Jordan Peterson - How To Win Any Argument Every Time

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Jordan Peterson - How To Win Any Argument Every Time
The next time you find yourself embroiled in an argument with someone
that's contentious and uncomfortable say Institute the following rule, you don't get to respond to the person's claims until they've exhausted that
particular claim.
This does presume to some degree that you're dealing with a good faith act or even if they feel differently than you do you don't get to respond until you have recapitulated their Viewpoint and summarized it in a manner they find acceptable that's so treacherously sneaky that rule
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🎓 ABOUT JORDAN PETERSON:
This audio clip was taken and edited from Jordan B. Peterson. Jordan Peterson is a Canadian clinical psychologist and a professor of psychology at the University of Toronto.
Psychology professor Jordan Peterson has become a controversial figure ever since speaking out against Bill C-16 (2016), a law that adds gender expression and gender identity to the Canadian Human Rights Act.
He has received both praise and criticism after the publication of his self-help book 12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos (2018). His fans are thankful for the advice he’s given them to take responsibility for their lives. Peterson has become an important inspiration for various men’s groups, an influential voice.
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@lmjnr1 Жыл бұрын

I always remember what I should have said AFTER the argument

@ernestpaul9954 Жыл бұрын

Me too and it costs me sleep sometimes.....very annoying

@artariviastovall5607 Жыл бұрын

🤣🤣

@survival_man7746 Жыл бұрын

Yeah same and I always try to remember them in case the argument rehappens but it never do 😤

@khadie6370 Жыл бұрын

@@survival_man7746 and when it finally does happen you forget again 😂😂

@sirtobiaseldridge2747 Жыл бұрын

There's a specific term for that - its Staircase wit.

@rules4life337 Жыл бұрын

To have Dr Peterson in the world at this time is such a blessing .

@LuisFlores-sx2cz Жыл бұрын

it truly is. so grateful for him. He woke me the fuck up! Thank you Jordan! I dont know how difficult it is, cant truly imagine.I want to thank you for being a dedicated soul, I wish happiness upon your life and your loved ones.

@aamishazeem3770 Жыл бұрын

@solesurvivor1142 Жыл бұрын

ist it a super dumb idea that there is some sort of technique to win every argument every time? If you'd truly always win then you'd truly always be right. Who is that

@sethandryley Жыл бұрын

Yeah bro im stuck 24/7 listening to his voice because my dad wont get a job, hes a true jordan peterson viewer

@starcultiniser Жыл бұрын

@@solesurvivor1142 yeah but that wouldn't get your attention as much, its called clickbait.

@shakhzodrakhimov Жыл бұрын

You don’t have to win every argument. because it is impossible to win every time, you will lose sometimes, it is inevitable. Let your actions speak for themselves, not your words. simply because most of the time, words are nothing.

@macmac1022 Жыл бұрын

I dont want to win, I would rather lose. I already know the point I am making so there is nothing to be gained for me here. If I lose and the other person did have a convincing argument, then I have gained by new knowledge and gotten rid of a false idea, getting closer to truth. At the same time though, I want to live around people who do that same so, they need to lose to learn too heh.

@onniruusunen9444 Жыл бұрын

@@macmac1022 exactly. it's not about winning, it's about learning new things to become closer to the truth

@JonathanFingers Жыл бұрын

Not true, I always win.

@tearfulcat7773 Жыл бұрын

@Shakhzod Rakhimov you can't show someone with your action why guns should be legal or not. Sometimes you have to find other way to let them see your point

@shakhzodrakhimov Жыл бұрын

@@tearfulcat7773 As far as I'm concerned, words doing nothing either. With actions, you can at least send a stronger message whereas verbal combat is childish. (in a serious situation)

@FakeExotic Жыл бұрын

My brain always functions after losing the argument

@erotsica 4 ай бұрын

For real, why does this always happen

@elanalistaa8121 Жыл бұрын

Nice video, I think cutting the video into different chapters is very useful since they’re educational, So separating points are good for the mind to process

@Andre-eo9io Жыл бұрын

ALSO; It's important to remember that, if you're talking to someone who seems combative, they might actually not be listening. They may just be hearing 'keywords' when you speak, then form a counter-argurment from these, while you're still speaking, and spew this out. This isn't truly listening, processing, comprehending, and replying, it's just you vs. their own ego - as are most arguments. At this point, there's no 'winning,' other than listening and really pausing and setting the pace. If this doesn't work, then simply re-itterate the point of the conversation/end goal, and ensure they're on that same path. There's less right/wrong, and more feeling with thus type of communication imo.

@lessismore8533 Жыл бұрын

You just described my younger sibling! I can tell he’s NOT listening and just looks for keywords to reverse back on me. It’s very immature

@mar__k Жыл бұрын

Title is misleading.

@whited5009 Жыл бұрын

I love that they decided to go more in depth with better call Saul! Really explained what he was doing during the episodes.

@thememegod629 Жыл бұрын

i’m not even worried about winning i just want them to understand me

@poogo1853 Жыл бұрын

I understand you bruh ✌🏻

@Kana-vv6iv Жыл бұрын

I immediately ask a new question because people don’t want to learn something new.

@astrixtube Жыл бұрын

same lmao

@koburrr Жыл бұрын

deep

@VxplzPlays Жыл бұрын

That was deep

@xshay2906 Жыл бұрын

Me and my batch mate, we both saw this video on how to win an argument. We both excelled and read facts to counter each other's argument. Now, there's only one way to settle the argument, "Primitive Duel".

@vCHICHARRONv Жыл бұрын

Thank you Saul ❤

@mattalley4330 Жыл бұрын

Great approach to an informal debate/argument. Responding to a claim with scorn and derision, even it’s an outrageous one, just causes people to become more cemented in their views. Making sure the person your arguing with knows you understand their position tells them that you care enough about them to hear them out. This approach is more likely to build bridges with opponents

@andrewreillymusic2773 8 ай бұрын

What if you don't care about hearing them out though? I let people know exactly how I feel and if I don't like someone, I don't pretend to. I will insult you until the cows come home. If you push me, I will strike back. An eye for an eye, as the Bible says.

@mattalley4330 8 ай бұрын

@@andrewreillymusic2773 interesting. Why don’t you care about hearing out those you disagree with?

@andrewreillymusic2773 8 ай бұрын

@@mattalley4330 it really depends on the person. I try to hear most people out but every now and then I run into someone who is so arrogant I cannot have a debate with them. Anyone full of themselves is not worth listening to.

@mattalley4330 8 ай бұрын

@@andrewreillymusic2773 Fair enough. I encounter lots of people like that too. Sometimes it’s wise to know when to walk away from a pointless debate that you know won’t go anywhere. Peace

@shaharbruck Жыл бұрын

Animation got much better, good job!

@user-nr6up7xt9b Жыл бұрын

Shalom

@gottago1885 Жыл бұрын

@@user-nr6up7xt9b careful

@XenomorphgamerBR Жыл бұрын

If you're having a discussion with someone, there's no "lose" or "win". Both will lose or both will win. If you're thinking about losing or winning, then you don't care about the argument at all, you care about how people see you, it's just about feeding your ego. The only way to win an argument is when both you and the person you're arguing change your way of thinking, because if nobody changes how they think, isn't the discussion a loss of time?

@lessismore8533 Жыл бұрын

Yes there’s lot of PRIDE involved. One person doesn’t want to change while they only want the OTHER person to. But that’s not how it works. This usually happens with siblings

@alwaysmiling1 9 ай бұрын

I see your point but if something important is on the line then the point of the argument doesn't just become about pride it becomes about influencing the situation to fit your goals

@XenomorphgamerBR 9 ай бұрын

@@alwaysmiling1You have a good point, but in these discussions the content of the argument does not matter, but how it is presented. That's why you can spread lies that way

@alwaysmiling1 9 ай бұрын

@@XenomorphgamerBRthat's true

@DivingHawker 8 ай бұрын

I agree, the best way to see it in my opinion is to not look for a win or loss, but to look for an answer, an explanation. Hell, there can even be multiple valid answers and explanations on the subject as debating should be more akin to brainstorming that dueling in my opinion.

@erfanzaki4562 Жыл бұрын

*thank you KZfaq for recommending this*

@nicoliasstephens320 3 ай бұрын

Dr. JP giving keys to life. 🔑

@saliderygo-getterhaile568 Ай бұрын

Our Dr is Peculiar

@zoidsfan12 Жыл бұрын

Ok I have immediately picked up on why arguments end up lasting forever for me. I and the person I'm talking to construct strawmen to breakdown instead of truly acknowledging eachother. Thanks. And honestly I wouldn't even be willing to accept this if it wasn't for self reflecting from prior videos mainly about changing yourself before changing others.

@rhodesboyson1700 8 ай бұрын

Best to study logic and critical thinking at the school of philosophy. Jordan is not an expert by any stretch of the imagination.

@smellyskin4775 Жыл бұрын

Thank you Saul Goodman

@joshikrishna7118 Ай бұрын

Great ❤❤

@josephwhittaker2866 8 ай бұрын

Wow so much clarity,thanks again Dr Peterson 😊

@philmachunt3356 8 ай бұрын

Great advice. You can practice by playing devil's advocate with yourself. This helps you come up with some possible counterargument responses or find flaws in your perspective.

@adliberate 8 ай бұрын

I love the whole Inception audi take on this. Great!

@lmjnr1 Жыл бұрын

Dr Peterson is a legend

@Ryouku_ Жыл бұрын

Dislike button for the guy above me

@bishcake0879 Жыл бұрын

@@jrage7207 💀

@carljohnson-io1xo Жыл бұрын

@@Ryouku_ W you

@MudkipsAreEpicWin Жыл бұрын

legendarily stupid

@NATURALGAMING Жыл бұрын

@@jrage7207 L

@uriahmajor7479 7 ай бұрын

I’m a King✊🏽 Thanks G I needed that

@ielhassan868 Жыл бұрын

Great video, the thumbnail is very graphic, I was just trying to get it away from my screen.

@dancho9002 Жыл бұрын

So the way to win an argument is being well informed on the matter at hand and using it wisely to your advantage, wow never thought of that.

@yu-ger-bloob-highway3521 8 ай бұрын

I think one of the most important aspects of conversation is entertaining the idea that perhaps you might not be right in your position. To many people speak without being perceptive past their own bias. Even if you’re an expert at something, if you don’t value the ideas of others you’re no wiser than someone who knows nothing on the subject.

@rhodesboyson1700 8 ай бұрын

And Jordan isn't an expert on anything he talks about 😂 the school of psychology is a joke 😂

@yu-ger-bloob-highway3521 5 ай бұрын

@@rhodesboyson1700 🤔 Yeah… that’s just not true lol. Understanding the brain and thus emotion and how that affects others has been very beneficial to make critical independent contributions to the alleviation of suffering. Social determinants of health, such as education, adequate food and nutrition, a reasonable standard of living, work opportunities and equitable treatment are prime examples. They help people with mental disabilities from moderate to severe and are proven to save at least $1 trillion globally with increase of productivity for people that include things for example, like anxiety and depression. To deny there isn’t a net benefit to society through psychology is just ignorant. If we can agree that it is beneficial, and that Jordan Peterson: as an accomplished professor and author of the subject, at least has knowledge and understanding of that field enough to teach it and write about it, (again, not really up for debate, it’s just a fact), then ultimately your statement boils down to simply being a Peterson hater to cope or you’re just incredibly ignorant. Either way, your statement couldn’t be further from the truth.

@SoloMotivation Жыл бұрын

*THIS IS FOR YOUR SUCCESS* No matter what’s going on in your life right now, i am very sure there’s something and somewhere you’re missing it, so try and get a means that will have you feeling inspired, motivated, and understood; so you can take your next steps to success. Because your success and greatness is my pleasure Thanks for reading I LOVE YOU 💕 😘

@semhd585 Жыл бұрын

I hope u have a goodnight

@lilbitofOverdrive 8 ай бұрын

Dr Peterson sure does take the scenic route on conversations.

@carrots1182 Жыл бұрын

Thanks, Owen Wilson

@George.Coleman 8 ай бұрын

Finding a solution and compromising is the only win. If they cant meet in the middle, try guilt tripping making and them see what would happen, if still nothing, put them down by exposing them, tell everyone you can but remain silent to the person youve argued with until they reason.

@milanw_ 8 ай бұрын

What I often find is that as soon as you start to take your opposite seriously and validate their opinion, they often lose interest in continuing the discussion. A lot of people are interested in having an argument, but not in having a conversation, especially on social media.

@calvinblack2167 8 ай бұрын

It’s not about winning a argument it’s about who’s in the right and who’s in the wrong.. if people knew what’s right and what’s wrong in life then the world would be a better place.. but to many people hate admitting they are in the wrong. So it’s a self problem.

@H.K.5 3 ай бұрын

Losing an argument is such a horrible feeling, your ego just shatters into bits and you don’t feel as confident anymore.

@thechristwholaughs9925 Жыл бұрын

I concur!

@Way2Randomofficial Жыл бұрын

I have already one just about every argument in _several different scenarios_ I've had due, to the wisdom my father has equipped me with. That said, it's nothing compared to the Great JP. But I have to say, the shutting up if someone is ignoring you, definitely is something that didn't even cross my mind.

@rhodesboyson1700 8 ай бұрын

😂😂😂 exactly bro ;) Maybe you are just autistic?

@deathchips926 8 ай бұрын

I highly recommend Chris Voss who is a master of negotiation to further your understanding of some of these concepts, especially in the form of listening to someone's argument and receiving it while showing them that you're listening. When Peterson mentions "it sounds like you're making x argument" it's taken almost directly from the playbook of Voss's approach which in his terminology is called "labeling". It's a highly effective tool and can easily help you approach difficult conversations and find more common ground with someone who has differing opinions.

@isaiahgodsson9031 Жыл бұрын

Damn this extremely helpful especially in these generations today!

@timothyernst9197 8 ай бұрын

36k likes and no downvotes with 765k views. Jordan is remarkable.

@patrickmchargue7122 Жыл бұрын

Especially useful in a marriage. (that you value)

@greedsworld295 Жыл бұрын

Arguing with women is useless, just make them feel better

@fideltuda4678 Жыл бұрын

Just look at them as if they are saying nothing walk up and leave calm back when she is ready to stop arguing. Works for me

@gmindset79 Жыл бұрын

The only weapon you have, metaphorically speaking, is your attention. Most women love drama, and if you give them attention when they try to stir up an argument, then you simply walk away for a day or 2. Ignore their texts until they beg you to come back. The attention you give them, is their reward. Don't reward bad behavior.

@joes9918 Жыл бұрын

Wife , when are you going to clean up this mess? Me, what do mean by this? Or by mess? Wife, no response. Flying shoe whizzes by my head.

@gmindset79 Жыл бұрын

@@joes9918 She's the man of your relationship and you're the woman.

@CrankySuturis Жыл бұрын

I'm going to use this on the internet

@trumanhw 7 ай бұрын

1. Rappaport's Rules // Steel Man their point (strategic empathy)

@okendman2655 Жыл бұрын

Just had an argument, went well, could’ve went better, Imma watch this video to see if I learn anything lol

@ahsanaliiqbalansari2354 Жыл бұрын

The advice that I can give you is that don't argue or discuss a matter you have already discussed or argued before even if the other person tries to argue with you about that don't pick it up this way their ego will get satisfied and you gonna save lots of time

@invictusmaneo464 8 ай бұрын

Nikdo se s Váma nehádá!!! Všechno je pravda... Nemá cenu oponovat... Jste prostě hrozně dobrý...

@FlowLikeWater429 8 ай бұрын

Peterson nailed the old Chinese idiom 三人行必有我师 at the end

@nea3701 3 ай бұрын

facts

@jameszezulinski 8 ай бұрын

What I’ve learned is ignore everyone, and be happy you will always win. 🏆

@FStandsForFun 8 ай бұрын

So basically said: -If you are in an argument you have to listen to him/her. -If he doesn't want to listen you have to leave.

@lukax0352 Жыл бұрын

As a future lawyer, this video is awesome!

@milanjans1957 Жыл бұрын

Nobody cares that you are a future lawyer except for you

@christophercharlestin9640 Жыл бұрын

@@milanjans1957 i care

@ransi_07 Жыл бұрын

XDDD

@Rimson18 Жыл бұрын

thanks to saul good man your going to win every arguements

@dailyfamilyguy9409 Жыл бұрын

Are you going to be corporate lawyer or lawyer in court

@ralphstruexperiencesolutio8472 Жыл бұрын

WE NEED 2GET DAT!!!!

@FlexLogs Жыл бұрын

It is very intresting that youtube recommends this to me 20 minutes after I had an argument with a best friend that resulted in us agreeing that we will not be talking to eachother anymore

@MrAmisto Жыл бұрын

The point isn't to win. It's to both come to a understanding.

@lessismore8533 Жыл бұрын

Yea and my annoying younger sib ALWAYS thinks he’s the victim so mutuality via impossible with him

@H.K.5 3 ай бұрын

I come from a prideful family so my mentality will always be about winning and losing no matter what. I can’t change.

@brigginspa 8 ай бұрын

The challenge for me in an argument is having a strong enough opinion on something I believe is worth winning.

@bigblackdaddy6969 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for showing me this video, now I will win the argument that I should own planet Earth

@dragonsuper6195 Жыл бұрын

I'm wondering, if you ask a question, and/or make a statement, and the other person makes a rhetorical statement, while adding his own bias, whilst vehemently denying the previous point, what action should that entail toward?

@worksofxtv9158 Жыл бұрын

@ 1:20 Mads Mikkelsen and Gillian Anderson as Dr. Hannibal Lecter and Dr. Bedelia Du Maurier. Who won?

@Noallegiance 8 ай бұрын

One of the best tools to help win arguments is pause. Sometimes for what seems too long.

@ShowUsTruth Жыл бұрын

I don't want to win I want the truth!

@khushwantdahire6313 Жыл бұрын

I just love you sir 😔🫂😘

@amocatz2321 Жыл бұрын

Well I mean this all is fine and dandy if you're actually heard but what if they don't care what you say they're just out to get you? This has been my whole life against family but it has certainly toughened me. I just wish I could be heard.

@atlas2296 Жыл бұрын

"Tip 1: Just dont be wrong"

@mikeyyy08_ Жыл бұрын

were you running left and right from the mic?

@hickkuppsmallz1778 Ай бұрын

Hey , I'm not sure who to talk to but we need to stand together closely they are deep with it the sides of understanding still upsets them they don't get it , and they are only looking for new ways to manipulate please idk what to do

@Tchakatchakanabuchakka Жыл бұрын

Por favor amigo põe uma legenda pra nois ae!! A propósito mto foda o conteúdo 👏👏

@user-wo6qn3vf9n 25 күн бұрын

Just say you agree with the others even though you don't, the truth is always there no mater what other people say.

@danielwatson6529 8 ай бұрын

wish this had popped up 2 days ago 😂

@MarshallLeeFlames 9 ай бұрын

Omg, the last tip was something I used without me noticing. It was a dude that was trying to make a point in saying that the Americans weren't really too opressed by the Spanish empire rather than themselves. I just walked it off, just because I said that the Spanish empire did horrible things to the Americans, and he refused to listen.

@blakelarner1772 Жыл бұрын

Not going to watch, but I will say if you're going into an argument thinking about "winning it" you've already lost. The objective is to convince your verbal sparing partner or allow yourself to be convinced by them, if they are indeed right, not batter them to the ground and dominate the discourse. If the only thing gained after an argument is both you and your opponent feeling completely in the right, you have both lost.

@XenomorphgamerBR Жыл бұрын

That's exactly what I was thiking.

@Kana-vv6iv Жыл бұрын

I just go, " oh i don't know the password "

@brendancoulter5761 3 ай бұрын

The title of the video is entirely misleading. Hes not talking about winning an argument, hes actually talking about facing an argument honestly.

@zodiac909 Жыл бұрын

I could have life discussions with Jordan Peterson for years. He's a living legend.

@lilitea-time2460 Жыл бұрын

I’m very obsessed with the human to human relations and just humanity so I study a lot of that type of stuff, I’m very quick thinking, it’s more like someone turned a button on me , when they are acting narcissistic and I go to automatic educated gangster and they end up irritated and walking away because they couldn’t “get” one on me, there’s also a lot of power to admitting fault and being like so? And continue on with the point, and maybe make an example of your own plight whilst arguing to show you can be humble

@mr.snoopy_bdon6609 Жыл бұрын

that great

@cassandra_classic 8 ай бұрын

It sounds to me that what he's saying here is that the only way to TRULY win an argument is not to argue at all, but instead to hear a new viewpoint, and expand your knowledge of the world. I like the sound of that :D

@SanMigueldeAllendeProperties Жыл бұрын

Some act like: argument = biased perception.

@mukoshh 4 ай бұрын

This is great but the sound balancing across clips is so annoying 🤣 Basically have to watch this with my finger on volume slider

@rickgarcia7334 8 ай бұрын

Empathic listening? 😊

@andreib4226 Жыл бұрын

Wow. It actually wasn't clickbait. I was expecting to hear something like "don't argue" 😂

@melvinvanderbeek Жыл бұрын

Hahaha

@elsenored562 Жыл бұрын

Didn't Stephen Covey day something like that 20 or 30 years ago in his 7 Habits book?

@melonbythesea Жыл бұрын

learned this in dc lang

@JamesAllred-Parasauce Жыл бұрын

Not a fan of the macabre thumbnails. Love Peterson!

@roterfuchs8201 8 ай бұрын

Who drew/made or where did you find the artwork on this vids thumbnail?

@mixity0 Жыл бұрын

say this "stop arguing with me" and keep saying it

@tutuxingxjk 4 ай бұрын

Wow, it's a hot feeling joining an argument. How do rules work when I can't refer them. Destruction is easier to happen

@justadictatorridingonanuke3714 Жыл бұрын

You can't win an argument every time. As the saying goes it is difficult to win an argument with a smart person but impossible to win an argument with a stupid one. There will always be someone that will not change their mind no matter what even if they know they are wrong

@rhodesboyson1700 8 ай бұрын

Ergo: Jordan is stupid 😂

@knappieboy 8 ай бұрын

Imagine wanting to "win" an argument instead of going in with the goal to learn something from another's point of view or just simply agree to disagree because we all come from different backgrounds

@bogdanswierczek4288 Жыл бұрын

Sounds like Bob Odenkirk

@denote7398 Жыл бұрын

Lately I’ve been encountering situations where it seems I’m constantly battling with making sure everyone’s feelings are okay. It’s like I can’t get passed that shit just to have a regular conversation like I have in the old days. It’s extremely annoying. Makes me want to just be alone.

@christopheramaro333 8 ай бұрын

What do we get from "winning" an argument?

@MuziekRuben 8 ай бұрын

Please fix the sound!

@thatoneguy1312 Жыл бұрын

i would say the number one rule is to take your time and think about your response

@lessismore8533 Жыл бұрын

Yea sadly my arrogant younger sibling does NOT do this

@valeriomenghini6219 Жыл бұрын

1) argue on something you are right and let facts speak

@Older_Mountain-goat_1984 8 ай бұрын

To the video creator, I'm interested in hearing your thoughts on the video title, as my interpretation of said video doesn't find JBP mentioning anything about winning arguments.

@ivanstayner8818 Жыл бұрын

I have a rule. The second someone insults you in the argument. You have won. Walk away. You won.

@friedchicken1 8 ай бұрын

I tried this and it worked! Only I left her wondering why in the hell I had a Canadian accent

@aaroncatolico7550 Жыл бұрын

Right, but how do you handle people that you give a chance to speak, and that's all they do, even when it's your turn, they consistently cut you off. It still results in an argument.