exactly...ordinary ppl dont have a liberal mindset...

@AOD after he died....but ifran never forced her....after he died his family did because they didn't like her and they should be punished.....but ifran loved her unconditional

Totally agree with u. Nothing is all hunky-dory.

@AOD which irfan?

@AOD nd they were wrong doing that but not islam as it does not allow forceful conversion. But some people would still blame islam

Finally a practical girl

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Exactly.

I was thinking that as well 😅

Maybe they think this might affect them in long run u know like ' bund bund se banti hai sagar' type of shit n all.

Now that's a fact

People have opinions about space travel, not like they are going to moon or wherever, people can have opinions but acting on it is a different things.

There are some people who just like to get involved in other people's affairs and they are intolerant and vocal about them

@THE ZOLDICS @THE ZOLDICS living in a society doesn't mean to accept everything what society orders you to do. There's something called freedom. Freedom is most valued component in democracy. It's their choice. Are they affecting society in any way? When their families have no problem, what has society to do anything with their personal life?

Did he really got converted for marrying her???

That's sad... Nobody should be manipulated to do that...

@@103rupaliavantikasahoo4 Yes he was madly in love with her. He left his parents and started living with her. Funny thing was that she married a Hindu guy without any condition who was quiet rich. Money matters sister.

@@riyaannthomas1065 True.😭

Ha to wapas convert kr le nahi acha lag rha to

amazing

People are gonna pretend they didn't see that.

According to me, staying in their religion or converting to their partner's religion, is their personal choice.The Supreme Court said people are free to choose their own religion. Let not to interfere in that matter. They are enough adult to take a right decision

If he is forcing you to change your religion means he doesn't accept you as the way you are , you are still inferior to him . In true love your partner accept you the way you are and doesn't force you to change your religion, if you really want to check if he loves you or not just ask him whether you change your religion to mine , why can't he do that?

@@elitechampion6502 u r 100% right

To the point.

Very True 👍

Well, affluence is generally equated to education in our societies. People who are educated and socially aware are less prone to be taken in for a ride and can assert their rights, unlike poor who are not so aware and mired in their small societies. You and I can freely debate on these topics but imagine a 17-18 year old village girl who fell for a boy from other religion and she has no idea there is existence of Special marriage act and she can still get married w/o changing her identity. Problem solved.

@@devshreebhardwaj3096 Hey it all good When teh guy is hindu and the girl is Muslim, coz we dont have to convert her to marry, both can follow individual religions, children can follow both But in case of muslim guy and hindu girl *Quran clearly says muslim guy can only marry people of the book(i.e Musims,Jews,Christians)* Here starts the real problem.

@@tusharsharma1363 whatever the Quran may say, but if the marriage is for love and both parties respect each others’ identity, they would go with Special Marriage Act and not force each other to convert. However I agree, in reality, due to lack of awareness on such law and religious fundamentalism of a community, this doesn’t pan out like this often. Infact, Girls must be brave enough to hold their stand and refuse to accept this disrespect of changing their identity, in the name of religion.

We have had interfaith marriages in our family fifty years ago... We've had inter race marriages also... Today in our family if someone marries in our own community it's a strange event 😂😂 Trust me there is nothing like fundamentalists... Nobody cares... It's all just fear mongering...

@@samk6051 wow.. But it doesn't happen in all other families.. Still interrace and interfaith marriages are not acceptable in many families

GOD protect them from RSS 🙏🙏

@@comradeleppi2000 unfortunately I am seeing a disturbing trend nowadays... earlier Indians weren't as intolerant...

If u talking about RSS then let me tell u I was active member of it and they never tell you to convert someone in Hindu religion ...my sister in law is Jain and since she came in house my family member not allowing me to cook meat in kitchen...and once we even hosted there Jain gurus

Yes true, good luck to them. But they are trolled on social media for reasons, let alone the fundies. The most common objection to Hindu-Muslim, not interfaith, marriage is the difference in the basic pillar of faith: belief in God. While a Muslim believes 1 God, Hindus believe some 330m gods. This thing alone causes a rift among the families of both parties, their respective communities and even the couple itself

@@parvezhossain999 well, i believe if two people are mature, accepting and mentally strong enough, they can learn to live together keeping aside such differences. When people can fall in love across borders, with those they don’t share language , culture, ethics with - this is within the same country where we belong to same culture and legacy and can communicate easily. Believing in 1 God is better or believing in multiple- there should not be any judgement or prejudice or pressure regarding this. After all different people find different ways to reach the same destination.

@@parvezhossain999 We too believe in 1 all pervasive counciusness, but worship it giving it different forms,thats it.(some indian philosophies r exceptions to it)

@@parvezhossain999 the bigger picture is not the count of gods and goddesses ,the real bone of contention arises when you start imposing supremacy ,that Allah is better than hindu dev and Devis and vice- versa.

Issue of conversion is the problem . I agree.

Yes indeed

Yeah obviously

Will the guy be forced to convert?

@@lokeshgouda4167 The problem may start arising if he is forced to do so

@@_aidid yes

Soon the girl will be tortured to convert to Hinduism and no one will even highlight the issue

i was finding this comment glad to see this💙💙

@@aspirant8485 why the mind should go directly right there... Just hope they would be happy... Bless them.

@@aspirant8485 as much as I know I guess there's no conversion to Hinduism

@@aspirant8485 bro in our religion you didn't need to convert to stay with someone. Our religion don't promote or have any rule like that. That girl don't need to worry about this. That's why in history you will never find any incident in this any Hindu king capture a land and convert all the people in Hinduism.

Know the real arabic meaning of nikah🤣

@@lionmansingh1387 what's the Arabic meaning of nikah?

They might have converted the guy for the time being 😂

@@lionmansingh1387 BRO I KNOW....SHOCK HO GAYE BHAI JAANKAR 😂😂😂😂😂

Nikah is not valid , might be some fraud not real maulvi

@THE ZOLDICS that's why we made Special marriage act, no conversion is needed. Anyone can marry their loved ones.

@AOD Don't you dare disrespect Irrfan saab and Sutapa mam by spreading misinformation! Sutapa Sikdar is not a woman who can be forced to do anything against her will. So, either have decency enough to take back your statement because it's a LIE or you really want to spread misinformation for your shitty propagobda, I wish karma finds you!

It's all happy lovy dovy until Islamic fundamentalists strike

@AOD if they tried to convert her then they r wrong nd not islam. Blame them nd not islam. Islam never allows forceful conversion

@Ravi Singh bro not all of the rulers did forceful conversion otherwise there would be no non- muslim in india, Pakistan, afganistan etc today. Nd some of them might have did that but that doesn't mean you would blame Islam... Try to think once

I can feel u😂, same here.

The main problem is Most of the time groom is Muslim and bride belongs to non Muslim whether it be Christan, orthodox, Hindu, Sikh or many more But The reverse is very uncommon

That's my boy 👍👍 😁

Especially when its swapped every one of u will be hypocrite

Love jihad a made up thing

@@nafees_ur_rehman no not really. The people opposing love jihad say that if you want an inter faith marriage have an inter faith marriage but don't hide your identity and religion before it. The love jihad method hides the religion of the guy till after the marriage so as to convert the lady

@@nafees_ur_rehman love jihad is a made up thing until it happens to ull but it will never happen becoz it is ull who do it n if u don't know then u might be living under the rock.

@@nafees_ur_rehman You don't know me and don't generalize everything

And who will write Iniform Civil Code? RSS or Bajrang Dal?

@@dragonwarrior313 ni one gonna write any thing rule that are there in hindi reform and hindu penal code which ambedkar want to implement form muslim also will be aply and There is no as such big difference in current muslim laws and UCC only some laws need to change And 3 talak is already change Hindus and other religion had already accepted marriage laws now it time for muslim community to reform them with time

Then you should walk out happily and never look back and never let your parents meet their grandchildren... Punish them for interfering in your lives...

because of our culture which seems sometimes worse than africa . India doesn't look poor because of just money but due to its culture and standards too. I don't get why a family which doesn't have a moderate living home spends tons of money on just wedding day even when the girl couldn't complete her studies due to money factor Our culture really represented how good we are in Olympic games even when we have more than 1 billion population. People just want to spend fully on weddings and rest of the life they would love like a juggadu I would give u living example My friend is good at table tennis sport ,she is even a state level player and even want continue her life as a ping pong player Even she won several state level competition and was planning for national level participation Even her coach praised her too to go ahead Yea it was little bit affecting her studies but still she managed to score good grades But her parents don't support her as a player , they want her to fetch a good degree not a sportsperson as it doesn't give u good market value for arranged marriages They even said , they won't feel good in front of future alliance family if they would say that their daughter is a ping pong player rather than CA , CS , doctor , bank accountant . She even wished if she had born in other country except India and some Islamic countries Sadly she belongs to a Marwari family which is too cultured Just imagine , a STATE level player couldn't able to pursue her career further because of arrange marriage propganda who have won several state level tournament Sometimes I feel why our culture is too backward which doesn't let others to progress Girls are still raised like a high profile chickens which u have to sell them even paying by youself What does this society get by forcing things I actually don't get it. Do they like to make young generation suffer The arrange marriage system , matrimonial business is also a reason which doesn't let young generation to progress

@@pikachuthunderbolt3919 bhai tu apne tarike se ji Vase Africa me koi culture nhi hae Vha par phele tribes the pher European aye

@@MemesthanKZfaq but society don't

@Shadab Khan parents shouldn't have control over it They don't own us fully It's better to leave a marriage then getting suffered into it Many indian couples suffered terribly because of social pressure of not leaving the bond Even few cases are in family but still the women consider her fate as bad and continue to be in that And then they hope for good things in next life And one more marriage is not necessary institution to go in . Still western society is far ahead in innovation , discipline , health care and winning medals in Olympics. A human has been always given freedom since early men era and it should be continued too Western society has its some faults but they are still less than indian conservative ones Tennagers are winning medal too if they are indulged in bad things too. And to be kind your information Not whole western society is like Hollywood as if indian society is not like bollywood People are bothered about their career , life , future plans too. There is a reson why western world was dominated in past because their embracing culture of new things . Whereas India is still too restrictive for changes Do u find it good that my friend nearly left table tennis because of her parents She would still find regrets in her life near future at some point and wished to be born somewhere else in next life Why India ranks at so last position at world happiness index , hdi , women safety while china not Whole south Asia except srilanka has poor culture of living a restrictive life There is no reason for blaming Islam or hindu Islamic majority countries like turkey , Malaysia , UAE , Tunisia , Lebanon , Kazakhstan are well and good Hindu communities in Bali , Malaysia , Maldives , west indies are progressive But India , Pakistan and Bangladesh have one thing in common i.e., restrictive culture

Dude they are rich thats y in middle class family it's taboo

Love jihad when its comes to us muslims now everyone giving blessings and respect.

@@nafees_ur_rehman Love jeehad is not True it's a term coined by politicians and few Media, I Agree But force conversion happens, boys hide there identity, religion and trap girls then forcing and blackmailing them to convert either before or after marriage.

@@nafees_ur_rehman but thats true...you don't do nikaah to non muslims and I have seen in my locality forcing a non muslim to accept Islam...so what should it be called love or LOVE JIHAD or you have some new explanation...

@@aarohi.5272 Love Jihad not real??? Wtf! There tonnes of incidents happened and there are interviews of girls who survived the torture who refused to convert. The hell u talking about dimwit, you're one google away from getting your facts correct. Even Kerala High Court has issued order against it and acknowledged this issue of Love Jihad increasing in Kerala. Get out of your fantasy world you're living in and see the harsh reality.

@@nafees_ur_rehman its not love jihad until he/she converts each other Both girl and boy should follow their respective religions

True lol

It's a conspiracy theory spread by hindutvadis

@@RajShekhar-jy2zi so why you come here after changing name of hindu 😂

@@RajShekhar-jy2zi "Love Jihad" is a term first used in 2009 in Kerala HC by Police officer Jacob Punnosse after Christian groups alleged FORCED CONVERSION!

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@Shadab Khan ohh.. maine sirf point dekha.. thx for correcting me

@Ravi Singh what if I say u r lying... In Lucknow both families were agree yet hindu groups n police stopped marriage ceremony .. Just visit this link . Even indian court indicates without converting to Hinduism marriage is invalid www.thehindu.com/news/national/other-states/allahabad-hc-refuses-relief-to-interfaith-couples/article35045686.ece

@@sarahhayat9196 toh tu kar keh hindu seh shadi .. Barii ayii Secular..

@@coollguyyyarzoo9095 teri q jali .. Sach baat se hi to darte ho tum jhoote aur makkaar log

Well as long as people dont convert each other everything is fine

The main problem is Most of the time groom is Muslim and bride belongs to non Muslim whether it be Christan, orthodox, Hindu, Sikh or many more But The reverse is very uncommon

Define pseudo secular?

@@Art2Heart1234 every other religions other than Hindu are secular

no one against a hindu girl's marriage to a muslim boy...they are against the conversion of religion before wedding, why always hindu girls have to change her religion, why don't muslim boys change their religion ...n again if you want to marriage with hindu girls ...you can marriage her under special marriage act...but naah ..since in islam it is prohibited to marriage to a kafir ,you have to change ur religion

did she convert? no then there's no problem, but most muslim boy hindu girl marriages, the girl has to convert and raise next gen as muslim, there's the problem

She is not being tortured to convert and conversion in name of love is the most inhumane thing to do to your lover........idk why ppl defend conversion in name of love its just inhumane

nd if they want to marry hi$du girls ,they can marry her under special marriage act in which noone needs to change his/her religion ..but they ignored bcz once you marry to a girl under special marriage act ,you have to follow central law in which it becomes very difficult to left her,nd you have to give her alimony but if u marry to her in ur religion ,whenever you want to left her ,you are free ,noone question you ,bcz you are married her under sharia law nd also don't need to give her alimony since she changed her religion to urs...n you can also marry other girls which is not possible under special marriage act

Btw sharia board has recently banned marriage between a muslim and a non muslim so they are already onto this......when you guys are criticizing Hindus then criticize them also

I think brut has definitely talked about a lot of problems people face. And celebrating this coz in our country this is still difficult. I don't think one has to be d first or last to celebrate 🤷‍♀

Nd it's not about breaking norms. Its about people doing what they want to do irrespective of d society's idea of what they should be doing. It's just celebrating them exercising their rights nd choices

Fortunately, stupid norms like these don't exist in developed countries.

Rightly penned down brother… the subtle undercurrent and propaganda of this video can very well be felt when the caption commented only upon love jihad but kept mum on the brutal killing minority community does when someone marries from outside their faith. Couples always dream beyond faith but most of the time reality punches them hard.

@@ashrafulaman1892 fortunately , I don't live in a developed country or I would have been dead by now.

@Ravi Singh Look who is talking. Indians Muslim Actors Dilip Kumar (MohammadYosuf khan), Meena kumari (Mahjabeen bano) Mumtaz Jehan (Madhubala) and so many other marvellous actors had to change their name just because fear of being killed or not given roles if they keep their Muslim names. So kis name change ya religion ki bat karahe ap?. There are so many cases reported where BJPs kidnapped Muslim girls and converted so what about that? There is no such ideology to convert any person but it's a mindset and few extremist who work for only this purpose. It has nothing to do with any religion. Hope you understand.

@Ravi Singh DMB hahah so who changed their religion when Muslim man getting married with non Muslim? I have example in my family and so many others who belong to different religions but stay together so plz don't manipulate in any way. You have examples of beheadings or killing someone. I have the same examples who stay together forever pkus I have those examples too when Muslim girls are kidnapped by BJP extremists and converted them raped those muslims womeb. What about that?

@Ravi Singh If you have so many examples from non muslims who changed their religion I have so many painful stories/examples from Muslim who had to convert since they have no other choice except being killed. If you had brain they you don't talk such baseless things. Since I have already mentioned that such people are every where. They have no religious background.

@Ravi Singh DMB are you obsessed with Love Jehad love jehad love jehad?? You have to bear this. So many other examples along with BJP. World knows how innocent people have to live there, compromising each passing day just to give secure future to their kids.

@Ravi Singh I think you are grown enough so kindly read authentic material of what world talking about Zulm and in justice happening in your area. You are talking about name?? My paternals (Living in bhantinda) are their who didn't come in partition and now living while hiding their Muslim Identity for past 60 years. You are not talking to person who believe in creating conflicts or saying baseless thing. We have suffered and faced challenges. So plz accept that extremism is everywhere dunya janti Kashmir mei kya horaha dunya janti bht se areas mei sirf cow meat khane pe mar dete. Yahan I have friends from hindu community are blessed with everything, freedomof expression and follow the religion, getting smart position in companies. Tou stop generalize on few stories.

The main problem is Most of the time groom is Muslim and bride belongs to non Muslim whether it be Christan, orthodox, Hindu, Sikh or many more But The reverse is very uncommon

If the girl was hindu then after marriage she would have been force converted to be accepted n the guy would marry 2 more women basically it would be hell for her. Its no far that even the this guy will be forced to convert otherwise he will be killed.

@@lokeshgouda4167 please marriage is not an easy thing I mean who would marry to 4 wives in this day and age financially it's burdening and well yknow how the household will get.

@@lokeshgouda4167 How do you know that......have you been married to a Muslim man??

@@ibrav7979 if you want to marriage other religions' girl then just marriage her under special marriage act..but if you are married her after convert her,then you marriage will come under m@slim personal law ,in which whenever you want to left her you are free ,nd also you don't need to give her alimony after divorce n also can marry other girls being in relationship too which is not possible in special marriage act...that's y they prefer to change girls' religion rather than special marriage act...

Those are supporting shirk , they r belongs to one of them

​@@sheikhabdulrakib7813 if your religion thinks love between human beings is wrong then my friend your religion has some serious problems

@@bigsmoke903 i cant see any people like you while the disserted topic like love jihad was going on to show sympathize to victims .. who cares 😴 who married to whom even i did not know much more about my relegion during the time of commenting.. more than 10 million people revert to islam yearly .. let them do whatever they want to do their ultimate destination is hell fire permanently

Lol, 'black eye'!

@@usernamenotfound200 what she meant is evil eye, ig

Kyon teri baji thi kya woh

@Ramesh Ranjan hello brother if girl is wanting to be a muslim then there is no problem people like you making this world a very bad place

@@nafees_ur_rehman yes but what in those cases where girls are forcefully converted against there wishes, against the wishes of their family members

@@Adinar2110 in many cases forceful conversion is not required, it's easy to convince emotionally when you are in 'LoVe'. And no offence but many girls are emotionally weak.

@Ramesh Ranjan this girl is not muslim anymore too . That the funny part . N if there is cases like forceful or pressurized . It's wrong . N if forcefully convesion was that easy then Mughals would hai done to whole india . Atleast they hai rules most part of India

Just because you're born in a liberal part of the society, doesn't mean that these problems don't exist at all. Society doesn't bother? You have no idea. The first step to finding solution to a problem is acknowledging that there is a problem.

@@MolishaSingh No girl. He's just saying some our families have turned progressive. We've broken all these norms of the society and think beyond it.

Same here when my aunt married an inter race guy my grandfather was angry and didn't talked for one month after that it was all ok now in our family there are a lot of couples who married in inter race😄😄😄

@@itsybitsykrafter Of course, I understand your point. 😅 Families have turned progressive and I'm happy for all of you. But saying, 'These days I only see media create hype around such marriages..' 'Society has never bothered.' seems unfair, doesn't it? Honour killings don't happen out of nowhere, do they? Anyways, I do realise what you're trying to say, you're right in your perspective.😁

I love reading such discussions ... two civilised people putting forth their opinions ... keep it up 😊

Ye Sirf Hindu me hi possible Hai dusre or convert hone ke ILAWA nikah possible Nahi Hai...aap chahe jitna Gyan de de 😂😂😂

Gala bhi hamara kata jaye aur humanity ka bhi hum hi theka lenge waah

It's all bollywood crap my friend

What 'love' are you talking about? This term is quite messed up and confusing.

​@@mudrikasinghal4589 so your mom and dad don't love each other?