We’re all on a journey, and wish that we could make the best decisions when it comes to our finances, relationships and work, but that just isn’t the case. What’s the biggest decision you’ve had to make lately and how did public opinion affect it? Let us know in the comments. Come to the Golden Tulip this weekend and reflect on those decisions. If you’re a content creator like me, I’ve got a plug for you! Airtel Xstream Wifi is here to support your streaming experience as you watch our Friday episodes with blazing-fast upload speeds. Dial *125# or call 125 to activate #AirtelXstreamWifi #BumpLove #DecisionMaking #Motherhood

Pumla should consider life coaching. She speaks with such conviction ❤

Pumla really does the research, she’s always informed about the topic being discussed. Such a gem!

I just love Rosette , she seems a simple happy soul and rising 4 kids makes you a super woman

THOSE WHO MATTER DON’T MIND, THOSE WHO MIND DON’T MATTER. Period. ❤

This has really been impactful on me. I have rewatched this episode thrice. I love the composure of Rachael, the happy Rosette and the bitter truth that Pumla and Manuela always point out. I have been struggling with a decision but now I feel I am more empowered to make a choice.

After watching bump love for more than one year without subscription, today i have decided to subscribe.clap for me ba dear

Pumla is my crone!!! Am 60 and i hear me in her view!! Love ya!! But must admit she is the new improved version❤

Kudos Racheal you are so composed even in your submissions. Love you

I will always applaud Pumla for the detailed research she makes for this show, and all the ladies, lots of appreciation ❤❤❤ and for the lumpens, shame on you, they could never bring us bump lovers downs, we came to stay😂😂😂

Banange lets be grateful to these girls. They share their privacy something that many of us cannot do. Through their stories, people have learnt alot and we should always be there to defend them and support them. Nze nja kuffa nomuntu avuma bano abakyaala

You guys are awesome… the whole lot of you. So smart, so God-fearing…balanced, vulnerable…beautiful, well-groomed! Your fellow African sister (Zimbabwean-Australian) loves you so much. One month into my Bump Love journey… I am watching at least 3 shows a day… hey, there is so much goodness here…I need it ALL. 😀 Sending you love from Australia… ❤❤❤

Yall are preaching but Pumla has preached today 😂😂❤, I had to pause, process the information i'am receiving then continue watching i'am forever greatfull for this channel as a day 1 subscriber.Thank ladies. 😘😘

I like Rosette’s firm stand on God oh Yes not forgetting Manuela and Racheal…

Rachel is sooooooo my twin because eh 🤦🏿‍♀️ nga I've suffered with "being soft". Goodness 🤦🏿‍♀️ even my family has always told me that I'm not aggressive enough, my supervisor at work recently told me that I need to develop thick skin because I'm always looking for more peaceful ways to resolve conflict and avoid confrontation at all costs. So many times I have had to find myself trying to morph into a version of who they say I'm capable of becoming, which would then in retrospect propel me to where they think I should be in life and it always backfires, sadly, on me alone and going through the repair and rebuilding always takes alot out of me and I honestly feel lost at this point. I feel like I've allowed so much noise into my life that I've forgotten who I am. I hope to find myself one day. Thank you ladies for always holding space for us, in every way, shape or form in a world where it's so easy to forget oneself.

Rosette is right when in marriage love should be put aside l have liked the tropic it’s teaches a lot

Seeking Social approval comes from insecurities....our decisions affect us. People can advise but deciding is mine and am like Rosette... once God validates ebirala background noise. Thanks guys, from each one of u I learn something 🎉❤

Rachael was right about personality types, there are people who are not rational, logical in their approach to life and while they will arrive they are wired to sit in their emotions and must marinade in them to go forward! They actually don’t like to be rushed through their emoting process. There is nothing rational about emotions

Haha, I've been a quiet listener, but I couldn't resist commenting today because of Manuella addressing those naysayers who just want to bring you down. Big shoutout to you ladies! I absolutely love every episode you broadcast, and it's refreshing how each of you brings your own unique flavor to the table.

I love how different u ladies are here..the show is meaningful & well balanced. Pumla u just said everything right. U're so articulate.

Racheal, theres strength, resolve and wisdom in that place you sit. A quiet yet sound kind of strength. I really appreciate your vulnerable and honest takes.

I relate to Rachel, I seek validation from others about my decisions. I'm working on stopping this and being confident in the decisions i make on my own

Pumla the biggest decision I pray you make one day is to accept Jesus Christ as your lord and saviour....!!! Amen...

I like how self aware Rachel is❤

Love you all!!!!❤ mama bonus from Hungary formerly in holland

Everything Pumla has said, I have been living sub consciously. from how I make decisions to learning to forgive myself and understanding that my decisions have consequences I cannot run away from. A lot to take from this episode. Thanks Ladies!

After watching this, im yet to make my hardest decision.

You have been speaking to me throughout this year.l am becoming the better version of myself

I wish each of us would mind their own business coz this would would have been a better place but some of us fail to try our chances bcoz of opinions

Listening to this has reminded me that, intimacy with God is a cure for all insecurities 😊thank you for the show❤

Pumla with the brilliant explanations, you ladies are so filled with wisdom, love it for you all, kisses and hugs to Racheal my fave 😘

Thank you bumplove ladies youre doing a great work please if u get time discus on financial issues between married couples

Recho,I too struggle with the desire for validation. And I feel like its affecting mostly my marriage. I really always lookout for my husbands approval yet many times, he just thinks I should just do what I want

Hi Pumla ...please consider life coaching? Always good to learn from you! Happy Friday errybare

I think i am a sociopath... I don't regret neither reverse a decision made😂..i just do a continuous cycle of improvement

Pumla is such a blessing to us❤

Rossete is becoming a pastor one of these days, good of her

Hi ladies, Great topic. I made a decision of taking care of my kids cause my hubby has a busy schedule. But now I am doing an online degree in year 3. Looking at more of my career now because the last ones are 6 years. Thax for the show, I appreciate.

Ladies you rock .Have been glued to your episodes since the beginning of the year.Continue the good work

I struggle a lot with decision making,let me camp here and thanks a lot for the show.

Ladies you are actually sent from heaven to make us have a good life here as we sail through our chances of this life and navigate our decision making struggles.All i can say is that thank you so much.God bless you for sure Ladies 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉I totally appreciate you for helping me in person to learn how over come public Opinion because i used to really struggle because of that but today i am walking away with enormous confidence after watching this show that i can totally achieve my dreams no matter what the world says. Thank you once again 🎉. Note i wrote chances not challenges because i believe each day God gives us a chance to life so what we face are not challenges but chances ❤

yes first to comment .that moment am just scrolling and boom!

Pumla, what a lady my goodness. How do you know almost everything. I love you much ❤

Ooohh wow...... In some conversations, this crew reminds me of my school time girlfriends. 🤣🤣🤣😍😍😍😍😍 I love the way you people connect during the discussions. Go dear ladies,, Love.❤

Pumla..true definition of Beauty with Brains ❤

Last week I was teaching my teenager and preteen about decisions (choices). I told them that sometimes you don’t need to even go to the prayer meeting, if only you made the right decision. And most people are going about from prayer meeting to another because they started off with a bad decision. And coming from me (a prayerer) is such a big one. We must make informed researched well thought out prayed through decisions.

You guys don't know what you have done for a 20 year old today.... thank you ❤️❤️

Purpose filter The assessment check list Life is for me When God validates. What do I want Asanteni ladies ❤❤❤❤❤

The fact that i am currently reading "THE MIDNIGHT LIBRARY" . Its a book about choices and regrets..... Everyone relates to this discussion for real❤

I can really relate with Rossette's decision. Am also a working mother with 4 children and that's how i felt exactly every time I had to give birth

Pumla just reflects what my life's Story is. Can't share much but atleast now I've the confidence to know that I've not been weird😮😊

Our ladies are here its a Friday 💃💃💃💃💃💃💃. Saying we are grateful I feel is an understatement. You just don't know how your impacting lives with these various topics that you always choose to share with us every now and then. Forever indebted. We love you and keep doing this 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

Yeah.Decision Making so tough but necessary. Eveyone ought to make a decission in life and own it.

Today am just appreciating Racheal's glow😍😍😍 Racheal you are looking very very beautiful, with positive energy 💪💪💪💪

This feels like it's speaking to me.. Being uncomfortable/unsettled in a space that is "desired" and a space I had prayed for,for years.

Bump love is a real force to be reckoned with. Bakyala tusiima❤

The wind took me to my destiny... as a grown up, I have decided to start ADULTS an organisation to help young people find their purpose early in life. Raising Purpose-Elevating Impact. Today is my day...I will learn a lot from you girls. Thank you for coming up with this topic

Rachael is quite a wise mind, she extensively looks into issues. Great conversation ladies, you are all really smart.

I have made the toughest decisions in life, I don't care as long as I am happy I move.

For sure, with the knowledge here, bump love should get 100k subscribers by the end of this year … With love from bump love 😁

Manuella and Rosette, i relate so much with what you have shared... above all, we consider God's will for us

Thank you ladies,I learned the hard way after my parents passed on that I don't have to please everyone,for as long as my spouse,my children are happy,I don't care about public opinion.

Rosette spoke so well. love /marriage is a commitment/covenant

I’m a non decisive person I struggle so much but trying to drive it in a spiritual direction always asking God on big decisions these days

I can relate with Manuela on the marriage decision... My husband was not my type but am glaaaaad I chose him🥰🥰.. he's one of the best decisions I've made in life.. Am so sure God created him for me❤

🎉 This was a conversation I needed to hear!!! Thank you so so much ~ You gals covered all areas; Faith and Emotions in making these decisions!!!! At midlife, I am making changes but above all else, am making them True to myself and Trusting God. No regrets!! Thank You for validating my optimism Xx

Like when i start listening to Pumla mba sagala amale kwogera. Kudos Governor Pumla

Dear Bumplove, i am from Burundi and this segment just help me on a decision that i am struggling with. thank you for sharing your journey

Thank you so much ladies for always opening up mind, I’m proud that my home country has these intelligent women, I look forward to the program! Please let arrange a meet a great for all the bump lovers xxxx

Ladies I realy appreciated your discussion today, it was very well executed, even though you all had different schools of thought. These are issues we go through every day but we hardly talk about, like Manuella said, we never give ourselves time to do the inner work and admit certain realities, then make informed decisions. This was pure wisdom flowing from you all, thank you ladies for this show!

Oti lumpens hahahaha....Ladies this episode is🔥🔥Lots of love...That aside public opinion 🙄Missed Angie my former classmate and OG🤗

😂😅😅... "Mbu those who mind, don't matter, those who matter don't mind". That is a good line. Rossette!! Am going to borrow it. 😅

First of all... really grateful for you guys. The conversations are always insightful. I hope you know how impactful you are with every episode you share with us.

I love you all ladies. Your too honest and am glad am learning from the best.....

Wama talk to us who understand... I honestly appreciate you women. I can't narrate how I've become a better person over time and just following, a better lover and I know I'm gonna make a good wife because of this foundation....atte the very fact that you even do the whole program in English and fluent your worth watching and following.....the guidelines, the realness 🎉❤❤❤❤❤ the fourth heart is for sweet Angie

Kati oba what was i grapling with to miss watching this episode 😅 banange this Life! First, the lumpens that Miss Manuela spoke about banange,,,,, don't they realise that you always give 2 sides of a coin? Watching this episode now,,,i had a hard decision to make this morning. I thought all through it while peeling matooke😅. And came to a conclusion that it's not the kind of life i want. If i were to follow, i would be breaking my personal principles and it would catch up with me though it's enticing as per now. I decided to let go. Personally i also never struggle with making my own decisions because i put myself first and through it all. I learnt ignoring public opinion a bit early in my life. Thank you for this episode. With love from bump love viewers ❤

Teacher Pumla, please consider life coaching outside the bank work😊.

Seek the lessons! Give Pumla her flowers 💐

I love your depth Pumla. Thank you ladies you are such an inspiration.

Gus what girls yesterday at nite l shouted on top of the chair yes tomorrow is a Friday was so happy l had an episode of bump love to watch u dont kw how u make our Friday look like cyber hugs u are loved

No wonder I keep looking towards Fridays... Always getting new insights on how to deal with life... This topic was helpful to me and I was able to assist someone using it😍... Bless you Ladies

i had to come and watch previous episodes. i miss you guys. love Nivy❤⚫🔴🟢

You guys i was here struggling with work shortage😢..but thanks for lighting up my day.

I am one of those silent bump lovers that waits for the show every Friday.. I have never commented but this particular episode spoke to my soul.. Thank you ladies for the insightful conversations that will forever change our lives❤ With love from Molly..

pumla💃💃💃💃💃💃💃 preach it lady

oh Lord,,, i love you women. you are so honest and each day, i learn and get my life better and eyes open here. keep it up and thank you

Manuella thanks for your honesty and it beautiful to see you and brian happy..and inspiring other people

My dear ladies ,thank you for reliving our hearts, at some point we are down and you🤗...🙏🙏🙏

Racheal, i love how you tackled the whole personality thing. So so true

Have been struggling with a hard decision but pumla’s way is a waaawooo for me.

I just love your shows. My Fridays are never boring, I always share your content with my Kenyan friends. Ladies much love

The 25 year old me wishes this video had been available, then..... Thank you ladies, this was great

I never understood why people praised Oprah Winfrey for changing their lives through a talk show. Since watching this show about 3 years ago I have been so empowered. You once featured a very confident and smart house wife or home executive as she calls herself (if my memory serves me well) and what she said stuck with me. I decided to raise my children myself and start a business that allows me to parent the way I want. God had us in mind when He called you Mama Mulondo. Great shows ladies. Love from SA

I love this show because you all say your truths and I love it even more because you all bring your own perspectives and you all stay true to yourselves....I loooove it!!! It's amazing how up to now, I light up when I see a new episode pop up.i have been on these bump love streets for maybe 3 years now.

I have been a BumpLove fan for a while but I must admit this is probably the one episode that struck me the most. Such a timely episode ❤I relate most to Rachel and the need for external approval. Challenged to go away and develop that decision-making muscle. “Life is for me” - my greatest take away (Pumla) Ladies you are doing an incredible job, keep up the good work.

It's bump love Friday🤸🤸let me get my notebook and water bottle ❤🎉 hey ladies

This faith grapling comment takes me back to a comment i read on IG where this person said they find it difficult trusting God when it comes to money. It was such a heart breaking comment 💔. Its almost as if being a christian is so difficult and people are constantly fighting within themselves.

Thank you Pumla for always educating us.

I like way, you people reason and make research about particular topics. Wow this is best episode for me this month. Thank you

I have watched this at the right time… Thank God for Bump Love.. Thank you for sharing ladies.