Do you think you should marry for love or money?

garcelle ANSWERING the phone 😂💀

Adrienne is so right!!! That scene in Diary of a mad Black woman when the husband DRAGGED her out of her house 🤬🤬 ALWAYS MAKE SURE UR NAME IS ON THE LEASE LADIES AND ALWAYS HAVE UR OWN MONEY!!

Garcelle answering the phone had me crying 🤣🤣🤣🤣

I wouldn’t tell my daughter to marry rich but I would tell her to know her worth. To marry someone who is passionate, who works hard and who puts his family first. Marry someone who adores you. I would tell my daughter to not forget about herself within her role as a mother and a wife. Invest and have your own bank card. Don’t feel like you are trapped in a situation.

“If you wanna be a leader check your ego at the door..” Cheetah girl reference 😂

The mint green looks great on Garcelle!

I love the last part, mainly because I struggle with the fear of embarrassment as well. I’m trying to get over it now that I’m 21. I started a KZfaq channel like almost a year ago and it’s not where I would like it to be, but I’m not giving up on my dream, and I encourage anyone who has delayed their dreams to just take a leap of faith☺️❤️ Have a blessed day!✨

Adrienne Thank you for your honesty mija - this spoke to me ... and will definitely change how I approach things!! Not letting fear cost me things

😂😂 I love the realness of this video. Everyone shocked by the phone ringing, Garcelle answering her phone to let the person know the gate has been opened, Adrienne carrying on her point after the discovery of whose phone rang lol

GARCELLE ALWAYS LOOKS SO GOOD WTF

Garcelle is just too pretty!! 💞💞

I’m just like Adrienne. I got offered a job I wasn’t even qualified for in the MIDDLE of Covid while people in this country are unemployed. Full time hours. (An upgrade from my current job) and I almost didn’t take it because I was scared to fail at it 😰

My parents, especially my dad, has drilled into mine and my sisters heads that we do not need to be in a position where we are solely depending on a man's finances. Even if we aren't working but are married we need to have some of our own money beforehand to fall back on if need be so we aren't trapped in a bad relationship because we think we can't afford to leave.

education is more important than being married. not every man is good to his wife, not every man makes enough money to support you, a man could fall ill, disabled and how are you going to live? always be able to support yourself

I just love A. She's so vulnerable. Gave me confidence being petite and curvy bc she wears it so well

I can relate with Adrien with the fear of rejection and embarrassment

Garcelle is giving me mint chocolate chip vibes. 😂

imagine turning down a movie role because of what your boyfriend/men might think 💀

Financially stable doesn't have to mean "rich" though

That pink on Jeannie’s skin!!! 😍😍🤗 Garcelle, mama 😍🤗

4:28 the way Garcelle answered the phone was so cute xD

Adrienne out here running the show yesss, I love how she always speaks her mind #TeamAdrienne !

Garcelle’s face when the phone rang 🤣🤣🤣🤣

I have that fear too Adrienne!! I think I am in a working progress. We will be ok.

Lol I love Garcelle for answering the phone 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Adrienne honestly in this is so helpful and I’m loving her more and more ☺️ Thank you

Excellent conversation ladies!!!! These are the types of discussions where I hope a lot of women take this discussion to heart.

“ it sound like y’all getting personal”

Garcelle lookin like a snow princess ✨❤️

Thank you Adrienne for reminding us that its okay if we're still working through things. Overcoming fear of rejection is really a process ❤

Jeannie is glowing. And spirit is so bright!!

I am like Adrienne. 99 ppl will be behind me and I'm crippled with fear because of 1 person who is against me. 😔

I mean... I have my own money. But I still want to marry rich. Mostly because I want to have the option of taking time off work or stop working after I have kids. I can't do that if my husband doesn't make enough to provide for the family.

Thank you Adriette for being so open and honest. I love your singing with your husbant & family. Greetings to the cast of my favorite show The Real Daytime , your Sis Collette & your amazing Mother. Big virtual hug from Windhoek, Namibia ❤❤❤

I can so relate to Adrienne! Self doubt and fear of rejection is the worst ever...

Adrienne is such a vibe, love love love your personality & energy. It's beautiful.

Adrienne I seriously love you so much! Plus we have the same problems, thank you for your honesty and also for saying you still haven't learned the lesson, girl that's hard to admit and it absolutely sucks!

I loveddd the phone ringing thing omggg

The fact that I’m even commenting. Y’all. Jeannie is looking snatched and beat for the gods, that’s a great hello hunnay episode, whatcha doing girl? Face tapes, expensive creams, Botox. Who’s doing the make up. Tell us. It’s cool

The Mothers who tell their daughters to marry a rich man (good provider) are speaking from the time when people got married, had children, and wife stayed home to raise their child(ren). It was good advice to avoid financial problems and afford them opportunities.

My mom taught me to secure my own bag. Also, she told me to marry someone that matches me. Don’t be unequally yoked.

My father cried after he saw an animation story of a man that cheated on his wife. My dad seriously did not understand how a man could hurt his wife and kids like that. That is the kind of man you should have, a man that has strong norms and values, respect, and loyalty from his personality.

"Sound like y'all two getting personal" 😭😭😭😭😭😭

Adrienne, we love you and relate to you!!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

Honestly that statement is true about the ring when I was married men luv to approach me and ask do I need a friend was i happy etc so I think it’s because it’s the thrill of going after something they know they can’t have or shouldn’t have !!!!!

Because of opportunity. That's what they want to do. Sometimes everyone that's together shouldn't be together.

Oh wow. This episode was SO therapeutic! 😭❤

Why does everyone just assume that the woman is gonna be the broke one?

Garcelle answering the phone was just great

Adrienne has no clue how great her singing is. She’s better than half the Grammy winning artists out there.. she could be an iconic performer

"Pay yo taxes " - Adrienne 🤣🤣🤣

It made a huge difference for me definitely needed this advice

Cher said it best “i am a rich man” lol

Yay, full segment!

Adrienne houghton you have such a great voice who cares what other people think of you I loved you since you were in 3LW

I'm not checkin for no man. When I do, I am going to be successful on my own. If a man is able to handle me in my highest success I will check for him. Pride and ego are dangerous. But that never stopped me. I had genuine problems that needed fixing.

I remember everyone loving the half of everything divorce rule till more women became breadwinners. That spousal and child support hits different when it’s the ex wife paying the ex husband 😭

Mamma Mai has probably told Jeannie to marry a rich man lmao

I always say this and other Married women tell me this, never have a Joint account, both have separate accounts and have your own job.

True, there are inequalities in this world. However, you can't make that an excuse all the time. You can't use race and color at every turn. It's all what you want to do in life and how you present yourself. Because you come from a poor or impoverished life doesn't mean you can't be successful. Yeah, you might have to work harder but it can be accomplished. There are grants for tuition and books out there that you don't have to pay back but there are rules to abide once you receive it. Those ones who are rich, either worked hard, their family worked hard and had it to pass it down to their family or you have some really intelligent people out there who were able to use it for profit. I'm a minority, a black woman but I don't use it as an excuse.

Jeannie looks beautiful ♥️♥️

This segment is a mood 😂😂😂

did she just answer the phone? Jeanie got an attitude real quick 😂

I really enjoyed this chat. Need more uplifting talk. I struggle with the same thing Adrienne was talking about

Jeannie, I'm sorry you feel singled out all the time. I love you sis 🥰

Thank you for sharing your struggle Adrianne.

Jeannie's hair is bombbb...her pink top is a nice color too.

Definitely I get hit on more by husbands and boyfriends. It’s disgusting!! A lot of people are unhappy in their relationships and stay to getting to save face or “keep up with the Jones’ “

Lmaooo Jeannie’s face at 15:14 when Adrienne said I didn’t even have to audition but was just offered the role lmaooo that’s a friend right there😊😭👀🥴 like girl what??? What did you just do??? Lmaooo🥴😭😂😁🤨😒

Hello there beautiful young ladies at the real daytime. And happy Wednesday to you aswell 😍❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️.

I’m glad Jeannie outta divorce 😭😭😭

Lol I’m cheesin came for A, vibes w J, shade / transparency by L and I haven’t tuned in a while and love the teal g I see this squad is still real in terms of how this conversation goes so smooth and plays off each other 🔥✌🏽💜💜 I used to watch y’all a lot a year or two ago (stopped 9-5 and I know I’m a powerful newly found woman (21) so real real talk didn’t know that no fault the lease all this stuff is really eye opening ❤️‼️) thank u guys

Dont you worry about Egos its a Trip if you stand by unexpectedly😭😒😞😳😂

Nah I’m trying to figure out what movie Adrienne is talking about 🤣

Financial issues is the number one reason behind divorce and divorce rates are HIGH. It might not be the PC advice but it’s obvious why it’s given

Thank you for a this length video!!

My mother taught me to get an education and make my own money just in case the rich man drags me out of the house like in that Tyler Perry movie. I hate what the women’s movement has turned into sometimes. It’s not about being the provider or being the “man” it’s about women having options. Yes Loni, in the 1950’s some or most women had to marry for security. They weren’t marrying for the amount necessarily but for a way to live. Nowadays we can do for ourselves and also can choose to have a partner within a certain tax bracket. If that’s your preference there is nothing wrong with that. And just because “well-financed” is on your list does not mean you will put up with someone you do not love. Money is something but not everything. Find someone who checks off all your boxes and never settle.

It's not everything in a relationship but it's very important. A woman should be independent and not rely on a man. However, it's very important to find a partner whose financially smart. It makes the union stronger. Both are working to move forward. A man should look for a financially smart woman too. Nobody wants to work hard to see partner spend their money and hard work. One person can be financially secure and if the other isn't, it can bring down the other. Also, remember debt is shared in a marriage. Love can be expensive.

That was a great point Garcielle made. Not that they want them to be goal diggers. They want them to have someone financially stable. They should still have their own as well.

There is a breakdown of the FAMILY unit. We need two parent households so there is a balance, and they can support one another because raising children is hard. It's supposed to be a TEAM. Who makes the money or does the laundry shouldn't matter as long as both are contributing to the TEAM.

Great segment!

I agree with Adrienne about married men going out to DM other women

Yes ade and my mom taught me to not move in with no one who isn't my husband. Ain't no shacking up lol On another note, I'm from GA and it's not a no fault state lmao

That's what I taught my kids. It's the parents responsibility to teach this.

Lmaooo look at loni’s face while Jeannie’s talking 11:00 😄😁👀why she look like that 🥴 like she’s scared or somethin’😁😊

I love it Lony u are such a great persons

There should never be any justifiable reason nor excuse for cheating... I mean we can blame the person who was cheated on for why the cheater did what they did but marriage is a two way street!

I LOVED this episode! 🥰

Yeah Adrienne my name was on the lease also and I’m 10k in debt because he stopped paying the rent when we split

Jeanie and Adrienne are beautiful as always

You can be rich in love. How bout that. Also garcelle really answered the phone lol

Soooo was no one else cracking up when Garcelle said, “Hi, I opened the gate.”? No? Just me? K. 🤣🤣🤣

That's right Ego Trips can't stand a trip person any way it's a just do what got to slammed

I thought it was Wizards of Waverly Place that made Selena Gomez famous but I feel like when she dated Justin Bieber that's what boosted her career the most. At that time only fans of Disney knew of her but when she dated JB she was all over the news.

Can you guys go back to the studio already 😩 miss you guys together

4:14 Jeannie is so my little sister rn! My sister always gets blamed for things and reacts like this but a lot of the time she does it 😂😂😂

Adrienne and Jeannie on the button in terms of financial freedom. Good for loni she was taught well... I understand where Garcelle is coming from as well ...maybe the parents didn't have much... therefore they just wish for their daughter to have a better life financially... but it doesn't mean you should marry for money is what the bottom line is...

Jeannie was definitely in a mood here today 😢😮😅😊 for some reason or the other I guess tbh

I’m just like A I get so scared to share anything like that !! Because of judgement and embarrassment this buisness it cruel