can exes be just friends?

can exes be just friends? | tea for two

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Thanks to Unlikely Collaborators, we layered in Perception Box questions to help our daters dig deeper and uncover more meaningful connections. Learn more at www.unlikelycollaborators.com or check them out here / @unlikelycollaborators
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@lovecommanectar Ай бұрын

do you think it’s okay to be friends with an ex? lovecommanectar.co/4bKT6qT

@alpaqa Ай бұрын

Yeah

@jeenajoan 29 күн бұрын

In this case it makes me very happy that they stayed friends with their exes.

@mercymunoz1408 29 күн бұрын

Yes

@TheMilkyWay444 21 күн бұрын

Hell no, Let that shit go.

@AnistonRBX 15 күн бұрын

Hell no 2:07

@yusterhunter2560 Ай бұрын

I’ve battled addiction alone for 6 years. These young men putting their pride aside to aid in her recovery is the purest form of love. Respect to all 3 of them.

@Bri-tf6eu Ай бұрын

988 is always there to text or call if you ever need it man

@smome7773 19 күн бұрын

I don't know many men who could have done it, matter of fact I think 70% would have sent her over the edge..... She was really blessed to come across them.

@ivak515 Ай бұрын

Me crying with Trey and Alyssa when they’re talking ab Alyssa’s mom

@Shwayzee 28 күн бұрын

I’m literally bawling my eyes out

@Inesines44456 Ай бұрын

Whoever edited this needs a raise.. this felt like a movie

@oliviaeaston4527 Ай бұрын

That letter moved me to tears, what a beautiful episode

@Babygirl758 Ай бұрын

It’s the best one yet

@3D1ofakind Ай бұрын

The amount of respect and emotional maturity everyone shares in this room is overwhelming, like I didn't think this was possible, especially given the scenario 😮

@Katechap20 Ай бұрын

All three of these participants are so mature, vulnerable, well spoken, and brave. I’m thankful for their willingness to let this kind of conversation be recorded and shared.

@anniecsonu Ай бұрын

this is my favorite episode by far, its so deep, and all three people are so mature and profound

@estefanysepulveda10 25 күн бұрын

"I realized that the most important legacy I can leave for you was not a tale of being rescued but one of self-rescue" instant tears!! the letterrrrr

@JazmynMarez3232 29 күн бұрын

As watching alyssa and trey for years together, this makes me feel good about how much closure they got and how much she got out of her fresh one. It takes a lot and I respect all of them for doing this.

@annen22 Ай бұрын

You are all three beautiful people. It’s crazy to see how much you all have been through just in what you talked about in camera. I could tell there was so much more to each individual story. The unconditional respect for one another was so beautiful to see.

@kyliet4523 Ай бұрын

I teared up watching Alyssa and trey’s part and the letter :(

@mwahnobars Ай бұрын

the letter was so beautofully writen im crying.

@treezah308 25 күн бұрын

literally im crying rn

@spamflip 14 күн бұрын

Crying because I’m inspired to write something in my own words

@SlapSister 29 күн бұрын

Damn, she needs to make her story into a movie. It's very dynamic and emotional.

@sunvavachi Ай бұрын

These young people are so motivational. You never know what life throws at you!

@glocellsalting8466 Ай бұрын

I’ve watched Alyssa and Trey from the start and seeing them two grow as individuals really warms my heart 🖤🖤🖤. Although they are no longer together, just from the feel of the video, that genuine connection that they have is still there

@user-cf7vy4hl8p Ай бұрын

the wisdom in these conversations is ridiculous, I mean that in the best way possible. thanks for creating a space to understand the vulnerability & have the courage to lead with it.

@oxceanz 27 күн бұрын

When she said “they were my beautiful chapters…..” awwww man 🤧

@Jamierice139 Ай бұрын

Damn this shit got real deep real fast. Only half way through 😅 but Loving the vulnerability.

@annen22 Ай бұрын

Agreed I had to take a break to look at the comments cause it was so intense

@Lustful_Twilight Ай бұрын

I was not ready for the roller coast of this video. The letter at end broke me, but in the best way.

@REDRUBYXOXO Ай бұрын

I was not planning to cry on a Saturday morning 😭 this was so good

@larizatarango 28 күн бұрын

I have never sobbed so much through a KZfaq video. The lack of pride these men have, the care, the love they've shown her. THE LETTER. Forever inspired and changed fr

@QuyenNHokom 28 күн бұрын

These three souls hv given me hope that this world might not be going to shit after all lol! It was cathartic for me when she revealed who she addresses the letter to. With that letter I won't worry for her. She has learned through her struggles that ultimately, it is pure self love that is the fuel that gives you the power & strength to lasting inner peace & happiness. Noone can give that to you but yourself. Easier said than done.

@kat-fk7on Ай бұрын

🖤 Wow. I’ve been a fan of Alyssa and trey ever since their very first KZfaq video after they went viral on Twitter. Being apart of their journey has been such a light of hope in my life even with all of its trials. Now in this chapter here, my love and appreciation for you all has grown , and has gained as well for Adal. Thank you to the three of you for sharing your truth. And that letter at the end wow. Alyssa you were born to be a nurturing human and I’m happy and hopeful to see that that nurturing will start with yourself 🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤

@hollyliujah 29 күн бұрын

omg im crying. what a beautiful letter 😭 it’s amazing to see 2 mature men push their egos aside to help someone they love so much. alyssa you inspire me so much & you deserve the world. im so happy you’re with us & to hear you’re doing better 🖤

@Noname78624 29 күн бұрын

As someone who lost her mom 2 months ago and watching this during first mother’s day without her…I bawled 🥺😞

@mckennadecker3382 29 күн бұрын

You are going to make me cry

@kiarag8395 27 күн бұрын

i lost mine 6m ago. I’m right there with ya. keep going, you’re doing great ❤️‍🩹

@Noname78624 27 күн бұрын

@@kiarag8395 sending you a big virtual hug 🫂 we will get through it, one day at a time. 💕

@Noname78624 26 күн бұрын

@@kiarag8395 sending you a big virtual hug🫂 we will get through it, one day at a time. 💕

@shashirekhakamle4655 20 күн бұрын

So sorry. Hang in there. It will b alright

@ashleanicole 29 күн бұрын

Wow. Just wow. Mature beyond their years and just an incredibly well put together story of three different lives coming together as one. Thank you to the participants and Nectar for letting them share their stories ❤

@0hcae_ Ай бұрын

got me sobbing and reflecting on my own life fr 😭

@Goodvibesaround3 22 күн бұрын

The level of emotional maturity those young men possess is absolutely astounding. They are well spoken, kind hearted, and incredibly mature. Given the circumstances of each relationship, it’s nice to see that she was able to attract a partner who wasn’t using, 𝙖𝙣𝙙 stuck by her through that journey to see her come out of it on top. Putting her before himself is incredibly difficult but so very important. It’s nice to see someone else has lived a similar journey to mine.

@mariella692 Ай бұрын

you’re so strong and i wish you nothing but the best in life 🖤

@mimiluyen 26 күн бұрын

i've been watching alyssa and trey's story from the very beginning and to see all the things they've gone through together and continue to still be in each others lives, gives me so much hope and happiness for alyssa. alyssa deserves the world, i'm happy to see her have such wonderful people who truly care so much for her that they choose to be here still even though they aren't in a romantic relationship anymore. trey and adal, you're wonderful and genuine people, thank you for being friends for alyssa.

@ShannonPring 29 күн бұрын

Been here since the start when her and Trey were together and posted their first video then the mid point and afterwards, then her meeting Adal and getting to see her live through another chapter of her life with another loved one. Though her experiences and events differ from mine exponentially, I couldn’t help but feel the vulnerability and nakedness of her life story. I love all 3 of you guys so much and I am moved by how this whole 30 minute video has affected my perception of a loving type of love 🖤

@mandyymoniquee9010 Ай бұрын

The letter to your future daughter 🥹🖤

@Poundtown765 27 күн бұрын

watching Alyssa back in the day and then now watching this video is just amazing. everyone included in the video is so beautifully spoken and so respectful. I really appreciate the vulnerability showcased. cried like a baby during the letter. love you alyssa! stay strong darling

@denniellecorpus9500 26 күн бұрын

Ugh I love how raw and emotional and just open and loving this all is. I’m sobbing. Thank you for sharing ❤

@mells5152 Ай бұрын

🖤🖤 This one cut deep . It’s been beautiful to watch Alyssa and Trey both mature into young adults over the years . I can’t wait to see where life takes all of you . Wish you all nothing but the best 🖤🖤

@KJFAdaily 28 күн бұрын

this was beautiful to watch.all so strong, mature, and open minded. definitely expected to cry watching these 3.

@thee792 28 күн бұрын

Her and trey have so much chemistry I hope they get back together

@MilkyMik Ай бұрын

🖤 sobbing. So proud of how much you’ve overcome and extremely happy for the support you have. 🖤

@kathytran5872 29 күн бұрын

🥺 they love them I hope they’re doing well with their lives. Just glad that they still have each other during their hardest times.

@leareyna6015 26 күн бұрын

I held it together so good because I knew much of Alyssa’s story already from TikTok but the letter at the end broke me. This was a fantastic episode. May God continue to bless and guide each of them on their journeys.

@thetrinitymiller 28 күн бұрын

🖤🖤🖤 I’ve been watching Alyssa since the very beginning. I’ve never met her, and I hope one day I do, but I genuinely feel so much love for you alyssa. She’s inspired me so much and because of her and watching her handle similar situations I too have experienced I’ve grown and strived everyday to be better. You’re so loved.

@julianned3218 29 күн бұрын

🖤🖤🖤 just finished watching and I’m so proud of you to see all the growth and change you continue to do with your life 🖤✨

@BelaDesouza_ 28 күн бұрын

It’s so interesting to see people who express their wholesome. deep, past memories. Part of it is very beautiful but also so strange because I can tell I’d never hang around these people but they have their own lives with crazy stories you know? Just so fascinating. And people can look at me and say the same haha, life is so interesting

@naomivanessaaa 29 күн бұрын

love you alyssa, that letter was so beautiful 😢🖤🖤🖤

@nathanjarrelle 10 күн бұрын

They’re so mature, I feel like she could be the problem relationally and these guys have a need to fix and care for her as a child which could also be a problem relationally

@TheAmiz6 29 күн бұрын

🖤🖤🖤 I’m crying. I felt all the emotion in this

@marissachantelle Ай бұрын

I’ve been watching Alyssa and Trey since the beginning. Seeing this video was so healing for me so I can’t imagine how healing it was for you 3. I commend you for allowing an outside source be the one to edit and share this story because I’m sure that it is so hard not knowing if your story will be portrayed truthfully. And the respect Trey and Adal have for each other is so incredible. Alyssa, I hope when you have the capacity to watch this and you’re able to see how much growth you’ve all gone through. 🖤🖤🖤

@GenineDarcheville 23 күн бұрын

I was literally crying with you guys. You've come soo far, keep going🖤

@awesomealie8179 Ай бұрын

i think after high school there should be a class for dating and relationship. For some reason girls and boys that are not even worth getting into relationship are getting into lousy and troubled relationships.

@30__ Ай бұрын

There’s already a class for that and it’s called “sex Ed” 😂😂😂

@leyahzz 26 күн бұрын

This was such a beautiful watch. That letter at the end helped heal a little part of me. Thank you for this video ❤️

@cmooreHD 29 күн бұрын

This was one of the best and deepest episodes on this channel yet! Just wow..

@geniuspeng Ай бұрын

The ending letter was so powerful

@sofiaaras4888 29 күн бұрын

They are all so strong, much love and appreciation for all of them❤️

@faithboulom4211 29 күн бұрын

God this broke me & healed me in so many ways

@aravelpabilona2291 29 күн бұрын

This video had so much layers to it and I just appreciate how these three beautiful people were able to share their stories and experiences. 🖤

@falisha5952 29 күн бұрын

Alyssa and Trey have been my favs for years 🥹🫶🏽

@iisshana 27 күн бұрын

I am bawling!!! This is such a beautiful and raw video

@yeeyang7230 29 күн бұрын

9:18 is so relatable ! Those moments and time will definitely always play in ur mind ❤

@willow1840 29 күн бұрын

so happy to see alyssa on this channel

@imdazed6158 29 күн бұрын

Even tho jubilee;You really put content that from my outer mindset and my country’s culture.you really did a job at explaining this situation that i will never see.Much love from 🇯🇴

@jemmaalegre7164 29 күн бұрын

🖤 what a beautiful interview and healing process!

@kianaleipenaranda8025 Ай бұрын

a beautiful episode 🥺 and the letter 🥺🖤

@alondrac2603 28 күн бұрын

It’s so beautiful to see Alyssa Healing and Health 🥹🤍

@TheKatarinaGiselle Ай бұрын

Best episode ever! The ending kinda confused me though and left me with questions…I kinda hope you have her on again.

@liindawgg 29 күн бұрын

gah I saw the three clips on tiktok and was hoping for 444 years of happiness to both of them whether it be with or without each other.

@kathryn8462 29 күн бұрын

man seeing her letter made my heart hurt. ive had a few exes that saved my life. some im still talking to others i hurt too much to be friends with

@fried920 Ай бұрын

proud of you alyssa 🖤🖤🖤

@miadiaz9043 29 күн бұрын

what a beautiful letter

@user-ks3sq6hj6j 7 күн бұрын

Woooow I’m in tears hearing her write a letter to her future daughter. WOW! What a POWERFUL & life changing thing to do. I’m going to write a letter to my future daughter. Wow💜💜💜

@deelutz8460 29 күн бұрын

Her letter at the end... Amazing ❤

@emilylewis8754 28 күн бұрын

this was ducking beautiful. thank you so much.

@allisonwernick1728 17 күн бұрын

what a beautiful and sweet soul this girl is

@evyraudenbush2675 Ай бұрын

Didn’t expect to cry today 😭❤️

@elisazouza 28 күн бұрын

this is actually beautiful had me crying

@Ki-KisWorld Ай бұрын

People will debate about this question for forever

@lydiacoffey2003 27 күн бұрын

Then talking about Virginia Street made me so emotional ❤

@Mosekidi_n Ай бұрын

this was so beautiful🥺🥺

@Karra__with_a_K 18 күн бұрын

I think it is so beautiful these gentleman were able to have such a mature conversation.💚💐

@30__ Ай бұрын

It’s interesting how everyone’s type looks like siblings.

@HeavenlyJLove 17 күн бұрын

this was so beautiful, my heart.

@iaminfinitymartinez 27 күн бұрын

these men are brilliant alyssa is so lucky.

@CraftingWithTopaz 28 күн бұрын

I remember meeting them in Cali in 2018, and they were such kind people.

@trixield 29 күн бұрын

i’ve been following Alyssa and Trey since Twitter when they went viral, and I love how well they communicate and express themselves, i’m glad they’re all mature enough to have these conversations. And that letter was so beautiful🥹🖤