"Modern women want weddings, they don't want to be married" Nailed It!!!

Nobody tells a 27yr old that they are mature for their age. That's something you tell young people.

The three “A’s” that all modern women want: 1. The authority of a man 2. The advantages of a woman 3. The accountability of a child

The more videos I watch of Kevin the more I lament his passing. The man is a gem.

"This isn't a black thing; it's a modern thing." EXACTLY. Thank you!

Ladies. Please. Listen to me. I PROMISE you. I GUARANTEE YOU that there isn’t a single man you will ever “intimidate” by being a basic adult doing basic adult things. This woman really just said an insurance worker probably making 4 times her salary with benefits is “intimidated”’of her cutting hair… This delusion needs to stop. Annoyed, unimpressed, tired are not synonyms with intimidated.

"You women want traditional outcomes... weddings, white dresses... and you're schizophrenic psychotic non-virgins with trust issues." 12:53

The days of $20,000 engagement rings and $100,000 dollar weddings needs to end… Now.

If I had a dollar for every time one of these woman said they were getting into real estate. I could quit work, and watch Kevin as a job. They say it enough to cover my bills. LOL

This how much of a feminist society we live in Telling average woman they are average is a insult. A average man knows he’s average

My husband and I were married by a notary who was a friend of my father's. The whole thing cost from beginning to end 300 dollars and I wouldn't change a thing if I had it to do all over again. We just wanted to be together and that was all that mattered. 38 years and 2 30+year old sons later, I still wouldn't change a thing😊. He is my partner in life as well as my best friend. We have had good financial years, and we have lived in poverty. But, we always worked together and got through it all. I'm a very happy woman!

"I'm a hair stylist, and want an expensive wedding, partnership, real estate, and an empire, but I want it on my terms, my timeline, and want everyone else to pay for it!"

If you want to walk in circles ask a woman a question that requires a truthful answer🤯🤯🤯

Modern woman-child: “I want to build an empire” KS: “lady, you cut hair for a living.” That’s called a checkmate, ladies.

I like that he is so direct and while delivering some brutal truths never loses the sense of being respectful, teaching and not about himself or his ego. He has some precious communication skills for sure.

When a woman responds to serious questions with answers like “Probably” “Maybe” and “Not sure”…RUN FELLAS 😂

I wanted to be a psychologist but then decided I wanted to be a barber.. Thats really something only a woman can say and not be a laughing stock

The fact that she starts every single answer with “uuummm” and then a long pause, I don’t know how he stayed so patient with her! Every single sentence! Uuuuuummmmmm!

Just found out about this man. He's a modern national treasure for men like me who don't understand women very much.

“You’re 28! You’re at an age where the Chinese will call you leftover.” … My Chinese wife hit the floor laughing. So true indeed.

She's not ugly. She should be looking for a decent man with a JOB, an nine to five, who will treat her good. Nothing more. Her expectations are so much higher than her value it's laughable. Nothing wrong with average women getting together with average dudes. It worked for centuries, then with social media, women have delusions of grandeur to the point they will not settle for average.

This man's teaching should be used for ALL YOUNG WOMEN.. MUCH RESPECT MR.SAMUELS

She has 80k in the bank but never mentioned it when discussing who’s going to pay for the wedding 😂

When women say a relationship ended mutually it’s either because he ended it after she cheated or she ended it and regrets it. She wants to “shop around” so to speak and experience more men. Her priority is HER enrichment and wants to party.

“A lot of people tell me I’m mature for my age” My sister in Christ you’re 28

I'll give credit where it's due. She at least wasn't combative and nasty. For hearing a ton of things she didn't like she handled herself well.

Places like this "Comment section" is where I often come to feel related/connected to other humans, I went through a tragedy on my marriage but most hurting part is no one understand my mentality and way of thinking .. Only In videos like this I feel I was right and not alone... Thank you Kevin for your talk and for gathering all these minds around.

I want a life update on this girl. This was a life changing conversation for her hopefully. Props to her for doing this very publicly.

“You women want traditional outcomes, weddings, white dresses, and you’re schizophrenic psychotic non virgins with trust issues”, god damn Kevin spitting flames

*"This is not a black woman thing. This is a modern woman thing."* *"Women today want weddings. They don't want marriages."* I'm sure she will keep that same energy and smug face with the wall.

This dude is straight up addicting! 🤣 As a dude it's easy to think it's all your fault because our society says so constantly. Even as a severely average guy he gives me hope.

Delusional Lady: I want to build an empire with my husband. Kevin: Lady you cut hair for living. 😂 pure gold.

She/Her: "Isn't that traditional [having a wedding]?" Kevin: "You're not a traditional woman. Are you a virgin?"" She/Her: "No" Kevin: "...You women want traditional outcomes; weddings, white dresses and you're schizophrenic, non-virgins with trust issues" Solid point. What good is the facade of tradition without the structural foundation of tradition? Buying a flashy luxury car at full price with the engine missing defeats the purpose of getting a car.

"It was mutual" - said every woman when they got dumped

Pretty sure the stress and shock dealing with these "brilliant" women dealt a huge amount of damage to Mr Samuels' health.

He probably passed out after dealing with all the self-entitled modern women who think themselves to be the prize in a relationship. RIP, Kevin.

I'm starting to see this side in my wife's sister, who is 10 years younger than my wife. She often comes over and stays the night with us to go out with her friends. She sees the result of our work. She sees what we have accomplished in 10 years together. But she doesn't see when we both were right out of college and were barely making ends meet. She doesn't see when we both lived on my wife's salary because I was building up my business and working my ass off. She sees the results. The nice apartment and the nice car. No one wants to grow with each other anymore. Everyone wants easy money. I keep telling her to find a guy that has potential, that works hard, that is loyal and loving. Find someone that has goals. Not someone who has reached his goals. A man that has reached his goals and is still single is a man who won't be taking any BS. He won't accept any sassy, strong, independent woman. He will move on.

He will be missed. Man, he opened eyes to so many people . It's sad he is gone. He work is ART. It will get value overtimes

This was almost a father to daughter conversation. Loved her attentiveness and Kevin's honesty. It takes two. Collaboration and compromise is a good start for a healthy relationship.

Her: I'm mature for my age... Her: I'm not mentally ready for marriage.... Stop the cap.

Kevin surgically disects the dreams of individuals showing them how unrealistic most are! Peace and love!

I made it to 11 minutes and I just couldn’t do it anymore. Just the audacity and delusionality of the modern woman these days is unbelievable.

When a modern woman says she’s working on her mental health, only means she’s not done riding the cokk carousel. I’m j/s.

Most American women have never visited and compared themselves to women in other countries. As an American immigrant,, I'll tell you they do not compare. American women have grown rather accustomed to a system and media environment that supports their abject mental laziness when it comes to men. I wish them well in their search for the one.

I told a girl that I wanted to open up my own architectural firm, she laughed and said “that’s it?” At the time I was already a designer well underway in an apprenticeship and making $80k. She was a Los Angeles 8 and an admin making 25k. I ghosted her after that date.

Thank God these videos still remain. His mind and words live on. I'm just now starting to follow his content. At the age of 43, very athletic, never married, a relatively high earner with no kids, I'm able to date women in their 20s, 30s and 40s and even 50s. What I've experienced and learned over my years he's confirmed. I'm personally grateful.

Kevin is like a social economist

I had 60 people at my wedding , it was $3000-$4000 total, and it was beautiful, I was 22 and a virgin and still happily married! I know so many women who had grandiose weddings and divorced 2-3 years later, fancy weddings are overrated !

Unfortunately, even the women in their early 20s have miles and damage. It's really odd they have no idea how to price or sell anything. And Kevin is dead on about the crazy modern woman demands no matter which community.

Build an empire? Lady you cut hair for a living 🤣🤣🤣I lost it right there

problem is, people are so focused on status and money that forget about finding what’s the most important thing, the RIGHT person.

My dad said the same thing after my nephew and his wife got a divorce after an expensive wedding and 8 months of marriage. "Women want weddings, not marriage." So true. 🙃

Lady: I want an empire Kevin: Lady you cut hair Me: priceless lmaoooo

What a legend of a man. I really hope this woman took to hart his excellent advices, made the right choices and is happy with a husband by her side.

Oh dear. 100k empire and 80k inheritance as if that was anything significant. I don’t know the property prices in US, but I suspect that doesn’t go far even in the middle of nowhere. She is several digits off and was absolutely oblivious at the age of 28. Goodness, this is seriously bad.

Why do they keep saying men are "intimidated" by their job? Ain't nobody scared of that shit.

I’ll never forget the time a chick had in her bio all these things a man needed to have (house, car, job, etc) just for me to get on a date with her and find out she didn’t even have a job her damn self. I asked for the check so damn fast to end that date man…..DELUSION

Kevin wherever you are you are always with us.

Kevin is a savage and I love it! Getting people uncomfortable is healthy. I'm a Realtor for the last 8 years and if this lady wants to be a Realtor, she'll need to adapt the motto that growth comes from getting out of our comfort zone. Statistically, there are many women Realtors and statistically women have an easier time meeting new customers in real estate (lots of guys who will use women's real estate licenses as an opener to talk to them for a date). However, real estate is a full time job and is very demanding. You'll work when your clients want to work AND you'll work a regular 8 to 5 day. If you come from a standard job, you will have to learn to self-manage and control your daily activities. The industry average is 2 years or less for new Realtors before they drop out and go back to a standard job. To make 2.4M, you'd have to sell 80M of real estate at 3% commission, so 200 homes at $400,000 each. The average Realtor sells about 2-5 homes a year. That's gross commissions, so pre-tax, pre-expenses, and pre-broker splits, by the way.

I got a lot of respect for her being grilled, embarrassed and being told the truth but taking it very well. Most people would’ve been offended and angry. Respect ✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾

Everytime he asks a woman what state she lives in, I say "denial". It literally always works.

You went from this life way too soon brother, you have left us with plenty of honesty and wisdom, RIP ❤️🙏

My old man once told me "The couple who had $5k wedding, at the end of the day, are just as married as the ones who had a $50k wedding." Weddings serve one purpose: to make select people very rich. It's why the wedding cake industry alone is a multi-billion dollar a year industry. Though it sounds like in recent years, they're starting to die off. Can't imagine why...

I think it is wonderful that women want this man with high value and a fat wallet, but feel offended when that man says that he wants a young woman who has not had a questionable past and package.

If I had a dollar for every 20-35yo woman I've heard say their last relationship ended because they need to work on themselves but aren't actually doing anything I'd be living in a home with staff.

I have sympathy for this woman. She's arguing in good faith and seems to be a kind person, she's just been led astray due to toxic cultural influence.

Well done Kevin. I've been married for over 30 years and I've just learned a few new things. Thank you.

Like KS said, 'a society will only rise as high as the moral position of its women.' Ego in the modern woman today is in large part destroying the nuclear family.

When a chick hesitate to tell who broke up , she most definitely did something to brake off the relationship. Their favorite trigger word is “ Mutual Agreement “ , Intimidation , and insecure . Anything to absolve any accountability. If women were Superman Accountability would be their kryptonite .

If she says "I'm working on myself emotionally" one more time I'm gonna punch myself in the face 🤣🤦‍♀️

You are a hero. Even though you're gone, your videos continue to help a lot of people. Rest in peace Kevin.

“people in the middle have always gotten together for survival” 🤯 I felt that. Thank you Kevin!

A good friend of mine got married at the local City Hall with his wife. I asked him why he did not want to have a wedding ceremony. He told me he's been to two of his older sister's weddings. He witnessed genuine happiness in their expressions just a few times during the entire day. The rest of the time? They were absolutely miserable. So he and his wife opted to skip all of that nonsense, have a simple dinner banquet, and took the money intended for their ceremony for a down payment on their house. Smart.

Great topic, great video.

This is GOLD, miss this guy!

A mutual breakup is when both people say at exactly the same time..."I'm breaking up with you". Never happens.

She's emotionally and intellectually still at 17 years of age. She has no plan, no hurry to figure what she wants or when. She is just drifting along and by the time that biological clock is loud enough, she'll be too old.

We need this man more than ever

I want to build an empire. You cut hair for living 😂😂😂 Rest in power legend. Thank you for every video you made for us.

Omg... I love this dude! Nothing but fire!!!

Her boyfriend ended it. If she broke it off, she would’ve just said “I did”. But she feels embarrassed and is trying to save dignity

It’s amazing. Modern women literally have zero seconds of self-reflection in their whole life. We don’t hate women but are annoyed at the disparity. As a man, we wake up everyday reflecting on why we aren’t good enough to get what we want and then work to improve ourselves. Women literally don’t have a thought in their head other than, “I’m here. Isn’t that enough? That’s what Disney told me, so where is my prince?”

Kevin, thank you for your work I wish you were still here with us. You opened my eyes like no one else.

In defense of wedding costs...my wife and I spent ~$4k on it, for the public ceremony. The ceremony we did to get actually married was done for ~$200 at a place in Vegas. It's super easy to find ways to cut costs such as a friend who has a gorgeous home they are willing to allow you to utilize for your venue.

Honestly massive respect to her for not losing her shit. She handled the embarrassment rather well.

This was a deep conversation, She received a healthy dose of reality.

Kevin was a blessing to all of us☺️

This video touched my heart so much. Especially when he said “you can’t be free”…… lord I wish he was still here😢😢

When these women say "I've been through a lot" What they are telling you is a lot (of men) have been through them and they have completely permanently zeroed out their pair bonding ability. This of course destroys their ability to trust or connect with another person, including their own children if they ever have any, and this is the source of their chronic uncertainty and inability to make decisions. And no amount of therapy can undo that damage

It took me 40 years and two relationships to realise what Kevin is talking about. He's absolutely 100% right. Women need to start learning their own truth instead of listening to their friends and society.

Over the last 3 months I have watched many of Kevin's shows. I keep looking for more every day. I can say I will never look at women the same again.

I’m here for the comedy-keep it comin ladies-LAUGHABLE!

A coworker spent $40,000 on her daughter's wedding and after the honeymoon the newly we'd couple had to move in with her.

She mentions her $80k inheritance at the END but never mentioned it when Kevin asked how she was going to pay for the wedding. THAT RIGHT THERE shows you the entitled thinking she has. Her goal isn't companionship at 30, it's to be wifed and knocked up and retire at 30.

"That's insane mam"😂. Sis is chill. She's what older heads might've called sweet. It doesn't seem like she needs to prove a lot. She's not vitriolic or combative and doesn't appear to be damaged to a fault. However "delusional" she may be she makes up for it, IMO, in receptivity.

Excellent video!!

See how hesitant she was when Kevin asked if she wanted to be married… … but how quick she answered “YES” when he asked if she wanted a wedding. Stay safe fellas

This girl is a living example of the tragic consequences of feminism. It ruined womanhood. Respect to her for hanging in there and taking it though. That's a good quality that a lot of women he talks to don't share.

We lost this man way too soon. A true gem. Lost him right when he was needed most.

God bless ks Thank you for your wisdom