Ask Nick with Dr. Phil - He’s Going to Prison, Should We Date

Ask Nick with Dr. Phil - He’s Going to Prison, Should We Date | The Viall Files w/ Nick Viall

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2 ай бұрын

Welcome back to another episode of The Viall Files: Ask Nick Edition! This is a special one as we invite Dr. Phil to chime in on your burning questions. Before we get to our callers, Dr. Phil shares his take on modern parenting and the effects of social media on our youth. Then we get to our callers…
Our first caller just found out the guy she was talking to has a wife and kids. She wants to reach out to his wife to expose him… is that wrong? Our second caller’s boyfriend is going to prison after several DUIs. She’s accomplished her own sobriety and hasn’t felt like a priority for him in a while. Is her hope worth staying with him?
“What are you pretending not to know?”
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@kristinacollins8380 2 ай бұрын

Dr. Phil is savage to these callers lol

@marilynwisler 2 ай бұрын

no bedside manner, just such a straight shooter haha. it was nice to hear some empathy for the last caller towards the end and after the call, though

@jacquelinerodriguez3213 2 ай бұрын

I thought the same thing.he is was really harsh today

@andreegodbout868 2 ай бұрын

I love it!

@assyrianprincess3 2 ай бұрын

Some ppl need tough love.

@Mark32115 2 ай бұрын

@@jacquelinerodriguez3213HARSH? You’re saying you would let your sister date a drunk driver that could kill, not once, twice but 3 times? And on top of that…he doesn’t have much time to spend with your sister. That’s not a loving, lover relationship. He was user her and she was letting him. Truth hurts.

@getpsalm6300 2 ай бұрын

You know he had to give up his license to be on TV correct? This means he does not need to renew his license annually, which every other therapist in the country does. This means he is not up to date with SO MUCH! and that is apparent. He has not had his license since he started on TV, this means he is a TV personality, not a therapist.

@kyow6412 2 ай бұрын

Dr Phil is so direct and I LOVE IT!!

@prodigalson1870 2 ай бұрын

He needs to talk to Tom Sandoval. 😂

@butterfliii73 2 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂 literally the first thought that popped in my mind when I saw that Dr Phil was on the viall files!!

@brightsidegirl 2 ай бұрын

Bahahah 😂

@butterfliii73 2 ай бұрын

Seriously can y'all imagine that conversation.....🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@daniellemarget3897 2 ай бұрын

I don’t think the smartest therapist in the world could help Tom 😂

@DAnastasia_ 2 ай бұрын

MAKE THIS HAPPEN NICK!!!!

@kathleen.julianne.hilson 2 ай бұрын

Please have him back on for ask Nick! This is iconic

@madibailey7392 2 ай бұрын

Colleges absolutely do still have "admissions" offices. And we do still use the words "felon" and "m*rder" in the legal system. Coming from someone who is graduating with their masters in forensic psych in a couple months. Enjoyed Dr. Phil's thoughts but not sure where that one came from lol

@juliannamarie6436 2 ай бұрын

Loved having Dr. Phil on! I wish the episode was longer and we got more insight and callers from him.

@brightsidegirl 2 ай бұрын

Dr.Phil is so right. My Dad made me feel so special and I was so picky with dating and was a heartbreaker for the most part 😂

@Livingwithali 2 ай бұрын

Oh my gosh this was incredible. I love most of the guests on the podcast, but this was my favorite guest of all time. So insightful. I loved the intro. So informative and so true. I love the advice for the call ins. Great job. 👏🏽

@maggiebar77 2 ай бұрын

This was great but too short for me!!! I would love to listen to you both talk for at least another hour

@valbonaivezaj140 2 ай бұрын

I love Dr Phil, he’s the OG, and I could listen to him forever. He comes up with the best metaphors too…very enjoyable guest!!!

@emilyroseanderson8021 2 ай бұрын

YES YES YES the best episode yet. Dr Phil is spitting facts lately and not cowering or apologizing for it. What a king 👏🏼 you can tell he’s so intelligent, too, which makes this so much better

@clairenicholls8024 2 ай бұрын

Wow, Dr. Phil came through! Very insightful exchange in the beginning…

@ballerz016 2 ай бұрын

Dr. Phil’s book has so much conservative language and Trump talking points 🥲

@kendramiddletonwilliams 26 күн бұрын

Oh heaven forbid!! You know, President Trump drinks water, maybe everyone who hates him should stop drinking water, because that basically means they’re exactly like him if they drink water because he drinks water. Tell the others!!

@shirleym1831 2 ай бұрын

Great episode! I love Dr. Phil! I wish this episode was longer.

@courtneyhorvath3840 2 ай бұрын

Amazing guests this year Nick! ❤

@jennifergravitt7872 2 ай бұрын

I could feel your nervousness. I know I would have been FOR SURE. Great guest. Dr. Phil is my fav person of all time, and such an icon!!!!

@calicat1996 2 ай бұрын

Watching this right now, really needed a distraction and this is helping. Been a rough time with life, then today I worked a 12 hr day (I'm a nurse) and mid shift my manager made us aware that one of my coworkers who just worked nights and talked to me that morning was driving home from work and got in a car accident that was fatal. She was only 24. So thank you for this video, it's been a really long day ❤

@wakanda6754 2 ай бұрын

Hope your tomorrow is brighter.🙏

@xiffany20 2 ай бұрын

This interview is so very informative and eye opening. it starts at home.100% agree.

@eliz49 2 ай бұрын

BTW- this liberal 🙋🏻‍♀️ totally agrees with Dr. Phil’s assessment on the family, and the negative effects of social media. Thanks for having him on your show!

@juicie25bt 2 ай бұрын

This has to b 1 of my top episodes Nick, I just wish u would have had him on longer than u have these gossip influencers or whatever they're called. This was very inciteful.

@lisafitzgerald1850 2 ай бұрын

Your guests this year is beyond amazing and helpful! What a great episode!!

@allysonreilly 2 ай бұрын

LOVED this one. Great interview.

@angelinaroman4281 2 ай бұрын

So good !! Wish it was longer 😫

@campbellkaren3 2 ай бұрын

Thank you, Nick. Great episode!! We need Dr. Phil in our lives. I just purchased his book.

@jillkubitschek2145 2 ай бұрын

Love this, thanks.

@leigharmstrong9940 2 ай бұрын

My youngest is a Jr at Vanderbilt. They still have a pretty low acceptance rate. Some great colleges are still pretty selective! I’m obviously very proud of him. 💛🖤⚓️ Great interview!👏🏼💪🏼🫶🏼

@Sunflowers_220 2 ай бұрын

You must be so proud! And how wonderfull that at least he knows he got into the school at his own merrit.

@leigharmstrong9940 2 ай бұрын

@@Sunflowers_220 thank you! 😊🫶🏼

@kendallemmett611 2 ай бұрын

This was awesome!!!

@whitneywright1263 2 ай бұрын

Absolutely love Dr Phil. Such a great episode. Hope you have him back soon!

@Emma-ws2dh 2 ай бұрын

Least expected but best guest so far. Amazing interview. I could easily listen to Dr Phil's thoughts on the world all day long. Love from Ireland. 💚🇮🇪🍀

@autumncolvin100 2 ай бұрын

Love that you had Dr Phil on here good job Nick!

@daixyray 2 ай бұрын

I loved how straight forward and honest Dr. Phil is with the ask nick questions!

@alyssad7019 2 ай бұрын

wow amazing guests this year

@laraineshawa1912 2 ай бұрын

My favorite episode ever. Having the collaboration between you and Dr Phil was awesome!!!

@butterfliii73 2 ай бұрын

❤❤❤ good for you Nick! What an amazing guest I absolutely love Dr Phil!

@TT-vx2wr 2 ай бұрын

Great interview. A lot of good points that Dr. Phil made regarding raising children.

@marlenelopez4130 2 ай бұрын

I loved the way Dr. Phil handheld the calls!!!! Especially the second called!!!

@Mark32115 2 ай бұрын

Thank you. Great conversation, problem solving. This was awesome. I hate to read, don’t like to, but I’m getting Dr. Phil’s book and going to read it. Great advice from the both of you!

@kellibarraza4003 2 ай бұрын

LOVED this interview, and the entire episode! Dr Phil is an iconic quest! 🔥

@theextensionacademy1985 2 ай бұрын

Love this!! Dr. Phil is a legend! 🙏🏻

@nicoledoudprado1390 2 ай бұрын

Great guest! I used to watch Dr. Phil after school, I loved his straight shooting advice. It’s been a while since I’ve consumed much of his content, but wow, I feel like seeing him in another format really shows just how intelligent he is. Loved this episode.

@amywendt6722 2 ай бұрын

The title of this episode is so hilarious! I am so excited to watch.

@devonlovemusic 2 ай бұрын

In the middle of cooking and making a smoothie while listening to this today! Nick what a great episode!!! Touchdown!!

@jennyycuatlatl5294 Ай бұрын

How doesn’t this video have more likes ??? It was awesome ! WE LOVE IT

@katherinesosa3897 2 ай бұрын

Need this power duo WAY more !!!

@julieh9690 2 ай бұрын

Thank you for having Dr. Phil. He’s a real one!

@ants0marching 2 ай бұрын

Please have Dr Phil on again! Love his straight forward advice

@joanne8084 2 ай бұрын

Wow, I was not expecting Dr. Phil to be on an episode on Viall files 😂 great episode, I’m not finished watching yet but what I’ve watched so far has been really interesting & true.

@NoOne-qn9dl 2 ай бұрын

Great podcast

@kaylaryan2575 2 ай бұрын

Dr Phil!!! The gasp I gasped!!

@melaikam1485 2 ай бұрын

The fact you got Dr.Phil on here, wow! I wish it was longer. I love Dr.Phil.

@tiffanythompson5820 2 ай бұрын

Love Dr. Phil! He’s caring and so knowledgeable without being condescending. Great guest!

@susie23232 2 ай бұрын

Wow! Grew up watching and being influenced by this man. Impressive guest with valuable insight ❤ 🙌

@KLMA720 2 ай бұрын

Not every girl has a father around. Moms can teach their daughters many of the same things....granted - not the same as a father, but still damn good!

@korribier-lo3nm 2 ай бұрын

Love it. Love Dr Phil

@Happinessking816 2 ай бұрын

Language changing to be inclusive is the wrong battle to fight. So many things that could seriously use attention that one who cares, you do 😂 even though it doesn’t affect you and it doesn’t harm others - pick a cause where harm is being done 🎉❤

@patriciamedina8370 2 ай бұрын

I never comment, but I had to this time... Great interview! Important topic!!!

@Mase32 2 ай бұрын

Great to see you having Adam Ray on the podcast finally!

@limeebri 2 ай бұрын

Haha! Man, I got excited thinking it was Adam Ray!

@brandeecrooks8842 2 ай бұрын

Loved this! I watched Dr. Phil so much while raising my kids & so many nuggets of his stuck. Even after divorce, I encouraged my daughter’s father to go on “dates” w/ her. He would pick her up from my house and take her to dinner, even bring her flowers & just spent one on one time w/her. It showed her she was important, their conversations showed her what she said/felt mattered. It was inspired by a statement Dr. Phil made “I’m worth more because my daddy showed me I’m worth more”. She’s now an adult, and her bf adores her & treats her so well. Even if it doesn’t work out, I’m confident in her “picker”. So much of who I am as a parent was from learning from him. My adult kids are incredible people and I’m so proud of that. Thank you Dr. Phil! 🙏

@user-hl8xq5xg8n 2 ай бұрын

I agree! I raised mine from 1992-2016 and dr Phil was always my go-to for a lot of parenting advice

@kayladavis1919 2 ай бұрын

Love dr phil..he always speaks the truth wether ya like it or not🙂..thanks for the video! ❤

@cherries4life7 2 ай бұрын

i need more of dr phil

@juliekuvakos8924 2 ай бұрын

What a guest!!!! Amazing!!!

@user-xv5bs1bt3q 2 ай бұрын

Phil’s take on “peOpLe neEd to worK haRder” 🙄 and immediately advising the first caller to not tell the wife. 🤔🤦🏻‍♀️ Telling her would be her choice but there’s so many good reasons that women should be letting other women know what their shitty husbands are doing and lying to them about.

@berlinblix 2 ай бұрын

He is advising the person he is talking to for her benefit. A lawyer doesn’t advise both sides for the benefit of everyone involved. They advise their client for their benefit. You can’t save everyone and the wife will find out one way or another he’s telling her to protect her peace and move on, especially since she only wanted to tell the wife to hurt the husband.

@assyrianprincess3 2 ай бұрын

@@berlinblixEXACTLY! Why is that so hard for ppl to understand?! No good therapist is gonna tell you to go meddle in other ppls life.

@jenniferjourdan2686 2 ай бұрын

Dr. Phil and Nick are my dream team! ❤

@christina80997 2 ай бұрын

This was so good haha Dr. Phil and Nick giving advice, mmmm I’m here for the substance 🤌🏼

@rebeccaculver1008 2 ай бұрын

Love Dr Phil! Yes he is a bit blunt with the callers but that’s what these people need to hear. Tough love.

@brittbc4215 2 ай бұрын

I went into this with a grain of salt because I know Dr.Phil is controversial but damn did he hit the nail on the head!! I wish he would’ve explained the biopsychosocial theory more for viewers that never took a psych class-although I recommend EVERYONE takes at least basic psych once, it’s so informative and interesting. But it would help those uneducated (no judgement) understand how the different factors make up who you are and how you react in life.

@wakanda6754 2 ай бұрын

Dr. Phill knows what time it is!

@ivycee 2 ай бұрын

Just a mild red pill this am

@tarazanni9370 2 ай бұрын

This is so iconic.

@kimsavage3566 2 ай бұрын

How it dr Phill’s heart?!! I must know

@chatalola96 2 ай бұрын

you need to interview Dr. Ramani Durvasula

@JamieMcgee518 2 ай бұрын

Dr. Phil talks about , Cancel Culture but NOT about Banning Books. ... So disappointed Dr. Phil has become Political for Election Season.

@alisian0 2 ай бұрын

Tell me what he said that was wrong? I’ll wait…

@yakatya539 2 ай бұрын

@@alisian0he’s just saying a bunch of words that have been adopted by the right with no studies or evidence to back them up. He’s the dumb internet content he complains about

@Free420Love 2 ай бұрын

@@yakatya539🎯🎯🎯

@hbc.5686 2 ай бұрын

@@alisian0He's whining that "admissions" offices are changing their names to "enrollment management" because people are offended by rejection. Are they? Is this really about hurt feelings? Or is it possible that maybe, just maybe, some schools have decided it simply makes sense for admissions, retention, financial aid, registration, etc. to be all together under the umbrella of "enrollment"? It's giving the same energy as when my aunt starts claiming the Bon-ton closed because it got "Woke".

@getpsalm6300 2 ай бұрын

Look into the turnaround ranch, or camp turnaround- it is terrifying

@lees2404 2 ай бұрын

When Dr Phil talks about protecting families from progress and how terrible it is that language is being changed, and how you can't say what you want anymore, it's pretty obvious he sees trans people like me and any policies that support us as the enemy. Then, for Nick to say radicals on "both sides" are the problem is just a glaringly irresponsible thing to say on the verge of our next election, where our democracy is at stake. It's just disgusting to me. I'm along-timee fan. I remember when Nick Viall spoke up for Black Lives Matter. It's increasingly obvious he is doing whatever is financially advantageous to him. And principles are either not important or he has his head in the sand about what it means to support anyone with a right wing agendsla in today's world of encroaching fascism.

@ivycee 2 ай бұрын

If you go and listen to his podcast with Joe Rogan that’s exactly what he is dismissing. It’s unfortunate, and I’m pretty shocked he is on THIS podcast

@hbc.5686 2 ай бұрын

Hard agree. Plus, his examples are just dumb and petty. "Enrollment Management" - oooooh how WOKE and RADICAL... calling an office that manages the processes of enrolling in a school enrollment management.

@Kc90615 2 ай бұрын

I think nick is nervous.

@autumncolvin100 2 ай бұрын

I would be too it’s Dr Phil. 😆

@butterfliii73 2 ай бұрын

Absolutely❤❤❤❤

@kristinasalzinger5837 2 ай бұрын

Love Dr Phil he is always right!

@cubanandafraid 2 ай бұрын

imagine calling to ask about ur situationship and dr phill answers i would have an aneurysm

@debbie7608 2 ай бұрын

I love what a straight shooter Dr. Phil is, I’ve been a big fan since the Oprah Show days, just bought his book! I wish it was a longer interview but he must be super busy.

@kellyhorvatin 2 ай бұрын

Please make a short of where Dr Phil talks about dads building up their baby girls so they know what they're worth/what to expect. It's at around the 26:00 mark

@seven92023 2 ай бұрын

The problem with "experts" is that sometimes they tell you the truth and sometimes they tell you want they know you want to hear or whatever agenda they're told to sell. The best thing parents can do for their kids is tell them the truth about how life really is, especially fathers. So they don't end up delusional and messed up like the callers Nick talks to every week. There is a contradiction between what Dr. Phil said to Nick and what he told the callers.

@valbonaivezaj140 2 ай бұрын

LOVE DR PHIL!!!

@user-uo2gg5jz3y 2 ай бұрын

Thank you Dr. Phil! I love that psychologists are coming out and talking about how many of our ideologies are actually ruining society and having opposite affects on self-esteem etc.

@daniellelevine9638 2 ай бұрын

I ❤ Dr Phil.

@BeautyXXBrittany 2 ай бұрын

THE 2ND CALLER NEEDS TO WAKE TF UP!!!!!!! UR MAN NEEDS HELP!!!! BOTTOM LINE!!!!!!!!!! LEAVE HIM!!!!!! LEAVE HIM GIRL!!!!!!!! HE NEEDS TO FOCUS ON HIMSELF AND SO DO U!!!!!!! LEAVE HIM!!!!! DO BETTER!!!! BEEN THERE DONE THAT!!!! smh

@deirdresomner8749 2 ай бұрын

One of the most influential people of our time , if anyone can turn things around it is Dr Phil. Our world has gone mad.

@Yash0613 2 ай бұрын

Egos are wild.

@44nk96 2 ай бұрын

I love Dr. Phil 👏

@leahw9810 2 ай бұрын

Dr.Phil is no nonsense!

@dianas.5476 2 ай бұрын

Least expected guest omg

@kristinmacfarlane2572 2 ай бұрын

When are we going to start blaming the corporations and our government that doesn't provide our citizens with the expenses and resources for ppl to start a family? I'm a 34 y/o married woman, with no kids, a college education and a MBA and 2 full time careers, and we still can't afford a child. Stop telling me that I'm the problem when I've done everything this society has told me to do without properly supporting me and my family's future. It's not entitlement when we are asking for the bare minimum to survive.

@steven4570 2 ай бұрын

Where do you live and what are you doing/making? Mountain of debt? Does your husband work?

@karagarcia9317 2 ай бұрын

Not everyone has family to rely on to spend a night apart from their kids. That doesn’t make someone an idiot. 🙄 18 minutes in and it feels like Nick got stuck talking to an uncle he only sees every five years.

@valbonaivezaj140 2 ай бұрын

He’s talking about parents that brag about their kids not being apart from them-parents that do it on purpose. Read between the lines so you can avoid sounding like an idiot 😂

@karagarcia9317 Ай бұрын

⁠@@valbonaivezaj140I hope you speak kinder to your own kid. Have the day you deserve.

@valbonaivezaj140 Ай бұрын

@@karagarcia9317 I do, because my kid’s pre-frontal lobe is not developed…. You on the other hand have no excuse 🤦🏼‍♀️ 😂

@dr_power. 2 ай бұрын

I’m glad Dr Phil’s riled up about the state of things and is willing to tell the truth about it. With his platform maybe it’ll make a dent. I hope so. Agree 100% 👏

@swtdi40 2 ай бұрын

Just bought his book

@jacksmacks05 2 ай бұрын

Great interview. I would love for you to have RFK Jr. on here.

@Badnewsfeminist 2 ай бұрын

Dear god, no. That guy is dangerously anti science

@cheriereuther7037 2 ай бұрын

Nice get 👍

@shanajones2456 2 ай бұрын

I don't always agree with Dr. Phil, but he did something here today that I enjoyed. When he asked "what are you pretending to not know," or however he phrased it, it was a legit question, and despite the caller's initial apprehension towards answering it or not understanding the question, he stood his ground. And that ground standing got her thinking and moved her closer to uncovering some potential truths. Eventually she landed on, "well I guess I'm pretty far down the list of what's important to him." That's the sign of an effective clinician.

@SavannahRose 2 ай бұрын

lol vessi's were created in Vancouver, we know a thing or two about rain as well 😅

@cashideler88 2 ай бұрын

I moved to Germany a few years ago, from California, and it was such a culture shock to see children walking around in these villages all alone. Children that were under 10, they were using public transportation, sometimes with another child but also alone. And I was blown away because I hadn't seen that since I was a child (born in 88 and grew up in a very small town). The culture here is to give them that independence and trust and they dont have the same worry about the child being preyed upon if they are alone. Even today I still immediately wonder if they should be alone, when I see them. But it seems to be a non issue.