Are You Turned Off When A Man Shows His Weakness?

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6 жыл бұрын

Real Housewives star Dorinda Medley says it's a major turn on, but Shannon Boodram says evolutionarily, it puts women off. What do you think?
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@beautyfolse4249
@beautyfolse4249 6 жыл бұрын
I bet you the Rock’s ex girlfriend was devastated and depressed after he became rich and famous. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@dwn144
@dwn144 6 жыл бұрын
Beauty Folse' Definitely!
@terxo6677
@terxo6677 6 жыл бұрын
Now you can't even go out & come home without seeing his new 100 movie posters outside
@beautyfolse4249
@beautyfolse4249 6 жыл бұрын
Patricia Xo Facts. 😂😂
@beautyfolse4249
@beautyfolse4249 6 жыл бұрын
Dee 😅
@beautyfolse4249
@beautyfolse4249 6 жыл бұрын
Antihater135 😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😅😅😅😅
@Allnew_K
@Allnew_K 5 жыл бұрын
Never listen to what a woman says, Always analyse what a woman does.
@koenapps4022
@koenapps4022 6 жыл бұрын
I'm calling utter BS, sure many women will SAY that, but their actions and choices speak entirely different.
@noway464
@noway464 5 жыл бұрын
Koen Apps this comment is underrated
@user-ei7ed6zy9k
@user-ei7ed6zy9k 5 жыл бұрын
i've had so many arguments about "toxic masculinity" on twitter. they claim they like men who cry, do some makeup and paint their nails. nah they mistaking it for wanting a guy friend that can giggle and gossip with them who aint never getting laid
@nofybn7794
@nofybn7794 5 жыл бұрын
@ Sexist. You have issues with women to work on. Law of attraction is like attracts like. That means you are as morally corrupt as it gets. And respect women! You will do so much better.
@nofybn7794
@nofybn7794 5 жыл бұрын
Well you are wrong.
@nofybn7794
@nofybn7794 5 жыл бұрын
@@user-ei7ed6zy9k make-up and paint nails? No. Yes it can be toxic. I do like guys, typical guy looking to get laid. No, he isn't getting laid.
@goscott2
@goscott2 6 жыл бұрын
Women say it's a turn on in public but in reality it's a turn off for them.
@radmanpedram3214
@radmanpedram3214 6 жыл бұрын
Scott Williams very true
@veeoby3364
@veeoby3364 5 жыл бұрын
Am a woman and you're RIGHT. So guys be careful showing your weakness
@yassersaeed3056
@yassersaeed3056 5 жыл бұрын
don't believe what people say, watch what they do instead
@rouskeycarpel8652
@rouskeycarpel8652 5 жыл бұрын
Vee Oby Why is it a turn on when us guys show human emotion over something serious.For example like the situation with the Rock it's human to feel emotional pain and sadness when you realize you can't achieve a career goal that you've worked so hard for and when a a significant other dumps you.
@TundraDad
@TundraDad 5 жыл бұрын
Yasser Saeed , Sooooo true. Yeeeaaahh, I’m calling BS on these women. Turn the camera off and let’s hear from regular women.
@2121MAW
@2121MAW 6 жыл бұрын
we as men get tired
@bernieg9014
@bernieg9014 6 жыл бұрын
True. I would want a man to tell and show me how he feels instead of hiding because of what society says. Transparency is the only way to a strong healthy relationship.
@emogotti23
@emogotti23 6 жыл бұрын
Bernie G women don't respect weak men.
@bernieg9014
@bernieg9014 6 жыл бұрын
I never viewed a man showing emotion as a sign of weakness but humanity. Yet I get what you are saying because of stigma. If a man can't show his woman his true feelings then she can never really know or comfort him.
@SoulFistGaming
@SoulFistGaming 6 жыл бұрын
I take everything these females say with a grain of salt
@AbderrahmanFodili
@AbderrahmanFodili 5 жыл бұрын
Yeah those silly ass mf feminists
@jasonfields7058
@jasonfields7058 5 жыл бұрын
Nah, that second women was spot on. She was talking about the evolutionary psychology of attraction and she was on point and balanced. She was speaking truth regarding what women are attracted to initially vs when they mature a bit more and see that there are other qualities you have to test for and get to know in the person that over shadows a weakness you may see from time to time.
@user-ei7ed6zy9k
@user-ei7ed6zy9k 5 жыл бұрын
feminists (especially on twitter) dont understand the value of a man's dignity is. they call it "toxic masculinity" now. if a man dont wanna over express his every day emotions, it's none of their damn business.
@MB-yk8ng
@MB-yk8ng 5 жыл бұрын
Me with a cup of the dead sea water
@TaoNaomi
@TaoNaomi 5 жыл бұрын
yeaahh! honestyly I find it unattractive. I only find it attractive when that man admits and shows weaknesses with me only. Everyone has an emotional side but don't go showing that to everybody some people will see you as a target. hopefully this makes sense.
@Sebastian-px3bl
@Sebastian-px3bl 6 жыл бұрын
Shaming a guy for showing ‘weakness’ is like asking for a toxic relationship
@saifullahkhan8426
@saifullahkhan8426 5 жыл бұрын
Ma man
@Yng619
@Yng619 2 жыл бұрын
Buddy if ur soft she's not gonna respect u.
@trigcat3107
@trigcat3107 2 жыл бұрын
In a $ exual competition i dare any man show his weakness and soon you'd be eliminated and would only have her empathy with ya. Even with wives(females are psychological), if husbands pretends to be weak and cries more often, she'd take advantage of that and remind him always and hurt his ego
@jakevargas2484
@jakevargas2484 2 жыл бұрын
@@trigcat3107 True that.
@thomasf4764
@thomasf4764 2 жыл бұрын
Showing a weakness to a female is the worst thing you could ever do after being needy… you can show vulnerability by sharing a past struggle and how you’ve won over it , that’s it but never share your struggle !
@keyatm3972
@keyatm3972 6 жыл бұрын
Women go from talking about walking over weak mean to saying the popular and most liked thing. If you show a woman weakness, it better not be often or for long
@bernieg9014
@bernieg9014 6 жыл бұрын
Key Atm I feel that if 2 people deeply care for one another they should be transparent about their feelings. When a woman asks a man how he is feeling or how his day went she wants the details not a facade of what people told him to be.
@jonow6297
@jonow6297 6 жыл бұрын
True. I think you only have one time to do it. After that women lose respect for you and they know it.
@PhysiqueFuel
@PhysiqueFuel 5 жыл бұрын
Key Atm Preach!
@nofybn7794
@nofybn7794 5 жыл бұрын
@@jonow6297 No, it's not one time.
@Jay-jb2vr
@Jay-jb2vr 5 жыл бұрын
Unless she's a therapist
@peterman5552_
@peterman5552_ 5 жыл бұрын
Women lying for 2 minutes and 30 seconds.
@jaychi9884
@jaychi9884 5 жыл бұрын
It's a trap!!!!
@Alchemy77
@Alchemy77 5 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@JimmyStruthers1000
@JimmyStruthers1000 5 жыл бұрын
100% facts
@mr.j7288
@mr.j7288 5 жыл бұрын
I agree women just say things so it sounds nice ... so they don’t get shamed .... but they evolved to not like weakness in men. A man could be going through depression he could lose his job ..... they won’t stay and will leave him most of the time..
@AIRSOFTRAIDERS1
@AIRSOFTRAIDERS1 5 жыл бұрын
They're not lying. They respect men who open up about weaknesses for real. What women ARENT into is dudes who literally do nothing to try to overcome themselves and their weaknesses. Dudes who act like life is happening TO them instead of FOR them.
@yeeet1160
@yeeet1160 5 жыл бұрын
CORRECTION : Only when someone like the Rock opens up about this it's a "turn on"
@123bathinapes
@123bathinapes 6 жыл бұрын
Exactly what the women in the middle said. They have to talk themselves into why it's positive. But on a deep biological level it doesn't make her respect you.
@PhysiqueFuel
@PhysiqueFuel 5 жыл бұрын
So true
@spyderspic666
@spyderspic666 6 жыл бұрын
The woman in the middle secretly feels that men shouldnt cry but she was afraid of a negative response so she was careful and simply gave a politically correct answer. The other women straight up said NO it wasnt a turn off.
@lovexoxo251
@lovexoxo251 6 жыл бұрын
Yea I got a vibe for her that was like umm what are you saying
@aspiknf
@aspiknf 4 жыл бұрын
Lol she's a wimp then, where's her honesty lmao
@trigcat3107
@trigcat3107 2 жыл бұрын
@@aspiknf In a $ exual competition i dare any man show his weakness and soon you'd be eliminated and would only have her empathy with ya. Even with wives(females are psychological), if husbands pretends to be weak and cries more often, she'd take advantage of that and remind him always and hurt his ego
@aspiknf
@aspiknf 2 жыл бұрын
@@trigcat3107 I think what you say is true in many sexual relationships between men and women.
@asdfdc1946
@asdfdc1946 3 ай бұрын
@@aspiknf women are never honest. they always lie.
@madslasher18
@madslasher18 4 жыл бұрын
Don’t listen to what women say, WATCH WHAT THEY DO
@summersdiary7
@summersdiary7 6 жыл бұрын
The girl in the middle got all the right logical answers! Wow!
@burrbaby6802
@burrbaby6802 6 жыл бұрын
She is a sexologist n her KZfaq channel is quite interesting
@summersdiary7
@summersdiary7 6 жыл бұрын
Burr Baby Thanks for the info!
@amirahadams1323
@amirahadams1323 6 жыл бұрын
Right! Her name is Shannon Boodram, her KZfaq channel is called Shan Boody.
@doncorlione1284
@doncorlione1284 6 жыл бұрын
The opposite, she is the only person who would foot on your throat to get what she wants. You can say she treats men like a tool to achieve what she wants. She is a trader in transaction of her physical . Average attitude of modern female.
@JuanitaMichelle
@JuanitaMichelle 6 жыл бұрын
Summer A yes she’s very bright.
@markusk9080
@markusk9080 3 жыл бұрын
I have never gotten a positive response from women when I talked about my feelings. I don't look very masculin, but I do have quite "male" interests and a very male type of humour, so I guess they are surprised when they realize that I do have some issues mentally. I've never been encouraged to talk about them and usually just get awkward silence as a response. Because of that I have decided to keep them to myself and just talk about them with my male friends.
@pearlrodrigues372
@pearlrodrigues372 8 ай бұрын
It’s good to be vulnerable with people you trust not just anyone.
@wanatasha3234
@wanatasha3234 6 жыл бұрын
Am a woman and I think every now and then a woman should cuddle their husbands,massage them,treat them to a dinner ,ask them what they want because boys are raised to be tough,protect and provide but we should also tell them that they deserve to be pampered too
@lovexoxo251
@lovexoxo251 6 жыл бұрын
I agree, it's nice every once in a while. I do all that for my man.
@MrGodismypower
@MrGodismypower 6 жыл бұрын
Love XOXO every once in a while..... well do you expect for him to pamper you pretty often?
@lovexoxo251
@lovexoxo251 6 жыл бұрын
MrGodismypower - Umm actually no I don't, I just expect him to handle the things he needs to handle often, and I do the same and we have moments when we decide to pamper each other. Normal things like cuddling, listening to him, making him dinner, yes all the time. I say once in a while to when I pay for him to get a luxurious full massage, I pay for basketball tickets in the front area, I pay for a really nice dinner at a restaurant, gifts and more. I give him all the best. That's not something that will happen all the time though.
@donniethewiseone8643
@donniethewiseone8643 6 жыл бұрын
Pc Club:he's gonna be one lucky/blessed dude to have you, Y'all kind of woman are A RARITY!!!!!!!! #FACTS#
@doncorlione1284
@doncorlione1284 6 жыл бұрын
Pc Club true . Some women understand the importance and impact of pampering their men and taking care of them .
@SheniceSays214
@SheniceSays214 6 жыл бұрын
My dude showed me his weakness and for him his weakness was showing emotion and for me it was a turn-on because it showed that he trusted me with his true self. Which in turn brought us even closer together.
@doncorlione1284
@doncorlione1284 6 жыл бұрын
Shenice Says precisely !
@constituent15
@constituent15 5 жыл бұрын
And gave you ammo to use next time you guys argue
@tyraperez
@tyraperez 5 жыл бұрын
Get it girl!!!!!!
@SPLASHGOD575
@SPLASHGOD575 5 жыл бұрын
@@constituent15 facts
@editsgang8290
@editsgang8290 4 жыл бұрын
@@SPLASHGOD575 big big big facts
@lisasylvester5513
@lisasylvester5513 6 жыл бұрын
If a man states his weakness, especially in Dwayne Johnson case its good, my boys are his fans, and Dwayne showed them its alright to say your depressed, cause only then you can get help, I was depressed and ashamed when my ex-husband walked out, and I can testify that depression is a hole waiting to swallow you. Thanks to Iyanla Vanzants' 'The value in the valley' and listening to Bishop TD Jakes.. am here
@kujas
@kujas 5 жыл бұрын
i'm truly sorry you had to go through that troubling time, I hope at this moment you're back stronger than ever
@colasalz2
@colasalz2 5 жыл бұрын
so the man can state weakness , if he was succesfull on getting over it, that meas: after it. Dwayne said: oh, at that time i was depressed. And the women still finds him sexy...because he is a top dog at the sports industry. I doubt that she would find him attractice at that time.
@user-ei7ed6zy9k
@user-ei7ed6zy9k 5 жыл бұрын
men. dont fall for this BS
@kambuijames7055
@kambuijames7055 5 жыл бұрын
Cant
@sammiebonthecutt
@sammiebonthecutt 6 жыл бұрын
Don't believe this BS
@ToastAbrikoos
@ToastAbrikoos 6 жыл бұрын
Some see a weakness, I see Humanity. It really dephends on how they DEAL with it. If they get angry, don't want to let it show, that's a problem. If they let it show and be honest about it, I can respect that and see you as fellow human. That's indeed a big Turn on.
@nickwhright5848
@nickwhright5848 4 жыл бұрын
Honestly is rare in this modern world
@BurdenofTheMighty
@BurdenofTheMighty 4 жыл бұрын
I only cry under 3 circumstances: 1: I get injured really badly. Maybe breaking a bone or something 2: someone very close to me passes away 3: in church when I get deep into worship I absolutely refuse to cry anytime else
@siyase731
@siyase731 6 жыл бұрын
The way the Rock did it is cool, but if it was like Tyrese’s outburst 👎🏾✌🏾🖐🏾 then I am completely turned off!
@dwn144
@dwn144 6 жыл бұрын
siyase731 Cryrese does the most. Such a drama queen and done to manipulate
@lovexoxo251
@lovexoxo251 6 жыл бұрын
Oh yea no Cryrese, that was just ridiculous
@seanparker2243
@seanparker2243 6 жыл бұрын
you don't like tyrese or just the way he gets emotional?
@dwn144
@dwn144 6 жыл бұрын
sean parker the way he gets emotional is a turn off even for a woman. Kids throw tantrums when a grown person male or female does that, it's nothing but manipulation and mind games.
@sibongisenicentane1835
@sibongisenicentane1835 6 жыл бұрын
hahahaha wow....
@CS-wn2sz
@CS-wn2sz 5 жыл бұрын
To start this conversation off with the rock expressing his emotions doesn't do anything to move the needle on how men are allowed to feel about vulnerability because the question is with him in mind for context. Even if women saw the Rock's vulnerability as a turn off he's the rock so it's easy to say the right thing. I doubt this segment is comforting to the average man
@7DOLLABEATS
@7DOLLABEATS 5 жыл бұрын
MGTOW! stand up. These "wall hit" woman wouldn't be saying this in their 20s
@trigcat3107
@trigcat3107 2 жыл бұрын
👑 here king
@johnarawlings
@johnarawlings 6 жыл бұрын
I have schizophrenia, epilepsy and clinical depression and I am not afraid to talk about them to anybody. :)
@NellieKAdaba
@NellieKAdaba 6 жыл бұрын
I also suffer from depression.
@johnarawlings
@johnarawlings 6 жыл бұрын
I was made to feel afraid to talk about it at my last 3 employers in Australia because I was bullied for having mental and neurological illness!!
@johnarawlings
@johnarawlings 6 жыл бұрын
The economic and occupational truth of what should have happened and what did happen to me and their future are two different things I can assure you!!
@tyraperez
@tyraperez 5 жыл бұрын
I'm right here with you on the epilepsy and depression and I ain't afraid to speak up either. We got this 💪💪💪
@skyscout3
@skyscout3 4 жыл бұрын
@@johnarawlings so I guess you don't pull many women do you? yeah they just say they care for men like that, in reality they use them like condoms until they get what they want and move on to the next one
@TrentJulien
@TrentJulien 3 жыл бұрын
When she says I want you to open up She means she wants you to open up about her She wants to know what you think about her It's all about her These women saying it is ok, they are comfortable with him opening up to her If he continues to talk about himself with she will resent him and call him selfish for not being vulnerable about her
@jzwalz51robin45
@jzwalz51robin45 5 жыл бұрын
This is a very good example of women stating something because it sounds good, but not believing it.
@asdfdc1946
@asdfdc1946 3 ай бұрын
women always lie. never believe anything they say.
@ninetysdude6212
@ninetysdude6212 5 жыл бұрын
i think that females tend to the male's wounds in general, physical or emotional. I was having a fever one day, and that one girl was caring for me that whole day. I had never felt more attracted to a girl in my life. not sexually but actually emotionally for the first time in my life. but oh well the next thing I knew she got engaged and married right after.
@AttonBrown
@AttonBrown 6 жыл бұрын
It's not video games or society, whoever his primary male role model is is teaching him that. I used to get beat for crying
@robinpresha5310
@robinpresha5310 6 жыл бұрын
yes a man deserves to be pampered I agree that's how you keep one to doing just that I love doing it
@dashelledisna6239
@dashelledisna6239 6 жыл бұрын
Yass. I agree with Dorinda💯. Aw baby, while I massage his neck😂
@raphael5165
@raphael5165 3 жыл бұрын
They will say no until they face it. A weak man is not attractive
@aknadiri2520
@aknadiri2520 9 ай бұрын
They call woman chicken mind for a reason. Unless she is special one, no need to listen tf she has to say
@CarAmeL624
@CarAmeL624 6 жыл бұрын
More of Shannon please!!!!!! 😀🙌🙌
@rileyscott7135
@rileyscott7135 3 жыл бұрын
BS - every girl runs as soon as the guy shows that emotinal side.
@BelindaJoy
@BelindaJoy 6 жыл бұрын
There is a vast difference (IMO) between a man being "soft and weak" and showing vulnerability. Crying, depression, anxiety in my mind does not equal weakness. However......if every time I turn around the guy is crying and curled up in a ball....as mean as it may sound, I would start looking at him differently. LOL!
@lovexoxo251
@lovexoxo251 6 жыл бұрын
Yea it has to be balance for sure
@devinezeanioma5776
@devinezeanioma5776 6 жыл бұрын
You..sound like you’d be such a trash and unsupportive partner.. reason why toxic masculinity is what is today. You as a woman play a part in it
@Jay-jb2vr
@Jay-jb2vr 5 жыл бұрын
Trash
@protenpinner
@protenpinner 4 жыл бұрын
You literally just LOLd about male emotions. You're part of the problem why 3/4 of suicides are men
@nicholashayes5773
@nicholashayes5773 4 жыл бұрын
I think that's a turnoff for anybody, man or woman. I mean that's basically what a child does. No adult should be emotional and crying ALL the time.
@wzupppp
@wzupppp 5 жыл бұрын
they will say yes, but subconsciously no
@jaanzabezee6106
@jaanzabezee6106 5 жыл бұрын
Why are some women so shallow! Emotion is part of being human. It's Irrelevant on the sex be it male or female. In general women are more emotional. That's common knowledge. How would they feel if we men considered them an emotional wreck every time they cried instead of comforting them? How about you females grow up and support your man if he is feeling a little low! Being emotionally stable is not just about being weak at times it's also about controlling anger. Not reacting to how you feel all the time and thinking logically. The women that think like that are just immature and have a lot to learn on the subject of psychology and being human.
@pearlrodrigues372
@pearlrodrigues372 8 ай бұрын
It’s okay to cry when you’ve lost someone or a new person entering your life (like a child or grandchild) never is it okay to cry for attention.
@ericp1139
@ericp1139 5 жыл бұрын
Showing weakness is okay if you look like Ryan Gosling.
@JV-tk9yn
@JV-tk9yn 5 жыл бұрын
Of COURSE it's a turn on for them when they're talking about the Rock lmbo smh Too many guys know that their girl loses respect and attraction to them once they show vulnerability..
@fixedbyfaith
@fixedbyfaith 5 жыл бұрын
Its so funny because i saw the lady with the white hair (from the real housewives) at a fundraiser event this past summer & we spoke several times & i had no idea who she was😂 i still dont know her name
@chak9360
@chak9360 3 жыл бұрын
"Its a turn on" the audacity of that statement.
@deborahpurvis5354
@deborahpurvis5354 6 жыл бұрын
I'm with Dorinda, a man not afraid to show he's "human", and has emotions, is a BIG turn-on for me. It gives me a chance to be what I was meant to be, softer, a nuturer, the feminine one. It's really nice not to have to be "competing" with a man. Like she said with a man who is funny, and can cry too, I'm already unzippering my dress. (lol) My husband was the biggest cry baby, and I loved him so much. He was All-man, sexy as hell, but had a sensitivity esp. towards me, like no other man I've ever known! Loving him STILL...RIP Edward W. Purvis jr. (1951-2015)
@charlessivaslian8556
@charlessivaslian8556 6 жыл бұрын
Respect
@stinemcdonald4885
@stinemcdonald4885 6 жыл бұрын
Yes, that touches the nurturer in us when a real man is transparent ..and much respect and condolences for your immeasurable loss...may the Lord truly comfort.
@ZERO-nc7td
@ZERO-nc7td 2 жыл бұрын
Am sure when u were young u didnt have the sme perspective
@liouting
@liouting 6 жыл бұрын
No I think it shows courage and that he is strong, honest and open. Of course it’s not going to make me take my dress off and “turned on” but it’s attractive to see my man vulnerable and for me to be there by his side to support and comfort him. I love that!
@lawlessx9
@lawlessx9 5 жыл бұрын
ok now seriously..they arent gonna outright say its a turn off because they know cameras are on them and it makes them look shallow.
@tyraperez
@tyraperez 5 жыл бұрын
I struggle with depression and all kinds of stuff so who am I to judge if my man struggles with it too. I'd rather him talk to me about that then bottle it all up because I know how it feels to have to do that and to be judged because of that stuff. So not all women are turned off by that. I sure the hell ain't.
@swoosh3684
@swoosh3684 5 жыл бұрын
I love a man that wears his heart on his sleeve. I like a man that can cry and be vulnerable but he can't b emotionally manipulative...there's a difference.
@robinpresha5310
@robinpresha5310 6 жыл бұрын
I agree very much so
@Apexilon
@Apexilon 6 жыл бұрын
Oh please, its not society that tells men not ot have emotions, its women. That;s right, I said it: WOMEN. When I was younger, I was always told by my mother "big boys don;t cry, only little boys cry. Are you a little boy or my big man? Now stop crying". My father would tell me "Why are you crying? Do you want your mother to see you crying?". In my teens my sisters would tell me "Listen, if you;re serious about getting a girlfriend you have to quit the emotions that make you look weak, no girl wants a man she has to defend, girls want men that will defend them. If you're showing emotion, you;re not strong enough to defend anyone, let alone them, and they won;t date you for that". My brother would tell me "Great men are successful when they take advantage of their gifts, gifts borne out of inspiration, and the greatest inspiration a man can have is a woman". So, from my experience, society never told me anything about showing emotion, it was all about whan men should portray to women, and tha's why all those "bad boys" go out trying to act tough - its to get the attention of the female. Even animals know this, when they put on the mating dance, puffing up their chests, its all a show to show the biggest, stroingest, toughest. Not the most sensitive or emotional. Don't believe the lie.
@Apexilon
@Apexilon 5 жыл бұрын
Actually, I only recall saying it was my parents telling me not to cry. By the time I hit my teens I had learned crying was not the way to go, my siblings however would tell me not to show emotion as they liked boys that didn;t show emotion so they wanted me to not show emotion if I wanted ot be successful with girls, I don't recall saying they told me not to cry. Effectively, my sisters translated showing emotion to having weakness, that was my point. In a way, it however goes back to the point of the video, should men show emotion.. and crying is onyl one of those.
@Apexilon
@Apexilon 5 жыл бұрын
In hidnsight I think they were trying to say "dont let anyone especially women, know anything they do gets to you - be Stoic". But the real question, does any woman really want a stoic man? Emotionless t-800 style fella?
@theprolificnetwork4670
@theprolificnetwork4670 5 жыл бұрын
Apexilon The reason for that is as a little boy allowing that emotion overwhelming them creates a dependency and the lesson for that child is to push through that emotion and to follow through with what they must do instead of standing there and cry. As an adult you already know what you should do and you already know how to manage your emotions but as a child you have to teach them how to handle their emotions before it becomes a dependency for comfort.
@nofybn7794
@nofybn7794 5 жыл бұрын
No, it is men. Women can't cry either!
@scrapplesamwich7910
@scrapplesamwich7910 5 жыл бұрын
Had a lot of respect for Steve Harvey until this show.
@itz_akuma
@itz_akuma 5 жыл бұрын
Same here. I lost respect for him when Bernie Mac called him a sell out..... now I can see why he said that.
@sasjaparson8090
@sasjaparson8090 6 жыл бұрын
Noo a man needs to show emotion, ur else hè turns the silent violent type.
@thrilla72
@thrilla72 6 жыл бұрын
Sasja Parson He should show his emotions to others, not his woman.
@aaliyahgriffin781
@aaliyahgriffin781 6 жыл бұрын
thrilla72 nope that's incorrect
@thrilla72
@thrilla72 6 жыл бұрын
Aaliyah Griffin care to elaborate?
@aaliyahgriffin781
@aaliyahgriffin781 6 жыл бұрын
thrilla72 you shouldn't be in a relationship with someone if you can't show them your full range of emotions crying to your lover is a sign of intimacy........ why would you want to keep barriers between each other?
@thrilla72
@thrilla72 6 жыл бұрын
Aaliyah Griffin What if he cries every single day. Would that affect the level of respect he gets?
@jj_cruz
@jj_cruz 5 жыл бұрын
I mean... the men they used as examples are high profile men who also happen to be celebrities. If they wouldn't have used the rock, and Carson Daily then I have a feeling we would have gotten different answers. All that bs is based on money and power. So I find it hard to believe these women.
@acorntree404
@acorntree404 5 жыл бұрын
the middle woman? when "SHE" was younger "she" went after the bad boy and its a turn off for "her"... not "we".
@TheLadyindigo87
@TheLadyindigo87 6 жыл бұрын
That's when you give your man the most support. At that point, it is important to bring out the nurturing qualities as a woman. And sometimes a little tough love to motivate depending on the situation
@deionsworld1035
@deionsworld1035 9 ай бұрын
Cant believe this i dated wayyyy to many woman in the past to realize how false this is.
@ati4484
@ati4484 5 жыл бұрын
But these women haven't actually seen men cry... they just talk about it hypothetically. Every time I've ever opened up to a woman emotionally, she dumped me almost immediately. Women DO NOT RESPECT weak men. Women DO NOT GET WET for weak men.
@koyanischannel3001
@koyanischannel3001 3 жыл бұрын
Do not show your weakness to women, they never even know what they are talking about and always send confusing signals, if she says A then you must not do A.
@bigedslobotomy
@bigedslobotomy 2 жыл бұрын
You have to realize that women SAY one thing, but MEAN a completely different thing. They SAY they want a sensitive man who shares his emotions, but even if they marry him, they’ll be drawn like bees to honey to the alpha male, who exudes confidence and strength.
@Raniko2020
@Raniko2020 4 жыл бұрын
Three liars on display. The moment you are weak in her eyes, she looking for a new man.
@matasuki
@matasuki 5 жыл бұрын
Basically the 2nd woman explained it. The third went around the question and the first lady was just trying to be funny. Woman always react to a strong man, but as they get older they look for a partner who is more compromising to raise children with. I as a man can't fault a woman for that no more than a man can be faulted for wanting to indiscriminately sleep with as many women as possible but choose to settle down and help raise children. We all have urges but we try our best (Even if failing most) to act in a more humane and civilized manner. Otherwise society would never have gotten this far if all we did was neglect our frontal lobe and fixate only on our instinctual desires.
@PhysiqueFuel
@PhysiqueFuel 5 жыл бұрын
matasuki So basically as they get older and less desirable they eventually start to settle for guys they wouldn’t normally date. Women can be really cunning. I don’t blame dudes for being players.
@liyaxin9144
@liyaxin9144 4 жыл бұрын
Everything is mind blowing to me
@lamorena3990
@lamorena3990 6 жыл бұрын
Everyone has their own heart js
@teenindustry
@teenindustry 5 жыл бұрын
The term “weakness” says a lot. It shows strength to be vulnerable
@nicoladavis6379
@nicoladavis6379 6 жыл бұрын
Yes Steve you can cry or in Jamaica we sey bawl. You love bawling bad.
@remowilliams7569
@remowilliams7569 3 жыл бұрын
These women are so politically correct, but absolutely dishonest in how women think and feel.
@lovelife8968
@lovelife8968 3 жыл бұрын
Steves laugh is infectious
@oeao2841
@oeao2841 5 жыл бұрын
That’s total bull crap if a guy says he can’t win a fight...will she stay or will she go?
@ThePillager2099
@ThePillager2099 5 жыл бұрын
Sounds like a bunch of liars.
@miguelhernandez4794
@miguelhernandez4794 4 жыл бұрын
Omg !! You know how many times I've been dumped because of this reason. Ive given up. I will never be fake.
@penlavits3305
@penlavits3305 5 жыл бұрын
Why would they lie like this.
@justicedavis5705
@justicedavis5705 5 жыл бұрын
They only saying it's a turn-on because they were talking about The Rock, if it was a regular dude saying he went through all of that the reaction would of been much different.
@slomotionproductions8005
@slomotionproductions8005 5 жыл бұрын
Justice Davis Agreed
@thecitizen9880
@thecitizen9880 5 жыл бұрын
Trying to understand women is a waste of time just be out on the field until she comes
@Drawingboredi
@Drawingboredi 6 жыл бұрын
Can Shannon just stay on the show foreveeeerrrr
@TundraDad
@TundraDad 5 жыл бұрын
Yeeaaaaahhh, I’m calling BS.
@TNJ-gn2gv
@TNJ-gn2gv 5 жыл бұрын
"You have to talk to yourself and be like naaah..." We have been brainwashed and manipulated to ignore our instincs and intuition that are predominantly there to protect us (humanity) to the point we do it to ourselves. We shall suffer the consequences of this foolishness. (We kinda are suffering, on the low.)
@albertfoo1569
@albertfoo1569 2 жыл бұрын
Weaknesses that no woman wants men to show: 1) Indecisiveness 2) Making mental mistakes (forgetting the keys, forgetting dates) 3) Behavioural: Stuttering, walking funny, anything that shows one is lesser than normal. Woman only want men to express emotions in the most masculine manner: meaning cry maculinely, share emotions masculinely. Anything other than that is a sign that you can't protect her. Perception is ALL that matters.
@protenpinner
@protenpinner 4 жыл бұрын
I get that they'd say they wouldn't on TV but studies say when a guy shows emotion or weakness their partner sees them differently and not in a good way. The middle one was the closest to admitting that. Sad but true. Same goes for when a guy loses his job. Studies show that she is more likely to leave him.
@briannebarker6833
@briannebarker6833 Жыл бұрын
I think, if they milk it, it’s a turn off. Otherwise it’s attractive to have weakness and still strive. Human.
@AbderrahmanFodili
@AbderrahmanFodili 5 жыл бұрын
That's just stupid I never thought that feminism sneaked into Steve's show as well .
@liyaxin9144
@liyaxin9144 4 жыл бұрын
This is mind blowing to me to learn. But thank you all the comments section
@nehemiamokgaliphe2244
@nehemiamokgaliphe2244 6 жыл бұрын
I like this panel.
@adriansolozano7964
@adriansolozano7964 Жыл бұрын
If a had to do some of the things celebrities have to do for fame, I'd be depressed to.
@dbrown5784
@dbrown5784 4 жыл бұрын
Men, If you want a woman to dry up like the Sahara start crying in front of her. Women say they like it but they cringe to that behavior. What good is a man to a woman if he is just as emotional as she is.
@terxo6677
@terxo6677 6 жыл бұрын
The Rock been working so hard no break, he EVERYWHERE like damn can we miss you bruh??😂
@MrUnlimitedTorque
@MrUnlimitedTorque Жыл бұрын
Don't listen to what these women say, look at what they do. Women want strong men, don't listen to zhis "weakness is hot" BS. Never show weakness in front of women.
@rachidakoch
@rachidakoch 6 жыл бұрын
Dorinda Medley sounds just like Marge Simpson at 2:21
@saartiaipinge7347
@saartiaipinge7347 5 жыл бұрын
I find it attractive too for a short period of time. But if he happens to feel down over it or think over it days after days, than I'll start to get annoyed and probably cut off the relationship.
@seondeon6204
@seondeon6204 5 жыл бұрын
Saarti Aipinge i like your honesty
@ceasar7830
@ceasar7830 2 жыл бұрын
Wht is so creepy many women who say "i love when men show me their weak side coz they trust me and i am especial" Like they take the misery of the men to make it about themselves and hv a weird creepy "joy" while a men cries.. This gives me predictory vibe to me tht many women find it nice when a man is his lowest? I bet many of them arnt actually about to help the guy but just fantasizing guy being "weak" in front of them maybe this "empowers" them.... Also lets be real "Oh i like a guy whos can cry" is more of politically correct statement to feel nice.. According countless experiences of men its after this moment women strt to stop respecting the man coz back of their head hes "weak, whinny, loser" And many men knw this experience tht next time they hv feud the women will emotionally blackmail using this tht incident.. and using against the men... So anyway guyz plz not all women are wonder full.. plz dont put ur self at the mercy of women to emotionally murder u... U can cry cry alone.. keep it to urself.. otherwise if u expose it to a unworthy women then u will hv even more bigger reason to cry then wht u initially was crying about.. So dont make ur pain even worse by saying it to a women especially the "modern" women.....
@Claulma1999
@Claulma1999 6 жыл бұрын
God I love Dorinda 😂😂
@Mike_Lebow
@Mike_Lebow 5 жыл бұрын
Admitting your weaknesses is attractive because it's the only way you can improve and grow. It's really the same as confronting your fears or taking responsibility. Those who can't see value in that kind of vulnerability would likely prefer their weaknesses remain concealed.
@johnholman3200
@johnholman3200 5 жыл бұрын
THEY ARE LYING THERE A** OFF! WHEN A MAN SHOWS MOST WOMEN(NOT ALL)HIS WEAKNESSES THEY TOTALLY LOOK AT HIM DIFFERENTLY FROM NOW ON.
@aaronmcquaid
@aaronmcquaid Жыл бұрын
LOL the one in the middle told the truth at first then lied.
@jeffreyyehezkiel8259
@jeffreyyehezkiel8259 5 жыл бұрын
It DEPENDS on who's showing weakness. If it's a famous person you bet. But if it's nobody then he will be called out. Also don't show weakness over and over, it only makes you wimpy and whiny. And NEVER show weakness when you just know her, always a turn off. Do it only after you know each other very well and you can trust each other.
@Ipbrown
@Ipbrown 4 жыл бұрын
I suspect it depends on what the weakness was. If the weakness was for other women…?
@nicholassoong1981
@nicholassoong1981 5 жыл бұрын
It's a turned ON with my wife in front of her friends, and turned Off when facing me at home
@TRESA4MEN
@TRESA4MEN 6 жыл бұрын
it show that they have feeling...instead of being so hard ..#CAREMORE
@exclusiveaccess85
@exclusiveaccess85 5 жыл бұрын
WHAT THAT HELL? I KNEW WOMEN ARE CRAZY BUT WHAT IS THIS THAT IF I CRY OR SAY I HAD TRAUMAS WOMEN SAY TO US MEN THAT WE ARE SEXY FOR THAT?
@brianmwangi2210
@brianmwangi2210 2 жыл бұрын
When he does it once its okay ... Its fine ... When he continuously does it that is a huuuge turn off
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