Look, I'm 33 today and from my experience I can say that if you aren't financially stable don't ever think about dating. Its a waste of your time. Try to reach to that level at least where you can actually afford relationship with your opposite sex. Simple.

Remember, don't chase girls. Be the best version of yourself, grind hard and achieve whatever you want in life and let girls chase you.

Our vibe attracts our tribe, for both girls and boys. If you are unhealthy you will attract unhealthy, if you are unambitious you will attract similar people, not just as a partner but as a friend also. Just focus on improving yourself and see what kind of relationships you attract be it love or platonic.

Perfectly right what you have said ! For girls too : aukaat is very important . To all the girls reading this : 1. Do some physical activity daily whether gym, yoga, cycling or dance . 2. Increase your knowledge through books, videos and podcasts daily . 3. Find a hobby or do something new like painting, calligraphy, travelling or learn public speaking etc . 4. Set Goals and achieve it . You go girl🔥

From the title I thought this is about money. And it actually isn't. "Aukaat" here is used for a broad range of qualities. Great video.

Truth Always Helps Truth Always Benefits "Bitter is Always Better"

Sir honestly.. if someone was there to give us this advice 10 15 years ago... Our lives would have been different... Thank u anyways

A well groomed, happier and productive boy is what a girl looks for and the same goes for girls. The best genes matches the best 👌 Pick up lines👌

Sir, basically, supply and demand is heavily skewed in Indian dating scene. Guys are like hay in a stack and women are like flowers. What guys fail to understand is that they can choose to be a strong tree rather than hay. And if a girl doesn't choose you? No problem, there are millions of flowers from different gardens to choose ;)

I fully agree with you. I broke up with my ex because of the same reason. He didn't want to grow in his life. He had no goals which made me realise that he is not the right person for me. Now I am single but still happy. I am an ambitious girl from childhood and that's why I can't stay with a person who has no ambitions in life.

I am a woman but i still love watching your videos because they are based on true facts.

As a mom I watch your videos to make sure my kid is on the right track

I had a breakup then I started listening to you sir now im a mbbs student 👨‍⚕️ because of your motivation and im looking forward in my life love you sir

1) Follow right path 2) Focus on fitness 3) Be a intresting man 4) Have some hobbies 5) Develop personality Improve 1% daily, next year you will be 37% better than today. Last but not least 6) Don't be chomu, Chamanlal 😅😂

Agreed with you sir, don't trapped in dating games.both girl's nad boys should Focus on themselves, their career, health, education , skills.make your personality attractive not for others but for yourself to brighten your life.you get what you deserve so focus on that not dating to this level.

MY To DO List for next 4 months :- 1. Will Add activity such as Walking/cycling or exercise atleast on weekend 2. Will Loose 8 kg weight in next 4 months. i.e (88 to 80). 3.Will upgrade my software skill to switch from service based org to product based organization to increase my salary and to change my work environment. 4. Will review this comment after 4 months. Wish me Luck guys ! I think It is realistic and achievable right?

Mr. Chetan, the work you are doing here, is very valuable! Many times, young guys who venture out into the world make mistakes because they have no one to guide them, at the right time. You, who have gone through the rough grind yourself, are the right person to do so now! More power to you and thank you so much!😀👍

Its time for make "Aukaat "guy's 🔥

When you're 18 - I want to have a girlfriend, I am loser for being single. When you're 30 plus - I miss my single years.

Even girls get rejected by boys who are in their best aukat.Totally agree with you sir... Build your aukat first and then jump into dating business 🙏

I'm 20 year 5 month old..... U r really great sir.... I randomly found ur video and watch it...i am preparing for defense examination... Aaj se double hard work krunga and job k bad he dating wating k bare me Sochunga

I am Girl,and I agree with you. Don't dating someone without knowing that he has not issue with your awe...kaat😭🧐🥺and it is bitter truth ofcourse 🙏💯🌍💕Keep Smiling 😊

I totally agree with it 👍 I am an ias aspirant and try to make myself more productive and professional person.

Aukaat badane ke 10 tips- 1. Strong mind, 2. Mind clearity, 3. Present of mind, 4. Though clearity, 5. Strong eyes contact, 6. Strong talking skills, 7. Dearness, 8. Strong temperament, 9. Believe in your dignity, 10. And finally most important Believe in yourself 👍🏻💪🏻👍🏻💪🏻👍🏻🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

So correct! every girl wants some basic things in a guy: 1. A sense of purpose and goal 2. Discipline to fulfill that purpose and goal 3. A financial stability in life 4. Not so thin and not so fat normal body (muscles and abs are bonus) and dressing sense 5. Basic decency , table manners and chivalry 6. An interesting hobby or passion about which you can talk, at least average communication skills 7. honesty, straightforwardness, respect and understanding 8. This one is subjective but smoking and drinking are anyway bad for your liver and lungs so would be great if you can avoid. I know it's a long list but guys you will get a decent girl only when you yourself are a decent guy. Start working towards each of the point slowly. You'll be happy, fulfilled and content when you'll achieve this. This will even eliminate self doubt, possessiveness and many more negative traits. Any girl will fall in love with you!

Being a girl I think whatever he said is 100% true ,that's really what girls look for in a guy !! ❤️

Even though I haven't read any of your books sir but I respect the fact you're using your influence in a positive way, talking on topics to guide the youngsters. Much respect sir.

Your biggest strength is your simplicity - be it in writing, talking, selection of topics, even your way of life! And this is really great work for today's youngsters!! 👍👍👌👌 Congrats!!

Even for girls, its very important to be in a good frame of life whether it be career , education or health , totally agree with chetan sir... so firstly be in a stable and happy phase of life and then try to welcome another life 💜

Sir I read a book after a very long time. 400 days kept me on the edge throughout the read. I loved the characters and especially the end. Keshav really showed us the art of letting go so beautifully in a way that you feel bittersweet and not resent after reading the last page. This is probably your best book yet.I remember when I was 13 i read 2 states and now at 23 i finished reading 400 days.

Totally agreed sir we want this type of bitterness to survive life's competition. It's better than any motivational videos with background music.😇😇😇😇

More power to you sir.Thank you for making relevant content.Atleast someone is addressing the real issues of younger generation.

My goodness Chetan Sir 😂 Your storytelling (showing mirror) level OG 🔥 Perfect combination of Realism and Motivation.

It's always about us, whatever he says is not only about relationship, dating or getting a girl 'aukaat' the word is actually indicating to developing our skills, personality and many things.

So on point! The problem with youths is that they don't want to listen the reality and instead they'll have a faith in unreal thing and will carry to follow that thing But finally you are telling the bitter better truth in a most respectful manner!👏🏻

Thank you for this reality check. We needed this.

Truly great guidance and direction for young men. Chetan Sir U rock!💯

Your content is so amazing and extremely beneficial for youth. Thank you for being on KZfaq 🙏🌟 , sharing stuff & giving us constant reminder (mirror) of where we stand.

This is real communication. The way you are putting your thoughts in words is simply amazing. I was not searching for any vid about dating and all but just came through it and wanted to see what Mr. Chetan has to say about it. You simply nailed it. I need to watch your all videos and gonna start reading your novels.

I am a 12th passout. Currently in the drop year preparing for JEE and Career is the one thing which will change my aukaat.

Aukaat…which is very common word we use but many must have understood now the real meaning of it….n content was so nice…really enjoyed the topic sir🔥🙌🏻

Let me tell u guys ....this applies equally to girls also....first have an AUKAAT n then find a man or may be u wont even need to put efforts to find a man then

Very well said ! Applicable for both men and women 😊👌

Sir, we needed this hard realization and a slap because we easily believe lies and ignore the harsh reality. Thanks for sharing this valuable advice with us.

You are like a virtual mentor to me sir. Thank you for keeping us on track

Thank you sir .. love you lots ❤️ bring more content like this .. on business.. entrepreneurship and innovation and startup

Sir dating is not a problem nowadays, the problem is infidelity in so called relationships, which has become a major blocker in finding suitable and trustworthy partner. Chetan sir if you are reading this comment please make a video on this topic !

If we sum all the words of Chetan sir: Simply it will be “Ladki rahegi tab jab zindagi me aukaat rahegi”

Its just extra things which we get for free after buying the main product, first focus on buying main product

Amazing advice Sir, Self development is very much important, it helps to build confidence and makes more attractive personality and charming. It's true that everyone knows there Aukaat , and have to work upon it👍💯

I'll follow some simple steps 1.No- junk food, sugar & PMO 2.Finishing off my syllabus within 2.5 months 3.Making Meditation part of my life.

Boys , buddha bano , buddhu nahi ..... "A young boy who leaves his wife to be the gautam buddha" "fight with your emotions before fighting others "

"Bitter" Truth --> "Better" Truth

Cheers to all guys who started working of themselves just because of the breakup like they got to know about their insecurity I'm one of that choomu lal but now good to go ❤️

Another Great video Chetan Sir!❤️👍 I am 22, and i never approached a girl because i feel uncomfortable to talk to girls sometimes.. I will improve and Will have enough courage to date a girl💙

from today, i will work on my AUKAAT. Thank you chetan sir for giving me such a great life advice related to dating and career. i will remember the points which you discussed in this video, i will definitely attain the perspectives given by you in my mind and i am really gonna work on my growth, progress and career. thanking you again for giving me the advice which i really needed at the current scenerio of my life. Thank you chetan sir.

Listen first if you were watching chetan sir videos it means you know where are you right Now life m ky krna hai goal hai yr we are so blessed we have someone who mentor us. Start wake up early at least 6 am every morning go for run or do some exercise yoga etc read English newspaper set a goal and chase it... Don't chase girl's first career. Trust me it will shape you a better person..

To see your videos is like a Christmas 🎄🎄🎄 gift to me..thank you very much Chetan sir for inspiring me..

Truth is hard to digest. But yeah it is good for health🔥👍✨ Love your work..

Sir , You are just awesome 😎 . You just portrayed the whole generation along with me . Chamanlal or Sandy ❌ , Being the best You ✅ is the only thing you have to be . Aukat in general sense is money actually . Every other things you mentioned will generally improve . And Thank You , Sir 💕 .

Sir can connect with u, so closely, I practice most of the things u mentioned, Iam preparing for upsc, and ur advices act as fuel in my journey, ur true icon sir!! We love u!! ❤

Absolutely agreed on ur thought process sir nowadays boys do comments girls post only to impress them but bitter truth is girls didn't even like comments. I think this video helps a lot for Instagram lovers those who only use insta for comments and likes on girls post.. We appreciate ur thoughts.. And definitely some people will follow ur mantra for their successful life..

I have been listening 👂 you from the very beginning , and i must say sir , what ever you say in each of your videos is 1000% correct

Outstanding....you just simply doing the very BEST! .. Thank you

You r the best chetan sir🙏🏻💯.. kya mast topics pr contents banate ho aap. very useful

10 rs ka coca cola chetan bhaiya aag ka golaa 😂😂... Very nice video sir, uh r one of the best motivators ... Great job 💕

Love your honesty, Thanks for being a true big brother.

Sir You can connected and gel with all the youth very easily...All your videos influenced to me like my close friend telling me something.. You can also become a great politician who can lead the youths towards right path😊

Thank you sir for continue motivation and Guidence. Love From Kashmir.

Sir i think you said the right thing today all guys wants power, hierarchy, partner, fame and wealth but they don't do anything to achieve all these attributes. They just want everything but they do nothing

After watching ur whole video, I wanna thank U for posting such informative video for ur audience 🙌 !! Im myself trying to tell my friend these points from yrs but, they wont listen at all !! Im doing this thing of good physic, skillset, hobbies, scheduling my entire day for last 3-4yrs and trust me it changed my life 100% !! The satisfaction & the amount of gratitude U have while going to the bed at night, its pricesless !! Make a change today folks !! And thx Chetan Sir 🤝 !!

Yes, agreed We need to work on ourselves and make it impressive personality to become more interesting person. Love your video sir !

Sir you are great your valuable content give us more confident to go forward for young youths. Thanks you sir .😊

Your videos are always inspiring me sir , keep creating this kind of inspirational videos sir 🙏❤️

That`s exactly what I wanted to hear. Thankyou so much sir !

Things to do: 1.Get a job that I want and deserve 2.Do HIITS and Running daily 3.Get some hobbies in my life which involves me 'actually' doing something PS: Thank you Chetan Sir for putting me on the right track. There are lot of problems in our lives but we should focus on the solution Edit: I will update you guys after 6-8 months Update September'22: I got a job offer from Deloitte USI. As far as fitness is concerned, I am able to run for 10 km with little breaks, but sadly I haven't worked on any new hobbies yet. Still I feel that I can do better with my life

Yes sir, starting making aukaat Made me proud and happy ☺️☺️

You are the real path maker for youngsters ❤️

Thanks alot Chetan sir for telling the bitter truth of life . Some times it getting hard to focus on the goal and some distraction attracted me toward itself . At that time you need any one one special a girl who keep you to focus on goal and make good aukat but problem is that to get a good girl firstly you hv to do on yr aukaat .

Each and everything you are saying is the bitter truth of today's generation. Thank you for your advice.

•I am agree with you chetan sir, •The selection of a topic is best 🙌🔥. •It is true for girls too ... •"If you want the best then; forget about the rest and do your best !! •Increase your worth. •Its one of my resolutions in 2022😘🔥🔥

There a fact I realised by experience - Everyone goes for atleast +1 then who the actually are, be it in any dimension. And chase them hard when they feel that this particular person is a much better person to have on your side throughout life. Hence, be that +1 person (girl or boy) and dating things will fall in place, hopefully you too will have options and be chased by someone. Be the competent, success will have no other option then to follow you. PS: its always easier said then done. Following the above takes alot, but be consistent. Good luck 👍✌

I'm allign with all the things that you shared in this video. And from now i'll do the things to build my Aukat. Thank you

Yes Sir, I'm going to follow your words, not because I want any girl but I want the best version of me. Thank you for your valuable Information ☺️❤️

Sir you are one of the best youth icons ever. You are someone who guide us the best. Thank you so much

Aukaat isnt a good word in my opinion. Just be connected to yourself, once you establish that connection with yourself, perfect partner will automatically come to you. As the connection with yourself will build such a positive aura around you that the positive energies will do it for you. 😊

Aapka ye wala video isiliye baar baar dekhte hai ...taki ek ek word dimag me chap jaye ...kuch faltu kam krne se phle apke words mind me aate hai aur ruk jata hu jisse time nhi waste hota ....thanx sir aise hi real videos banate rahiye ...Bina entertainment ke....apke video dekhkr bhut kuch seekhte hai..

Wowww .. Thank you so much ❤️ Commenting for better reach ❤️🔥

A big Thankyouuu to you sir, for choosing such an amazing topic! It is hitting me really hard!

I think the best way to connect with a good or right person is by stepping out of the Social Media space and get in touch with real life.

Lot of respect for chetan sir For making such a nice piece of enlightening video And everything that he said was on point

Thank you sir for guiding us :)) 🙏🏻

Thankyou sir, you solved my problem. Your one dialogue answered my 1001 questions.

This is youth inspiration platform. Thanks sir❤️❤️

Sir if you keep sharing your thoughts like this,😇 I am 100% sure, many people like me will get better set of mind and things will become much better in life😎, as we atleast come to know the right path and right things. Thank you is very small word for your video from my side,😄 Thanks youtube for this platform, Thanks the technology, I wish you always stay happy and healthy sir :)🤗

💯% correct. Ye sab bate sabko pata hota hai lekin unme kuch log hi implement karte hai.

thanks sir, i had first hand experience of "Aukaat" last weekend . I was free so i thought , let's check the dating scene , i went to bumble (since tinder is already overrated) and created account over there . completed my profile , put some good pictures from gallery , answered few questions and then, went on checking out profiles, did left and right swipes onto some profiles , went to bed. checked next day, didn't even got a single match then i realized that my profile wasn't as good as the counterparts i was liking , i understood that this isn't going to work for me. Deleted my account later that evening

You are doing a great job, sir, keep posting these.❤

Grt session sir..loved it..value adding 😀

Don't get trapped by kind words, live in the reality , everything matters in this era so build your qualities well.everybody needs a good kind person that's one thing but along with some status.love is one thing but not this dating things guys and girls.