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Everyone who says “I do” hopes to have a perfect marriage. But what do you do when the honeymoon phase ends, and your feelings about your spouse change? What if you feel less intimate, distant, and unloved by your spouse? What if you aren’t attracted to your spouse anymore, or what if you get a crush on a co-worker? What if you start to ask the question, “Did I marry the wrong person?” Is divorce inevitable? Today I sit down with mental health expert, Dr. John Delony of the Dr. John Delony Show, to discuss how to get through some of the toughest relationship issues with your spouse, as well as how to build a relationship and a romance that stands the test of time.
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Timestamps:
00:00 Intro Sequence
00:30 Introduction
01:57 Good Ranchers
02:56 John's Background
04:50 What Shifted Him From Academia to Dave Ramsey?
06:59 Format of John's Show
08:34 "I've Always Regretted My Marriage"
11:25 Difference Between Feelings and Fact
13:19 The Role of Feelings
16:24 Every Life
17:19 How to Have Hard Convos if It Could Cause Painful Damage
19:56 How Do You Develop Trust With Spouse?
21:46 How Do You Go All In When Things Are Hard
23:58 How Do You Learn to Do The Hard Relationship Work
27:52 Seven Weeks Coffee
28:57 Can You Marry the Wrong Person?
31:27 The Power of the Promise
34:05 Regrets of Divorce Aren't Talked About Enough
37:43 Need for Rebuilding is Inevitable
41:34 Love is an Action
42:13 Worst Ryan Gosling Movie Ever
43:53 Critique on "The Notebook"
45:03 40s Better than 20s
46:45 God and Covenant
48:32 Handling Attractions
56:49 Effect of the P**nified Culture
1:00:40 Many Men Love Their Wives More After Birth
1:02:11 Projecting Insecurity
1:04:35 Keeping the Romance Alive
1:09:22 Resources for Healthier Marriage
1:15:21 Where to Find John