 жыл бұрын

I think shrinkage is what makes our hair magical 💜I love my shrinkage

@tabythabeebe 4 жыл бұрын

You're gorgeous!! great video💕

@obg7 4 жыл бұрын

Had to watch it all the way through first...you're a great reviewer.

@letitaivory8831 2 жыл бұрын

Alyssa, you looked great with both styles! I like both sides but, I would prefer the defined side to show the defined pattern and for longevity of the style. Over the years my hair has changed and I now have a more defined curl pattern I never saw when I was younger. I'm new to wearing my curls like this or in a twist so, I'm definitely going to try your tips...hopefully I'll end up with a good result. I also didn't know that Afro Sheen had new products!

@carlashipman1778 4 жыл бұрын

Excellent demo. Love both.

@thisismyusernameidk 3 жыл бұрын

IM CRYNG MY HAIR LOOKS SO CUTE RN ITS SEVERAL INCHES LONGER AND SO CURLY!!!! I didn’t have your products, I used Aunt Jackie’s Curl La La curl custard/cream and it worked so well! I don’t have a diffuser or hair dryer s I let it air dry and it’s still really cute I’m in love right now thank you so much.

@AlyssaMarieXo 3 жыл бұрын

OMG THIS MADE MY DAY!!! yes honey, FLOURISH!!!

@thisismyusernameidk 3 жыл бұрын

@@AlyssaMarieXo I’m glad this made your day! It lasted pretty long but did end up shrinking but still looked very defined and shiny. Any tips for making it last a bit longer?

@herhairfetish1 2 жыл бұрын

Ommggg this was sooo helpful sis...thank you 🙌💕💕💕

@frankysoulspeak Жыл бұрын

Wow! Your curls are gorgeous! On both sides!

@daisyflower1545 4 жыл бұрын

Totally agree. I have type 4 hair and sadly I cant have it all. I usually choose more volume and stretch and less defintion. So I love your right side

@CatherineNCottingham 3 жыл бұрын

I like the ‘elongated’ side. Mostly because the volume looks great and you didn’t lose that much definition .

@Wearenotfriendsxo 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks boo! I needed this!!

@blackdove1299 4 жыл бұрын

Lovely! I always stretch my wash and gos using a hairdryer with a nozzle

@tinadavis6091 5 ай бұрын

I'm glad I saw this because I was just staring down a box of texture softener because I'm new to my little curls. I like both sides of your hair.

@ashleyncurls255 4 жыл бұрын

Love your curls😍! I love juicy defined curls, helps make my wash and go's last longer through the week 😁

@shannonarmstrong6364 4 жыл бұрын

Absolutely love both sides

@y.carson1982 4 жыл бұрын

Either way it's gorgeous! ☺💜

@Chosen144k-i1s Жыл бұрын

1ST DAY EVER WASH N GO . IM IN LOVE Thank-you for you tips❤️

@bellmosimpson9685 4 жыл бұрын

I love the shrunken side! I prefer more curl definition as well. I’m going to try the denman brush again.

@abbysings13 4 жыл бұрын

The stretched technique was so perfect!!!! Thank you so much!!!

@merileeaquino9569 4 жыл бұрын

It’s beautiful 😍 you are gorgeous with both lengths 🤩

@valenciataylor4966 4 жыл бұрын

New subscriber here! I have learned so much from your channel. I only wear wash- n-gos. I'll be trying the stretch method. With the hot weather having my hair shrink up off my neck is perfectly fine with me!

@kmhtigger 3 жыл бұрын

beautiful, I love it!

@Golden_Glamourzon 4 жыл бұрын

Glad I found this video..you gave me the truth I hv been searching for⭐

@MadisonPettway_ 4 жыл бұрын

You are absolutely stunning!

@honeyisnatural5 4 жыл бұрын

I couldn’t agreed more. Don’t obsess over shrinkage. I just told my mom this same thing. Let your hair be itself. It’s stays more healthy and retains moister. Ok on with the video about defying shrinkage. Lol. Tfs!!!!

@mightystrong5484 4 жыл бұрын

Both sides are beautiful 😍 TFS be safe and well 🙏🏼

@sherryberrydc7744 4 жыл бұрын

I love your natural makeup look. I like both sides but I would go with the shorter side. Thank you for sharing your video.

@barbarahodges8835 Жыл бұрын

Your hair is super gorgeous. Both sides look healthy and full.

@kierstinfuimaono795 4 жыл бұрын

you are so pretty!!!!

@klara3646 4 жыл бұрын

I don't have curly hair but I think this video was really interesting and nice to watch!💖 Love both sides of your hair😻

@i_comment_on_everything 4 жыл бұрын

I don't have curly hair, but i loved this video. It was very educating and gosh you are Stunninggg😍😍

@joannwilkins5238 4 жыл бұрын

Beautiful hair, love your video!

@Nottsoaverage_ 4 жыл бұрын

Really loved this video i had a shrinkage obsession once. My hair is super long same type as you but the shrinkage is insane i tried everything but nothing would work at one point i said f it if i have to choose to show of my curl defintion or fix my shrinkage i choose to rock my curls 💯

@mariajaimez5411 4 жыл бұрын

Honestly they both look good but the one with the curl definition I love it

@pamelawinston7848 4 жыл бұрын

I love both sides but the defining side is simply gorgeous

@marcianorae 4 жыл бұрын

This is so cool!

@GlamTam 4 жыл бұрын

Definitely trying this!

@rblair5342 4 жыл бұрын

Both sides look cute. Nice comparison!

@d.colbert6869 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you. Truly appreciated!

@amarifreeman7830 3 жыл бұрын

I’m dead all these videos got comments talking bout quarantine and that whole time I ain’t care about what I was looking like till 2021 started 😭

@destiny818 4 жыл бұрын

I like both sides❤. I prefer the more defined side when im going through like a work week and want it sleek and frizz free and the finger coil side would be worn like if I'm going out with friends and want a fun fluffy look for a girls night out in town🤗❗

@propheticendtimeministry9389 4 жыл бұрын

Both sides are absolutely gorgeous, but, I love those deep beautiful defined curls!

@eccentric_one_ 4 жыл бұрын

Omg this video was great! I just started doing my wash and go and this is gonna help me a lot! What kind of brush again?

@Gisellej80 4 жыл бұрын

Love yr hair. Love the both sides

@theabride7776 2 жыл бұрын

Both side looks great. But you are right nothing beats the side with beautiful defined curls.

@fjohnson72 3 жыл бұрын

The definition side is my hair on day one, and the longer side is my hair on day two. I have your same curl pattern but you have thicker, heavier hair than mine. You are so pretty!

@laurice8056 3 жыл бұрын

Both looks have some advantages. The more defined curls may not frizz as fast as the more stretched fluffy side. But the full side looks dramatic and glamorous. The defined side may look more in proportion for a small head, face and features. But on you Sis, Both sides look fabulous! Thanks for sharing!🙏🏾

@kamilahspeaks2200 4 жыл бұрын

I like the stretched side!

@kimberlyrose0671 8 ай бұрын

I think I agree with you. I really like curl definition, but as a 50+ curly sis, I need the volume as well. I would likely choose to diffuse with the stretching. IDK, I'm torn honestly!

@davinaemmanuel4708 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much. This video really helped.

@paulna85 3 жыл бұрын

Shrinkage is just a testament to how versatile and beautiful curly hair is. Shrinkage can be very useful if you want your hair shorter and tucked in. And there are other methods to stretch it and wear it long! It’s so cool. I’m happy curly hair is shedding the stigmas around it and people are finally seeing how lucky it is to have hair that curls that you can wear any which way you want depending on your mood

@Simone3413 3 жыл бұрын

Love your Videos! Thanks for the education

@Briana-hd9mk Жыл бұрын

THANK YOU!❤ THIS is so helpful I've been trying to wear my natural more and I get so irritated. Def will keep doing the finger method but lay off using gel and use a custard instead and diffuse different. You're so pretty btw! Keep shining ❤ i subscribed new followers.:)

@adriennenelson6709 4 жыл бұрын

Hey giiiiiirl!!! Im all for elongating shrunken hair but honestly I am more for defined curls... So I'll take the shrunken side anyday. I was feeling the shorter side better but dont get me wrong both sides still looked beautiful on you. Stay blessed.

@JSPurpleOne 4 жыл бұрын

The defined side was definitely my favorite.

@rosepogue7902 4 жыл бұрын

I love both sides but I would have to go with the stretch side because I feel like if it was a windy day your hair would blow in the wind and it would be just relaxing and beautiful it looks Airy I feel like the curly side or more defined side would just lay there and I like my hair to move

@HeyTeyKay 2 жыл бұрын

You are sooo pretty oh my gosh. I said it like 5 times within in the first two minutes of this video lol but I really liked the video as well

@CozyToni 3 жыл бұрын

Beautiful hair!

@nadegejuste2638 4 жыл бұрын

Oh a 3rd tehcnique to have both is to use you whatever curl defining method you prefer, then only strech the root after air drying. That is my favorite option.

@jonelle2911 4 жыл бұрын

Please elaborate on stretching the root, and is it done on 95% dry hair?

@yobee100 2 жыл бұрын

Nice demo, very informative!!!

@Godisloven09 4 жыл бұрын

Love♥️ both. The longer side looks like day 3/4hair. Either way is bomb. When I'm going for longevity, I want shrinkage. Meaning going longer between wash days.