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Treat her like a celebrity and she’ll treat you like a fan

Im gonna be indestructable i'm learning all these things at 17 and applying it to my life.

"A pleasant 6-7 is far better than a cunty 8-9" - word brother. Most 8's and 9's are absolutely horrible people. I'll happily settle for an easygoing 7 with humility and a positive attitude.

Poor guy. My heart bleeds for him... Half of his "questions" are humble brags.

I am a mom, stepmother, wife for 18yrs. You are so right!! My husband occasionally helps around the house which is super nice of him. He works hard and puts up with a lot of shit at work. Feminists need to go away. Men are meant to be men! I am so lucky to have a man that still thinks I'm hot, when I'm so not, he puts up with my moods and crazy moments. I try to never talk down to him or act like I don't need him. And yes, I put out! Good grief women are mean! I love my lumberjack. Keep encouraging men to embrace their Alpha side.

this guy wants to get married but he has red pill knowledge so hes afraid he ll get screwed

4 kids is gonna be a major red flag for women. He’s getting exactly what he should be I’d say. Imagine dating a girl with 4 kids. No chance in hell I’d ever do it. Even if she was a dime..

It takes practice, you become alpha by practicing alpha habits

This guy has it all ... bank, looks, sports cars, social status, owns several business, and multiple spinning plates ... he is living the dream, and he has children. Why screw this up by getting into an LTR? Like Rich said “LTRs are a lot of work compared to spinning plates”.

He thirsts for female validation. That's his problem. He made his bed, well....now he must deal with the baby mammas. LOL

A picture of a guy next to Dan Belzarian carries no value today.

Would say avoid instagram, Facebook etc at all costs and go about life focussing on you rather than others.

I never clicked so fast lol

"Listen, my son! Listen, son of my womb! Listen, my son, the answer to my prayers! Do not spend your strength on women, your vigor on those who ruin kings." Proverbs 31:2-3

So good looking guy with sports car collection is having issues with women... Imagine us regular dudes.

Throwing a like on this before Rich can finish his intro. This is what we need to hear. Edit: this channel is part of the reason why I've decided to reshape my life. I wouldn't say I was totally blue pilled, but I needed to improve. I've recently gone back to the gym, and I'm starting a business with a great friend of mine. Thank you for the inspiration Rich.

i think when good women see him and find out he has 4 kids from different mothers, BIG RED FLAGS.

Our perception creates our reality...DESIGN A MASCULINE MINDSET

What I could grasp from him is sense of happiness, belonging, and self comes from being in a relationship. Those two things are no related at all. He must look inside and see he doesn't need anyone beside himself to be feel those things. It takes time, but it worth it. Women will compete for you, trust me.

The marriage rate is at 33/1000. ALL-TIME LOW. Men are checking out. Take the signal for what it is. Take Rich's advice, learn the system, and game it to achieve the attention you desire while maintaining control of your assets.

How’s being faithful to your wife a beta conditioning? I’m just asking, not criticising. How can you expect loyalty from her while you’re not giving the same in return? Sounds hypocritical to put it mildly.

This is the content we need

Do you already have four kids why would you want a LTR what are you doing????

Just started reading “the unplugged alpha”. I grew up with a single mother and I’m glad to have found your channel. Maybe it will help me get things figured out. Things were certainly easy in high school and college picking up women I didn’t even need to give any effort. But after a few bad relationships I’ve taken a long break and trying to get back in the swing of things. I ordered another book you recommended just waiting for it to come in. Thanks for all your advice dude. Keep up the good work!

Been blue pill for all my life until I understood I can't fix, change, heal a woman who is a BPD train wreck. Had 6 since 2016 (split from a 12 year LTR in 2015) and managed to eject all 6, once I heeded the red flags they ALL waived inside 3 months each. Now thanks to this channel I have zero tolerance to be a tampon and I'm far more focused I my purpose and mission, I've cleared out ALL toxic friends and family and I have so much more energy to give to my circle and I feel so positive about the future. Thanks Rich for your ongoing no nonsense approach to self improvement, its too easy for guys to feel sorry for women who make poor choices, that's what let me down in the past, so now I am saying "I'll do me" "you do you" etc.

Getting today's education!!

Awesome video bro! 💯🔥

I like this video, a response to a higher value man with awareness compared to lower betas. We all slip up, just do the work guys!

Beta boyfriend category to me means when she sees you as long term relationship material and then treats you differently than she does hookup material. You can be high value and end up in the beta boyfriend category, where she expects you to go to the ends of the earth for.... a crumb!

Gentlemen, you're the gatekeeper of paternity. Learn the lesson that poor guy didn't learn. This is no undo button for unfooking your life.

I could relate to this guy. Thank you for the advice, Rich.

Needs to focus on his kids for now.

The “Beta Tampon”...... Damn what a great term for the description!

Well said. Thanks for showing the truths

I think the best advice to give this guy is tell him to imagine he's 59 and make decisions based on that.. he'll think VERY differently I reckon. He's not in the real world of most guy's that comment on this channel.. he's very fortunate.

Dude focuses wayyy too much on women and seems like he needs them to exist.

Sounds like a classic case of “I want what I can’t have” Good reviews thanks

"Fist thing is knowing what you want" best advise you can give someone .well done.

They don't even bring their own chair to your table 👊

This videos is very important

You are right, have met one guy with 2 teenagers, and generally, women were avoiding him like cancer. One woman she was dating him for a while and her parents were very much against it, eventually, she left him.

Yeah, this whole thing was a humble brag. Rich must see that. Still a nice way of telling him to figure out what you really want 🤘

Hi brother from another mother. Cheating is beta because he agreed to start a LTR and compromised. Alpha behavior is being able to say “I like you, but I’m seeing other people too. If you’re OK with that we can still date and hang out. No compromise.” Cheating is not alpha. Love your content.

I always like to learn stuff from people like you that knows more about the game than sometimes we think we know 100%👍⚓

I appreciate all you do. Men need guidance in this day and age and our fathers are worse than us.

Him dealing with 6-8s type woman with no meaning while being a high valued man, to me , it seems like he strived all his life to get to this point just to be “the man”. He still has 0 confidence in himself. All that he acquired is just bait for woman that he thought would make up for his lack of confidence. I see that all the time; the guy with the fancy car / clothes/ good job/ in shape ect only to be the same lame as before when he got all that. Spinning plates with a bunch of woman doesnt make you the man and he is realizing that hard which is why he will eventually settle down with a 5-7 ish type girl. Word of advice: everything the guy has and accomplished for himself STILL didnt make him an alpha. To become an alpha, you must first shake off the mentality of the beta. He didnt , he’s just a beta with alpha type status: A Catfish

Not really feeling this hype about IG And strong social media presence. If Los Angels and that kind of shit is your thing then okay...

It is really difficult to train children and teach them the difference between good & bad right wrong, nice video

last girl I went out with was an 8. Instagram 18,000 thirsty followers. She was a hell of a lot of work. Beautiful girl ,18 when I started dating her and 20 when I walked away from her. You are right Rich and 8 or better is too much work. Years ago it was not like that but now with social media it is different indeed.

Have seen the harem arrangement. It was common among importers a couple of generations ago. It had a practical use. Travel took time. Chicago to Tokyo took six days. The business trip could take several months. The importer would have a wife with kids in each operational jurisdiction and the local wife became operating manager. They were called Dragon Ladies because they had a vested interest and were ruthlessly single minded protecting ‘her’ business

Impressive analysis, Richard. Dense conclusions as well.

Love your show.

I understand the odds and risk is not in the mans favor for an LTR/monogamy, however the want for this is still there, despite spinning plates through out majority of my 20's/ being with dozens of women, I am willing to throw all that away to be with 1 women. I do not have a scarcity mindset or am prescribed to strategic pluralism due to being a chad, however at soon to be 29 I much rather spend time with 1 women and build something together/ properly vet over years, rather than continuously going to pound town. I work on myself have no problem being alone, have hobbies, masculine friends, consumed red pill content for years etc, however this want is still there and feel like will only get stronger with age. knowing what I know from the red pill community, it makes me sad that the chances of me having this are so slim that it is almost not worth trying. How do I combat these desires , that I know stem from a gynocentric social order to serve the female imperative ?

If you want a long term relationship, do as I have done. Get into a relationship with yourself. No, that doesn’t mean stay home and masturbate. It means expand your interests, learn some physics, finance, psychology, a sport, travel, etc. you’ll always have something to turn to that you can enjoy or distract yourself with when women are bringing a bit too much drama. A few days, or a couple weeks, to take the focus off the spinning plates will serve you well every now and then.

I have to laugh at this guy. He is in the top 20% of all men. The top 1% of earners on this planet earn $37,500 USD a year or more. Let that sink in.

What Rich touches on in other videos is that a LTR can be in that 13 or even that 3 percent if you are able to spend time apart. I'm in the medical field and aren't home all that often. Mind you, we do talk on the phone, but when I come home the fire is burning as bright as it ever did. Familiarity breeds contempt and distance oftentimes helps re-instill some mystery and intrigue.

That guy sounds like a mess with his whiny questions. He doesn't have his crap together. He can't maintain a relationship. He has a number of baby mamas. He's not raising his own kids. He supposedly has everything but complains about everything. He seems insecure and narcissistic and obviously needs to do a lot of work on himself and focus on his kids.

“The Beta Tampon.” Haha, I’m going to use that. Good stuff

what I like about this channel is that he teaches you how to have a successful life. not just success with women there's more important things in life than women.

This was good. I think u nailed it with the comment “ltr is as much work as plate spinning”. My personal feeling as a 37 y/o man who’s lived with my last three ltrs in my home, I think possibly the pinnacle is two 10’s coming together monogamously yet living separately. Then when and if marriage or children is necessary, considering moving closer to eachother yet maintaining dual residence. Stay overs, fine, shared ownership, fine, live together in one house all the time until death, not fine, not sustainable. We’re in a new time of dual empowerment, male and female. Honor that. Never two chefs in the kitchen. The chief usually “sleeps” alone. My two cents.

Amazing!

great talk.

This guy is such a comedian. I about peed myself laughing when he said "Well the cops are there so good luck with that!"

I appreciate you

How can you not love Richard & Rollo you guys are live savers

Ur the man!

Lucky that I’m learning all this at 22 instead of 32. For all y’all 30 & 40 year old dudes out there I’m sorry y’all didn’t have KZfaq & all these alpha male channels to get y’all right when y’all was young

I'm learning to be better in my marriage. My wife doesn't need my sympathy all the time. She's capable. She's strong. She doesn't need me to save her. Understanding and implementing this has drastically improved my marriage thus far

You’re definitely right about most people having a lower chance of maintaining a passionate loving relationship. Most people don’t have the knowledge or tools to communicate and get their needs met. John Gray is incredible for relationship tools.

You can get the baddies, but trust me you’ll pay up. One way or the other.

All I can think as I listen to this video is it's amazing how much a single mother can ruin their son(s), even when their sons grow up to be successful. Being raised by a single mother is almost as damaging to sons as being physically/sexually abused by a primary caregiver.

I stopped "trying" and started doing/aiming for what I was after, even if it ment crashing face first every now and then.

I agree with you on most points. I will always stay faithful to my wife though. I can't agree with cheating.

Newbie here. The more videos I watch of you. The more you remind me of Kratos

This man He is a good man

The following excerpt from the book Sexual Market Value by Chris Capetown answers your question in detail: “Men’s instincts tend toward polygamy, women’s toward hypergamy. Hypergamy, for those who don’t know, is women’s congenital inclination to continually trade up in men. The word has Greek origins (hyper meaning ‘above’ and gamos meaning ‘marriage’) and originally referred to women’s tendency to “marry up”, but applies equally to non-matrimonial relationships. Whereas all men have a natural urge to copulate with a great variety of fertile women (because, in our evolutionary history, such behavior improved our chances of gene proliferation), women have a corresponding biological drive to have relations with the highest quality man they possible can (for the same reason) and to gain exclusive commitment from that man. Briefly put, men want a lot of women, women want one really great guy. Men and women’s respective sexual interests are therefore perpetually at odds, and the competition is zero sum in nature; for one sexual strategy to succeed, the other must be thwarted. If women are to fulfill their reproductive goal of getting exclusive commitment from a man, the man cannot simultaneously fulfill his reproductive objective of impregnating a harem and vice versa. Which of the two strategies prevails has varied throughout history. During certain periods and in certain areas, men were free to indulge their polygamous nature, as indeed they still are in certain contemporary societies. In the current industrialized world, however, female reproductive interests benefit the most. Polygamy is banned and monogamy is strongly encouraged, while hypergamy is not discouraged. Women are thus at liberty to fulfill their natural biological imperatives at the expense of men. For most of human history, only a minority of men but a majority of women managed to reproduce, because a relatively smaller proportion of dominant men slept with a relatively larger proportion of the women, partly because the dominant males within a tribe tended to mate with many women but also because far more men than women suffered a violent demise. Picture an armed conflict between two tribes. What happened to the men and what happened to the women? The men from each tribe fought each other and the losing side of males were killed, often along with their children. The women, however, were kept for mating purposes. Women who pledged eternal allegiance to her tribe, the “I would rather die than sleep with the enemy”-types, were killed. So women developed a certain willingness to (sometimes reluctantly, other times not) mate with the men who killed their husbands, fathers and brothers. This happens even today. Monogamy later developed because it promoted superior civilizations and stabilized society. Dominant chiefs who did not hoard all the women for themselves but instead let more of his followers have wives could build a greater degree of support among a larger number of men, making his army more formidable and reducing the occurrence of internecine strife. Monogamy is also the healthiest environment in which a child can grow up (because having both a mother and a father improved the child’s security and access to resources), which meant higher rates of survival within monogamous tribes. Both male polygamy and female hypergamy are perfectly natural and healthy preferences insofar as they have evolved over the years to better ensure the continuation of our DNA. All other things being equal, a woman who had children with the most successful and highest possible status man she could get (status and success have, admittedly, meant a variety of things over the years), had a greater chance of passing along her genes. A woman who, after first having children with one man, bore the child of another, only enjoyed a genetic advantage if the next man was of higher status. Conversely, the more fertile women a man banged, the greater his chances of passing along his genes. The reportedly prolific lover Genghis Khan, for instance, who spent decades bedding the wives and daughters of the men he subjugated and killed, as well as building a harem of thousands of young women, was perhaps history’s most successful man in terms of reproduction: A 2003 study headed by Chris Tyler-Smith found that 0.5% of all men alive are direct descendants of the great Mongol invader of lands and wombs. Whereas men’s natural desire for promiscuity is curbed through institutional and social reinforcement mechanisms (marriage, religious edicts, disapproval), female hypergamy is somewhat more tolerated in post-industrial societies. If you want to understand more about why this is the case, read The Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi. Hypergamy is also the reason why men and women love differently. The abovementioned Tomassi was the first to introduce me to this idea: Only men are truly able to love a mate unconditionally. Women are not. When discussing some of the topics in this book with a friend of mine, he asked “Shouldn’t men find women who love them for who they are instead of what they are? One who doesn’t care if you are rich or poor. One who will stay with you through thick and thin?”. This is a sentiment shared by a lot of good men and I admire the ingenuousness with which he asked the question. It reflects my friend’s propensity for unconditional love and his projecting of that same capacity onto women. But a woman’s love is always conditional. When a man says he want a woman to love him for who he is, the type of love he is referring to is the kind only his mother can give him. Your mother is the only woman who can love you unconditionally. In our brutish past, a man who fell out of love with and subsequently left his aging and bloating wife would jeopardize the survival of their common offspring. So nature left a fail-safe mechanism in place to ensure that men didn’t leave their wives even when they were no longer as aesthetically pleasing as in their youth: unconditional love. This is one reason, incidentally, that although high SMV men often take on younger mistresses later in life (because they are hotter) they still profess undying love and devotion for their wives. They aren’t usually lying when they say this. On the other hand, a woman who remained in love with a man who had, say, become a cripple and lost all his provisioning ability (the male equivalent to a hysterectomy in women) would severely limit her chances of passing along her genes. Women, or rather, women’s genes, could not afford to be irrationally devoted to a man without the capacity to feed and protect his children. And this is why nature left in place an inverse fail-safe for women: conditional love. The truth is, all female love is conditional in one way or another and a man can never separate who he is from what he is. Women marry men either on the basis of already manifested accomplishments or the potential for such accomplishments. A woman who falls in love with and marries young to a man with a promising future is taking a chance on him, but if he turns out to be a listless couch potato later in life, she will fall out of love with him. Now, before you start disparaging women for being so calculating and pragmatic in matters of the heart, remember that a) hypergamy is a perfectly rational reproductive strategy in light of the greater physical responsibilities and risks women have in terms of childbearing and b) it is actually great for civilization. Women are looking to get the most resource-rich men they can and that’s why we have cell-phones, symphonies and self-driving cars. Guys who didn’t look like Brad Pitt still wanted to find a high quality mate, which meant they needed to bring something other than looks to the table. So they went out and created more resources for themselves (and others). Since women invariably flock to the highest quality males this pushes men to continually strive for improvements. Improving themselves, improving the world, creating useful tools, crafting beautiful works of art, writing moving songs and so on. Someone (I don’t know exactly who) once remarked that a man guaranteed a steady flow of blowjobs from supermodels for the rest of his life would be perfectly content to live in a cardboard box. While that statement is no doubt an exaggeration, it illustrates the point that the amenities men have created in this world have not been primarily intended for their own enjoyment, but rather for that of women. We can thank hypergamy for the fact that we all, regardless of gender, get to enjoy these comforts today. Besides, hypergamy doesn’t go on forever. Usually, the impulse to find a higher quality mate stops once a woman has found a man with (what she subjectively perceives to be) an SMV 1-3 points above her own. Women stop acting on their hypergamous impulse when they feel they can’t do better. This is the most salient explanation for why divorce rates are lower among couples that marry later: The women (who in the United States initiate two-thirds of all divorces) have fewer options because they aren’t getting as many lustful glances from men as they used to. This also means that childbearing is a major contributing factor to the curtailing of hypergamy because once a woman becomes pregnant her SMV unquestionably nosedives because she now has children (an additional cost and burden) as well as a less attractive physique than before. Let’s say a woman who has an SMV of 8 marries a man who is a 9 to whom she consequently bears a child. During and after pregnancy, her SMV will be closer to 6 and any further hypergamy would be futile for her as she already has a man three points above her. No other niner men are looking at her today like they used to before she was pregnant, but her husband (who is still a niner) will be by her side. “ Hope this is helpful

24 and my life is definitely changing

Rich, excellent lecture. Could you please instruct us on how to spot attachment styles women exhibit

This is interesting.. I felt the same

Damn. I’ve learned from this channel that I’m a trash male in every possible way. The only thing I seem to have is a great relationship of nine years. I have no money, a crap job and I was fat when we met. This is weird. I need to find out why she’s really with me hahaha. I enjoy the channel anyway.

Totally agree on that spinning plates take less effort than an LTR. However, with the right woman, it can be worth it, but you need to be aware on not falling into a beta state just because you are in a LTR. You need to keep doing you, regardless of LTR or not, else she will lose respect for you.

LMFAO the dirty sanchez at 10:31 😭🤣

Definitely some meat and potatoes on this one, thanks Coop!

Hello Mr Cooper, I've been watching all of your videos for a good while now. I've read your book. Also got it on audible so I can listen. To make this short I've been divorced since 2007. And since then I've seen my share of women come and go. About 4 years ago I started reading self help books , watching videos, going to counseling and seeing a therapist. And one of the things i was diagnosed with is CPD Codependency Personally Disorder. And many of the attributes of this disorder fall under the beta category. Usually caused from childhood trauma. Now that I've been diagnosed and is something I'm working threw. I just wanted to see if you know about or have any information on CPD? If so I think it would be a helpful issue to discuss on your platform. And if you don't it's definitely something worth looking into. Now that I've been educated and working threw this issue on my own I think it could be helpful to all of your followers. Thanks for everything you do. And your help has been deeply appreciated brother.

15 here, I'm done with all the bullshit I've been taught, Time to think on my own.

Looking @ this point right now right here on MY LIFE....I changed in some way when I came back 2 the USA .. I dont know in what way tho.

I'm 24 and this is like my 4th time watching this cause it's on my dowloads

Most people are average. All men should be respected. You shouldn't have to be a big shot just to get some trim or have a loyal marriage.

How i wished I found your channel 4 months ago

With 4 kids from multiple women he is unfit for the type of relationship he desires. He has mismanaged his romantic life and will most likely fall into the same pattern from the past. His best bet is to find a woman or two who will be willing to see him on a consistent basis without disrupting his life. Until his children are grown, and on their own, he should avoid any type of relationship that he is unable to walk away from.

He is a father of four! This guy is an evolutionary success.

Wish I knew before hand

Saying the average of people that end up in LTRs that are happy is 13% so you have a 13% chance is like saying 60% of the population is fat so you have a 60% chance at being fat. Sure, if you do the same thing as the average guy, then you'll have a 13% chance but how you choose your mate and how you treat them has a huge affect on that number.

Mobile is lacking access to join the newsletter. It brings me to the page, "join the newsletter", but no form line or option to add your email to the list. The only form line that's showing underneath " join the newsletter" is the site search inquiry.

So depressing when you break it down to 1's and 0's like that. I'm going to do some pushups now and wake up early today 🤣

I would love a true red-pilled alpha type to contact the channel and ask Rich how he becomes a fully-fledged plugged-in beta to fit in with his married friends. Rich would explode.

I've watched many of these videos & as much as I agree w/ most of it, I still have to ask why is using the Golden Rule (treat others as you want to be treated) a good thing in life but a bad thing when dealing w/ the dating world?

*_This conflicted questioner should take a one year hiatus from women. A sabbatical from poon tang and ALL women for whatever reason. It would help him focus. He should spend that "off" time with his 4 children._*

He called Grimes "that mod chick" LOL