and still wonderful all the way through

+Brittany Turner same here mate. it helps give a voice to the thoughts i cant say out loud

+Brittany Turner Humanist*

This comment chain makes me cry.

+Komainu - The Social Media Expert .... feminist*

Confession: I watch these videos so I can laugh my ass off at how stupid they are

gatogreensleeves No man is represented by dildos(And men have dildos too), just as no woman is represented by some inflatable vagina(Different if it's a female puppet, since those do have the entire shape of a female body).

TheYasmineFlower this is beautiful

SafeRouteDown Oh, thank you... I guess? o.o

gatogreensleeves Think of sex as eating, fulfilling an urge. You can be mindful of your meal or you can simple seek to slake the appetite.

***** I think that's well put. But sadly, it's still not enough. The consumer (suspending the notion that some people find a consumption analogy offensive, because it may contribute to objectification) still must be *properly informed* and not just mindful. For my case, I would say that the lack of information on the sides--the polemical identities--is in the science that neutral language helps to achieve their goals better than venting and ranting towards an out-group in a public forum without being more even-handed. Specifically, neutral language in this context (i.e. "sexual egalitarianism") helps to mitigate reactance of out-groups; it is inclusive to more victims; it serves to better thwart off extremist fringes inherent in a polemical group anchored on reactions to out-group offenses (rather than the middle, where power-counterbalancing stops by definition); and is actually more semantically accurate in terms of ultimate goals (to be in the middle)--there's no equivocation of the etymology required. These are things that we all want--well, all of us who are actually for sexual equality and not retributivism or those who think one sex/gender is better than another.

I thought this said holy moths omg

Amber Coleman it does...

phoebe king Welcome to Rule 34.

phoebe king Harry Potter erotica is an incredibly vast, murky, sex-pun-filled universe.

OH MY GOD YES

+phoebe king You should search for it on Imgur

They literally have a "wand duel" in the bathroom

Chase Anderson You're hysterical. There's every reason to be a feminist. Look around you at the way women are portrayed in literature, art, movies... just anything from thousands of years ago to today. Does that not say a damn thing to you? Tell me you find no hints of discrimination towards the female sex. It's all the same. We were viewed as having to be owned by men, and some of us still are.

alexandra r Give me an example.

Chase Anderson The Bible. How's that for an example? Also, I don't know if you're American, but I am. Read the parts of the Declaration of "Independence". We the People only referred to white men, not women or slaves. Have you ever seen the movie Grown Ups? I forgot the guy's name, but in the movie he has his three daughters visit. Two of them were your typical 'eye candy', tall and nice bodies with clean faces. The third daughter was short and chubby, she was meant to be the laughing stock, simply because of her appearance. Right here on YT you can find a short clip of when they arrive. And I'm not going to lie, there is discrimination against men who aren't so good looking, but more often than not you see women sexualized in ads. There's more of a pressure for women to be good looking and pleasing to eyes, because we're expected to have all these youthful qualities, so we're pressured into wearing make up, dressing to fit our body type, etc. Google the bechdel test. I'd explain it myself but it's too much info and I've already provided enough. And if you're just here to troll and tell me there is no sexism, that's a false claim.

alexandra r 1.The Bible and the declaration were written a long time ago and is not indicative of modern sexism. 2. Grown Ups is just shitty comedy, and men are also given the same treatment. 3.Women are sexualized in ads targeted towards men, that's how capitalism works. 4. Just because you're pressured to do something doesn't mean you have to do it, grow a spine. 5. How is it trolling?

Chase Anderson(i didn't expect it to be so long, but i had to explain some things lol) 1. You asked for examples. I gave some. You can't say they're irrelevant to our time. Many people live by the Bible. To some people, religion is the only reason they live. It's age doesn't mean a thing. The Declaration of Independence is extremely important to its nation. The example i gave about it was irrelevant to now, but it's an example of sexism in history. 2. It may be a shitty comedy, but I know plenty of real life people who I have to interact with daily who have that sort of gross mindset. Immature? Yeah, but it's fairly acceptable behavior. I've never seen men's worth based off of how they look according to women. Give examples? 3. How does that make it ok? It gives the idea that women, once again, are for people's pleasure and enforce the idea they have to be sexually appealing to be noticed. it's toxic to young girls. 4.Are you being serious? Gender roles are deeply rooted into culture. More than you think. I don't think you seem to have a clue how they work. It's different from peer pressuring or anything of that. Look at transgenders for example. Their assigned sex doesn't match what gender they identify with. A woman with "boy parts" will be called all kinds of names, simply because they don't 'match' up with what they're supposed to be like. Some people might tell transgender people to get over the hate and brush it off as no biggie. But, really, it is a huge problem, especially when you compare the depression and suicide rates in transgenders to the overall population. That is no overreaction or exaggeration. 41% of transgender youths attempt suicide, compared to 4.6% of the overall population. 5. I wasn't saying it was trolling.. It sounded like you could have been, so i was just saying. This is a very troll-able topic.

That was my favourite line its SO GOOD

Yaaaaaas!

Women are widely considered as a minority because we do not have the same power, priveleges and rights worldwide as men. The definition of minority is not confined to numbers.

No, I just happened to do actual research before commenting.

Sure, but I am not going to waste my time. However, I am curious to see what you think female privileges are, just for fun. The main privileges that I think women have are: 1. Being able to reproduce, without paying for a surrogate 2. Almost always winning custody battles 3. Having the only say in whether or not to get an abortion Do you agree, I am not looking to argue, I just want to know?

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Like ur name, lol kai is my bias in exo

I don't know if it's overcompensation for Sexuality being supressed for so long, but nowadays, in all honesty, we have a bunch of Perverted Mindsets and just a bunch of Perverts overall. Sex Sells is a Religion, Gay Pride is shown by Kissing and Groping and Spanking Strangers (and often record and upload it) and so many more problems are there. Sex Scenes in Movies, for example, are considered so extremly 'generic' that they sometimes don't even make any freaking sense. Or something. People that I have to - sorry for the harsh words - outright call Whores and Bastards, have their own TV-Shows, and even more have KZfaq-Channels. Yeah, a lot of them have channels, which is just outright terrible...

hey that's hwasa as your icon!!

sabrina bayonet Yessssssss it's amazing that I'm finding fans in videos about harry potter spoken word

hope dean mamamoo is my fav girl group

sabrina bayonet Same. I like so many girl groups but Mamamoo is definitely my favourite. I literally just got off a video about makeup brushes and then a really old song and a community channel video and there were moomoos all over the place.

Rebecca Hughes I just noticed that lol

I only noticed because of you XD

I wanted to know why it was breasts and thats why I clicked on the video oof

Can someone explain why?

@@emsroks31 Because it's normalized and ingrained in our culture. Women are TAUGHT these things, and her stance is a rejection of everything we've been socialized to accept as women.

Agreed I think most ppl who read fan fiction understand this

+Mckenzie Boyer: Did you just generalize "people who read fan fiction" to "people who read erotic fan fiction"? :p

OH MY GOD SORRY I FORGOT ONE FUCKING WORD IT'S A COMMENT ON A KZfaq VIDEO NOT A POLITICAL SPEECH

YES!!!! I like the Star Trek stuff. Spock is my fave. I'm also ace and I read it for the plot XD

sPN

YESS

Exactly! It's not porn as a concept itself that's the problem, it's the industry surrounding it that normalizes the dehumanization of women. It's not realistic and encourages male fantasies that revolve around dominating and abusing women.

Nice black cat!

*man

+RedDashKatArtist No, woman.

agreed

Well said Kurlz, good to see someone like you in the comments.

It depends on the fanfic. There is also the so called "Non-Con EnTer" section", which stands for Non-Consensual Encounter.

Plus fanfic will make its characters pause to put on a condom when rl porn wouldn't give a second thought about it

​@@SnitchSeeker Yeah, but quite often it's written with understanding of emotions behind it. Non-con fics don't skip over the fear, over despair, over emotional damage. I mean, sure, there probably are bad fics written by people who don't understand that you can just roleplay a scene if you have an unusual preference. But most of non-con fics I've read were rather focused on the horror of it. They were exploring trauma of characters who existed in the bigger picture too. I think that's different. And, in the end, they're also just characters. Not real life women being put through pain and fear on the camera.

you're right she's amazing! She's intelligent and talented! And most importantly critical...which is really rare beyond young women nowadays.

Exactly what I thought.

Anonymous Candle I meant how did she get to be such a powerful poet, I get what you're saying though

so true

I don't know if it's overcompensation for Sexuality being supressed for so long, but nowadays, in all honesty, we have a bunch of Perverted Mindsets and just a bunch of Perverts overall. Sex Sells is a Religion, Gay Pride is shown by Kissing and Groping and Spanking Strangers (and often record and upload it) and so many more problems are there. Sex Scenes in Movies, for example, are considered so extremly 'generic' that they sometimes don't even make any freaking sense. Or something. People that I have to - sorry for the harsh words - outright call Whores and Bastards, have their own TV-Shows, and even more have KZfaq-Channels. Yeah, a lot of them have channels, which is just outright terrible...

+hollyb123isawesome i was thinking that the whole video haha

I think there are elements of deep trust in letting yourself go with another person.

Most porn is misogynistic in nature, but there is a lot of sex positive porn that's all about protection and consent as part of the foreplay!

There ARE elements of porn that can be empowering, but it doesn't change the fact that the way we look at women in the context of porn is generally shameful. Considering the reaction to leaked nudes, for example. Taking naked pictures could be an empowering thing for a woman. Taking the control over who sees them AWAY from the woman who consented to the pictures, and exposing this empowering moment for the judgement and scrutiny of others? Abusive, exploitative, sexist. Who gets the blame? "Well, don't take nudes if you don't want them leaked." translation: "You have NO RIGHT to claim sexual power of your own. It isn't yours to enjoy. Your sexuality belongs to whoever can gain access to it, by any means necessary. Guard it with your life." Sex workers, strippers, porn stars, and regular women claiming their own sexuality in their regular relationships and ALLOWING themselves to be used sexually SHOULD be an empowering thing. The way we look at that SHOULD be a reflection of whatever the woman in question feels about herself. However, the way we look at women and sexuality has warped that into the sex industry that we have now.

***** Heads up: it's probably better in this context to use a phrase like 'erotic dancer' which isn't used as a slut to belittle people who do this job. Your friend might be absolutely fine with the term 'stripper' and that's cool, but there may be other people reading who feel belittled by people using that term.After all it is used sometimes int he same context as 'slut' to refer to a woman whose sexual choices you find frightening. I wholly agree with the message of your comment and don't mean to make you feel bad, I just also want to make this comment section a bit friendlier to women :)

This is really great! I especially like the line about drugs. My advice (if you are looking for any, if not I do like it the way it is) would be to add more concrete language. For example instead of "I wear make up: to hide my deformities my mother calls precious." You could use: I wear makeup to hide my/the (whatever deformity) connect-the-dot pages that my mother thinks are precious. Again this is just a suggestion! And the "connect-the-dot" thing is my freckles. If you have any questions just feel free to reply :)

michaela lewis Thanks that's really good, but I don't have freckles. I have puffy cheeks that look really feminine. Also, after I posted this I came out Transgender, I'm really happy.

congrats!!

kamryn word this is AMAZING

mairhead campbell I think what she's trying to say is that it's like people stereotype white people now. Like we all flaunt our privilege, like we all take it for granted, like we're all racist and I get what she means about hating her skin colour, because apparently if you're white, the entire slavery-fucking-triangle is all your fault, just like all Germans are guilty of attempted genocide, even when Hitler was Austrian. And yes I am white, and yes, I have privilege, but I do not flaunt it, I do not take it for granted, I am not racist, I am not homophobic even though I'm straight and I don't hate men even though I'm a feminist. Yes, you may say I have my head stuck up my arse, that I'm blinded by my "privilege", sorry, should I just put black makeup on so you don't hate me? Oh wait, you'd hate me more. I'm sick to death of seeing online that if you say you're white its like "look at what you're kind do, you're so fucking privileged it's disgusting" news-fucking-flash: I didn't ask for privilege, no white person did, jut like no black person asked for slavery. I'm not under minding any of history, all I'm saying is, don't stereotype white people, that's what I'm trying to say. I don't stereotype your race, don't stereotype mine. I'm sorry my ancestors were fucking horrible, but I can't help that, I can't change the past, if i could, I would. I understand all the hate I'm about to get for this, but I really don't give a fuck. The reality is, yes, there are racist, homophobic, sexist white people out there, but there are also homophobic Asian people, or sexist black people. I couldn't give a flying fuck what your skin colour, religion, or nationality is, as long as your a decent person, cool, keep doing you. But not every white person is like this. That's all I'm saying.