Can You Repair A Marriage After An Affair?

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Can you repair a marriage after an affair? At Marriage Helper, we believe so.
Infidelity is a common issue among married couples in this day and age.
Through the internet and social platforms, people are more accessible than ever before. This level of temptation can place a wedge between you and your spouse, creating mistrust, insecurity, and guilt on both ends. The last thing you want for your marriage is to leave your spouse, but you feel hurt from their actions and have no if you can even come to forgive. If your spouse had an affair and you don't know what to do next, watch this video to learn more about what potentially caused the affair was how to solve your marriage issues.
Have you ever questioned what drove your spouse to have an affair? What was going on in their minds, and why would they do something like that?
In this video, we cover:
-Common reasons why your spouse is pulling away from you
-Standing for your morals and values
-Accountability
-Ways to repair your marriage after an affair
-Ways to rebuild trust in a damaged marriage
At Marriage Helper, we have experienced and helped thousands of couples in crisis after their spouse had an affair. Although we know it's never okay to cheat on your spouse, there is a reason for everything, and understanding what brought your spouse to that point is the first step to healing, strengthening trust, and building back your marriage after an affair.
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@MarriageHelper 2 жыл бұрын

Has infidelity affected your marriage? Are you choosing to stand for your marriage? We'd love to hear from you in the comments. ❤️

@Mham1969 2 жыл бұрын

I’ve found out about the situation a person can do everything in one’s power but can you convince your mind?I’ve found that more difficult than one can imagine

@quintillajones5060 2 жыл бұрын

Yes, infidelity has affected my marriage. Yes, I am choosing to stand for my marriage.

@rachelyates6138 2 жыл бұрын

Yes, husband cheated. No, I have no idea what I'm going to do. I don't think I can stand next to, or fight for, a cheater.

@Mham1969 2 жыл бұрын

When the spouse does not admit to wrong doing,Shows no remorse you will not find forgiveness,You will not build trust there for I don’t believe that the marriage will last

@MoparMikeMM 2 жыл бұрын

My wife has borderline personality disorder and unfortunately it causes people to flip their thoughts and feelings, often hypersexuality is another symptom of it. So yes she's had multiple affairs, and yes I still stand for our marriage. I just want her to want to fix things.

@jeanne5354 2 жыл бұрын

Greater opportunity especially social media, internet, both work, there’s less respect for the sanctity of marriage it’s very sad.

@buffuniballer Жыл бұрын

The question isn't CAN it be repaired. The question is SHOULD it be repaired. If someone cannot tell you she is unhappy, and she secretly goes out and has an affair, do you really want to be with someone who is unwilling or unable to be honest. If she is not committed to being open and honest, then she's not worth the effort. The person having the affair has to own it and be 100% open and honest. If she's not willing to do this, then why would you want to repair the relationship?

@Diana-kt5gc 2 жыл бұрын

This was helpful. I have been doing this for a while and yet these videos always help me feel hopeful and positive.

@chasselkyteroyo6935 2 жыл бұрын

I 'm on the verge of giving up , its hard because we have children . It's hard to fight when he does't want it anymore

@TomikaKelly 11 ай бұрын

Why are you fighting to keep a cheater in your life?

@ajalahupfront 2 жыл бұрын

Yeah infidelity has affected my marriage. I'm not sure I want to work on the marriage to be honest. Like Kimberly said, the affair is a symptom of deeper issues in the marriage.. We both cheated

@iamflay3776 2 жыл бұрын

How are you coping

@ajalahupfront 2 жыл бұрын

@@iamflay3776 I'm fine. I guess

@iamflay3776 2 жыл бұрын

@@ajalahupfront Did y’all let go

@nkirksey0114 2 жыл бұрын

How are you doing? Did you end up staying together?

@ajalahupfront 2 жыл бұрын

@@nkirksey0114 hey there. Yes. We stayed together and we are working things out. I realize that I prefer to work things out since he was willing to as well. Marriage can be stressful.

@donna62016 2 жыл бұрын

YES! A thousand times, YES! Even if it happens more than once. Read the Book of Hosea in the Bible. I know several couples that have been in the shoes of Hosea and Gomer, and they turned their lives over to Christ and are thriving. God tells a husband to take his wife back.

@sudeshgaur6059 2 жыл бұрын

Maybe a henpecked husband, yes !

@donna62016 2 жыл бұрын

@@sudeshgaur6059 No, a man with Godly integrity... a man that loves his wife the way God instructs, like Christ loves the church. God always forgives and takes us back when we repent.

@TomikaKelly 11 ай бұрын

@donnasmith6978 Infidelity is an act of hatred. A man that loves his wife won't cheat on her.

@TomikaKelly 11 ай бұрын

Sis, you sound like a doormat...😬

@donna62016 11 ай бұрын

@@TomikaKelly Have you listened to Dr. Joe and Mary Beam? Their testimony. Have you read the Book of Hosea? Infidelity isn't an act of hatred toward one's spouse. It's more about the issues within oneself (lack of self-esteem, etc.). Can you imagine the healing that would take place within them if they were shown forgiveness, unconditional love, mercy, and grace??? Can you imagine how a repentant sinner feels upon receiving Christ's love, mercy, and forgiveness? In marriage we are to grow in Christ's image and reflect His image to our spouse. We are going to have to go through some tough trials to grow in His image. A trial will either harden our heart, or mold us in the image of Christ; however, it's our choice as to how we will let it shape us. A trial will either grow you in love or harden your heart in hatred and bitterness. I choose love, mercy, grace, and forgiveness.

@Mham1969 2 жыл бұрын

Don’t know if a person could keep it together after an affair

@Mham1969 2 жыл бұрын

@Rebecca Saviour say what?who’s in jail

@AverageAufa 3 ай бұрын

when the person who cheated actually opens up and admits it, then shows remorse VERSUS the partner caught them cheating… is so different

@1010aure Жыл бұрын

It can if he is totally transparent and really shows a change. I am going thru this right now . My husband has apologized 1000 times telling me how much he loves me, has made some changes, but still wants his privacy he gave me his pho e password he has changed it since that he has a pay pal account which I asked to see the statements. He claims he doesn't know how to get it them. Is really hard to believe words when actions do not match

@TomikaKelly 11 ай бұрын

Why would you still be married to someone that you have to check their PayPal statements?

@jennifermayer2708 2 жыл бұрын

It depends on how remorseful the cheater is and how severe the details of the affair is.

@TomikaKelly 11 ай бұрын

Remorse and details don't matter. Infidelity is an act of hatred towards a partner. You cannot be married to someone who hates you

@improvisedsurvival5967 2 жыл бұрын

This is silly affairs are betrayal. That is the ultimate disrespect. I’m not saying hold a grudge forever but it’s over for sure.

@kimberlybarry8357 Жыл бұрын

Yeah

@ElimEx1 9 ай бұрын

23:50: Which is more important, your marriage or your job? Our MC asked that question and I said my job unfortunately. As a sole income household, in the middle of a pandemic in a field where it would be hard to get something with as much money (which we badly needed), I chose my job while I started looking for a new one. I got laid off at some point and was able to find another job within a couple months only because I had started the process. But sometimes, it's easier said than done. Some people would say not to have an affair in the first place (which I agree with) but it's as much a mental health issue as depression is. When an entire family depends on a sole income provider, there needs to be some give and take.

@NavyDave219 Жыл бұрын

Any level of infidelity is a betrayal that is unforgivable. Infidelity is a choice.

@lucylucy2171 Жыл бұрын

Any sin is forgivable. Doesn't mean you have to stay, but forgiveness is good. Especially for the one that's been hurt

@homeoffavours Жыл бұрын

And a mean people or someone who does not provide for his family and is able is worse than an infidel

@SafetyTrainer 11 ай бұрын

Rebuilt is a better way of looking at it I think. It will not be what it was.

@TomikaKelly 11 ай бұрын

It's best to rebuild a marriage with a fresh new partner

@debashishmandalpsysk544 Жыл бұрын

After the affairs husband should divorce wife. It's a true fact and relationship should be finished.

@MarriageHelper Жыл бұрын

Hey Debashish Mandal psysk, thank you for your comment. However, we disagree. We believe there is ALWAYS hope for a marriage no matter what. If you have had a bad experience in the past that has caused you to feel this way, we understand wholeheartedly. But there is always hope. If you change your mind and decide you would like to seek help for your marriage, we would love to talk to you and will always remain a safe place for you. You can call us directly at 1 866 903 0990 if you'd like to chat. Blessings,

@stevemines6870 2 жыл бұрын

My sister and brother inlaw attended a weekend loved it .

@jed7976 2 жыл бұрын

Can it be fixed even if I'm the only one wants to save our marriage? My husband is still not over his mistress and he got her pregnant. 😭

@eileenfuentes6975 2 жыл бұрын

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@gracelady6874 2 жыл бұрын

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@gracelady6874 2 жыл бұрын

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@gracelady6874 2 жыл бұрын

✝15104600269⏯⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ I can't believe am with my love again

@charlieroseline8692 2 жыл бұрын

Dont worry I know of some one who can help you Mr favour helped me manifested my ex husband back to me within 48 hours he can also help you out too..........

@stevemines6870 2 жыл бұрын

Pulls sound a lot like selfishness to me why stay in a relationship like that even if you still love them wont it. Happen again (trying to understand)

@WhiteAngelLovesEarth 2 жыл бұрын

Next...!

@dennispalmer6007 11 ай бұрын

Can you save a marriage during an emotional affair

@TomikaKelly 11 ай бұрын

Why would you even want to?

@xozoey1744 2 жыл бұрын

Its easier when both parties cheated

@christodekoker9447 2 жыл бұрын

How?

@brendancreaven9452 Жыл бұрын

might as well become swingers

@miekesiauw3805 2 жыл бұрын

Affair dgn siapa..mahluk Dari kubur..pikirr..ITU mahluk Dari kubur gentayangan bukan.pikir!

@danharms4237 6 ай бұрын

@brendancreaven9452 Жыл бұрын

No, a marriage cannot be repaired after an affair.

@lucylucy2171 Жыл бұрын

Yes, it can. It's happened many times before

@homeoffavours Жыл бұрын

@@lucylucy2171 i am in a mess , an affair has cost me my everything coz my spouse decided to publicize it everywhere even before he got the truth, become very abusive and litterally mal treated me to apoint i felt enough is enough

@lucylucy2171 Жыл бұрын

@@homeoffavours when there is abuse, then I wouldn't want anyone to stay in such a terrible state. I'm sorry that has happened to you. I do pray yoy find strength and peace

@homeoffavours Жыл бұрын

@@lucylucy2171 I have healed but remember his intention was to taint my name everywhere so that have nobody to talk to or listen me

@lucylucy2171 Жыл бұрын

@@homeoffavours well, that is definitely malice. Knowing you're the innocent one and the person isn't taking responsibility for their actions is cruel