Attraction (Why You Are Attracted To The People You're Attracted To)
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Күн бұрынAttraction is arguably one of the greatest elements of unconscious human behavior, even amongst the most conscious people. It is like a two-sided coin. On one side, it can be a feeling state of the highest blissful excitement. On the other it can induce a feeling state of the lowest desperate suffering.
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0:00 - Start
1:00 - Comprehending Attraction
2:57 - Attraction Is Not Love
6:47 - The First Problem
7:45 - The Second Problem
9:38 - The Third Problem
13:10 - Examples
16:20 - The Fourth Problem
18:25 - The Fifth Problem
21:27 - The Sixth Problem
22:54 - Accepting Attraction
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Overlay (What Prevents You From Having a Real Relationship): 9:33
• OVERLAY (What Prevents...
Fragmentation (The Worldwide Disease): 10:08
• Fragmentation (The Wor...
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@RC-ey4gm 4 жыл бұрын
The best relationships are the ones in which neither has to work hard for basic decency.
@Messiahandmaster 3 жыл бұрын
Yes! Same goes for friends and family. No more 'bare minimum' people 😊
@blossom-marie8732 2 жыл бұрын
Amen lol.
@cuda260 2 жыл бұрын
Your comment deserves so many more likes. This took me decades to learn, and the truth of it resonates with me daily.
@KingKull1971 2 жыл бұрын
It's about comfort. When you are comfortable with someone the relationship will flourish. When you meet the right person it'll feel like coming home.
@michelleleamccann26 Жыл бұрын
Yay! 333 likes because of teal swan in her self help work....lol
@shannonmaire Жыл бұрын
That coming home feeling is so important. "Butterflies" is a stress response.
@helenaquin1797 11 ай бұрын
I can't believe the sensation of butterflies is a stress as I had this fluttering feeling as I was breastfeeding my child. The mist heavenly feeling. My last relationship/situationship really seemed to heighten after our first hug. My heart had this wonderful "heart-swelling" feeling that lasted well into the next day. That had never happened to me before..❤🙏
@ZFern9390 8 ай бұрын
Obviously I am reading ahead of where I'm at in the video. ( What do you mean " Butterflies is a stress response"?
@Julioti 7 ай бұрын
@@ZFern9390When someone has attachment issues they will say butterflies are a stress response because to them attachment is stressful half the time.
@uraniumu242 6 ай бұрын
My wife wanted a divorce after 40 years. She said she loved me but wasn't ".in love " with me. I told her "in love was an immature type of love that gets you past the first few uncomfortable years it is love that gets you to the end.
@uraniumu242 6 ай бұрын
@@Green2Lean I did let myself go but she did also because at one point she weighed almost 400 lbs.she lost 99 percent of the weight. I stuck with her and never felt anything but love for her so that was what made it particularly hard. I guess I thought of myself having a “ bank account” and my goodness toward her was being ignored, if that makes any sense.
@diyab1056 2 жыл бұрын
It's so weird how most attraction disappears after we learn to accept and love ourselves and make peace with who we are :)
@happystar7777 2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely
@jjmurphey88 2 жыл бұрын
Yes I’ve been noticing this too! I was very surprised by it
@happystar7777 2 жыл бұрын
It kind of sucks to be honest when you're already committed lol
@annyone6426 2 жыл бұрын
@@happystar7777 👍😂🤣. but now you have to take the other person as a part of you - if it is possible
@NoOne-oo5lh 2 жыл бұрын
True, that's probably why I think of myself as Asexual. I have ran every Version of myself through the mill, and imagined shrugging shoulders and saying oh well to each version.
@oeckstei Жыл бұрын
Biggest lesson to understand is that “attraction cannot be negotiated”. Call it chemistry, vibe, energy whatever you want just know that that for two people to connect you need both love and logic for a healthy and strong relationship to work.
@karanfield4229 2 жыл бұрын
They need to teach this in high-school. It's so important.
@hotchocexpresso 4 ай бұрын
Amen I agree. Schools are by design, there to indoctrinate boys to be feminised / passive & girls to be masculine / non maternal. And to indoctrinate them both to be a worker that keeps their mouth shut & conforms.
@terri-reborninchrist4168 4 жыл бұрын
I was literally just explaining this to someone and how now my pull to people isn't intense passion it's when they bring calmness and a feeling of utter safety x
@MaryLopez-kb7xp 4 жыл бұрын
I agree
@johnmiller-jf3ez 4 жыл бұрын
Usually if you are extremely charmed by someone= red flag.
@amberdu6506 4 жыл бұрын
john miller may I ask why is that I’m genuinely curious
@wonderingheights 4 жыл бұрын
Same
@toddb1765 4 жыл бұрын
I agree. Does not get me many friends unfortunately, but I know I will enjoy my time with the few that I have.
@annhershey8111 2 жыл бұрын
OMG.. this video literally healed me in 25.11 minutes from the suffering for weeks after a break-up. I actually ended up laughing. So eye opening... Thank You Teal!!!
@benwalker2633 Жыл бұрын
@tech fx maybe don’t project your personal experience onto others and gaslight them that is very rude ✨
@SHADOW-di6uu Жыл бұрын
@@benwalker2633 smooth.
@time2maked0hnutz54 Жыл бұрын
@@benwalker2633 Nehhh, I think maybe you're projecting & getting triggered. Ppl such as yourself should allow other ppl to express themselves freely 💯
@time2maked0hnutz54 Жыл бұрын
Amazing! Now go get a cookie 😑
@eclectic_interests346 Жыл бұрын
@tech fx that's like saying if you can open a locked door when someone hands you the key you never had, it was never really locked in the first place
@whitebirchtarot Жыл бұрын
The statement that Teal makes about finding the right person and it feeling like you’re coming home is exactly how I felt the first time my husband hugged me. Those are the exact words I would’ve chosen. And he was the perfect partner for me in every way. Unfortunately, because of past abuse I wasn’t able to believe that I could deserve to be happy and I basically threw it all away. I think this is a very profound video and I so wish that someone would’ve taught me this when I was young. This should be taught in schools. Thank you, Teal! Bless you. 💕
@andziagreen4922 Жыл бұрын
I wish too, I sabotaged my 9 years relationship coz I took him for granted and didn't know my abandonment and trauma problems within me from my past. I hope he is getting love he deserves. I didn't know what's wrong with my emotional and mental state and just last year after someone else dumped me I started getting to the bottom of my problems. I wanted to commit suicide. I didn't want to live with so much shame and guilt and I'm 46. I got massively heartbroken again which affected my overal health. I never thought it's possible but it is and I'm gratefull for people like Teal who simply explains where we screwed up and to make a better choices in the future😁
@whitebirchtarot Жыл бұрын
@@andziagreen4922 Wow, I’m sorry you had to go through that. I don’t think anything is worse than hurting the person you love the most and not realizing it until it’s too late to do anything about it. I think we need to give ourselves some credit though for having survived the trauma in the first place and then being willing to do something about it. I wanted to end my life after my husband died, but I have an older sister that needs my help and I would never do that to her. I’m trying to learn to be kind to myself, but it’s difficult. But we need to! That’s so sweet of you to be glad that your loved one will find the love he deserves. I find myself wishing that about my late husband. I wish that he could’ve found a woman earlier in life who would’ve loved him and given him the children he wanted, but as my sister always reminds me, he wouldn’t have wanted that. He would’ve chosen me. I know that’s true, but it still hurts like the devil. Why is it always so much easier to forgive others than to forgive ourselves? Thanks for sharing. Even though I’m sorry for your situation it kind of makes me feel a little better than I’m not the only person who’s done this. And you and I can’t be the only ones! I keep telling myself I didn’t do it on purpose. Of course I didn’t. And you didn’t either. Adults sure don’t understand how much they can mess up children, can they? I hope you find the healing you deserve and I also hope that happiness lies in your future. And mine! I think we deserve it, too. Thanks again so much for sharing. Take care of your special self! 💕🙏🦋
@No-ky3kb 9 ай бұрын
So sorry to hear that you lost that
@whitebirchtarot 9 ай бұрын
@@No-ky3kb thank you. I didn’t lose it totally, but I wasted a lot of time and opportunity for love. 😢
@QuartuvLarry 8 ай бұрын
She is formidable. I'll give her that
@MyTarotChannel 4 жыл бұрын
23:25 True, we project what we want to see in a person, instead of seeing them for how they truly are. When we finally see reality, we are disappointed and end the relationship, sometimes blaming the other person which is in no way, at fault.
@ShiftTheMatrixGaming 4 жыл бұрын
I also believe we often project things from our twin flames when we don't realize it that aren't our tfs.
@marazampariolo3200 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah, well, some people (Narcissists) purposely conceal heir real identity and behavior in the beginning.
@GotoMaki4Micah 3 жыл бұрын
@@marazampariolo3200 a lot of people will lie to get what they want from you. not sure why people are expected to take the blame if they did something while being lied to. some see it as excuses and justification. remember, your abuser wants you to be accountable for the way they treat you.
@AmbrosiaDreamWeaver 4 жыл бұрын
22:08 "We have been conditioned to believe that if we are a genuinely good person, we should be able to have a 'feel good' relationship with anyone and everyone regardless of what role they are playing in our lives. But this is completely false. Incompatibility is the condition of two things being so different in nature and so uncomplimentary in that difference, that they are incapable of coexisting harmoniously." You have no idea how much I needed to hear that.
@Koozomec 4 жыл бұрын
It's like the savior complex. "I can change him/her because i do good things." Nope.
@rebeccahepson 2 жыл бұрын
This was a hard truth I had to face! I thought I could create a relationship with my ex partner that would magically become compatible. I now realise how hard I was on him for simply enjoying a different way of being
@jamesbrink9345 4 ай бұрын
Hmmm really?
@jamesbrink9345 4 ай бұрын
@@rebeccahepsonwouldn't it be easily solved by being gay? I'm just saying it is...
@earth_and_spice 2 жыл бұрын
I believe that the main reason people cheat is from living a lie, living more who they should be because of being taught to sacrifice what they really want in life in general, the life that makes them feel alive, for the one that they should live. As Teal said, we follow attraction because it's the one thing left that gets through the drudgery of living and reminds us what feeling good feels like. Note to all, no matter what you "must" do, create a life around it that you love. And want the same for anyone you care about.
@samxsara 3 жыл бұрын
So fascinating to think that once we reintegrate those parts of ourselves the attraction vanishes
@jaredmello 10 ай бұрын
On to the next level unless we reject those parts of ourselves we were attracted to in them and discard the person instead
@AnaïsBrault 7 күн бұрын
it did for me !
@williammcmullen1292 4 жыл бұрын
This woman is a literal genius ...this is truly profound
@alejandramarquez6804 4 жыл бұрын
She is not a genius. We a living in the era of information.
@howmathematicianscreatemat9226 4 жыл бұрын
@@alejandramarquez6804 ; yes, she is an emotional genlus. She can perceive incredibly subtle things most people dont even know exists
@James69813 4 жыл бұрын
@@howmathematicianscreatemat9226 Just like Andy Rooney!
@James69813 4 жыл бұрын
I got a bridge. This thing is sweet!
@jebril 4 жыл бұрын
Man I need to start making KZfaq videos if this is how easy it is to convince people you're a genius.
@JamesHazeth 4 жыл бұрын
The wisest person I've had the honor to hear in life. Thank you.
@TheChloeDh 4 жыл бұрын
honestly shes bloody incredible
@paulwoodhouse4757 4 жыл бұрын
Yago Brasil absolutely... I’m a therapist and often reach to her material
@marinanabutovskiy1161 4 жыл бұрын
@@paulwoodhouse4757 May I ask what therapist r you?
@marinanabutovskiy1161 4 жыл бұрын
@@paulwoodhouse4757 it's not Teal's material. She constructs her material by using other ppls material and her followers'. She basically plagerizes it but it's hard to tell because she puts her twist on it. I am following her for some yrs now and that is what I have discovered.
@CAIOLINDO18 4 жыл бұрын
Elá é genial :)
@belleofthecamp6530 2 жыл бұрын
Feeling a sense of relief, exhale and relaxation around someone is exactly how I described my ideal partner! A side of desire too please! Thanks Teal! You’re so helpful and uplifting xoxo
@colinesquire2480 2 жыл бұрын
Wise
@dopehat868 2 жыл бұрын
I went on a date the other night and didn’t have very high expectations. I ended up feeling just how you described. Like I could exhale and totally relax. I felt safe, wanted and completely in flow with this guy. I’m not touchy feely at all but found it hard to stay away from him. We laughed until we cried and hugged for hours. I’m open to the very likely possibility of this not turning into a relationship and I’m ok with that, I just want to get to have at least a few amazing experiences with him so that it doesn’t feel too short lived. Wish me luck 😋
@lucasgvieira5066 2 жыл бұрын
@@dopehat868I'm sooo wishing you luck and also happy for you! I'd be exhilarated to see a positive outcome message from you! Love seeing good love stories in KZfaq comments section hahaha
@DonnyDaison 4 жыл бұрын
The best is when you are attracted to yourself.
@Electronicmedium1111 4 жыл бұрын
That is TRUTH! 💕
@Pudah1111 4 жыл бұрын
Couldn’t agree more😍😍😍
@taisiarudenko5592 4 жыл бұрын
How can you become attractive to yourself.
@kitokamilimusic6378 4 жыл бұрын
Word❤
@leeving9999 4 жыл бұрын
the best is when you LOVE yourself. to be attracted to yourself would be paradox
@jessicabaylis7220 4 жыл бұрын
You know what I love - how you LOVE to say the things we all know but won't say ... like we LOVE attraction and we put up with more from PRETTY PEOPLE
@rainbow9987 2 жыл бұрын
It’s subjective
@jasonwilson3827 2 ай бұрын
I love how she giggles and smirks right before she states obvious facts.
@semiharslan 3 жыл бұрын
25 minutes video took me 125 minutes to understand and digest. stopped video rewinded after every sentence and watced again and again. knowledge is so concentrated. thanks for uploading this video. helped a lot.
@Smartartin 4 ай бұрын
I agree
@Aintiawoman 4 жыл бұрын
I had to pause this like 10 x to reflect...nicely packaged talk...
@a55tech 3 жыл бұрын
can u summarize for us love
@lawrencelawrence7638 4 жыл бұрын
I think I'll just stay single :)
@afitnesstrailblazer2764 4 жыл бұрын
Lawrence Lawrence Best comment ever.
@AmmaLove24 4 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@feardheas4548 4 жыл бұрын
seems to be a lot less complicated, at least according to this video anyway.
@davewelbylivinginhistinyti4796 4 жыл бұрын
Me too, I think it's best to stay single, it's probably better to be attracted to oneself, at least that way one can look after themselves with respect🙏love to all, and all to love🙏
@nimaojama488 4 жыл бұрын
👍Me too
@lizaliza5441 Жыл бұрын
I love how Teal Swan takes a bad situation and turns it into gold. She is an angel.
@kevinrosengren5732 2 ай бұрын
Wow, fragmentation and the two sides of ourself we split into, and how the side that left us hurt and vulnerable is the one we suppress and deny was a HUUGGEEE aha moment for me. Now I know I can use attraction to work toward understanding, accepting and loving that side of me that I "locked away" as a kid. Thank you! Team Humanity!!!
@RockerChick 4 жыл бұрын
I’m mindblown on how wise Teal Swan is.
@CthulusFavoriteTreat 4 жыл бұрын
@HARRY SHANNON 11 11
@vitalino1981 4 жыл бұрын
Welcome to church of teal swan brother. Take a seat and relax. Let the knowledge flow. 🤗😇🙏
@kitokamilimusic6378 4 жыл бұрын
I know right?!
@Katharine777 4 жыл бұрын
Rocker Chick there’s hands down nobody else like her incarnated 😂
@ingridchallenor8270 4 жыл бұрын
She’s wise yes, but it’s her ability to break down and assimilate energy as information that blows me away. She has an incredible mind 🎁
@pure_intentions 3 жыл бұрын
I've been single for a while now... So far its going pretty good. I guess i must be the one ^^
@yummyness7578 3 жыл бұрын
🤣
@pure_intentions 3 жыл бұрын
@Hardy Harhar its awesome! Last week i got myself a nice present and yesterday i went out for a lovely sunset stroll 😍. I never yell at myself and i even do the dishes! A few days ago i caught myself making a wonderfull dinner for myself. With all the jokes aside, you really should love yourself first. It is your life and your life alone. Be nice for yourself and love yourself to the fullest. Others will notice that love and you will attract love by doing so. Have a great day and i wish you much love. Peace
@user-qk7yy8xi3q 3 жыл бұрын
Ived been single most of my life I gave myself the chance to b in a r a few yrs bck, it did not wrk the way I “expect” for it to end up, but I appreciate that experience I’m still single bck to what I have been familiar my whole existence.
@justanotherdayinthelife9841 3 жыл бұрын
The one that is ok being with themselves which makes it worthy of withstanding time
@farzana9776 3 жыл бұрын
😆
@jimmybiemans8264 3 жыл бұрын
As a child I was attracted to tall people, I eventually became taller than over 90% of the Dutch population (one of the countries with highest average of tall people). After that I became attract to people who were around the same height, but with more muscle, I eventually build more muscle even though I didn't change any lifestyle habit in order to make this happening. The universe is desperately trying to tell me that I am what I need. I am that strong man who can make myself feel safe, secure and protected. I also have huge feminine energy: I am an emotion/intuition oriented person, I am gentle-hearted, I like to care, feed, heal others. I just need to own my role as the gentle giant in order to find harmony within myself. I am basically Hagrid in human form, and the Hulk who needs to accept his emotions in order to become whole again 💝
@didderbugakakatie 3 жыл бұрын
:))))
@lemmings6516 2 жыл бұрын
this is the sweetest message on the whole internet ♥ I hope you get treated nicely, my boyfriend would describe himself pretty similar and i fell in love with him out of friendship ☺️
@tithi8782 2 жыл бұрын
Sending you a big hug Mr. Gentle Giant💛
@wolfbeam9169 2 жыл бұрын
Are you a Taurus? xP
@xanayiamckinney9379 2 жыл бұрын
See this is a gem a lot of people need but only the ones who truly want to know will read and receive the benefits of the message
@barryconnolly7324 3 жыл бұрын
You are off the charts brilliant. I learned about this 32yrs ago from the book Embracing Each Other--made sense to me. I've become pretty good at explaining it to myself when needed and others, but you take it to a whole new level--as you do with most of the information you share. Love it. No better way to learn about your repressed self than in a mutually growing relationship--if you can handle it.
@doyrayburn2668 4 ай бұрын
Thank you!! Bravo
@thenativebrookie 4 жыл бұрын
I totally agree that when I was younger, I was attracted to people and I’d be like “he must be the one”! So silly, but I’m such a hopeless romantic and idealist. Lol.
@ajl2232 4 жыл бұрын
@AJtheory I'm in my late 20s and it's one of the saddest times, probably the saddest of my life. I hope you are doing well.
@carolinelaronda4523 4 жыл бұрын
Hopeless romantic = codependent. Guilty 🙋🏼♀️
@jenlinds1 3 жыл бұрын
AJ L I promise you it gets better 💛
@ninomalvado4121 3 жыл бұрын
story of my life
@Zeldas_Lullaby 4 жыл бұрын
The societal push and obsession towards finding "the one" or your "soul mate" (or even worse - "twine flame") is downright dangerous. It got me into trouble a handful of times. It causes people to overlook so much in attempt to have the one thing they've been brainwashed into thinking they NEED to complete their lives...
@jadeerae4449 4 жыл бұрын
Zelda's Lullaby FACTS
@GotoMaki4Micah 3 жыл бұрын
does that also mean we dont need children to complete our lives as well. people don't like that kind of talk. children are supposed to literally be completing their lives.
@colinesquire2480 3 жыл бұрын
Totally agree
@emmacavalier 3 жыл бұрын
I needed this comment. I think soulmate means a person that is a catalyst to self love and spiritual awakening. Who freakin knows anything anymore. Its whatever it is bahahha
@TheSapphireLeo 2 жыл бұрын
I would know, too, if I wasn't also "lured" into entrapment by her and/or those around her?
@christopheryannatone4406 11 ай бұрын
Teal Swan, you have such a way with words and helping others more simply understand the messages being conveyed. You are highly appreciated by countless individuals currently in different stages of their healing journeys, of this I am certain!
@m.m.574 3 жыл бұрын
These videos in depth about attraction/desire/attachment are so useful, thank you for making them and please continue to make more to help us understand our feelings/emotions. xx
@markbuckley5397 10 ай бұрын
Toxic friends wrecked my life once. Thank god for books. They keep me sane.
@TabithaJane 4 жыл бұрын
This video came at a perfect time, as I was just thinking about my history with romantic relationships, the lessons I've learned and if or when I embark on another relationship, would I revert to my past patterns? I realized listening to this that as an empath I intuitively have great love for people I connect with and I see the good in them. I also realized having grown up in an abusive family I really never understood what love felt like, so I easily confused my innate love of others with being in love. I also realized that the reason all of my relationships have been with narcissists were because 1.) they reflected to me that lost yearning for love that lived deep inside of me and was denied, 2.) my innate love for others activated that part of them so while they fed off of my love energy, they were able to reflect a semblance of love energy back to me allowing me to 3.) project the fairy tale fantasy of my inner desires onto the relationship. For me, this video is deeply powerful and I'm grateful for your message Teal. I always learn so much from you. I'm still processing all I learned from this video about myself and what it means to me but I wanted to share with you the immediate insights you brought into my awareness at a perfect time. Thank you and much love!
@shilohndrah 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for bringing so much detail of returning to the unknown self remembering and yearning for the loving trusting one inside that has been brutalized. Thank you for committing so deeply. Your voice codes are working!
@saramirko9364 3 жыл бұрын
Well thank you for this comment. My life is just the same and I've been spinning around in the same circle for years. This comment kind of says in couple of sentences something I'm stuggling to sumarize in my head for years. Or maybe since I am born, it all started at the very beggining right? Thank youu thank you
@cap01950 2 жыл бұрын
Who cares
@jenniferblinn2964 5 ай бұрын
Wow! I relate to you about 1) empath’s way of universal loving 2) childhood trauma creating confusion about love 3) attracting narcissists. Now I’m just wondering how I apply what I’ve learned here to change!
@PattyGurdy 4 жыл бұрын
you keep blowing my mind. Thank you :)
@anicyb 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly what I wanted to comment on this video. This blew my mind
@RhetoricalMuse 3 жыл бұрын
@@anicyb She hasn't said anything new or insightful. Attraction psychology tears this video to shreds. Don't be such a idol worshipper. Healing for example and wholeness doesn't mean anything. Integration does mean something. Too many people fall for this flowery language. Psychoeducation( e.g. family systems and attachment theory), emotional grieving and mindfulness will give you more than this video.
@andrewwilliams4567 3 жыл бұрын
You're welcome 😊☺🙂😌💓💗😊☺🙂😌💓💗😊☺🙂😌💓💗
@andrewwilliams4567 3 жыл бұрын
Thank so much
@ChuckWortman 3 жыл бұрын
@@RhetoricalMuse @Rhetocalmuse who are you to tell someone else what does or does not resonate with them?
@rockDJalNIGHTY 2 жыл бұрын
This is really one of my top favorites of Teals videos. This helps me so much right now in my current situation and also in understanding how far I have come in a personal crisis I'm going through. So thanks a lot Teal! :)
@RowenXDawn 2 жыл бұрын
Great video. I like how you broke down the different areas of human attraction, appreciation, and love. You took it down to bite size pieces so that a person could see how the dynamic starts and moves forward in an intimate relationship whether that intimate relationship starts off emotionally, psychologically, or physically. Thank you for that Teal. ❤️❤️❤️
@osse1n 4 жыл бұрын
*Polarity between energies is a prerequisite for attraction to be genuine.* And as Teal mentioned, there are levels to it. Attraction fluctuates depended on whether the polarity is disturbed or maintained.
@emanuel_soundtrack 4 жыл бұрын
I watch youtube videos as an excuse to read your comments :)
@howmathematicianscreatemat9226 4 жыл бұрын
@@daniela.abendstern ; true. But they are badass.
@cyrillewis9606 4 жыл бұрын
I'm such a hopeless romantic it's crazy. Great video, thanks Teal, appreciate you. ❤️
@Stylies 4 жыл бұрын
It feels like I heard myself talking :')
@cyrillewis9606 4 жыл бұрын
@@Stylies you too?
@chandhinichenthilkannan108 3 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry for all of us.
@empalethia222 2 жыл бұрын
I've been looking deep into certain things with myself and feel that everything you've said relating to attraction vs love is spot on. Love your content, love your energy. Wish I had found your channel a long time ago, but perhaps this is the time I'm ready for it.
@FancyRavenmoon 2 жыл бұрын
I just found my favorite relationship/self encouragement guide! Everyday I grow to better myself and find what it is I need by gathering this wisdom, thank you! I find myself resonating with these tools!! I understand my longings and my desires! All I can say is thank you for sharing this beautiful wisdom, can’t wait to hear more!!!
@cherylbecker3167 4 жыл бұрын
Yes,I am working on my inner child! Allowing myself to have fun again ! Perfect timing for me on this! Thank You!
@kaiyodei 2 жыл бұрын
i think I killed that one, the one that is playful silly happy. when i was 17. i'm 40 now. it was a mistake
@ciri151 4 жыл бұрын
This is amazing. It helps me get over my crush a little. She has everything that I ever wanted in my live. So I thought she was the perfect woman for me. Turns out the things I see in her are the things I lack in my self. Even though we never got into a relationship, I changed so many things about myself and made major life decisions (for the better), because I felt like a failure next to her. I do wonder if I should tell her this someday. Maybe it'll help her someday knowing that she's a role model for someone. And of course i'm secretly hoping she likes me too and we do get in a relationship. :) But I highly doubt that since she's not showing any signs of attraction towards me.
@oanadamian5850 2 жыл бұрын
That’s the beauty of being in love! It makes you become a better self, it gives you wings to fly. The problem is that most often you come crushing down to reality! The crushes are sometimes reciprocated! I think you should have told her asap! You might be surprised! I wouldn’t be surprised if she likes you too! Women can be misleading that way! I recognized myself a bit in your post and I admire your honesty!
@patriciaw5879 2 жыл бұрын
This video blew my mind... and I am excited because it is so layered with the opportunity of personal growth, revealing what I have been rejecting and what needs I can meet in what ways I want to meet those needs... truly and exceptional information that will keep adding to my growth and expansion. ❤️
@blueangel9544 2 жыл бұрын
I am so happy you described how it is supposed to feel like. I thought I wanted that excited feeling during this lifetime. I found that it feels right when you have this sea of instant calm. Like looking upon a completely still body of water. And time stops just for a little bit. And the whole world falls away in these deep intimate moments. I came to the conclusion this last year actually, that the electric feeling is probably some kind of sign of incompatibility. I like the idea also being shown with someone I respect and view as knowledgeable and balanced, and well versed in wisdom and experience.
@MaevaBM 4 жыл бұрын
So basically all the things I reject and am very annoyed by in a relationship with someone I had a massive attraction are the things I need to accept in myself... Super
@marazampariolo3200 4 жыл бұрын
I dunno man. I was annoyed at many things that I am Totally opposite and would NEVER do...
@mirianakoleva7870 3 жыл бұрын
@@marazampariolo3200 Well that is probably one of the things Teal mentioned. You don't ever do these things because you disown and suppress them in yourself
@samxsara 3 жыл бұрын
@@mirianakoleva7870 it’s not conscious...
@garethmorgan3665 3 жыл бұрын
@@mirianakoleva7870 I agree with Mara. One thing my gf does which I have a problem with is say things without thinking about their impact on others. I love her but she says things which I would never say in a million years because I know how much hurt it can cause.
@nephthyz2990 3 жыл бұрын
@@garethmorgan3665 You've disowned that part of you that says something without thinking it through. There was consequences for accidently hurting people in your childhood and so you had to suppress that part of you. It is still rejecting a part of you whether or not you think that part is acceptable.
@Ironmanpwnz 4 жыл бұрын
I love when you have a serious face and towards the end of a segment you end with a smile lol or when you randomly giggle it's so contagious it makes me wanna smile and laugh
@RaeLarz 2 жыл бұрын
Wow. Powerful. I'm in the first 'real' relationship in my life - and it's bringing everything to the surface. It's beautiful and challenging and my girlfriend and I are communicating our feelings and honesty all the way through it. At least doing our very best to, we're both on our journey of healing. And as long as your intention is to communicate and connect rather than withdraw and resent, then that in itself is the conscious choice to love. And I love her.
@malika6713 2 жыл бұрын
I can't even describe how this video has changed my mind and how it gonna change my whole life! Thank you Teal!
@7373mish 4 жыл бұрын
I especially relate to the lowest desperate suffering side of the coin. 😂😭
@Electronicmedium1111 4 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry, Sola! Me too...sending some love your way from Arizona 💕
@alberto2469 4 жыл бұрын
Ok that was funny lol
@alberto2469 4 жыл бұрын
"The universe has no interest in denying your needs and desires. What it does want is for those needs and desires to become concious." Wrap it up, guys. Real important... =)
@alberto2469 4 жыл бұрын
@MsAgnostica Goes Quantum Lol each people in this planet xD
@alberto2469 4 жыл бұрын
@MsAgnostica Goes Quantum Nice joke. But beware negative spirits trying to suck in your vitality to themselves in the AfterWorld... =P
@gratefuldadgad 3 жыл бұрын
You're the only person on this planet that makes me feel all my life decisions are wrong. I watch your videos and keep questioning my own miserable existence and I can't help but notice that everything you say is very deeply built within myself, I just haven't had the words to express it on my own. This shows that we are so much more than flesh and bone, and even our own soul...because there is a lot of versions of ourselves that we are unaware of...the way our own mother perceives us, the way our best friend sees us, or even our own partner/spouse sees us...it's not that simple...it's easy to lose ourselves just by interacting with other people. Only when we are foced to look deep within our soul is exactly what we are supposed to find and expect from life...it's just not that obvious within our own mortal coil, and some of us, unfortunately, only find the sense of it through death. Life is a journey...we must be careful not to ruin it with our own expectations, or expectations of others. Sorry for bad english...not my native language. Cheers, you are all beautiful, and I...I am a little bit drunk writing this XD
@pilula65 Жыл бұрын
Beautifully said! I totally agree!
@skyedecastro6322 Жыл бұрын
❤
@helenehenson7191 9 ай бұрын
Your English is perfect. You wrote this beautifully and explained how I felt❤
@stephanielane5216 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you teal! Your videos without fail make me feel so much better and give me so much clarity ✨
@Superstitious33 4 жыл бұрын
This video couldn’t have come at a more perfect time! Im currently head over heels about someone. Synchronicity ✨
@Superstitious33 4 жыл бұрын
Darcy Royce The news gets boring after a while. I wanna know why im falling for the person im falling for lol
@user-ur2wd8du4z 4 жыл бұрын
Same!
@fredericmoresmau4303 4 жыл бұрын
If I could do it over I'd go to UK in 2008 and start over there. I'd been happy to do a school there and wouldn't have been preset by society. I'd grown up in peace and not in hurt
@OM-et4qj 4 жыл бұрын
Synchronicity or youtube/google algorithm?
@Ivy-og5xd 4 жыл бұрын
Me too ^_^ I just got my ex back haha
@deepwaters7242 4 жыл бұрын
This just validated my current situation like a hug from a fairy godparent. 💕💕💕💕💕
@cosmoflower77 11 ай бұрын
What am amazing video! Seriously struggling over here in missing someone and this video has opened a space to question and reflect. Thank you Teal.
@tapashyarasaily4869 11 ай бұрын
Teal Swan has been a favorite of mine for years now and i never stop appreciating how enlightening her content has become. Teal and Leo from actualized are two of my most cherished youtube creators who genuinely care about conciousness work.
@anthonyrock-the-universal-one 4 жыл бұрын
I'll find a relationship after I'm dead.
@howmathematicianscreatemat9226 4 жыл бұрын
Far before, friend. Didnt you hear she said attraction isnt about the other Person
@huyked 4 жыл бұрын
@qzny0s There was no mention of "God" in this video. Thank goodness! (Not godness)
@garalynbearcrane8057 4 жыл бұрын
The best ones💗
@5000NATE 4 жыл бұрын
@@huyked what's wrong with God and having faith
@huyked 4 жыл бұрын
@@5000NATE Well, in my eyes, there's a lot of things wrong with it. There's is no proof of any gods. And faith is believing in something for which there is no proof. That is not a good combo, nor principle to live by.
@TamaraLeighPiron 4 жыл бұрын
This was a conversation and talk I was just having yesterday lol - synchronicity and then some. It always boils down to self awareness. Yes attraction is not love and is self centred.
@ikrammaizi5451 Жыл бұрын
My god i love you!! I just discovered your channel and you're answering questions i was struggling with for years! Thank you so much you're such a gift❤️
@HyuchaKyrie 3 жыл бұрын
Single for 4 years and for some reason i dont even feel attraction for anyone. Its like my feelings are numb yet something inside of me is craving for something....have no idea of what
@alanaaga3890 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah same. What could it be about us?
@renaissancemarieaustin 3 жыл бұрын
Same.
@Tsjoosie 3 жыл бұрын
You are probably a zombie then. You're just hungry.
@princessivonne9880 3 жыл бұрын
Me too 😑
@kavishaattanayake3425 3 жыл бұрын
Hello... "Joining to your single group from 2021"😁✌️
@quinell-firestruthers8151 3 жыл бұрын
What you will learn from this video: "You have a lot very complex problems that spring forth as "Attractions"!! " , I think it's important for everyone to still understand that you are human and don't need to be perfect before you can Love or look for a partner, but what you can recognize and heal (which is what Teal teaches), can drastically broaden what you enjoy from life and what is is you really want from a life partner and ultimately , how happy you are with yours. All her teachings so far have gotten me to that conclusion and the work is very detailed and yet explained in such a way, it makes it easy to apply when you resist the urge to argue with whether it's a part that has drifted away or not. PS, Good choice of the red for the video :)
@sabeenanowara4402 4 жыл бұрын
Whenever I'm down, I remind myself, Teal is watching over us, you'll see when she uploads a video. The video is almost always about what was happening in that week. We're all in this together guys💞
@treesforlifeong1639 4 жыл бұрын
Yes we are!
@tirtunemdouq 4 жыл бұрын
I agree, it's incredible.
@aight33 4 жыл бұрын
ikr
@aryanalfa2444 4 жыл бұрын
She's still submissive to her painbody abdominal brain
@northstar7054 4 жыл бұрын
Indeed
@ashokkurian6884 3 жыл бұрын
Strange but I was having this problem and you just came and gave me a better understanding of myself . Love to you Teal !!!
@haregabeje2381 2 жыл бұрын
God I love her voice and the way she say words.. Soothing reassuring ❤️
@violetrose9803 4 жыл бұрын
I appreciate this video so much. Honestly one of the most eye opening for me. Thank you Teal ❤️
@thisisntallowed9560 4 жыл бұрын
I'm really attracted to extroverts so I need to let that part out in myself XD
@starrypurple8568 4 жыл бұрын
Me too
@celeste9473 4 жыл бұрын
Same. I always attract extroverts in relationships and I’m the complete opposite.
@aryanalfa2444 4 жыл бұрын
Comon fellas
@palesaneo3817 4 жыл бұрын
This got to me
@WanderingAstronaut 4 жыл бұрын
No, I am enough with relationship with ekstroverts. It is unfulfilling
@nickli6615 2 жыл бұрын
one of the deepest and most profound video I've watched in last few month, gained so much insights! much appreciate it❤
@elduderinounemployed3438 3 ай бұрын
I'm a man that have a history with social anxiety and I tend to be attracted to young shy insecure women who reminds me of myself at that age. If I can do for them what I wish somebody else would have done for me when I was in that situation I think that part of me would be healed. This is something I realized by watching this video.
@suzic4521 4 жыл бұрын
I’ve thought this for years- I’m glad someone is now saying it.
@melere777 4 жыл бұрын
This helped me so much. It's obviously early yet in the journey but this helped me find closure with the end of a relationship that never got off the ground because there was so much conflict despite the mutual attraction. I finally feel like I don't *need* the other person for those qualities I love--I am drawn to them because I have suppressed them in myself, and in that case, can simply BE those qualities than rely on them in someone else.
@aaronhorak710 Жыл бұрын
This video helped me get more of the full picture of what I've struggled with. In high school I was awkward and lonely. I felt I wasn't normal cause "everybody" was having relationships but me. Now, a few relationships later, I'm always still searching because they haven't really met my needs. I think what I'm looking for is a "normal" woman to validate that I am normal too. However, I am with a fairly average woman right now, but we don't have much in common. I hold back talking about science and nerdy things, while she mostly talks about stuff that I don't really care about. Now I'm realizing that I need validated some other way. Thank you.
@GChan129 Жыл бұрын
She cant validate you if she doesn't know who you are. She doesn't know who you are because you hide very basic things about yourself. At most you can feel the validation for a character you are playing.
@Sisterlisk 9 ай бұрын
Maybe he has tried talking about his interests and she showed disinterest/disdain enough times that he stopped doing it. I'd break up if that were the case. @@GChan129
@Sisterlisk 9 ай бұрын
Or go to couples therapy first, I guess.
@jajarequa6513 3 жыл бұрын
13:13 Mind Blown 🔥...I’m sharing this with my 24 year old daughter who I gave up for adoption when I was a teenager and is now dealing with insecure hurt feelings because of it . I’m praying that my actions doesn’t affect her relationships 🙏 thank you
@Danipieee 4 жыл бұрын
I have both attraction and appreciation for my husband ☺️ we could be rich together OR we could hav very little, etc.. and I would still absolutely adore experiencing this life with him! Conscious love! I still really needed this video! Thank you Teal!
@davidbloxham5062 4 жыл бұрын
Im happy for you. Thats Epic
@carlacable4353 2 жыл бұрын
Wonderful ❤️
@meganharley11 4 жыл бұрын
I needed to hear this today, I’m sitting with tears of relief streaming down my face. Thank you so much 🙏🏻
@embracechaos1017 3 жыл бұрын
You really are my best friend! You just described my life in the smallest details, and thanks to you I feel I am really working towards expansion! It's really not easy, but having someone knowledgeable like you is helping so much!
@parvatidevi616 3 жыл бұрын
Teal you are such an amazing soul. I have learnt so much from you. This video made me cry , I don't know why. You speak to my heart in a way few do. Thank you teal for all your videos. I love you 💛
@TommyFamous 4 жыл бұрын
The missing link to success is gratitude, as the law of attraction says you have to be grateful for what you have to attract success to you.
@cunningfolktattoo6143 4 жыл бұрын
Yes,I have learned to stop and remember to be greatful,even when my dog poops on the floor!! Cause it means I have my beloved dog,and a floor to clean!!!!
@ShiftTheMatrixGaming 4 жыл бұрын
Not every little thing but more has done assume everything is lessons some things are just dark forced
@celeste9473 4 жыл бұрын
It’s all about perspective
@moniashek2137 4 жыл бұрын
Finally someone explained it to me. I've been looking for a video like this for AGES. I'm so smart now from all this coaching I watched before that, lol. Thank you for everything girl, you are changing people's lives.
@softness.in.healing 3 жыл бұрын
That was amazing!!! So much clarity thank you! Super pumped that I actually have been aware of this concept without the language that you provided whoop whoop!!
@adaludwina Жыл бұрын
So crazy! I mean, I kind of already new most of those things, but you put it into words so clearly, it just speaks to me so profoundly at this point in my life and it's so healing. ❤
@neptunevenus 4 жыл бұрын
This is basic psychology and she articulates it beautifully. A wise teacher.
@shilohndrah 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much, Teal Swan!!! You have helped me become more humble and flexible as I've just reached my 73rd year a few weeks ago. I feel wonder for Heart-Growing by hearing ourselves hear the other. It is an amazing atmosphere in your Synchronization Workshops. The people seem distinct and communicating, in a flow rather than raprure.
@gertleroy Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this 🙏
@mushymystic 2 ай бұрын
This is such wisdom. I'm sure many people understand this innately, I have not always been able to decode why or what I'm attracted to, or craving...
@Katharine777 4 жыл бұрын
“The universe’s..loving?...way” died 😂
@alberto2469 4 жыл бұрын
You are laughing and i'm crying inside 😥
@kevinlighten11 4 жыл бұрын
I cannot express to you how much you just changed my life. I had been going through an immense longgggg period of mental confusion. Not able to pinpoint certain emotions, not able to tell what they mean, just crazy confusion energy. This literally took me outside of the box I was in and now I can actually see the situations and people involved. I can see the 3D cube, as before I was like a being only able to see 2 dimensions trying to figure out which way was the 3rd. Thank you so so so so so so very much💙💙💙💙💙💙
@kevinlighten11 4 жыл бұрын
My king of swords just turned upright and I truly understand it now
@indigoyogi888 9 ай бұрын
Teal, you speak the truth 💯 Thank you for delivering these gems for FREE. You are appreciated ❤
@krisaveri 3 жыл бұрын
Teal, I haven't watched your videos in a LONG time. You helped me get my life back in 2015 when I went to your Utah Tealtribe gathering (thank you :). Your videos always find me when I need them most and I am very grateful.
@monicagomiz8660 4 жыл бұрын
Dear Teal, the videos you upload are the messages I need to hear in that particular moment. I am so grateful I found your wisdom.
@celtic1song 4 жыл бұрын
I feel very attracted to Teal and feel a deep sense of appreciation and love towards her. Thank you Teal💚 Great video!!! 😘
@normanmacfarlane2867 3 жыл бұрын
At 62 i now know that all this wise lady is speaking of is so wrought with the chance of loss and failure that if i were to take on the relationships i did in the past that i would definitely think more than twice about all of them . We are never taught to have that ultimate relationship and that is with ourselves. I have discovered this lady and i will follow her 🤗
@thinman8621 4 ай бұрын
Happily married to sweetheart of my youth. Cancer caused her to leave the planet too soon. These videos are helping me to understand women, attraction and relationships a lot better. Thank you, Teal Swan.
@liliangelina9196 4 жыл бұрын
That‘s exactly how I felt about it, but couldn‘t put into words. Thanks, this helps a lot!
@starrynights9674 4 жыл бұрын
Teal videos are always timed perfectly
@lyckaeu7815 2 жыл бұрын
This is what I needed to hear today. You are incredible. Great insight as usual. thank you!
@ParthibanTR 3 жыл бұрын
Wow! so much depth in realization, understanding and explanation. Excellent explanation using props. I am thrilled to move towards awareness. Thanks Teal.
@garyinmarz8938 3 жыл бұрын
Great talk! It is always the attraction that becomes love, then love becomes friendship and partnership,,,then attraction again with another soul, (long or short term )or you rediscover the attraction once felt with your initial partner and love again comes along. It is a circle that many of us experience, have experienced and will experienced. At 17:28, this is something where attraction has an advantage over good sense. 22:59 We will always give the attraction more time and forgive more because of image, you may become a slave to attraction, an addict.
@Wilson_Chin 4 жыл бұрын
I've been waiting this video for a long time :D thank you Teal Swan!~~~
@apurvadeshpande2366 4 жыл бұрын
Me too!!!
@kathrinwolf3926 2 жыл бұрын
This is by far the best video about attraction I’ve heard. Thank you so much!
@samanthabarron8481 2 жыл бұрын
Less than a minute in and I’m already saying “YES!”. I’ve tried explaining to people that there are different types of “love” but I like the attraction-appreciation-love distinction.
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