Go to therapy, people. Age doesn't fix anything if you're not actively working on yourself. Ignoring, repressing, acting like you don't care about something that was important to you only creates dysfunctional patterns of behavior that are harder to change later.
@misshglady4lyfe3 жыл бұрын
Love your self and inbrace them
@adamsey_mame90433 жыл бұрын
Yes just like Adrienne said growing up is one part of involvement but it's hard to get over your insecurities course i tried okay guys i tried hart to but never goes off my mind. Maybe i need therapy for that
@jessiealba45913 жыл бұрын
I’m still learning everyday, but for me it helps to just accept them, bc that’s who I am and also not comparing myself to others.
@Nique19863 жыл бұрын
I’m still a work in progress I am 34 and went through a divorce so that has brought on other insecurities !!!!!’
@josephlovely77593 жыл бұрын
Only Adrienne was being vulnerable, deep and genuine in this conversation. Thanks Ade♥️♥️♥️
@erikjj2353 жыл бұрын
Right! She's awesome. Like we need to dig deeper into that topic!
@kudjor863 жыл бұрын
Agreed! 👏🏽
@gaila.98523 жыл бұрын
I agree!
@emfarah37583 жыл бұрын
Believe me I grew up with nothing but white ppl and being friends with white women is nothing but problems. I understand when she said she only interacted with authority figures. I wish growing up all the way to high school there was more black and brown ppl. It really messes you up when you’re the minority of a majority
@ajemroberts39033 жыл бұрын
This 💯 made me think
@jodi_leigh52463 жыл бұрын
Adrienne’s insecurity is more common than she thinks. And it’s on a global scale. I get it 🤷🏻♀️
@audreyc10913 жыл бұрын
Facts i can super relate to her, even as a black girl in canada
@erikjj2353 жыл бұрын
Maybe for English or commonwealth countries.
@KLB12183 жыл бұрын
I used to feel the same way Adrienne felt around white folks too as I entered into the corporate workplace
@eca65453 жыл бұрын
@@erikjj235 francophone countries are worse when it comes to white worship lets be honesy
@Martina-xl3jr3 жыл бұрын
For sure
@Ellieprez3 жыл бұрын
Adrienne I think you hit it on the spot for many of us Latinas/Hispanics. It’s a weird insecurity but it does exist
@yadiira3 жыл бұрын
Yess
@newtempphone-ash95073 жыл бұрын
she looks so skinny- postmaster must not deliver to her building.
@gaila.98523 жыл бұрын
@@newtempphone-ash9507 What? She looks healthy. Stop it.
@sarahd27873 жыл бұрын
@@newtempphone-ash9507 I didn't understand what you are saying?
@selenajet65253 жыл бұрын
Adrienne's insecurity is quite common I think a lot of us are just afraid to say it.
@luccalele97403 жыл бұрын
Really appreciated Adrienne's vulnerability here. Everyone else was pretending to be above insecurities, especially Jeannie trying to play therapist and I wish they had related and shared a bit more.
@yervue94263 жыл бұрын
Agree 110%
@alexandraanderson39882 жыл бұрын
Right lmaoo on the jeanie part I was just about to say that she trying to play the therapist now😊🥴
@jayjanzee90593 жыл бұрын
"The projects don't define me. I'm actually defining the projects." What a profound, impactful, philosophical statement that was Loni. Can't say enough 👏👏👏👏 It let's people like me, who is from the projects, to redefine myself ❤❤❤
@alexandraanderson39882 жыл бұрын
Right loni was preaching here I was like ok get it loni😊😊👏👏😅👍👍
@susfar3 жыл бұрын
Loni is looking better than ever! She is slayingggg
@djm29853 жыл бұрын
She looks gorgeous today
@frazierfam62123 жыл бұрын
Yessss she has been looking amazing
@eccentricityxoxo53783 жыл бұрын
It's all the love she's getting!
@brookelynnebluesky40093 жыл бұрын
@@eccentricityxoxo5378 ...and giving
@tamerilee3 жыл бұрын
Jeannie “I remember Loni talking about her elbows and how her elbows helped her thru life” Loni: 🙆🏾♀️ 😭😭😭😭😭😭
@hilenijoseph31103 жыл бұрын
Haha
@gaila.98523 жыл бұрын
I wish the other hosts were more open like Adrienne. I understand that Jeannie can push past her insecurities, but she still has them.
@greatgull69313 жыл бұрын
She may not
@gaila.98523 жыл бұрын
@@greatgull6931 Everyone does.
@valeriewilliams50783 жыл бұрын
She basically changed her whole look since she has started datign a black man. Ass work and everything.
@gaila.98523 жыл бұрын
@@valeriewilliams5078 Stop spreading lies. Jeannie started working out and gained some weight, which is exactly what she wanted.
@valeriewilliams50783 жыл бұрын
@@gaila.9852 She wanted it when she got with a black man. Ass shots and everything. She is insecure because she is trying hard to fit the world she knows most black men love.
@RealTakerslady3 жыл бұрын
I wanna hear more of what Adrienne was talking about
@dominiquewhitney9973 жыл бұрын
Yes, I think she should take some social psychology courses and perhaps some history, postcolonial, and political science courses to learn about cross culture psychology, minorities in America, and multicultural psychology. I hope she reads some books.
@nialapin3 жыл бұрын
Adrienne really brought up a good topic here and I'd love to hear how much deeper her thoughts go because insecurities like that are SO valid and I don't know if I hear people talk about this all that much.
@TaluuTV3 жыл бұрын
I think Loni has been looking her best since quarantine, the head wraps and braids really suit her❤️❤️😍💯
@alexandraanderson39882 жыл бұрын
Lmaoo😅😅👍👍 Right😄
@distorbia203 жыл бұрын
The ladies sometimes don’t answer the topic. They always go off topic. Only Adrienne mentioned her insecurities 😂😂.
@asante2913 жыл бұрын
Loni mentioned hers too which was growing up in the projects. Did we watch the same segment ???
@jasi73133 жыл бұрын
Loni did
@lala09133 жыл бұрын
I’ve been loving Adrienne’s input lately. She adds both light and depth to the show.
@officialjasmineclarke3 жыл бұрын
Adrienne, I appreciate your transparency and you actually being relatable with answering the question. We ALL have or had insecurities no matter how old we are. Thank you for being REAL with us about yours! ♥️
@Crz4wizard3 жыл бұрын
It may not be the insecurities that lasts, it’s the trauma.
@fudge75453 жыл бұрын
Amen!!!!! This comment needs to be highlighted.
@misbahailia33453 жыл бұрын
Well said.
@mrsmichellegvega3 жыл бұрын
yessssssss! spot on!
@forroses.24453 жыл бұрын
Adrienne thank you for being real and going there. That's something alot of people would never day out loud
@yonce23473 жыл бұрын
Damn, Adrienne got real af. I use to feel the same way because my school and neighborhood only had black and hispanic kids. I can't imagine how it feels for kids who were one of the few minorities at their school.
@jyn883 жыл бұрын
Right!! I felt like a foreign alien growing up. I was the only Asian household in a predominantly Black neighborhood but then my school was predominantly White. It was odd and segregated!
@asante2913 жыл бұрын
@@jyn88 Where did you grow up???
@jyn883 жыл бұрын
@@asante291 Arlington, Virginia
@shaniekiesutanya79993 жыл бұрын
It is possible to overcome them, you need to first acknowledge them, own and accept them. We evolve and insecurities changes over time, for example especially in grade school I was so insecure about how dark my skin was because it wasn't seen as beautiful. Now, it's one of my best features. I love and appreciate my complexion.
@betzabethrosas39813 жыл бұрын
I know exactly what Adrienne is talking about I wish the other girls wouldn’t interrupt Her
@yahgirl17263 жыл бұрын
They tryna stop her from getting fired.
@alexandraanderson39882 жыл бұрын
Nobody was really interupting her but Jeannie🥴 but you know Adrienne she seems to be louder than everyone else there😅 well except for loni well..... here she wasn't tho😊🥴 love her tho❤
@djm29853 жыл бұрын
Love what Adrienne was trying to say. My girl tried to take this back to the days when our ladies used to put their feelings out there, get deep, and relatable to their audience. Jeannie seems to be in a different headspace now so she's just happy happy, lol but she could have mentioned just a few months back that she felt insecure about her body weight due to DWTS and then getting sick.
@TheTonyspik3 жыл бұрын
I definitely felt that awareness and insecurity due white people's presence . Even though I'm college educated, there's definitely been times where I felt I had to tone down my emotions, language, and behavior because I didn't want to be looked at as ghetto. But no longer. But that never really stopped me from having white friends though, but they were also my "equals"
@ribbitquack3 жыл бұрын
Can we hear more about Adrienne's insecurity. Please post the longer video.
@josephlovely77593 жыл бұрын
Nope the other ladies cut her off and did not let her get deeper
@lucky4evr13 жыл бұрын
They're scared to go deep now
@wiena33523 жыл бұрын
@@lucky4evr1 why?
@lucky4evr13 жыл бұрын
@@wiena3352 People were saying the topics were too serious when Amanda Seales was on it. .. Like that was her fault. But they complained. And now all they show is duplicated bubble gum and sex topics .. like we want to hear them talk about sex all the time😒
@person85203 жыл бұрын
@@josephlovely7759 no they didnt
@jirahlawrence51783 жыл бұрын
I love honest they all are especially Adrienne!
@87Sharakane3 жыл бұрын
I really appreciate Adrienne being so real and sharing that
@raejae55653 жыл бұрын
What Adrienne said about college is one of those grass is always greener on the other side things. As someone who went to college to do engineering, I always think about what if I went down the entertainment/social media route instead and got clout/money that way. My insecurity is that I won't have an impact on the world, but if I was an "influencer" maybe I could have
@iacobus42273 жыл бұрын
Rae Jae you could do both.
@mondophakathi3243 жыл бұрын
I fully understand what Adrienne is saying and it makes a lot of sense.
@JessicaHeartsMakeup3 жыл бұрын
The moment you realize that there are people living with diseases, cancer, diabetes, disabilities, & so much more then you’ll realize that your insecurities are so small & stupid. Love yourself💕
@natdivaz53483 жыл бұрын
Still valid.
@Nique19863 жыл бұрын
I luv how honest Adrienne and loni was I’m 34 and went through a divorce which has brought out some insecurities that I may have had before and some I didn’t have till now so I am a work in progress and learning each day !!!!
@yarelybanuelos10042 жыл бұрын
Thank you A for being vulnerable, and saying what we are thinking at home!
@tamarM7_3 жыл бұрын
Loni looks like a queen during this season 🤩🔥
@Faridapows3 жыл бұрын
WOw, Loni you look wonderfull!
@gaila.98523 жыл бұрын
Jeannie, we are not going to wait until we are 40 for our insecurities to go away.
@iacobus42273 жыл бұрын
That’s not what she’s saying. She’s speaking from her personal experience.
@gaila.98523 жыл бұрын
@@iacobus4227 I know that. This is my response.
@iacobus42273 жыл бұрын
@@gaila.9852 oh ok cause you said it like waiting that long is bad thing or something. Insecurities don’t simply go away, and it doesn’t happen by the snap of your fingers. For you it might not take that long. And if u don’t have any insecurities, that’s good, I’m happy for u. 👏 👏 👏 But for others it may not happen until they’re 40, 50, 60, 100. Some will never get over them. The point is people come from all walks of life, and different circumstances that made them who they are. I don’t care how old you are, I just want people to be happy whether they have insecurities or not, and to not let it stifle or take control of their lives.
@gaila.98523 жыл бұрын
@@iacobus4227 Jeannie responded as if insecurities magically go away once you hit 40. We wanted to know how.
@misbahailia33453 жыл бұрын
Say it again for the people in the back!
@alexisking84953 жыл бұрын
Ade, THANK YOU for being so real, so vulnerable, so you. I love that about you 😘 God bless you.
@lucky4evr13 жыл бұрын
That's a lie! There are plenty of people over 40 that still have insecurities. They act like 40 is so old🤦
@90Outside3 жыл бұрын
Jeanie was so annoying this segment did she smoke before hand.
@KLB12183 жыл бұрын
Yeah she definitely dismissed Adrienne and the entire age aspect. Because Garcelle is older than all the women in the panel and doesn’t throw her age in everything.
@lilian78643 жыл бұрын
I feel you. Jeanie tends to go on and on and on and on .....🙄
@babygirl49493 жыл бұрын
@@lilian7864 she a Capricorn. We long winded af when we are passionate abt something lol.
@asante2913 жыл бұрын
@@babygirl4949 lmaooo 😂😂😂😂
@PieShiido3 жыл бұрын
Lmfaoo
@BecauseItsMe3 жыл бұрын
Omg Adrienne just kept things a whole stack! I love how vulnerable she is, esspecially at her class of fame...just because it helps me to see that my thought and insecurities are not mine alone and are not because I'm not at a certain Financial class. I totally get everything thing she said. May soind weird but... I purposely sought ojt friends of different races just because I saw this flaw in myself ans no matter how much I knew it wasn't right I couldn't shake it. I learned that we are all very different but from a human level very much the same. I also learned that there are definitely white ppl who seek out black friends just to rid themselves of their generational superiority mentality and I do not fault them one bit. Its funny to see but I respect it!
@kc-un7by3 жыл бұрын
"but jesus can help you!!11!1!"
@MajesticMyronn3 жыл бұрын
I think sometimes I know this sounds cliche... but sometimes what we see as flaws , or insecurities... i would say it’s good for them to stay with us... it’s the perspective that needs to change... I notice that a lot of times we become insecure based on what society tells us is not considered “ beautiful “ so when you don’t have that slender nose... or that perfect six pack or that curly hair or those big lips you feel the need to conform and make others comfortable when you should truly appreciate what makes you happy and everything about you should be secure and confident... even little quirks that one has... it adds to what makes you YOU ! ♥️🙏🏾
@BriaBarrows3 жыл бұрын
I love this!!!
@moniquedeherrera21933 жыл бұрын
Thank you Adrienne for being so honest this hits deep for so many of us. Your so inspirational. God bless ❤️🙏
@mimismalls48523 жыл бұрын
Thank you Adrienne. This is the video I needed today. Thank you for being both honest and vulnerable.
@kaleeevans23763 жыл бұрын
I want to applaud Loni for saying that the project don't defined her, that she defines the projects by coming out of that and being who she is today . I think too many people allow their past to define who they are today rather than letting themselves now define who they are today.
@alexandraanderson39882 жыл бұрын
Right I was like yessssss👍👍👏👏😁 you betta tell them loni
@mimate15573 жыл бұрын
Loni looks amazing 😍
@crankin21guns3 жыл бұрын
Wow Loni looks absolutely breathtaking! 😍 Purple looks great on her.
@creatorkristi3 жыл бұрын
That’s so true! Life is way too short to be worried about our insecurities. 🤔 It’s time to LIVE LIFE UNBOTHERED. It’s time to celebrate ourselves instead of being focused on the negatives. Cheers to embracing our insecurities and being the amazing women we were created to be! 🎉🔥
@javaweb13 жыл бұрын
I appreciate Adrienne being real in this segment
@HenryLee6663 жыл бұрын
I've always liked Jeannie but it's seriously so annoying that she never lets anybody talk.
@gettintipsy1013 жыл бұрын
I’ve been feeling the same. It’s incredibly immature
@ivorenesmith90033 жыл бұрын
Or just accepting other people's experiences, we're not all the same lol...
@JeremiahWalton3 жыл бұрын
She still in her honeymoon phase she will calm down eventually lol
@person85203 жыл бұрын
@@JeremiahWalton that has nothing to Dow it’s this stfu
@alexandraanderson39882 жыл бұрын
@@JeremiahWalton Lmaoo
@lukystarrk4life3 жыл бұрын
Love Adrienne for keeping it real. I have felt Similar insecurity as well in the past.
@christylouis26113 жыл бұрын
That was really brave of Adrienne to admit. A lot of people could take that the wrong way, but it’s a legitimate insecurity as a minority person in this Eurocentric world.
@Chaptersaudio3 жыл бұрын
Now that I am officially "old" I can honstly say, life is too short to live in the past. It's a nice place to visit once in awhile within your mind, but don't live your life off of what was. I have very few insecurities left at my age because I recognize life is short. Do I want to spend it worrying or do I want to focus on life? For the most part, i was never insecure about class, education, finances, looks. Becuse we are all simply humans. No better or less than our fellow human beings. I used to be insecure about my chubby cheeks and flabby arms, but now I love my looks.😘
@shashavengesayi60553 жыл бұрын
Loni has been serving us flawless looks back to back! Looking like an African Queen 🤩🥰
@alexandraanderson39882 жыл бұрын
😊😊😁😅👍👍👏👏
@07sanyia3 жыл бұрын
Yes Adrianne I have a bit of an insecurity when I have to help white men or established white ppl at work. I was worried that they wouldn’t think I knew what I was doing
@littlebean24943 жыл бұрын
I’m a teacher and majority of us are white, there’s not a lot of Hispanic/Latinos so I always felt like I could easily be judged on my mistakes and I would become their generalization of Hispanics/Latinos. I feel the pressure
@Nash03033 жыл бұрын
Jeannie is just rambling
@Desi-zz4gb3 жыл бұрын
Right. And she's full out it. Because on her channel she's always talking about her insecurities now she trying to act like there's none
@kimlenau10643 жыл бұрын
I really appreciate you all on TV every day
@OmKhadijah2 жыл бұрын
No Jeannie, a lot of people well above 40 have insecurities. I share Adrienne's insecurity as well as many others. Whether it's our body, our background, our education, our finances, etc.. We may become more comfortable with who we are or in our skin, yes, but we still have insecurities over 40 Jeannie. Adrienne always keeping it 100!
@jayjanzee90593 жыл бұрын
Adrienne!! SO. FREAKING. TRUE!! That is a huge insecurity 👏👏👏 Even with my White friends, I feel this insecurity. I feel slighted or less than. Maybe by conversations or by this history between Whites and Blacks. That was deep Ade, and I wish this point of yours would have been discussed a lot further
@PollyLove923 жыл бұрын
Really loved Adrienne’s story
@YourExcellency3 жыл бұрын
I loooove adriennes honesty,
@evelynmartinez72373 жыл бұрын
I felt the same way Adrienne !!! Thx for sharing and being vulnerable ❤️
@ML-ni1tk3 жыл бұрын
It was really nice getting all the girls' perspectives especially Adrienne's. I liked Jeannie's take too.
@indigobeauty13 жыл бұрын
I use to feel like Adrianne but having white co workers who are so Amazing, Welcoming, Respectful and just plain Wonderful have helped heal that for me. Not 100% but close.
@SamanthaN923 жыл бұрын
Dang! Adrienne be hitting deep! I too share her insecurities. I think its more common than she thinks. You can tell the rest of the girls probably shared a similar experience with white people. When you're a minority, its not always a comfortable feeling. The college thing is also a huge insecurity of mine too 😞
@stefanygonzalez18553 жыл бұрын
I totally relate to Adrienne. I myself don’t really have white friends for the same reason. It’s part of growing and believing that not all non people of color have white savor complex or want to be our friend to check the ethnicity box!
@marissabellantoni55053 жыл бұрын
Listening to Adrienne speak about her experience with white people, I'm curious to what she would categorize her relationship with Rob Kardashian as, since he is white. Maybe she's just not thinking about him when she says that since it was a romantic relationship, but I'm curious to know if she felt the same way around him and his family. Or if perhaps she looked at them as not white since they are Armenian and many people try to claim they are not white?
@jasi73133 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I think cause they're just not WASP white
@Samirahsworld13 жыл бұрын
Jeannie lowkey gives me narcissistic vibes , I don’t believe one bit that she doesn’t have any insecurities . Every single human has insecurities. She was annoying in this segment. Tamar was lowkey right about her , she doesn’t let people see her true self
@NicieWilliams3 жыл бұрын
Jeanne has mentioned hers on her Hello Hunnay youtube channel.
@MJ-vb7un3 жыл бұрын
ALOT of people see that. Including myself
@misbahailia33453 жыл бұрын
In previous videos, she said she was always insecure about her small cup size and chicken legs. She's not lying that the older you get, the less you Insicure you become. Because older people figure that they're closer to death, so they automatically just live life. Plus you look at how much you've overcome and feel strong regarding that. The key to letting go of insecurities, is seeking therapy and staying in the present and looking at how much you've overcome 💁♀️. No matter how many people treated you like trash, you didn't treat yourself like trash by looking after your appearance, going to therapy and not self harming no matter how many people have harmed you. Hope I'm making sense. 😹
@person85203 жыл бұрын
@@NicieWilliams so? That’s not the real
@person85203 жыл бұрын
@@misbahailia3345 she should have said some here tho
@signalfire153 жыл бұрын
I do think it's possible to overcome insecurities but I do also believe that insecurity and confidence is a facet of personality and so, there are some people who are literally born more confident and some people who are born more insecure. You can always improve these things based on environment and effort but there will be some people who have to work harder at overcoming their insecurities than others will.
@sadgirlvisuals41263 жыл бұрын
This caption is my life . I read this book and she said you have to feel worthy
@Shemalinski3 жыл бұрын
Wow. I’m Asian from NYC and have the same insecurity as Adrienne. I’m 41 and still don’t have a white friend till this day.
@tamerilee3 жыл бұрын
Garcelle’s box always looking like a magazine cover 🥰🥰😝📸
@jyn883 жыл бұрын
Adrienne meant it when she said she was going real deep deep. I was thinking get to the point A, you're taking too long, but I see why it could quickly go wrong and offend some people. She had to be careful with her words. I 100% understand. Thanks for being so honest because I know many actually relate with you such as I !!! This was actually an insecurity I forgotten about and haven't thought about since childhood.
@kamrynetia58353 жыл бұрын
i agree with Jeannie ...at a certain point you just stop caring. Especially when you know Who created you and your purpose in life eventually you wont care for the insecurities , they may pop up and discourage you from time to time but gotta remind yourself “i am loved i am beautiful i am handsome” and keep it moving
@bethellllllllllll3 жыл бұрын
Ahhhhhh I love this episode!! Yes, we love going deep! & I honestly thought i was the only person who can honestly say I’ve never really had any white friends...and it wasn’t always by choice, it just never really happened - thank you Ade🙏🏾❤️
@gaila.98523 жыл бұрын
Sometimes insecurities are purely caused by other people. Kids in middle school made me insecure about my skin tone and having parents from Africa, but I am proud of both these things today.
@beebee__3 жыл бұрын
What country in Africa...?
@gaila.98523 жыл бұрын
@@beebee__ They are from Cameroon. I get what you are implying, but the specific country was irrelevant to my comment.
@gaila.98523 жыл бұрын
Adrienne, thanks for keeping it real!
@LalaActingAndBeauty3 жыл бұрын
Same Loni. I would hate to say the “projects”
@yahgirl17263 жыл бұрын
Same.
@Angxlitoz3 жыл бұрын
I've totally been in Adrienne shoes and I bet so many have been in the same situation glad she brought it up
@eccentricityxoxo53783 жыл бұрын
Jeannie is right it's all in your mindset! Which to me is the best comment! Bc nothing changes if nothing changes, so its changing our way of thinking ,it makes a big difference
@lovelyb24163 жыл бұрын
I have never made a comment, but Adrienne is make real sense. I have always have this awkwardness with white women even though all my boyfriends has always being white
@lovelyb24163 жыл бұрын
@Mel Wilson I actually don’t have anything against white women. I truly love and respect all women no matter their race.
@shanicegabrielle3 жыл бұрын
Love this look and the head wrap on Lonnie! 😍
@pootlovatowashere3 жыл бұрын
I totally agree with the ladies ❤️. No matter why your mental, physical, emotional, financial, social, internal, or external circumstances look like ... you can always find room to nitpick and something to be longing for. It is 100% realistic to overcome your insecurities an live a life where you are truly growing, living, experiencing ... not living in lack, fear, comparison, hatred, or resentment. Once we learn how to appreciate others beauty and success, without undermining our own ... and practicing unconditional love and radical acceptance for ourselves and our lives, that's when we truly become free. Free from the insecurities and toxic self-limiting cycles☀️ Sending you all so much love.
@gstarr21483 жыл бұрын
As you get older you tend to live for yourself and not the opinion of others.
@sabineduchard17753 жыл бұрын
Because alot of latinas hispanics look white to me, I did not know they felt a difference between them and white people. Or that they care. Interesting to know. As a black woman I don't even think about that, I just think they don't like my race because we look different and because of history..but never been insecure with them...The subject was quite interesting today
@erikjj2353 жыл бұрын
It's a weird relationship with Latinos and white Americans. Within Latino culture we like lighter skin and colored eyes, there's lots of colorism issues. But there still is a difference between white Americans and Latinos. For instance Latinos get along better with Italian Americans versus evangelical whites.
@sabineduchard17753 жыл бұрын
@@erikjj235 Interesting
@littlebean24943 жыл бұрын
As a Latina/Hispanic, I never ever considered white people as MY people. We are completely different and treated differently. I have heard of Hispanics/Latinos forgetting their roots and wanting to be white. They think being white is the way to live. I relate more with my native side. I am proud of who I am, I don’t want to be them. I’m not good with words so sorry if this makes no sense.
@erikjj2353 жыл бұрын
@@littlebean2494 👍👏👏👏 yas Ruby!
@sabineduchard17753 жыл бұрын
@@littlebean2494 Understood very well! You know your history that's why...
@tiamarie69973 жыл бұрын
🙏🏾🙏🏾for us that are still battling insecurities🤍‼️
@InterestSpy3 жыл бұрын
Yes Ade, I can definitely relate.
@zahram44733 жыл бұрын
Jeannie doing the most as usual, she should stick to her KZfaq channel so she can the platform all to herself
@Audrey_L3 жыл бұрын
I have a feeling this will be her last season. she seems done and want to do different things like Tamera.
@Amda44363 жыл бұрын
I am so sad hearing about Adriennes insecurity. I am white but born in the Balkans (Southeast Europe) where people are in general more chill and also have endured alot in the past. We are also louder when we speak our languages, love drum music and spice our meals as much as possible lol! Our history has made us more resilient but also more emotional (Albanian people lol :D). Therefore, I feel most comfortable with modest/ non stuck up white people and with most people from all over the world. So to Adrienne: If some people make you feel insecure, maybe it is just your body telling you that they do not have the right vibe for you. And there are white people out there who love Hip Hop, are chill and love to learn about other cultures. I hope you ll make friends with those kinds of people so that that particular insecurity will ultimately fade away :D Greets from Germany :*
@sadgirlvisuals41263 жыл бұрын
You guys don’t wait till you’re a certain age to feel worthy and beautiful no matter . Honestly it’s a decision that you make ( take baby steps everyday to feel like you are enough) . As a funeral attendant , take my advice
@isabellanothando3 жыл бұрын
Love this.
@limonade03 жыл бұрын
I have the exact same issues as Aderienne. White girls have always been weird and awkward with me. I don't know what it is, I have dark hair and eyebrows and a tan colour skin but I honestly could not point it out. Middle to high school I couldn't befriend them then college I had so many classes randomly with the same white girls over and over but could not even work in a group without the awkwardness. Then in my night school when I thought I had one white friend, she turned out to be greek LOL. Then in University when at this point I really know who I was and was sure it is not me that's the problem (which the naiive and younger me would think it is), turns out this girl in my group just decided not to like me from day one and was super rude to me. I remember my first covo with her was that she just went to florida and I said same I just returned a week ago, and throught we were going somewhere with the convo, turns out she just ignored me and continued the rest of the term with her snarky comments and ignoring. Oh well. It is what it is.
@chriss65313 жыл бұрын
they jealous cos you cute, tf
@limonade03 жыл бұрын
@## it's a summary of my life experiences not just high school. You clearly did not read the whole thing. Lol . Oh well
@halomerric86113 жыл бұрын
Its not the white its that you feel inferior around them...
@latoyah073 жыл бұрын
Loni is looking AMAZING!!!!!! 😍
@akhonadyi36023 жыл бұрын
We can do all things through Christ who strengthen us
@kelligebert12843 жыл бұрын
I would like to say I turned 30 in October of 2020 and have been married this year in March for 8 years to my beloved husband we have a 30 year age difference and it took me up until the past 2 years for the calmness in my marriage of being complacent in a good way kicked in however I have aways been family oriented. I just have to say tho since I have turned 30 it was something different and I am now I can confidently say agreeing with how Jeannie feels at 40's butt with that being said I wasn't partying or doing any of that sort before.I have been a homebody my whole marriage but if you all would like my husband and I to come on the show we would love to he is 61 getting ready to turn 62 on April 26th of this year and I am 30. We have been thru the ups and downs but love each other to the fullest and are currently trying for a baby! Thank you real fam for keeping it real! Love, Ed and Kelli Payton from Jacksonville, Fl. and btw my husband is black and I am white :) I swear we would make a great segment
@mscstapleton3 жыл бұрын
Facts A! I don't think I have many insecurities either but not having a degree is my only regret in life so I do think in certain rooms, around certain ppl I feel less than. Sheesh!
@chrysn74913 жыл бұрын
Love Adrienne and Loni input 💗💗
@zanellemutoko43723 жыл бұрын
Jeannie, please stop. I am trying to follow Ade's line of thinking but you keep interrupting
@exot2303 жыл бұрын
She's being so annoying af
@djm29853 жыл бұрын
It's definitely possible to overcome your insecurities. The word says we are overcomers we can go to God for EVERYTHING. I say this because some people don't just come from a toxic environment they are literally still in a toxic environment so it has to BECOME mind over matter.
@h3artands0uLL3 жыл бұрын
That’s a good one, A! Very vulnerable and true to share
@TSOpod3 жыл бұрын
Adrienne, I totally have the same deep insecurity. My life experience has been different from yours, in the sense that I’ve had a bunch of white friends & I even now date a white man; but in public-I ALWAYS feel judged & either looked down upon by white people or sexualized around specifically white men. All that to say, I hate both feelings of inferiority. It effects where I choose to hang out, the town I live in, so much. Anyway girl, you’re not alone! We are all HUMAN & that’s what I remind myself in those insecure moments
@jayekisses3 жыл бұрын
Did Loni ever have her “Get Ready With Me”???
@wendyfan80713 жыл бұрын
No & I don't think she is at this point 🤔
@jayekisses3 жыл бұрын
@@wendyfan8071 dang
@wendyfan80713 жыл бұрын
@@jayekisses ikr comon Loni!!😄
@21cellie3 жыл бұрын
They premiered it on tv, but not sure when they’ll post it on here