Brendan Murphy, "What Do I Blame My Depression On?" (Counterparts Interview)

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6 жыл бұрын

Brendan Murphy from Counterparts discusses his frustration with feeling depressed without having something to "blame it on." He talks about what has and hasn't worked when dealing with his struggles.
If you struggle with depression, you're not alone.
Jacoby Shaddix from Papa Roach went through depression as well:
• Jacoby Shaddix Feeling...
So did Jesse Leach from Killswitch Engage:
• Jesse Leach on His Dep...
They all mention it's important to talk about the pain you're going through. Comment below your story, or share on our anonymous Support Wall and receive encouragement on the same day you post: forum.heartsupport.com
HeartSupport is an online community that helps people overcome mental health struggles.
Founded by Jake Luhrs of August Burns Red.
www.heartsupport.com/

Пікірлер: 76
@Jman8345
@Jman8345 6 жыл бұрын
Sat behind him in highschool, great dude
@alexbaribeault
@alexbaribeault 4 жыл бұрын
@Clams McGee Oddly specific question
@socalstoners7107
@socalstoners7107 4 жыл бұрын
Questions sometimes need answering.
@guyonagravitronmachinestan7595
@guyonagravitronmachinestan7595 6 жыл бұрын
Brendan Murphy: one of the most humble, hilarious, honest vocalists in the entire hardcore scene.
@thatguyreiji1045
@thatguyreiji1045 6 жыл бұрын
Guess this is why I've always been able to relate to counterparts music.Cause it's like the lyrics always spoke to me in a way.
@ricardorangel7301
@ricardorangel7301 6 жыл бұрын
Counterparts is my go to band when I feel like shit. They are one of the bands that has helped me get through some tough times. I will forever be grateful.
@guyonagravitronmachinestan7595
@guyonagravitronmachinestan7595 6 жыл бұрын
Richy Rangel Counterparts has been my favorite band since I discovered them when they dropped The Current Will Carry Us. And ever since they've been the only band that has consistently been able to release albums that just completely destroy and rebuild you at the same time, mentally and metaphorically as well. They've kept me feeling like I'm not alone anymore for 6 years now, and I could never be more grateful for them.
@flammingdragon
@flammingdragon 6 жыл бұрын
I love them but i have to give time between listens or it really fucks me up lol, should be seeing them in detroit on wednesday.
@Miikeeeyyyy
@Miikeeeyyyy 6 жыл бұрын
I love you Brendan Murphy.
@Soil_Bound
@Soil_Bound 6 жыл бұрын
Anxiety is the reason I found and love Counterparts. The lyrics continue to speak and find hope. Everyone gives me shit for this band, when in reality, it brings me positivity-When everyone else immediately sees this music as negative. It could not be anymore the complete opposite.
@tonesofdef2144
@tonesofdef2144 4 жыл бұрын
dude's lyrics took the words out of my mouth when I couldn’t speak at all. It made so much sense to me in a time when nothing really made any sense.
@Scriibble4
@Scriibble4 4 жыл бұрын
This man/band saved my life
@benjaminbass2607
@benjaminbass2607 4 жыл бұрын
You saved your own life. Don’t sell yourself short.
@strngr4752
@strngr4752 6 жыл бұрын
I love Counterparts because of how honest their lyrics are. They are my method of catharsis, love 'em.
@ceryseira
@ceryseira 6 жыл бұрын
The ol' quarter-life crisis, I feel you.
@kasimeritak119
@kasimeritak119 6 жыл бұрын
Great! Bands like this should get more recognized. He speaks truth!
@rohanjyothinagaram9507
@rohanjyothinagaram9507 6 жыл бұрын
they are very recognized in their respective scene
@braydenpresley1437
@braydenpresley1437 4 жыл бұрын
I needed their new record. Thank you Brendan and all the Counterparts boys.
@lordfizzz
@lordfizzz Жыл бұрын
Ayyyyy bump
@jeremiahcummins8896
@jeremiahcummins8896 2 жыл бұрын
Thats why i listen because no one else gets it.
@haydnbrine
@haydnbrine 6 жыл бұрын
This has explained alot for me, i couldn't figure it out as im currently going through what he's explaining. But im really appreciative of this video.
@SamJanuary17
@SamJanuary17 6 жыл бұрын
Counterparts have helped me so much throughout many a hard time, Ive recently started writing shit down and it really helps, music/art is a saviour
@mattehrke1725
@mattehrke1725 6 жыл бұрын
This was really cool man, you guys make great music and the lyrics have helped helped me
@ChristIsRisen33
@ChristIsRisen33 6 жыл бұрын
You're awesome man. Inspirational.
@whtvrfrvr
@whtvrfrvr 5 жыл бұрын
he's a true inspiration! i love Counterparts
@AOpsyche
@AOpsyche 6 жыл бұрын
what a fantastic channel, thank you!
@HeartSupport
@HeartSupport 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@kekkedawg
@kekkedawg 6 жыл бұрын
tragedy is probably my favourite record this year as well, thank you for that. Ill see you bois in Tilburg!
@dynatwenty
@dynatwenty 4 жыл бұрын
You have the power Brendan!
@SmallVictories9
@SmallVictories9 5 жыл бұрын
I feel this so hard.
@kfreedom470
@kfreedom470 3 жыл бұрын
This dude pretty much explained how I'm feeling right now, idk what it is but I just listen to tracks like this
@alienrace6665
@alienrace6665 5 жыл бұрын
I have been also dealing with social anxiety...bands like Counterparts, Underoath, Senses Fail etc... inspired me to learn how to play guitar and write music and ironically I am a vocalist in a HC band now :D it really helps me to cope...
@HeartSupport
@HeartSupport 5 жыл бұрын
That's awesome that you turned your pain into inspiration and purpose, man. Super rad. If you ever want to talk more about anxiety, depression, or anything else, I invite you to post on our forum at forum.heartsupport.com because others who love the same music and deal with the same things will listen to you and encourage you in your journey. Hope the writing continues to go well!!
@mitchellduke9447
@mitchellduke9447 Жыл бұрын
2023 and i needed that
@haileyhylian8746
@haileyhylian8746 6 жыл бұрын
Slightly fangirling cause i have the same my chemical romance sweatshirt as him
@HaleFilms
@HaleFilms 6 жыл бұрын
Really honest reaction to the anti-depressants. I'm getting off them right now and I've always been pretty thin but I gained a shit ton of weight on them and they make my head feel cloudy and really stifle my creativity. Just creates more problems than it alleviates.
@jayceorourke5672
@jayceorourke5672 6 жыл бұрын
Anti-depressants have completely changed my life for the better. I wouldn't eat properly at all and I hated being skinny. I hate to be so honest when I say this but, if I didn't go on them I'm sure I would be dead by now. Counseling sessions didn't help me at all.
@abodydividedtn
@abodydividedtn 6 жыл бұрын
Different strokes for different folks. I'm all for anti depressants if they are doing good for you. My issue is that it is promoted as THE cure for depression, and that is just not always the case. We don't have a very honest healthcare system.
@jlansdale536
@jlansdale536 5 жыл бұрын
Relatable.
@nicolethomson7722
@nicolethomson7722 3 жыл бұрын
Love u counterparts
@gr3y5had0w
@gr3y5had0w 4 жыл бұрын
I have the same shirt, MCR omg
@rhcp357
@rhcp357 6 жыл бұрын
fuck this hits home
@SamsGFX
@SamsGFX 5 жыл бұрын
Brendan Murphy is the reason I haven't killed myself
@Lord_Swoledemort
@Lord_Swoledemort Жыл бұрын
how are you doing these days bro?
@brownpunk1794
@brownpunk1794 Ай бұрын
He died😢​@@Lord_Swoledemort
@break_it_bill
@break_it_bill 6 жыл бұрын
Awesome talk aside...I have that MCR shirt. #coolstorybro
@At_water_band
@At_water_band 2 жыл бұрын
We want to tour with them
@justsomeguys1121
@justsomeguys1121 6 жыл бұрын
Why is all the stress and relationship problems happening to me this soon. I'm literally 14.
@2000Doriyas
@2000Doriyas 6 жыл бұрын
You’re getting hit with those adolescent hormones, technically the most turbulent mental period of your life
@ChasingxRaindrops
@ChasingxRaindrops 6 жыл бұрын
x _ x through good music taste, I suppose xD
@cherished.__
@cherished.__ 4 жыл бұрын
@x _ x LMFAO
@mckinnonwolf7877
@mckinnonwolf7877 4 жыл бұрын
x _ x it’s not that hard these days
@avnc10
@avnc10 6 жыл бұрын
What is the background song?
@keeganmatthews7121
@keeganmatthews7121 6 жыл бұрын
G. Cymbron witness - counterparts
@joshuamoore1091
@joshuamoore1091 4 жыл бұрын
Counterparts is amazing. However, Jesus and a healthy church seriously changed my life. I spent hours crying to my favorite counterparts songs. It was therapeutic in a way. But then I turned to Jesus and it was like I didn't have to carry all those burdens anymore. I still revisit counterparts every now and then (obviously). Because I still get upset with things in my life. "I refuse to let this selfish take control of who I am!"
@rlfs2853
@rlfs2853 4 жыл бұрын
Joshua Moore how were you convinced god is even real.
@joshuamoore1091
@joshuamoore1091 4 жыл бұрын
@@rlfs2853 I observed the outcomes of those who attended church and those who did not. I concluded that there were many many good things to come from church and even in the bible itself. Yes, God can be perceived as a megalomaniacal creationist who seeks complete domination of everything in existence... Haha which is what I once thought. I once thought that there was no God and I simply didn't matter at all. But then I realized Jesus Christ had all the answers to life's hardest questions. He answered alot of my concerns. Especially with anxiety and depression. Jesus said to come to him if you are weary, and He will give you rest. And Jeremiah wrote that God had plans for me. And to see me prosper. So stopped distrusting the old bearded magician in the sky and I put on the lense of a Christian Worldview. It has been incredibly difficult especially when other Christians can be so awful but I know that God is not. He sent His son Jesus to die on the Cross for my Sins. And I believe it because it's a good thing. And I have freedom and purpose because of it. That's how I know. But I don't expect anyone to be converted over the internet. I just know that if you are suffering from hate, anger, doubt, bitterness, discontent... I know that Jesus is the answer. And although His church is a broken thing, please remember that He will perfect you in the Glorious Image of Himself. Behold, He is making a new thing! Huzzah! Thanks for asking bro.
@rlfs2853
@rlfs2853 4 жыл бұрын
Joshua Moore but how did you Go about actually believing it was real? I’ve been torn for awhile now. On one hand I believe in absolute morality. Which I don’t think you have without a god. On the other hand , the gospels have tons of holes in them.
@joshuamoore1091
@joshuamoore1091 4 жыл бұрын
Hey Brett, that's a great question. And I could tell you that God seriously humbled me in my life. I was a sex addict with multiple girlfriends and I used to abuse them. I abused every girlfriend I ever had at least in one way or another. And I'm just telling you the truth. I was a Casanova masogynist. Deep down I hated women because of what my mother did to me. I hated my mom for never getting her life together. She dated terrible men who proved to me that abusing women was a manly thing to do. So I just couldn't get away from it all. I hurt my last girlfriend very badly and it landed me in jail. Once again, I'm just speaking out of experience. I don't expect any sympathy or anything like that. But since I believed in evolution, my life had no meaning; I was just a composition of cells that just happened to exist. And since we just exist and then we die, I decided to follow my every instinct and that was to naturally treat people like sh*t. I'm not saying that you wake up every morning and decide to be evil. But what I am saying is that without the biblical scope of truth, naturally, all of society falls apart. Clearly fear is a good example of what is happening right now in 2020.... But that's for another conversation. So I've prayed so much for you in the last 48 hours Brett and God is telling me that you should believe Him... He's also telling me that I have no power to make you become a Christian. The most highlighted part of Scripture that keeps arising during my prayer for you is 1 Corinthians 3:7. And it says one man plants, another man waters, but the Lord brings the increase. So I converted to Christianity back in January of 2017 during my time in jail in Greeley Colorado. It was one of the most liberating experiences I ever had. I can't say it enough. And God has blessed me with more blessings than I could ever handle. If it's absolute morality you believe in, I solute you because I believe that absolute morality comes from an absolute God. And if there are discrepancies or contradictions in the Bible, I would suggest that you pray to Jesus, the Father & the Holy Spirit to guide you and give you wisdom. And don't stop asking questions. You will know the Truth and the Truth will set you free. Keep studying with an open heart. Allow the Scriptures to change you. It can be done! It's much better to have a spiritual problem than it is to have a carnal one. Because the spirit has been paid for by the Blood of Jesus and we know that Satan is cast away into the eternal lake of fire. We know the Victor and His Name is Jesus! The carnal person is always struggling in the physical sense. He lacks reason and for his disobedience, he is led astray. But Jesus is Good and He promises to protect you and keep you. The man who truly gives his life to Jesus will never hunger or lack any good thing "For we are His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand that we should walk in them." -Ephesians 2:10
@oofydoom
@oofydoom Жыл бұрын
Praise God! I have a similar thing..but things are a little more bleak for me admittedly..depression still eats me up myself...and a lot of the emotionally entrenching-hardcore/metal music like Counterparts still definitely hits home for me...but I guess that just makes me human too at the end of the day. But yeah, I'm glad to have Christ in my life now too..even though admittedly he feels pretty far in the dark place I've found myself for some time now..But that's on me I guess..a lot more I could get into there..but yeah, I rather not go there honestly. For I would like to go on a brighter note and still say that He has been a hope to me for sure-through it all He has, and I need to remind myself that He's still granting me the strength and opportunity to breathe and survive another day and that's something..even though I tend to take that for granted far too often..Lord have mercy. Anyway, sorry I made this a lot longer than it intially was. I tend to do that..But back to your end: That's beautiful man! And I appreciate you for being vulnerable too in the thread. It was helpful for me even though it was directed to someone else.
@Yesdomutante
@Yesdomutante 5 жыл бұрын
👏😎
@Syktris
@Syktris 6 жыл бұрын
i also have really bad anxiety and depression and mental problems, but i feel like it can be traced back to childhood and family, is it wrong for me to blame it on that?
@HeartSupport
@HeartSupport 6 жыл бұрын
No, it's not wrong at all! Sometimes our depression and other issues stem from multiple things and can't be traced back to one thing. But no matter where it comes from, it is helpful to be able to talk to someone about what is going on. You should check out our support wall on our website if you haven't already! Know that we love you and are here for you!
@LOLM8USWE
@LOLM8USWE 6 жыл бұрын
Hell of a band, how old is Brendan btw?
@alienrace6665
@alienrace6665 5 жыл бұрын
26 or 27
@brownpunk1794
@brownpunk1794 Ай бұрын
Mid 50s
@smokehill7912
@smokehill7912 4 жыл бұрын
brendan looks twice his age here.
@SamDisaughster1
@SamDisaughster1 6 жыл бұрын
it's really worrying that there's a lot of kids out there suffering from "depression" and "anxiety" for just growing up...
@Sleepwalkourlives
@Sleepwalkourlives 6 жыл бұрын
Shut the fuck up
@JeremiahFernandez
@JeremiahFernandez 6 жыл бұрын
shut up you're ju...holy shit you're kinda right
@2000Doriyas
@2000Doriyas 6 жыл бұрын
A lot of people don’t learn how to express it or learn to cope with their emotions and experiences or don’t find their outlets, people just need to be reached out to and find help.
@miguelesparza6001
@miguelesparza6001 2 жыл бұрын
@@JeremiahFernandez Right??
@oofydoom
@oofydoom Жыл бұрын
It's likely because they're growing up in a ever-growing darker & more sicker world, who have-for the most part, lost the foundations of truth and any semblence of certainty and considerations of God and Christ' teachings. And some of the most popular things we may use today, could be perpetuating unconscious psychological damage to varying degrees aswell (e.g. mostly over-indulgence in internet/social media/p0rn/other media use). And so inevitably, its becoming a norm. And maybe, it's sometimes human to become so now aswell. But I'm not saying it's good to be mentally ill in any respect-and I'm not saying it's always the worlds fault for such illnesses that take place, but something to consider if we're seeing such a widespread epidemic of people who have no particular reason as to why they became mentally ill in the first place. From what I can tell at least, there's just something deeply wrong with the world at hand, and everything that I've seen just seems to be a strange irony or paradox man...and there's so much we don't know..but trusting in Christ has helped me to find some hope amidst all the chaos and doubt..and may He help you too. God bless!
@Barcasaur
@Barcasaur 2 жыл бұрын
Jews
@DemonEmbarasser
@DemonEmbarasser Ай бұрын
He has depression bc he shits on other local Ontario bands like ATSF over $500
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