So having both is out of the question or something?? I think not! The correct answer is BOTH!! That part!
@alicefranks77363 жыл бұрын
I think I should marry for money and 💕
@Nique19863 жыл бұрын
Most definitely for love because money doesn’t equal happiness !!!!
@adamsey_mame90433 жыл бұрын
If God bless you with money (TAKE IT) if he bless you with love (TAKE IT) whichever way you end up, turn it up. At the end of the day #Money needs love to spend it wisely & #Love needs money to complete the circle... Periodtt 👌.
@constancereynolds31103 жыл бұрын
YOU may get a better answer from women that married a man that is wealthy and yet that man cheats and shows that wife no love. THEY can tell you if they would rather be loved by their husband or just enjoy the luxury life and having a side dude to make up for what they really want.
@bell.videography3 жыл бұрын
garcelle ANSWERING the phone 😂💀
@jc77643 жыл бұрын
I’m Garcelle, Garecelle is I
@MaishaOnTop3 жыл бұрын
😂😂 I love her
@mida77773 жыл бұрын
😭😭😭
@Annaaaaaaaaaaaa3 жыл бұрын
Iconic
@glo0073 жыл бұрын
that was epic, and she was like "yeah i opened the gate"
@tamerilee3 жыл бұрын
Adrienne is so right!!! That scene in Diary of a mad Black woman when the husband DRAGGED her out of her house 🤬🤬 ALWAYS MAKE SURE UR NAME IS ON THE LEASE LADIES AND ALWAYS HAVE UR OWN MONEY!!
@sen-cher3 жыл бұрын
Lol I thought of the exact same scene the moment she said it
@MahasheS3 жыл бұрын
That scene!
@Ddystar3 жыл бұрын
No it’s not always good to be on the lease what if you partner dips out on you and you’re left responsible for the payments or they bring another person there
@kaydenreign65373 жыл бұрын
Garcelle answering the phone had me crying 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@distorbia203 жыл бұрын
I wouldn’t tell my daughter to marry rich but I would tell her to know her worth. To marry someone who is passionate, who works hard and who puts his family first. Marry someone who adores you. I would tell my daughter to not forget about herself within her role as a mother and a wife. Invest and have your own bank card. Don’t feel like you are trapped in a situation.
@midnightmave3 жыл бұрын
Yes! People should marry well, not marry rich. Find someone you love, who is stable emotionally, financially, spiritually, etc. Someone who makes you happy but also works with you through problems and challenges you to be the best version of yourself.
@tasilaaproniakanswata37803 жыл бұрын
“If you wanna be a leader check your ego at the door..” Cheetah girl reference 😂
@alexandria37363 жыл бұрын
💯💯💯
@MaishaOnTop3 жыл бұрын
"Dig a little deeper" Come thru reference! Yes!
@rocking13133 жыл бұрын
unless you wanna be President :)
@Tan87ful2 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@alexandraanderson3988 Жыл бұрын
Oh I thought it was a reference from the show alter ego or something like that lmaooo.🥴😊🤭 I don’t watch the show or anything just saying and asking I guess lmaooo.
@mgmtgirlyeah74933 жыл бұрын
The mint green looks great on Garcelle!
@brisie_gisie3 жыл бұрын
I love the last part, mainly because I struggle with the fear of embarrassment as well. I’m trying to get over it now that I’m 21. I started a KZfaq channel like almost a year ago and it’s not where I would like it to be, but I’m not giving up on my dream, and I encourage anyone who has delayed their dreams to just take a leap of faith☺️❤️ Have a blessed day!✨
@beatrizmoreno34103 жыл бұрын
Adrienne Thank you for your honesty mija - this spoke to me ... and will definitely change how I approach things!! Not letting fear cost me things
@Prosper9273 жыл бұрын
😂😂 I love the realness of this video. Everyone shocked by the phone ringing, Garcelle answering her phone to let the person know the gate has been opened, Adrienne carrying on her point after the discovery of whose phone rang lol
@Tan87ful2 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@meijistrawberry59803 жыл бұрын
GARCELLE ALWAYS LOOKS SO GOOD WTF
@internationalwoman95473 жыл бұрын
That's because ever since she was small it was installed in her to always look her best .I know this because that's how my raised me .
@ceeforthesoul3 жыл бұрын
She looks good ..period
@janeking40593 жыл бұрын
Needs a hairdo...think u need lens
@janeking40593 жыл бұрын
@@internationalwoman9547 totally agreed! Same for me! That's wat happen when u r raised with STRICT parents!!!
@alexandraanderson3988 Жыл бұрын
😊🤭
@tamerilee3 жыл бұрын
Garcelle is just too pretty!! 💞💞
@janeking40593 жыл бұрын
U really need glasses... hugely BLIND
@AlexandraAnderson-qc4yb Жыл бұрын
Ikr 😊😢
@mt33883 жыл бұрын
I’m just like Adrienne. I got offered a job I wasn’t even qualified for in the MIDDLE of Covid while people in this country are unemployed. Full time hours. (An upgrade from my current job) and I almost didn’t take it because I was scared to fail at it 😰
@Prosper9273 жыл бұрын
Glad you decided to take the job, hope all goes well 💛
@mt33883 жыл бұрын
@@Prosper927 thank you so much! 💕
@nicoleyoshihara40113 жыл бұрын
@M T33 Congratulations!🥳 You can do it!😊👐
@siamorego3 жыл бұрын
Yes! Grow through your fear✨
@janeking40593 жыл бұрын
Done that as well
@anoelsilliw52563 жыл бұрын
My parents, especially my dad, has drilled into mine and my sisters heads that we do not need to be in a position where we are solely depending on a man's finances. Even if we aren't working but are married we need to have some of our own money beforehand to fall back on if need be so we aren't trapped in a bad relationship because we think we can't afford to leave.
@TheSunshinefee3 жыл бұрын
education is more important than being married. not every man is good to his wife, not every man makes enough money to support you, a man could fall ill, disabled and how are you going to live? always be able to support yourself
@xxo88883 жыл бұрын
I just love A. She's so vulnerable. Gave me confidence being petite and curvy bc she wears it so well
@engelinahjosiah77593 жыл бұрын
I can relate with Adrien with the fear of rejection and embarrassment
@rebeccacastro25253 жыл бұрын
Garcelle is giving me mint chocolate chip vibes. 😂
@alexandraanderson3988 Жыл бұрын
Hmmm???? 🥴😊😏🤭 lmaoooo
@thoughthub89002 ай бұрын
hahahahahahqhhq lol
@chriss65313 жыл бұрын
imagine turning down a movie role because of what your boyfriend/men might think 💀
@erronellan3 жыл бұрын
Pick me
@melw69013 жыл бұрын
It's called respect/loyalty. Shows a good partner.
@kelseystramel53493 жыл бұрын
Financially stable doesn't have to mean "rich" though
@shaniekiesutanya79993 жыл бұрын
That pink on Jeannie’s skin!!! 😍😍🤗 Garcelle, mama 😍🤗
@alexandraanderson3988 Жыл бұрын
Garcelle* but yeah😊 I love them both🥰❤️ absolutely my favorites or one of my favorites on the show besides loni I guess that it 😁
@oishiiyum3 жыл бұрын
4:28 the way Garcelle answered the phone was so cute xD
@sumayaahmed383 жыл бұрын
Adrienne out here running the show yesss, I love how she always speaks her mind #TeamAdrienne !
@FlwrPetalsOnVenus3 жыл бұрын
Garcelle’s face when the phone rang 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@alexandraanderson3988 Жыл бұрын
That’s how you know she was guilty 🥴😊😏 guilty as charged lmaooo 🥴😊👀🤨😮
@agnesa94833 жыл бұрын
I have that fear too Adrienne!! I think I am in a working progress. We will be ok.
@lungilemazibane3 жыл бұрын
Lol I love Garcelle for answering the phone 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@lovelyb24163 жыл бұрын
Adrienne honestly in this is so helpful and I’m loving her more and more ☺️ Thank you
@Chaptersaudio3 жыл бұрын
Excellent conversation ladies!!!! These are the types of discussions where I hope a lot of women take this discussion to heart.
@Yumira.3 жыл бұрын
“ it sound like y’all getting personal”
@alexandraanderson39882 жыл бұрын
Right then they just cut it off on that part right when it was getting good then they moved right into the next topic lol I love this show specifically these virtural seasons they be so funny😄
@AlexandraAnderson-qc4yb Жыл бұрын
😊😊
@sfoxyy32823 жыл бұрын
Garcelle lookin like a snow princess ✨❤️
@yaalouise3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Adrienne for reminding us that its okay if we're still working through things. Overcoming fear of rejection is really a process ❤
@KtotheB12183 жыл бұрын
Jeannie is glowing. And spirit is so bright!!
@davijulal51893 жыл бұрын
I am like Adrienne. 99 ppl will be behind me and I'm crippled with fear because of 1 person who is against me. 😔
@roughpetals40613 жыл бұрын
May God help us truly to overcome fear, self doubt and anxiety!!
@Shx9953 жыл бұрын
omg this is me! I’m working on it though 😔
@ML-ni1tk3 жыл бұрын
Yeah. I face that too sometimes. What helps me is knowing that each of us has a unique mark on this earth like our own fingerprint. Don't let that one negative person(s) take it away from you. it's you're right. wishing you the best. xoxoxo
@signalfire153 жыл бұрын
I mean... I have my own money. But I still want to marry rich. Mostly because I want to have the option of taking time off work or stop working after I have kids. I can't do that if my husband doesn't make enough to provide for the family.
@moselinekavetu94983 жыл бұрын
Thank you Adriette for being so open and honest. I love your singing with your husbant & family. Greetings to the cast of my favorite show The Real Daytime , your Sis Collette & your amazing Mother. Big virtual hug from Windhoek, Namibia ❤❤❤
@deirdreharwood61973 жыл бұрын
I can so relate to Adrienne! Self doubt and fear of rejection is the worst ever...
@uchetommy3 жыл бұрын
Adrienne is such a vibe, love love love your personality & energy. It's beautiful.
@indigo_blue_s28303 жыл бұрын
Adrienne I seriously love you so much! Plus we have the same problems, thank you for your honesty and also for saying you still haven't learned the lesson, girl that's hard to admit and it absolutely sucks!
@Tan87ful2 жыл бұрын
Yep. 💯💯💯👏🏽👏🏽
@toluwaniyinojo-osagie14813 жыл бұрын
I loveddd the phone ringing thing omggg
@melh81793 жыл бұрын
Makes them seem NORMAL! 😃
@BobbiHustles3 жыл бұрын
Me too lol
@sarai3733 жыл бұрын
Like the time when Adrienne was touching up her lips with her lipstick. They too cute. Lol.
@indigo_blue_s28303 жыл бұрын
@@sarai373 oooh I loved that so much!
@alexandraanderson39882 жыл бұрын
But why her phone ring like that tho🥴🥴 make it seem like its a house phone or something instead of an actual cell phone the ring tone so normal & eveything😂😂😄😄 no that it has to be anything facny or anything lol y'all get it😁 just saying😅🤷🏽♀
@moealzohaili54433 жыл бұрын
The fact that I’m even commenting. Y’all. Jeannie is looking snatched and beat for the gods, that’s a great hello hunnay episode, whatcha doing girl? Face tapes, expensive creams, Botox. Who’s doing the make up. Tell us. It’s cool
@teresamarie74603 жыл бұрын
The Mothers who tell their daughters to marry a rich man (good provider) are speaking from the time when people got married, had children, and wife stayed home to raise their child(ren). It was good advice to avoid financial problems and afford them opportunities.
@wrightljac3 жыл бұрын
My mom taught me to secure my own bag. Also, she told me to marry someone that matches me. Don’t be unequally yoked.
@queeneli11913 жыл бұрын
My father cried after he saw an animation story of a man that cheated on his wife. My dad seriously did not understand how a man could hurt his wife and kids like that. That is the kind of man you should have, a man that has strong norms and values, respect, and loyalty from his personality.
@Annaaaaaaaaaaaa3 жыл бұрын
"Sound like y'all two getting personal" 😭😭😭😭😭😭
@Curlybatgirl3 жыл бұрын
I need that tea 🍵🤣
@hitthefries3 жыл бұрын
@@Curlybatgirl Jeannie had to give her ex alimony even tho he was with someone
@alexandraanderson3988 Жыл бұрын
Her face before she said it like she’s been meaning to say it since forever 😊🥴😏😂😄😭
@AlexandraAnderson-qc4yb Жыл бұрын
😊😅
@MelodyUnderstandsYou3 жыл бұрын
Adrienne, we love you and relate to you!!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
@Nique19863 жыл бұрын
Honestly that statement is true about the ring when I was married men luv to approach me and ask do I need a friend was i happy etc so I think it’s because it’s the thrill of going after something they know they can’t have or shouldn’t have !!!!!
@soriyazz3 жыл бұрын
Because of opportunity. That's what they want to do. Sometimes everyone that's together shouldn't be together.
@tyeishamccaleb55203 жыл бұрын
Oh wow. This episode was SO therapeutic! 😭❤
@joy8443 жыл бұрын
Why does everyone just assume that the woman is gonna be the broke one?
@Kirwina3 жыл бұрын
Garcelle answering the phone was just great
@ananyas78363 жыл бұрын
Adrienne has no clue how great her singing is. She’s better than half the Grammy winning artists out there.. she could be an iconic performer
@iamlindalyna3 жыл бұрын
"Pay yo taxes " - Adrienne 🤣🤣🤣
@rosierodriguez25313 жыл бұрын
It made a huge difference for me definitely needed this advice
@jaroldnash93333 жыл бұрын
Cher said it best “i am a rich man” lol
@unorthodeux3 жыл бұрын
Yay, full segment!
@gladysrodriguez91233 жыл бұрын
Adrienne houghton you have such a great voice who cares what other people think of you I loved you since you were in 3LW
@ghostadventureasmr61073 жыл бұрын
I'm not checkin for no man. When I do, I am going to be successful on my own. If a man is able to handle me in my highest success I will check for him. Pride and ego are dangerous. But that never stopped me. I had genuine problems that needed fixing.
@kezzyangelic3 жыл бұрын
I remember everyone loving the half of everything divorce rule till more women became breadwinners. That spousal and child support hits different when it’s the ex wife paying the ex husband 😭
@indigo_blue_s28303 жыл бұрын
Yeah that's true. I used to think those were double standards, but now I see it's just that society still thinks men are the ones at fault for a divorce (because they cheat more often), and also because they actually don't take care of children as much as women do, so now women have to work and still take care of the family, they're usually the primary emotional custodian, so in that sense it doesn't seem fair to pay up half.
@tovah88413 жыл бұрын
Well, in the end of the day women & men are different.. Women shouldn’t be supporting a MAN financially...
@cookiecookielookies3 жыл бұрын
@@indigo_blue_s2830 Exactly! Most of the time women are the primary caretakers for children so in addition to that, they have to pay half just because they earn more money? That's not fair at all.
@lifeisrosyyy3 жыл бұрын
Mamma Mai has probably told Jeannie to marry a rich man lmao
@asmrennachalk3 жыл бұрын
I always say this and other Married women tell me this, never have a Joint account, both have separate accounts and have your own job.
@nreynolds752433 жыл бұрын
True, there are inequalities in this world. However, you can't make that an excuse all the time. You can't use race and color at every turn. It's all what you want to do in life and how you present yourself. Because you come from a poor or impoverished life doesn't mean you can't be successful. Yeah, you might have to work harder but it can be accomplished. There are grants for tuition and books out there that you don't have to pay back but there are rules to abide once you receive it. Those ones who are rich, either worked hard, their family worked hard and had it to pass it down to their family or you have some really intelligent people out there who were able to use it for profit. I'm a minority, a black woman but I don't use it as an excuse.
@mrxanderboy3 жыл бұрын
Jeannie looks beautiful ♥️♥️
@tamarM7_3 жыл бұрын
This segment is a mood 😂😂😂
@BlackGirlGreenThumb3 жыл бұрын
did she just answer the phone? Jeanie got an attitude real quick 😂
@alexandraanderson3988 Жыл бұрын
😊😁 she always seems to be getting and having an attitude with little everything tbh👀😁🥴🙄🤨 love her tho😊😁😅
@soxpuff3 жыл бұрын
I really enjoyed this chat. Need more uplifting talk. I struggle with the same thing Adrienne was talking about
@kejuanlynette85313 жыл бұрын
Jeannie, I'm sorry you feel singled out all the time. I love you sis 🥰
@nonkululekomabaso95373 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your struggle Adrianne.
@DrKhalilah3 жыл бұрын
Jeannie's hair is bombbb...her pink top is a nice color too.
@successsnacks70953 жыл бұрын
Definitely I get hit on more by husbands and boyfriends. It’s disgusting!! A lot of people are unhappy in their relationships and stay to getting to save face or “keep up with the Jones’ “
@alexandraanderson3988 Жыл бұрын
Lmaooo Jeannie’s face at 15:14 when Adrienne said I didn’t even have to audition but was just offered the role lmaooo that’s a friend right there😊😭👀🥴 like girl what??? What did you just do??? Lmaooo🥴😭😂😁🤨😒
@Justin-du7mg3 жыл бұрын
Hello there beautiful young ladies at the real daytime. And happy Wednesday to you aswell 😍❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️.
@tamerilee3 жыл бұрын
I’m glad Jeannie outta divorce 😭😭😭
@alexandria37363 жыл бұрын
Lol I’m cheesin came for A, vibes w J, shade / transparency by L and I haven’t tuned in a while and love the teal g I see this squad is still real in terms of how this conversation goes so smooth and plays off each other 🔥✌🏽💜💜 I used to watch y’all a lot a year or two ago (stopped 9-5 and I know I’m a powerful newly found woman (21) so real real talk didn’t know that no fault the lease all this stuff is really eye opening ❤️‼️) thank u guys
@charlesjraverys2402 жыл бұрын
Dont you worry about Egos its a Trip if you stand by unexpectedly😭😒😞😳😂
@indeegrace3 жыл бұрын
Nah I’m trying to figure out what movie Adrienne is talking about 🤣
@ariesspring21613 жыл бұрын
Lol me too! I think it Another Cinderella Story that came out in 2008, which was around the time The Cheetahs were still popping
@tamerilee3 жыл бұрын
Financial issues is the number one reason behind divorce and divorce rates are HIGH. It might not be the PC advice but it’s obvious why it’s given
@omphilemoerane25693 жыл бұрын
Even people who have a lot of money and recourses fight about finances to the point that it leads to divorce. It's not only the lack of money that causes arguments about finances.
@kishajones8413 жыл бұрын
I agree! It sounds good to say these things don’t matter but they do when bills are piling up and you’re barely making ends meet. I understand life happens but living paycheck to paycheck is usually not what a parent wants for their child. He doesn’t have to be rich but he has to be able to hold his own.
@igorso45853 жыл бұрын
Thank you for a this length video!!
@RyanJCreations3 жыл бұрын
My mother taught me to get an education and make my own money just in case the rich man drags me out of the house like in that Tyler Perry movie. I hate what the women’s movement has turned into sometimes. It’s not about being the provider or being the “man” it’s about women having options. Yes Loni, in the 1950’s some or most women had to marry for security. They weren’t marrying for the amount necessarily but for a way to live. Nowadays we can do for ourselves and also can choose to have a partner within a certain tax bracket. If that’s your preference there is nothing wrong with that. And just because “well-financed” is on your list does not mean you will put up with someone you do not love. Money is something but not everything. Find someone who checks off all your boxes and never settle.
@melissajandreski74603 жыл бұрын
It's not everything in a relationship but it's very important. A woman should be independent and not rely on a man. However, it's very important to find a partner whose financially smart. It makes the union stronger. Both are working to move forward. A man should look for a financially smart woman too. Nobody wants to work hard to see partner spend their money and hard work. One person can be financially secure and if the other isn't, it can bring down the other. Also, remember debt is shared in a marriage. Love can be expensive.
@oneinamillion80373 жыл бұрын
That was a great point Garcielle made. Not that they want them to be goal diggers. They want them to have someone financially stable. They should still have their own as well.
@dearmaya9393 жыл бұрын
There is a breakdown of the FAMILY unit. We need two parent households so there is a balance, and they can support one another because raising children is hard. It's supposed to be a TEAM. Who makes the money or does the laundry shouldn't matter as long as both are contributing to the TEAM.
@udemeeee3 жыл бұрын
Great segment!
@priya889993 жыл бұрын
I agree with Adrienne about married men going out to DM other women
@Desi-zz4gb3 жыл бұрын
Yes ade and my mom taught me to not move in with no one who isn't my husband. Ain't no shacking up lol On another note, I'm from GA and it's not a no fault state lmao
@desireelbeniquez25713 жыл бұрын
That's what I taught my kids. It's the parents responsibility to teach this.
@alexandraanderson3988 Жыл бұрын
Lmaooo look at loni’s face while Jeannie’s talking 11:00 😄😁👀why she look like that 🥴 like she’s scared or somethin’😁😊
@johnamann14043 жыл бұрын
I love it Lony u are such a great persons
@MajesticMyronn3 жыл бұрын
There should never be any justifiable reason nor excuse for cheating... I mean we can blame the person who was cheated on for why the cheater did what they did but marriage is a two way street!
@tatywillams3 жыл бұрын
I LOVED this episode! 🥰
@somethinelse51223 жыл бұрын
Yeah Adrienne my name was on the lease also and I’m 10k in debt because he stopped paying the rent when we split
@luckylife1163 жыл бұрын
Jeanie and Adrienne are beautiful as always
@unekab3 жыл бұрын
You can be rich in love. How bout that. Also garcelle really answered the phone lol
@estinafrancis3 жыл бұрын
Soooo was no one else cracking up when Garcelle said, “Hi, I opened the gate.”? No? Just me? K. 🤣🤣🤣
@alexandraanderson39882 жыл бұрын
Right I be like who she talking too 😁 yo if I was loni I would have probably been like uh who was that Garcelle in loni's voice😂😂😄 like what gate & who you letting in 😭🥴🤔😁😂 lmaooo
@alexandraanderson3988 Жыл бұрын
I was like what gate & who you lettin in 🤨🥴😭😏😂
@charlesaveryjr90842 жыл бұрын
That's right Ego Trips can't stand a trip person any way it's a just do what got to slammed
@jyn883 жыл бұрын
I thought it was Wizards of Waverly Place that made Selena Gomez famous but I feel like when she dated Justin Bieber that's what boosted her career the most. At that time only fans of Disney knew of her but when she dated JB she was all over the news.
@hitthefries3 жыл бұрын
Selena didn’t have a movie that launch her career though, so I’m wondering what movie it was...maybe Camp rock because that role was offered to Selena but then given to Demi? It was a singing role too.
@jyn883 жыл бұрын
@@hitthefries She must have meant TV show.
@designsbyzee73103 жыл бұрын
Can you guys go back to the studio already 😩 miss you guys together
@Lalalalala...3 жыл бұрын
4:14 Jeannie is so my little sister rn! My sister always gets blamed for things and reacts like this but a lot of the time she does it 😂😂😂
@janeking40593 жыл бұрын
Adrienne and Jeannie on the button in terms of financial freedom. Good for loni she was taught well... I understand where Garcelle is coming from as well ...maybe the parents didn't have much... therefore they just wish for their daughter to have a better life financially... but it doesn't mean you should marry for money is what the bottom line is...
@AlexandraAnderson-qc4yb Жыл бұрын
Jeannie was definitely in a mood here today 😢😮😅😊 for some reason or the other I guess tbh
@Desdes09193 жыл бұрын
I’m just like A I get so scared to share anything like that !! Because of judgement and embarrassment this buisness it cruel