I agree with you

Ruya Abd absolutely that was always my impression. Like when she said he was changing her life.

Yes that’s always what I thought like she saw him and thought “he’s got the right idea”

Yes, the whole movie shows that, actually michael makes them better too!

Of course not,thats how family should eat,together at the table

Every Indian parent! 😂

@@pariskate1997 its not parents but a woman.power upon her family.

No.. Even my dad does it and we have no say over that. Same goes for mom. Asian parents have more control over their children

@@pariskate1997 thats ur way of thinking

@@naintara8087 what's wrong with you lol? Woman power and all is fine. Women empowerment doesn't mean she is above men. I said both my parents have the same amount of control. No more no less. Thats why I said parent and not just mom or dad. The fact that my mom has equal say as our dad in our home is empowerment.

So true!!! But there are also a lot of fathers - sadly - who do not know how to be good fathers either. We are all lost! :) Reading the Epistles of St Paul and St Peter give us very good examples how to be good to one another - as communities and as families - in the name of our beloved Christ.

It's funny how were always blaming mothers for everything but it's usually fathers the ones that run away from their responsibilities and no one blames them for anything. Society thinks that parenthood is solely the responsibility of the mother. It takes two to make a baby u know?

This is because now mothers have more responsibility .

@@saimahossain3873 if it's a couple the responsibilities should be equal

Pale in comparison to how many bad fathers there are too. People who are not prepared or ready to put aside themselves for their children should not have them. I'm not saying sacrificing your whole life. I'm saying don't have children if you're having them for selfish reasons like that to continue your "legacy" without accepting that they might grow up not wanting to follow your steps or dictating their lives.

You're a great person, are you single?

Pinketuzz u r a very good person

You are Jesus reincarnated.

@@bailmasterflex Gmomho cmomho

“By protecting the good people you’re protecting yourself from evil “

Hope she won an Oscar for this! damn she was good in this, I love this movie!!!!!

@@SoapinTrucker she did

She deserved the Oscar

It's a strange combo. I grew up in Alabama and my grandmother had a landscaper she would pay to do stuff on the property, and would give him breakfast and lunch (she is a great cook) and they got along really well. Often when we visited on days the family property needed taking care of, my father would work alongside him. The landscaper was born in the 1920s and black, my grandmother was born in the 1920s and white. When we'd visit on weekends and he was there, he'd eat lunch on the front porch away from us. He would never eat around us. Eventually my father would leave us and go eat outside on the front porch with him. I asked why the black man ate outside and my grandmother had this look for horror on her face. I honestly think her and the black man had this behavior from back in slavery en grained into them for generations of their ancestors, for black people to eat outside of the presence of white people that it never crossed either of their minds this was odd behavior. We all ate together from that day forward. Feels good now. My grandmother is 98 and he is 93 (I think) and even though he no longer does property and forest management for us, when he is in good health he is always invited to the table. Sorry for the long self-story tale, but I think this scene also shows how racism just becomes normalcy for both the victims and the privileged and is really sad.

@@Flufferz626 I know I'm late but I really appreciated this story

I don't think he was raised that way. That is part of the dream you are dreaming when you don't have a (loving) family. You dream how about others are living their family life. You dream about sitting at a table, eating from real plates, using cutlery. It's what you dream about having yourself, when you actually don't have it.

SJ is my literal favorite from the movie.

What a jerk

@@katherinepoltoratzky6068 I think he was just joking lmao

There never was a reason for not doing it, and she knew.

That makes her a beautiful soul?

That’s why you keep it instilled in your family. At Holidays the rest of my family eats together and I do when I can. My health often prevents me from doing small things like that.

I went to a family christmas party a couple of years ago and instead of sitting around talking to each other they all just sat there texting other people and these were people in their 50s and 60s, half my age! I actually felt like going up to them and saying "hey, you know, talking to people that are actually sitting with you is cheaper than texting..." we have dinner together and play cards most nights because of this and as a result we have a son who has never asked to have a mobile because he doesn't think he needs one because guess what? he grew up talking with his parents. And I've also noticed that kids the same age as my son who do want mobiles have anxiety and depression issues (relative's kids).

@@mariannehovad798 yes I can see that ppl rely to much on their phones for everything if we could all just sit around the dinner table and just talk about the day it would be so much better

It depends on the family.. In my family, cell phones are NEVER allowed at the dinner table.

Agreed! That’s the rule in our home. Breakfast and dinner at the table, no phones or devices allowed!

Sandra Bullock

He is an amazing actor but he is also a fantastic singer as well

Dear Lady Paquin, when you grew stone old one day, you will look back, and you will see your loving family. Your work, or your books, your studies or your animals, your plants, or your music. Yes, and maybe even your family. Pls try to believe a little in giving and getting back in life. It seldom shows soon, sometimes even a decade later. Just start with being the beautiful living and loving human being for a start. And by the way Sandra has some German Ancestors. My grandmother would have been furious if a guest is not sitting at the same table if invited to eat with the fam. The first section with the loving part was a saying in Prussia, she explained me before she left. Paquin might be French, Italian or Spanish background. Especially in France eating was a whole tradition. A complete culture and ceremonial. Read a little bit about those traditions, and you will be a fantastic host in this century. ❤️

😬 oops

Yes kindness does

Oh so very much.

I really want a son like him😂😂😅

I could not disagree with this more. A husband should be a partner not another child.

@@kimberleyharris8300 exactly! It’s in marriages like the ones this person is talking about that drive a woman to exhaustion because she has to be a mother to her children and a grown man. Yikes

If mama ain't happy, ain't nobody happy. She makes it happen.

Jazx - I know. It reminds me of some of the kids in High School.

No sir. Real men see the value in this.

imposible only one...

I cried too it's only natural

Not at all

No that is not true i was crying to and im a man

Watch it. It is absolutely beautiful. Not just sad. It is like... Adopting somebody to a family. She is like a lions mom. And he for the fam? Na, I not gonna spoiler you. 😁

That's if you have a table of course