Back to school confidence

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@amberlee5342 2 жыл бұрын

Who else really want Spencer as their best friend? Like, girl, i don’t need to feel insecure if this girly is by my side.👏🏻

@kathrynzilz748 2 жыл бұрын

Sameeeee

@samnicoleee 2 жыл бұрын

@Livelaughlove09 2 жыл бұрын

FRRRRR

@brookebeaudette4371 2 жыл бұрын

@karma-mi3rt 2 жыл бұрын

No bc that’s actually true

@IJ21523 2 жыл бұрын

I'm officially adopting Spencer as my new older sister. This girl is everything you need in a girl best friend or older sister!

@luciaanderson1492 2 жыл бұрын

Same!

@Azrealsantis 2 жыл бұрын

SAME

@Priya-ok6vi 2 жыл бұрын

Me too

@aiyorii 2 жыл бұрын

Me too

@marialondonooo 2 жыл бұрын

Agreed ❤️

@ladynoir4life Жыл бұрын

she’s right. i mean looking back, half of my crushes weren’t that good looking, it’s just that there confidence made them so insanely attractive

@bobxooolulugod9283 5 ай бұрын

Well said. The people I like the most weren't drop-dead gorgeous, but their personality was.

@nuhaluvsyou Ай бұрын

this is powerful like confidence is soooo attractive and yet ppl still act like physical appearance is more important ?

@gabrielspangenberg9012 2 жыл бұрын

All body and mind, the “secret”, positive reinforcement feedback loop, etc, etc.

@robertpaul50n 2 жыл бұрын

Bullshit in short

@MrZeeshanmalik 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you spencer!!! It’s was the first day of school today and I was so uncomfortable with the clothes I was wearing. Because I’m overweight and my mom always annoys me about it. I’m really insecure. If u wanna make fun of it go for it. It’s fine

@SplashDash03 2 жыл бұрын

Just btw, your weight determines NOTHING about your looks. I’m almost positive your still really good looking despite this. I have friends that are underweight and are super insecure about it lol, so obviously everybody’s got their own problems. Just love yourself! Easier said than done and super cringy ik, but I wish I’d been following this advice through middle school bc I would’ve been a lot less insecure lol. But anyways, your ❤️beutiful❤️

@greenboy681 2 жыл бұрын

weight does not affect your looks (most of the time) coming from a guy i think a bunch of "over the average weight" girls can be waaaayyy hotter than just the "normal" weight girls just my take tho can't speak for all

@trips347 2 жыл бұрын

Then lose the weight?

@llologuesh 2 жыл бұрын

I can understand but after a while I found videos on KZfaq of girls size plus and they looked great! Cutes and beautifuls, confidentes and so lively and very positive. Skinny should not be the definition of beauty, with the right clothes and color who corresponding to your body shape and your personality can change everything, you felt pretty if you wear stuff that you like and felt confortable. And be confident and sure of yourself loving you actually is attractive to other people.

@zoefoley6818 2 жыл бұрын

@@trips347 uhm, no. this comment is basically saying, "lose the weight if you're insecure, it isn't THAT hard." first of all, it's hard, 2nd of all metabolism is a huge factor in weight, 3rd of all you aren't helping. you have good intentions, and i'm not trying to be rude.

@isa.bella1261 Жыл бұрын

girl ur skin is so glowinggg i could never

@jcml14286 6 ай бұрын

yes girl you could i bet ! no skin is perfect but glowy skin is so achievable

@armanielise5514 2 жыл бұрын

yes i totally believe this, also confidents. like i feel like as long as your confident your hot 😎

@robertpaul50n 2 жыл бұрын

Nah, it's about looks.

@armanielise5514 2 жыл бұрын

@@robertpaul50n lol- i mean looks have a part for sure but like there r other things 😂

@robertpaul50n 2 жыл бұрын

@@armanielise5514 what are they? For guys I mean. Like aside from looks, what does a guy want in a woman? There are answers, but I doubt you know them. But let's see...

@armanielise5514 2 жыл бұрын

@@robertpaul50n I mean im sure personally lol, probably (if the guy is looking for a long term thing) good with kids, and alike him? Not sure if that’s with all guys but that’s what would assume lol

@robertpaul50n 2 жыл бұрын

@@armanielise5514 actually, you did a lot better than I thought you'd do. Likes kids, wants kids, is good with kids, that quality is worth more than all others. A woman that is alike him (I assume you mean she has similar interests), no that doesnt matter. Men dont expect their women to share their interest since so few do. Aside from that, humility, femininity, loyalty. A woman with these characteristics can get a good man even if she looks below average.

@newmanhiding2314 Жыл бұрын

As a dude, I can confirm that it has a lot less to do with looks and a lot more to do with how you carry yourself.

@jagobbin2 4 ай бұрын

The "rizz" as to how gen z call it

@emmaleebelle 2 жыл бұрын

I am the oldest in my family, and you are my older sister! ♥️♥️ I love you so much

@xshleiiqh 2 жыл бұрын

Spencer, Tysm. I am so insecure about my body and I found out that we have to start using the changing rooms again this year and bc I’m so insecure, I just don’t wanna do pe at this point- but ty for making me feel better

@ratattarat 2 жыл бұрын

i literally start year 10 tomorrow ahhhhh

@nutella_odella5367 2 жыл бұрын

I start year 8 2morrow and I really don't want to I'm so nervous😭😭😭

@its_melodystar 2 жыл бұрын

10 including kinder meaning Freshman or grade 10 meaning Sophomore?

@loki-oq6gm 2 жыл бұрын

@@nutella_odella5367 Same I'm sooo scared 😭

@nutella_odella5367 2 жыл бұрын

@@loki-oq6gm I have finished my first day, I'm so relieved!!! If you have had your's I hope it went well!!!!!🤗💗

@nutella_odella5367 2 жыл бұрын

@@its_melodystar not trying to be rude, but not everyone lives in the same country, with the same school system 😁

@Random-Ed99 4 ай бұрын

First one actually hit different ❤😂

@ktmacc32 3 ай бұрын

Your eyes are literally so gorgeous!!!

@SplashDash03 2 жыл бұрын

Bro middle school is a lot and I have a ton of like really pretty friends...my first year of middle school I was literally so insecure I wore only sweatshirts and jeans lol, but after watching ur videos I’ve gained a ton more confidence before school. Thanks!

@craftymonkey7331 2 жыл бұрын

Can we just talk about how Spencer looks 24/7 beautiful, even after wiping her makeup off ( I don't think she even does wear makeup)

@callmeollie4770 2 жыл бұрын

The thing about being hot is kinda true because once i started becoming more confident people started noticing me more

@dancingdaisies5678 6 ай бұрын

She is the older sister everyone dreams of having❤

@irisstrathearn8968 2 жыл бұрын

I love her vids so much. They give me so much confidence. Thank you Spencer 🥰

@jeffjones9702 2 жыл бұрын

I started school before I saw this, but that was me anyway since I began watching Spencer’s videos

@swiftiezz 10 ай бұрын

i love her omg she’s so funny 🤍

@RoseRose-vu8vo 2 жыл бұрын

I love you so much I am 11 years old little girl and there’s so much you’ve done to change my life to help me do better to help me feel more confident I love you so much you’re one of my favorites

@yvnjvns 2 жыл бұрын

Dude, she'd honestly be such a good friend 😭💗

@Kaiheheuwu Жыл бұрын

OMG THIS VIDEO IS LITERALLY MEANT FOR ME

@carloszapataiii 2 жыл бұрын

I’m a dude and this helps me so much more

@im.a.potato.4 5 ай бұрын

i found this video two years ago and spencer taught me that being hot is in your mind, every day i tell myself how hot i am and that i am enough! ❤

@RaiNBOwXP0p 7 ай бұрын

your like the big sister everyone needs

@Akyomi 2 жыл бұрын

Truly spoken as somebody who is conventionally attractive.

@rosemarie9277 11 ай бұрын

We 👏 Need 👏 More 👏 People 👏 Like 👏 This 👏

@kathrynzilz748 2 жыл бұрын

Omg! Thankyou so much!!!

@aschr6763 5 ай бұрын

Ok but why is Spencer so pretty and an amazing influencer!?

@Midnight_Directioner 2 жыл бұрын

I got my braces on today and was feeling a little insecure about going to school Thanks for boosting my confidence!

@JL2502-QT 2 жыл бұрын

Good luck at school! I'm sure you look great with ur new braces 👍

@Midnight_Directioner 2 жыл бұрын

@@JL2502-QT thanks! :)

@Elizabeth-ladybug22 10 ай бұрын

I wish I had a friend like Spencer growing up 😢it would've helped me mentally all my life.

@Emilia_159 7 ай бұрын

once a boy said l was a 5 and l lost so so much of my confidence but know that l have watched this it makes me feel so much better about myself

@robloxstorytimes8215 Жыл бұрын

You NEED to do more back to school tips PLEASE ❤❤❤❤❤

@thomascrdbl 11 ай бұрын

Easy to say when your in shape

@jessicapennington7901 3 ай бұрын

I love this girl she doesn't really help me bit I love how she tries

@kid.martins 10 ай бұрын

I find it funny that I go back to school in two days and this pops up love you Spencer!❤️❤️

@rosie6 10 ай бұрын

Thank u darling u always give off big sis vibes xx

@maddy_staygold 10 ай бұрын

ty for the advice! i recently just found out that a guy at my school thinks i’m “hot” but also “b!tchy.” and, apparently lots of other people at school think im b!tchy too, so i really need to gain my confidence back before school

@Littlemisschaterbox 11 ай бұрын

Thank you you really help me with self-confidence

@jeonginsbiggeststan7954 2 жыл бұрын

Girl I needed this I’m so insecure so I needed this video

@thewhiteknight9923 2 жыл бұрын

Smell part is pretty important yes

@jessicadenton5064 6 ай бұрын

Thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you! Love you

@caileygrace8106 2 жыл бұрын

my new fall scent is white pumpkin and chai from bath and body works and its super fally and light

@Ansleyk3 11 ай бұрын

I strive to have this kind of confidence

@averiewahl3452 2 жыл бұрын

I hav stained so much confidence this year it’s crazy, I have more confidence in my own body and in my attitude, now when my classmates point out my attitude I’m like bro you’ve been going to school with me for 10 years you should know that I am sassy by now🙄 Btw I’m in 8th grade

@robertpaul50n 2 жыл бұрын

What is it getting stained with? Jizz?

@averiewahl3452 2 жыл бұрын

@@robertpaul50n gained

@robertpaul50n 2 жыл бұрын

@@averiewahl3452 lol. You should have left it, it was funny the way it was. Now it's just a regular comment 🙁

@rae3456 Жыл бұрын

This make me so happy and make me so much more confident 🤍😭

@emmacormann8267 2 жыл бұрын

SPENCER UR SKIN IS STUNNING

@Ruthlessnessismercy 7 ай бұрын

I need Spencer by my side 24/7 as my freaking wing man! Like this is a NEED. Her advice is all over my fyp and it’s giving me good vibes. Also like, I know being hot isn’t about appearance. Have you seen Thomas Brodie sangster, he’s hot amd not just cause his appearance bro has the personality of my dreams. Same with Spencer like girl is living the dream and because of her I can live the dream too!!

@TessaSantana-ee3xl 4 ай бұрын

Bro‼️ I LOVE her soo much ❤️♾️

@YUNGBLUD_everything 6 ай бұрын

Also everyone is 20% more attractive and pretty then they think x

@smileyyxmint7613 2 жыл бұрын

I GOT THIS LATEEEEE I STARTED LAST WEEK well now i can be confident for tomorrow

@Aitistic.__ 10 ай бұрын

more of these NEEDD

@emilygacha1368 Жыл бұрын

I start school tomorrow and I am already feeling confident!

@robert2057 2 жыл бұрын

Beautiful msg from a beautiful soul

@Laylaa133 6 ай бұрын

She’s my daily therapist

@BriBear813 10 ай бұрын

Thank you I really needed this 😂😂😂

@tocaanni5663 10 ай бұрын

I remember the start of last school year I had it all in my head that everyone admired me as I walked down the halls and it was such a good feeling even if that’s not what people were thinking. But as the year went on I started to loose my confidence and now I feel the opposite 😢

@Its_Astronomy Жыл бұрын

Ok but try telling this to high school boys 😭😭

@magz8122 10 ай бұрын

i want spence as my mom 😭💞

@Minerwallbreakertryhard 9 ай бұрын

I took a risk and got a new haircut. Turns out it was the best decision of my life.

@Kanishkkaa.S.S 6 ай бұрын

U hv just earned a new subscriber 🎉 Congrats Spencer 👏❤

@faithxz 10 ай бұрын

Tysm❤

@Justyourartisticgirl 11 ай бұрын

Me, a homeschooler, getting ready for my day, make up, cute outfit, confidence and all, knowing I will not be stepping out into the sun today but wanted to look nice in front of my pet bird.

@CK-ny4sh Жыл бұрын

You give me a self confidence boost 😊 thank you spencer

@kaitien1951 11 ай бұрын

I’m going into my freshman year of high school and thank you so much for posting this

@Nicky_sousa27 Жыл бұрын

Me watching this 10 minutes before school starts

@shobaemmanuvel7934 2 жыл бұрын

Yass gurlll thanks I done school but its actually tips not only bout school its life too

@ISaudios 2 жыл бұрын

I’m on online school for now but they might open the school up in a month so thxs!

@itslivofcxx 6 ай бұрын

i’m australia and we are on our summer break right now, we start back at school on the 30th of jan and i am starting year 7, we have 2 schools not a heap of different ones like americans, we have primary school which is prep (kinda like kinder) - year 6 and then highschool is year 7-12, so i am going to a new school with a heap of friends already made so this will really help me on the first day! But we dont wear free dress lol, we have uniform

@sstrxzz 2 жыл бұрын

YOUR GORGEOUS OMG

@ishanimiddya2914 2 жыл бұрын

You are so positive

@amberrosejohnson2799 2 жыл бұрын

Being confident before school 🏫 gets to school confidence goes down the drain

@whenimbored3741 Жыл бұрын

Spencer could you please do some more tips!! pls i love your videos and i really need your advice to help me gain confidence for going back to school, i would really appreciate it! ❤❤

@firedbeast9873 2 жыл бұрын

Aye sir captain barbosa!!

@kermit995 11 ай бұрын

To add onto that last tip: don't be that middle school girl who spritzes herself with vanilla bean bath and body works perfume every five minutes and intoxicated the entire room

@angs8018 10 ай бұрын

Me when i see this after the first day of school: 👁️👄👁️

@jeonsehal Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for this video! You don't know how much it helped me

@londonisvibey4164 2 жыл бұрын

Adding on to what she said here r my tips: Don’t bring others down to boost your own confidence that won’t make you popular or pretty, it will just make people think you have ugly heart. Shower!! (Every 1-2 days for hair wash ) And style your hair (blow dry) but don’t heat style it everyday. sleep, sleep is more important than staying up to 3am so your friends will think your cool Drop your toxic people, they won’t make your life any better :/

@tashakhan8004 10 ай бұрын

I want her to be my sister because she made me feel less insecure ❤❤😊😊

@gishaleriche8465 2 жыл бұрын

She looks exactly like Veronica on Riverdale

@wderas631 2 жыл бұрын

just started highschool and everyone is so PRETTY

@may06jose27 2 жыл бұрын

Your right sometimes we go outside and they sweat and I am wearing a jacket

@kootapup1 2 жыл бұрын

Thx for tips just going into year 5

@marmariaria 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the tips,queen!luv u girl!!!

@faerricx1222 2 жыл бұрын

This made me so much better 😭

@bord_lemon_drop9597 10 ай бұрын

I start school in just 2 days! Finally starting my summer glowup and I really needed this! THANK YOUU!!!!!! ❤❤❤

@1_b00_1 2 жыл бұрын

There is always someone walking the halls at my school smelling MUSTY AF

@ricoYfamosoYT 11 ай бұрын

u NEED to do the hair theory trend

@zoeholland9190 2 жыл бұрын

Can we all just take a moment to realize how kind Beautiful and helpful she is ❤️

@floret9243 2 жыл бұрын

Thank youuu^^

@Spankem_.d 2 жыл бұрын

You made my day

@kayfriends1875 2 жыл бұрын

Honestly Spencer u make my day better!!!!

@carolinasalazar4378 2 жыл бұрын

luv the tips thx

@OliveBerlach 9 ай бұрын

Spencer I just had this random thought, i know this bussness that does active wear and lots of clothes and i think u would rlly like them. It is called Bohemian Traders❤️

@Olivia_1987. 2 жыл бұрын

Your friends are so lucky to have you ❤️❤️ I wish I had a friend like you

@Happy.feet11 10 ай бұрын

Spencer can you do a video on how to deal with someone that rejected you but you can’t let them go

@louisfernandes5378 2 жыл бұрын

Omggg you're a life saver 🥺🥺

@pipera587 2 жыл бұрын

the thing about hot being a mindset is 100% true, theres this guy in one of my classes and honestly hes not even that cute BUT the way he carries himself (not too cocky but just confident) makes him really attractive.

@robertpaul50n 2 жыл бұрын

It's true for guys, but not for girls. Ever seen the QB dating the 300 pound land whale of the school because "she has a hot attitude". Nah, they just fuck the head cheerleader because shes ACTUALLY hot.

@fabulousflamingo21 8 ай бұрын

All I had to do is go totally out of my comfort zone and do a musical. I was dancing in singing in front of people and I used to not be able to speak up in class. It made me think I could do anything after that.