Once I was arguing with my mom for branded shoes .That day my mom said to me "First deserve then desire". That line changed my life ☺😚

The real freedom comes only when you are financially free 🙏

"Only women, children and dogs are loved unconditionally, a man is only loved under a condition that he PROVIDES something " - Chris Rock.

No school is teaching this as straight forward as this I wish someone was telling us 15 years back

"Women don't care about you , they only care about what you can do for them!" Only your mother will love you unconditionally ! Always remember this!

1. Career 2. Health 3. Relationship Three major pillars of life, focus and never forgot.

Ek ladki ne bola tha 2016 me "teri aukat hai kya mere baare me sochne ki " I'm thankful to her. Bass wahi aukat banane me laga hua hu. I've just completed my MBBS, but its just a beginning. Aur bohot kuchh karna baaki h. I'm not gonna stop till I make my "Aukat" that she was talking about.🙂

sir i agree your point,now i am going to build my aukaat...kyuki meri bahott bejjati hui hai sir ,lekin me puri jann laga dunga apni aukaat banane me thank yousir, this video is very helpful for me

"Jisdin aukaat hogi ladkiya apne aap tere pass aayegi"🔥

I am a girl , I mean married girl ...i am only house wife in my family ,i also can relate with this video .. all the female in my sasural are CA , ENGINEER , INSPECTOR , but I m house wife my in-laws and relatives judge me ..,then i start my business and I promise I will earn itni saara money jo wo sab puri life job karke na kamaa paaye ..I will earn money not because I am materialistic or laalchi ..but for my respect ...I will make my aukaat..

I always waste my time by using games,whatsapp,facebook etc... These things spoils my whole day.... I realise this but after some time i again repeat this shit and it takes my day by day.... But here i promise that from today at that time (3.07 a.m) i will totally cut all the destruction and my whole focus will be towards my career..... Thank u ♥️ for the video.... life is really harsh if we don't use our time properly......

Absolutely correct Sir , Career+ Health+ Relationship = AUKAAT

I used to make fun of this guy to look cool and Trendy. But seriously I felt guilt why did I do that. He is such an intelligent and blunt personality I ever come cross. He talks really. Hats off man and thank you

Unfair, Bitter but Absolutely True. Hope more people talk about this openly.

Ekdam correct bola sir Aapne . Bitter but truth 😓 Without Aukat koi Kisi ladke ko koi Pyar nhi krta , respect nhi deta 🙏

Chetan ji, namaskar, satsriakal, adaab. I am 45 years old sikh guy working in IT , simple views towards life, contended with what I had, soft spoken, mediocre ambitions and trying to be good with everyone around. But over the years all around in close family made some good money in business in india and jobs outside india. I feel strongly the differential treatment by family and medium or low respect behaviors from them although I am the eldest kid. I have been working on my health for past 3 years, did marathon etc., now focused on my career growth. For all the viewers, my learning is be fully independent financially, focus strongly on career, be ambitious (Bina kisiko kuchle). Be good to others, but speak up and don't be submissive. Take care, stay strong. Believe in yourself.

Agree..sir....when i was topper in school and college then everyone loves me and make me priority...but after failing in several compitive exams and still being unemployed in mid twenties... perspective of everyone's towards me and my opinion changed alot...no one bother to even listen my views my choice and alll even i am humble kind to everyone.... It is all about your worth by money ,how much u contribute in your family finance..

Content is valuable and what chetan sir said is obviously correct. 'Men only valued whn they achieve something in their life'.

6:40 true , If you dont have 'Aukat' duniya ko ghanta parak nahi padta if you are even there or not . So build the aukat first !

Totally agree! Bando ki aukat unke wallet se hi banti hai.. kadva sach!

A message to all woman : raise your standard. Otherwise A Man will get somebody else. Don't expect loyalty without building value. Old good days are over👍👍👍

Aukaat should be built not for love, but to be able to live a life of your choice, it's almost so hard to find a good partner regardless of how rich you are.

But when you start working on your goals , everyone starts coming back to you but things and attention you craved before , dont excites you anymore . STOP POSTING ON YOUR INSTA PROFILE AND START BUILDING AN IMPRESSIVE LINKEDIN PROFILE. keep it up chetan sir you always motivate us✌🤞✌

Every word is precious for a young man whos is lost and confused with life and love.

As a berozgaar engineer, I am living this today and what you said is 100% true.. But I haven't given up just yet, I'll rise and shine..

Thank you sir.I am 20 yrs old.I can relate this story with myself.Just 1-2 year before when I was preparing for medical entrance exam no one was supporting except my parents.All gave example of failure at that time.But this year I qualified the exam with a very good rank.After that all are supporting to me. I am a regular student of life in your channel.

This is like an Older brother that I never knew I needed . Thanks Chetan 😊

Bilkul sach bol rahe ho sir aap, thankyou so much 🙏🏻

Agreed with Chetan Sir. I still remember my class 12th days, when the results of JEE Mains were announced. Every relative of mine was eager to know my result. But I didn't do well in that exam. And next everyone knows what they do after that. 3 years passed, Now I am in my final semester of Engg. placed in a Product Based Company ( will join as a Full-time employee this June) and none of them even send a message. Living well is the best revenge. 😉

6:48 Golden lines...🔥💫

The word aukaat is very very important in man's life 💯

I agree ... Life mein jeena hai to awkaat bna ke jeena h ....this line touched my soul.... And i will come back on this comment box when i will have my own awkaat...

Those who have the ability to hear the bitter truth, no obstacle can stop them.....THANKS SIR...👍🏻👍🏻

I agree with you sir. I'm a girl & always put career as my top priority. Many barriers are there, but I still only focused on my dream, and your bitter truth videos are very effective for me. Thank you sir. Lots of love and respect❤🙏

Focus on carrier and health ... relationship musibat hai..single rho khush rho.. .after success relationship thik hai.. lekin pehle nhi..Agree?

I have no language to thank you dada..you are doing a great job. I could see my shortcomings gradually and will do my 100% to overcome it. Thanks again.

I totally love this bitter truth video series as it actually gives us a reality check rather than keeping us in a pseudo bubble of fantasies so that we can take the appropriate actions in the time that we have at our disposal ✌. Do continue with this series Sir 🙌

Like a true elder brother he is guiding the younger generation. These are truly pearls of wisdom relevant not only in present times but for future also.

Bilkul sir. thanks a lot sir for this . Sach me aisa lag rha ki aap bde bhai ki tarah mere se hi kah rhe ho Abhi se Chutiyapa nahi . Bs hard work 3 videos dekh li or abhi studies kar rha

I agree with you totally sir.... Life have come to such a stage that I feel I never gave myself time only on behalf of keeping others happy.... The words you spoke in video has been so touched n felt tears in my eyes...... Thank you so much for being Wat you are.. Love you sir

Solid video 💪🏻 If the videos were ranked, it would be ranked as No.1. You are great sir, my life is changed due to you. Thank you so much ❤

Chetan bhagat is like that teacher who shows your 'Aukat' in every lecture. Hats off to you Sir.

yes... mujhe meri aukat se zada chahiye and thanxx to u sir for guiding us

Totally totally agree with you sir, I'm gonna put all your words in my mind from right now and gonna work for my future, my career and continuosly improving myself coz aukaat toh ab banani hai!!! Thank you so much Sir!!❤️

Right sir chahe vo girl's ho ya boys,jinka aukaat nhi hota use koi nhi puchhta ☹️🙂

The moment u said that I'm like your younger brother I felt connected. Thank you sir for showing the reality and for encouragement to do better in life.

Sach me bhai teri baate dil ko chhu gayi thanks 🙏

"Only women, children and dogs are loved unconditionally". "Chris Rock"

Totally agree sir...... U have told that u treat us like ur younger brother.... It means a lot for us........ Thnkew for this n all the past videos..... ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

You just defined everything in direct way with simple words. Thanks alot sir.

Video is specifically for boys , but sir this one is highly highly relatable for all .. Hats off to you sir , aapke jaisa authentic real content kahi aur nahi milta . Plz make more such videos on how to ace in career and stop being someone's

Thank You very much for making this video!!

Chetan Sir U Are Right , Practical Man . Your Advises Will Definitely Bring Change. No One Ever Guided About Life In This Way . Sab log bas fake motivation dete rehte hai but your videos hit inside deep core especially to middle , lower middle , poor class youth's . 😐 🙏

Sir, U have rightly touched the nerve of all youth masses by sharing this bitter truth... thank you a lot for guiding us. ❤️😊

Hello Sir, I totally agree with you. Recently a girl rejected me for silly reasons. I work in a company. That’s it I just work. But after seeing this video I feel that I need to step up and make it as a passion and climb as much as possible. I never disrespected any girl in my life it was the first time I shared with her my feelings but it was rejected. I became demotivated. But now the journey kick starts again with a boost. One fine day I will sure come over here and respond on my comment . Thank you once again to divert my feelings, view and thoughts.

Indian youth ladko ko aap jese guider ki zarur he taki aapko sun ke ladki pe time waste karne ki bajaye careers pe time de, you’re great sir

I agree with you sir बिना औकात के दुनिया सिर्फ हमारे टैलेंट को अपने मतलब के लिए इस्तेमाल करती है औकात होनी जरूरी है ताकि वक्त आने पर हम इस दुनिया को इस्तेमाल कर सके।

"Aukaat" is everything 👏 Agreed sir.. This video will definitely change may perspectives 👌🙏

Just started watching your channel and I would request youtube to pls recommend his videos to more people, because it is very hard to find a channel with such real content with proper guidance, love and respect ❤ Chetan Sir.

Totally agree with you sir 🙌 I will build by Aukaat !!

If without aukaat boys don't get "love."..❣️ ..then girls don't get "freedom".🕊️

Being a girl I know this is so fucking true men are always judged by what they do how much they earn but girls do not have this same things completely agreed to each and every pt what u said by the way this video was sent to me by my brother 😜

There is a statement..."aukaat me rahna.... now i realize.....there should be aukaat 💯 within us....... thankyou for inspiring ❤️.

Huge respect sir.. Accidentally I found this video .. Thanks to God and you too ❤️

औकात it's not only word it's define life 🔥🔥🔥

I totally agree sir,When I was working then people used to talk to me upfront.And when I left the job and preparing for exams these people disappeared quickly.People respect the post not person.This is that I have understood.

Thank you sir aisa laga ki bada bhai samjha raha always lacked such a guidance 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

Sir ekdum on point boli baat boli aapne🥺🥺🖤

Exactly after 1 year, I will be back here with way more success in my life. This is the promice I make today to myself... ✨

11:07 to 11:19 it's not bitter truth for a man who has self respect and responsible... It's the eye opening line.. 👍🏽

Lines Kaash m tumse pyar kr paati matlab y paise se pyar h insan s nhi sir big hats for u 🙏..

Every single word is true..Thank you Sir.❤

Agreed You were calling us little brother Dost thank you sir for all this love and care like our parents ❤️

I had two failed startups in life.. i am 32.. i earned money but again my business failed.. i get many ideas in my head and i am confused what to pursue.. i describe myself as cunning and hardworking but things didn’t go well in past.. still i am going on but confused with the ideas that i get in my head…

Thank you Sir 🌱

I just love and respect you for such kind of 'Bitter Truth' videos. Because these videos prove that my thinking pattern is absolutely right and I am in a right path. Thank You Sir😊🙏

Completely agree with you 🙌 Thanks sir for inspiring and guiding through your videos. Not just watching , but also applying them in my life ❤️

The only video saved in my KZfaq offline playlist to make me realise the reality of life and motivate me...

Bilkul sahi keh rahe ho sir aap. No one can ask you until you have built something.

Chetan is the brother who we all want in our lives ❤️

I wanna just say that: 1. working on health continuously last 1.5 years. 2. Improving my skill from 1 year to become Web Developer 3. Relation: parents and some countable friend.😊 and perusing 2nd year of my college. Can I get feedback from Mr. Chetan Bhagat.

Very true sir, Sacchai yahi hai !! big fan of your true advices 🙏🙏

Agreeee sir. Really 💯🔥

Whenever I listen to you Sir.. I always feel like my big brother is saying something to me.. I don't have a big brother, but I felt like.. Thank you.!!

As always sir, straight from heart without being filtered.....your every video guide us in our lives to make it more vibrant sir 🙏🙏🙏

Thank you so so much sir.

Sir Apko Sabse bada salam hai.Apne ek dost Banke hum sabko Samjhaya hai free mein .waise toh yeh sab gyan Books padhne se hi milte hai lekin apne toh humare liye Khud bol kar samjhaya hai.Love you sir .

Only women, child and dogs are loved unconditionally "A man is only loved under a condition that he provides something""

कटू सत्य वचन- चेतन भाई🙏 ज़मीन-आसमान का फर्क पढ़ जाता है भाई जी लोगों के स्वभाव में अब "औकात" ना हो😓

U R absolutely Right Sir, I experienced the same.

Very great advise sir in simple words i respect you i couldnt find these costly advise in sandeep maheshwari and many other motivational channel but in your single videos i have feel everthing in my life💓💓i respect you sir💓💓💓

I remember 20 years back I used to randomly walk into any company or an office asking for a job, and 90% of the times there wasn't any opening and when there is, I used to get rejected coz of my skill set but everytime I got rejected I knew what I need to work on. This video takes me to my struggling days....Chetan is doing a fantastic job of creating content which is really needed for India's youth coz not all parents are IAS or engineers..

Remember binge reading his books.. And now the same with these amazing vids. Thanks Sir !

Agreed 100% thank you sir...

Thanks for making us realise this🙏

Sir huge respect fr u seriously. Sir my eyes are full of tears and God promise sir when my eyes are just fill with tears ' u said 'ro le' , that is line which literally touches my heart ❤. Every word of yours is absolutely right and i m seeing this practically in my life from almost 2 years. This time i have also locked myself in room due to this reason Aukaat' and just feel that i didn't even exist. Thanks a lot sir.🥰💗💗💗

The first few minutes of this video I can resonate with vividly... Indeed! Self-valued quotient respect & love.

Agree sir Love you for this kind information

Bilkul agree karte h sir aapse aapki har baat se kadva h per sach to yhi h thanks for giving us the right direction kuch to karna h life main

Sir you opened my eyes, I would like to thank you for that. I will definitely start focusing what adds knowledge and skillset from now on. Thank you very much!