Yep that's exactly why my black father left his home at 15 to go at it. And I left my white mothers home at 14 to do the same. My younger brothers weren't as fortunate to have their balls grow early 😂! I learned a lot about life women men and boys and girls during that transition, and today I operate in opposition to many stereotypes placed on me, including the ones my own blood threw on me! Its all good, despite the BS. There is no knowledge that is not power!

So true I feel the same way the American government put black men that have children and take care of them get treated like the male hyena and that's wrong.

Spot on

I was raised by a single mother and I almost became that myself...I had to move out and tough it out on my own... I've went through days/ nights with no food, lights getting turned off at one point, nothing but an air mattress in a one bedroom apartment, etc.... but I wouldn't go backwards for nothing...it's shaping me into the man that I inspire to be in the future...

@@jboymontel1 I don’t get it. So you rather live a life of no electricity and hungry days just because you can’t be a man in your mom’s household. A man is something you are, no one can take that from you… you just have to know that yourself. If you are still in that situation, please go home( i coming from a point that she’s a good mom). God bless you!

🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️ Respects I know what you went through.💪

You have Dr. O Neal's picture as your avatar. I see you are a man of culture as well

Oh so she is happier sexually and emotionally considering your here.

@@HaloFan117_ Bwahahahahahahaha ~~I h8 you~~Hahahahahahaha

That's an example where a woman can't chat never be wrong . And I bet she picked a weak ass one

He don't play no shit with the men... 😂

That’s what long time KS watchers been screaming

Sister, you hit this. He's quite patient, just very direct with both men and women.

I said the same thing to my friends who doesn't like him. Us,men, are able to accept the reality. Godfather is right. At early 20's, we are far from ready. We got so much to learn and get our best outcomes. Patience is really a virtue.

@@raziqilm how you take what she said as an opportunity to speak down on women? Kevin just a vessel for a message critical to the black community. We need more women that see the vision & here you are complaining about women to a woman that AGREED smh pick your fights better

Brilliant advice

I'd be honored to pick your brain.

@@toddcann2407 if I'm able to help I'm more than happy to where I can

@@mathewvonderaujr5694 That trade analogy was Deep you gave .🔥🔥🔥

What type are you in ?

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 yo I felt a way when he was talking to that young man

😂🤣😅

On some y’all sure y’all wasn’t high before getting high?🤔

Ab-So-Lutely! 😂

Female hyenas are bigger than males. Yea, that sounds familiar.

@@free_at_last8141 *big shirley tuba

If this comparison doesn't straighten folks out they are doomed

Mind Blowin’ 🤯

@@Mike_M. Yes, people to support that lovely sister.

It's so hard to not be disappointed and judgmental of yourself as a young man when you see so many others who are further ahead of you. I'm 31 and I'm nowhere near where I'm supposed to be. I get what Kevin is saying, but at the same time, it sucks being so far away from being where you're supposed to be

@@torachan23 same i was supposed to be a sport prodigy but have a severe rib and hip injury and im 22 so im at the age im basically to far gone to learn something new that can elevate me, and my body feels like it should if im a retired 60 year old and have a couple mill in my savings account.

I never saw myself as a Tiger. I'm not a player (never saw myself as having "game"), I've been a loner introvert all my life, fascinated by "nerdy" pursuits- learning foriegn languages, traveling, comic books from foreign countries, foreign films, rugby and indoor-rockclimbing. In my 20s, women tended to leave me alone, then I hit my 30s and all this attention from not just Black women, but women who spoke the foriegn languages I learned (French, Turkish, Arabic). But they were "Lionesses", wanting to settle down, and well, I felt I wasn't ready. I broke a lot of hearts (and most of them still haunt me), but I had to be true to myself. I wasn't done learning from the world nor felt financially secure enough to settle yet. I have to face that, for whatever reasons I might need therapy for, I'm a tiger for life.

@@T0YCHEST you still have more to offer. There are young men that can benefit from your insight and work ethic. Don't think you don't you do! ✊🏿✊🏿✊🏿

You want to be established or on the way before you start focusing on the women, by age 35 you should be ready to engage the next phase of life, that of a family man. IMHO

That’s a fact I’m 21 and I wholeheartedly agree with your second point most these dudes that are calling in are operating on a feminine mindset they wanna be somewhere their not yet in life and I look at life like a food line every dude that calls in wants to be first in to eat( to obtain marriage, get a career, kids,the house etc) however dudes in my age group (18-29) gotta wait on that because cutting the line will have you getting an hyena pregnant(matriarchal female), having multiple kids like the other dude that called in, and messing in up your life in other ways too most dudes need to just slow down and humble themselves and realize their reality and the life their living now to keep them from being in a fantasy world

Couldn't agree more. The problem is the amount of callers that called aren't disciplined. The last caller was someone willing to listen and is on the right track given that he has no kids, has a career and now has to put in work to continue his legacy (pride). I'm 30 and willing to learn and grow from old heads with constructive criticism. Lots of these young dudes are nothing but 🤡 in the comment section who are willing to judge but not judge themselves to become better. At the end of the day, to each their own.

@@fallingstar2155 i respect the fact that you see where other guys are slipping & know to do something different. If you 🔑 in to KS now, you gonna be a beast when you get to my age young bro. Respect 💪

@@NunYaBiz1313 alot of guys who call in tend to come off as more introverted/almost incel types. I see why they struggle. Then some guys played sports like I did & was used to coaches cursing/yelling at me to get my game better. KS is essentially that but for real life. Even tho the guys aren't as thorough as they need to be, they have the courage to call & listen, not call & argue to be right. It's a step in the right direction

Thats a fact bro

Thank You Brother

Thanks bro for the great work

Thank you as always Sir Deshawn. Most appreciated.💜🙏🏾

Thank you 🙏🏾☺️

Pin this Kevin

You lost cause me ,I'm not dying to settle or marry these chicks they for entertainment purposes only 🤣🤣,Prove me wrong

@@yoghetty5636 who said anything about settling? When I’m in the position where I feel marriage is an option I’ll do it. It’s that simple. I know who’s for fun and who more than that.

gems

Definitely on point. I’m currently 29, since past 2yrs ago my full focus is on myself to make up for my early 20,s played time.

Would you say that your looks have increased or stayed the same into your mid 30s, assuming you're taking care of yourself? Also what other areas would you say that you've become more attractive to women besides looks? I'm currently 27 and I can have fun with attractive women but most don't want to stick around because they're also dating these mid 30s higher earning higher status men.

Telling someone the truth is NEVER rude

And the women won’t make a video saying he wrong for talking like this to men…

@@lennardharris9093 Never Ever

Exactly. No means no remember? You aren’t this tall to get on the ride🙋🏽‍♂️

Definitely a Tiger!

Something KS has said on other videos is that life is about people and relationships. If you're going to be a tiger for life, then you should start planning to have a nurse to look out for you when you're too old to get up from bed and all the way to your death. Be a tiger in your 20s and early 30s. Become a feared lion after.

Broke a lot of hearts..... y'all say this so readily, be ready for your Karma.

Deep

Peace & Love, Although I Have A Gift Of Gab And A Natural Ability Of Approaching, Being Around, Making Women Comfortable & Laugh (Most Would Assume That As Having "Game") I Feel The Same Way As Being A Tiger With "Nerdy Pursuits." Our Culture Needs To Reframe Being Highly Educated & Well Versed In Worldly Concepts, Alongside Being Aware Of Various Cultures, As Being Knowledgeable & Wise Instead Of "Nerdy Pursuits." Based On What You Listed, I Don't Think You Need Therapy For Those Reasons; It Sounds As If You Are Just Trying To Learn Who You Are And Find Your Place In Life. Knowledge Of Self/Self-Awareness Is How You Become A Well Complete Man. That Awareness Ultimately Leads To Wisely Eliminating & Dodging Energies, Actions And Experiences That Don't Align W/ Your Way Of Life = Equates To A Well Balanced, Free-Flowing, Prosperous Life/Lifestyle. Peace & Love!!!

Exactly! Many men think there good leaders! Until it’s time to lead and have zero direction and wonder why the women don’t follow!

@@reese85 facts...accountability starts with analyzing yourself honestly first.

Remember you have to learn to lead yourself before anyone.

@@mra.4466 Absolutely Agree!

Hey! Would you consider the president a High value man? Do you think if you in that position, you could smash any Instagram model?

That's what I'm going to be doing wjth Kevin

😂 at 42:30 it was so funny but true about these stankin nappy heaeded wildebeest

I'm ah Gen X We heard if you wanna hide something put it I a Book. People say to me ,you think you know everything..I saw Naw just obout thought!

@@knowledge_driven i mean yeah ..is the president considered a high value? 🤔 if so ,then of course he could smash any Instagram wanna be model

Ok. read Mine above...

@@Gaigin22.32 ??

@@Gaigin22.32 Read what?

Yet Hyenas are actually doing perfectly fine in the wild they are one of the most successful predators on the planet. I believe they have a higher success rate then lions. i would say its an insult to the Hyenas lol

@@xMckingwill But they're still not as powerful as the lion....it takes 10 hyenas to take down a lion. Kind of like black women as "succcessful as they are as predators"...they can't defeat white America

@@TheSupremeDunk Correction it takes a dozen Hyenas to take out the LIONESS, male lions barely hunt and barely fight the female lions do 90% of the work to protect and provide for the pride. There are many cases of Hyenas chasing off lion prides. In fact lions look out for the hyenas after a hunt so they don't steal their kill. these animals AVOID conflict unless its a last resort. In addition Hyenas are a HIGHLY COOPERATIVE AND SOCIAL SPECIES JUST LIKE LIONS. The males and female WORK TOGETHER to hunt and survive. So again a terrible comparison. ( im a bit of an animal nerd) In addition it takes an entire pride to take down one water Buffalo should we use water buffalo's as out model for human behavior.

@@xMckingwill 🧢. While it's true that male lions usually don't hunt because they are busy patrolling their territory, they hunt when the big kill is needed. Not even 20 hyenas can take on 2 males. Honestly, their only saving grace is their bite force. In every animal species where the females are dominant, the males are the oppressed ones. Hyenas and almost every bug colony only use the males for mating. And then they are put on the bottom of the social ladder. Sure, hyenas are cohesive in hunting, but so are patriarchal animals such as African wild dogs, wolf packs, and finally lions. The difference is, the males don't OPPRESS the females.

@@YourLocalRussianNegro 1.Not entirely true. the females play a very large role in protecting and patrolling the territory. 2. Hyena do push away lion prides of of hunts 3. You cannot compare insects to mammals there is no such thing as "oppression" Insect colonies. They are simply behaving the way they do males just do their role. 5. Wrong again they are not just cohesive they have a HIGHER success rate then lions. And Hyeana have one of THE MOST cooperative social structure. 6. Males dont oppress the female really, its not like male lions commit inficide simply to reproduce with a female. Umm look at human history and how human males oppressed females so that arguments fails. 7. wolfs pack are mostly comprised of a male female and their cubs so that doesn't apply to them I never suggested other patriarchal species are not successful 8. Regardless of how you feel hyena are surviving just fine so whatever they do works

yeah I have had the same problem. I also feel like I should be a lion. But Tiger lifestyle has always fit me better. Glad you have had that realization as well. Cheers man.

@@Mike_M. I feel the same way with things and wonder is it just natural in my makeup to be a tiger cuz when I'm single I seem most happy...a relationship has never made me happier than being single and that means something...

lol did you listen to the whole video?

No you need to lead your life the way you want. Don’t get validation from a man on KZfaq if you are Cub, tiger or lion. Take the bull by the horns and be your self

Bro I’m in the same situation. 25 I moved Back in my mom crib and all so I can organize everything and hit all my goals at a healthy pace

same bro! i had to be a man at 14 but im realizing its ok to slow up and enjoy my youth while its here

I'm 30 found kevin a couple months ago and have binge watching his content since his death. I am shocked at the results I'm getting. I owe him so much already. rip 🐐

It really was frfr 💯

This was power "given" to them in 1969 (No Fault Divorce instated by conservative all-star ronald reagan). It can easily be taken away from them by walking away.

I feel sorry for black men that desires to be with the average black woman today.

@@shinyamada488 - Firstly no-fault divorce is a state by state issue not a nation wide one. Secondly in order to have legislation passed you need to have the majority of senate (both parties) in agreement. This was not something Ronald Regan waved a magic wand over the land & made law. (It’s not even within his authority to do so) Making “laws” from a position of military leader wasn’t even a thing until Obama/Biden administration. What you’re talking about is in 1969 when Ronald Reagan was the governor of California. Seeking to eliminate the strife & deception often associated with the legal regime of fault-based divorce, he signed the nation's first no-fault divorce bill. He later admitted that this was one the biggest mistakes of his career. Each individual state & representatives are at fault for enacting their own legislation. Many of which have never expressed regret for their actions.

@@SamanthaP48 Seventeen states in the US are considered “no-fault states” for divorce. These no-fault divorce states are Wisconsin, Oregon, Washington, Nevada, Nebraska, Montana, Missouri, Minnesota, Michigan, Kentucky, Kansas, Iowa, Indiana, Hawaii, Florida, Colorado, and California. How many black divorces are in these states,im sure there are many

Exactly!

More like any man with the modern baby momma

So many parallels smh

That hit home

Try that with a silverback though...

Them soy boys gon get the milk slapped from em whether it’s here or elsewhere

Lol I hope it's a call to action..

N*ggas don’t be knowing rules and sh*t. Like, vantage points and who’s name be on territorial rights and thangs🤣

They laugh at the Pride....until The Lion shows up!

They also fight In groups and snatch hard working animals food.

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☝🏽

Are you threatened by the hyenas? You might be a male hyena, lol.

Lmao it popped in my head. Cant unsee it

Good on you for the honest introspection. I wish you all the best as you pursue healing and self improvement. May the force be with you 👊🏾

I strongly recommend you to NOT GO therapy, Search the Lord with all your heart, forgive your mother and your father , don’t resent, don’t be angry, doubt every tough and do the Silent Prayer!

Kudos to you for being self aware 💪🏾💪🏾

Nah, Cougar?

@@GB2139 pure feel good nonsense

Yes! He definitely wanted ppl to know he had a rotation.

Right. But that tends to be found jn the first world because of modern comforts and wealth I'm guessing.

“Gotta be willing to bring home the wildebeest, the gazelle...” LMAOOOOO

emphasis on see the world the world is so big man

Oh, word?👨🏿‍🦳

He would never get nominated for that because what he said is not really true. Yes that is hyena heiarchy. But the way he talks about it would indicate that Female lions do not dominate male lions and that is absolutely false. Female lions will group up and attack even kill male lions when they threaten their cubs if they are able. They also will group up and attack male lions when they threaten the lioness group. Lions are just WAY bigger than female lions so they cannot challenge them one on one and the female lion will fall back but if she comes back with her girls make no mistake about it, they will attack a male lion. This is facts. The difference is lions only challenge the men when needed and even if it’s often it’s not their day to day structure like it is with Hyenas. However in life all that matters is survival and in that Hyenas are winning. They are nowhere near close to extinction.… lionesses do 90% of the hunting as well…research it. I think he would have been more accurate to point that out.

@@blasiankiki7831 Tbh, your point is irrelevant because the CONCEPTS that KS is relaying cannot be 100 percent 1:1 with reality. No analogy or metaphor is. The goal is to provide a conceptual framework for understanding a particular circumstance or dynamic. This is basic reason and logic. Your point about lionesses ganging up on male lions is logically irrelevant (and makes no logical sense as a criticism) because the lionesses are ganging up on OUTSIDE threats, not the male who LEADS the pride. In fact, your point supports the arguments made in the video. The female lions under the leadership of the male perform their duties to the pride based on their biological constitution. Female lions are not 1:1 with female humans. They are predatorial in a way that female humans are not, so it makes sense that the female lions in the pride hunt together while the male watches over the pride (that is their gender dynamic as felines). Ultimately, female lions DO NOT dominate male lions in the total ecosystem of lions. They gang up on outside threats. TLDR: your point isn’t really logically thorough, but I understand what you were trying to say.

@@theancient1911 no lionesses will kick pride males out and will attack them also if necessary even their mates when they get old a lioness will kill them. Lions are the only large cats that will dominate the males.. look it up. The analogy doesn’t have to be 100% parallel it should be accurate tho. Lionesses do not blindly follow.. it’s just not true.

@@theancient1911 but I see what he is trying to portray but I’m saying if you look at it from a survival point Hyenas are very effective at thriving and surviving. Hyenas are no where near extinct and according to nature that’s the main point. When all the big cats are gone there will still be an abundance of hyenas and they will be the top predator then. Just another perspective

@@blasiankiki7831 I already know this. But your logic is still not sound. Lionesses attack male lions in EXTREME circumstances. This is not the norm when it comes to their behavior. Typically, it is over limited food supply or the older lion is too weak to be useful to the pride. Why did you say “lionesses do not blindly follow?” Who said anything about females blindly following males? A smart woman/female will naturally follow a competent, strong, responsible man/male. That’s not being blind. That’s being wise. I could be wrong, but it sounds like you’re assuming that men want women to “blindly” follow them. Only man-babies want that because they are really only “qualified” to lead equally childish, ignorant, clueless women. Competent, strong, responsible men with a spiritual/moral compass are looking for an intelligent, wise woman to recognize his leadership and follow him of her own free will. There are levels to all of this. Lionesses, as you have described them, possess these traits. So again, the analogy is not 100% 1:1, but it’s certainly accurate enough and a great way of conceptualizing male-female human dynamics.

Naw you’re not KO, you hit the canvas but can get up, go to your corner, get the pep talk from your coaches and trainers, let them heal your cuts, and go back out there. Kevin is not Tyson, he’s more of a coach or trainer albeit honest and direct. Blessings to you fam 🙏🏾

Man bust out laughing cuz I was thinking what ks was thinking. He def harder on us males. But we need tough love rather than pandering. No b*tch conversations or feelings just need straight truth.

@@BLEW313 he actually is harder on men which makes sense. But when he was kicking mfs off I was surprised 🤣

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Get the young ladies in the family on it in their young teens too.

Like & comment on each one. It's just respectful & for the cause at this point. ⚓️🎩♾️✨️

That doesn’t make sense. You want to be submissive to a hyena?

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