Stop Being EMOTIONALLY DEPENDENT On People: Part 3: BK Shivani: English

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@LiveOmkar Жыл бұрын

This maam saved my life when i was in my worst phase in 2017/18 god bless her

@jumisaaswatilahon1585 Жыл бұрын

My worst phase is going on. She's helping me so much🙏🏻🙏🏻❤. God Bless Herl❤🙏🏻

@LiveOmkar 10 ай бұрын

@@jumisaaswatilahon1585 sending prayer's for you my friend ❤️🫂

@ashwinih.y593 9 ай бұрын

@@jumisaaswatilahon1585 q

@prakashmungekar3119 Жыл бұрын

Don't waste energy just for strangers on the road . Bless them that they reach home safely .. that was very powerful . Thanks very much Didi, Om shanti .

@yasmineamirodine2073 Жыл бұрын

Didi please I am afraid of driving. I cannot handle thé stress. I easly get panicked. What should I do?

@wonderwellplayschooldumka777 Жыл бұрын

Yes

@Priyanka_Singh02 Жыл бұрын

Not on road in life also sometime its not necessary to make them right. Let it be and don't waste our power on others.

@prakashmungekar3119 Жыл бұрын

Very much agreed madam . Thanks very much .

@nishabagri4498 Жыл бұрын

@@wonderwellplayschooldumka777 ,

@VanshikaMehta_16 11 ай бұрын

" I have to create the right thought in response to their wrong behaviour" ... exactly defined what we needed to listen.

@mallikaj3240 9 ай бұрын

Your car is been rammed by a stranger out of no where now what is the right thought that you would create please let me know

@divyapoduval4402 6 ай бұрын

How to ? Because they hurt us is it so easy to forgive them and subside that anger and still respect them

@N00PURA Жыл бұрын

Her voice is so calming ❤ plus she’s speaking facts!

@divyapoduval4402 6 ай бұрын

Yes she is an angel a free therapist

@ManiGupta49 Жыл бұрын

I guess this video came in my feed at the right time. I have been emotionally unwell from last week due to an incident which made me feel.. powerless, worthless, and someone who can be shouted at with no valid reason. I spent 2-3 days thinking: did I deserve that? Why it happened? Why is it always me who can be made feel invaluable? Why people don’t empathize with me? I knew i was being emotionally dependent and giving control to other people on how to dictate my emotional state. I knew I was being victim. Yesterday, I shouted at my brother since he is always engrossed in gaming and mobile, the moment he wakes up till the time he sleeps. In return, I was rebuked. And I slept feeling worthless, powerless again. I have decided to behave indifferent as anything I say, is either misunderstood or is invaluable to anyone. I gets lectures for saying little things or suggesting something. I have decided to be a speech minimalist, the least I speak, the least I am judged, rebuked, or lectured. I know it’s difficult doing what is being said by Shivani ji, but I’ll try my best to conserve my mental energy by not reacting to situations and become indifferent to it. That’s how I see it.

@javeriashahid8121 Жыл бұрын

Same with me

@desibhukkadsindubai Жыл бұрын

Our almighty knows when we need his guidance the most🙂

@shrii827 Жыл бұрын

Same will me

@g51661 6 ай бұрын

I had similar incident few months back. I then connected to God through meditation, bhajans etc( like listening bhajan alone in my room/while travelling etc). I started spenidng time alone for positive self talk assuring myself that everything is peaceful and good and God loves me. God has unconditional love for all. My life is peaceful and happy now. I focus on my own peaceful state over others. Those who used to behave with me in a certain way which they shouldn't also now treat me with respect, peace and love. And some unhealthy elements also automatically sided away from life. Good things ( maybe good lessons through incidents which help us grow spiritually) automatically follow up when we connect to Divine. I pray you have a happy and peaceful state. Also each one has their own personal experience so we must have patience😊

@bhawanab4653 5 ай бұрын

Saw your comment and realized that I've been going through the same kinda pain for the last two days and now I'm trying to get better.

@JunaidKhan-xd7ti Жыл бұрын

She is very clear and so sorted ....respect you sister ...

@jayageetharoy4127 Жыл бұрын

Shivanididi you make us realize how simple life should actually be....but how complicated we ignorant souls have made it! Thank you for your presence in this world! We arw blessed. Om Shanti🙏

@mudasirarif1678 10 ай бұрын

very soft spoken like flaws of river .

@sarmistharoy-wn7gj Жыл бұрын

Om shanti...10 years ago when I was in class 9 i watched awakening with Brahma kumaris daily..every evening i just waiting for the program...my childhood become so beautiful..and now i am 27..after 5 years of marriage everything is going wrong..i starting to watching again and things going to perfect... I found my peace of life.. thank you shivani di..u r shiv Baba's most beloved child ❤

@tpb1006 Жыл бұрын

did you divorce?

@iconprajith3224 Жыл бұрын

@@tpb1006😂

@Nameles305 Жыл бұрын

@@tpb1006Possibly 😂🤣 If want PAECE of mind 😃

@kamlesh_kumar707 10 ай бұрын

Just like you I also used to see that show but because kiddish nature I am not able implement such knowledge. But now I want control of myself. That's why I m here

@Randomyetchaotic 8 ай бұрын

@@kamlesh_kumar707Good luck to you mam. May you succeed.. Om namah shivay ☺️🙏

@healthymotive3651 Жыл бұрын

I m just looking her face amazing glowing skin without makeup.... It's all about super natural power..... She is really pure soul.........

@user-ci1eh3ip7s 4 ай бұрын

Absolutely correct

@AnshuSahu-jeeaspirant 5 ай бұрын

Thank you Shivani di i am dependent on myself i dont need anyone . I protect myself , my future is so bright , God is always with me , i am strong and powerful , loveful . I love myself , i take care myself , My thought my choice my destiny thank you ❤❤❤

@tellsudha 5 ай бұрын

Emotional independence & protection from other’s drama is the key to our own peace.. 💜🙏🌹

@SU9Pakistan Жыл бұрын

What a peace in her voice and satisfaction..❤️

@mousumibhattacharjee4461 Жыл бұрын

Good morning Sister Om Shanti stay healthy your teachings make me peaceful soul ❤

@fatimak6440 9 ай бұрын

I love the perfect example she used on traffic, it was the best use of the talk and she even suggested how to use your mind to reduce that one irritation. it was wonderful homework. we've all watched hundred of KZfaq videos about inner engineering but I think when you can immediately use a take home example like this one, you can actually start implementing the talk LITERALLY on that same day..

@chitragodar4367 Жыл бұрын

OM SHANTI BK SHIVANI SISTER 🙏🌹

@shilpanandy8704 Жыл бұрын

Om Shanti didi🙏🏻 I am a powerful being I am a peaceful soul I am calm and stable always I am always happy Thank you thank you thank you Universe

@gregmcqueen4540 9 ай бұрын

You are a very enlightened individual! Thanks for your lecture, it’s very valuable to everyone in every society! You’re doing much better than any government I’ve seen lately! Everything is of mind!

@guriya.....7870 Жыл бұрын

Om shanti thanku shivani dii ,now i don't depend emotionally anyone... I am strong 😊

@yashkapadiya5414 Жыл бұрын

Thank you sister for guiding us on our daily problems Thank you so much for bringing this real and relatable topic in everyone's life.

@ainabrunetginard873 Жыл бұрын

Om shanti, Sister Shivani ❤️❤️❤️. Always, with love and Gratitude….. Thank you, thank you, thank you… ❤️🙏❤️🙌😇😘🌼🌺🌼💐☘️🌎

@dikshajadhav1122 Жыл бұрын

I find it randomly because I need this Thank you Universe Thank You Angels 🙏🌼✨ for this love you Hare Krishna 🌼🙏

@udayamudari3888 Жыл бұрын

Wonderful, inspirational and life changing 🙏

@kadrimustafa8383 Жыл бұрын

Om Shanti My Sweet Sister Didi 👑 Sukriya BABA 👑 thank you very much for Energy today 👑

@jchristy8384 Жыл бұрын

Thank Universe because today The universe allowed me to hear worthy speech. I have always wasted my power while I was driving. Best Quotes I received that you mentioned to pray for them ❤.

@laxmipatel6653 Жыл бұрын

Feel blessed to hear ur such powerful words 😇

@rajpsms Жыл бұрын

wow, how nice how right ..i never listened to her before. But i love every word she said

@manikandanm3876 Жыл бұрын

I am listening to this video every morning. Simple to follow yet very influential 🙏

@perpetuakanyutu2610 5 ай бұрын

Om Shanti.. shukriya Didi..

@farahnaz8885 Жыл бұрын

Om shanti didi 🙏💖😊 Shivani didi you make life so easy and special…. When I listen to you I feel so happy and good 😌

@user-zd2ti2wz2b 10 ай бұрын

Now we are ready to give peace and happiness to those who are lacking 😊

@poornimaswamy2376 Жыл бұрын

Loved the way you said. I felt you are saying all these to me only. ❤❤

@Mischa337 11 ай бұрын

Youre the best ❤ just what I needed to hear! Thank you 😊

@jhumachattopadhyay6707 Жыл бұрын

सबका जो सपना हैं .. मेरा वो अपना हैं.. प्यारा वो कितना हैं... मुश्किल हैं बताना... उस रब का शुक्राना.. उस रब का शुक्राना... ओम् शान्ति बाबा.. ओम् शान्ति दीदी ॥

@Readrevolutionhub Жыл бұрын

I am feeling blessed today because of this video 😇, thank you so much

@bhanuparameswaran Жыл бұрын

Shivani di's voice & words are so intense it penetrates throughout the body holistically.Thank you for your unconditional love🙏🙏

@dr.shivanii 5 ай бұрын

Thank goodness I came across this video, As I spent my two years being emotionally dependent that drained my soul, I am ready to follow emotional independence ❤

@Itsme__265 Жыл бұрын

Shivani didi is Divine.🙏🏻🙏🏻

@Shanayas_talk02 Жыл бұрын

Thanku mam...listening you is just like a flowering on me and I'll try to do right thing not wasting me power to unnecessarythings

@foreverwithparamita Жыл бұрын

Emotional independence is the key to a happy life .

@user-uh5pd2ex5k Жыл бұрын

Its wrong. When you try to be emotionally independent, you are just turning off your emotions which is bad. If you want to be emotionally independent, then there is no love.

@AbCd-ne1ck Жыл бұрын

@@user-uh5pd2ex5kif it only hurts and betrays in the name of love then you must say Bye.

@user-uh5pd2ex5k Жыл бұрын

@@AbCd-ne1ck you are right. The point here is emotionally "Independent" is wrong because you are losing the fundamental "Love".. without love, one is as good as dead

@sweetyvlogs4394 10 ай бұрын

True

@skincarerainbow4950 3 ай бұрын

Absolutely

@user-zi8dl3mp2f Жыл бұрын

I am speachless ,Gods way of making us understand .

@NJS_3249 Жыл бұрын

ॐ शान्ति 🙏 😊

@CuriouslyBrave7 9 ай бұрын

This is the second podcast I’m listening to, I’m glad your video crossed my path: You’re an amazing speaker, thank you for your knowledge. ❤

@krishnaenterprises8218 Жыл бұрын

OM SHANTHI AND HAPPY MORNING DIDI...

@ZakirShobuj Жыл бұрын

Definitely this speech will ease my day..my life

@priyyyyyaaaaaaa7304 10 ай бұрын

Just going through a lot at this point of time, but atleast now i know that i was the only reason behind all my sorrows and " I" am the only one who can reduce this.... Can't thank you enough for making it so simple🌸 More power to you ma'am.

@manasimotgi5483 Жыл бұрын

Om Shanti Shivani didi 🙏

@sanchalishaw5412 11 ай бұрын

Thank you so much Ma'am. Your words works like medicine to stable my uncertainty and insecurity.

@Psychewithoutsoul 11 ай бұрын

Your words make me feel ,yes,I can... Even though, I have failed in life situations thousand times, but,You help me to gain confidence in myself... I can,I can,I can.

@lakshmimeda7732 11 ай бұрын

Simply superb no words. Will follow from today

@user-fz7qb9qu9r Жыл бұрын

I Cant tell you how much positive energy all these words have given me.. This was much needed at this point of time in my life.. Thank you..

@HermioneIloz 22 күн бұрын

My gurudeva!❤from Greece!

@TalesandTales Жыл бұрын

I literally needs to hear it

@shaifaligupta8597 Жыл бұрын

Good morning dii 😊😊 Om shanti dii❤❤ Aapki voice itni peaceful h jise sunke man ek dam shant ho jata h☺️☺️tq so much dii

@tamimsultana Жыл бұрын

Thanks Shivani didi you are my inspiration ❤god bless you

@lavkushgoswami1020 Жыл бұрын

Didi you have magical voice.... whenever I Heard you i forget all stress, anxiety and almost all the distraction...om shanti Didi ...

@bhanupriya162 11 ай бұрын

Yes I was searching the word Magical soothing voice 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

@navikadahiya7670 Жыл бұрын

Om shanti didi 💐 thankyou 😊

@subhadrabanerjee1820 Жыл бұрын

Om Shanti sis ji 🙏 Gratitude

@yogyatajaiswal4915 9 ай бұрын

Thank you so much Shivani mam. This came on my feed when I needed it most. Love you didi ❤❤❤

@premavallipuram4922 Жыл бұрын

I’m Shanti Sister. You will never know how much this helps me.

@iyouweubuntu 11 ай бұрын

Didi.... Ultimate solution for everything....🙏🙏🙏

@tenzindolker2655 Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for this , such a pewerful talk and very helpful .

@samilarungapamestry6466 Жыл бұрын

Awesome..i am master of my mind n my body..i am ready to give power to everyone..om shanti

@sushmabhalla243 7 ай бұрын

Thank you so much Shivani Maa for changing our precious lives ❤️ lots of love. Stay blessed everyone.

@bhowmiksmart Жыл бұрын

Shivanidi you are the most talented motivational speaker as well as best teacher in the world...we get solutions to all problems in our lives from listening to your speech...seeing your smiling face makes our life easier...Thank you Didi from our part...🙏🙏🙏

@ShakeelaBegum-wh1he Жыл бұрын

Not motivation she healer

@trinarauth1590 Жыл бұрын

Peace

@manishasharma7018 Жыл бұрын

Thank you. Om Shanti

@neeleshwarneeleshwark298 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for your help with this matter

@legaleagle8078 6 ай бұрын

Still remember this great lady watching on television. Such a soothing voice she has.

@deekshagupta953 Жыл бұрын

Thnku so much Didi for guiding us...

@sarojwadurkar3934 Жыл бұрын

Good morning didi, I am very much influenced by you and follow you from so many years Om shanti didi.. ❤

@meenaxibhadauria422 Жыл бұрын

Om Shanti Didi 🙏🏻 suprabhat 🌹

@navkaur_1723 Жыл бұрын

I am not emotionally dependent on anyone ❤♾️life is peaceful so am I 🥰🥳

@sampurnaphani3575 Жыл бұрын

14:38

@user-uh5pd2ex5k Жыл бұрын

Love only works if you are emotionally dependent. So, you just turned off your emotions by being independent or you just don't know what you are saying.

@riyashahivishen2238 Жыл бұрын

Om shanti Om shanti 🙏

@ashok1776 Жыл бұрын

Simply superb msg.... Thank you sister.

@yetridey8220 Жыл бұрын

Much needed session for me ❤️

@rasangikanarangoda1358 Жыл бұрын

Don't know how to thank for your wise words. After listening to your videos I gradually developing the are of staying calm. It really helps to empower my family to sort out their own problems. I practically experiencing the results and try my best to develop that calmness. Thank you sister ❤❤

@kiranmaheshwary0045 Жыл бұрын

Lovely.. you gave me peace of mind

@papaya6191 6 ай бұрын

I have already watched thousands of videos about emotional intelligence and independency but still have unclear thoughts. And I'm a person who gets irritated and sad easily by people's actions especially people I love. Because of you madam, feels like I think i can also control my mind. Because I am the one who makes me feel sad, angry and depressed, not them. So, I accept that fact and create my power to be stronger and more mature. Thank you so much Madam. Your video saves me and a lot of people.

@ninapositive4586 Ай бұрын

I will suggest you to attend the 10 day vipasana course ( free of cost)

@NolitaGolding 12 күн бұрын

@@ninapositive4586where is this info?

@ninapositive4586 12 күн бұрын

@@NolitaGolding it is a ancient buddha Vipasana techniques. For more info search in google about vipassana and its courses. Hope you will find it helpful 🍀

@BadalKaushal-yx7kg 10 ай бұрын

Absolutely amazing talk 💯

@neerupachauri7505 Жыл бұрын

Very beautiful and inspiring positive energy.thanks dear sister for feeding such powerful words.❤❤

@shilpadube9522 Жыл бұрын

Everything Sister Shivani speaks is gospel truth ❤

@nityadevi5141 Жыл бұрын

Thank you sister for guiding us

@shubhadajha3416 11 ай бұрын

Thank you sister Shivani .

@g51661 6 ай бұрын

Please keep revising these things everyday 😊❤

@jasminejoseph8715 Жыл бұрын

Bless you... God blezz

@laisamohan3189 Жыл бұрын

Good teaching gbu nd lead u in the everlasting way

@AmitSingh-oy7gq 6 ай бұрын

It is much needed.. Thankyou ❤

@Vibi-cy9xf 3 ай бұрын

Thanks with Gratitude Sister, brings me tears, right time watched....God Bless

@Sayantan_Official_ Жыл бұрын

My guide for a healthy mindset.

@srivani991 Жыл бұрын

🙏🏼 Thank you to Shivani for this wonderful discourse. We Hindus are fortunate for someone like her to share such beautiful, sensible, logical talks. I see these talks so different from the talks given by Muslims and Christian leaders. I don’t see baseless, illogical directions from books. Our thoughts are spiritual logical and critically thought out.

@tushalnirasoi Жыл бұрын

I always feel blessed watching Shivani Didi's lectures.

@raheraast6556 Жыл бұрын

yes u right i also fel like

@bkgirish4155 Жыл бұрын

Good

@rojamardamootoo6871 Жыл бұрын

So true, i feel same....god on earth to teach us

@user-uh5pd2ex5k Жыл бұрын

Love is dependent, it cannot be independent. If you are blessed to listen to her, then at least question a little to understand the reality or define better. People are just falling prey to non sense.

@suzannebryan1194 9 ай бұрын

Always feel much calmer, feel empowered as she says.