Bride Alysa and groom John are about to head into matrimonial bliss. But what challenges will they face when Alysa's frugal dad, Larry, takes control of the budget and their wedding plans?..
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@riohenry63823 жыл бұрын
300-350 guests ?? You could serve sandwiches and it would still be expensive. Cut back the guest list and have the wedding you want
@janetmecham10593 жыл бұрын
Wow isn’t that the truth!! That’s a lot of guests!
@Lukkaboc2 жыл бұрын
It probably isn't the couple's guests. Most likely this is the parents inviting everyone in the family.
@britvica2 жыл бұрын
that's what I'm talking about...everybody is on 70 000 and how much it is, and how they spent 1500$ on their wedding, but I never ever saw 350 guests wedding🙈🙈🙈even the sandiches make it expensive. this poor couple couldn't cut back the number of the guests as those weren't their guests after all...all daddys people🤦♀️🤦♀️
@MsJubjubbird Жыл бұрын
those are her dad's guests I'm betting, given how attached he was to the big venue. I'll pay for the wedding but invite all of my employees/colleagues/relatives and hence my daughter has to do everything else on the cheap. She seemed perfectly fine about going to a small venue and cutting the numbers.
@MrsEJV3 жыл бұрын
I never understand the cake battle. You order an extra sheet cake, frosted but undecorated. I catered for 30 years . No one knows if they are getting the showy cake or the sheet cake. Save a few hundred dollars easily.
@ayla9905 Жыл бұрын
No one will know about the cake agree about that but everyone will know about the hand me down dress
@ashley-cz1sl2 жыл бұрын
As a parent myself, I am set to give my kids a certain amount of money and if they want to go over then they have to pay for it themselves.
@Me-pe8tq2 жыл бұрын
I hope mine put it on a mortgage rather than a day.
@Bee-ly4gx2 жыл бұрын
Me too.
@Bee-ly4gx2 жыл бұрын
@@Me-pe8tq agreed
@dawnt55872 жыл бұрын
That’s what I did. It worked out great.
@nayelis2008dulce2 жыл бұрын
Where I’m from you pay with your own money. I’m from Puerto Rico and parents do help maybe the cake or the hall but the wedding itself it’s paid by the bride and the groom.
@mte45063 жыл бұрын
Yes the Father is frugal to the extreme... but the daughter is lacking in any consideration of other people's money. And she is incredibly rude.
@tinamarisia1233 жыл бұрын
And acts spoilt, maybe she should pay something towards the dress she wants..
@sandradiaz-vazquez91903 жыл бұрын
Same as the groom
@potocatepetl3 жыл бұрын
Frugal???? Frugal??? the F_ing wedding was $69000 and he payed half of it. No frugal person does that. The only crazy thing was the episode with the cake. Which I suppose was a stupid thing done for TV....
@mte45063 жыл бұрын
@@potocatepetl Did not see that 69k so he is a bit of a nutcase and the daughter is still incredibly disrespectful. I am sure that he was not happy to spend that much and was likely hounded by the daughter and wife... The incident with the ring was gold digging behavior and her fiance gave in. I don't give the marriage good odds. I also will guess that she will settle for nothing less than a luxury car when they go shopping.
@leighaconner16733 жыл бұрын
@@potocatepetl the wedding was 70K???? I’m gobsmacked.
@dr.kikipsychnp57313 жыл бұрын
I agree with sticking to the budget, but a borrowed wedding dress is where I draw the line. I would be just as upset.
@mywihousehunter3 жыл бұрын
I can understand whoever is paying should make sure they stick to the budget, although they don't have to micromanage everything. Larry didn't have to pick out the dress he just needs to say this is all you get, anything you go over is on you to pay
@WS-zs1ss3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely. And be thankful for what you got .
@Princdi672 жыл бұрын
Spoiled kids.. Make your own centerpieces. You can save enough to get a real wedding cake. Why not print your invitations. I did. They were beautiful
@4ohgollycats2 жыл бұрын
Leave the dad at home . Give her a budget and she should contribute!
@Lukkaboc2 жыл бұрын
@@Princdi67 Remember, most of the guest list is set by the parents, not by the couple. THAT is the biggest expense.
@ayla9905 Жыл бұрын
@@Princdi67 that's a great idea 💡💡💡
@barbarafischbach84802 жыл бұрын
1979, wedding dress $175, wedding reception $2000, 42 years later still in love! It’s not about the wedding it’s everything that comes after.
@amstergal2 жыл бұрын
That's wonderful! ❤
@barbarafischbach84802 жыл бұрын
@@amstergal thanks! 😊
@schmachtenmom18522 жыл бұрын
my dress was $20 his suit was $15 and got married in Vegas. The whole wedding was $350 and has lasted 30 years and counting!
@barbarafischbach84802 жыл бұрын
@@schmachtenmom1852 The best! I think the smaller the wedding, the better and longer the marriage🥰
@freshstart44232 жыл бұрын
Its important to our economy that people can plan a wedding, customize their theme, and not be overcharged by price gouging. Leviticus 19:35 Creating a variety of honest paying jobs so our children can get out of sin.
@--_-_-_-74..3 жыл бұрын
Skip the wedding ! Take all the money and go buy a house !
@ceeacee89672 жыл бұрын
That’s exactly what happened to my 2 sisters & I!!! Dad offered the budget, what was left was ours. My baby sister & I had tiny weddings & had honeymoon cash left over. My other sister & husband-to-be went to City Hall with their 2 best friends….then bought their first home!! 👍🏼
@trishharris88062 жыл бұрын
That's what I wish we would have done. My dad said he had 5k (almost 30yrs ago) to elope or have a wedding. We should have gotten married on the beach and had a fabulous honeymoon.
@gpal48432 жыл бұрын
Buyva house
@trishharris88062 жыл бұрын
To be fair, I turned 18 4days before we got married. So I was too young and dumb. I just had to have a wedding. Now when we renew our vows in 2023 for our 30th. It WILL be on the beach
@GameChanger5972 жыл бұрын
@@trishharris8806 No regrets- you made a very sensible decision for an 18 year-old and you should be proud of yourself. So glad you and your husband are finally having the wedding you deserve for your 30th Anniversary. How exciting! Make sure you have a phenomenal honeymoon to do with it!
@karenwink73133 жыл бұрын
Why not just give the bridal couple the budget $ in cash and when it’s gone it’s gone. Reality sets in.
@kathyjarvis17453 жыл бұрын
Enuf said A great excercise
@MrsEJV2 жыл бұрын
That’s what I did. I gave my daughters a budget for their dresses they stayed pretty close to, and a check towards the wedding. Grooms families helped out too. Beyond that? Welcome to the real world.
@shelleyharris41762 жыл бұрын
He is a control freak and will try to control them always
@zebrinapendula9222 жыл бұрын
Karen Wink. Yes good suggestion, bc there were moments that it got ugly & sad. Groom/husband, at the end sorry Larry, to estimate $3800, was ridiculous, classless, including the bride.
@pamelapostma88902 жыл бұрын
My feeling exactly!
@kiokuisme13 жыл бұрын
One thing that stands out to me is that Larry never cared about what his wife was saying. It's very strange that they are a couple where only he gets to make financial decisions.
@november1322 жыл бұрын
strange? I guess you're lucky enough not to have met any controlling men
@tandiholcomb50482 жыл бұрын
It would have been 2 against 1.
@e113jelly62 жыл бұрын
And he’s🌈
@Me-pe8tq2 жыл бұрын
I think Larry is just a bad actor. Got paid to act like an idiot!
@HeavnzMiHome3 жыл бұрын
Dad needed to give her the money he was willing to spend then say the rest is up to her.
@janetwray72772 жыл бұрын
That is a perfect solution!
@SuperBeautyqueenxoxo2 жыл бұрын
The only thing I 110% agree on with this bride is she should of had her OWN wedding dress! That is the MAIN part of a brides wedding and for the dad to force her to BORROW a friends wedding gown was absolutely uncalled for😢
@freshstart44232 жыл бұрын
And the reception hall is a package so includes set up, clean up, tables, chairs, a catering kitchen, parking, several important items for your big day. Depending on the reception hall, you have to verify what is included in the package.
@cherylh69202 жыл бұрын
That dress made her have back fat!
@heathermcniven4502 жыл бұрын
I can’t believe how overbearing and bullying her Dad is. He’s hateful, is money really the be-all and end-all for him?
@HAHA-rm3ii2 жыл бұрын
Not true. Who ever wears the gown again?? Compromise
@enjoyingmyvodka1013 Жыл бұрын
For me the cake as well!
@tashawilliams80933 жыл бұрын
This is why you save up money so you two can pay for your own wedding.
@beverleyjouannet51023 жыл бұрын
So selfish
@Barbie80513 жыл бұрын
Yes ....
@liah94013 жыл бұрын
yeah and the ring that you like
@mspalindrome6183 жыл бұрын
Agreed. I couldn't handle this level of control over my wedding. I would rather wait or have a smaller one.
@lucyterrier79052 жыл бұрын
As parents of a daughter , we saved for a wedding since she was born. If she didn't want a wedding, the money is hers anyway. NOT OURS. It's HER dream, not ours. Anything less from a parent is not nice or responsible or respectful. Period. Even putting away $10 a week over 25 years is a lot of money. Shame on the parents that don't pay for their daughter's wedding. No excuse.
@josephinerovari14493 жыл бұрын
Larry lost me at the hand me down Wedding dress and grocery store cake.
@geraldwarren64382 жыл бұрын
Yeah, that was crazy!
@moimeself10882 жыл бұрын
The dress was nice, so what if it was borrowed? The cake was outrageous.... but bride was also ridiculous. The way she was arguing for the ring went out the window when *she* was paying. Two peas in a pod. 🙄🤦🏾♀️
@lolalopez76572 жыл бұрын
@@moimeself1088 to force someone to borrow a wedding dress and control every aspect of the wedding and that ridiculous cake? It was just too much.
@moimeself10882 жыл бұрын
@@lolalopez7657 i agree the tone was off, sometimes i put that off to dramatisation for the show. I know i could be wrong. Either way, she looked good in the dress, so at least she was not "forced" into a monstrosity. But overall, groom was obnoxious in so many other ways the dress paled into the background.
@lolalopez76572 жыл бұрын
@@moimeself1088 , I agree with you. They all seemed obnoxious!
@bonnietagliarini89673 жыл бұрын
His parents also paid half, so I think Larry just likes to be in control. Borrowed dress, slab cake, and awful centerpieces... what the heck. He never said he couldn't afford the cost, just that he didn't want to pay it. At age 20, I paid for my own and still had minor issues to work out with parents. Good luck you two.
@rlast46983 жыл бұрын
Lol so larry the problem.not the spoiled children lol
@yolandgibson12333 жыл бұрын
His money
@nate27592 жыл бұрын
@@rlast4698 Both were, clearly the apple doesn’t fall far from the tree.
@britvica2 жыл бұрын
personally I'd go with 50$ centerpieces...that was so sweet..the tall ones are a bit..I don't know...pretentious
@MsJubjubbird Жыл бұрын
The centrepiece thing was fake. You could see he was trying not to laugh.
@rebeccacastro25253 жыл бұрын
To everyone commenting on how selfish she is: That’s what her parents created!! I feel sorry for the groom🤦🏻♀️
@victoriasloan5243 жыл бұрын
The groom needs to run.
@deborahkelly14893 жыл бұрын
I can understand that dad wanted to stick to a budget. I gave ( my husband died of brain cancer when our children were young, our daughter was in the second grade) my daughter $11, 100.00 dollars and told her that was what I could afford , anything above that she would have to pay for it. She was thankful and everything just fell in place she stuck to the budget with one exception……. she paid for her own gown and it was beautiful. This dad probably has given this child any thing she wanted growing up and was creating a monster in the process. I would have given her the budget and told her that anything above the budget would be paid for by her . I would then stand firm.!!
@caranandrews34913 жыл бұрын
Yes! I agree 100%. The Parents are TOTALLY to Blame for allowing her to be a Whingeing Brat. She Needs to learn Respect and STOP being RUDE to her Parents.
@MsJubjubbird3 жыл бұрын
Her dad is a bit of a jerk though. You don't give a gift and then harp on and on about how much it costs and what strings are attached. He needs to listen to her
@MsJubjubbird3 жыл бұрын
@@cdr3986 She had this fantasy in her head about her wedding. She's a bit spoilt but nowhere near as bad as her father. If he'd given her some rope then the wedding band issue may not have escalated. When she really wanted something she paid for it herself. All those extra people will be his guests and she has to compromise because of that. If he offered to pay it is not a green light to invite whoever.
@rachelcarey93692 жыл бұрын
I must admit, Nicole's gown is gorgeous!!!!! If SHE wanted to spend $1700 on a gown, she should have paid for it herself!
@margarettickle96592 жыл бұрын
She looked gorgeous in it.
@APD0891913 жыл бұрын
When it’s dad paying she has no limit. When it’s her paying ( the wedding cake) she became as frugal as her daddy 😂.
@VirgoCali892 жыл бұрын
LMAO 🤣😂
@schmachtenmom18522 жыл бұрын
That's a 200% daddy's girl!
@tinydancer74262 жыл бұрын
That's when the realities of life slap you up side the head ..... when you want, what you want, when and how you want it ..... and have to pay your own way to get it that way. Suddenly your brain shifts into gear and sends the message to your mouth ..."Oh, no. That's too expensive."
@ayla9905 Жыл бұрын
@@tinydancer7426 well just because dad is paying for it doesn't mean he has a say in everything it's her wedding after all
@tinydancer7426 Жыл бұрын
@@ayla9905 But it is his money to withdrawal. There are limits after all. Daddy is not a bottomless ATM. Guess she learned something from this exercise in money management ..... make that "your" money management.
@annieorourke48222 жыл бұрын
Hilarious Dad..I used to work weddings at a banquet venue that fit up to 2000+ guests. The most expensive weddings were not better than less costly ones ..
@pamelahepp49943 жыл бұрын
With a budget of 65,000 I don’t think he was being frugal in the least
@shenquejames75983 жыл бұрын
I thought He was splitting that with the grooms parents. In my opinion, they have to big a guest count to try to be cheap. They need to cut the guest count
@lauriereamy98763 жыл бұрын
WOW! That is a LOT of money!
@trivlewis96153 жыл бұрын
I reserved a wedding chapel, flowers, cake, invitations and wedding dress all on my own. I believe to this day it was My responsibility to get what I could afford.
@MsJubjubbird3 жыл бұрын
I don't know about frugal. But he didn't try and listen to her. Like I thought he should have let her have her dress. I know she wanted all this extra stuff but the way he went about it was ridiculous
@pennyk19432 жыл бұрын
65,000 is too much for a wedding. Cut the number of guests. Don’t blame your father young lady or ladies, you are spoiled. You may be the daughter but he has a right to say how much to spend. You work, you pay for the rest. I know people who spent so many thousands for the wedding and then DIVORCED 🤦♀️
@maiaam22103 жыл бұрын
I dont understand why these couples are relying so much on their parents for their wedding. When dream weddings are not affordable, it's time to wake up and make do with what can fit the budget.
@julespeace6843 жыл бұрын
I got married at 40 and it was at the courthouse. Going on 20 yrs. Love our home. Thank goodness I was raised by sensible parents. On our 20th Anniversary we plan on renting a gown and tux for a wedding picture. Inexpensive and nice💜
@MrsEJV3 жыл бұрын
I bought my daughter’s wedding dresses. I gave them a check. They could budget as they wanted but it removed me from setting limits. Done and done.
@nadinestephenson28433 жыл бұрын
That's their tradition of Jewish people
@MsJubjubbird3 жыл бұрын
Tradition is that the bride's father pays- except for the flowers. The groom's mother is meant to pay for those
@robyndeddens66583 жыл бұрын
She is 27 years old she needs to pay for this wedding as well. After watching 3 of these I have come to the conclusion these are so stage. Lol
@donnyreiss11803 жыл бұрын
bad actors huh.
@mikivanduyn96303 жыл бұрын
in the US they still expect the parents off the bride to pay for te wedding...
@joycepino97493 жыл бұрын
what did the grooms parent's pay for. They're responsible for some of the expenses. The Bride and Groom could chip in to since it's their wedding. The wedding cake looked awful. I think all the tables should have had the low centerpieces and the Bride and Groom could have cut the guest list down. I hate to see what happens when they have kids. It's always good to stay on budget. Maybe the kids could have paid for the overage out of their own pockets.
@mikivanduyn96303 жыл бұрын
@@joycepino9749 so agree with you.
@lisaparrey13433 жыл бұрын
@@joycepino9749 ad dad didn't complain about the amount of guests, I suspect he wanted that many. My father was Italian and he wanted to invite all the people I didn't even know to my 21st.
@JudyHart13 жыл бұрын
Too bad she couldn’t save any money herself so she could buy her own dress. Does she have any money sense? Wow, she’s trouble.
@trishradloff88173 жыл бұрын
She is paying her mortgage
@tinjmail3 жыл бұрын
@@trishradloff8817 , then she should have a small wedding.
@heatherquinones54823 жыл бұрын
I don't think she is entitled I mean come on this is every like girls dream is her wedding and her decorations and flowers and cake. Of course she is gonna want it to look exactly how she has dreamed of it. Her father is just a cheap skate did you hear him say it's their wedding as his and his daughter now man this is your daughter and financee wedding u just write the checks and pay for what she wants. This ain't about her dad. I think your wedding day is the one day as a woman we can feel that wanted feeling having everything perfect and that is the one day everything is about us
@tinjmail3 жыл бұрын
@@heatherquinones5482 , bunch of crap. If you want all those nice things because it's your wedding, then you should pay for it yourself. Don't expect other people to pay for it and still have everything your way. How the fuck is $65,000 budget being cheap?
@RhondaRolf3 жыл бұрын
Bride is so entitled and ungrateful. I hope they were just playing up the arguments for the camera otherwise I would tell the groom to run away as fast as he could.
@kathyhansen95462 жыл бұрын
No kidding.
@carmenplangger94172 жыл бұрын
It does look like bad acting at times. But they both suck. The father can stick his money where the sun don't shine and the daughter can get a job and pay her own way.
@kimallen31373 жыл бұрын
I think the dad should’ve given her $25k for the wedding and let her & the groom do what they want with the money then once they spend it, they spent it 🤷🏻♀️
@pamelapostma88902 жыл бұрын
So true!
@ayla9905 Жыл бұрын
So true I feel like the bride isnt getting what she wants here cause the dad has to interfere with their plans
@MsJubjubbird Жыл бұрын
@@ayla9905 dad is cutting costs so he can invite extra guests of his own. Hence, he wanted the huge venue
@laowaistudieschina74703 жыл бұрын
I'd tell Larry, "If your money means so much to you, keep your money. All of it. Goodbye." And then pay for the wedding that I could afford with a radically shortened guest list.
@annieroydube3 жыл бұрын
Or hold off until you can afford to pay for all of your guests yourself
@lynneufeld31753 жыл бұрын
Or elope...
@Lukkaboc2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for being one of the few people who understand the parents are filling up the guest list and not the couple. The couple is not the one inviting over 350 guests.
@gwens50932 жыл бұрын
My parents didn't pay anything towards my wedding but if my dad had treated me like that I would elope.
@evelynj.amponsah84173 жыл бұрын
Larry is a trip, but he's got a point.
@lindawilloughby2713 жыл бұрын
We oopppppppp
@GameChanger5972 жыл бұрын
He had a point until he refused to buy her a new wedding dress and expected her to serve a sheet cake for her reception.
@PegManning2 жыл бұрын
He should have made that point before filming started. Set a budget and stayed out of the choices. He seems to be doing a standup routine.
@portugalnitaly1able2 жыл бұрын
He does not have a point. He’s just fucking cheap as fuck
@sarahs77512 жыл бұрын
not with that cake or that boring centerpiece. I could do better making a centerpiece at the dollar tree
@lizcopple3 жыл бұрын
I have never seen a Dad get involved in the details like that. Never.
@kristalkempf78002 жыл бұрын
It’s a little creepy to be honest. He’s very controlling.
@Barbiegirlmomma2 жыл бұрын
My dad played golf in my wedding and showed up on time and never asked any questions about what I wanted or what my mom made by or anything this is crazy
@lauramcinerney15593 жыл бұрын
Spoiled and entitled bride. She is old enough and so is the groom to pay for "what SHE wants". I feel if parents want to help, give the kids the money and say "No more" spend it how you want and if you need more, bride and groom pay for it!.
@madibawayne63143 жыл бұрын
I disagree at spoiled, she didn't even get to purchase a Wedding Dress. I hope she does a Vow Renewal and Buys the Wedding Dress of Her Dreams.
@sassibrit3 жыл бұрын
I agree give the money n be gone.. futher more just save ur own money..
@rlast46983 жыл бұрын
@@madibawayne6314 bohoo buy your own stuff
@madibawayne63143 жыл бұрын
@@rlast4698 I can't Agree with Your Reply. Because of the Embarassing on TV Situation this Bride was Placed in. Her Father Knows that Every Bride Needs a Wonderful Wedding Dress. Not buying his Daughter a Wedding Dress was more About Control. If I remember correctly the dad spent $65,000. on the Wedding. For what??? To Show Off to the Guests. But too Cheap to Buy a Very Affordable, $1700 Wedding Dress. Go back and See how the dad was Willing to spend $600. Altering the Brides Friends Dress. which Ruined the Custom Made Wedding Dress for the Original Purchaser, now not true to size. Also the Bride had no Wedding Dress of Her Own to Retain the Memory. Or to Show a Future Daughter. The dad is Just Controlling and CHEAP. IT IS WHAT IT IS. THE FACTS SPEAK FOR THEMSELVES!!! I Definitely would have Eloped.
@madamvaudelune32983 жыл бұрын
@@madibawayne6314 Well as long as she pays for it.
@sandragregg90793 жыл бұрын
65,000 for a wedding? Super crazy. Take the money and buy a house. It amazes me how much these weddings costs. On the other hand Jewish weddings traditionally give $$$ for gifts. Say average gift is $300.00 per couple that equals $105,000 in gifts. We paid for our own wedding had 125 guests total cost 8,000. 8 piece live band. I rented my dress for $300.00 it was brand new. I was the temple administrator I pulled alot of favors because I refer brides and grooms to these vendors. Used temple hall at n/c. Rented mini trees with twinkle lights at 25.00 per piece We planned everything together. It wS my 2nd marriage and husband's 1st. My inlaws paid for rehearsal dinner in beautiful restaurant. My feeling is weddings are about enjoying your loved ones good food alit of booze and not spending for stupid things that nobody cares about.
@potocatepetl3 жыл бұрын
$69,000 in the end and apparently she wanted to spend more....
@tinjmail3 жыл бұрын
they invited too many people. I only want to invite close friends and family that's all. All those other people are not important to me at all. Why would I want to spend all this money on people I don't care about?
@lilianthompson55863 жыл бұрын
@@tinjmail Surely her original choice of venue would have had to refuse to accept a booking for so many guests. They would have been jeopardising their OWN Health & Safety Regulations - besides the LEGAL requirements. If Dad had agreed to HER CHOICE of venue, his problem of cost would have been solved immediately - BY THE VENUE FORCING THE REDUCTION OF THE NUMBER OF GUESTS ;).
@lisapedigo59833 жыл бұрын
@@lilianthompson5586 p
@MR-lq7ss3 жыл бұрын
@@tinjmailOur plan too. We wanted the wedding to be fun, not some showpiece. We had a DJ and even he got up and started dancing😁 - and no dollar dances!
@roseblahnik37063 жыл бұрын
Pay for what you can afford, then you don't have to depend on your folks or elope !!
@barbbuffington69313 жыл бұрын
OMFG !!!! That father was a nightmare !!!!! I’d have done everything in my power to pay for the wedding myself just to get him out of the picture.
@cosettecoleslaw3 жыл бұрын
Shallow, entitled people. We had a lovely wedding and party with our friends for right at $1000.00. Best wedding ever!
@pksmith12752 жыл бұрын
I agree. They all focus on the wedding and not the marriage. You know how to have a wedding:)
@lolalopez76572 жыл бұрын
I agree that you don't spend a ridiculous amount on 1 day but how do you have a wedding for a 1k? My wedding came out to 13k, my husband and I paid for it ....
@britvica2 жыл бұрын
their parents wanted 350 guests! you can NEVER have a 1000$ wedding for 350 guests! be real! they didn't want those guests.
@bootsie1212 Жыл бұрын
How are they shallow and entitled? There where 350 guest! If anything they where frugal calculating everything making sure they didn’t go over budget. Not everyone has to spend 1k to not be shallow.
@kathenavarro68502 жыл бұрын
I had a beautiful wedding at home. It cost about $1000 (1987) and I wouldn't have done it any other way. We have been married 34 years now!!
@laughingallthetime503 жыл бұрын
Why don't they pay for their own wedding?! I would never ask or allow my parents to pay for mine.
@annetnedelec13133 жыл бұрын
Same here. I paid for everything. Didnt even aja my future husband
@justacrocodile94862 жыл бұрын
I thought she was so demanding, not at all grateful to her father who was spending a great deal of money on her wedding. It was all her hysterically claiming "It's MY wedding" every time there was a query about cost. Yes it was her wedding but she wasn't paying for it, so she should have gone along peacefully with her father and been pleasant instead of being so rude. When you have a budget that's it - where was he supposed to find extra thousands of dollars for all the fancy extras she wanted? She doesn't realise that is money that he could have used in his retirement himself, or for hospital bills or a holiday, no, she was just determined and set on getting all she could and not thinking of her father at all.
@2wildhearts2 жыл бұрын
Can you imagine this couple after wedding?They can't even plan/budget their own wedding! Oh God blessed them
@vincenzolee65763 жыл бұрын
Kids should pay for their own wedding and then they can make all the decisions. I wonder if Larry is being cheap or maybe he really can’t afford what Princess wants.
@madibawayne63143 жыл бұрын
Cheap, and Controlling, He wouldn't even buy a Wedding Dress. People will Talk about that for Years. Imagine Spending All that Money 💰 and Not Buying Your Beautiful, Beloved Daughter a $1700 Wedding Dress. Without Consideration for the Woman who Loaned her Dress. Which had to be altered. So His Inconsiderate, Cheap Attitude, Ruined Her Custom Made Wedding Dress.
@shenquejames75983 жыл бұрын
I don't see why the bride cannot kick in on the budget so her voice can be stronger. I would let the parents spend their part and pay for my own upgrades that way we can all be happy.
@madibawayne63143 жыл бұрын
@@shenquejames7598 I Agree
@conciliampofu89383 жыл бұрын
@@shenquejames7598 you are right, the father knows his own pocket
@dixiedoos35123 жыл бұрын
I paid for my own wedding
@citticat22 жыл бұрын
Love seeing people who have been married for years still laughing and enjoying each other.
@mylenebrunelle71092 жыл бұрын
Ok she’s definitely over the top on certain things but one thing I’ll give her, I don’t agree with borrowing the wedding dress, every bride should have their own dress.
@heatherg17063 жыл бұрын
I’m wondering if this bride has spent her whole life being told no - never getting what she really wanted. On her big day, she wants everything she ever wanted.
@lailak59362 жыл бұрын
Excellent thought.
@kathyhansen95462 жыл бұрын
I think the opposite. I think she’s always gotten everything she wants!
@ayla9905 Жыл бұрын
I think so too
@ayla9905 Жыл бұрын
Ik I feel bad for the bride
@Brembelia3 жыл бұрын
"Your centerpiece looks like a salad, Daddy!" 😆 Lol!!
@Balzvader2 жыл бұрын
I’ve watched three episodes of this show and this is the one and only bride that I’m 100% on her side!!!! I feel so bad for her and having to deal with her father taking all wedding decisions on by himself and never anything like what she wants. I mean she’s actually pretty responsible about what she wants, I hope by her wedding day this all comes together!
@rojamillerover2 жыл бұрын
Why didn't she pay for her vision
@j.103 Жыл бұрын
@@rojamillerover If she wanted something she should have paid for it herself!! The only thing was the cake and when SHE had to pay, the smaller one was good enough. But, she did only had to put a few hundred for the dress. I would have gotten a cheaper dress that was all mine…
@playnicechannel Жыл бұрын
I’m glad she had viewers on her side because I definitely felt she was reprehensible. If either of my daughters had acted like this, I would know with certainty I had failed as a mother.
@tinjmail3 жыл бұрын
if you want all these nice things, then pay for it yourself!!! Stop expecting other people to pay for what you want. $65,000 budget! That is a lot of money for many people.
@selah77793 жыл бұрын
This definitely is staged! There is no way a grown adult woman would wear a friend's wedding dress. Just go get married at the courts. This is ridiculously cheap.
@enibeni20712 жыл бұрын
Maybe...or maybe some cultures think that weddings are more social events than personal events. They could have cut the guest list, it would a lot more budget, however, they didn't. I guess they they really value these 350.
@britvica2 жыл бұрын
those guests are their parents guests...all old people
@gbaca073 жыл бұрын
If the bride and groom are working. They can pay for their own wedding dress. both wedding dresses she tried on were horrible. Its not a tuxedo.
@onecuet3 жыл бұрын
I had a fairly big cake. Keep in mind, the top tier is frozen for your 1st anniversary celebration. Our guests ate a lot of food. We ran out of hors d'oeuvres, but the main meal was close afterwards. We had ordered a lot of tasty food. In the end we only had the top tier of the wedding cake, & some chicken leftover. I was surprised at how much was actually eaten.
@abundantlove21942 жыл бұрын
She was absolutely gorgeous in her dress, and I adore how she was jumping up and down excited as they were pronounced married. 🥰
@yulandaloyal47922 жыл бұрын
She selfish if I was her dad I would have told her to pay for her own wedding she talked to him so strong bye girl bye
@AnnDroid8773 жыл бұрын
I think the borrowed dress is much more flattering then the one she originally wanted.
@LunaRain012 жыл бұрын
The more I watched this, it looked like this was acted out as staged reality with Dad.
@Bee-ly4gx2 жыл бұрын
Definitely
@AlisonBSL Жыл бұрын
Exactly what I thought. The dads little smirk during the centre piece moment showed that.
@leeannafitzgerel87402 жыл бұрын
The centerpieces would have been great to have the large one on the bride's table, and the smaller ones on the other tables.
@bszardom3 жыл бұрын
Feel like I'm watching Woody Allen control the Wedding Budget.
@hilarykoppel36632 жыл бұрын
Nailed it.
@resalyn6583 жыл бұрын
The honesty in these shows goes out the window when the "actors" can't stop smiling during the "arguing".
@katwil892 жыл бұрын
The acting is horrible!
@kerriistrying3 жыл бұрын
The bride gets her unreasonable stubbornness from her father. I understand that she should pay for why ever she wants extra. But the father OFFERED to pay for the wedding and is using that to try to control her. Why does he care? Just give her the the money you are comfortable with and tell her any extras are on her. Everyone is happy that way.
@gerilynne19553 жыл бұрын
If want something special for your wedding. Get out your piggy bank. Most parents have budgets. It's life. You'll find out more as you grow. Mine was $500 with dress, suit, cake food, flowers and more. It was perfect!
@MsJubjubbird3 жыл бұрын
Most of the money is being spent on his guests though. He's cutting costs so he can have all the people he wants
@gladaloja7173 жыл бұрын
My wedding cost only $115 n we only had 4 guests! That was 1978. What cost the most was $50 to the priest! Oh n we paid it ourselves! 🙂🙏💖
@bobapp18363 жыл бұрын
Wow how selfish is this young woman. And she gets a husband
@lesleycourt37703 жыл бұрын
So sick of little girls who think it’s all about the wedding and them. The MARRIAGE is what’s important.
@hotbambi20102 жыл бұрын
No the dad and husband are ridiculously stingy and a couple of Scrooge's it's the one day she gets for her special day and they won't even let her have that it's HER day not her Dads
@rckkeller94372 жыл бұрын
Our daughter and her fiancé were both finishing up their medical residencies a few months before their wedding. We know how hard they had been working on their careers for the last 12 years and we wanted to celebrate that. We gave them a check, it was a substantial amount, and they were grateful for every penny. It was up to them to make it work. We did offer to add to the amount towards the end, but they refused it. They were determined to figure it out. It was an amazing wedding, so magical. We are so proud of them.
@mimigrabner44863 жыл бұрын
Never fight over the wedding Rings. Those are your symbols of ever last Love.
@laurahoward54263 жыл бұрын
I agree...my heart broke when my rings were stolen after 7 years....I loved them, and never replaced😢
@GameChanger5972 жыл бұрын
I especially thought the way he was talking to her about "shelling out money" for her wedding ring was super tacky.
@amstergal2 жыл бұрын
This is the closest to on budget I've seen. Father is a tough negotiator but kept them pretty close to budget and still spent a lot of money! Can't get over what people spend but it's all relative I guess. Wish this couple joy and a new washing machine!
@elizabethjackson83283 жыл бұрын
She's marrying a guy exactly like her father.
@lauriereamy98763 жыл бұрын
Good, they will have something for a rainy day.?
@laurahoward54263 жыл бұрын
Don't we all?
@hotbambi20102 жыл бұрын
So she doesn't have to work and so she can be pampered for try rest of her life
@maryrotman40342 жыл бұрын
I married into a wonderful Jewish family, and I have to say this situation is not unique.
@eliselit3 жыл бұрын
I couldn’t watch it all, did my head in. She is so sneaky
@sle79363 жыл бұрын
Her bridal gown matched the mother's of the bride dress. Moral of the story: buy your own dress! 👗😉
@maryroberts92333 жыл бұрын
Moral of the story....elope. Better yet, get a cat until the right man comes along.
@JodiLeaSnakeQueen3 жыл бұрын
@@maryroberts9233 but.. i still have my cats lol 4 of them
@corawilliamson33823 жыл бұрын
Where was their wedding planner during all these meetings
@emilissaschwemmer55702 жыл бұрын
What an adorable couple!! Wish them much love, luck and laughter in the future
@katelynmason91792 жыл бұрын
I have always heard that when planning a budget wedding you pick three things that you want well done. For this bride, it would be dress, venue, and probably cake.
@juliam.mallen21672 жыл бұрын
Who cares that it was staged they had fun. They are an adorable 💑 couple..and Larry should have his own sitcom! Mozletof!
@jaimew15393 жыл бұрын
So glad we paid $150 and paid an officiant to marry us! Took my kids and they were happy to take pictures, granted it was our 2nd wedding but it was oh so wonderful!!!
@rlast46983 жыл бұрын
Awe that sounds so sweet.
@diamondangel19693 жыл бұрын
I can feel my blood pressure rising watching these two argue over the gown. That's as far as I could watch.
@annm.71763 жыл бұрын
My two daughters paid for their own weddings and we paid for their receptions.
@Noname-cn4ly2 жыл бұрын
I thought this Larry guy was putting on some kind of prank and then I realized he was “for real” ……so sad…….
@jeffnlisa2 жыл бұрын
Okay, my take SO far... I agree 100% on Dad arguing about the venue, for that many guests, I did the math and that's $60,000!! Even with both sets of parent's splitting, that's still $30,000! Does that INCLUDE FOOD & drinks or JUST the venue?? Now with the wedding dress, he really needs to buy her HER WEDDING DRESS, NOT A HAND ME DOWN! The cake, as long as its hgood quality, I don't see an issue with store bought. I had a cake from Walmart for mine & it was beautiful & delicious
@britvica2 жыл бұрын
it was with food. she said 150-175 per person
@HeavnzMiHome3 жыл бұрын
The marriage is doomed.
@jeanettejackson4443 жыл бұрын
The money spent on a huge wedding could go to paying off student loans, a new home etc. It is one day. Seriously.
@Jkl_20222 жыл бұрын
I understand staying on budget, but it's still their wedding. When I got married, mom paid for part of my dress, but she let me pick out what I wanted then put a certain amount towards it. My in-laws wanted to contribute, but it came with all these expectations so we decided to forego their money and pay for everything ourselves.
@MR-lq7ss3 жыл бұрын
Girl: "Who's wedding is this?" Father: "Ours" Girl: "No, ours - well, mainly mine". Spoken like a true princess.
@paolahuezo99183 жыл бұрын
Everyone will disagree but I think it's a royal waste of money. 68,000? That's the down-payment for a house!!!! Wasted in one day, insane.
@adahliafelix65953 жыл бұрын
That's $476,000.00 in my currency. I could buy land and build a home for that amount. Talk about a waste!
@DEBORAHAJONES-gv5hu2 жыл бұрын
I got married at 25 and never even thought about my parents paying we were both working and took care of it ourselves
@janetyoung60973 жыл бұрын
the bride does not understand that you can not fit 350 people plus is a space for 150 that is suppose to be for a sit down dinner. Just because she likes it.
@Jackie-dm1ye2 жыл бұрын
“It’s all about me!” ! She’s a Veruca Salt!
@empressdoinalot2 жыл бұрын
Because the guests are their parents and not theirs. They could have cut the guest list to just the most important people and saved loads
@nativetexan66283 жыл бұрын
But I don't blame her for wanting her ring. I've never seen a woman who got a better set unless it was a BIG make-up gift, if then.
@MikadoDragomir3 жыл бұрын
At this point I would have eloped...
@lindacarruthers34233 жыл бұрын
I would’ve divorced my father .
@maryroberts92333 жыл бұрын
Totally agree....just elope. Plus put a lot of distance between your Dad and yourself. Can you imagine when a child comes along. Larry will be loads of fun.
@interestedobserver-gk3ih3 жыл бұрын
Larry may be a budget tyrant but but he sort of has to with his demanding daughter, he was right on the venue: it was too small for the number of guests. If the parents are paying they are also having a very large voice in the final decisions. If I were in her shoes I would be acquiescent on those things that weren't all that important: especially the venue because this is the high ticket item. I would focus on what is most important: my own wedding dress [not designer] and I would pay for it myself [not dad or SO]. I think if she had been more agreeable dad would have loosened the purse strings but instead she make a battle 'this is the hill I die on' about everything thus dad is constantly on the defense. I think these two bring out the worst in each other especially since her dad is paying for the wedding he feels entitled to have the final say on everything. The bride is being unreasonable about her wedding rings. The diamond band she wants is often gift the husband gives the wife on the birth of their first child. The other option she had was to buy 2 plain bands to encircle her engagement ring which would have given it a unique look.
@b.j.loveislove90903 жыл бұрын
Excellent comments
@debbyreynolds92323 жыл бұрын
She was acting like a spoiled little girl who always had to get her way. I'm glad my kids didn't act like that lol
@empressdoinalot2 жыл бұрын
The number of guests were his idea not hers.
@Lukkaboc2 жыл бұрын
I wonder whose guest list it was? I feel like if most of the guests are invited by the parents and not the couple, then the parents should help more. (Although Larry did contribute a large amount. Much larger than my wedding!)
@rojamillerover2 жыл бұрын
I agree 💯
@shelljw2 жыл бұрын
My inlaws gave us a budget of $2500 18 years ago when I got married. (Left him 11 years ago) - when all added up - we got it done with nearly $500 change. So it really only cost us $2k Australian. It was a brilliant day - one thing I will NEVER regret about that relationship. It can be done on a shoestring budget, and you can still have a blast!
@BlackBellyDanceCandy3 жыл бұрын
Wedding on the water 150 a head×375people =56,250 Girl no👎🏾
@shayrost69762 жыл бұрын
I am in the process of planning my wedding. Me and my fiance have paid for 100% of the cost of everything. Getting my parents to pay was never a consideration.
@ayla9905 Жыл бұрын
I think I will keep that in mind when it comes to my future wedding thank you I will be definitely taking notes
@annerose92193 жыл бұрын
I think the dad is a pain. I understand there’s a budget but he argues with her the whole way. He’s driving me 😜 crazy. Now on the other side, she needs to compromise on some things to. She didn’t need a $1400.00 ring right now. Mercy! P.S. The 🍎 apple doesn’t fall too far from the tree.
@tinjmail3 жыл бұрын
and do they really need a wedding planner?
@sharonrose79382 жыл бұрын
Bingo
@rojamillerover2 жыл бұрын
So they were complaining about the dad being budget conscious but when they had to pay for rings and the cake they became very frugal
@kindnessisfree91993 жыл бұрын
They paint the bride and the dad in such a negative light. I'm sure the dynamic is much different in real life, right?
@lefse22782 жыл бұрын
David’s my fav wedding planner “Princess is going down the aisle like second hand rose?!” 33:27
@patriciabrower5323 жыл бұрын
Here,s how I solved our budget problems, we paid for everything period. I won,t tolerate such stress from the outside circle bull on that.....🙄
@sharonharper62553 жыл бұрын
Spending a ridiculous amount of money for a wedding doesn't ensure "til death due us part" 🤦🏾🙄
@ABC-pr7rb3 жыл бұрын
This was so so awkward watching this episode. I have a headache and need to de-stress after watching this wedding. The Bride was so so unappreciative. She was so so lucky to receive this wedding. Lucky girl. Her Dad was a bit rude. The Bride should of paid more and she would of got her own dress. That jacket was hideous. How nice was her friend to give it to her and let her do alterations.
@stefaniebraun33193 жыл бұрын
There are certain things we do not know. They have 350 people. That seems a lot. Maybe 250 are the parents guests, not the couples. In that case the parents ahould definitely pay for the people they want to be invited.
@bobbie33593 жыл бұрын
*should have *would have
@laurielembitz54063 жыл бұрын
Who borrows a wedding gown? That's just awful!
@rlast46983 жыл бұрын
@@laurielembitz5406 lol what adult.woman begs their daddy for a wedding dress venue etc
@tinjmail3 жыл бұрын
@@laurielembitz5406 , what is wrong with that?
@julisimonyan48252 жыл бұрын
That 295 dress actually looked so cute on her, I think dad had a good eye with that one! it draws more attention to her beauty rather then the dress itself, I like the other dresses too though!!
@niveditabhattacharjee73623 жыл бұрын
I WOULD NEVER GET MARRIED UNDER SUCH CONDITIONS. Just live together!!
@birdbrain43643 жыл бұрын
This is the wierdest wedding planning I have ever seen! It can't be real!
@tundereinhardt46763 жыл бұрын
I don’t think it is!! It looks like they’re acting!
@rosamundg.37893 жыл бұрын
Yeah - It was straight out of a Woody Allen movie!!
@mayrakopjansen28142 жыл бұрын
I would never ever accept a second hand wedding dress
@lycethlyckman82403 жыл бұрын
The dad is hideously cheap…. I’d elope at this point 😁
@JudyHart13 жыл бұрын
The daughter is very happy spending someone else’s money with nary a thought of the budget.
@designariel3 жыл бұрын
Except their parents paid for their wedding in full, almost $69,000. That’s not cheap.
@potocatepetl3 жыл бұрын
Are you dunk or on drugs???Did you see the wedding costs? I assume not, otherwise you wouldn't call hi cheap.
@tinjmail3 жыл бұрын
how the hell is $65,000 budget cheap??
@joycejohnson76403 жыл бұрын
Who in the hell needs 300-350 people at their wedding? Are they doing it to get more gifts? Ridiculous.
@dawnofdestruction73813 жыл бұрын
This is where the parents if willing to contribute to the wedding hand the bride and groom whatever amount that is and let the bride and groom spend it, if they run out of money, oh well! Force them to work it on a budget, give them X amount and that's it
@shelleyharris41762 жыл бұрын
Poor David I worked with wedding planners and their clients They earn every penny with what they have to put up with
@anwarhussain48522 жыл бұрын
You are ' Blessed ' to have your Parents alive ! Have a Simple Wedding. Feed the Hungry & Enjoy your ' New Life ' !!!!
@lisapope40223 жыл бұрын
Holy Crap....we came in under 10k at our wedding, it was beautiful
@tinjmail3 жыл бұрын
my cousin only spent around $5000
@chantelparise Жыл бұрын
My fiancé and I are having an extravagant wedding and paying for it 100% for ourselves. I can’t believe people would expect parents to pay for a wedding. A gift is nice but this is ridiculous.