Ashley Cain: Everything Losing My Daughter Taught Me

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Жыл бұрын

Ashley Cain is a former professional footballer and TV personality. In 2020, his 8-week-old daughter Azaylia Cain was diagnosed with an aggressive form of leukemia. During Azaylia’s battle with cancer, Ashley and Azaylia’s mum, Safiyya, raised over £1 million in 24 hours for her health care. After her death in April 2021, at just 8 months old, Ashley and Safiyya set up ‘The Azaylia Foundation’, which supports families and provides memorable experiences for children fighting cancer.
In this episode, Ashley shares with Jake and Damian everything the life and loss of Azaylia has taught him. They discuss how the struggle can make us appreciate the small moments, staying present and connected to those in our life. Ashley shares how “even though my heart is broken into a million pieces, that’s a million pieces of love I can share with others in this world”.
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@topsysdad1 Жыл бұрын

Having heard Ashley speak before I know this is going to be a tough listen, an enlightening listen, and a message to learn from.

@MrOptimisticc Жыл бұрын

One of the strongest geezas I know, I legit cant fathom how it feels to try for a baby, mother becomes pregnant, has the baby for 9 months in her stomach, give birth, then lose the baby. Wow man. Stay strong my guy Ashley.

@chillwinstonuk Жыл бұрын

This guy is the benchmark. No words.

@raushawnedwards565 10 ай бұрын

This man inspire me alot

@ryhearn Жыл бұрын

Listened to this on my way home from work. Thought this was so hard to listen to but as you said about the book a great listen/ read. Really resonate with Ashley about his mind set of in tough times you have to meet it head on. Lost my mum to cancer in 2021 and ran 100 miles in under 24 hours for charity. Raised a good amount. Using that mindset of “tough times don’t last, tough people do”, really helped me through the grief. Having that underlying purpose is so unique and powerful it’s unmatched. We can do anything we think of with that mindset. His purpose is greater than mine was. I obviously heard what was happening to them as a family at the time and thought it was unbelievably sad; however driving home now to my 7 week old son hits me differently. Wish you all the fortune and success you can think of. Keep at it 💪🏼

@fred_teo Жыл бұрын

This is the most powerful episode in this channel. At a loss for words to describe the waves of emotion listening to him speak about his challenges.

@joepike6460 Жыл бұрын

After watching that I feel two things are for sure, 1. That man will make a huge positive difference to the world for as long as he is on it 2. He will be with his daughter again, keeping that faith is what drives us and it’s hugely powerful.

@ecleticJoe Жыл бұрын

This man is a true Don! Hugely inspiring man

@garethwilkes3545 Жыл бұрын

I'm an avid listener to this podcast and this was the best episode yet. Genuinely had me in tears on my drive to work, I honestly don't know what problems I have anymore. Much love to Ashley and his family.

@asharyal1 11 ай бұрын

Respect to this man. The way he described giving love to others is so heartbreaking and beautiful. ❤

@TeeBoxTobies Жыл бұрын

Ashley mate, I doubt you’ll read the comments but on the off chance you do I am so so sorry for what you’ve gone, are are continuing to go through. I hope you can take a morsel of comfort knowing that your little girl isn’t suffering any more. I genuinely wish you and your missus all the best for the future ❤

@SolutionOrientedMan 5 ай бұрын

Ashley, the way out of this is to have purpose and goals 24/7

@caljones8496 Жыл бұрын

That is the best definition of HP yet!

@emmadriver2739 Жыл бұрын

This was heartbreaking to listen to . What a remarkable man living through every parent’s worst nightmare. I am 100% sure that when the time is right he will be reunited with his beautiful daughter ❤

@WSCØØTS Жыл бұрын

Such a strong guy, through such pain. Very inspirational person. Great podcast as always 👏👏👍👍

@patrickwalsh1439 Жыл бұрын

This lad and his family have been through alot , cant image the pain he feels inside..... People who moan and groan about trivial sh*t should listen to this and puts things in to perspective, never take things for granted and be thankful for what you have.... massive respect for this man listening to this

@SUSIEPIP Жыл бұрын

Hard to stop the tears rolling down my face watching this. My heart goes out to Ashley and Safiyya and all their family for everything they have been through. I wish him all the love for whatever the future will bring, x

@lancasterlionsfc2020 Жыл бұрын

Such a powerful podcast, and as a father of two girls, I can not imagine the pain he and his family went through. ♥️

@lbsalfordreds5323 Жыл бұрын

You grow through what you go through he’s proof 🤝

@ShabzPlaysFifa Жыл бұрын

I’ve been subscribed to this channel for a while and to be honest I don’t know why - avoid most of the videos - half listened to some episodes but this episode gripped me from the start to finish! I love the way he showcases mental resilience and fortitude by trying death defying challenges! Truly inspirational and the definition of high performance! Thank you Jake (shout out Bamzooki) and Damian for this one!

@maureenmccann210 Жыл бұрын

How can anyone say this man is not sincere???

@yorkshiretea7620 Жыл бұрын

I remember Ashley from reality shows back in the day. Sadly just like me it took grief to grow and mature as a person. All the best Ashley 🙏🏻

@orthodoxstance6267 Жыл бұрын

A truly inspiring man! Makes me want to get up from desk at work and cuddle my children!!! Every minute counts!

@beckymorrisson6716 Жыл бұрын

You are truly inspirational, the strength and courage is a true testament of the father you are, and what would’ve been. I’ve cried throughout this podcast. The way you tell your story is mind blowing. Continue to keep your baby girls memory alive and continue doing all the wonderful work for other! You certainly put life and insignificant worries in perspective. One in a million!!! Words really aren’t enough..

@thomasconnolly4709 Жыл бұрын

So much for respect for this man.. god bless his daughter, absolute love for that little girl

@kurtislittle2851 Жыл бұрын

I’m speechless…. ❤❤❤

@loriannvaccola8264 Жыл бұрын

Following Ashley’s journey, this is the best podcast. Always 🙏❤️❤️❤️

@JacksonShake Жыл бұрын

Long time listener, first time watcher on KZfaq. My word. I came to see the conversation between Ashley and Damian at the end, and I cried again. It was pleasing to see that it didn't look as uncomfortable as it felt, and ended really well. I honestly feel like this was the one.

@rickeyshah9802 Жыл бұрын

So much respect for the man. So brave

@user-wg8vr8dh1m 5 ай бұрын

Well done Ashley you are so inspirational and that is so special mate and what your doing is truly amazing you are strong you are powerful you are you ❤

@OJSCollectables Жыл бұрын

I live 5 mins from this guy and he is the real deal 💪 lets go champ!!

@lifeisforlivingeachdayonebyone Жыл бұрын

Amazing interview Wow what a man ❤ Let's go champ 🦁

@jillb216 Жыл бұрын

Powerful podcast keep going champ 🦁 🧡

@user-ik3pb6he7z 10 ай бұрын

Amazing man touched so many hearts i lost my son mark so i know what that couple feel but you ashley inspire me more to keep the faith it plays a big part in it God he is always loving us especially thru the hardest times nothing hurts more than losing our precious children was never meant to be this way to go ashley keep fighting the good fight God bless u and your wife God bless 🙏💔🇨🇮❤❤❤

@susanmccouid2223 Жыл бұрын

what a lovely man

@jamestucker7988 Жыл бұрын

Ashley and Safiyya my thoughts are with you both. The fight seams endless, the disappointments are relentless, the end is momentous. Your memories will soften and joy will take over. You both did all that was possible, and Azaylia knew you loved her, and that is the best feeling anyone can ever have. James Tucker. Siobhans Trust. Feeding Ukraine. Wendy 1948-2009

@lindaswan5959 7 ай бұрын

God why life is so cruel just hearbreaking rip little one 🙏🙏

@tarajane9526 Жыл бұрын

I’m not going to subscribe, sorry. But you two fellas are lovely and that chat with Ashley Cain, just wow. I was in tears majority of it but unless your heart is made of stone, Ashley’s chat about his beautiful little girl is just heartbreaking. And I do understand what Ashley meant by there was always hope, I was the same with my mum when she was passing. Until it happens you hang on to hope. Good luck Ashley on your trip of a life time. I pray you’ll return safely. 🧡🦁

@smokeyj1656 Жыл бұрын

Real life superman 🙏🏼

@shahids786 10 ай бұрын

Iv seen many podcasts on many people but this one was the hardest to watch.1h29m in i had to stop play stop play stop play..😢😢😢

@PaulCrate-lm1sz Жыл бұрын

I am so sorry to here you actually saying but you and your partner are so brave ❤❤❤❤❤❤

@MawethuMqalo Жыл бұрын

This was gut wrenching 😢, had to pause from time to time coz it had me emotional 😭. I truly wish him more strength… that being said @1:50:00 it felt like, my gut feeling was Mmmhh 🤔 is he thinking about ending it. At least for me that’s how it felt and after that he got a bit defensive, I really hope he goes for some help/therapy to help him through his grieving process 🙏🏾. Great lad …

@lissiaa1869 Жыл бұрын

Ash isn't ending things, this man ain't going anywhere. Don't buy his crap, he is using his dead daughters name for money and to stay relevant.

@finnmacnamara4547 Жыл бұрын

I don't understand why you cut this episode by over 30 mins for the Spotify version. Some of what you cut was amazing stuff

@user-so6jg5ee6s Жыл бұрын

🙏🏽💪🏽

@user-wt8kp9ie3m 7 ай бұрын

So sad heartbreaking pray he becomes a Muslims finds outer and inner peace

@nathanmoore4598 Жыл бұрын

😢😢

@ruemunhuwa5450 Жыл бұрын

💔

@binboy4034 Жыл бұрын

Never heard of him, who is he?

@craigsinnott296 Жыл бұрын

Can't

@niamhhargreaves4289 9 ай бұрын

This is the first episode of high performance I’ve listen to coming purely for Ashley and ngl I think these guys have been the worst at interviewing him I’ve seen! He’s spoken of the racism he’s raced in childhood in his book and you go straight in saying talking about his testicle being the worst thing to happen to him at that point in life. I just feel like that was in bad taste to begin with and can tell Ashley thought so too! Then just brining up awkward things can tell they’ve not done research and listened to his other stuff where he talks about his s opinion on getting counciling and things like that the episode was good cos i love this man’s story but these two were just annoying ngl

@silversteel6312 Жыл бұрын

Grief is private. Your grief is no greater or less than any other. Shut it down in public. Wishing you strength and serenity on your PRIVATE grief journey.