Me either. Sorry but Idc how good of a job someone is doing or how bad a situation is. That’s how affairs usually start. And how would her significant other feel if she’s sending flowers or gifts to one of her male clients?

I don't even think he's emotionally cheating. I have been that guy and I have seen other people give nice little gifts to congratulate people for the hard work they do. Here are somethings I also notice too. A lot of these women are expecting roses from men who normally would not send them flowers. Has ever occurred to listeners that maybe, the woman really isn't a flower wanting woman and so, maybe their attentive man would not waste money or a free gift of flowers on his woman because she wasn't into them? One last thing...What if she already knows he is that kind of guy, but with having pregnancy brain and emotions is being hypersensitive and needy (not in an bad way, but in a way that many men would not really pick up on because we can't get pregnant)? Terry might just be one of those lovable idiots who doesn't pick up on these things and maybe just needs to have a calm sit down and the two talk about what it is Rachel needs right now and him doing what he can to take into account her state? Especially if this is his first child and he is just learning how to cope with that?

@@MLIrons Hormones or not it’s still not a good feeling to have. I understand you want to give people the benefit of the doubt but his significant other deserves roses more than anyone. She’s about to bring life into this world. I’m sorry but it’s only a matter of time before he goes too far with this client

@@lkb-il8iy: I'm not giving the benefit of anything. I alike everyone else. Someone who is listening to what two people are saying on the radio. With no TRUE knowledge about the people involved or their relationship. All I said is that from life experiences, I know exactly where he is coming from nothing more nothing less. And I am sure he is going to make the naysayers look silly predicting he is going to do something wrong.

@@MLIrons Well everyone has different life experiences. People these days have hidden agendas. Ijs 🤷‍♀️

@@lkb-il8iy: Human beings in all of time have had hidden agendas, for good or for ill. This is not new under the sun. And that does not excuse us to judge or accuse others, especially if we don't know if our thoughts are true or not. And just remember, the people who got y'all mad at him are the people who REFUSED to let his "No." be "No." his emotionally gf and the radio hosts. Here is the thing about men like him (I should know, I am like him), don't pressure us into things or you may regret our reactions. We may comply, just not in the way you desire.

what?

Na. I get it. Especially if you are dealing with a client who lacks esteem and self-confident. I can see and have seen people do that. I have done that in the past myself.

@@MLIrons He should at least do it on behalf of the staff even though I doubt that the other staff members know about it

@@lkb-il8iy: I don't think anyone is arguing that he shouldn't have. Even he said it himself, he didn't think about it. And while that is at least a hair raise for me, with lack of evidence he has previously CHEATED, then I am not going to base if he is cheating or not or in the wrong if he honestly made a mistake.

@@MLIrons Of course he didn’t think about it just like he didn’t think about his significant other first

@@lkb-il8iy: 1. How do we know that? How do we know he did not think about her in a place we have no access to; his heart and/or mind? Just because he did not say it, does not mean he did not think it. 2. And again, everything in this world isn't about his gf just like everything in this world is about her bf. So, yes, he and she has every right, and should as decent human beings, think of others than just themselves.

You sound clueless, she didn’t get pregnant to keep him😂 me and my fiancé have been together 14 years and have two kids and don’t plan on getting married. We’re in 2023.

You can always co-parent 🤷‍♀️

@briannahancock1482 I did not say she got pregnant to keep him. I said babies don't keep men. My statement is not clueless, 😆 🙃 😂 it's from personal experience of people I've know in these situations. Good for you to have figured away to live together and not be married. To each their own. I've been with my husband 24 years and married 21. I would not have had children with him if he was not willing to marry. We are not roommates 😒 but that is my opinion and you can have yours.

No if my boyfriend or husband was sending roses to his client I’d be pissed off. You don’t do that. That’s crossing a work/client boundary.

@@briannahancock1482: You could be pissed off all you want, he shouldn't stop being the kind, compassionate, thoughtful person he is JUST because of your insecurity or immaturity. I am like this guy and yes...I would rather loss a woman than loss who God created me to be. And I hope your husband or boyfriend is the same way. With that out of the way...I DO 100% believe the man and woman should TALK about why she is upset, not the surface anger of "Well that's just inappropriate." But the true hard of the matter before he goes start changing himself. Because I agree, a kind gesture from him can be seen as something else from the receiver's end. Or it could lead to false ideas if the receiver are themselves harboring feelings. Then, by all means, let him know the danger, because that makes much more since then you getting mad over him giving a new hirer FREE flowers. Because believe you me why I say, if I have a woman and knowing how cheap looking free roses are, I would much rather give them to a new hirer or friend and take my time and get my woman something I took time to look at first, pull out the flaws, and make sure she is getting the best looking roses there are.

@@MLIrons But at the same time there are boundaries that you can’t cross. You can be friendly and thoughtful but don’t send romantic roses to them

@@briannahancock1482 Agree 💯. I think this person just too trusting and likes to give people the benefit of the doubt

Then he should communicate it.

And to play devil’s advocate how do we know that it’s his baby?

I don't believe that he didn't use protection so there's a baby on the way duh 🙄

​@@lkb-il8iywow really? 😮

@@jessicajohnson8378You’d be surprised. It may not be true but why else wouldn’t he be excited?