When Getting "Friend-zoned" Leads to Heartbreak & Oneitis
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@mangoelvis1032 5 жыл бұрын
Is there any place we can view the original email from the guy?
@shitmandood 5 жыл бұрын
I just can't believe what I'm reading. He knows it's wrong and that it won't work, but then he keeps writing, "I think I still have a shot" and "My friends are telling me she's just scared" hahaha. He's finding any & every excuse to keep the flame going for a whaman that doesn't give 2-shits about him, except giving him a few honeyed words to keep his fire burning. Bottom-line: she is stuck in his head & she's not going _anywhere_. He could be stuck with this woman in his head for years and years! He might even turn into a stalker...Because eventually, she's going to lose interest & discard him like a child getting tired of an old toy. And that's a sad fucking state to be in.
@miguelma3237 5 жыл бұрын
DO Men need/hunt for love as much as Women need/hunt for attention !!??
@vancleave100 3 жыл бұрын
@@pluzzybear9902 he is just having problems
@vancleave100 3 жыл бұрын
@Julio cut him some slack it happens
@jwendling8886 5 жыл бұрын
he wanted advice from you on how to win the girl... you gave him advice on how to win himself. nicely done!
@nicolasabucharmoya5440 5 жыл бұрын
james wendling YES!!
@stevec3526 2 жыл бұрын
How can a guy win something that's this much of a mess. Why bother?
@dommidavros2211 Жыл бұрын
Man you are SO cheesy!! Seriously, what is with you lot and your little soundbites?!
@dommidavros2211 Жыл бұрын
@@stevec3526 By walking away, ghosting her and moving the f%^k on, that's how!
@steezli 5 жыл бұрын
He's in the friend zone because of long phone conversations and being available all the time. I stopped that crap in my early 20s and haven't been friend-zoned since. Sure I've been rejected but it's less painful when you haven't invested a ton of time in her
@Reincarny 5 жыл бұрын
Yeah good advice
@ggrthemostgodless8713 5 жыл бұрын
@Dark Caesar Yes... one time is all it takes, for life. I was 18 when it happened to me, I was dating only her, and because I had long term plans with her for life (soooo stupid at 18) when she wanted sex I didn't take it "respecting her virginity until later for marriage" I can't believe those words came out of my stupid mouth then, but they did, so later THAT YEAR she married a doctor she was working with, she was a nurse; she stopped seeing me for a month and didn't even told me, so obviously she was fucking him while seeing me. It devastated me for two or three years.... Lesson learned. ONE time. This guy should treat his female relations like negotiations just like he has to do for his business, apply THAT and he will be fine.
@esnutaliah 5 жыл бұрын
Less painful as well when you’ve got good advice from these videos swimming around in your brain. Sure, the shape of the exterior might be nice. It’s a cave of unfortunate events inside, though. They single? Ruining their own life single-handedly. They coupled? Makes bad choices in men, otherwise they wouldn’t be leading on with you. Female supposed monk mode with kids? Just wants a wallet for them. If none of those common scenarios fit, you can bet you’re in the friend zone for the simple fact that you supply attention. If you are in control of your feelings, it can be fun to play with them. Go hot and cold, get them to work harder for your free attention again. Ultimately, once you’ve done that a bit you can really see what a b* she is, too 😂😂😂 as soooon as you show a sign of wanting the cake again, shop shuts for business. Always keep in mind it’s a game, and you mean nothing to her above her need for eyeballs.
@cordariusniter2807 5 жыл бұрын
Being in the friendzone isn’t a bad thing. It teaches how women think. You can move from the friendzone if you understand women.
@ottosantiagolassus 5 жыл бұрын
True Better to be rejected than to be friend zoned.
@scotttracy9333 5 жыл бұрын
I had oneitus with a woman. After two dates she said she wanted us to be friends. I told her it's boyfriend/girlfriend or nothing. I thanked her for her time and left her there on the second date after telling her I won't be in touch. I ghosted her. After three days she was sending me constant messages and calling me. I told her to stop bothering me, because she knew what the conditions are for her to be in my life. She asked me out on a third date. We went out and she was totally different. Very much like a girlfriend and we slept together that night. All guys should be direct with women, tell them you will not accept a friend zone situation, and be prepared to ghost them.
@WilliamFergusMartin 5 жыл бұрын
Clear, helpful and succinct. Awesome. :-)
@scotttracy9333 5 жыл бұрын
@mike a Spot on there.. I only use messages and phone to set up a date. Even if I have nothing on that night I'm still too busy for long talks on the phone. We can talk on dates. This guy in the video was something wasn't he ?? Long talks on the phone, then he sees someone kissing his lady, and he still says he's working on the relationship. I'd have hit the road long ago.
@garythornbury9793 5 жыл бұрын
@mike a or just tell her if i wanted a friend i would buy a dog.
@jimjohnson394 4 жыл бұрын
Sounds like she was shit testing you. She wouldn’t have responded the way she did if she truly wanted to be just friends
@CaptEricS 4 жыл бұрын
YES! 3 days ghosting her? I'm in the same situation... I'm going to go for a week.
@abdilie 5 жыл бұрын
Best advice i live by, Richard gave..........is NO FREE ATTENTION towards woman.
@0P0M0 5 жыл бұрын
Preach, Brother!
@mahavira108 5 жыл бұрын
I almost admire this guy for having the courage to share this story considering how pathetically beta it is.
@jimmycampbell78 4 жыл бұрын
I do, it’s amazing how he was still wondering if there was a hope for the relationship when she made out with an alpha male in the corner, right in front of him! “I don’t want to give up hope” it’s crazy what we guys think when we fall hard. In my teens and 20s, I was there too.
@tonyb76 4 жыл бұрын
All been there at some point and some people still are (myself included). Thanks Rich for helping me see how beta I am still with my texts to my oneites.
@jakedrago7805 3 жыл бұрын
So many of us have done crap like this because of the bullshit romantic conditioning we thought it was the right thing to do to get the girl
@gw593 3 жыл бұрын
I was gonna make a judgment against him and then I read ur comment and realized ur observation..Thank you..he does have a lot of balls to put this out there.
@maestroadam 2 жыл бұрын
@@jakedrago7805 I'm guilty as charged. Avoid at all costs.
@foufa5965 5 жыл бұрын
This dude reminds me of my 15 year old self when I had oneitis with a girl. Dude grow up an actually swallow the pill.
@makegainz4218 5 жыл бұрын
Yup
@valporkins4453 5 жыл бұрын
Give em the red one
@bluesteel8376 5 жыл бұрын
ya, totally reminds me of my high school self.
@ChilliJonCarne 4 жыл бұрын
I’m 39. If this channel existed when I was 18 I would be in a very different situation now.
@Wolfboy183 5 жыл бұрын
This is like an addict being friends with a drug dealer who refuses to sell him drugs....
@mso008 5 жыл бұрын
This was me 12 years ago. One word: NEXT.
@mikehollin3818 2 жыл бұрын
Yep. Either a woman likes you or she doesn't.
@erstonoutway7281 5 жыл бұрын
Friendzone, just a nice name for a Trash can.
@Chesu360 5 жыл бұрын
Good idea
@Eric31477 4 жыл бұрын
WORD.
@daveunderwood6498 5 жыл бұрын
What I took from this is that she will just use and control you. PROTECT YOUR WEALTH, and run.
@garythornbury9793 5 жыл бұрын
remember the3 f's findem fuckem forgetem
@matt5745 4 жыл бұрын
Last girl that told me she was confused and still “talking” to a guy other than me, I said “the only man you need is Jesus”
@travis6694 3 жыл бұрын
Dawg that’s fucking funny
@moshosihole4185 5 жыл бұрын
Sounds like me when I was a simp😂😂😂 Let's not judge him we all have to go through this to learn unless you have been alpha your whole life.I hope he learns from this.
@PoyTroy Жыл бұрын
Yeaa i did this BS in high school. Not as a grown adult, but we def all been there 😂
@austinmiller3785 5 жыл бұрын
Never agree to friendship, that’s not congruent with what you really want, you say I’m not interested in friendship and walk away, also long distance is pointless AF. Being on the phone kills attraction, use the phone to set dates, then get the hell off the phone. Scarcity creates value!
@PeterJustGames 5 жыл бұрын
This was pure comedy ROFL Rich’s reactions were priceless
@poiu77 5 жыл бұрын
I had oneitis badly and I mean badly, but then I realised I was starting the conversation 100% of the time, I knew that this wasn't right so I cut her off I invested my time in coding and sports I'm now lighter in weight than I have been in 3 years and gym gone back to sports I have been watching rugby league and football, and been having a really good time
@zipzap1561 Жыл бұрын
Good for you man, that was smart and healthy, both physically and emotionally of you to do. She would've wasted your time and energy.
@vimal-cliobconsulting Жыл бұрын
@@zipzap1561 true
@practicesofyoga Жыл бұрын
I am an Asian man, been a beta for all my life. Thank you rich for this lessons. Been in oneitis with two women for 10 years back to back avoiding other women and spinning plates. I hope I had these valuable lessons when I was in my teens or twenties. It's extremely heart breaking to get of this oneitis and I am gone through lots of pain without taking good care for myself. Actually starting my life from zero now. Thanks again
@areafortyone 5 жыл бұрын
It's very easy to get caught up in that Disney fantasy world when your starved for love and affection. No such thing as "The One' it's just your turn. And there's no such thing as "Happily Ever After".
@johannes7434 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah his analogy with the drink was really good, it made me realize everytime this happened to me was 'cause I didn't have much going on at the time
@jipngloat5305 5 жыл бұрын
I feel like this guy has never watched any of your past videos. From the first sentence I was shaking my head, NOOOOOOO!
@valuetainer3437 5 жыл бұрын
And he claims he's in the private community
@filipsz6728 5 жыл бұрын
Another awesome red pill content, another lesson learned, another beta saved. Keep kicking it Richard.
@sookmahroot 5 жыл бұрын
10 years later this dude is rinsed through the divorce machine by this chick eating tv dinners in a low rent studio apartment whilst she and the 2-3 kids are enjoying the livestyle he worked for.... NONE OF THE KIDS ARE ACTUALLY HIS! Dudes listen clearly: If a chick does not have kids by the time she is 30 there is something seriously wrong with HER! 100% this chick has spent 16 years riding every hot dude that will give her the time of day whilst treating them all as disposable. She's in shock about her ex cheating on her because her illusion that she could just do whatever she wanted in her prime then marry up the moment she was ready has been shattered by a guy who treated her exactly like she's treated everyone else for over a decade!
@kchan6976 5 жыл бұрын
Brilliantly put.
@kbuss10 5 жыл бұрын
very true! good summary, Man!
@lt.2992 5 жыл бұрын
why not having kids is a problem?
@sookmahroot 5 жыл бұрын
@@lt.2992 Female fertility declines rapidly, most women are driven to desire and pursue children early. If a woman has no kids by 30 and is single she's either baron or brainwashed.
@lt.2992 5 жыл бұрын
Ryan K I haven’t met a single woman that’s inclined to have children young. All of the ones that had children young where in the wrong circumstances, not even married & now separated from their kids dad, while women I know who waited into later at life (late 20’s & early 30’s) to have kids have a stable relationship, married & have support for their kids. I think YOU are the one brainwashed.
@ko45allday 5 жыл бұрын
i would've cut the long phone calls from the get go. the only time you should use the phone is when making plans to meet up
@vigilfox Жыл бұрын
This is one of Rich's best videos, and this guy's scenario is about 95% accurate to something I recently went through. I had a terrible case of Oneitis for a chick who totally played me, and to make it worse, I allowed her to play me twice. I understand what this guy went through. Oneitis is a debilitating disease that must be avoided at all costs. Thankfully I'm on the mend. WATCH WHAT SHE DOES, NOT WHAT SHE SAYS. Always.
@VikrantBhagat25 5 жыл бұрын
I think i was like this sometime back but like the man said " look at her actions not what she says" hard lesson to learn but yeah the moment you don't have her attention move on and chase that excellence rather than women. My two cents on it, but i have been there; believe me i just turned red pilled 3 months ago, so for my entire life i have been blue pilled and let me tell you i got nothing from being the "ideal" man or whatever you want to call it, listen to the people on here. I wish you the best of luck.
@wisecounsel6135 3 жыл бұрын
Very similar thing happened to me about a year ago. That was when I started to seek answers because she ticked everything and I was desperate to "save" the relationship and she said she was hurt in the past... We kissed. Same story and she broke it off. I did the same thing, talked over 3 hours and the following day. That's when I saw something is not adding up and found this Red pill stuff, it makes sense now. Well I would have wanted to meet her when I had already been red pilled because now it's probably unlikely because I reduced myself too much. I had healthier relationships after that one but I broke most of them since I can now see obvious red flags that turned out to be confirmed after spotting them b4 hand.
@daviddaughenbaugh1080 5 жыл бұрын
If she isn't chasing you, don't waste your time. And, limit your available time to any woman! Find that red pill!!!
@scottdupont5899 5 жыл бұрын
This guy allowed himself to be used as an emotional tampon. Bad form..
@Auticusx 5 жыл бұрын
This is a person that is very much wanting a relationship. So much that they come off as desperate. And women will see that right away and tank you.
@namewithheld7835 5 жыл бұрын
She dropped him off at his RB&B because she was about to get wrecked by that Alpha she was making out with earlier that night
@TrueIndie88 5 жыл бұрын
Great video. Every pass of a paragraph was met with solid advice. I understand not wanting to face the reality of over... Be willing to walk from any deal makes you a powerful negotiator, and valuable.
@VanishPenguin 5 жыл бұрын
This story is criiinnngyyyyyyy
@valuetainer3437 5 жыл бұрын
Hahahahah
@werbinich7908 5 жыл бұрын
havent we all done shit like this?
@ericvicenty5866 5 жыл бұрын
@@werbinich7908 Gotta learn from the mistakes brother
@FJDH11 4 жыл бұрын
Yes, when we were teenagers. Not 32.
@PicoFromTX 5 жыл бұрын
Damn Rich, a lot of these emails I can't even power through. It's so difficult to listen to some of these. Hopefully your repose sets this man on the right path.
@allistonrental5073 5 жыл бұрын
Haha... Dude that was brutally honest... That natural laugh at him was priceless.
@CooLin1stPlace 5 жыл бұрын
You flew out there for a first date? WHAT THE HELL!!! Haha!!
@wesrm1 4 жыл бұрын
CooLin1stPlace Too many romantic comedies like Sleepless in Seattle have seeped into some people’s minds (probably subconsciously) and influenced this kind of behavior. This channel is fascinating. I’m a new subscriber.
@redrockkicks 5 жыл бұрын
if you make that much money and you're 32, look for a younger woman bro
@jasong5913 5 жыл бұрын
Dump her and raise your expectations and your standards. No oneitus.
@kid-davinci6848 4 жыл бұрын
Thank god i found your channel, I’m only 15 yrs old and a sophomore so these vids are really gonna help me in the future. Also to anyone else watching I hope you all have good days and don’t make the mistakes the guys in these videos with the requests are making
@shitmandood 5 жыл бұрын
I don't about you guys but my friends don't touch me, hug me, or hold my hands!!!! That woman was stroking him to keep him roped firmly into the friend zone. It'll be a whole other story when she starts telling him about how she just met Chad Thundercock after he flew away & tells him that Chad is the light of her life.
@zipzap1561 Жыл бұрын
Exactly. She's touching him to rope him and keep him interested. She may not see it as a 'big deal' but she knows that by touching him, she's flirting with him and getting validation. To him, he thinks it means she's sexually and/or romantically interested in him when all the other signals point to her just using him for validation.
@dibyajyotimondal7011 Жыл бұрын
Same happended to me, She touched my shoulders and biceps which my female friends never do. She started calling me by special name. She gave her phone in my hand and asked me to listen to her favourite romantic songs. When I confessed her writing a love letter, she rejected me and she was crushing on someone else in front of me after two days.
@lordofgingers 5 жыл бұрын
Good video. All young men should watch this. It'll prevent reruns for many.
@DARKMAGA6969 5 жыл бұрын
I learned "let's just be friends" is bullshit in high school. After that, I flat out hang up or walk away when they give the friend's zone speech.
@HellenicWolf 5 жыл бұрын
Awesome hard cold truth, amen! There's no better way to course correct myself than here. Always, before a date, I go check some of Rich's videos. Then I'm ready to roll. Whenever I do this, I'm on fire and on point. Thanks Rich!
@JKS323 5 жыл бұрын
I can relate this to on a personal level. Having multiple options is the key, Chicks do it all the time and you should do it too.
@killer45608 5 жыл бұрын
I was raised by my mom and she always said women are nuts, the marriage laws will hurt you if your not careful and be carful with the kind of women you be with
@burnsyodice3049 4 жыл бұрын
facts. my grandma was like who would vote for Hillary i wouldnt even trust a woman to run the country
@kurodesuuuu 2 жыл бұрын
i know that dude is probably not reading the comments here, but I just want to thank him for sharing his experience. I could relate to him on so many levels, and learned several things not to do - like going 'monk' mode for too long, not wasting time on the phone and meet in person, value your time, and be willing to walk away.
@TylerJxN 5 жыл бұрын
Every time I think the bar cant get any lower.
@elrickpenn 3 жыл бұрын
... Ma Nigga !!! ... I lmmfao !!! ...
@garrettparker4007 3 жыл бұрын
Reminds me a lot of myself. Thanks for the feedback Rich
@jefesalsero 5 жыл бұрын
As a therapist myself, Rich is correct - The Rational Male should be THE therapy. For ALL men!
@bernie6355 5 жыл бұрын
My friend you are such a wise man. This all happened to me also but listening to you had made me stronger. I will not bend over to another woman again. I am now looking at improving myself first. Richard you are the best.
@88Rickster88 5 жыл бұрын
Bernie Smatavicius never bend backwards if she isn’t willing to do the same
@wilkinsnl 4 жыл бұрын
Incredibly salient information. Thanks Rich.
@ivartheboneless8868 5 жыл бұрын
there is no such thing as a LDR and never talk to a woman for 5 hours on the phone or online
@richuncle9689 5 жыл бұрын
He should of flew over there and manhandled the hell out of her and that was it. She lives in a different state! She's not worth your time. Too many mistakes made with this situation.
@Richard-zb3qw 3 жыл бұрын
This sounds a lot like what always happen to me. I had oneitis for 3 women (separate occasions) I used to like in my 26 years of life until I encountered the red pill. Now, I'm taking the red pill daily by watching these videos. Thanks, man! It helped a lot. Now, into doing the work and chasing excellence!
@Sidewinder1999 3 жыл бұрын
I still catch myself thinking this way at times. This video is good to come back to for a nice red pill slap in the face to snap me out of it. Great video.
@ianpescod Жыл бұрын
This information is freaking gold man. Needed to hear this and so much of what you say in your other videos. Thankful to have stumbled upon this channel dude. Thanks for what you do.
@prvifront5532 5 жыл бұрын
Damn I see my old self in all of this.
@austinmiller3785 5 жыл бұрын
Richard be the king of brutally honest!
@yashtike1603 4 жыл бұрын
Hey thanks a lot for this content Rich. I recently went through something almost similar, and this served as a good wake-up call.
@openmind5363 5 жыл бұрын
You're killing me with this...his trying to make something happen that will never happen...this will make him jaded towards women...reality is kicking him in the ass
@austinfrazier7325 5 жыл бұрын
Great video Rich and some golden comments
@Leon-rs7tf 3 жыл бұрын
After seeing a few of your videos, I’m telling to my self continually how stupid I was the past 10 years. I’ve been doing this stupid betha shit with all the women that I know. Being the nice guy never helps. Long and funny talks never worked. Thank you my brother for the red pill that you gave me. Mister Richard you are the man!
@bob707builder8 5 жыл бұрын
Friend Zone = Cost Savings
@pedobear497 2 жыл бұрын
I love Rich‘s reaction.
@Unhacker 2 жыл бұрын
These vids are always on point and though the advice may sting and melt your favorite fantasies, it's worth it to wake up from the matrix. And though it's all true, there is *one* exception to most of these pitfalls of women: The absolutely sincere first-timer. I met and married my wife in college and she'd only had a couple of relationships before me. No, she wasn't perfect and neither was I, but it lasted 25 years until she died. Yes there was drama, sh*t testing, continually re-proving my worthiness, etc...but she never strayed, never took advantage of my trust (well, not too much), and stood by my side through some really sh*t times -- as long as I was always fighting to win. I realize that will never happen again, both people have to be in that greenhorn state and the love has to be real, something I'll never recreate at 50. But I still want to point out, love *is* real (or can be) and even if it never happens to you or me (again), it is not a mirage. RIP Chia-Ching Shen 1967-2018 miss u babe
@annacomnena217 5 жыл бұрын
Sounds very much like an encounter with NPD / Cluster B. Far too simplistic to say he came on too strong.
@israels98 3 жыл бұрын
glad i found this. Thank you rich🤙🏼
@TinyDancer250 5 жыл бұрын
Rich, what we have here is a mini-me version of Elon Musk.
@NateTheAok 5 жыл бұрын
This really sucks for men that actually want a partner to be around. I always was there and that kindness was always thought of as a weakness, now putting no time into them gets you all the sex free.
@zipzap1561 Жыл бұрын
I think it's because if a woman gets little attention from a man (that she's sexually attracted to), she thinks he is being selective and if he's being selective, there must be a good reason for it, e.g. he has something that makes him desirable that allows him to be choosy. Women interpret this as the man having good genes if he can be choosy and they want to compete for a chance at passing these genes on to their offspring. It's built in to them. If you give them too much attention, they'll feel validated but not necessarily sexually attracted. Men become frustrated because they think that if a woman spends time with them, that means they like them. They might, but they also might just like the attention you give them. Be upfront with them so you don't end up wasting your time. Like Rich says, you need to pay attention to their actions to see if they line up with their words.
@loisismygramma4258 5 жыл бұрын
6 1/2 hours😱?!?!?!?! What?!?
@primestronaut 5 жыл бұрын
I love these kind of videos Rich! Lots of cringe and a great lesson to learn.😂
@benbenben123ben 4 жыл бұрын
Just got some of that soap! I’m excited to see its affects!
@lechoso72 4 жыл бұрын
Your videos have so much good stuff! I am learning so much from you and Tommassi. It's insane how blue pilled I was.
@cloudconnected1476 5 жыл бұрын
This guy is amazing! He use actual logic, not submitting to modern socially accepted behavior pattern. Most of the stuff i knew subconsciously, but these videos helped me to think about it actively. As for second part, i live in Serbia which is almost a third world country and i can't afford to support financially Your channel, but i did subscribed and liked videos as well recommended it to few of my friends... For what it's worth :) Good luck! P.S. Tactical wear is clothes that are designed to withstand battlefield conditions... But what a hell is tactical soap?! :D
@dougackerman4182 2 жыл бұрын
Great content Rich
@Sixbears 5 жыл бұрын
You can find the right one and make it work -but you've got to seal the deal. At 17 I knew that women who play games need to be left at the curb.
@avso9944 5 жыл бұрын
He needs to stop chasing women. The letter speaks for itself with statements like "I know I'm a good catch." His whole perception of reality is based on how he is validated by a woman. He needs to concentrate more on self-improvement.
@titlespree 5 жыл бұрын
When you become successful, you will always find some of your friends/relatives hating you for it!
@motorbikemadness5773 5 жыл бұрын
"Watch what she does, and not what she says." --- BINGO!
@itsyah 5 жыл бұрын
This is exactly why balance is important.. (Too much of anything is never good, even solitude). This guy said "full monk mode" to complete simp (5hrs on the phone??). #2 Should NEVER be with a woman older than you. This guy was projecting his fantasy thinking she felt the same, but that was the inner thirst lying to him.. some guys do this and when they see the results they go back to red pill rage instead of correcting where they made error.
@jeevee5852 3 жыл бұрын
You could really sense the frustration that Rich had with this one. Was certainly entertained - also, good luck to the guy, I hope he get's the red pill internalized better late than never.
@tt_dota 2 жыл бұрын
We need more videos like this!!!
@danieltapia6432 5 жыл бұрын
Richard went beast mode on this guy lol
@GuitarGangsta 5 жыл бұрын
Man, i can only hope homie is brand new to red pill knowledge, because he stepped in several landmines. This was very painful to listen to but a lot of us have been there but Have not stayed there thank God
@JustAwesome2020 5 жыл бұрын
You’re right I only talk to my friends for five hours😂
@eatermckinnon4644 5 жыл бұрын
There you go!! Validated by a chick!!
@innercircle341 5 жыл бұрын
Just listening to the breakdown was hilarious
@motorbikemadness5773 5 жыл бұрын
You're right Rich it does not work and I'm talking from experience.
@pcproffy 4 жыл бұрын
This email is hilarious! Live and learn, Boys.
@leviborbely9727 5 жыл бұрын
Wish i would have watched your videos when i was 14-16
@leo.budimir 5 жыл бұрын
Richard reaction is so priceless here =D
@traptracks4007 Жыл бұрын
You are my only motivator 💯💯💯💯
@rakeau 5 жыл бұрын
Wanna get out of the friendzone? Stop being friends.
@ricardobelmont5984 5 жыл бұрын
Ugh reminded me of when I was young and stupid. The "love conquers all" phase. I look back and glad that version of me is dead and buried. Attention is the coin of the realm don't waste your time we have so little of it.
@jbevolve2023 5 жыл бұрын
Rich, the shit does not work! Great video !
@NM-tl6pe 5 жыл бұрын
Fucking brutal. Well done. I wish I had this kind of advice when I was in my 20's. Guys have no idea how lucky they are now to have red pill role models.
@rickschulte2839 5 жыл бұрын
This videowas awesome thank you
@gnryushi 5 жыл бұрын
This dude's biggest mistake was agreeing to be in the friend zone. I would've just laughed and got out of there.
@CleanWithEV 3 жыл бұрын
I was listening to this in my hearing aids while at the gas station pump and literally said aloud, “ooufffff come on man” The lady next to me asked if I was okay
@jasonashworth612 5 жыл бұрын
Rich, I can personally attest that what you have been doing does not work...this guy is giving you good advice. This stuff works. I can testify to that too.
@alfonsopayan7982 5 жыл бұрын
" STOP IT, that s*** doesn't work " 🤣
@alexcoyg3281 5 жыл бұрын
This is more horrifying than Ted Bundy documentary
@JP_AZ 3 жыл бұрын
🤣😂
@job3831 5 жыл бұрын
I've interacted with woman in this way because I had reservations. Something about them didn't match my criteria. Sometimes we don't realize it but our subconscious mind has struck sail and dropped anchor to keep us from hitting a reef.
@WilliamFergusMartin 5 жыл бұрын
Interesting point. Sometimes I have sabotaged myself with blue pill behavior and realised later it was actually the right thing to do. I had been letting my small brain do the thinking with the wrong kind of woman... But, other times....
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