Bengi Opens Up About Mum's Murder When He Was 15

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3 жыл бұрын

24-year-old Essex man Bengi reveals how he's different to most Essex boys, and has a spiritual side. Could he have found his soulmate in his date Lara?
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@l.jaynepritchard7294 3 жыл бұрын

He’s so genuine this man, you can tell by his expression when he asked her about her dreams

@maxshepherd926 3 жыл бұрын

I know this guy in real life he’s this genuine too and this is 100% not a front, he’s story about his mother is horrifying.

@ZainabHabib 2 жыл бұрын

Did they end up together? I hope so (as long as they're happy!)

@maxshepherd926 2 жыл бұрын

@@ZainabHabib not sure he went travelling for ages so never saw him.

@festiva93 3 жыл бұрын

So lovely that she made him comfortable enough to share that. Cute couple.

@Chezzgirl69 3 жыл бұрын

He’s got that cocky Essex swag, but he seems like a decent bloke. Hope they went on a second date.

@ilovemysweeties 3 жыл бұрын

"when uve had something hurt you, you will use it to protect someone else" 😭😭😭 love it

@ttp436 3 жыл бұрын

She’s lovely too. Hope it works out for them

@believeinyourself7511 3 жыл бұрын

I like this date. When she mentioned having a place to teach young people about horses. That is great. And he mentioned that he is not materialistic. Yay!!!! So sad about his Mother. God Bless Both of Them. Therapy is wonderful to help us all through tough times in our lives.

@ms.suzanna2511 3 жыл бұрын

He fancies the pants off her - I love it!!!! Wishing you both the best of everything - together 😊

@AviationTV 3 жыл бұрын

Once you break the ice you tend to discover a true personality.

@ttp436 3 жыл бұрын

Sad bout his mum and sad for him too. God bless him

@Ariesmonique 3 жыл бұрын

The world needs more people like these people! ♡

@vickyvuong268 3 жыл бұрын

Very lovely couple. I feel so sorry for Bengi about his loss, but very glad to see him channel his grief into such a meaningful purpose to serve others. She is also very lovely. Their shared desire to help others will make them wonderful and happy together.

@pawlakar 3 жыл бұрын

His story of mom makes me think of my mom All the beautiful moments... And now just memories 😌💓💓💓💔💔💔

@svlagonda7417 3 жыл бұрын

Top bloke. Top babe. I like both of them - they seem so genuine and down to earth.

@levischuurmans9400 3 жыл бұрын

They're both so lovely and genuine, rooting for them. 💜

@robertgelblum5154 Жыл бұрын

What a terrible tragedy for this young man. I can't imagine how he feels, "like a part of his soul is missing," as he said. Still, not what one would normally talk about on a blind date. But she showed much empathy and understanding. They do seem to share values regarding giving back to the community/society. And they seem very much at ease in each other's company. So maybe a promising match?

@ceciliapuime4038 3 жыл бұрын

I just wanna give that guy a hug. That most of been hard so go through that. 💔💔💔💔❤❤❤❤

@noverdehuevos 3 жыл бұрын

I'm dying to see an update about these two!

@RayyBailey 3 жыл бұрын

They’re not together and he’s single now

@justbusiness4223 3 жыл бұрын

When she winked something grew inside of me

@jessicarekker5106 3 жыл бұрын

I like this guy. He is so real. I hope they will work out. ❤️

@denapattison6363 2 жыл бұрын

What a pretty couple. They would have beautiful offspring. Hope they find happiness, even if not with each other

@tacticalgamer4520 3 жыл бұрын

His date is beautiful and that’s sooo sad what happened to his mum he had a hard childhood life growing up I also have experienced a bad childhood life as well sadly 😢

@njh8277 3 жыл бұрын

Great first date topic

@ikkeik3987 3 жыл бұрын

What a great couple, she was so respectfull. His/your mother is watching, just like mine. And she would be so proud!! 🥺🙏💙 he is a good soul and want to do what is right. If you read this, all the best and love mate!

@vidyanair77 2 жыл бұрын

Really felt for him.. Bengi.. hope he does well!!

@craptap2029 3 жыл бұрын

They’re both lovely. This was so sweet!

@manjumarwaha2196 3 жыл бұрын

Aw he’s so nice I wish him all the best🥰

@halethewhale 3 жыл бұрын

Bless this guy man.

@tricialowe1090 3 жыл бұрын

Lovely down to earth couple

@MortazaProduction 3 жыл бұрын

I hope I find someone like that will make me feel comfortable

@kayleighcarter8287 3 жыл бұрын

He’s a lovely person and they are a good match

@christopherd597 3 жыл бұрын

What a nice guy

@AdisaKola 2 жыл бұрын

Such a beautiful couple. Did they end up together?

@snitty1996 3 жыл бұрын

im in love

@beatpirate8 2 жыл бұрын

Omg I’m crying

@SuperMaz1986 Жыл бұрын

Ohh he reminds me of Jonathan Rhys Meyers.

@fifi4326 3 жыл бұрын

Beautiful

@giggitycore1982 3 жыл бұрын

Beautiful woman.

@darryljones8369 3 жыл бұрын

Well, that went well.

@montywormald7089 2 жыл бұрын

What is Lara's last name anyone know

@happydays5989 Жыл бұрын

I think it's great he wants to open up, but this should be saved for a later date. First dates should be light and upbeat, I always appreciate men opening up, but this is quite intense. Seems like a genuine guy, I hope they find love♥️

@johannatheone 2 жыл бұрын

Both gorgeus

@evelynclare7827 11 ай бұрын

Robbie Williams?

@y4zmns879 3 жыл бұрын

Your a strong guy bles you made me upset

@artemi25 2 жыл бұрын

02:28

@iwakuraSanta 3 жыл бұрын

his mom was certainly beautiful ,my mum killed heself .when I was 13

@vantheman1238 Жыл бұрын

Sorry to hear that ❤

@iwakuraSanta Жыл бұрын

@@vantheman1238 it's a long time ago ,60 years ,takes about 30 years to get over it

@lightblue5559 Жыл бұрын

So very sorry for your loss 😔

@jojobee42 3 жыл бұрын

Did they wanna see each other again?

@RapidBlindfolds 3 жыл бұрын

yep :)

@jojobee42 3 жыл бұрын

@@RapidBlindfolds Yay! Thanks. :)

@katieg905 3 жыл бұрын

@@RapidBlindfolds oh really unreal i loved how at ease they were with each other

@lightshine2786 2 жыл бұрын

Beats thinking of evil of world like rulers and banksters

@nevkrisjackson8065 Жыл бұрын

Sad about his Mum. Asleep in death awaiting a resurrection back here on earth soon like my darling husband who died recently. Revelation 21.3+4

@mollywackrow8247 3 жыл бұрын

She looks wasted 😄

@katieaspeling8138 2 жыл бұрын

😂😂

@PMPblue07 3 жыл бұрын

The girl looks like my ex and it's messing with my mind. Mentally yelling “dont trust her!!” “ she's crazy!”

@TomNook. 3 жыл бұрын

Not the first topic of conversation I'd choose for a first date... any date.

@Braddicusfinch 3 жыл бұрын

Massively disagree, coming from a family that has had it's own, but admittedly less, troubles, sometimes you worry people are going to judge you, so getting it out there and seeing the other person react in a considerate fashion feels like a load off the mind. Also, whilst this is a TV show, at the end of the day it's 2 people, she chose to let him tell her, nothing wrong with communication

@mimibehee1112 3 жыл бұрын

I would like to know something like so I can leave 🤣

@OlpyColpy 3 жыл бұрын

Yeah it’s not really first date craic is it

@Braddicusfinch 3 жыл бұрын

@@OlpyColpy Maybe not for yours, but for two people who are both interested in helping other people and appear to have a lot of chemistry, much of which appears to be predicated upon that, that may well be something they both feel fine talking about on a first date. Different strokes for different folks

@gemmarubino4463 3 жыл бұрын

I wouldn't mind if someone were to tell me that on a first date. This must have shaped A LOT who he is now. And that's the person who I actually want to discover. I see that's hard to talk about... Yet. It's life. And you can move on to something else fun and lighter :)

@user-oc7cz3ep6f 3 жыл бұрын

Ngl I use to love this show. But it’s become a sad depressing thing to watch. No dig on them it’s just not as fun and enjoyable anymore.

@kabirsardana1282 Жыл бұрын

you know what. people with this kind of hearts should meet each other. and not get ruined by the hoes and playboys out there. hoes and play boys should not be be allowed anywhere near men and women with such good hearts. im soo happy they found each other and I really hope this goes on long term. PS: any updates on how this is going??? are they together or not??