Before Your First Date - WATCH THIS | by Jay Shetty

Before Your First Date - WATCH THIS | by Jay Shetty | XoXo

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6 жыл бұрын

Watch this before you go on your first date!
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@christinaa7735 6 жыл бұрын

I can't believe how natural the actors were! As if they were not acting at all. Awesome!

@TeddyBear-yx9hi 5 жыл бұрын

Actually the question were scripted but the answers were not..thats why.

@omr-ism 5 жыл бұрын

They are really good!

@lory4305 5 жыл бұрын

They were acting? Really?

@bencrosbie 5 жыл бұрын

Christine Shahin love it. Top quality

@AshwinPatel-eb6tv 4 жыл бұрын

Oh my friend these questions are copy from the web series Tea for Two...

@jasonly003 6 жыл бұрын

Jay add this in the description • Given a choice of anyone in the world, whom would you want as a guest? • Would you like to be famous? And if so, why? • Before making a telephone call, do you ever rehearse what you gonna say? And Why? • What would constitute a perfect day for you? • When did you last sing to yourself or someone else? • For what in your life you feel the most grateful? • If you can change anything about how you were raised, what it would be? • If you can gain any one quality tomorrow morning, what it would be? • If the crystal can tell you a truth about your life and future, what you would like to know? • Is there something you have dream of doing from long time? Why have you not done it? • What is the greatest accomplishment of your life? • What do you value most in friend? • I wish I had someone with whom I can share ______ • When do you last cry alone or in front of any person? • Tell your partner you like about him/ her already

@Godlover25 5 жыл бұрын

Pls email me this.....been trying to copy it.....preciousofuasia@gmail.com

@fasnafinu2990 5 жыл бұрын

Thankyou so much

@reemaljaber 5 жыл бұрын

U saved my time thank youuu

@chiriijoy9368 5 жыл бұрын

@@Godlover25 nice video

@rae_tsholo9719 5 жыл бұрын

So helpful 😊

@annaarandel3832 6 жыл бұрын

I did it with my partner and it went really well! the best night we've had so far because we're talking about really important things. Thank you so much Jay!

@melodylyu5326 6 жыл бұрын

M P. Do you know where to get the questions?

@benlouanasamani4503 6 жыл бұрын

They said in an essay to fall in love do this search for that

@BrittaenRoute 5 жыл бұрын

Melody LYU if you haven’t already found them google “36 questions that lead to love - New York Times” I’m not sure if they’re the exact same questions but similar at least!

@AshwinPatel-eb6tv 4 жыл бұрын

Its a copy content of web series.. Tea for Two.. kzfaq.info/get/bejne/fcuDra-i1t-yl6c.html I did never this from jay

@acharich 4 жыл бұрын

🤙🏾🤙🏾🤙🏾

@SR-mv2mf 6 жыл бұрын

Dawww he cries 😭😊. Something about them sensitive men that melts my little heart.

6 жыл бұрын

In general, women prefer strong men. It's in their genes.

@vividhaiku 6 жыл бұрын

Yes I'm sure he would make a great Friend for you to go cry at movies with.

@pmaster1173 6 жыл бұрын

I'd describe myself as that kinda guy but society demands "Strong" unforgiving, unemotional men.. so I usually cry by myself.

@perfectlycreated4191 6 жыл бұрын

Shruthi Reddy same here.

@perfectlycreated4191 6 жыл бұрын

Shun Jags be yourself, it's all that matters.

@mojojojo5230 6 жыл бұрын

I suck at small talk. Conversations should be more like these.

@ferryjayadi3316 4 жыл бұрын

Abhinav Atwal you will be bored if you do this alot or creeped if someone messy suddenly ask you this without swinging small talk.

@Someonelikekanye 4 жыл бұрын

ferry jayadi swinging small talk? Excuse me? Lol

@FallingStar110 6 жыл бұрын

I tried it once. We only took the first 7 questions, but it took us already one hour to go through them. Guess we had long answers that lead to even more discussions. :D I still would love to try the whole experiment someday :)

@ladislaskrstic8328 5 жыл бұрын

That is even better. I mean you don't have to finish the whole questions immediately. It means you are both enjoyed it. You still have more to talk about, you don't run out of topics, and that's actually good for you if you both don't get bored of each other. You can continue from last question everytime you meet or hangout if you want to.Take your time, and see where it leads you

@lorenzobrogi6359 4 жыл бұрын

Enjoy being single forever

@d.l.t7421 2 жыл бұрын

That's what it's all about

@mattykay1137 4 жыл бұрын

I asked similar question on a date earlier this yr And she friendzoned me 😆🤪 Her loss not mine ✌🏻

@RaulAEaqw 4 жыл бұрын

@donnawoodford6641 4 жыл бұрын

You have to first start out as friends to see if you're compatible before you become romantically involved which protects you as well as the potential partner. That means, take a step back, do casual dates or activities. Were you honest and open to tell her that you were disappointed in the response which you perceived as rejection? I bet you didn't quite get that part???

@tonymacarony701 4 жыл бұрын

@@donnawoodford6641 no, it's dumb to try to be a friend with a woman in order to impress and seduce her

@donnawoodford6641 4 жыл бұрын

Tony Macarony The start of a relationship is a good indicator of how it might finish. For me, it's hard to know the other person's intentions, so I have to keep mine clear and communicate them openly from the start. I can always take what I've learned from a "failed" encounter into the next encounter. People are complex, so relationships may be complicated by desire, cultural expectations, childhood wounds, perceived needs, not understanding yourself, fantasies, etc. I think what you're trying to say is "Be yourself". That is good advice bc if the other person doesn't like you, he/she doesn't like you... thereby, no need to impress someone who doesn't accept you as you are.☀️

@RealityRecovery 2 ай бұрын

Good

@Coffee_n_drafts 4 жыл бұрын

I just kept smiling through the while video,, love is a gift that is worth being shared with the right person

@aneshakhadka1199 6 жыл бұрын

Ahh! What an incredible way to open up and be less awkward! Love this. Thanks for making incredible video @JayShetty 👍🏻

@christeljaneb3854 5 жыл бұрын

I think they are a couple in real life. I can see the connection

@kaktus2781 4 жыл бұрын

They are married I guess. They even have a baby

@somyan8540 4 жыл бұрын

She is beautiful, and this is to show that we can fall in love with absolutely anyone! Ha ha how great is that?

@AshwinPatel-eb6tv 4 жыл бұрын

Its a copy content of Web Series Tea for two.. kzfaq.info/get/bejne/fcuDra-i1t-yl6c.html

@Abi_shek98 4 жыл бұрын

Ashwin Patel atleast check the uploaded date before u comment

@pr4nk5tr 4 жыл бұрын

Like DiCaprio and Winslet

@Bella-lk5lg 4 жыл бұрын

Oh gosh, I was so lost into their conversation and so filled with joy that for a while I almost forgot i was actually watching a Jay's video. I loved the concept, the purity on couple's face and just everything that probably that's what I'm gonna do on my first date ✌️ 😍

@bookwarmtee7750 5 жыл бұрын

I just love that he gives realistic honest opinions. It's all so simple and clear. Makes my day😊

@DanielleJaramilla 6 жыл бұрын

This is actually such a great thing to do because you get to know the person right away!! WOW

@chapstickwarrior9277 5 жыл бұрын

Very realistic acting. Looked really natural.

@FeelGoodWithin 6 жыл бұрын

Yep it's good to ask ques!!! You can know them better & their thinking pattern!!! Thankx so much Jay😊

@moritzschroder 6 жыл бұрын

i found you through impact theory! i love your channel, keep up the good work. i do believe that channels like hours make a real difference 💪

@mscosta91 6 жыл бұрын

I also found him through IT! Loved that interview!

@aleksandrateofilovic 6 жыл бұрын

Me too 😂

@toneman335 6 жыл бұрын

I think that when someone feels they are being "interviewed" they will shape their responses to what they think you want to hear.

@TV-ob1if 4 жыл бұрын

that's true, but it still breaks the ice and you can still see their reactions. eventually the small talk will follow

@mmonroe259 4 жыл бұрын

Totally agree and I feel like so many people online date now that people have perfected their “perfect” responses

@janelouw402 3 жыл бұрын

Yep

@omr-ism 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you Jay Shetty for all you do to make us more aware of ourselves.

@dhruvildave3727 6 жыл бұрын

I recommended this exercise to my sister as she was confused for her partner. After this activity, she got clarity in their relationship. Thank you so much for sharing!

@komaljeet7884 4 жыл бұрын

Watch videos of nanak naam 🙏

@aashibliss2164 3 жыл бұрын

That's so so sweet 🦋❤️

@nibeditamondal7574 6 жыл бұрын

Thanks fr adding more values to our relationships...u r pointing out d Most underrated parts of a relationship wch make a huge difference at large..Thanks . Thanks fr being there with us.. Thanks fr helping us..God bless u

@findingchokhmah 6 жыл бұрын

I think this is great to do even as a couple! Thanks Jay for Keeping it fresh!

@HARU.7243 5 жыл бұрын

I wish I could go for it on my first date .. I had a pretty bad breakup... I agree that to have a good relationship one must have deep conversation... I'll keep that in mind for next one....

@jasrajtoriya5965 5 жыл бұрын

I like the way you make videos. You turn up realities into videos that we are watching....great work !!👍🏻

@iamdeepshekhar 6 жыл бұрын

It's so beautiful. I got tears after watching this. Thank you for bringing such wonderful videos and bless our days . I'm truly grateful to you. Love to you. More power to you!!

@BLACKRAIN390 4 жыл бұрын

SIMP OR GAY

@sheenaks4345 4 жыл бұрын

@@BLACKRAIN390 A Human being .... a sensitive one unlike you .

@BLACKRAIN390 4 жыл бұрын

@@sheenaks4345 FCK SENSITIVITE

@AshwinPatel-eb6tv 4 жыл бұрын

Its a copy content of Web Series Tea for two.. kzfaq.info/get/bejne/fcuDra-i1t-yl6c.html

@Pareshnaik16 6 жыл бұрын

Really amazing, if adapted can give a great results for the new start of relationship...

@youtube.comybvv 5 жыл бұрын

These are such good questions to really break the ice not only on a first date.

@preciousprecious7581 6 жыл бұрын

They both so beautiful

@smalik4854 6 жыл бұрын

Men who cry and are not afraid to get emotional are so rare. I have much respect for them.

@manmohanchhandwal9936 6 жыл бұрын

Is it wierd, when she asked whom would you want to invite as a dinner guest ? In my mind I answered my best friend. Because instead of inviting a celebrity I would like to invite my loved ones 🙃

@nostalgia6068 5 жыл бұрын

Understandable 👍👍❤❤👍👍

@Kaalamansahalamanathayop 5 жыл бұрын

Manmohan chhandwal because those answers are automatic.I dont know its just in dinner we do most with family and friends.so maybe a guest that is far from our reach.

@MistahUnknown 3 жыл бұрын

You already know your best friend and your loved ones. Chances are you already ate with them before. Pick someone that you've never encountered in real life. A celebrity would be a great choice.

@arienpreema1 6 жыл бұрын

Great video!❤ Thank you Jay!😇 Deep questions!🙂

@EkramDOsman 5 жыл бұрын

YOU GOT YOURSELF A NEW SUBSCRIBER! YOU ARE TRULY AMAZING YOUR CHANNEL IS INSPIRATIONAL EVERYTHING

@NFX 6 жыл бұрын

I love this idea, simply because I hate small talk. Whenever I meet people, I'd like to philosoph with them or talk about stuff that is truly important to them or me. Why would I care how the weather is? I can see it on my app, mention one time and move along! I'd like to try this out soon! Great video!

@evanreiter747 5 жыл бұрын

This really opens up my mind. More People need to get to know each other before falling in love to fast. So so inspiring

@Cre8Thought41 Жыл бұрын

I've seen similar videos. This one is okay. I think it's a good idea to agree to ask and answer questions. Yes, it does help to "weed" out or in a person quickly. Love takes time and becoming friends is the first step. If you don't like someone you probably won't go much further. There are so many questions to ask and you don't want to spend the entire first or second date just asking them. Small talk is an important part of communication too.

@Isatouana 6 жыл бұрын

I’m glad that I found this channel :) I really needed it 😊❤️

@trishal.1610 6 жыл бұрын

I love the message of this video 😊 Thank you so much Jay 😊

@eimanhaiqal 5 жыл бұрын

jay i know maybe you won't saw this and i not on relationship or asking to be in relationship but all your video are make me felt good and confidence... thank you so much

@thelmabukikun1485 4 жыл бұрын

I think most relationships fail because we end up meeting people at the wrong places and for the wrong reasons.

@magdalenap.5536 4 жыл бұрын

It's just so nice to look at these actors, starring at each other, laughing, looking deeply into other's eyes. Maybe acting, maybe real connection, nevertheless - fascinating :)

@zahedul_islam 4 жыл бұрын

Very pretty conversation. Acting is so natural.

@Hachi3012 6 жыл бұрын

Brilliant! I definitely used to think abt this but never tried, really love the deep questions which could make our brain work out a bit more... and I love this couple especially the guy's warm smile though they're just acting out there

@thehorncoolgiy 5 жыл бұрын

This is so good and the conversation actually feels so authentic 🖤🖤

@ericakang 4 жыл бұрын

Wonderful and deep questions to ask friends or any person you would like to get closer with in general. Thank you for sharing.

@duneece 6 жыл бұрын

Love this idea!

@AhmedShafi 5 жыл бұрын

This is awesome stuff jay!! Cant thank you enough

@akankshasharma7102 5 жыл бұрын

I love this channel i get to learn alot more it really gives me real teaching of life

@ravipeiris4388 5 жыл бұрын

Great upload. I've been dating someone for 3 months now. We are driving up north to see the forest and nature and I'm going to ask these very same questions during our drive.

@pranavig2340 4 жыл бұрын

This video is so wonderful ❤️ a lot of positivity!

@tammierusby444 2 жыл бұрын

I am going to write these questions down and I'm going to answer these questions for myself 😃 and when I'm ready to start dating again I'm going to ask these questions. I loved this video. It made me smile and I really needed that

@alaminshikderraj2087 6 жыл бұрын

I don't know how much happy jay shetty's other fans will be...but I'm dying to see that day that he's having millions of subscribers...undoubtedly a man like jay deserves that support!!! Actually it'll be wrong if i say he deserves people's support instead millions of people need jay shetty's valuable speeches

@jeannaval4260 5 жыл бұрын

I gotten addicted to watch videos from your KZfaq channel Jay. It's really been helpful and when I knew someone needed this kind of topic, i have been sharing it. And it helped them too! Thanks a lot Jay!

@nithyasri686 5 жыл бұрын

The most perfect words

@natashamelloraindengchee1829 4 жыл бұрын

Best idea ever!!! Now I know what to do on a date. Thank you.

@The-EDM-Route 6 жыл бұрын

Awesome idea of getting to know someone better on a first date through such a way,people should do this more 😁

@celestial5036 6 жыл бұрын

I enjoyed watching this. Reality and based and super cool. If they are a couple for real, i ship! The two of them are beautiful; optimist, and lovely

@pinayako5545 6 жыл бұрын

I keep on smiling... So cute to break the ice on first date...

@quinbee55 6 жыл бұрын

I love this. Made me smile, inside and out.

@leemukaye516 5 жыл бұрын

I love this, and i think going forward in my dating life I'll incorporate this

@isoooalrock 6 жыл бұрын

We need people like jay more in KZfaq real content hats off men

@michaelstrengthmoreno3682 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks Jay this was well prepared and heart felt

@barbaraariho3660 4 жыл бұрын

These are actually good and interesting questions, gets the conversation going coz I see so many follow up questions

@graceshirnisha596 4 жыл бұрын

Oh my God!.... I'm addicted to this video.... I watch it every day!

@raymondng_PA 5 жыл бұрын

Very bright and clever. I do love to make this on my next dating with complete stranger.

@ATrueLoveOfficial 5 жыл бұрын

This idea is quite interesting. Rather than beating around the bush or being somewhat pretentious, asking deep questions immediately is a more effective way to better know someone.

@SharifD-PaletteAnArtdsb 4 жыл бұрын

The lady eyes are filled up with fresh love.. it's pure. 🙂

@SuperMobileFans 6 жыл бұрын

Thanks Jay

@live_lifeor_dye8875 5 жыл бұрын

Yes I would love this.

@hereisalfi 5 жыл бұрын

I know , I m this kind of a person who always ask deep questions from whoever I wanna know 💝 n I'm excited too , to ask these questions from my soulmate ( whenever I'll meet her ) ☺💝

@rebeccaallen2608 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you so kindly for your messages. Wish I had these 50 yrs ago. 😁 Blessings 💚🐾🧚‍♂️🦄

@keziajoyugay2661 5 жыл бұрын

Wow, need to bring this list next time I go in a date ☺️❤️

@bubblyaso3248 3 жыл бұрын

I am big fan of u the viddeos really gives me more relief I love ur videos i just constantly watch ur videos they are just amazing i really appreciate the concept of taking ur videos .I am big fan of u now and to ur videos it really gives a deep meaning .

@mavericktribe8065 Жыл бұрын

Love u bro jay!Truly inspirational buddha in the town.god bless you with perfect health and happiness and prosperity and love and wisdom and understanding.

@THE_UPSC_GIRL369 4 жыл бұрын

I would one day ask him all these,hope i find him at the right time ... thanks jay 😊❤ from 🇮🇳

@zuhaira.elmahgoub7073 6 жыл бұрын

Absolutely love this idea! :D

@giselacasiano3326 3 жыл бұрын

Great!, thank you so much so open an amazing date with this question 🙏🏻. Now I know the best way to meet my partner!!! ❤️

@riapandit5547 5 жыл бұрын

Oh my god!! They looked cute together... 😍

@minalamo1766 5 жыл бұрын

I wish I could meet someone in life who is interesting enough to listen any thing you say about yourself and the way you view things...I'm almost next month I'm gonna be 22 years old...Ever since I was a child till now I have never been in love because I'm scared that if I do i might not be able to protect her or gives her the purest form of love she deserves and also scared that she might not be fit to my way of living...but getting this kind of idea to know each other is really a blessing...and one thing I hope that by the time I met my girl if not on earth but may be in heaven or hell, I wish it could be like the scene in movies.

@khushbuluhar11 6 жыл бұрын

Love this! I really like the girl's smile

@mfo1371 6 жыл бұрын

he wouldn't normally be my type but he's so cute! she's beautiful too!

@nguyenucthinh1245 4 жыл бұрын

I really like videos like this because it helps me learn English, I hope the admin adds Vietnamese subtitles. thank you so much

@lukegenesis 6 жыл бұрын

Jay, I'd love to grab these questions off ya! Such a great idea! 🔥

@divyaacharya7322 6 жыл бұрын

This was amazing..very truthful..

@akshatgusain629 3 жыл бұрын

Im just feeling happy seeing them happy😊😊😊

@bse523 4 жыл бұрын

Did these questions with my current gf about two weeks into our dating. It did everything to bring us closer together. Many laughs and some tears were shared. I highly highly recommend this for any new couple or even if you've been dating a few months.

@MistahUnknown 3 жыл бұрын

@bse523 Are you still in a relationship with her?

@crystalmckinney3151 5 жыл бұрын

They would be a beautiful couple ♡

@lisagibson8561 5 жыл бұрын

Good idea! Thank you, Jay! 😍😍😍

@simonsurovlogs2205 4 жыл бұрын

They looked beautiful together.

@wadebarrett8734 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you!

@ianmartins4582 2 жыл бұрын

She’s beautiful 😍

@lillyvgutierrez9685 4 жыл бұрын

She's beautiful I love her she's my fave

@bradleyveerasamy2392 6 жыл бұрын

Jay Shetty you are the best! 💓

@davidrosenman29 4 жыл бұрын

I'm shy and dating petrifies me...this seems like a good icebreaker.

@markowen7416 4 жыл бұрын

brilliant. thankyou jay

@scarlettfrancesca Жыл бұрын

This was lovely! I am wondering since each person did not answer the question, would you recommend switching questions on the 2nd date so the other person can answer and find out their experiences as well?