As a Christian I'm much more comfortable showing my knees in church than that much cleavage. As long as your butt isn't hanging out I don't think it's an issue.

What century is their mindset?

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I personally don't think God is into body-shaming women much. But what do I know?🤷‍♀️

Hannah F I don’t get how showing knees isn’t dressing modestly? I got to church every Sunday and my parents don’t let me wear anything other than dresses. Almost every dress I wear goes to just above my knees. I don’t see how that’s not modest, at least in this day and age.

You mean the lower leg.

It's the hair. Her skin is young looking, but that hair colour and style is extremely aging.

@@zeldagoblin that's cause she been round them ultra deep church people. They got her looking matronly.

Ikr lol i rewinded that first part way to much i was like 18 where👀👀😂😂😂

Damn shook

Im 28. 😕🤭😂

What compromise she caved totally they didn't listen to her at all and she was the bride.

Marilynn Morón exactly. My compromise would be that the sister wouldn’t be in the wedding

Right! I think this clip was the most upsetting one I've seen as of yet.

@@shannon4191 lol I love that🤣

Hey a bit random but plz repent of your sins and give your life to Christ. Jesus loves you so much and He died on the cross for you so that you may be with the Father and have eternal life with Him❤

when mommy takes your side you don't grow up

@@shrgh1876 i know i have cousins that act like her :(

fashionista 94 PERIODT

She needs to control her edges💀

Exactly. That's an 1800's attitude.

@@TheFlyingmartini I agree, but this was filmed in the early 2000's where feminist and women body confidence wasn't really talked about as much as it is today. So at that time, people sometimes agreed.

@@jsmith7870 feminism started in the 70s, and the women's rights came into their own in the 90s when it was not only talked about but the conversation was meaningful bcos we were actually fighting and winning for the first time. What we talk about today is just a rehash of things we take for granted

shes NOT covered up, she's showing more cleavage than some of the short dresses - talk about hypocrisy.

shrgh 18 i know that but most of it wasn’t really acknowledged and hardcore until today. People still had that mindset of ‘women should be in the kitchen’ now almost everyone is a feminist.

Hahaha.. me 🙋‍♀️😜

@@Speak_Im.listening 😀😀😀yeah

Every Time!

Mee

Me too. All us commenters won’t hesitate to roast spoiled brats. I only hope the worst of the entourages read the comments and burn. Lol

that's what I thought

True.

She's to young, should have a long engagement.....enjoy your youth...

I do agree that the sister is being ridiculous but people can be insecure about there calves.

Everyone has insecurities no matter how "ridiculous " you think it is

Its her hair and clothes that makes her look old

MEDUZZA that’s what I thought! I had to go back just to make sure I was hearing right

Sometimes weight does that to ya

Ikr my mom looks younger than her and i'm 18

Deaths _Beloved2002 story of my life

Ida Sesay no honestly i would of been like well it sucks to suck

Right there on the spot. I don’t play that.

Amen

I agree, even at the end with rolling her eyes like 'oh she was right again.' She wasn't right at all though, you decided to not go with what you wanted in order for your sister to be happy, that isn't her being right. Her being right would have been an enthusiastic 'oh I love the long dress.' 'I didn't expect to like it so much' something along those lines.

Sounds like that one child who never got taught the word no and so when things don’t go their way they throw a hissy fit no matter how old they are.

I have a three year old and they behave better than the sister

I think the sister was scared and that was her way of hiding it. Not mature but I can see why the bride was understanding. I think her mother knew a lot more about it and that's why she stepped in

I was my sisters maid of honor & even though we were never super close I still went out of my way to make sure everything was perfect because it was HER day & it’s the right thing to do. Don’t take on MOH title if you aren’t gonna support a bride & not do the MOH duties!

My daughter kicked out my Matron of honor.. First of all she picked out a dress without not even me knowing it....and then she didn't want to have to dance with anyone at the reception and she didn't want to walk in reception with anyone....soooooo....since she wanted to do so much solo.....my daughter kicked her out of the wedding.... Oh well.....

Yea my bridal party have been incredible! Apart from one i had to kick her out due to her total cheek towards me because of her controlling abusive boyfriend

Didn't they mention that the mother was also a pastor? More than likely she would be the one presiding over the wedding. Maybe the sister was not only 'fighting' for herself but also was speaking for the mother knowing she wouldn't approve of the dresses? I'm thinking the mother should have spoken up herself but maybe didn't want to take the role of 'villian' so the daughter did? I'm wondering if they didn't cut out a lot to fit it into their half hour show. There may have been a lot of talk regarding modesty in church the show didn't want to show since it seemed the bride gave in pretty quickly all of a sudden.

Right, she should be the one to compromise not the other way around.

I think when they decided it was about her body insecurities she compromised. Sometimes mother knows best

So go against your beliefs for someone else. Her sister put her in the wedding knowing she wouldnr be comfortable in it, and she's the maid of honor so if her dress is different it's not a big deal

Lavender is a bright color? It’s literally bright purple

@@sha9392 Lavender should , normally, be a light gentle tone of purple, not bright

@@louverousse9023 - I totally disagree!! I had Lilac in my wedding, and all the girls looked Bright, and Beautiful!! My wedding was in the spring, so I think it is a bright color!! Just my opinion!!!

Michelle Hamby I also consider it pretty and bright! It’s no where near a neon orange or something crazy like that, but it typically looks brightening and beautiful on the body

Lavender is a light color, not bright. I see how people can get confused, but light and bright are different and lavender is light.

She was misogynistic anyways

You shoudlnt force someone to qear something something their beleifs.

Period!

Too young to get married!

Flyingmartini Hurricane That’s not true. If she found the love of her life, then it’s her choice.

@@Lexi-rt6zb yes, it is her choice...that being said...people change as do their wants and needs as they grow older.

Flyingmartini Hurricane by that logic, no one should ever get married because they’ll change their mind eventually. Age doesn’t have anything to do with that.

Flyingmartini Hurricane If she feels she will be with him forever, then she’ll be happy. Yes some people divorce when they get older but it wouldn’t change if they stayed together and got married at 30. And divorced at 31. Let her be happy! It’s a happy thing! She’s an adult and getting married. It’s exciting. Especially when you’re with the love of your life.

It isn't weird, but if it isn't what you want it isn't what you want.

@@raenfairy true but she also put her sister in her wedding party knowing she's more conservative and isn't comfortable in short dresses

@@Havis_Princess it’s her wedding. Her sister should’ve declined if she so bothered

IKR

omg wtf you look so pretty 💗

U look like ur 29

*20

Extra pounds adds age

She should’ve dropped her sister just from her comment about how “women should cover up” alone

I dig Joji’s toenail clippings out of the trash agree

If it were me the sister would be wearing a long dress, but not as my bridesmaid, as a guest

@@d.b.coopers.strongest.soldier some people are more comfortable covering up. If That's what she believes in we have no right to be mad at her. Bridesmaids can wear short dresses qnd she can wear a long dress bc she's the maid of honor and the maid of honor dress is usually different

@@saintshrooms9424 true but she's maid of honor and the dresses are normally different anyways why can't she wear a long dress with the same details, and color as the bridesmaids. If she's not comfortable wearing a short dress we shouldn't force her to wear something short. For example you wouldn't force a Muslim woman to wear a short dress ad your bridesmaid bc it's against her views yk

Yeah, but not in almost any denomination of Holiness church. The length of dress is almost prescribed as far as Sunday morning services go. But this was not about that, it seemed that in the end it was more about the bride's sister's issues as much as it might have been church interesting readings of the Bible and women's bodies. ijs

When u sit it's thigh length

You shoudmt force someone someone wear something there not comfortable in, or is against their beliefs

Well said. I completely agree with lady...etc 😊above.

Same

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Yes

I totally agree. To an extent I think some brides are so dogmatic in their thinking .... I find uniformity in colour and material is a must however length and minor style differences should be considered depending on how flattering a dress is on different body types.... I would hate my friends to feel uncomfortable to the point they cant celebrate my day with me in genuine joy.

I mean I get that the day is about the bride ... but you gonna make ppl hate you over one day ... lol... who she gonna call up when she needs a friend to talk to as a result of that same marriage. No marriage is perfect and you will need one of these girls to talk to... the least you can do is allow them to feel comfortable on the day

@@smilingassassin05 exactly!!

Ehhhh short and long will look tacky together they need to pick all long or all short

@@sharnagrayson9649 she is the maid of honor so maybe that help show who is who 🤷‍♀️

Alana Kim right long dresses are pretty short dresses are tacky

I know right?!

Periodt.

Right?? Like, I'm getting married, and one of my best friends and I talked early on, because I want her as a bridesmaid but she's too self conscious about wearing the dress, being in front of everyone, being in the pictures. We had an honest conversation from a place of caring about each other, and came out with her as an honorary bridesmaid: she's going to help me plan, come to the bachelorette, hang out with me while I get ready day-of, then go sit with her fiance and the guests in a dress she feels comfortable in. What's most important to us both is that she's there with me through the process- if she doesn't stand next to me for that 30 minutes of the day, oh well, I wasn't going to be looking at her in that moment anyway 😂 My point is, people need to talk honestly with each other BEFORE these appointments and work out what they want. This is dress shopping, not therapy- how are people going to wait until they're in the shop, ON TV, before admitting, "I'm insecure to show my legs." Like girl, you couldn't admit that to your sister in private but you're going to say it now on TV?? But I shouldn't expect them to have reasonable, rational people on reality TV 🤦‍♀️

Facts

Well she's welcome to join the wedding as a guest instead. The wedding is about the bride and the groom, and their journey together. Not a bridesmaid who has an insecurity probably because of her mother. It irritates me that bridesmaids have the type of attitude where they think "I can throw a tantrum because I'm not getting the dress I want". Watch how many brides would be willing to kick out their bridesmaids from the wedding because of that attitude. This is why I'm having a courthouse wedding with a couple friends and some family there. Screw dealing with the issues that arise from planning a big fancy wedding.

True but looking at them closely they’re almost all alike. The girls are out enough and difference was her covering ankles 😅

True, but the sister should also be more honest and forward with her insecurities rather than cause trouble for the bride. Some brides are willing to allow their maid-of-honor to wear a different dress than the other bridesmaids. But to be honest, the video kinda makes it seem like the mom used insecurities as an excuse to get the long dresses.

then she should talk about her comfort no need to drag God into it, while showing all that cleavage

Thank you and agreed !

Prathika Suvarna i thought I was the only one

I'm 17 and I'm engaged.

@@kirahaines4439 Don't you think you might be a bit young to be engaged and maybe in a near future, married ?

@@louverousse9023 No. Love doesn't have an age. People used to be married at 18 all the time. My Granny was. She was happily married until my Grandpa passed.

@@kirahaines4439 50 years ago and today are too completely different times. People got married younger as they didn't live as long as today. Maybe you need to pick up a history book rather than try to get married. True love does not exist at 17, sorry.

@@Perfeccionista89 let her live her life. sorry someone dumped you at 17 and you thought you were never going to find someone to love.

Yeah if she had not been getting married in her church, but wait she was getting married in her very very conservative congregation-- theological and social practices related to women's bodies, Sooooo yeah, but no!

religious and social practices have always had dress codes for both sexes...right or wrong it should be about everyone not just women

Write one.

and I can't find a nice dress no matter how many I watch

shrgh 18 Haha 🤣

Not even commenting on the episode. BUT saying someone should dress modestly is not “judging”. That word is overused and misused. If it meant what you imply it to mean then you are more guilty than her because you are implying that her Christianity is “judged” by what you deem to be a “good Christian”. Which would mean you are judging her and thereby being hypocritical, to say the least.

@@LoveBritishShows actually I’m not being hypocritical, because not only am I not even claiming to be a good Christian, but I’m not judging someone based on what they want to wear, which is what I was criticizing. And I was using judging correctly, as in to assume something about someone and to criticize them for it off of a baseless observation. She is judging other women for being inappropriate when they “show a lot” because in her opinion, women should dress modesty. When in reality, whether someone is dressing correctly at their own wedding (within reason of course, and she was well within reason), is up to them and should be able to be done without judgement. It wouldn’t be judging, if she never projected her opinions into other people. It is now judging, because she wants other people to make decisions based on what she believes.

The UK version has stunning dresses! 😍 And they very rarely show a dress more than once. Half of these dresses are on repeat lol

@@rutituti678 true

Thank God. I think brides should be understanding of that... you dont need to highlight the insecurities of your bridesmaids or make them feel tremendously uncomfortable just to ensure you stand out on the day... after you get married...these ppl still gotta be your friends you call on...unless you decide to stop talking lol... I think some compromise is needed or you just change your bridal party to those who want to wear what you want them to wear