Time is a healer and a game changer especially if they ended it on an impulse. You dont just forget someone you were in a relationship with. Initially they feel they have the upper hand because they made the final desicion and then they start to wonder what you're doing and why you arent contacting them. They forget the bad as the good stacks up higher. They feel alone. Even if a 3rd party gets involved no one can replace you. We are all very special people and every ex has regrets. Trust me 😉

I’m an alcoholic I’ve been in group meetings trying to kick this addiction. Alcohol ruined my marriage and I’m working on myself

Day 4 of no contact. Today is awful 💔

After 39 years you still think it will work, the hell and damage she left behind in me is still active

I've been successful for the last 4 years in every category and things keep getting better for me I love manifestation videos I'm on top of the world this is so awesome

Best bet, send her down the road like a used car with high mileage and let the next owner deal with all of her problems!👍🏻

just a little over a month of no contact - its been terrible! however it did force me to open up the hood and see where i can start to make some simple changes - an oil change was needed right off the bat... realistically though I realized there were a lot of disconnects within me that needed work. Focusing on understanding and fixing that made me more happier with myself and be able to cope with the distance. But by all means i feel i am still a WIP and maybe will always be..? I do miss her :)

Great video

It's been 8 months no contact. We were together for 7 and a half years. She broke up with me by leaving a note on the kitchen table. I don't think she's coming back.

You teaching makes me a more confident person, thank you

Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really loved him so much I can’t stop thinking about him, I’ve tried my very best to get him back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him

Bruh. The point of her being an ex is that it's no longer about her. It all goes to the New Queen now. And the decision is final.

Not all ex’s regret leaving. Moreover, even for those who have regretted, they can also heal and move on, and yet never come back.

Thanks a lot coach

Thank you for this.. I needed this

Hey brad, is it more difficult if they are a client of yours and you see them a couple of times a week? Any advice?

im improving myself by being the best version of myself not needing no one anymore and being okay without love and not being a puppy of no one and prioritize myself and making them respect me

I needed this thank you!!

My ex came back after 4 months. 3 weeks after hanging out, he's not interested anymore. His behavior didn't change & it triggered my bad behaviors. If he's not working on himself but I am, is it better to move on?

Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to move on, I really loved her so much i can’t stop thinking about her and the memories we shared. I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail. I’m frustrated, and i don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts, but i can’t. I don’t know why I’m saying this here, but i really miss her and i wish i could get her back.

Me and my wife have a fight and she left in last year november and open cases against me we in july but she didnt come back yet. But her all faimly in envolved here. Is she still coming back?

Hi Brad, you make a lot of content about how to get back together with your ex. But for cases that we were cheated on, how do we know if we should accept them back? Hope to hear from you soon. Thank you.

Thanks Brad there was no signs she was very loving and attentive day after we came back from our break she went into shutdown mode then hit me with the text breaking up then said keep my chin up after 7 years wow

In no contact for 3 weeks, but there is a bill which I need him to settle. Can I send him a message to pay for the outstanding?

She left me after almost 2 years on a decision within a day. From what I hear, she's getting antsy and processing thing but in not a good or healthy way.

How do you show him the. Hangers in you

I feel like when I hit my goals, I'm gonna find even better. Maybe she will come back. To me living a better life she wishes she was a part of…

i loved her so much said that some things i said were mean and made her feel insecure but i never wanted to hurt her and she knows we were once meant to be she broke up with me and at first said maybe in the future then 1 day later she said 100 percent want to make this work then the next day she said she no longer knows if she wants to make it work then again she changed her mind and said their is no longer a chance of us getting back together im so confused have now have zero clue if she will get back with me or if i should just move on she also checks up on me and says she is worried about me sometimes and also she is ok with beaing friends

Hi Brad ,thanks for the videos. Can i ask if there is still hope if he said it's over but couple of minutes later when he ends the voice message he said he needs a break, he needs time? It is confusing because I am trying to hold on even the tiniest piece of hope. Also I kept asked to be blocked because I knew I was going to be emotional but he didn't.Even when I go crazy with texts he doesn't block me. I am in day 2 of no contact now :)

Can you do a video about messing up (after the breakup), realising your mistakes and how to fix it if she doesn't want to see me, talk to me and hates me? And is trying to move on?

my ex-girlfriend left me 3 months ago, she blocked me everywhere, she unblocked me on whatsapp a few weeks ago, first she had a picture of herself, now she has a picture with a new guy, what does that mean, please Brad answer (she claims she was pregnant and had a miscarriage before we broke up and I'm still blocked everywhere except WhatsApp)

Will mention my journey here It’s been 2 weeks since she dumped me at my lowest

Brad my partner just dumped me after having a romantic 2 days together clisest we have ever been. We have beem together 7 years i got a text this morning saying its not me but her and finished by sayimg hold your head up 😮😮 really confused she has always disappeared for days emotionally before i put this down to her being on the spectrum and allowed her space Going no contact as i know ive doney very best way more than she has invested

My ex-girlfriend just defriended me suddenly tonight on Facebook. We haven’t even talked in over a month. I wasn’t bothering her. But she’s been watching my stories on there and on my Snapchat. And she still has our pictures up. I don’t get it. I miss her and have wanted her back.

Hi guys I guess I just really need help understanding things My ex of 3 years broke up with me Because she couldn't give me time? Or what I wanted I feel like those are just excuses especially since after 3 weeks she's now on tinder? (I was told by a friend and saw her on there) not sure if I want to even move on... So If she couldn't give me the time why can she now give it to someone else? She didn't answer any of my questions she basically just said we're over and blocked me on everything but I feel like I need closure I hate not knowing what and why? I feel like a relationship needs communication... and I was always the one communicating I'm so lost I'm so hurt all I want to do is reach out all I want is to know why? 3 years to be over and looking for someone new in 3 weeks :( heart breaking I just don't know what to do...

What happens if he goes back to his previous ex. So I was the rebound? She is not the rebound now? This is so hard 😢

And she keeps smiling when we bring up old nickname when we was dating and keeps saying I a close friend

I’m still living with my ex. I’m working on my issues with being clingy and trying to talk to her.

I broke up with her and moved out .I realized i made a mistake now she wants to remain single just have a physsical relationship NSA and i want her back .She says it'll take time. She didnt trust me cause she's the one that said she wasn't in love with me and continued to go out with her GFS who are mostly single. Not sure she will change she said she doesn't wanna lose me. But doesn't want a relationship ..yet .I'm gonna be patient.

I want my ex back and I hear what you’re saying, but how do I get her back, show her I’m improving, or literally anything when I’m blocked everywhere and I’m across the country

Hi Brad, I broke up with my ex 2 weeks ago because he wanted to “have a break and feel independence” but I refused to have my life on pause for him. He was really sad and moved out and now we’re on this break/breakup. We’re still friends and we text but I’ve been trying to be cold. He’s also the kind of person who can be very sensitive and determined - so I don’t want to upset him too much to the point of no return. We have a lot mutual friends (6 years together!) and we still go to the same coworking space on weekdays. How can I leverage this situation to my advantage if I want him to crawl back to me? Thank you

So change for them to be happy but they don't have to change nothing

My wife doesn't care about any of my improvementa, she still left me. Will space and time help in this kind of situation too? We are married 22 years. She says maybe one day she'll find the love of her life😢

Why do I want to chase someone who will leave you again

My ex told me three weeks ago that I’m a good guy but she doesn’t feel we can recover from disrespecting each other. Fast forward three weeks later and she’s saying she wants to start back talking and miss goofing around with me. Is this a sign of breadcrumbing?

Well, Brad for me, my ex left me about 8 days ago now and said they think they misunderstood having someone close for love. I don't fit the normal criteria of people they would date, and I honestly don't know if they will ever date me again.

My ex just moved on and had a child with my neighbour - that broke my heart more than the breakup. Stopped bothering with his stepson. He’s now engaged to another woman and is doing well financially. I think the universe is trying to slap me in the face lol and it hurts - yeah I regret it for all the blows that came after the break up. As my life hasn’t changed much I just seem to feel sad, rejected and unattractive.

I’m working on myself by working on my anxiety, not drinking, and doing therapy. If we just broke up a week ago, & I’ve texted and called so much, but I stopped yesterday, could this still work?

Salute 🫡 you ❤❤

Thank you for sharing this stuff it was very helpful. I’m going thru a huge break up with a guy that I was so in love with but yes time and time again no matter times he tried to keep telling me how much he loved me and then drawling me back in, he always does the same thing over and over. I know I’ve just got to let me go. So annoying. It’s life so whatever. He’s a psycho anyways. I’ve cut contact with him but he keeps writing me from other profiles and Your right in this video but he scares me he’s bipolar and I am too so I just don’t think it’s gonna even work. Lol 😂 anyways I liked this video!

Thank you Brad I'll be very grateful if you answer❤️.. I've Been in a long distance relationship for 5 months and he broke up with me after a honest conversation about what our relationship miss to be more successful.. I said to him I will try my best to make things better but after 10 day he said he want to breakup again I tried to convince him but it didn't work and he said he is sad and his feelings changed since that conversation and felt like his hard work for the relationship wasn't enough for me and he feel his heart is close and not knowing what to do about it and say he want me stay away from him now and want to be alone to feel him self again because he so tired from this.. I been in no contact about 6 days but he break it 2 days ago to wish me a happy birthday.. What should I do now???

Thanks for your videos, Brad, they're really helping me in this moment. I am still shocked by my wife saying she was giving up three weeks ago. We have two small kids, 6 and 3, and 12 years together. The alleged reason is that I am too serious, passive, somewhat depressive, etc. I recognize and I was trying to fix that before she broke. I am shocked and very disappointed on how cold and hard she's been on that. Not a single tear so far. This hits me so hard that I can't even think of what could help me towards a "better version" of myself right now.

But my ex knows that I only post stories when I’m not happy😂 So i guess for me it’s better that I don’t put a lot of stories on insta

Hi Brad I’ve been following you yeah now , so my ex boyfriend broke up with me 6 months now and never leave me alone always text me say want see me so bad then ghost me what should I do I’m kind like so annoying from him !

Thank you Brad, I bought your kit and signed up for the email coaching. He keeps texting me still and we broke up this week. He’s texting but not as before like a bit more reserved, I fully expected to go 30 days no contact but I’m blocked on social media. I’m confused how to move forward

Me n my ex have been split up for about 12 years now. We have a daughter together so we do keep in contact for her. So this year so far we went Christmas shopping, she unblocked me on Facebook and added me on Snapchat but i found out she has a boyfriend so I deleted her from Snapchat and blocked her on Facebook. The past few weeks shes been showing up to our daughter's school on days she knows I pick her up. What do you think is going on in her mind?

So you recommend to post thing in instegram or Facebook of things u do in your life? Its not better not to do it The mystery is a better option?

If your value initially attracted your ex, then why would you feel the need you need to improve your value to get them back? This doesn’t make sense. You were good enough then. They just couldn’t see the value in you.

what do you do if they believe that we only grow and improve ourselves if we arent together? like how can I beat that? I improve my life and confirm what they thought or i dont change and im still the same person that they left?

What does it mean, if her profile says she single on Facebook or other media, but she goes out and drink, gain weight, stressed, but she hides here and there with someone, but is nice to you and is always mad, even when bumping to each other at places .. also yall have kids together .. I feel like this isn't mentioned here with couples with kids, then broken up. Whats the answer ????????

I dont want to get her back.

Brad i have loved the same woman for 26 years she destroyed our marriage 18 years ago she wanted to go play leaving me and our 5 year old alone without her and ended up have someone else's children and each time she had a child she brought the newborn to me and laid the baby in my arms and i am so attached to the children and them to me that it feels like they are mine my ex and I never got a divorce and we are very close matter of fact she and i were having an affair the entire time she was with the guy after me and her and I are still close these days her life is a mess and a bit dysfunctional and its like im waiting for her life to fall apart and she comes to me however she cries and gets tender hearted if she thinks im thinking about moving away where im not in her life and her broken heart just kills me but my shattered heart is literally going to kill me im afraid.... will the disappearing and no contact still work after all this time she has never really had me out of her life i think she believes i will always be there no matter what but i need to get her to take action at some point and it may take a lot longer than weeks it may take a year or so for her life to fall apart and her want to come to me although she will be out of her mind if i disappear she will fight to find out where i am and i know i have to be silent so what do i do brother

Hello Brad! Mw and my baby daddy broke up end of December and we still havent gotten back together and he didnt even wish me a happy mothers day and we have a child together, he said he didnt Wish me Happy Mothers Day because he has flashbacks negativity in our relationship things I did

Should I unfollow him on social media after breakup during no contact?

I'm just trying my best not to contact my wife but I just miss her I was doing the NC the thing is that I'm getting her mail in my apt still? No and then I just Tex my wife just to let her know that she has mail I put her,her favorite energy drink in mail too she took I did Rong doing it but WHY still getting her mail what do I do

umm we just broke up, but 2 days later she is chatting a guy or guys and made calls, is it her way to provoke or push me away? DOES SHE feel real love to those guys? is it worth to do the NCR?

Some people may have to experience, " the one that got away" for real. ❤

If we are blocked everywhere, how will he get to know our improved version and have no common friends

Its been 7month now since she broke up with me , we have two kids and i have been working on my self but early this year she gave me a condition that if i wanted her back then i should go perform the marital rights to her family. Honestly i did perform the rights years back but it wasn't complete and early this year i got into some business that needs fund and i told her that i can't manage to do it right now coz am financially handicapped, we should fix the marriage so that even when i go home to complete the rights u will be satisfied of my changes but she decided to complete break up Brad how do i go about that?

We talked about staying friends, because we are good for each other, we never argued or things like that. He says that he has feelings but dont have the deep feelings, he also has other health issues, maybe we dont know each other good enough (6 months) and need to give it time without the sex, because we have very good chemistry. I dont know if this is good or not? Can this make him change his mind if we just focuse on doing things together and take our time without the pyhsical??

What if you have kids together, how does no contact work?

What about when kids are involved?

One month NC and I'm fading fast. I have moments of sheer terror punctuated by crippling anxiety. I see her every day at work I have to walk by her to get to the bathroom and I am dying to stop and beg but I don't. I really don't think NC is working for me.

Hi sir..our relationship was of 2 years nd she cane to know that its bot going to work further after 1 year itself due to caste issues nd family prblms but even then she tried nd we completed 2 years but 1.5 month ago her father came to know about our relationship which made it difficult he stopped talking with her nd she said that we need a break for 1 year after this we had many many more arguments fights which made her hurt at great extent... Nd now she is saying she don't know if we will continue after 1 year... Mayve she is moving on know but after the break up she suffered very much she cried alone.. but now i really wanna her back ASAP but she is making distance from me ... She says its better we will be friends what should i do sir ?? Plzz help

she had a crush on me at work.i fked up and after 5 months still not together...

How does this change if they monkey branched? Such a fast transition.. "I love you" and new sex 3 weeks after the breakup.

My wife left me after 22 years and 3 kids together. We had every kind of times but I never was violent, abusive etc. She said she just wanted a normal middle class life she saw everywhere and it was impossible with me. I was cool and calm. friendly, never asked her back. I bought a house, got a proper job and nice income. 3 years later we get along friendly, I help her a lot, I am very kind etc but she never asked me back. She is still single but there is no hope to reconcile.

My question is ,what if my ex girlfriend was having an affair with another man few months before she brock our 8 years relationship? What is the best advice .?

I don't feel regret of him leaving me bc I prepared years but just sad to waste my time when was completed break up by cheating, betrayed hidden. Not fair , even I told him when he had another relationship, just told me and I would feel not as stabbing my back which was wierd and immature and lost faithful to him

Hello, I am from Thailand. I'm an LGBT couple. We've been together for almost 2 years. He was the one who started flirting with me first. My love ended 1 month ago. He told me that he no longer loved me. We never fought, but I still have contact with him to this day. We’re still friends and we text but he looked cold, like he didn't want to talk to me. I still miss him now. Can i ask if there is still hope.

I really need help with getting my ex back please

I think they need to change as well

Mine left and disappeared for 7 months and she hit me up to ask me the stupidest question out of nowhere. We started talking slowly and eventually got back together and she was disrespectful to me and not respecting boundaries. I told her to get the hell out of my place and she said okay with no fight. Packed up all her stuff and left and she went completely silent. I did reach out because I said stuff out of anger because she was caught talking to a man behind my back AGAIN. Haven’t talked to her in a month now. 5 years together. Down the drain.

We never fought. Never in two years! The only thing that she told me is that the age difference became an issue, even though it didn't ever change and I am more healthy than she is! So, how do I "change" an age difference?! Pizdets

I just got out of a 2 year relationship and I’m confused as to why my girl broke up with me over our personal issues that we needed to change in our relationship. I couldn’t change for her during our relationship, for example, not taking things so seriously and getting upset at most things. Which yes there’s things in our relationship we bother needed to work on. But still doesn’t give the reason to break up with me even though I caught her flirting with other guys and I need a break after that for her to earn my trust back, but she did not hook up what so ever. More of a girl trait of waiting attention from me but-couldn’t give that to her as we were going through personal life stuff and had little arguments. she turned it into our personal things that we need to work on and broke up over that reason instead of the reason she cheated on me. I’m just confused about this,

It's like another full month of not seeing her and throughout the time I was exercising quite alot lately and like I feel different and I learning my learners and driving license and by fixing my mouth and teeth it's a total game changer although at times I will still think about her but not that much❤❤❤❤

Why my ex say sorry and thank you to me often.

It's been 2 years and she told me she wants to move on

no I don't want to to him

How to escape friendzone from girl I like she also likes me to some extent?

So after basically 1 month of no contact my ex reaches out saying he how are you ? Then I respond I’m good and you Then he says I’m good Then I say I’m glad Then the. Conversation ends there Do you think he messaged because he misses me?

I've watched a ton of these types of videos since my breakup. One common thread I don't understand is, how can they see all the improvements and changes in you if you are maintaining no contact?

What if you are co-workers??

Forget it. No revenge (since it creates more revenge). They leave, let them go. They are a negative in your life. Why should you care? I don't know a good answer I've heard to this question.

Brad my ex keeps saying she's lost feelings and all and don't see me in that way and has bpd and shes gone to a lads other house and dating them after a week we broke up

I was engaged with a woman who I believed loved me immensely, we lived together for 6months. Without any signs or reasons she left Friday stating she had a family emergency and never came back. No reason, I provided her with all expense paid trips and dinners... treated her with respect and really like a queen. She is drinker so perhaps she never really loved me. I have no children and make a decent salary, my own place, love to travel, love camping and the great outdoors.

It’s been 2 almost 3 months and I’m not even close to happy

None of this matters if another person steps into their gaze. All that to shes texting all the guys that was waiting in line

Can you do a video about a guy who did drugs and had a real special girl who put up with it for 10 years and he kept relapsing and they split up?

She rejected me but always keeping me in the friend zone. And indirectly giving me hope & manipulated me. I started contact off she is showing curiosity interest in me I am totally ok now. Fuck off from my life