FYI to everyone, if nai ban or any authority figures in Laos wants to view or see your passport, don’t give it to them. They don’t have the right to see it. You went through the proper channels and the country allowed you entry. Call the U.S. Embassy right away if you suspect any suspicious behaviors because they can easily pay off authorities to do harm to you.

Ua tsaug yog ib qho good lesson rau peb kawm heev…tib neeg txaus ntshai tshaj dab lawm..

From personal experiences, my family and I have helped many relatives from Laos without charge or asking for money. These people come and stays for years!!!! I mean literally for years just hard working for their family ONLY. No matter how much you've driven them to their working place or let them stay with you in your house they don't offer to buy a single thing or help pitch in for a single bill. Then when you go to their country they charge you and expect you to pay for everything.

May others learn from this story. Stop helping them over seas people. They only care about their family there. They don't care about Hmong Americans.

Me hmoob me ka aw cav hlub nej thb os peb hmoob nplog phem2 ces nej nxhob los lawm os teb ncaws nplog no es twb g muaj db g zoo nkauj rau nej lis saib ne ♥️

That’s why my wife and I traveled in the USA only. Laos is a no go list country to go, after listening to many Hmong Laos stories, I have no heart feeling for the Hmong Laos.

May, you should share more of these kind of stories so our Hmong meka will learn from each other not to help those money hungry Hmong Laos. I’ve visited Laos 2 times and my ex-in laws from Laos stayed with me so I totally feel these couples pain. My in laws came and worked so hard but lives with us for free and kept sending money to their kids in Laos to build a house, buy a car/van and land. Just don’t get me started. We need to stop catering to those Hmong Lao people.

Hmong nplog is only after your money. When oversea, be smart and use your money wisely. No need to shower anyone with your hard earned money.

This is the reason why I don't stay or visit relatives when I visit Laos. I don't use Hmong people for tour guide.

Oh ca yuav hais tau tu siab Ua luaj li os😢

Thanks you for the share of this story told with us

I have a aunt who my blood uncle married and brought from Loas. She and my uncle tried to get me to make a marriage license with her brother so he can stay here. I'm like, nope! It's a good thing I didn't do because she's only been here five years and she's already mean to my uncle and grandma, now that she has her citizenship. And now, she's also trying to get my younger sisters to do it for them. Smh. Don't get yourself trapped in Hmong Nplog's scams.

My family and I just spent the last three weeks visiting Vietnam and Thailand. We purposely avoid Laos because there are nothing there for us. The closet we ever got to Laos was when we visited the Golden Triangle and that was too close for us. Majority (not all) of the people, including close relatives there just want your money. They don’t care about you.

Omg! I'm my blood pressure is boiling as I listened to this story. These people are blood suckered and willing to destroy anyone without any shame! Pab nrog neb npau taws thiab chim siab kawg li os. Cov neeg no lim hiam tshaj plaws li.

Listening to your story, I was so scared for you both. Glad your safe and have more knowledge.

Zoo siab koj lo hais txog hmoob nplog nyab laj liab txeev yog kwv Yog tij lo lawv lub siab phem thiab lim hiam heev tsev neeg hmoob mekas twg muaj cov txheeb ze hmoob nplog ces raug txoj kev ko txhua tus txav ko dej ntawm cov hmoob nplog nyab laj liab ko nawj cov yuav tua yus ces yog cov txheeb ze tshaj xwb ceev faj mog peb cov me hmoob mekas siab zoo Aw ❤❤❤

My cousin and her mom went to Laos years ago and they stayed a half sister's house in the city, for every meal they ate they have to give money for them to buy foods but the relatives have some papaya trees in the backyard they did not even bother to pick some to make papaya for them. Hmoob Laos just expect and want you to gives, gives, gives, and they just to take, take, and takes!!!!! Once my cousin and her mom came back, the kids of the relatives even have the nerves to ask for more money to buy a computer even they are well off. Hmoob Laos can not be trusting even if they are blood related. Stop helping them and bringing them to America!!! Let them be poor where they belong most of them, you don't know who is who!!!

Nplog teb ces kuv yeej tsis mus li lawm os. Vim hmoob nplog tsis yog hmoob zoo. Tib co khuj noj khuj haus xwb.

So true. We hosted some relatives years ago for a few years. Never did they buy any food even though they worked in the farms. Had family members went to visit that family in Laos after their return and overheard these same relatives telling their daughter n nyab to not make too much meat for these American Hmong.

Its sad but thats the truth 😢. My uncle have a very similar stories like this 1. He will never go back or help money

When you help someone and expect the same kindness back that’s love. When you help someone and expect a compensation that’s business.

tus niam tsev txiv tsev ua cas ob tug hmoob nplog ntawv tuaj txog mekas es nej ho tsis mus foob rau mekas kom nkawv mag kaw tuag kiag rau hauv nkauj mas neb tseem hlub thiab los neb ces awb dhau nkawv ua neb tsaug kawg

Zoo li neb tus kwv tij ntawm ko ces tuag yeej tsis tas yuav laig txhua txhua xyoo li os

Yog feem ntau ntawm cov hmong Nplog yeej muaj tus cuj pwm li ntawd nawb es peb yov ua ab tsi pab lawv los xav ob lwm peb lwm tso tsam ho poob plig li tus kwv nkawv no nawb Vim lawv yog lav thiv koos sam mog

I believe everything that this woman said, let these people rott in the slumps, no need to help these crooked criminals, it’s a waste of time

Teb chaws Laos yog ib lub teb chaws txom txom nyem kom tshaj plaws nyob hauv world no thiab twb yuav luag yog lub txom nyem kawg. Peb teb chaws USA yog lub teb chaws nplua nuj tshaj plaws hauv world no thiab yog kiag lub thib ib lawm. Yog li ntawv mas koj thiab kuv txhob khib txog peb pab tau lawv ntau yam, tab sis lawv ib pluag qab xwb twb pauj tsis tau rov. Cov neeg nyob lub teb chaws vam meej pab cov neeg nyob lub teb chaws txom txom nyem mas pab yam tsis muaj conditions dab tsi xwb. Yog muaj conditions, thov txhob pab zoo dua.

Wow! So evil. I feel so bad for you guys. Glad you were able to get help from the Embassy. Glad you guys dump those evil people.

Absolutely terrifying! What a nightmare trip to Laos. So true, the enemy is usually from within.

Kwvtij hmoob aw....yog muaj tseeb tiag tso txhua yam kev phem rau lub ntuj mam yog tus txiav txim xwb os yus txawm ua txoj kev zoo rau luag los nco qab ntsoov tias peb cov tseem tshuav txheeb ze nyob Tom qab yeej tsis yog tas tus tab mas yeej muaj feem lawv lub siab tsis yog siab ntsws kwvtij nawb lawv lub siab yog dab noj nyoog xwb yus yog neeg ncajncees ces yus yog tus sib tag nrho xwb nawb.

Txhob tas kev cia siab. Tus kwvtij raug teeb meem nas. Koj tus kwvtij ua tuaj nyob Tseem yuav foob kom tau nyiaj nas. Yeej meem nrhiav cov menyuam laib xyuas kom nws raug teeb meem nyob meskas nyuab es nws thiaj li paub nws lub siab dub rau neb ob niam txiv dhau los lawm ntawv nas. Hmoob nplog ces txhob hlub Leejtwg li lawm mog cov kwvtij hmoob. Lawv cov siab ces tsuas noj hmoob meskas kom kawg xwb yeej tsis muaj ib tug hlub tau hmoob meskas li lawm os.

Wow, this story so scary!!!! You're two are so lucky to be back home.

Cas yuav hais tau txaus ntshais kawg li os tom kuv tsis kam mus tim nplog thiab thai vim ntshai tej zoo li no ntag😮

They got some nerves, acting like they've done nothing wrong. Sh*t, I'll burn incense for them to go to hell. If you married a wife from Laos, you just invited her parents to your bank account. Your wife is the enforcer and the parents are the collection company. Sorry, this happened to you and your wife.

Hmoob ua dev rawg nqaij ces lub siab yeej phem kwv tij ces lub siab yeej txia ntsav os tu siab txhaj yog yus muaj 1 cov kwv tij zoo li naj😢❤

Vuag txaus hlub ua luaj li os 😮

txob tu siab o nws tsuas yg neb kwv neb tij ua rau neb xb yeej g txhais tau hais tias hmoob nplog yuav phem txhua tus tus phem lo yeej muaj tus zoo lo yeej myaj thiab

You should report them to the US embassy. So they will never allow them back to US. When they return to Laos. Neb kuj foob rau nom tswv nplog ces tsi ntev xwb he will disappear.

Peb Hmoob Miskas tsim nyog txhob mus Nplog teb lawm thiab tsis tsim nyog peb txhawb nqa cov kwv tij neej tsa Hmoob Nplog ntxiv lawm vim lawv siab tseem phem thiab tseem coj lim hiam heev txawm peb yuav hlub thiab txhawb lawv npaum li cas yeej tsis muaj qab ntxhiab dab tsi rau lawv li cov ua phem rau peb twb tsis yog Nplog tsuas yog yus cov Hmoob rov qab ua rau yus xwb peb twb ntshai ntshai tuag peb thiaj khiav tsov khiav rog dim kev tuag tuaj lawm tsis tsim nyog peb rov qab mus nrhiav kev tuag ntxiv lawm os kwv tij Hmoob aw

Cov neeg siab phem li ntawd yeej tsis tau zoo neej ua li o...txhua yam yeej yuav poob kom tag ..thiab nws tseem yuav txom nyem tshaj qhov qub o hmoob...tiam no kev Npam cuam cuag sai sai lawm xwb o lo..txhob tu siab o mog

WOW..scary story!!! Thank you for sharing your story..it may someone to learn without having to experience what you went through.

Yay... a story not about cheating and divorce

Tus niam koj hais yog lawm hmong nplog tsi xav tham txog

Cov niag hmoob nplog lim hiam siab phem txia ntsav li no mas yeej yog cov coob xwb mas lawv cov zoo ces ntshe tug puav ua tshuaj xwb os cov hmoob nplog ntawd siab phem nkaus li nyab laj liab ntag los mas.

Yog tshaj yog li lawm os, hmoob meskas mam tsev neeg yog txhua yam, tiam sis hmoob nplog mam koj yog leej twg los yeej tsis k li nawb

Hmoob plog aw

Zaj no yog 100%

tseem muaj ib Co hmoob me ka pluag thiab siab me npaum no thiab lo peb cov tsis zoo li no a lawv

Hmoob nplog tus cwj pwm yeej zoo li no os, lawv yeej tsis hlub leej twg li na, lawv hlub nyiaj xwb os. Yog lawv tuaj tim no mas muab hnav looj mam ntau tag dawb xwb na

I been to Laos, Thailand, and Vietnams for vacation to enjoy nature, resorts, but didn’t visit relatives not even let them know. And you need to scan a copy of your passport into your phone, your email so if they took your original one, you still have a copy. And you can tell Embassy that the original been stolen.

Vim yog peb cov hmoob meskas siab zoo dhau lawm peb mus txog tim nplog los peb yug lawv hos lawv tuaj txog tim no los peb yeej yog tus take care txhua2 yam lawv coj li cas rau peb, peb yuav tsum coj ib yam thiab cov niag hmoob nplog no tsis yog txhua2 tus tab sis yeej yog, 70% yog cov phem lub teb chaws nplog no yog yus tsis muaj niam muaj txiv ces tsis tha mus lawm nws tsis muaj dab tsi zoo lawm tom ntej no no ces cov nyuag hmoob nplog no twb yuav mag mus ua suav qhev vim nplog twb muab lawv tej av muag tas rau suav lawm.

Should report them for insurance fraud. Yes, they did get into an accident but report them for trying to milk the system and that they are abled body working on the field so they actually don't need the medical help.

Txawm kwv tij txiv tub los ua ntej yuav tos thiab cia lawv tuaj nrog yus nyob yog xav tias yus ua tsis tau neeg phem li lawv ces rau ncoo siab2 pw xav 2 3 hnub es muab lawv lub hlwb los hau es noj tau lawm ces mam tos hos tsis li ces cia nws tu siab rau yus zoo dua li nws tig ua tsov rov tom yus li nej cov kwv tij ko txhob quav ntsej nyias nyob nyias thiaj muaj kev sib hlub os hmoob

They will not love us no matter how much we love them. They feel entitled and take and take and take. They are poor but lack compassion for anyone. The will bite their own siblings there let alone here. They only talk sweet when they need something from us.

Wow!!! Txaus ntshai tiag! Nrog neb zoo siab uas neb rov los txog tsev, rov los txog mi tub minyuam. Nyiagtxiag ces mam khwv.

Wow txaus ntshai tiag2 yog nej xav tias tsis txaus ntshai ces nej mus nawb. Kuv kuj mus ib zaug tau 20 xyoo no lawm yeej txaus ntshai kuv yeej tsis mus li lawm kuv tus Txiv kuj rov mus 4 zaug tom qab no thiab kuv tsis mus tsis muaj dab tsi zoo li os nawb lub teb chaws nplog ntawd naj yog nej yuav nrhiav daim av 3 nti xwb ces nyaj nej thiaj mam mus nawb tsis yog li ces txhob mus zoo dua nawb lawv aw!😢 😢 Neb zaj neej neeg ko txaus ntshai tiag2 thaum ub kuv mus twb tsis muaj dab tsis ntshai li neb kuv twb ntshai es lawv…qhov zoo yog neb rov los txog tsev safe nawb.

Laos is one place on my never go list.

Lub teb chaws nplog ces txhob xav mus li lawm tsis muaj qab hau

I want to hear a comment from home nplog…. What do they think?

I’m glad I don’t have any close relatives back in Laos after 1975. But however, I have sat my mind not to deal with or trust any Hmong from or in Laos, Vietnam and China, no matter how close related to my family.

Hmoob nplog siab phem tshaj

Txhob muab txoj kev phem rau hmoob nplog tag nrho mas 60% cov siab phem xwb 40% tseem siab zoo ho

Xav paub seb tus kwv ntawv puas npam yav tom ntej no. Xav hnov seb puas muaj zaj ob tias nws npam lawm. Good story. Thank you for sharing and hais tau zoo kawg.

Hmoob nplog, feev ntau yog noj tau yus yeej noj yus tuag thi! Yeej yog neeg tsis caj!

Txhob Mus Tebchaws Plog Lawm Nawj Kev Tij Hmoob Mekas Kwv Tij Hmoob Thaib Hmoob Plog Phem Heev Li Nawj,

Cas txaws ntshai ua luaj li os lawv

Cov tsusm thiaj tseem thiaj cov siab dab los tsheej neeg

Glad Laos is not on my bucket lists to see. Too many crazy stories from those that are born there but grew up here in U.S. *Wasn’t born there and wouldn’t visit*

Neb ntse li ne thiab xwb niam qhuav haum xwb tsis tuag twb zoo kawg

Cov me kwv tij hmoob me ka aw cov hmoob nplog no muaj ib txhias siab lim hiam siab vuab tshuab tsaj plaws li o

Xubtubpim hmoob siab quav npua!

I used to talk to my aunt in Laos on messenger. When she ask for money and other things, I promise to deliver but I never do. She have the audacity to yell me I owe her $500 bc I kept putting it off. I told her I don’t owe her sh!t and then blocked her azz. 😂 Family is first to get you! Never trust Hmong Lao.

Koj cov kwv tij hmoob nplog no khij xuaj heev nawb !!!! Tsis tsim txiaj kiag li yom !!!

I wouldn't step foot back in that country for the rest of my life.

Txaus ntshai tag npaum li os. Zoo siab neb ob niam txiv los txog tsev lawm os mog.

Wow, lesson learned.

twb tsi hai nej cov hmoob me ka lo es lawv thiaj ua phem rau nej peb nyob lub teb chaw no lo yu cov yu hlub yu pab lawv twb tseem ua rau yu tu siab tag

Glad you guys made it home. Hmoob nplog ces yeej phem li ko. Thov sawv daws tsis txhob mus lawm kom lawv qhuav qa nawb.😢😢😢😢

Pab koj tu siab kawg li os tiam si ntshe koj cov kwv tij ntawv siab dab ntxwg nyoog lawm xwb os

Hmoob Nplog mas tseem-tseem DEV tiag-tiag lauj! Nej Hmoob Nplog yuav muaj nej cov niag ntsej muag DEV cov mus zais qhov twg nawb zaum no naj!

Txob k lawm os txaus ntsai dhau lawm os

Wog!! Txaus ntshai ua luaj li.. karma will come to them.. glad you guys smart and came back safe.. next time go tour a beautiful country like Japan, Korea, China. This are beautiful place to go..

Kuv nyob nplog teb thb tab sis cas yuav npiav tau txhau ntxhai luaj li phem tshaj nplaws

Uas cas hmoob miskas yuav kawm tsis tias whov uas hlub cov txheeb ze tim nlplog teb thisb yuav cov niam mej cas tim nplog teb li os kuv mas txawm yog hmoob qua los nyob koom zej koom zos ces kuv hlub thiab pab nawb vim koj muaj ploj muaj tuag los lawv yuav tuaj pab yus hos yu muaj tshoob kos los lawv nqa ib case dej tuaj pab yus hos txog luag los kuv ua ib yam hos cov hmoob nplog ces txawm yog kwv tij niam txiv nkauj muam los tsuas muaj dawj yus xwb tus nyuag qaib cos muag xwb los yeej pub tsis tau yus kuv hnov cov case li no ntau zaj lawm vim tib qho peb hmoob miskas khav theeb tias nws muaj lawm no xwb es thiaj kawm tsis paub tias xwb

Nrog neb zoo siab uas neb rov los txog lawm os. Txaus ntshai Ua luaj li os yom!

Yog lawv tuaj nrog yus nyob 3lub hli es nws ho mus nrog lwm nyob lawm no ces kav liam tiam siv yog yuav nrog yus nyob tsheej xyoo no yuav tau kom lawv pab them me nqe fais fab pab sam tsoj tsheb thiab yuav noj haus. Cov moob nplog uas ua thaj li aib nov ces nej xob hlub nws tag2 thaum kawg thiaj li tsis mob yu nawb. Lawv yeej tsis paub hlub yus lawv tsuas xav kom yus hlub thiab pab lawv dlawb xwb. Ua ntej nej yuav thauj lawv mus ua zog txhua nub nej yuav tau ua ib dlaim ntawv tiv thaiv nej li car insurance thaum muaj teeb meem li tus kwvtij i nej thiaj tsis mag them insurance tseb sab nawb

Cas tsuas hnov hmoob nplog khuj noj thiab siab phem nkaus2 xwb ne yuav tau pauv thiab txaj muag dhau lawm nawb yeej muaj tseeb li lawv hais kv mas dhuav hnov kawg li tiag luag los txog yus txaus siab ua luag noj lawm noj tag tseem yuav khuj nyiaj thiab tsum nawb peb cov hmoob nplog ntev2 lawv mam los saib yus 1 zaug xwb na tua qaib npua lawv noj coj lawv mu ncig hnub puav xwb tsis npluag tau po

Neb cov hmoob mekas neb yuav mus nplog teb nej txhob mus yav toj toj siab nawb yav toj siab mas lawv khuj khuj nyiaj os cov hmoob nplog mus yav toj siab los lawv yeej muab khuj nyiaj ib yam

Yog yus sib hlub lawm ces nyob hauv tsev xwb los yus yeej lom zem kawg.

Thank you for sharing your story txaus ntshais kawg nawb

Lub teb chaws nplog tsis need mus tsis safe thiab tsis thas pab lawv lawm

Lub tebchaws nplog no cov neeg hmoob neeg nplog no tsis muaj kev ncajncees rau lub tebchaws lub ntuj no kiag li nawb

Peb nyob tim nplog no thiab os tab yog phem li ko peb ntshai thiab laib

Cov hmoob nplog hmoob thaib, lawv tuaj txog koj txhaum yam koj pab dawb dawb. Chaw pw los koj nrhiav tau tsheb los koj thauj rau ub rau no, roj koj sam thiab mov koj yuav rau noj. Thaum koj mus txog tiv txhua yam koj them lawv pub tsis tau rau koj. Txij no mus nyias nyob nyias txhob mus thab cov niag hmoob tsis muaj siab ntsws li ntawd.

Hmong nplog lus siab yeej siab phem li ntawm. Kuv twb tau pab lawm dua los lawm. Txhob pab zoo dua.

In the past 25 years, it's easy for Hmong Americans to go to Laos but almost impossible for Hmong Lao to come to the US unless he/she marries a old Hmong American. In the future, it will be easy for Hmong Lao to come to the US but almost impossible for Hmong Americans to go to Laos. Even now, a lot of Hmong Americans are blacklisted and cannot step foot on Lao soil but with Democrats in power, it's becoming easier and easier for Hmong Lao to come to the US... many, like Mexicans, can just walk across the border and get free welfare and later, citizenship... all paid for by who? Hmong Americans, taxpayers because Hmong Americans, like this couple, are ruam khav muaj nyiaj, don't even have land but buy land for Hmong Lao.

Muab koj cov nyiaj mus tso casino es zoo moog dua li poob qhov ntuj

you need to file report on those people to the US embassy.

Tiag mas hmoob nplog tuaj teb chaws meskas yuav tsum cia hmoob nplog mus xauj hotel, xauj apartment nyob. Lawv yuav mus taj laj yuav ua zog lawv mam ntiav taxi thauj lawv mus lawv thiaj li paub. Txhob txhawb txhawb lawv, lawv thiaj tsis ua ua teeb meem rau hmoob meskas.

Peb hmoob meskas yog neeg siab zoo thiab khavtheeb at the same time. Yog txog hnub no 2023 and we still getting fool than we are the problem not them.

Hmong Laos always play the victim, perception is that we are rich as heck in America and we always have money. It’s ok to give if you can but don’t enable them as you’re the bank. That’s cruel sabotage from the relatives. Don’t engage in their tactics…they live simple and fine in Laos.