My old manager who was a dark skin woman from Haiti who hated that I was soft spoken and feminine. She would yell at me to speak up and treated me like I was beneath her

Baddies dont worry about getting attention from men...... it just happens😂

🎀🎀ON WEDNESDAYS WE WEAR PINK 🎀🎀 we definitely have a natural feminine energy as exotic women 🎀🎀

Lmaooooooooooo creepyoticalllssssss 😭

Pretty girl class has started ladies 😊❤❤

Chrissy is very masculine in nature.

I went to a birthday party and another guest said a swear word and looked at me and apologized. I cuss like a sailor 😅. She said she wasn't sure if I did, lol. But yeah, people act like i don't do "bad" things. Yeahhhh i do whatever I want, and im going to shake my rump if a good song comes on 🤭

Honestly I am a pretty aggressive chick and men seem to ignore this and insist on calling me sweet, "spicy", and cute and I due suspect that it is because I am lighter skinned... This is my opinion. i know if i was darker skinned that I would be seen for exactly what I am. An aggressive go getter.

I take advantage of both🤷🏽‍♀️ i have a very feminine face so people always assume, so I rarely have to lift a finger if men are around...even men who aren't hetero In my career, i embrace my more "masculine" side of assertiveness, directness, but it's still done in a lady-like way(unless i need to behave otherwise). Most people are taken aback because I refuse to raise my voice but what I say is very "masculine" it's a mind-fuck for them, but i get what i want🤷🏽‍♀️

Oh Feminine privilege is real!! And I’m taking full advantage of it whenever I can. 😊 Not sorry. 💅🏽

“How do you like them apples”. 😂 I’m definitely here for this 💅🏼💕

I will forever love Barbies. They are forever queen and princess worthy in my books. I love how they made a fairytopia and mermadia for Barbie.

I agree a lot of the things people call “femininity” actually are feminine advantages/privileges. Notice no one ever equates it with commonly shared parts of womanhood that have no social benefit. No one’s going around pedestalizing me or emulating me for fitting feminine stereotypes like knowing the difference between eggshell, white, cream& ivory OR something slightly annoying like enjoying many different kinds of cuisine in yet never knowing where I want to eat. Anything socially negative or neutral is usually ignored and left out of the conversation

They have been saying “beige rage” now too. Use that saying to your advantage if possible, they can’t keep calling us all these names and get away with it And whatever they mean by “their rent is due” ? I think they mean we have to act a certain way to stay part of the community or we owe them something. 😅

I love the fact that you’re telling the truth so bluntly! Don’t worry about those who hate on you for it! As the saying goes, “ the hit dog will holler.”

One time a man helped me carry a ton of books out of the bookstore.

Next they’ll say we are stealing their ideas

I loved when you mentioned how other content creators are mean or have no patience with thier subscribers. I have unsubscribed from so many women because of them getting upset with my opinions. I’m always going to have a different perspective because it’s mine, but that hit me. I realize I felt so at home here because you resonate with my spirit, be gentle with me 😂 or I gotta go 😂😂😂 ❤ love this channel, I’ve become more myself here than anywhere, and I’ve been some places. ❤❤❤

27:06 i was watching hair growth videos on tiktok the other day and on the videos of girls with waist length + hair, every other comment was “oh you think you’re better than me???” for having long hair? 😐

When i go to the beauty store they are spending hundreds of dollars on fake hair and wigs that are anything but type 4 hair😅 and when they put it on and the twerking starts😂...... loving 4c hair but never actually showing it foh😅 its all a cap😅

Omg thank you for the shout out😆💕✨The privileges just keep stacking for us!!🎉

"Creepyoticals" Is sending me!!! Exotical taaaaxxx! 🤑

The angry elfs are jealous of the love and support that we get from our friends and family. One time when I was at work a uabw made fun of the fact that I was scared of a huge bug.

I love the different names you use in the titles lol “diabolicals united, psychoticals united” now creepyoticals lol 😭

I hope I appear feminine even if I am telling someone to leave me alone, lol. 😩😩 I love being a woman.

My phynotype got kicked out of the BWE space and its a shame b/c I supported them, especially Chrissie -- her Femininity Series was how I got introduced to her and it helped me find my own elegance again. She should've just stuck with that series and did the other stuff later on once she got some of that negativity out of her system.

Yes!! ❤Another humbling tactic is being told “you’re so high maintenance” like huh? Just because I take care of myself and find joy in expressing myself through how I dress, it’s high maintenance? It’s like they hate we naturally love and have the courage to express ourselves how we like! Living in your femininity isn’t high maintenance!

I like being feminine. Men have tried to use this as a bad thing and put me down but I’ve accepted my voice and dressing girly.💅🏽

Oh I AM SEATED HONEY 🪑👀

I know we are decentering men and I love that for women. I wish we could talk about how delusional bw think yt men should be on a pedestal or some how better than BM. I've been done wrong by both.i don't get the new obsession

So yeah I think femininity is a privilege and I also am healing my inner child by being more thoughtful/intentional about how I dress. I was neglected emotionally and physically as a kid, so I feel like I missed out being able to flourish to who I really am so I buy and do stuff my inner child would like. Like bratz purses or sometimes (very rarely) I’ll get lunchables or a least let our 4yo have one bc I wasn’t able to get em as a kid lol. I had a male cowork note how I dressed, did my hair and makeup very feminine (which he’ll mention at least weekly) and in particular one time he mentioned the way I articulated my hand was specifically ladylike. Also if I’m coming in or leaving a doorway (if they’re really near) I’ll wait for men to open or hold the door for me which they do, & recently a guy (bm) let the door close on me a tiny bit and he apologized like 5-6 times. 😅😅 On my birthday I changed to a peachy pink skater dress and my son asked if I was a princess(a word I hardly knew was in his vocabulary) I feel like those are little examples where my softness/femininity play a role in how ppl interact w/ me. I also notice ppl are more chatty w/ me and women complement or even catcall me. Which if fun bc if a pretty girl gm or kid complement you it means more LOL😂

3:40 I like dark feminity & decentering men content! Feminine energy isn’t always dainty and “love & light”. It’s “respect me or be destroyed”

Two grown women beefing over a man is embarrassing oh my goodness 😂😂😂, like these women never grow up 🙄

I didn't even know femininity was this serious. I guess I live a "Nara" type life....except im 42, so I've just been living. Watching these videos makes me see what the problem is. It all went over my head. My friends aren't Disney princess like me, but I'd consider them feminine. My best friend has been viral for her beauty, but she's corporate. She admires me for and i admire her for her. My friend buys me all the stuff i like for my birthday she doesn't judge me for my interests. She doesn't like the color pink 😅.

Oh so Chrissy is in yet ANOTHER beef? Hmmmm WASH RINSE REPEAT 😅 I was always drawn to powerful feminine women like Cleopatra etc. If l could wear the Egyptian jewelry from back in the day on my 5'10 frame l would because jewelry is art to me. Anyhoo, l've been wearing MORE pinks, blue's and by the end of the summer I'm determined to wear red.... l ❤ it 😊

Easy answers - yes we do and yes they are! Also it’s beyond me how anyone can criticize the images you pick, they’re perfect and show a wide range of people imo. I always have to be careful watching your videos bc I just know my screenshot folder is gonna fill up 😂

Truth is, I was listen to "the other side" 🤣 cause that's what we had at the time. Thank you for a healthy perspective. 🥰

This is hilarious. I'm Nigerian & I know a lot of Black women who are super feminine. Femininity has nothing to do with skin tone and hair type😂

Omg I love feminine channels. Ladies from Russia, dark skins girls, light skins, White, mix girls, South American girls (different types). They all have things that I have learned or worked on it. It's easy for me since I understand three languages. I think that in general, feminine women who understand the art of being a woman tend to be often misunderstood especially at work places. I didn't understand why but today if they treat me badly for being more feminine, they make me feel sorry for them because that means they have never been able to enjoy the benefits of being a feminine woman.

That beauty supply video you refrenced was actually pretty good. Theres a lot in there i never thought about. Her name is lover girls anonymous

The way kept saying my name 🤣🤣 enjoyed this video hun 🩷

Yesss lmbo, was waiting for this lol🤣

Black women take it very personal that light skinned/bi racial women are perceived as more feminine.

Here for it😻

I just started watching the pop the balloon vids, the Jamaican version is hysterical, my husband and I were crying all the way through😂😂😂

21:51 I did too I swear!!!😂 this is inspiring an upcoming video…😏

I’ve honestly always felt the best about myself the more “feminine privilege” I receive from people, especially from men! Can you please make a video about how to leverage our beauty to charm as many men as possible and get what we want out of them and have them protect us?

I'm sitting. I have been stereotyped as more 'graceful' when I was in my tomboy phase as a child. It was being able to balance my masculine and feminine energy instead of overcompensating one side over the other. 🧜‍♀

Hey, just wanted to say I love your videos. I hope it's okay for me to comment here. I have 3B curly hair that's long but I make sure to moisture it and detangle. I like mixing pink with grey, black, whites clothes. Wearing small earrings. My skin, I'd say it's tan/light brown but I make sure to keep my skin moisturized as well. I've gotten clear braces and been losing weight. One time I went into a restaurant and I just chatted with this man about what I've been studying and working on. He gave me a free drink! I got surprised. I've had a few men open doors for me and gesture like "after you lady". Of course I make sure to say thank you. I always questioned myself if I was considered pretty because I've met some women, different races, who are rude with me or ignore me for no reason despite me being very polite with them and I talk with a soft voice. Men on the other hand, men of different races, especially white men has been so sweet with me and helpful/supportive, at work or when I'm just walking around the city. I'd say I'm working class, I worked a lot and work hard to get my degree, and I plan to keep studying, I want to get into a STEM field. I know I'm not middle class because I don't own a house or have a car, but I am working to achieve these goals. I'll never forget when I straighten my hair, I did it for a job interview but I got shocked how many men came up to me and complimented my hair. Back then I did feel a bit sad because I love my curly hair, I rarely straighten my hair but I did that once because I wanted to get a job (sadly the job interview got postponed, but I came in with my curly hair and I got the job, that was in the past). Now that I'm thinking about it, maybe having either long curly or even straighten hair gave me pretty privilege and I should take advantage of that. I just need to be careful with my hair and make sure it remains healthy. This video makes me think of my past experiences. For now I will keep working to improve my life as well as improve my health. Thank you for this video, it has been eye opening. It's sad how other women at work will be very rude or ignore you for no reason.

Please make a video series on building generational wealth as an exotica

Indeed, I feel like the old money look is kind of played out in a sense because everyone’s trying to attain that look instead of being original. You can still look presentable and classy without trying to have the old money aesthetic. I feel like it’s just another trend everyone tries to have follow instead of being themselves.

I still wear bows in my hair.. I'm turning 30 in a year and probably not gonna stop 😳🎀

9:45 they’re talking about white supremacy culture. Desirable in the eyes of white people and white beauty standards.

Very jealous. Some women AND some men who must transition.

Chrissie is like that mean jealous auntie that always targets you at family functions. This channel has really brought out her unhinged masculine side. 😂🤦🏽‍♀️

Do you know the guy who said black women are for grown ups, but i know he didnt really say that...😂😂 nasty work. No, we dont know him.

10:33 & 23:12 oh 100% 😭

I thought chrisse was better than this what is she doing lol

I always got compliments from mom blk people. Never hot compliments from black people have . I have never seen a nlk person give one another compliments. I always give compliments